Mohammad Ali Hazratji – Tafsir Surah Luqman P2

Mohammad Ali Hazratji
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long after my Samiha alumina Lydic Rick,

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we praise Allah subhanaw taala and we send the best of Salah and

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Salam on our beloved noble Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam, his family and his companions were asked Allah

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subhanaw taala to increase us in useful knowledge,

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knowledge that makes us closer to him, give us the tofi to act on

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that knowledge,

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and to open our hearts to receive the true meanings of his Calam his

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words

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allostery subhanaw taala

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make what is said today, a means of success for us and our children

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in this dunya and hereafter.

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sha Allah we are going to continue Surah Lokman which we started last

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week. And we have now come to iron number 12 And we are going to

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insha Allah. Allah subhanaw taala enables us study from 12 to 19,

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which is the advice of Lokmanya lay salaam to his son.

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We briefly mentioned that Laquan at a salon was not a messenger or

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a prophet. But he was a man who lost $1 certified as being Hakim

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having Heckman wisdom, and we'll talk about that briefly. And that

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he was of African descent probably in the area of Sudan, what was

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called Nubia. He was Nubian between Ethiopia and Egypt in that

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area. And he was a slave, but he was given wisdom. So Allah

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subhanaw taala has named a whole chapter whole surah in the Quran

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after him and has permanently recorded his conversation with his

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son like we have with our children in the Quran.

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So inshallah we'll start with iron number 12.

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Allah subhanaw taala says, well, Tina look man and Hekmatyar on

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your school Illa where my year school for in nama yesh cruel

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enough See, woman kufra for in Aloha Ghanaian Hamid. First this

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one. Allah subhanaw taala bestowed very special blessing on Lokmanya

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salaam, called Hickman

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says rough translation of this, and indeed We bestowed wisdom on

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local man

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and commanded him be grateful to Allah. For he who is grateful, is

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only grateful for his own benefit. As for the one who is ungrateful,

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then know that Allah is self sufficient, ever praised.

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So firstly, we have to know that wisdom, if if we are wise in some

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way, it is not something that we should be proud about because it's

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not something that we earned or learn this is bestowed by Allah

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subhanaw taala it's a blessing, like everything else like

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intelligence and inner beauty and outer everything is from Allah

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subhanaw taala.

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So therefore, Allah subhanaw taala commands, the one who he calls

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Hakeem

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to be grateful to be in Chicago to Allah smarter this gratitude Shaka

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concept is going to come over and over again we are an Omar chakra,

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we should always be in chakra of Allah subhanaw taala.

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And as we said before last time that the word hikmah has been used

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almost 20 different times in different ways in Iran, to convey

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wisdom, knowledge, reasoning, forbearance help patients subber

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the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has been

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called hokhmah and so on, so forth. So in brief, hikma on is

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two

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No knowledge and the intellect to understand and apply that

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knowledge correctly by acting in a manner that leads to the greatest

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benefit for all concern.

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So it maximizes good goodness in every situation for everyone,

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while acting within the commands of Allah subhanaw taala there is

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no wisdom that violates the commands of Allah subhanaw taala.

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And a person who is wise takes into consideration all the

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consequences of an action, what the pros are, what the cons of

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what's going to happen. And simply speaking hikma is to know, what to

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say.

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When to say, where to say, how much to say, and how to say it.

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Okay, so what is it?

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What to say, when to say it, were in what situation to say it, how

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much to say

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and how to say it. That is wisdom.

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And

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the ultimate technique is to know the creator and the creation, and

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to give each one its right in the proper way, in the correct

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proportion, putting everything in its proper place and the peak of

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hokhmah is to know and feel Allah subhanaw taala and be grateful to

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him.

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Therefore, in brief, Alhamdulillah is the height of wisdom.

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And one of the wisest people mentioned in the Quran is our

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father Ibrahim Alayhi. Salam.

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And what does Allah subhanaw taala say about Ibrahim Alayhi? Salaam

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Shakira Lin an AMI

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each the Bahu wha hoo illustrata Mustafi Allah subhanaw taala says

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Ibrahim shocking and was utterly grateful for Allah's blessings. So

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Allah chose him and guided him to the right path.

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And hokhmah indeed is wisdom is indeed a great blessing because

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Allah subhanaw taala says you till Hickmott amania chef will mean you

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shall Hekmatyar forgot who to hire and cathedra Rama yet Kuru Illa,

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who don't feel bad, which means Allah guide gives Hekmati who he

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wants as he wants, and whoever has been given hokhmah has been indeed

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granted an abundance of good. He's been blessed with a great

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privilege. But none realize this except people who have

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understanding.

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So where do we seek wisdom and Heckman there is an abundance of

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hikma in our treasure

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trove of.

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of the Quran, and the Sunnah, and the words, of our sages are wise

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people such as look Monalisa.

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Look, monnalisa loves teaching us how to go about life in a

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meaningful way that is beloved to Allah subhanaw taala by giving

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these instructions to his son.

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So Allah subhanaw taala granted him the gift of wisdom and

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understanding based on the revealed scriptures that were

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available to him at that time.

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Because you will listen to the teaching of Salah and Tauheed. And

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you know, suffering, now en el mancha Hammermill maruf all of

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that. So, in light of His wisdom of worshipping Allah subhanaw

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taala in every aspect of his life, he gives this advice

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and it is manifested in his chakra to Allah subhanaw taala he

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recognizes who Allah subhanaw taala is he acknowledges the SIFAT

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the attributes of Allah and His favors and shows gratitude by

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using these favors in the right way. One of his favorites was

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wisdom. So he uses his wisdom to convey a message to his children

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and to all of mankind.

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So, imagine, as we said, this is a man who was a slave in the dunya

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and yet, he is showing his gratitude to Allah subhanaw taala

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even in that state, because he realizes what we say frequently,

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in nearly lie knowledge Roger, we belong to Allah so He knows, even

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though Allah has given control of my life and the dunya in some

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man's hand, either

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Long to Allah He is my master.

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And indeed to Him, we will return. So the first lesson for us is

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gratitude. Sugar. That's the first lesson that we all have to learn.

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We cannot be complainers don't complain about things, of

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anything. 95 degrees today it will be 100 degrees tomorrow.

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hamdulillah Allah is telling us it's only 100 degrees. Do you know

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what the temperature in Hellfires see Alhamdulillah Allah has given

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us the recipe to stay away from that cheat and humbling.

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And it will also end rain will come one day. So we are in a state

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of gratitude. Allah subhanaw taala says whoever shows gratitude

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does it for their own benefit because our gratitude does not

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help Allah subhanaw taala in any way, Allah is in no need of a bed

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of His servants.

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If we all worshipped Him and OBEY them and showed gratitude, it's

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not going to make Allah subhanaw taala any greater, and if all of

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mankind became careful, ungrateful, it does not diminish

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Allah subhanaw taala and anyway, so Allah subhanaw taala saying, he

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is a runny, runny means one who is free of all needs, three of all

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things, all people, he is above any needs, he is independent and

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only Allah is Kalani

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and his al Hamid he is the one who is praised in and by himself. In

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other words, if nobody praises him, he is still a Hamid, that's

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part of his does not change. Okay? So Allah smart Allah saying that,

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if you praise me and you show gratitude to me, it's for your

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benefit, because you will get the reward of you.

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So, again, reminder that we all need to be always grateful for

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what we have, for the things we have the opportunities, we have

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the relationships, we have the conditions that come our way,

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material, spiritual, metaphysical. And also we need to be grateful

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for what Allah has protected us from we don't know what kinds of

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you know, just yesterday, two people were crossing the road and

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is tempted, and they were killed by a car. How much protection how

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much Allah protects us that we don't know we've been protected

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from some of us have experienced hola hola. De where there was

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nothing. Allah's intervention came and you experienced it, you

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identified your union. So we should always be thankful. And how

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do we show gratitude to Allah? How do we show thankfulness by

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acknowledging his favorites in everything that we possess,

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everything that we achieve, every talent that we have, every

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success, we celebrate every meaningful relationship that we

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are in, whether it's with our parents, with our children, with

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our friends, with our spouses, or siblings. Everything is from

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Allah, we show gratitude by thanking him by being just in all

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of these relationships by using everything that Allah gives us in

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a way that he intended for us to use it and that which pleases him.

