Mohammad Ali Hazratji – Zahra & Umair Nikah 82215

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Shala we are here for a very special occasion

of our beloved daughter and sister Zahara with Ahmed

and we

pray, hopes that Allah subhanaw taala was less this marriage with

his acceptance and put love and mercy between them

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we praise and

do homage to Allah subhanaw taala as DEVAR as is befitting his

divine glory and majesty.

And

we send peace and blessings on his messenger Rasulullah sallallahu

alayhi wa sallam

And we bear witness that there is no one worthy of worship

and we bear witness that Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is his

slave servant and messenger.

Allah subhanaw taala

has

reminded us in these Iots, that the foundation of everything that

is good and worthwhile is Taqwa of Allah subhanaw taala which is

consciousness of Allah subhanaw taala in all times, and this is

also a foundational principle of all marriages, that we should

always be aware that Allah subhanaw taala is watching.

So I first remind you, all of you, and especially our groom and

bride,

that you are answerable to Allah subhanaw taala. And remember that

today and remember that always, that is why we start with the IRS

of Taqwa.

Allah subhanaw. Taala is the one who has created you. He is the one

who has brought you together, didn't know each other. He is the

one who is supposed to love and acceptance and Rama between you

and your hearts. And he is the one who has intended for you to

establish the core of human society which is the family.

So the institution of the marriage is that foundational relationship

on which all society is built.

And Allah subhanaw taala is the one who going forward will put

fulfillment in your marriage, love, peace, compassion, and

serenity, and comfort and hope.

So first, I will remind you of the hook of Allah subhanaw taala his

rights upon you.

And that, as you know, is to worship Allah subhanaw taala as he

deserves to be worshipped, and that is the purpose of your

creation.

And as you all know, besides saying that we believe in Him, we

confirm that by our actions, which is the five Salawat on their times

every day, that giving up the cat, the fasting of Ramadan, and the

performance of hajj.

And we should remember to always be mindful of him, to always

remember him and be conscious of him. If you remember him, he will

remember you in the times of your difficulty.

And you'll be grateful to him at all times, and he will increase

you in His blessings to you.

So first and foremost, you must safeguard and for

protect the rights of Allah subhanaw taala and if you do that

He will protect you with safeguard his deen and you will always find

him when you need him in front of you. If you ask us only from him,

if you seek help seek only his help. And remember as the Prophet

salallahu alayhi salam teaches us that if all of the creation all of

mankind and Jean guys got together and wanted to harm you, they

cannot harm you except that which Allah has permitted. And if they

all wanted to benefit you, they cannot benefit you except that

which Allah subhanaw taala has permitted and allowed and that the

pens of Destiny have been lifted and the scrolls have dried.

Remember that nothing in this Deen of Islam is irrational, even if

you don't understand the wisdom of Allah subhanaw taala behind any of

his commandments, so humble yourself before Allah subhanaw

taala and His Messenger whatever the command, you say we listen and

we

learn together your deen practice, you can help each other to

practice what you learn and compete with each other in the

obedience of others

and help each other in the obedience of Allah subhanaw taala

and his messenger with wisdom with kindness with gentleness and

compassion.

Now the Nuka This wedding is a form of ABA in our brain. It's a

form of IBA it is a sunnah because the prophets of the largest Salam

said and Nico sunnah Nica is my son and whoever turns away from

this lace I mean, he is not from me.

Okay? And in some circumstances and Nica is actually wider.

But we'll take it as this and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has

called it as half of his deen the completion of the deen

and just remember that your spouse is a Nam is a blessing from Allah

subhanaw taala. So you should show gratitude to him by treating his

blessing with special in a special way. And you show thankfulness to

Allah subhanaw taala as Ali Radi Allahu Anhu said in explaining the

Iraq Bernard benefit, dunya Hassan, he said, Robin had an

affair dunya Huseynov the good of this world is the righteous

spouse, righteous wife, there's nothing better than this. And

there are many Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam to

say that in this dunya everything of this dunya the best of that is

to have a righteous a good virtuous spouse.

Now, Allah subhanaw taala from day one created everything in pairs.

And Allah is unique that he is with entrepreneur, he is by

himself. Everything else is in pairs, including the human beings.

So the first pair, this is how our society started last month, Allah

has made us in need of companionship, we need to live

together, human beings cannot live in isolation, we need each other.

And the need of that society, the first unit of that is the family

and the family is the husband and wife, not the parents and and the

children. Because the foundational relationship is the man and the

woman and all of the relationship whether it's your children,

whether it's the parents come as a branch of that relationship. So

Allah subhanaw taala, created other Melissa and from him Hawa.

