Mohammad Ali Hazratji – Reflect on the Quran #107 Tafsir Surah Luqman P4

Mohammad Ali Hazratji
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The title today's topic is reassurance and guidance on Islam's importance. It covers topics such as the history and meaning of the title reassurance, the use of hasn't" in actions to achieve wisdom, the importance of knowing and acting in a way that leads to the best, and the use ofteen" to achieve wisdom. The speakers emphasize the need for gratitude and showing gratitude to oneself, and stress the importance of being aware of recorded events.

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			Sit down ya Kumar barakato.
		
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			Bismillah Alhamdulillah Hamden
cathedral to yerba Nevada confy
		
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			Camden una COVID general energy
while building muscle tiny masala
		
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			Allahu Allah Farrakhan picky
Muhammad in Muhammadan sadaqa
		
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			Lamine AdMob, author Amata Nila
Alameen wa ala Alihi Acharya been
		
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			hearing allows Javi already my
Amin, woman Tabia homebaked son
		
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			Ilario methane, Aloha McDonough
Minho. I mean, Frobisher, actually
		
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			Saudi Arabia Siddeley, I'm wary of
the term melissani Fo Kohli.
		
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			Allahumma Zina Halima wala to the
Apollo been about a hadith and our
		
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			Hubble anomala Don Kaufman, I can
tell you,
		
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			long after my Samiha alumina Lydic
Rick,
		
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			we praise Allah subhanaw taala and
we send the best of Salah and
		
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			Salam on our beloved noble Prophet
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			salam, his family and his
companions were asked Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala to increase us in
useful knowledge,
		
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			knowledge that makes us closer to
him, give us the tofi to act on
		
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			that knowledge,
		
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			Camelon
		
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			and to open our hearts to receive
the true meanings of his Calam his
		
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			words.
		
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			Allah's subhanaw taala
		
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			make what is said today, a means
of success for us and our children
		
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			in this dunya and hereafter.
		
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			Shala we are going to continue
Surah Lokman which we started last
		
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			week. And we have now come to Iowa
number 12 And we are going to
		
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			insha Allah. Allah subhanaw taala
enables us study from 12 to 19,
		
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			which is the advice of Lokmanya
lay salaam to his son.
		
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			We briefly mentioned that Laquan
al sol was not a messenger or a
		
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			prophet. But he was a man who lost
$1 certified as being Hakeem
		
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			having Heckman wisdom, and we'll
talk about that briefly. And that
		
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			he was of African descent probably
in the area of Sudan, what was
		
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			called Nubia. He was Nubian
between Ethiopia and Egypt in that
		
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			area. And he was a slave, but he
was given wisdom. So Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala has named a whole
chapter whole surah in the Quran
		
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			after him and has permanently
recorded his conversation with his
		
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			son like we have with our children
in the Quran.
		
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			So inshallah we'll start with iron
number 12.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala says, well,
Tina look man and Hekmatyar and
		
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			your school Illa Well, my year
school for in NEMA Yash curule
		
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			enough See, woman kufra for in
Aloha Ghanaian Hamid first this
		
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			one. Allah subhanaw taala bestowed
very special blessing on Lokmanya
		
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			salaam called hikma
		
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			says rough translation of this,
and indeed We bestowed wisdom on
		
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			local man
		
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			and commanded him be grateful to
Allah. For he who is grateful, is
		
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			only grateful for his own benefit.
As for the one who is ungrateful,
		
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			then know that Allah is self
sufficient, ever praised.
		
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			So firstly, we have to know that
wisdom, if if we are wise in some
		
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			way, it is not something that we
should be proud about because it's
		
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			not something that we earn or
learn this is bestowed by Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala it's a blessing,
like everything else like
		
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			intelligence and inner beauty and
outer everything is from Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala.
		
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			So therefore, Allah subhanaw taala
commands, the one who he calls, I
		
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			came
		
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			to be grateful to be in Chicago to
understand this gratitude shocker
		
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			concept is going to come over and
over again we are an Omaha
		
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			shocker, we should always be in
chakra of Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			And as we said before last time
that the word hikma has been used
		
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			almost 20 different times in
different ways in Iran to convey
		
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			wisdom, knowledge, reasoning,
forbearance help patients sober.
		
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			The Sunnah of the Prophet
salallahu Alaihe Salam has been
		
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			called hokhmah and so on, so
forth. So in brief hikma on is to
		
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			No knowledge and the intellect to
understand and apply that
		
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			knowledge correctly by acting in a
manner that leads to the greatest
		
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			benefit for all concern.
		
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			So it maximizes good goodness in
every situation for everyone,
		
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			while acting within the commands
of Allah subhanaw taala there is
		
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			no wisdom that violates the
commands of Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			And a person who is wise takes
into consideration all the
		
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			consequences of an action, what
the pros are, what the cons of
		
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			what's going to happen, and simply
speaking hikma is to know, what to
		
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			say. When to say where to say, how
much to say, and how to say it.
		