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And Allah subhanaw taala tells us that if we are grateful, what will

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happen, he says,

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well, then rob Buccola Bukola in Shackleton, z the NACA

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Indeed, Allah has announced, he has proclaimed that if you are

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grateful, you showed thankfulness to Allah he will increase you in

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his blessings. And the opposite was the Inca farto. In Adobe Lucia

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did. And if you are ungrateful, you deny his favor. Just remember

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that Allah's punishment is indeed severe.

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Now, part of our gratitude to Allah subhanaw taala is to show

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gratitude to people, such as our hosts today, such as the people

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who are attending and so on, so forth. Since the people are the

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means that Allah uses to deliver his blessings to us, like our

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parents, like our friends, like our teachers, okay. So the way

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this is structured, it is not exclusive. gratitude to Allah

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means thank Allah and whatever else, whoever else needs to be

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thanked,

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and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam teaches us he says La Yeshe

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Corolla mon la Yash Coronas that the one who does not thank people

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has not truly thanked Allah

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because I'm not creates all of these means.

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Now the advice of Lokmanya Allah salaam to his son, in his

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gratitude and part of the gratitude of Lokmanya Allah Salam

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is to convey to his son

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as his inheritance, this wisdom of what you should he needs to do.

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And so this advice is timeless and this

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Something that we all need to study over and over again, my

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session is a bit long, but it's still very brief compared to what

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this deserves. And just imagine this advice of a slave to his son

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is read by millions of people every single day in the world, and

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will continue to be read till the Day of Judgment.

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Look at the honor that Allah subhanaw taala, the real master

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bestowed on Islam.

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It's just seven brief verses. Now, this is the nature of the wisdom,

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there's the nature of the Quran, in a few words.

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There are oceans of of, you know, to learn of information, not just

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information of, of of true knowledge, and it has been

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immortalized in this wise advice of Laquan and SLR.

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There are 10 major components of this advice and from each of

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those, there are far too many branches that you can take. And it

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becomes much more elaborate if you go into that. And just remember

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that this advice was given,

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you know, few 1000 years ago, and it is still applicable, and can be

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followed today, and to the day of judgment for any parent, wanting

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to raise a child in the light of Islam. And if all the parents

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implemented love Monalisa lambs advice, then they would be leaving

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behind a beautiful legacy in their children.

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And this is the best gift that a parent can give their child

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and there is no need to worry about the fate of this child in

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the hereafter. Because through this advice, they've been shown

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the path to paradise.

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Now, this is general advice and Allah smart Allah could have just

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said that Lachman gave this advice. But he specifies without

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naming him that he gave this advice to his son.

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What does that teach us?

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importance, the parental responsibility

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that there is a responsibility the children have rights, and there is

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a responsibility of the parents to teach the children

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and this is to remind us of the duties as parents, so that we may

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not be negligent in this great responsibility. And how many of us

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are guilty of this negligence?

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Because we choose frequently, myself included, probably the

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worst

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instinct to focus on providing material things, toys, play,

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entertainment, this is what we spend. My child should have this

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does he have the latest phone does he have this? Where does he What

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sport is playing where I'm taking him what he is, but we ignore a

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lot of this now last month Allah forgive us and guide us

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to the right way. I are number 13.

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Here is where the the words of look man starts Allah Subhana

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Allah says what is what is the color look man are living here who

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are you who yeah buena de la to Shrek Billa in a Shipka Lavon

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Manabi which means and remember when local man when if the Think

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of what that means? Look man said to his son while he was advising.

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Okay.

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Yeah, are you though to give wild?

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And he addressed him by saying, Yeah, Brunei, which is a term of

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endearment meaning Oh, my dear son, the first piece of advice.

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Join not in worship other than Allah.

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Because Verily,

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in joining

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with joining others in worship with Allah is a great overlap.

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So Allah subhanaw taala here, by starting it in this way, is,

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again, drawing a verbal picture of us now imagine a father and a son,

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a man and a child of certain age, perhaps walking together, perhaps

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walking on the beach, perhaps walking somewhere or just sitting

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together privately. Now imagine this bonding parents son and child

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spending time with him.

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When that child, he says is when that child in means has become old

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enough to understand

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Hello. Look monoliths Salam gives him an age appropriate advice,

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okay? Something that he would understand.

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So he's educating him in his counseling him is advising him

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by his own words and his own actions. Lokmanya Allah Salam is

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setting an example.

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So he addresses his son as we said, Yeah, Brunei. Yeah. Brene is

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a very special term and in, in Arabic of extreme endearment, he

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doesn't call him. Yeah, Hashem. Yeah, Muhammad, whatever his name

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was, he doesn't say, Yeah, I mean, you're my son. Yeah, booni is a

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special term of endearment, which literally means my dear tender

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little son, the one who is has to, has to be taken care of who needs

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my protective instincts.

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And this is to make him feel even closer to him to to stress, that

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familial bond between the father and the child and the closeness to

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him. And by this address, he gains the attention of that child Oh, my

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father, you know, it's like he puts his arms around me and he's

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telling me this, showing his love and concern that what he is going

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to tell them is going to be for my benefit.

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And

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Allah subhanaw taala, and the Quran has recorded father and son

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conversations elsewhere. For example, conversation between Jaco

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Bella Salaam and his son's specific conversation between

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Jacoba SNM, and use of Alesana. And what does Jacobo SLM address

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useable SLR? He says Carla, yeah, when a lot of sort of, oh, my

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beloved Son, same Yagoona. Don't tell the story to your brothers.

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But what you saw in your dream.

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Similarly, we have the story of Ibrahim alayhis salam, the words

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and a smile I listed I'm a father and son conversation. What is the

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conversation? Carla? Yeah, Brene in the field Manami Hoka fund

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thermadata Oh, my beloved Son, I saw in my dream that I'm

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sacrificing you imagine first telling him Yagoona and telling

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him this? And then what does he say?

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Funds will matter. So tell me what you think.

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He's not imposing it. But just so I would just want you to say that

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these conversations that Allah has recorded, just imagine what is

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being recorded of our conversations that we have had

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with our children

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what tones we have used, what words we have used what we have

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stressed

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now last month, Allah forgive us.

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So again, this one also implies that Look, man, Alyssa lamb

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chooses the right time, the right moment, the right opportunity when

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he has his attention to deliver the advice. And not at a time

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where it might be ignored or rejected as a child. And we deal

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with that sometimes you have a child, you want to tell them

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something and he is busy with something else. He is not in the

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mood to listen. In fact, you might ignore your he might even say no.

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So what is Heckman to present that advice at that time? Postpone it

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for a better opportune moment.

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Because it will be recorded. Do you want the angels to record for

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your son that he says, No, I'm not going to do this. I don't care. Do

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you want that recorded for your child?

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Therefore, have Ramadan, the children when you see they're not

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in that moment where they would be very receptive to something like

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this.

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Don't say that a square in that.

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Then as we said, He directs his son to that which is most

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important, he says, do not like to shrink build, don't commit ship

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with Allah meaning never associate anything or anyone with ALLAH

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subhanaw taala. In his in his that, in his essence, in his

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attributes is too far in his actions. Allah is alone.

