Mohamad Baajour – Heartify #15 Arrogance A Mustard Seed Of It Deprives From Jannah

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The speakers discuss various diseases and how to avoid them in Islam. They touch on the definition of "arrogance" and how it can affect one's health. They also discuss the importance of avoiding one's "verbal inventory" and how it can be measured. The speakers stress the danger of losing one's job and suggest listening to the danger of one's behavior. They also encourage individuals to elevate themselves to be a better person and to remember their origin to avoid stinkiness and negative behavior. They also mention graduation and a night called "Anatul".

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			So we continue with the diseases of the
		
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			heart Begging Allah Azza wa Jal to purify
		
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			our hearts because like we started in the
		
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			first class we reminded each other that the
		
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			only way, subhanallah, if the people know the
		
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			importance of these of these classes, wallahi subhanallah
		
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			The only way to Jannah, the only way
		
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			illa man atallaha biqalbin saleem The only way
		
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			to enter Jannah, and these are not my
		
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			words.
		
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			These are the words of the owner of
		
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			Jannah he said the only way to enter
		
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			Jannah is to come with a pure, saleem,
		
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			sound heart and We have started mentioning the
		
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			good good a'mal and then now we are
		
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			Studying all the diseases so we can be
		
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			aware of them and avoid them bi'ithnillah
		
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			ta'ala We finished a few diseases and
		
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			tonight we have another major disease of the
		
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			heart and that disease is the disease of
		
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			kibr The disease of kibr.
		
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			Kibr, what does kibr mean?
		
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			Arrogance.
		
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			Kibr means arrogance Okay What does arrogance mean?
		
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			Arrogance is defined best by none than
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			He defined What is arrogance?
		
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			Now, of course if you look at the
		
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			dictionary and you want to see what's the
		
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			meaning of arrogance it will be offensive display
		
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			of superiority or Self-importance.
		
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			You feel that you are superior to everybody
		
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			around you.
		
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			I don't sit with these people.
		
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			I don't eat with these people.
		
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			Who are you to talk to me?
		
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			That kind of attitude and Definitely this is
		
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			a major form of arrogance.
		
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			So let's see what Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam Said about arrogance and the hadith is
		
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			in Sahih Muslim.
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said You know,
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said No one
		
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			has the weight Listen carefully.
		
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			No one has the weight of A seed
		
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			of arrogance in his heart will enter Jannah.
		
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			An atom's weight How I was trying to
		
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			find something to show you how small is
		
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			an atom or a mustard seed and Then
		
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			on top of that, it's not the mustard
		
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			seed.
		
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			It's weight.
		
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			Yeah, and if you bring a scale Everybody
		
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			knows a mustard seed, right?
		
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			If you go open the pantry at home,
		
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			you will see one of the spices says
		
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			mustard seed It's a very very small seed
		
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			and if I want to weigh it if
		
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			I bring a scale to weigh it that
		
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			scale Have to be extremely extremely Sensitive scale
		
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			in order to give you numbers.
		
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			Otherwise Any mustard seed is nothing.
		
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			So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying look
		
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			at the exaggeration if you have if I
		
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			have a mustard seed the weight of a
		
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			mustard seed of Arrogance in my heart.
		
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			I will not enter Jannah now one way
		
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			one day or another Every single one of
		
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			us have felt some kind of arrogance right,
		
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			I'm better than him and Sometimes look at
		
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			look how the arrogance sometimes comes I come
		
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			to Fajr.
		
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			You don't in Ibadah look at my beard
		
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			Where's your beard?
		
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			I'm better than you Sometimes it comes in
		
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			Ibadah It comes look at look at the
		
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			I mean, it's so hard Not to say
		
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			anybody say no Shaykh here zero and That's
		
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			why we're here today to ask Allah to
		
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			really make it zero so Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam said No one who has a
		
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			weight of a mustard seed of arrogance will
		
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			enter Jannah So immediately because the Sahaba subhanallah,
		
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			they don't have that sicknesses that we have.
		
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			What did their mind go to immediately?
		
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			Ha Kareem, what did the mind go to?
		
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			Clothing and shoes and looking good because they
		
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			love that.
		
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			What does that show us that show us?
		
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			This is not a topic our topic, but
		
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			that show us the importance of looking good.
		
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			So immediately the Sahaba What did they say?
		