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			Okay, so what is it?
		
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			What to say, when to say it, where
in what situation to say it, how
		
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			much to say,
		
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			and how to say it, that is wisdom.
		
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			And
		
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			the ultimate technique is to know
the creator and the creation, and
		
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			to give each one its right in the
proper way, in the correct
		
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			proportion, putting everything in
its proper place and the peak of
		
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			hokhmah is to know and fear Allah
subhanaw taala and be grateful to
		
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			him.
		
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			Therefore, in brief, Alhamdulillah
is the height of wisdom.
		
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			And one of the wisest people
mentioned in the Quran is our
		
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			father Ibrahim Alayhi. Salam.
		
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			And what does Allah subhanaw taala
say about Ibrahim Alayhi salaam
		
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			Shakira Lin an AMI each the Bahu
wha hoo illustrata mosta to Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala says Ibrahim
shocking and was utterly grateful
		
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			for Allah's blessings. So Allah
chose him and guided him to the
		
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			right path.
		
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			And Hikmah indeed is wisdom is
indeed a great blessing because
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala says you can
Hekmati Romania shall remain
		
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			neutral Hekmatyar forgot who to
hire and cathedra Amaya Kuru Illa,
		
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			who don't feel bad, which means
Allah guide gives Hekmati who he
		
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			wants as he wants, and whoever has
been given hokhmah has been indeed
		
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			granted an abundance of good he
has been blessed with a great
		
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			privilege. But none realize this
except people who have
		
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			understanding.
		
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			So where do we seek wisdom and
Heckman there is an abundance of
		
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			ECMA in our treasure
		
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			trove of.
		
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			of the Quran, and the Sunnah, and
the words of our sages or wise
		
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			people such as Luke monnalisa.
		
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			Look, monnalisa loves teaching us
how to go about life in a
		
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			meaningful way that is beloved to
Allah subhanaw taala by giving
		
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			these instructions to his son.
		
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			So Allah subhanaw taala granted
him the gift of wisdom and
		
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			understanding based on the
revealed scriptures that were
		
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			available to him at that time.
		
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			Because you will listen to the
teaching of Salah and Tauheed and
		
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			you know, suffering, now en el
Mancha, Hammurabi maruf all of
		
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			that. So, in light of His wisdom
of worshipping Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala, in every aspect of his
life, he gives this advice
		
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			and it is manifested in his chakra
to Allah subhanaw taala. He
		
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			recognizes who Allah subhanaw
taala is, he acknowledges the
		
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			SIFAT the attributes of Allah and
His favors and shows gratitude by
		
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			using these favors in the right
way. One of his favorites was
		
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			wisdom. So he uses his wisdom to
convey a message to his children
		
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			and to all of mankind.
		
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			So, imagine, as we said, this is a
man who was a slave in the dunya.
		
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			And yet, he is showing his
gratitude to Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			even in that state, because he
realizes what we say frequently in
		
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			the lie knowledge Roger we belong
to Allah so He knows, even though
		
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			Allah has given control of my life
and the dunya in some man's hand I
		
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			belong to Allah. He is my master.
And indeed to Him, we will return.
		
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			So the first lesson for us is
gratitude. Sugar. That's the first
		
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			lesson that we all have to learn.
We cannot be complainers don't
		
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			complain about things of anything.
95 degrees today it will be 100
		
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			degrees tomorrow. hamdulillah
Allah is telling us it's only 100
		
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			degrees. Do you know what the
temperature in Hellfires see
		
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			Alhamdulillah Allah has given us
the recipe to stay away from that
		
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			heat of hunger.
		
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			And it will also end rain will
come one day. So we in a state of
		
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			gratitude, Allah subhanaw taala
says whoever shows gratitude
		
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			does it for their own benefit
because our gratitude does not
		
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			help Allah subhanaw taala in any
way, Allah is in no need of a bed
		
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			of His servants.
		
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			If we all worshipped Him and OBEY
them and showed gratitude, it's
		
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			not going to make Allah subhanaw
taala any greater, and if all of
		
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			mankind became careful,
ungrateful, it does not diminish
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala and anyway,
so Allah subhanaw taala is saying,
		
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			he is a runny, runny means one who
is free of all needs, three of all
		
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			things all people, he is above any
needs, he is independent and only
		
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			Allah is a lot of money.
		
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			And he is a hermit, he is the one
who is praised in and by himself.
		
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			In other words, if nobody praises
him, he is still a Hamid, that's
		
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			part of his does not change. Okay?
So Allah smart Allah saying that,
		
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			if you praise me and you show
gratitude to me, it's for your
		
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			benefit, because you will get the
reward of it.
		