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So he is the first lesson is a lesson of dark shade of Who is

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Allah? And who is to be worshipped alone, to hate first and foremost,

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and that's a lesson for us. That's the most important thing that we

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teach the most foundational belief because without this bedrock,

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there is no Dean, there is no o'clock there is nothing. There is

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no success. So the first thing that Lokmanya Islam wants his son

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to know is to know Allah above everything else.

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And shake for our youngsters and for reminding ourselves is

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It includes the belief that there are other beings that have part in

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divinity. Like some other faiths believe that there are partners

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with Allah smart Allah. And ship is the ultimate peak of injustice

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of volume.

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Because it by Shirke it negates the fifth amount of Islam, of

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Islam of Muslims.

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And Allah subhanaw taala calls it ship Lavon mon are them indeed,

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it's the ultimate of a volume one means injustice of them, the worst

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of all acts of oppression, the greatest injustice, that Allah is

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the One who created you, who sustains the entire universe and

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everything within it.

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This person does wrong by denying or putting partners with Allah

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subhanaw taala not only that, he exposes himself or herself to the

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punishment of Allah smila His anger.

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And if you look,

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sugar, gratitude and Schilke have the same three alphabets just the

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order changes, we change the order from sugar, you can go into shake,

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they are actually opposite of each other. Okay, this is the beauty of

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this language. So

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these days, we have to be careful we consider Sheikh as Oh, I don't

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worship idols. I don't do this. I don't have a gold golden calf that

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I'm worshiping. But there are other forms of shirk. Which is

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called the hidden ship with sheer coffee or surreal nothing severe

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about it, but it's hidden. What this shit what is that? And this

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is what Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam said in

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a hadith he said, I'm not concerned from my own mother, they

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will be worshipping idols, they'll be doing major shake, I'm

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concerned about the huffy shake, what is this? So, they asked him,

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you know, what is this, he said, he gave an example, he said, a

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person who is doing a Salah is worshiping Allah, then he becomes

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aware that there is someone else who comes in there and the quality

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of his Salah improves,

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is done starts reciting beautifully better who Chu and his

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sujood improves, his Roku improves and it looks like Whoa, what a

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pious person and the salah quality changed by the present he said

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this coefficient because in the act of EBA it changed because of

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the presence of someone other than Allah because Allah was always in

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front of him. So, he gave us this example.

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So,

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we have to remember that Allah subhanaw taala is tidy up he is

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pure and he accepts only that which is pure, any little shake in

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it, it becomes a sin instead of a good deed. So when this command

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comes lot to shake, biller don't commit shirk, it includes all

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forms of hidden ship, the failure even to acknowledge in our hearts

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or by our words, that everything the doer, the enabler is of

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everything is Allah. So

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sometimes we start appreciating ourselves or achievement, look at

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the three pointer I threw from half court right simple thing i

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What is the statistical probability of a coin and if it

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went

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okay, I landed this job, I got this and I was you know, somewhere

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Come Come loud in my class and whatever it is. Similarly, having

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concerns about provision,

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I lost my job, where am I going to eat? That's a form of hidden

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schicke because you have just denied that Rezac is Allah, you

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thought your job?

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Well, my husband lost his job. Now what's going to happen? I think

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it's gonna happen. Risk will come from some other means. Maybe

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you'll get another job, maybe you will not get a job you'll still

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eat. So, we have to know that there are other forms of shirk.

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And Allah subhanaw taala calls this low volume on or the Amazon

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means injustice, and the prophets of Allah the salon said one in

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this dunya will lead to the Lumads which means dark multiple darkness

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is in the hereafter.

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Next to IRS is 14 and 15. We will take together or was sinolinking

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Santa be valley the hamlet Mulatu Mahoba and allawah pneumophila

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salehoo Fiama in initially when they when they Illa yell mahseer

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first, the 15th Daya. Were in

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Jahad DACA to Shika be Melissa Lockerby el phala to their former

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Warsaw Haibo Houma fit dunya ma rufa what sabe, lemon and Alba LA

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to my lair, Mirage Yo, come. So Nabil can be makan to Tama loon

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last one Allah says and we have commanded people to honor their

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parents.

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Listen carefully, don't fall asleep on me now.

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We have commanded people to honor their parents, then he says, their

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mothers bore them through weakness and hardship upon hardship, and

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the winning takes two years. So be grateful to me, Allah and your

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parents.

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Allah has joined the burdens with him.

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And then he says, to me is your final return that's like a

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warning. That means you will be asked about how you treated your

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parents. And the second idea

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and we'll break it down a little bit. But if they strive your, your

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parents and pressure you to associate with me in other words,

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to commit shirk, what you have no knowledge of, then do not obey

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them.

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But still listen to this still keep that company in this world

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with courtesy and honor,

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and but follow the way of those who turn to Me in devotion, then

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to me, you will all return and then I will inform you of what you

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used to do.

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So Allah subhanaw taala himself here, he supplements the advice of

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Lokmanya Allah Salam, by highlighting the status of the

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parents, the father is giving this advice. What is a father in

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general terms, okay?

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So, because somebody might say, well, this is all the advice to

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the child, this is a child's rights. What about parental

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rights? What are our rights? Allah smart Allah Himself puts the

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parental rights here by mentioning in the same idea, the parental

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rights of honoring them, respecting them, and being

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grateful to your parents as Allah subhanaw taala says, and by

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joining them mix it in the most important aspect of Islam which is

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worshiping Allah alone. Then he highlights the extreme importance

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in Islam of kindness, honor, respect and gratitude to the

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parents in the same verse.

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Last time we mentioned this, briefly, one of our great

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commentators say then Abdullah, Agni, Masada, the Allah one

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from whom all Hanafi madhhab comes said that Allah has paired certain

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things in the Quran. As we said last time, Salah and Zakka are

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paired they come together

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or to allow to Rasul obey Allah obey the messenger, and he said,

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worshiping Allah and being good to your parents have been paired

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because it comes in more than one place.

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And we can add, Allah Swanton has paired Iman with Mo Salah also.

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Now,

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there are fathers here who might say, I'm a parent, why is it that

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Allah subhanaw taala only mentions the mothers.

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He doesn't mention the father here.

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Allah subhanaw taala mentions the sacrifices and difficulties of the

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mother only because they go through difficulties and suffering

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in carrying the child delivering the child and nursing the child

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during the most vulnerable state of helplessness. for two more

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years,

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and this greater contribution, the mother is doing much more.

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Okay, the father has nothing to do with first nine months nothing to

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do with it after that you might even help a little bit in changing

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diapers, but that's it. Okay, so this greater contribution of the

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mother occurs at a time and a stage where our cognition

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and our memory have not fully developed.

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So we don't remember all of the sacrifices that the mother did.

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And therefore many of us don't recognize and acknowledge these

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favors. However, the father's favors and contributions are

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easier to recognize and remember, because they come when we have

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developed some memory and some recognition my father gave me this

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my father bought me a bicycle, my father took me fishing, you know,

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so on so forth, and whatever it is, therefore, it is easier to

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remember those. Allah subhanaw taala in this powerful way reminds

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us all

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the mothers favours lest we forget.

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And that's why if you remember, in the Hadith of the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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And when somebody asked him who has the greatest right on you, he

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said, Oh, mocha mocha three times.

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Three times the mother. Okay. So

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as they say, in today's lingo, mothers get top billing, for good

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reason. Right.

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And of course, there are a hadith to the effect that paradise lies

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below, under the feet of your mothers. In other words, if you

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use the way you serve them, you can achieve paradise through them.

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Just remember,

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especially in the moment, when you're upset with your parents,

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they're not letting me do what I want, they won't get me what I

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want and so on so forth.

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That if it was not for our parents, their sacrifices, their

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forbearance, we would not have been born in this world.

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Because Allah subhanaw taala chose them to be the means of our coming

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into this dunya. Allah smart Allah chose our parents for us. It is

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through our parents, that we are fed, that we are protected, that

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we are loved, that we are nurtured, that we are educated

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that we are clothed, and most importantly, connected to Allah

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subhanaw taala, from the time of infancy till we become mature, and

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therefore Allah demands he commands, gratitude and respect

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for the parents from the children.