And from them everyone else, every relationship first they were

husband and wife, then there were parents, then they were father in

law and mother in law, then they were grandfathers that is the

first relationship. And for all of us who live long enough, that is

the last relationship. Why is that? Because when your children

grow up and move away who is left in the house? No one hasn't been

in the old why that's the last and how strong is this relationship

that this is the main relationship that continues in Jannah Allah

subhanaw taala says if you and your spouse are righteous, even in

Jannah you will be together. So this is the importance of this

relationship.

So we must remember that this

just this subset when Yardi are your Krishna Hara, yeah, me or

Viola.

Know Allah subhanaw taala has is the source of all happiness and

all happiness, all peace also can tranquility contentment that Allah

has put in this dunya is through the integrity of this

relationship. If this relationship does not work, no matter what you

have, you will not be happy.

And you cannot live in isolation. So you look in the western world

Old. When you have all material wealth and old technology, there

is a lot of unhappiness. And that's why the suicide rates are

so high, especially if you look in Europe and if you ask them, What

is the reason, loneliness, because that relationship doesn't exist

between the husband and wife. The divorce rates are so high, the

lack of trust and all of that is a means that they cannot find peace

and tranquility. And that's why Allah subhanaw taala says, will

mean it and Haleakala coming, full circle massage and meta schooner,

Ilya, that it is from his eye Earth, this is a sign from Allah

subhanaw taala that he has created for you from within you from you

your spouse's and then he says so that you may live in tranquility

sukoon if you don't have sukoon, you don't have any. There cannot

be any happiness, what Jollibee in a coma, and he has put between you

love what Rama and mercy in Nephi Dalek and Ayatollah Khomeini at

the factory and this is for people who can reflect that this is a

sign of Allah has run through this you recognize Allah subhanaw taala

This is his one of his.

And therefore Allah subhanaw taala has defined this relationship in

hundreds of Iots in the

if you look for Salah, how to do Salah there are a few Iots all of

hygiene and a few Hyatts in one place in the circuit two three is

here and there. There are hundreds of IRS that deal with this

relationship of the fundamental foundation of family. They're

scattered in Surah, Baqarah and Nyssa is full of them ullmark Ada

so that the frame Surah no terracotta it's all over there are

hundreds of iPads to tell us the importance of this almost it is as

important as Salah.

So we must remember that.

And Allah smart Allah has beautifully described this

relationship as to what it should be when he says when none of us

should look over and don't leave us alone, that your wives is

telling the men are like your garments like your clothes.

And then he doesn't stop there, he said and you are their clothes.

And there are long explanations of justice I have what is this

relationship Allah subhanaw taala has given of clones, because one

it tells you that between you and your garment, there is no distance

we should be close to each other. Number two, what did the clothes

do they make you look more beautiful than each one should

make the spouse look more beautiful. Number two, they are

recognized by that you are recognized by applause number

three, they give you comfort, they give you protection, and they're

molded with you whichever way you turn your clothes moving that and

there are many many others that tell us that this is the relation

even I will tell you, your clothes smell of you. That's how you know

you can pick up something this smells like my wife this smells

like my daughter. This is how close this relationship is. This

is how Allah subhanaw taala has described. The capsule summary of

this whole relationship is two things in order. Mutombo tarball a

chance to look that you your words should be sweet and gentle, and

your treatment should be the best for each other.

The prophets of Allah Augustine themselves meaning of which is the

most complete amount of of yours is the ones who has the best of

luck and he said the best of you is the one who is best to his

spouse to his wife and a husband and he says I am the best to my

wife.

And then in his fair, he took this so important that on his on the

hospital whether he SallAllahu sallam said especially adding this

he said your wives treat them well. They are like your prisoners

they have been given in your control because that's the kind of

society it was, treat them well.

And on the other hand to tell the wives what is the right turn and

the rank of the husband. He said if in my something to the effect

if in my Sharia

such that was permitted to anyone it would be the size of the of the

wife to the husband is also to tell what is the root but what is

the rank of the husband?

Now after all of this, what does he do? Now for us the examples all

the prophets we have examples of the wives but nobody's details as

we have a possible

okay.

He's married to Aisha Viola on she was a young girl. She says other

young girls used to come and play

Doors with me and Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam used to come.

And they used to run away. Because they were scared. And he used to

go and gather find them and say, Come and play with him come and

play with.

He used to help. She didn't know how to cook, he used to help teach

her how to cook, till she learn, okay. And he would help with all

of his wives and household chores, if something needed to be cleaned,

he would some mess need to be picked up, he would pick it up, he

would mend his own clothes. So he was not demanding from his wives

that this is your job, telling us how to be gentle encouragement.

And he gave us an example. He said that the wives woman was made out

of the curved rib of the man. And if you said, if you try and

straighten it, it will break. What does it mean?