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			So, again, reminder that we all
need to be always grateful for
		
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			what we have, for the things we
have the opportunities, we have
		
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			the relationships, we have the
conditions that come our way,
		
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			material, spiritual, metaphysical.
And also we need to be grateful
		
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			for what Allah has protected us
from we don't know what kinds of
		
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			just yesterday two people were
crossing the road and is tempted,
		
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			and they were killed.
		
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			How much protection how much Allah
protects us that we don't know
		
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			we've been protected from some of
us have experienced Hola Hola, de
		
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			where there was nothing. Allah's
intervention came and you
		
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			experienced it to identify the
union. So we should always be
		
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			thankful. And how do we show
gratitude to Allah? How do we show
		
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			thankfulness by acknowledging his
favorites and everything that we
		
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			possess, everything that we
achieve, every talent that we
		
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			have, every success, we celebrate
every meaningful relationship that
		
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			we are in, whether it's with our
parents, with our children, with
		
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			our friends, with our spouses, or
siblings. Everything is from
		
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			Allah, we show gratitude by
thanking him by being just in all
		
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			of these relationships by using
everything that Allah gives us in
		
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			a way that he intended for us to
use it and that which pleases him.
		
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			And Allah subhanaw taala tells us
that if we are grateful, what will
		
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			happen, he says,
		
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			well, then Arab Buccola in
Shackleton, z the NACA
		
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			Indeed, Allah has announced, he
has proclaimed that if you are
		
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			grateful, you showed thankfulness
to Allah he will increase you in
		
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			his blessings. And the opposite
was the Inca photo in Adobe Lucia
		
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			did and if you are ungrateful, you
deny his favor. Just remember that
		
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			Allah's punishment is indeed
severe.
		
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			Now, part of our gratitude to
Allah subhanaw taala is to show
		
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			gratitude to people, such as our
hosts today, such as the people
		
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			who are attending and so on, so
forth, since the people are the
		
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			means that Allah uses to deliver
his blessings to us, like our
		
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			parents, like our friends, like
our teachers.
		
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			So the way this is structured, it
is not exclusive. gratitude to
		
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			Allah means thank Allah and
whatever else, whoever else needs
		
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			to be thanked.
		
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			And also Allah salAllahu Alaihe
Salam teaches us he says La Yeshe
		
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			Corolla manleigh Yash. Karuna was
that the one who does not thank
		
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			people has not truly thanked Allah
		
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			because I'm not creates all of
these means.
		
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			Now the advice of Lokmanya Allah
salaam to his son, in his
		
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			gratitude and part of the
gratitude of Lokmanya Allah Salam
		
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			is to convey to his son
		
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			as his inheritance, this wisdom of
what you should he needs to do.
		
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			And so this advice is timeless in
this
		
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			Something that we all need to
study over and over again, my
		
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			session is a bit long, but it's
still very brief compared to what
		
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			this deserves. And just imagine
this advice of a slave to his son
		
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			is read by millions of people
every single day in the world, and
		
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			will continue to be read till the
Day of Judgment.
		
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			Look at the honor that Allah
subhanaw taala, the real master
		
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			bestowed on his slave
		
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			it's just seven brief verses. Now,
this is the nature of the wisdom,
		
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			there's the nature of the Quran,
in a few words.
		
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			There are oceans of of, you know,
to learn of information, not just
		
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			information of, of of true
knowledge, and it has been
		
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			immortalized in this wise advice
of Laquan and SLR.
		
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			There are 10 major components of
this advice and from each of
		
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			those, there are far too many
branches that you can take. And it
		
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			becomes much more elaborate if you
go into that. And just remember
		
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			that this advice was given,
		
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			you know, few 1000 years ago, and
it is still applicable, and can be
		
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			followed today, and to the day of
judgment for any parent, wanting
		
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			to raise a child in the light of
Islam. And if all the parents
		
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			implemented love Manolis alums
advice, then they would be leaving
		
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			behind a beautiful legacy and
their children.
		
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			And this is the best gift that a
parent can give their child
		
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			and there is no need to worry
about the fate of this child in
		
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			the hereafter. Because through
this advice, they have been shown
		
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			the path to paradise.
		
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			Now, this is general advice and
Allah smart Allah could have just
		
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			said that Lachman gave this
advice. But he specifies without
		
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			naming him that he gave this
advice to his son.
		
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			What does that teach us?
		
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			The parental responsibility
		
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			that there is a responsibility the
children have rights, and there is
		
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			a responsibility of the parents to
teach the children
		
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			and this is to remind us of the
duties as parents, so that we may
		
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			not be negligent in this great
responsibility. And how many of us
		
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			are guilty of this negligence?
		