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Of course, we all know that last month, Allah is the Creator, the

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sole, original reason for existence. So our first allegiance

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is to him alone. Hence Allah has swapped Allah says, for school,

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Lee, thank me, when they validate you, and your parents, your two

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parents in the same I thank me and thank your parents. So last month,

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Allah has mentioned and defended parental rights by himself.

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And then he reminds us that we will return to Him and Allah will

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ask us about our treatment of our parents. And how does the honoring

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of the parents start just at a basic level is how we address how

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we respond to our parents. And that includes body language. The

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parent says something

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that's what I say, What are you doing? I didn't say anything. Yes,

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you said a lot. You said a lot by your expression. Allah subhanaw

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taala says elsewhere in the Quran that even if your parents become

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unreasonable, reasonable in their old age, dementia, don't even say

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what

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if you can say that, off means just impatience, and everything

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beyond that is also forbidden. So Allah subhanaw taala tells us that

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we have to be careful with our tongues or body language,

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especially at a moment when we are upset.

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Soon on muscle OLALIA Salam said, riddle rugby fee riddle while it

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was Sakata rugby visa invalid, which means the pleasure of the

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Lord is in the pleasure of the parents. And the displeasure of

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the Lord isn't the displeasure of the parents every time you

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displease your parents, you displeased Allah. Every time you

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please your parents, you please Allah.

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How easy is that? Please your parents, you please Allah.

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So

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just doing what comes naturally being good to your parents will

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increase Allah Swaddlers pleasure and blessing upon you.

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And

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the best way to show gratitude for your parents have refused to walk

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the path of Islam.

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Like my parents gave me left me with this. Because most of us

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here, all of us here are born into Islam. It's not like you're born

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elsewhere. And Allah guided us.

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Now, there are some 50 rulings that are derived from this is very

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interesting.

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I'm going to skip them right now. If we have time. In the end.

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You remind me and we will go over it. The next is some parents. Some

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children might say what, and this is a very real today. What if my

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parents are not good? They're evil. They're into drugs, they're

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abusive. They drink all of that. Why should they be honored? So

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that's what Allah has mentioned in that second I was in Tjahaja,

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Allah and to Sharika be melesa can be healing for laughter time Allah

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subhanaw taala says even if they're going to the extent of

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taking you out of the out of my worship into shirk, said don't do

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that. But what you

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doo doo

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was Sahiba who Moffitt dunya Ma, Allah subhanaw taala says, do not

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accept what is wrong from them in matters that lead to disobedience

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of Allah subhanaw taala because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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salam teaches you said law that in Luffy Massiah didn't highlight

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that there is no obedience to the creation that involves

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disobedience of the 100 of Allah subhanaw taala so there is no such

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thing. But beyond that was Sahiba Houma fifth dunya ma rofa in this

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dunya Allah subhanaw taala says Sahaj be give them companionship

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of goodness, be there for them, treat them even if they're like

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that, even if they're abusive, be kind to them. Sahiba Samba means

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not calling once a year, Mother's Day or Father's Day Sahaba means

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frequently visiting them being with them. So Haibo Huma, both of

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them fit dunya as long as they are alive, because in the market, if

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they are like that you will be separated.

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Okay, but Allah, Samantha, Allah says, in this dunya you be good to

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them.

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Now, if you remember, in the early stages, this is a makansutra, as

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we said, that some of the companions of Rasulullah Salallahu

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Alaihe, Salam faced strong opposition from their parents.

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They were tired, they were imprisoned, they were beaten, they

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were tortured, leave Islam.

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At that stage, Allah subhanaw taala told them, be good to you,

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even with that.

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And this is also illustrated in the kindness and virtue and

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respect in the story of Ibrahim alayhis salam and his father aza.

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Ibrahim alayhi salam is inviting him to the to the right thing and

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others saying that

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get out of here I'm going to stone you know, he says salam to Eamon

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lives

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because he is being expelled. So even in that

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we show them respect but Allah subhanaw taala says,

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For the bear Sevilla Mon Valley but in terms of following don't

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follow that wrong way they're taking you obey those who work

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Seville of Allah's, from the bountiful so walk the path of

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those who have chosen to obey Allah. And what does this teach us

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the importance of good companionship good friends we

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choose we should choose those who are walking the path of Allah

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subhanaw taala otherwise we will easily be led astray.

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Number 16 Then he says you're gonna you're in interview with

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Carl Hubbardton min Harden, photography Socrates office Somoto

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Falon. Yet tv Hello in Milan Luffy from hobby. Oh, my dear son.

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Eve even if there is a deed which is the weight weight of a mustard

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seed, rather than a yawn, that little thing

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that is in a bowl in a rock in a bowl, the Sahara large rock in a

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boulder anywhere in the universe on the earth.

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Yep, TB, Allah will bring it out.

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Bring it out means in the dunya he may choose to expose it what you

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did or what you say. But certainly in the Afra it will be brought out

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for questioning on his up.

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What is it saying? It is saying that nothing is hidden from Allah

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subhanaw taala. Even if it is that small, this is the example that's

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given. So look, man and Islam is building on the aid of Allah

00:43:48 --> 00:43:52

subhanaw taala by teaching the attributes, the sufferings of

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Allah subhanaw taala to make him understand that there is the

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concept of accountability, you're accountable for what you say and

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you do.

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And that every action and word has consequences something is there is

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a result to that. Good, especially if the action is not good.

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So

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he's saying that even if it's a matter that seems insignificant to

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you, it's small. Now think about it.

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If there is a tiny little speck and it's in a rock, how can you

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and I bring it out of there and find it.

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Reflect on this example.

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Suppose there's a huge rock the size of just this room and there

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is this grain.

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Something as small as that. How can you bring it out? You split it

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into it may not be seen split, you have to pulverize and make it into

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a powder powder that is smaller than that grain then only to see

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how difficult it is for us yet for

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Law is all known, because Allah knows whether we accept it or not,

00:45:05 --> 00:45:09

every action, every word, every relationship, every thought,

00:45:10 --> 00:45:15

the past, what was the present, what is the future what will be,

00:45:16 --> 00:45:20

and the future, that could have been, but will never be,

00:45:21 --> 00:45:24

all of that is not possible, nothing is hidden, this is what

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you and I have done, nothing is hidden from Allah subhanaw taala.

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So, we have to reflect on this, and he says, anywhere in the

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universe, if it was ALLAH knows it, telling his son in telling us

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what is the power and precision of Allah subhanaw taala that he will

00:45:41 --> 00:45:44

make it known in this dunya and in the Accra it will come out so,

00:45:44 --> 00:45:47

what should we do? What do we learn from this,

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that we should be mindful of Allah subhanaw taala at all times,

00:45:52 --> 00:45:57

what is called a state of sun, which means that you see Allah

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subhanaw taala in front of you, and since you can see him he sees

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you. It's in the terms of, of the sub woofer of this gear, it is

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called maraca because

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Allah subhanaw taala is a recipe but one of his name is Pete means

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ever watchful. So maraca is in the process of dusky of knifes is that

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it's critical that we always remain in an inner state of

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awareness of ourselves, not just about actions, what am I doing?

00:46:34 --> 00:46:39

What I'm saying, but what kind of thoughts are in my heart,

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monitoring my heart? What thoughts enter, what is entertained, what

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is rejected? And then what emanates of actions and words as

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the result of what is going on the conversations inside my heart.

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Allah is watching, I need to be watchful.

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So you're gonna have the cardinal Gilani, Talalay said, the meaning

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of witches stand at the gate of your heart with the sort of

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Tawheed

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don't let anything enter your heart

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that Allah would not be pleased sort of Tawhid excises demolishes

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anything that from entering your heart.