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			They said ya Rasulullah, but a man like
		
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			a man likes to have nice clothing and
		
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			nice shoes So immediately they thought that arrogance
		
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			is a nice clothing and nice shoe It
		
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			didn't cross their mind that I'm gonna show
		
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			off over my brother Subhanallah, look at look
		
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			how pure Their hearts are immediately their mind.
		
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			Ya Rasulullah, I love to have a nice
		
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			shoe and a nice clothing so Rasulullah sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam, he said Allah Jameel Allah
		
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			is beautiful and he loves beauty.
		
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			That's not the arrogance I'm talking about This
		
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			is not arrogance the real arrogance and look
		
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			at this now the definition came from The
		
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			best man that ever walked this earth.
		
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			What is arrogance Ya Rasulullah?
		
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			He said two things Arrogance is two things
		
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			number one looking down on others and number
		
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			two refusing the truth Not accepting the truth
		
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			those both If we have both you have
		
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			arrogance if you have one of them you
		
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			have arrogance Okay, but Once we detect once
		
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			we detect a minute sign of arrogance Immediately
		
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			because of this hadith we have to do
		
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			something Sometimes nobody's gonna tell Someone else I
		
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			feel arrogant.
		
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			No, no, this is something between that's why
		
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			this topic is under the actions of the
		
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			heart It's a diseases of the heart.
		
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			I don't see it Maybe I have arrogance
		
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			and you don't see it.
		
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			Maybe I you have it and I don't
		
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			see it you are the only one who
		
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			can tell and If you feel it We
		
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			will have some signs right now if you
		
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			feel it if you feel that these symptoms
		
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			are I have them just like if you
		
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			have the Numbness in the left arm and
		
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			oh you might have a heart attack Similarly,
		
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			we will run some symptoms if any one
		
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			of the us have them Immediately you got
		
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			to do something.
		
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			We gotta start the cure.
		
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			Okay Taib what is the danger of having
		
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			arrogance?
		
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			What is the danger of feeling arrogant?
		
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			number one Subhanallah, it indicates that Iblis is
		
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			your role model because he was the first
		
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			creation that started arrogance وَإِذْ قُلْنَا لِلْمَلَائِكَةِ سُجُدُوا
		
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			لِآدَمْ فَسَجَدُوا إِلَّا إِبْلِيسَ أَبَى
		
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			وَاسْتَكْبَرَ Make sujood to Adam The angels all
		
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			made sujood to Adam except Iblis Abba refused
		
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			and istakbar Arrogance and in another surah أنا
		
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			خَيْرٌ مِّنه I'm better than him.
		
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			I'm better than him.
		
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			And this is the definition of arrogance when
		
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			you start feeling better than others أنا خَيْرٌ
		
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			مِّنه خَلَقْتَنِي مِّن نَّار وَخَلَقْتَهُ مِّن طِيْن You
		
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			created me from fire.
		
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			This was his logic You created me from
		
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			fire and you created him from mud.
		
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			So fire is better than mud.
		
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			I'm better than him Whether fire is better
		
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			than mud, mud is better than fire, fire
		
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			is better than light, light is better than
		
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			mud Doesn't matter.
		
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			This is an order from Allah عَزَّ وَجَلَّ
		
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			Make sujood to Adam Doesn't matter who's better
		
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			than who make sujood and he refused So
		
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			when someone act arrogantly or have the characteristic
		
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			of arrogance then Iblis is their role model
		
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			That's number one.
		
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			Iblis is their role model second like the
		
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			hadith said You will be deprived from entering
		
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			Jannah third Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala said وَقِيلَ
		
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			ادْخُلُوا before that وَسِيقَ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا إِلَىٰ جَهَنَّمَ
		
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			زُمَرًا حَتَّىٰ إِذَا جَاؤُوهَا فُتِحَتْ أَبْوَابُهَا وَقَالَ لَهُمْ
		
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			خَزَنَتُهَا أَلَمْ يَأْتِكُمْ رُسُلٌ مِّنْكُمْ يَتْلُونَ عَلَيْكُمْ آيَاتِ
		
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			رَبِّكُمْ وَيَنْذِرُونَكُمْ لِقَاءَ يَوْمِكُمْ هَذَا قَالُوا بَلَى قَالُوا
		