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			Because we choose frequently,
myself included, probably the
		
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			worst.
		
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			instead to focus on providing
material things. Toys, play,
		
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			entertainment, this is what we
spend. My child should have this
		
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			does he have the latest phone does
he have this? Where does he watch
		
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			sport is playing where I'm taking
him what he is, but we ignore a
		
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			lot of this now last month Allah
forgive us and guide us
		
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			to the right way. Iron number 13
		
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			Here is where the words of look
man starts Allah Subhana Allah
		
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			says what if what if color look
man are living here? Who are you?
		
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			Who yeah buena de la to Shrek
Billa in a Shipka Lavon Manabi
		
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			which means and remember when
local man when if the Think of
		
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			what that means? Look man said to
his son while he was advising.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Yeah, are you though to give wild?
		
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			And he addressed him by saying,
yeah, booni which is a term of
		
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			endearment meaning Oh, my dear
son, the first piece of advice.
		
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			Join not in worship other than
Allah.
		
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			Because Verily,
		
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			in joining
		
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			with joining others in worship
with Allah is a great overlap.
		
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			So Allah subhanaw taala here, by
starting it in this way, is,
		
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			again, drawing a verbal picture of
us now imagine a father and a son,
		
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			a man and a child of certain age,
perhaps walking together, perhaps
		
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			walking on the beach, perhaps
walking somewhere or just sitting
		
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			together privately. Now imagine
this bonding parents son and child
		
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			spending time with him.
		
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			When that child, he says is when
that child means has become old
		
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			enough to understand
		
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			Hello, Lachman Elisa Lam gives him
an age appropriate advice, okay,
		
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			something that he would
understand.
		
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			So he's educating him in his
counseling him is advising him
		
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			by his own words and his own
actions. Lokmanya Allah Salam is
		
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			setting an example.
		
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			So he addresses his son as we
said, Yeah, Brunei. Yeah, Buddha
		
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			is a very special term and in, in
Arabic of extreme endearment, he
		
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			doesn't call him. Yeah, Hashem,
yeah, Muhammad, whatever his name
		
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			was, he doesn't say, Yeah, I've
been you're my son. Yeah, booni is
		
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			a special term of endearment,
which literally means my dear
		
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			tender little son, the one who is
has to, has to be taken care of
		
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			who needs my protective instincts.
		
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			And this is to make him feel even
closer to him to to stress, that
		
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			familial bond between the father
and the child and the closeness to
		
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			him. And by this address, he gains
the attention of that child or my
		
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			father. You know, it's like he
puts his arms around me and he's
		
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			telling me this, showing his love
and concern that what he is going
		
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			to tell them is going to be for my
benefit.
		
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			And
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala, and the
Quran has recorded father and son
		
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			conversations elsewhere. For
example, conversation between
		
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			Jacobo SLM and his son's specific
conversation between Jacoba s&m
		
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			and use of Alesana. And what does
Jacobo SLM address use? Well, SLR.
		
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			He says Carla Yeah, upon a lot of
sort of, oh, my beloved Son, same
		
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			Yagoona don't tell the story to
your brothers. But what you saw in
		
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			your dream.
		
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			Similarly, we have the story of
Abraham Allah salaam, the words
		
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			and a smile a lesson I'm a father
and son conversation. What is the
		
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			conversation? are like yeah,
Boonie in a Phil Manami Omni Hoka
		
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			fund thermadata Oh, my beloved
Son, I saw in my dream that I'm
		
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			sacrificing. Imagine first telling
him Yagoona and telling him this,
		
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			and then what does he say?
		
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			Funds will matter. So tell me what
you think.
		
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			He's not imposing it. But just so
I would just want you to say that
		
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			these conversations that Allah has
recorded, just imagine what is
		
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			being recorded of our
conversations that we have had
		
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			with our children
		
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			what tones we have used, what
words we have used, what we have
		
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			stressed.
		
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			Now last month, Allah forgive us.
		
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			So again, this one also implies
that look, Monalisa chooses the
		
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			right time, the right moment, the
right opportunity when he has his
		
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			attention to deliver the advice
and not at a time where it might
		
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			be ignored or rejected. So child
and we deal with that sometimes
		
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			you have a child, you want to tell
them something and he is busy with
		
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			something else. He is not in the
mood to listen. In fact, you might
		
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			ignore your he might even say no.
So what is Heckman to present that
		
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			advice at that time? Postpone it
for a better opportune moment.
		
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			Because it will be recorded. Do
you want the angels to record for
		
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			your son that he says, No, I'm not
going to do this. I don't care. Do
		
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			you want that recorded for your
child?
		
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			Therefore, have Ramadan? The
children when you see they're not
		
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			in that moment where they would be
very receptive to something like
		
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			this.
		
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			Don't say it. That is fair in that