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So there is nothing we can hide. There is no place to hide. There

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is no place to go except Allah subhanaw taala all secrets will be

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divulged on the Day of Judgment. So since Allah is watching us, we

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have to be constantly it should give us the strength to be in a

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maraca of ourselves, we frequently watching what others are doing, we

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should be watching inwards. What am I doing what am I thinking all

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of those things? Okay, what is giving me pleasure? Is it okay

00:47:59 --> 00:48:04

with Allah? What is distasteful for me? Is it okay with Allah or

00:48:04 --> 00:48:05

vice versa?

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And yet Allah is a Latif which means subtle and delicate and

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refined and kind because Allah even though he is watching us do

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things he does not immediately take us to account he doesn't make

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it known that he knows it's almost like he's as if he didn't see it.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:31

Giving us giants to fix ourselves to repent to root out and but he

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is a hobby

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all informed he knows he doesn't immediately respond to our deeds

00:48:39 --> 00:48:39

he gives us time

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so this way, look more or less Salaam is teaching the mighty and

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power of Allah subhanaw taala his knowledge of the past present and

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future and that he has absolute power

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then he says to him Yeah, well no yet our team is solid what more

00:48:58 --> 00:49:03

Bill Maher oufit 100 monka was Allama sabak In a dialect Amina as

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we move again yeah, when are you Oh my dear son. Okay mister now

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established so now finally after all of this comes this.

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If you don't know Allah, how can you establish Salah

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if you don't know what your parents are teaching and being

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grateful, how can you listen to okay do salah. The moment the

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parent goes if it's on the force of a stick, Salah is gone. The

00:49:29 --> 00:49:33

moment a person moves out to to the doorman, the university the

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assaults five times Allah is gone. Okay because it was the power of

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the parent. So, first thing no Allah then he says, After that

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faith is is that Eman in the educator of Allah has been

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embedded in the heart part of the child.

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He says

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do four things. He says establish Salah enjoying good care

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To forbid evil, and be patient.

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So four things are in this pile. So let's go over those because

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these are fundamental actions without which you really cannot be

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a Muslim. Okay? And you cannot serve on the Spirit as the Khalifa

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of Allah has we were created. Okay. So each of this reflects a

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character trait character our relationship with with Allah

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Swanton and with people and this is therefore proof of our fate

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within society and our responsibility in society and sort

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of a modus operandi how we should be

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operating in the social interactions with people.

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So the first of these as we say, you have Rene Hakim Asana, what is

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the meaning of establishing salah Swatara monoliths and I'm gonna

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last one else everywhere else doesn't say do sir establishing

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salah what is the difference

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establishing salah is to have constancy and consistency in Salah

00:51:09 --> 00:51:13

so that our life revolves around the five Salawat rather than

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fitting in Salawa whenever I have a time whenever I don't have and

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not not the other way around. So establishing salon the masjid

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that's a duty establishing salah in our home is a duty doing a

00:51:27 --> 00:51:32

Salah in a Gemma has a duty having her sure concentration devotion

00:51:32 --> 00:51:39

dedication is part of establishing focusing quality Salah is part of

00:51:39 --> 00:51:44

establishing salah it's not just that we haphazardly fulfill that

00:51:44 --> 00:51:48

Salah done okay like it was a burden to be taken off now you

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know we're good

00:51:50 --> 00:51:54

we frequently say you know namaste Cindy but let's just finish with

00:51:54 --> 00:51:59

Salah then we can sit and relax as opposed to Rasulullah sallallahu

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this used to say a rational behavior below or below give us

00:52:04 --> 00:52:10

rest and relaxation how we have means by causing calling a ban. So

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we may find rest in Salah

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not outside of selling

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so

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every profit made for establishing salah in their progeny.

00:52:27 --> 00:52:30

There are Bijur Nemo famous salata, women do Reethi Brian

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Melissa Ramsay, while lawmakers those who established a lion from

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my progeny,

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Father Are children not just one generation generation after

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generation

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Rasulillah some sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was ordered Allah

00:52:45 --> 00:52:49

subhanaw taala says to him, what a more Allah cabbies Salatu was

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thoroughly

00:52:51 --> 00:52:56

enjoying Salah Rasul Allah salAllahu Salam saying, Hey look,

00:52:56 --> 00:53:01

with your family, establish Salah on your family and be patient and

00:53:01 --> 00:53:03

offering them yourself.

00:53:05 --> 00:53:08

So as parents all parents should teach

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their children not just how to pray, but why we pray and it's

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important. The word Salah has the same route as Silla Salah means

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not your Salah Silla means to connect.

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Okay? By Salah we connect with Allah. Okay, so just remember that

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Salah should be a connection we are in a marriage, in ascension to

00:53:40 --> 00:53:44

the Presence of Allah subhanaw taala and the salah is the most

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

important proof of our faith of our Islam.

00:53:49 --> 00:53:52

The Prophet sallallahu sallam said to the effect that between us and

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coveris Allah

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because that is how you identify who is a Muslim.

00:54:04 --> 00:54:08

If Salah is established in a person's life, it gives them

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awareness of Allah subhanaw taala remembrance of Allah subhanaw

00:54:11 --> 00:54:15

taala five times a day gives them awareness of what is right and

00:54:15 --> 00:54:19

wrong. What awareness of what is justice, what is injustice. So

00:54:19 --> 00:54:22

standing in front of Allah subhanaw taala in Salah gives us

00:54:22 --> 00:54:27

strength to stand up in front of others, to enjoin good and forbid

00:54:27 --> 00:54:32

evil, which is what comes next. So Allah subhanaw taala Lokmanya

00:54:32 --> 00:54:38

Allah salaams next part of his his advisors what motivated maruf 100

00:54:38 --> 00:54:44

Mancha in joining good and forbidding evil if you call people

00:54:44 --> 00:54:48

towards goodness first thing is we have to show them the right

00:54:48 --> 00:54:51

alternatives write things to do before we said don't do this.

00:54:51 --> 00:54:55

Don't do this. Don't do this. Okay. Many times we teach our

00:54:55 --> 00:54:58

children only prohibition. Don't touch this. Don't do this. Don't

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

do this. You can do this. You can do

00:55:00 --> 00:55:04

What can I do? So before you go to that everywhere in the Quran,

00:55:04 --> 00:55:08

honorable maruf showing the right things to do the good things to do

00:55:08 --> 00:55:13

is mentioned first, then comes prohibitions, stop them. So if you

00:55:13 --> 00:55:15

see some, it doesn't mean that if you see something wrong being

00:55:15 --> 00:55:19

done, you shouldn't stop it if you can, with your hand or with your

00:55:19 --> 00:55:23

tongue, or at least in your heart as we are taught. So Allah smart

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Allah tells us that this is a responsibility on every believer.

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It's the responsibility of the rulers, it's the responsibility of

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the, the the, the embody the scholars, common people, men and

00:55:39 --> 00:55:41

women to act according to their ability.

00:55:42 --> 00:55:46

Now, when you do that, frequently, you are going to meet with

00:55:47 --> 00:55:51

difficulty and opposition, and sometimes abuse and people so who

00:55:51 --> 00:55:56

are you? Who Do You Think You Are you telling me what to do? So

00:55:56 --> 00:56:01

Allah subhanaw taala says was, Allah Asaba if you if you face

00:56:01 --> 00:56:02

those

00:56:04 --> 00:56:08

difficulties and challenges, then have patience.