It means that Allah subhanaw taala has created the women in a

different way, and the man in a different a man thinks logically,

this is how it should be used as his brains and all. A woman

generally thinks emotionally,

emotion. So each has to be respectful of the other, that the

man say, well, this doesn't make sense, he should be sensitive,

that my wife thinks differently, she thinks with emotion and other

things. So we should remember that.

And Allah subhanaw taala has stressed the duties and

responsibilities of the spouse. One thing to remember that with

every duty and responsibility, if there is a violation, there will

be an effect of that on the relationship, even if we don't

know how, because each one of that is divinely inspired and

obligated. If Allah says this is your right, and this is your duty,

you follow it otherwise it will have an effect on your

relationship.

Now Allah subhanaw taala has made one of the main obligation of the

husband is to provide for the wife to take care of her needs to give

her a place to live to provide for her food for her clothes in a

decent living according to the standards that she has. Now,

today, the teaching is that the women should have their own work,

they should be independent.

But if she wants she may work, but what is the beauty and wisdom of

this, that when the husband takes care of the wife, the wife

appreciates it and it brings that I looked at attachment that my

wife, my husband is sacrificing to do this, it brings you closer as

opposed to what I have, I can do my own thing you do your own. This

is what we teach when we tell people to independent.

And the wife, the main thing is, she should be obedient to her

husband. Of course, if the husband is asking her to do something

wrong, that is different. But listening to what the husband says

after you get married takes precedence over what your mother

and father say.

Okay, that is the rank of the husband. And she should guard her

chastity and her household and beautify herself for her husband

and not invite or entertain anybody in her home that the

husband would not be happy with.

Allah subhanaw taala messenger has given a very easy formula for a

woman to enter gender.

He says a woman who guards her chastity protects herself, who

prays five times a day and fulfills the right of her husband

can enter Jannah through any of its fight or any of it, it gets

easy for them. Five salons represents the Akufo of Allah

subhanaw taala and those two things, and this is what it should

be. So remember, to treat each other with kindness and love and

gentleness and protect the sanctity of your family and your

home and be good examples for each.

If you focus on your obligations, your duties and not focus on your

rights, you will do very well.

If you focus on your responsibility, what I need to do,

as opposed to what my husband or wife should do for me, then you

will be

just remember that so this is a fundamental formula of happiness.

Allah subhanaw taala has mentioned this for addressing the husbands

the men and he says

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and live with your with your wives in the best manner. Because if you

see something that you dislike in because nobody's perfect, you're

not going to get

100% score on any spouse nobody will Allah has not made it like

that. Okay 100% Perfection is an unrealistic goal even to pass any

examine the dunya you're not expected in India, Pakistan 33%

Your pass, okay?

Even on the Day of Judgment 100% is not required. Allah subhanaw

taala says

the whoever scale is heavier

51% Pass. So don't expect 100% perfection because you will be

disappointed. So Allah subhanaw taala says if you see a fault,

don't let that one fault make you forget and wipe out all of our

virtues. Because if Allah has put one fault, maybe Allah will put a

lot of faith in her for you. You don't know. So keep that in mind.

And just remember that the our journey of of married life is a

road in like, it's like road 391 full of potholes and it's bumpy.

Your life is not going to be smooth. It's going to be bumpy.

This is the tests that come and there will always be

fights and disagreements. And why does this happen? It's from the

best

Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam goes and visits Fatima out of the

hola Ana and finds in distress Fatima where is it?

Oh, he's not here. He didn't spend the night yeah, what happened? We

had a fight.

Where is the reason someone find where Elisa is sleeping in the

masjid.

So rasool Allah Allah Allah Allah Islam, the father of the bride

himself, no pride, I am Rasul Allah. He goes, he finds

Illuminati Alana sleeping is government it come down dusk was

on himself. He pokes him like this with this foot, say yeah, about

Torah. This is the title, how he got his poor father of dusk

because it was just and this was a loving title for stand up.

And then he doesn't ask him anything. So come with me. He

doesn't say did you have a fight with Fatima?

When he goes to her home?

Then he doesn't ask, what is your complaint? What is your this is

how we go between people. And that makes things worse. Guess what he

does? After a while he lies down. And he says Ollie, you can lie

down next to me on his rights. And it's a Fatima you can lie down on

my left side. When he takes the hand of it and puts it on his

belly like this. He takes the fat handle Fatima puts it on top, puts

his hand on top and said Ali say that I have forget forgiven and we

have made peace Fatima. So at least there's a Fatima who said

the same thing. That's it philosophy comes out. He's looking

very happy people in the monastery You look so happy said I just made

peace between

means this will happen now forget about that go to his own

household. What are the disagreements? What did he say?

Yes, there were. You said your Ayesha

I know when you are unhappy with me.