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			بَلَى then حق العذاب على الكافرين قِيلَ ادْخُلُوا
		
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			أَبْوَابَ جَهَنَّمَ خَالِدِينَ فِيهَا فَبِئْسَ مَثْوَى الْمُتَكَبِّرِينَ
		
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			that's another ticket to Jahannam arrogance is a
		
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			ticket to Jahannam قِيلَ it will be said
		
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			enter Jahannam you're gonna go there forever and
		
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			this is the final destination of the arrogant
		
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			of the arrogant so now also arrogance is
		
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			a place is a tool or a key
		
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			to go to Jahannam third it seals the
		
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			heart arrogance seals the heart Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala said وَكَذَٰلِكَ يَطْبَعُ عَلَى كُلِّ قَلِّ
		
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			مُتَكَبِّرٍ جَبَّارٍ surah ghafir thus Allah seals over
		
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			the heart of every متكبر every arrogant person
		
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			now listen to this listen to the danger
		
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			this is something I beg Allah not to
		
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			make us from the people who could relate
		
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			to arrogance deprive the person from understanding the
		
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			Quran you know how many times we complain
		
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			I don't understand the Quran I don't feel
		
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			anything it could be I'm not saying this
		
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			is the only reason one of the reasons
		
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			that a person cannot understand the Quran is
		
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			arrogance what's the dalil?
		
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			Allah azza wa jal he said سَأَصْرِفُ عَنْ
		
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			آيَاتِ الَّذِينَ يَتَكَبَّرُونَ لَا يُحِبُّ الْمُسْلِمُ I will
		
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			keep away the people who have arrogance from
		
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			my ayat I will keep the people with
		
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			arrogance away from my verses from ayat or
		
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			it could be from my miracles and listen
		
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			to this danger which is that by itself
		
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			is sufficient for us to avoid arrogance إِنَّهُ
		
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			لَا يُحِبُّ الْمُسْتَكْبِرِينَ Allah does not like the
		
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			people who are arrogant that is sufficient for
		
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			every single one of us to humble themselves
		
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			طيب what are the signs that I am
		
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			arrogant what are the signs to check if
		
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			I have arrogance or not number one it's
		
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			all about me, myself and I we are
		
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			sitting in a gathering no one can talk
		
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			except me no one and even if you
		
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			start talking I cut you off all the
		
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			attention has to be on me all the
		
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			attention has to be on me that's a
		
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			sign that you have arrogance second third my
		
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			way or the highway I present something to
		
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			the board in my business to my partners
		
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			and they found something maybe not profitable in
		
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			that suggestion, I go crazy even I know
		
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			that what they're saying is true remember what
		
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			the prophet said you cannot take the truth
		
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			you cannot accept the truth you will not
		
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			be able to accept the truth, this is
		
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			a major sign of arrogance, you will not
		
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			accept the truth and where does that happen
		
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			a lot between you ya habibi and your
		
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			wife when she tells you something and how
		
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			can she be true how, I'm gonna keep
		
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			saying no even though I know that she's
		
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			right or the other way around and subhanallah
		
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			that's a sign of arrogance, you know that
		
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			the person, the wife the son, sometimes the
		
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			daughter they are, they have a good argument,
		
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			but because I am baba, how can baba
		
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			be wrong I'm gonna keep fighting her even
		
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			though I know that they're right this is
		
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			arrogance this is arrogance the humble person no
		
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			matter who present him with the truth, he
		
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			will accept it third a person who is
		
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			arrogant hates hates advice and he
		
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			cannot take an advice from anybody how could
		
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			you advise me do you know who you're
		
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			talking to does it sound New Yorker do
		
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			you know how you're talking to you know
		
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			so he cannot accept that someone could be
		
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			better than me in that field that I
		
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			am specializing in he cannot take advice the
		
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			arrogant person gets very irritated if he is
		
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			criticized after I finish the halaqa the brother
		
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			comes and says it was not that good
		
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			and you said this and you said that
		
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			what?
		
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			you're talking about me?
		
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			and I get very upset and I'm not
		
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			giving halaqas anymore no he gets irritated very
		
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			irritated angry, very angry if he was criticized
		
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			another sign that a person is arrogant he
		
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			does not like others to have what he
		
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			has he doesn't like it he feels just
		
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			like we spoke last week how I worked
		
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			so hard an arrogant person find it very
		
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			difficult to demonstrate affection for others he cannot
		
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			show empathy to others and another sign he
		
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			brings or she brings back every success to
		
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			them this is all because of me my
		
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			effort I did this who did that in
		
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			the Quran who?
		