00:56:09 --> 00:56:13

Be patient, don't fight with them, endure patiently on Whatever

00:56:13 --> 00:56:18

befalls you. Okay. And he says, Then he praises he's in a Dalek, I

00:56:18 --> 00:56:22

mean as minimal and if you have that patience, when people are

00:56:22 --> 00:56:25

challenging you yet you're telling the right thing, then this is

00:56:25 --> 00:56:30

something that is a great resolve and something to aspire for. As

00:56:30 --> 00:56:36

mill move, to have patience and form resolve to continue. Don't

00:56:36 --> 00:56:39

give up no matter what befalls you. This is also an establishing

00:56:39 --> 00:56:40

salah

00:56:41 --> 00:56:45

in Salah if there's difficulty you still got to do it. The Sahaba

00:56:45 --> 00:56:49

prayed on the battlefields. The enemy was there, they had to have

00:56:49 --> 00:56:52

half of them stand with weapons while half of them prayed one

00:56:52 --> 00:56:55

rocker then they will they will stand up the second one with joy.

00:56:55 --> 00:57:01

How in the Seattle health when we are sick, we are praying when

00:57:01 --> 00:57:07

you're bedridden, we are praying was southern southern insurance.

00:57:07 --> 00:57:12

Some similarly when we are enjoying good and forbidding evil,

00:57:12 --> 00:57:16

human irritate people, that's your test is from Allah subhanaw taala

00:57:17 --> 00:57:20

of your resolve and it's a proof of your fate.

00:57:21 --> 00:57:25

And as we said in joining good comes first and then comes the

00:57:25 --> 00:57:26

forbidding of evil

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and this asthma no more Allah subhanaw taala says this was a

00:57:33 --> 00:57:38

character of the greatest of the Gambia and Russell he says what's

00:57:38 --> 00:57:43

their karma sobre kulula azmin Minar Rasul. So have patience like

00:57:43 --> 00:57:49

those full asthma, the five prophets, Nuala salami, Brian

00:57:49 --> 00:57:54

Melissa Musa, Salam usarla, salam, salam ala Rasulillah, salam, Ala

00:57:54 --> 00:57:58

lasma firm resolve no matter what happens. So this is their

00:57:58 --> 00:58:01

character, and they all established prayers and they all

00:58:01 --> 00:58:06

forbade evil, they all enjoy and good. So these these these four

00:58:06 --> 00:58:10

qualities which are in this ayah salah, honorable maruf Nyan,

00:58:10 --> 00:58:16

Mancha and sober are all the character traits of the greatest

00:58:16 --> 00:58:20

of Gambia. Okay Subhan Allah may Allah subhanaw taala give us some

00:58:20 --> 00:58:25

of that flavor of that at least. So Lokmanya lay Salam advises son

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to pray perfectly and to do all of these duties.

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And

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remembering Allah and reflecting on his greatness always helps us

00:58:35 --> 00:58:41

in being patient, and patience is the key to eternal paradise. No

00:58:41 --> 00:58:46

one has been given anything better than Saba and Sabra translates as

00:58:46 --> 00:58:51

patience, perseverance and Dorrance beyond other people in a

00:58:51 --> 00:58:55

hadith that's well known most of it when I lay Rasulullah

00:58:55 --> 00:58:59

sallallahu Alaihe Salam says, Well, money yet a sub bar u sub

00:58:59 --> 00:59:05

barrel long Wilma, Katya hudon Alta and Heron what Oh, salmon

00:59:05 --> 00:59:10

Mina sobre woman yet a sub bar whoever strides struggles to be

00:59:10 --> 00:59:15

patient, you sub better you subdir hola hola will give him patience

00:59:15 --> 00:59:16

you have to strive

00:59:18 --> 00:59:21

Well, my booty I had an end there is nobody's been given something

00:59:22 --> 00:59:28

that is fair and better. Then and more comprehensive. Other than sub

00:59:29 --> 00:59:34

sub. This is what the status of subsidies.

00:59:35 --> 00:59:38

So we stress two things today sugar and sour.

00:59:39 --> 00:59:44

And you know something sugar and silver are two sides, opposite

00:59:44 --> 00:59:45

sides of the same coin.

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And just imagine if you are facing a situation where you're called

00:59:52 --> 00:59:52

for sub.

00:59:54 --> 00:59:59

How can I have sub just flip the coin over towards Shakur? Think

01:00:00 --> 01:00:02

Of all of Allah's blessings.

01:00:04 --> 01:00:07

Then you will become Chaka and it will make you easier to have some

01:00:08 --> 01:00:09

same point

01:00:11 --> 01:00:17

that gratefulness that burst of gratitude will help your summer

01:00:18 --> 01:00:20

come to the last two is Allah subhanaw taala

01:00:21 --> 01:00:27

records from LA C'mon la salaam wala to sadlier HUD de Cali naszej

01:00:27 --> 01:00:31

Well Adam Schiff in fill out the Mara ha in Allah Allah your head

01:00:31 --> 01:00:33

Bakula Matalan Falco,

01:00:34 --> 01:00:39

and he says don't turn your cheek in arrogance and contempt means

01:00:39 --> 01:00:44

don't turn away from people. While Adam Schiff will are the model and

01:00:44 --> 01:00:47

don't stretch on the earth like you are something special.

01:00:48 --> 01:00:53

In Allah Allah you Hekmat Kula maputaland Allah indeed Allah does

01:00:53 --> 01:01:00

not love lie your handbook every McDowell one who is arrogant for

01:01:00 --> 01:01:02

hole filled with pride.

01:01:04 --> 01:01:04

So

01:01:05 --> 01:01:10

look, man, Allah salaam now comes to character traits. And that in

01:01:10 --> 01:01:16

that the first advice he gives us avoid arrogance, and be humble and

01:01:16 --> 01:01:22

modest. He chooses this because this one character trait has a lot

01:01:22 --> 01:01:27

of bad consequences that come out of it. Okay, so he singles out

01:01:27 --> 01:01:32

Kebudayaan arrogance, because the dangers of feeling arrogant or

01:01:32 --> 01:01:36

acting in a way is highlighted in the hadith of Rasulullah

01:01:36 --> 01:01:42

sallallahu Sallam when you said, lie ye dofollow Janita Montana fie

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Calbee Miss Kannada 10 Min keeper.

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There is no entry for a person into Janna no entry if he has a

01:01:53 --> 01:01:59

grain of kibble arrogancy there is no entry. This is so serious. So

01:01:59 --> 01:02:03

some of the companions said to him, Yara Surah loving they heard

01:02:03 --> 01:02:10

this, but what about a person in Rajala your headline your Hakuna

01:02:10 --> 01:02:14

Thurber who has an out word Nanda who somebody who likes to wear

01:02:14 --> 01:02:18

good clothes and good shoes. So what about that means now their

01:02:18 --> 01:02:19

concern?

01:02:20 --> 01:02:24

So Rasulullah sallallahu Listen, respond by saying in Allah Hi

01:02:24 --> 01:02:27

Jamila, can you help build Gemma? Oh no, it's beautiful and he loves

01:02:27 --> 01:02:33

beauty. This not Kibber He says I'll keep ru bottle on Hockey.

01:02:33 --> 01:02:39

Welcome to NAS. You want to know what arrogance is, is to ridicule

01:02:39 --> 01:02:44

and reject the truth, which is the debate can any other truth and to

01:02:44 --> 01:02:47

despise people that is what giver is not that you like a good ride

01:02:47 --> 01:02:51

and good clothes and you know all of that Allah has bestowed on you

01:02:51 --> 01:02:52

in moderation.

01:02:53 --> 01:02:56

Allah loves to see that his blessings on us.

01:02:57 --> 01:03:02

So this is a stern warning because Kibera prevents entry into

01:03:02 --> 01:03:06

paradise. So, it is no wonder that the wise Lachman al Islam

01:03:06 --> 01:03:11

emphasizes humility. And this should be reflected in all aspects

01:03:11 --> 01:03:15

of our life, even in our body language. So he says, Don't turn

01:03:15 --> 01:03:18

your cheek. He doesn't say on any set. Don't turn your cheek,

01:03:18 --> 01:03:22

frowning, turning away that I'm better looking down at people. You

01:03:22 --> 01:03:27

know that puffed up, chest. Don't allow an iota of arrogance to seep

01:03:27 --> 01:03:33

into your hearts. Why? Because we if we remember that all glory, all

01:03:33 --> 01:03:36

majesty all great all pride belongs to Allah subhanaw taala he

01:03:36 --> 01:03:41

is a little Bucha Kabir he is Al kabhi al Muhtar.