How do you know that? So when you are unhappy with me, you always

swear by Rob of Abraham by the Lord of Abraham. And when you are

happy with me, you say by the love of Muhammad, so I know you're

happy with.

So these things will happen one time Rasulullah sallallahu sallam

was upset with all of his wife for one month, he stayed alone. Yet he

did not go and scream and yell and fight. Okay.

This is there will be those things and we have to understand that. We

cannot use harsh words. The most important thing the biggest advice

that you can take from all of today is be very careful of the

tongue.

Just remember that hadith of Monrovia Radi Allahu allah

sallallahu Sallam held on, he said, You want to know what is

behind everything you're holding, and everything is your tongue,

what you say because the words that you say, when you're angry

when you're upset, then that injury never goes.

So be very careful, especially when you're upset in any of the

words you say. And be gentle with those words.

And the solution for that Allah subhanaw taala tells the Prophet

salallahu Alaihe, Salam.

Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam could take a lot of difficulties

from people, you know, a lot of hardship and harshness, and Allah

subhanaw taala. Even when he was stoned, you said you know he used

to worry you said

well, now Allah Anika de PUE saga saga

Beymer taco and ALLAH SubhanA and says, and we know that what

constricts your heart and his wisdom

Most expanded of hearts that what hurts you the most is what they

say the words.

And then Allah smart Allah gives the formula if you get hurt like

that, what does he say, for Sofia hum that have become a communist

surgeon in that go and Dhikr of Allah subhanaw taala and do his

his Ibadah and worship, that if something like that should happen,

bear it if somebody's saying wrong, we indicative Allah

subhanaw taala. And if you yourself, have said something

wrong, ask Allah Subhana Allah and ask your spouse for forgiveness.

And like I said, show gratitude and thankfulness to your spouses,

for little acts of kindness like we thank everybody outside when

somebody brings you a glass of water, thank you, but when our

wives and bring them we don't say anything. So respond to them.

Because this winds the hardship and spend time with each other.

It's very, very important, especially in a country like this,

that you spend time with each other. So that and pay attention

to each other because our wives always complain that you don't pay

attention to that you may learn you may know what the person likes

what they dislike.

And then we try and do the things that please our spouse and stay

away from what we don't. And we conduct our affair with Shura,

there is no dictatorship we should, we should do matura and

consult each other, and share with each other.

And

remember the station of your parents help each other and honor

each other's parents like your own. And don't make it a means of

differences that my father and my mother said this and your father

and your mother said that did this should never enter it into our

marriages.

And when last one Allah blesses you with children, find them good

names, pick good names for them, teach them the Book of Allah

subhanaw taala be good examples for them and lead by example.

And remember, to bring only that which is halal into your homes

from your earnings and from your provision and feed and eat only of

that which is halal. And remember, whatever Allah Samantha has

written for you will always come to you your risk is written and

you don't have to go out of your way

to achieve it, whether it's halal, halal or haram. And the

wealthiest, richest one is the one who is content with what Allah

subhanaw taala has written for them and be generous and help all

good causes. Choose your friends and companions carefully. Because

wherever you spend time with that's who you are identified with

and you become like that. And always work together to the fat to

the rope of Allah subhanaw taala to his book, the Quran and the

Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and you will never go

astray. And our deen is wonderful moderation. So just be easy, don't

be too harsh. And whenever anything was permissible ALLAH

messenger sallallahu alayhi salam always chose the easier of the

two. So do that. So we ask Allah subhanaw taala to fill your life

with joy and grant you guidance throughout and make you steadfast

and

give you good health and peace and true happiness and prosperity in

grant us pleasure. May you always live together in tranquility and

love and respect and regard for each other? May he bring forth

some new generations of righteous children that enrich this world

with the goodness inshallah now we will conduct the Nica as you know

the Nikka is two parts there is an offering

and there is an acceptance.

So,

our bride today has appointed as her representative as her Joaquin,

her father, brother sister thought

who will make the offer to Ahmed

and

the matter has been agreed upon and we have our two witnesses

here.

So

inshallah

we'll make the offer that you essentially said that I have to

start Chaudhry acting as they were killed as my as the representative

of my daughters or children offer my daughter in Nikka to you aware

in accordance with the book of Allah subhanaw taala and following

the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam with the

man agreed upon between us.

hold each other's hands

for my daughter's daughter, Toby

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according to the book

So now someone

will

agree to

accept

you can say hi I say hi Where are you gonna accept your daughter is

in Nica

according to

the book of Allah

the Sunnah.

Last one Atala bless the two of them

last one until I joined them all goodness and may Allah subhanaw

taala bless your spouse for you and make you the best and

happiness. Well it's for you each other and for your families and

make this means a fair for the Muslim community

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