Mohamad Baajour – The Best Form Of Good To Parents After Death

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			Abdullah have normal or the Allahu Anhu now
		

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			he was going to Mecca for Hajj from Medina.
		

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			And he had his
		

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			hadham servant with him.
		

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			When he was traveling,
		

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			he saw an ROV he saw
		

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			so when he saw him, he said, enter full and even Furlan
		

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			are you so and so the son of so and so?
		

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			So the man said, yes.
		

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			So Abdullah normal, stepped down from his donkey. And he said, This is my donkey as a gift to you.
And he took his Anana he took his turban and
		

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			he gave it to him and he said, I'm sick. Bihar sick. This is a gift from me to you also.
		

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			So the servant with him
		

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			these are Arabi these are Bedouins yet adorable Khalil. If you give them some food, some water he
will be satisfied the donkey are we going to come back from Hush, the donkey and your mama. Listen.
He said his father
		

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			used to be close
		

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			and beloved by my father Omar.
		

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			And I heard Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say in a barrel barrel. And yes, sila Raju would
be
		

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			his father was very close to my father Omar. And I heard Rasulullah sallallahu sallam said the best
and the highest level of better is for the person to connect and have good relationship with his
father's friends.
		

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			Just two quick points about the study first,
		

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			from the realm of Allah azza wa jal from the realm of Allah azza wa jal is that he made the better,
does not stop with the death of the parents.
		

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			We all know that the better as long as they are alive is absolutely better.
		

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			They want to see it they want to feel what you have done for them.
		

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			But sometimes, just like most of us, when we are behind in our duties, our parents so Allah azza wa
jal did not close the door for us, He gave us an opportunity even after the death, to have birth to
them and that is more sincere by the way, because you're not getting anything in return. You're not
seeing the smile on your father's face. You're just having pure Eman in with Allah. And Salam said
		

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			your father had a friend, your mother had a very close to start after they pass away. These are the
people you want to connect with. You want to be friends with you want to pick up the phone and call
up and check up on them.
		

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			Abdullah had normal did this to the son
		

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			of the man. Maybe this son never seen Romar?
		

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			Just because his father was a friend with my father.
		

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			And the closest for example was was s&m said alhaja be murdered Tibetan lama.
		

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			The harlot.
		

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			The mother's sister is the same level as the mother.
		

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			So after the mother passes, if you still have a collar, make sure you do as much burden to her as
possible. And we all know that when the woman walked in, and he started being very kind and checking
up on her, and then he said, I noticed that you've been so kind to her.
		

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			How come he said
		

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			she used to be very close to Khadija are the Allah Allah Subhan Allah Allah and he when someone is
very close to you and they had people that are close to them after they pass
		

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			stay connected with them if you'd like to make to have better for your parents. Imagine Yeah, one.
		

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			This is what Abdullah had normal after he did after his father passed away. And unfortunately, many
of us appreciate the Father. Appreciate the mother after they leave.
		

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			So if your mother or father are still alive, Allah He take advantage take advantage before they are
gone.
		

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			Make sure you're pleasing them and make sure they are happy and they are, they are pleased with you.
Second quick point.
		

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			Many times when we give gifts
		

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			or do something kind, we do it to the elite of the community.
		

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			This is the Emir of the Masjid. This is the Imam. This is upstairs. This is the shed. This guy is a
big donor, this guy.
		

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			This guy is an ROV.
		

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			He's a bedwin. Very simple man.
		

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			Like the man said he could have been satisfied with just a small piece of bread or drink of water.
So when we are being nice, we have to be nice with with everybody. It's not about the status of the
person. It's about you. This is your lab. Your left does not depend on the person that you're
talking to. Your o'clock is your o'clock. And finally,
		

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			many people are here all the time.
		

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			You see them very harsh and always frowning. You hardly get a smile out of them.
		

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			And when you ask them to ask you why you are a Masha Allah Hotaki look, he said, the tuber you know
he can hit a shield. He can hit the fishy. This is this is the way I am. Even my father was like
this and my grandfather and he's proud and he has bring on some when somebody is proud he bring back
his lineage that he's proud of. It's not me. No, no, no, no. Even if you had that in your family or
in you, this can be changed. This can be improved. Even the lion. The lion is a fierce animal after
you train him Subhanallah how many times we saw that video of the animal hugging the person who was
kind to him. So he ended by training you can improve by training you can become better in them and
		

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			help me with the hello when I'm a sub robot soccer if you want to, if you want to do something
Rasulullah Trisodium said train yourself about the thing. Strive jarhead
		

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			and you will be able to achieve that trait Subhan Allah, Allah make us from the people who have
bitter to their parents. May Allah subhanaw taala make them please do this. And another thing I want
to tell you is tell Allah azza wa jal yeah Allah, I am pleased with my children.
		

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			That Allah I am pleased with my children. So yeah, Allah be pleased with them because as soon as I
Salam said, Read the ROB mineral
		

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			the pleasure of Allah is from the pleasure of the Father
		

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			one heavy Lina photo gentleman wasn't happy a lot. The ones that get enough love.
		

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			What's going on? I don't know law hula
		

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