01:03:42 --> 01:03:46

So don't see glory and honor except that which Allah has

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bestowed on you, and for what he has bestowed on you, you should be

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humble.

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Because whatever hand of any gift that Allah has given you is a test

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from him. So don't act as if you are better than anyone else.

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humiliate the lado guides to paradise just as its opposite

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kibra leads to Jana.

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And again, humility that Dourado is humbleness is a product of

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gratitude because you've recognized you have when you show

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gratitude, you've recognized where credit is due so you don't take it

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on yourself that Oh, I did this. So that makes us humble. And we

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have examples of Kibera in shaitan.

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His lack of humility caused him to be not only expelled from paradise

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but condemned him and his followers to jahannam forever.

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And we have rasool Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam, the best of

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creation. If anybody had the right to be proud and arrogant, it would

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be Rasul Allah Allah and what is he the most humble? standing for

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hours at night in front of Allah subhanaw taala out of grand

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to do, Shakur to Allah subhanaw taala his feet are swelling up,

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he's sitting with the slaves and eating with them.

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Mubarak, he's entering as a conqueror in Makkah, after all of

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that with an army of 100,000. And what is his posture He's described

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as his head is down on the back of his camera like this. He's

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entering Makkah as the ruler imagine you know, Alexander the

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Great and Akbar and whoever else you want entering, you know, when

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they conquered here is a sort of Los Angeles entering Mecca, the

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conquest of the house of the Baitullah and his head is down,

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touching the back of his camel in humility.

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Some Allah Allah he

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will not come she fill out the Mara and don't walk with insolence

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through the land as a sign of arrogance. Mata Ha is to consider

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yourself more worthy that I am privileged I have a special

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privilege, no matter where I am on the road belongs to me, in going

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gathering, the best seat is mine. And I should be in the Senate.

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This is Mara. Remember what was the end of Chiron Chiron was the

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one who was known for his arrogance and his wealth and loss,

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Montana split the earth and in a sinkhole everything him and his

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wealth was absorbed. And so the Mannella Salam wanted to emphasize

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the importance of humility in all aspects. He said in your body

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language in the way you walk, because just remember that all

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people are equal in the sight of Allah subhanaw taala except the

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people who have faith and who have piety righteousness

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in Allah Allah you have Bakula Matalan for who indeed Allah does

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not love those who are arrogant and boastful. And when you when

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Allah doesn't love you that means you are cut off from his mercy and

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Islam.

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And Maha as we said is to walk as we say, you know, stretching is

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the word we use to just remember, you see the work of some of the

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leaders of the world of the free world and you see some of the

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works some of the past presidents some of the other dictators,

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Mokhtar

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morphol, comes from also from Al means your imagination you think

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you are someone great

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for whole as fucker the extreme fucker means one with extreme

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pride.

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Then the last I work CID V machine be moderate in your walking in

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your pace.

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What kind of footprints are we going to leave behind? There is a

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Native American proverb which tells us we will be known by the

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tracks we live.

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We will all live and people will remember you. What will they

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remember you? That's the most important thing.

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So no monoliths Salaam is advising his son, walk gently on this earth

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with care and be careful.

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Patient humility, that should be our default demeanor.

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And a believer is known by his humility, his gentleness and mercy

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in his behavior to every two animals to everyone else. And when

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it says,

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Be moderate and regulate your your steps, it also includes the Mufasa

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don't upset that you do not go to places that crossed the lines of

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Allah's boundaries. You don't accompany sinners and disobedient

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people because they will lead you that way. And there is a Hadith in

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which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said that the feet commit

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Zina adultery the feet How can fit commit Zina if they carry you to a

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place where Zina

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is facilitated?

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Whoa, whoa dot Min saltstick and lower your voice

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in Ankara, Swati la salt will hammer. The most detestable the

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ugliest of sounds is the sound of a donkey brain. This is what he

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says. So this is the final part of his advice. He says lower your

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voice. Don't be loud and harsh, he says.

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Because that makes you like a donkey.

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Shouting does not win hearts. It offends people. And it alienates

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people, even in a bar diner worship Rasulullah sallallahu

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sallam said, Don't raise your voice so so loud because you're

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not calling on one who is deaf.

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You're calling on one who knows? If you speak softly, he knows

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what's in your heart before it comes to your tongue and he knows

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you and before what is not coming your heart so

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Why are you raising your voice in moderation even in that

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and this is includes when it says lower your voice that there is a

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prohibition for bad words for sinful talk for excessive talk.

01:10:14 --> 01:10:18

Don't be like a jackass that donkey in every gathering, I'm the

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only one who has to be heard. I have my word, my word by word.

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So, guard your tongue because silence never hurt anyone. Look

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man Allah salons. One of his wisdom is he says, There is a

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special event that happened is a sum to heckmondwike Kowloon for a

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sum, some silence, his wisdom, but very few follow this. And another

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version, he says Assumpta Folkman is an order is a command but very

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few following.

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Because silence is gold as it says Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam

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is known to have spent long periods of silence, even in

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company because and he's taught us that the consequence of the

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tongue, more people will enter Jannah because of their tongue

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than anything else. And that includes riba which is backbiting

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now Mima getting tails and often making up stories wrong things.

01:11:18 --> 01:11:21

Even arguing if you're on the right, there's Hadith of the

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Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam about arguing is called Mara that

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if you argue with people because you are right, instead of person

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who does not argue but even when he is right, I will guarantee him

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him a place in paradise. Okay?

01:11:37 --> 01:11:42

So be careful with all your speeches, lower your voice,

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because you are patient, you watch your tone, you don't stomp around

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you don't lose it you don't argue. And as we know donkeys are

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culturally the signs of What stupidity which is the opposite of

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wisdom with we are seeking wisdom, not the opposite. And Allah

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Subhana Allah mentions the hammer the donkey elsewhere in surah.

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Juma you saying they are like a donkey carrying books scriptures.

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So the externals sign of lack of wisdom is to raise your voice it

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means you're like a donkey was carrying the knowledge but it has

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not penetrated his heart.

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So that's the end of that. And in a few minutes, let's summarize

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what Lokmanya Elisa Lam said.

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There is a critical sequence of advice, beginning with the most

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important lesson, belief in one God. He makes it clear that

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joining in worship with Allah subhanaw taala is the only

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unforgivable sin. Next he lays the foundation of faith, that Who is

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Allah, and what is accountability, and then reminds him of the

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essential parts of the behavior of Salah, what we must try and strive

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for and what we should shun such as pride and arrogance. And again,

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as we said before, he advises his son in daringly Yagoona. And given

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the magnitude and importance of the content that he wants, he

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chooses to address him with love, in an intimate conversation when

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they are alone, and that all of this advice may not have been

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given at one time. It's not like that he gave one lecture with all

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of this. This is what Allah swamp Allah has compiled for us, it may

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have been given over a period of time, depending on the maturity of

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the child. So at every stage, we do that, because this is an

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ongoing process. It's not a one and done thing. Okay, there's not

01:13:47 --> 01:13:52

AstraZeneca vaccine. So this teaches us as parents, the

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messages to be delivered

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is important, but how and when to deliver it is equally important,

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perhaps more critical.

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And then

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part of the nurturing of the child is this education. And part of

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that education is effective communication. How do we

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communicate and that communication is important for everything, with

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our spouses, with our friends, that communication is critical,

01:14:18 --> 01:14:23

beautiful communication leads to beautiful relationships. So

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to give, we cannot give what we don't have to give something to

01:14:29 --> 01:14:30

our children. We need to know.