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			Qarun I did this all this wealth is
		
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			because of me what happened?
		
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			Allah subhana wa ta'ala you know those
		
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			we saw a couple in Florida sinkhole right
		
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			he went down with his guards and entourage
		
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			and everything immediately disappeared just because he said
		
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			I did it because of me I am
		
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			the educated one I am the shrewd one
		
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			I am the smart one I am always
		
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			me I am the one who did it
		
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			subhanallah ya khwan no matter how successful you
		
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			get always always bring back the tawfiq and
		
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			the success to Allah azza wa jal everything
		
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			and this is the reason why arrogance is
		
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			haram and arrogance is a major sin because
		
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			you are bragging about something that Allah gave
		
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			you if he did not give it to
		
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			you, you would not have it so what
		
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			are you bragging about?
		
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			this is why Rasulallah taught us humility and
		
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			humbleness right he keeps saying I am just
		
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			a son of Adam I am just a
		
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			regular person the only difference is I got
		
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			revelation and he used to be kind to
		
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			the kids to the adults, to the animals,
		
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			to the camel to the birds subhanallah what
		
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			are the things that a person can be
		
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			arrogant about?
		
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			number one, knowledge somebody can feel arrogant because
		
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			of his knowledge Sheikh Mufti, Mawlana, Ustaz this
		
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			two minutes title before his name so that
		
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			will make him feel like how can I,
		
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			subhanallah we are supposed to take ilm from
		
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			anyone who has the right ilm doesn't matter
		
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			how old and where is he from and
		
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			what color he is if someone has the
		
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			authentic ilm we will take from them subhanallah,
		
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			how many times a student correct his teacher
		
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			and a student became better than his teacher
		
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			knowledge second, worship like we mentioned before I
		
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			am a Hafiz and you are not imagine
		
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			an honor that Allah gave you now you
		
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			are using it to be arrogant I went
		
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			to Umrah five times, you did not I
		
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			was the Amir of my Masjid, you are
		
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			bragging about your worship, about your Ibadat about
		
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			your Ibadat which we all know that every
		
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			Ibadat that we perform is literally Tawfiq from
		
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			Allah Azza wa Jal, you will not be
		
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			able to come to Isha or to Fajr
		
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			without Allah's permission, you will not be able
		
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			to memorize one ayah without Allah's permission and
		
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			you are showing off that's why it destroys
		
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			everything, everything very obvious reason for arrogance, wealth
		
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			wealth makes the people look down on others
		
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			you know status you know, this is a
		
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			prince, president king, that status will make you
		
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			arrogant reason for arrogance, doesn't necessarily if you
		
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			are a prince you have to be arrogant
		
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			lineage I'm from this family, I'm from that
		
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			tribe, I'm from that country you know, that
		
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			gives you arrogance sometimes there's arrogance in the
		
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			way we dress in our clothing somebody might
		
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			buy something on purpose just to show off
		
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			that it's a brand name, on purpose you
		
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			know, there's nothing wrong with buying a brand
		
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			name because if it's a good quality or
		
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			this, but buying it only to show off,
		
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			look what I'm wearing look what I'm driving
		
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			then it becomes very dangerous, arrogance now these
		
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			days, because I have a lot of followers
		
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			I have a million followers you have only
		
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			five I'm better than you and that would
		
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			make me feel more arrogant, I am sheikh
		
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			so and so and the other sheikh is
		
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			nothing, look at my followers and look at
		
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			his followers by the way, I have no
		
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			followers at all you are my followers another
		
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			thing of people to do arrogance with is
		
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			this is probably especially for the sisters, beauty
		
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			you know I am pretty nice and you
		
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			know and you're ugly so also beauty is
		
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			a reason for someone to be arrogant okay,
		
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			with the last five minutes what is the
		
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			most important thing, which is the cure what
		
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			is the cure of arrogance first and foremost
		
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			the cure for arrogance is to remember the
		
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			danger of arrogance you're going to be deprived
		
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			from Jahannam from Jannah you're going to have
		