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If I don't have the knowledge I can give.

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You can give what you don't have. So the mothers and fathers need to

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learn.

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And they have to practice what they learn because children hear

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with their eyes, what they see their parents doing.

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And here we have a remarkable father figure of Lachman and

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escena

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and Lokmanya salaam did not become Lokmanya

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Islam in one day, just remember love. Manjula, Salam was a child

01:15:04 --> 01:15:05

himself

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and somebody taught him and gradually he accumulated that and

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became By Allah's grace and give Laquan the Heckman Hekmati.

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So in these times in our current times in morals are twisted the

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Islamic foundations a question around is made to right and vice

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versa. So, people are searching for wisdom, and they may not be

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sages and Olia to guide our young children. Therefore, the Quran and

01:15:38 --> 01:15:42

the Sunnah and the power of these, his of having an honest

01:15:42 --> 01:15:47

conversation between parent and child becomes even more critically

01:15:47 --> 01:15:49

important. Where else are they going to learn, or they're going

01:15:49 --> 01:15:55

to learn from the internet. So my dear brothers and sisters spend

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quality time with your children. In the absence of any devices,

01:15:59 --> 01:16:02

computers, screens, one on one

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and look after their moral and spiritual needs and ensure that

01:16:07 --> 01:16:08

future in the dunya and they

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have Taqwa within yourself by example. And even if you die

01:16:15 --> 01:16:18

young, Allah will protect your children. The proof of that is in

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surah calf that Allah sends catarrhalis Salaam and one of the

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owner as Musa alayhis salaam, traveled all the way to a village

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to build a wall.

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They work and they are hungry and they're given no food. Why is the

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wall built? Because there is a treasure under that that belongs

01:16:37 --> 01:16:43

to two orphans, whose parents were people who are righteous, they are

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gone, Allah protected them. Not only protect he's sent to people

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Musa lesson to protect their treasure.

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So if you are righteous, Allah will protect your treasure, which

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is your children.

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Be close to your children. And always look for teaching moments

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to advise the right time.

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Do not yell.

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Do not ridicule. Do not abuse do not punish. Do not pick on the

01:17:16 --> 01:17:21

mistakes of the children. Show them the right things to do gently

01:17:21 --> 01:17:25

as much as possible. Sometimes you may have to represent with wisdom.

01:17:25 --> 01:17:29

Teach them what is good first, what is a good righteous action,

01:17:29 --> 01:17:33

show them good alternatives rather than saying Don't, don't, don't

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don't, okay.

01:17:35 --> 01:17:39

And like Ibrahim alayhis, salam, and all Ambia make lots of the

01:17:39 --> 01:17:42

offer your children and your project, because ultimately it's

01:17:42 --> 01:17:47

only last pantalla who brings about the change in

01:17:48 --> 01:17:52

and again, look Manella Salam has taught us how to set priorities,

01:17:52 --> 01:17:56

what is to be taught first, when and in what order, starting with

01:17:56 --> 01:17:59

top aid, knowing Allah, then Salah and everything else comes after

01:17:59 --> 01:17:59

that.

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Teaching them the consequences of actions that Allah has always

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watchful, teaching them establishing salah in our lives

01:18:10 --> 01:18:15

and the lives of our children. The importance of family bonding and

01:18:15 --> 01:18:18

respect for our parents, we show respect for our parents, our

01:18:18 --> 01:18:21

children see that and they will show respectful if we show the

01:18:21 --> 01:18:24

opposite, and impatience and all of that our children will be

01:18:24 --> 01:18:29

treated the same way. So there is a difference between just knowing

01:18:29 --> 01:18:32

and applying it which make brings in hokhmah.

01:18:34 --> 01:18:37

And gratitude to Allah subhanaw taala and to all people,

01:18:37 --> 01:18:40

especially our parents, we have a duty to enjoin good and forbid

01:18:40 --> 01:18:43

evil. In our club, we should have

01:18:44 --> 01:18:49

gratitude, patience, perseverance all the times and humility,

01:18:49 --> 01:18:51

moderation guarding our tongue.

01:18:53 --> 01:18:57

And finally, we should appreciate the importance of helping our

01:18:57 --> 01:19:02

children to develop critical minds in their upbringing so that they

01:19:02 --> 01:19:07

can cultivate and strengthen Eman and obedience in them through

01:19:07 --> 01:19:09

their own personal convictions.

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Okay, do not try to forcefully drill into them.

01:19:16 --> 01:19:19

This is what it is. This is what you have to do absolute obedience,

01:19:19 --> 01:19:23

I'm the authority. This is what our tradition says. Explain to

01:19:23 --> 01:19:27

them teach them in the right way. If that question, let them

01:19:27 --> 01:19:31

question because it's through questioning, they will gain

01:19:31 --> 01:19:34

conviction because you want to convince them so that when you are

01:19:34 --> 01:19:38

not there they will follow the angels question Allah subhanaw

01:19:38 --> 01:19:38

taala

01:19:39 --> 01:19:43

yalla you're going to send the Khalifa on Earth Neil do this this

01:19:43 --> 01:19:43

this

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was Arelis Allah man's question Allah. So this city has been

01:19:50 --> 01:19:54

demolished. How will you bring it? Ibrahim alayhis salam say, Yo

01:19:54 --> 01:19:54

Allah.

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How do you bring questioning? Let the

01:20:00 --> 01:20:03

Question explain if you have the answer otherwise find people who

01:20:03 --> 01:20:05

might be able to give them the answer.

01:20:07 --> 01:20:08

So, Allah Salah

01:20:09 --> 01:20:14

stone will have the severely tell them this is my way or the oil of

01:20:14 --> 01:20:19

the I call towards Allah Subhan Allah basura tin with wisdom and

01:20:19 --> 01:20:24

foresight and explain things okay. Not just this is how it is.

01:20:26 --> 01:20:28

And this is especially for the youth because remember in the

01:20:28 --> 01:20:31

beginning of the surah what did we say? Allah subhanaw taala and the

01:20:31 --> 01:20:37

secondary he says But Meena nicely mine yesterday, well Hadith that

01:20:37 --> 01:20:43

mankind will purchase, or buy into all of that wrong messages and the

01:20:43 --> 01:20:47

entertainment industry because that's what the entertainment

01:20:47 --> 01:20:51

industry, the music industry, the movie industry, they everything is

01:20:51 --> 01:20:55

focused on taking the youth at that stage right.

01:20:57 --> 01:21:02

So, they are trying to grab your children Lokmanya Salaam is trying

01:21:02 --> 01:21:03

to save your children.

01:21:04 --> 01:21:04

So

01:21:05 --> 01:21:06

remember,

01:21:08 --> 01:21:12

that the youth need to be addressed by us by parents by

01:21:12 --> 01:21:16

example. Otherwise, there are plenty of scavengers ready to take

01:21:16 --> 01:21:16

them apart.

01:21:18 --> 01:21:22

Allah subhanaw taala make us worthy parents, make us worthy

01:21:22 --> 01:21:27

parents that Allah is pleased with who leave behind the legacy of

01:21:27 --> 01:21:31

good children. May Allah swaddler make us good children who are

01:21:31 --> 01:21:36

respectful and honor honorable who honor their parents and show

01:21:36 --> 01:21:40

gratitude to them and follow in their paths. May Allah Subhana

01:21:40 --> 01:21:44

Allah forgive us for our shortcomings and what we should

01:21:44 --> 01:21:47

have done and we haven't done and give us the opportunity to do that

01:21:47 --> 01:21:54

which we have not done and make amends for our mistakes. Subhanak

01:21:54 --> 01:21:56

Allama the ham technician to allow you

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to relate

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