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			one ticket to Jahannam straight you're going to
		
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			lose the love of Allah you're going to
		
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			be despised by your community who likes an
		
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			arrogant guy who likes an arrogant person so
		
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			number one is to remember the danger of
		
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			arrogance and second, the scholars said every time
		
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			you feel arrogant, remember your origin remember where
		
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			you came from you are a sperm you
		
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			are nothing you stink how can you show
		
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			off if you stay subhanallah, if someone stayed
		
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			five, six days without showering, you will stink
		
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			and what are you showing off for if
		
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			a body died and they leave it for
		
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			five, six days, you cannot go into that
		
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			room look how insignificant we are so what
		
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			are you showing off for why are you
		
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			arrogant for remember, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			repeatedly admonishes in the Quran to reflect our
		
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			humble origin telling us that من نطفة من
		
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			علقة you were born from nothing make a
		
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			lot of sincere istighfar ask Allah to forgive
		
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			you for every time you acted arrogantly or
		
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			you made people who were with you feel
		
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			inferior ask Allah to forgive you and this
		
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			is a practical thing for someone who is
		
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			really feeling arrogant I'm better than this, I'm
		
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			better than that start every day by making
		
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			intention that today I'm going to help someone
		
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			today I'm going to help someone whether financially,
		
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			whether physically, whatever it is because usually the
		
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			arrogant person he does not care about nobody
		
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			only himself, so I want to fight that
		
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			arrogance, I'm going to help this guy, I'm
		
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			going to help that sister I'm going to
		
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			donate to this cause I'm going to it's
		
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			not only me today every single day, and
		
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			then praise yourself at the end of the
		
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			day that you know alhamdulillah I achieved something
		
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			today, and tomorrow I'm going to do more
		
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			the more you feel arrogant, the more you
		
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			want to help others in order to kill
		
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			that arrogance, if you are sincere and then
		
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			remember that Rasulullah said no one who humbles
		
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			himself for the sake of Allah except Allah
		
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			will raise his status, subhanallah Allah will elevate
		
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			you you see, look at the irony, you're
		
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			trying to elevate yourself I am me, mine
		
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			this is mine, without me, nothing and you
		
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			are humiliated the more you humble yourself the
		
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			more Allah will elevate you the more you
		
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			humble and this is the biggest example, Rasulullah
		
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			you know Rasulullah subhanallah, let's say you are
		
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			sitting here in the halaqa, if a person
		
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			comes in he used to ask which one
		
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			is Rasulullah look at the humility, which one
		
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			here, you have to put a table and
		
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			a chair look at me, I'm the man
		
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			subhanallah and remember that when you are in
		
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			the grave you are alone what are you
		
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			showing off for you're not taking anything with
		
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			you except your good deeds all that arrogance
		
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			is going to destroy your dunya, your grave
		
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			and your akhira, Rasulullah said the arrogant people
		
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			in this dunya, they will be as big
		
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			as ants on the day of judgment ants
		
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			this big exactly the opposite of what they
		
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			were trying to achieve in the dunya, they
		
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			will be like this big on the akhira
		
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			on the day of judgment, subhanallah so ask
		
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			Allah, finally beg Allah azawajal to if you
		
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			have any symptoms of arrogance, beg Allah azawajal
		
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			to cure you from these symptoms and ask
		
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			Allah azawajal to bless you with humility we
		
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			beg Allah azawajal to purify our hearts, we
		
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			beg Allah azawajal to clean our hearts from
		
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			any riya and any kibr we ask Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala to fill all our
		
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			homes with love and mercy and tranquility, we
		
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			ask Allah azawajal to protect our spouses, to
		
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			protect our children and surround them with the
		
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			righteous company I ask Allah azawajal to make
		
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			our last deeds, our best deeds and our
		
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			last words la ilaha illallah my beloved brothers
		
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			and sisters, tonight is the night of Friday
		
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			this is the best night of the week,
		
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			make a lot of salat on Rasulullah just
		
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			like he ordered us when he said abundantly
		
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			make a salat upon me on the night
		
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			of Jum'ah, on the day of Jum
		
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			'ah and please come tomorrow to Salatul Fajr
		
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			in Jum'ah at 6.30 am ya
		
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			ayyuha allatheena aamanu sallu alayhi wasallimu
		
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			tasneema