Mohamad Baajour – Are You A Mutafif

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The conversation covers the topic of tatfif, a evil act that can be experienced in various ways, associated with weight and measurement, punishment in criminal justice systems, and the importance of avoiding this activity. It also touches on the history of Islam, including burying mothers and children, and the danger of Islam fraud. The conversation concludes with a discussion of the importance of obeying the creator's commands and not giving personal information. The speakers also touch on the worst kind of tatfif, which is the worst kind of tatfif, and the importance of not praying and not giving dues to Allah.

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			Hudayfa
		
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			Radiallahu An.
		
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			He used to say,
		
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			People used to ask Rasoolullah shalom about the
		
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			khair, about good, and I used to ask
		
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			him about evil so I can avoid it.
		
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			So tonight,
		
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			we will talk about
		
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			an evil act
		
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			that not too many people know
		
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			how evil it is,
		
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			and that evil act is called tatfif.
		
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			In Arabic,
		
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			it's called tatfif. What does tatfif mean?
		
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			Or before that,
		
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			this act is so evil
		
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			that Allah
		
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			named
		
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			the Surah after it and started the Surah
		
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			by saying,
		
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			Surah
		
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			named after the people who
		
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			do this act
		
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			and started by wayl.
		
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			And we will explain what does that mean.
		
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			What does tatfif,
		
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			the general act, what does it mean?
		
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			It is when
		
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			you are
		
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			in the receiving
		
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			end,
		
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			you demand your rights.
		
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			And when you are in the giving end,
		
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			you overcharge
		
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			people.
		
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			You shortchange people
		
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			and you give less than it would is
		
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			required.
		
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			You short change people and you give less
		
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			than what is required. That whole thing together
		
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			is is tatref.
		
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			This was so prevalent in Medina that Ibn
		
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			Abbas said
		
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			that was one of the reasons the Surah
		
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			was revealed.
		
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			And mainly,
		
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			mainly,
		
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			tatfeef is mainly in
		
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			measurement
		
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			and in
		
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			weight,
		
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			in measurement
		
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			and in weight. This is what tatif in
		
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			general mean.
		
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			Now
		
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			this
		
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			act,
		
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			it has punishment in the dunya
		
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			and in the akhirah.
		
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			In the dunya, Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			said in a long hadith,
		
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			he said when people start cheating with the
		
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			mikial,
		
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			cheating
		
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			with the weight, 3 things will happen.
		
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			When people start cheating with the weight, 3
		
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			things will happen. Number 1,
		
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			famine will take place,
		
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			high cost of living
		
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			and
		
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			obsessive
		
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			oppressive
		
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			rulers
		
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			will be assigned to them.
		
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			Tyrant will run their countries
		
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			and we are witnessing all 3.
		
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			The punishment in the hereafter
		
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			is like Allah said in the beginning of
		
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			the
		
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			Surah.
		
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			Has two meaning.
		
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			First meaning
		
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			is
		
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			in general,
		
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			it's not good. It's a severe punishment.
		
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			And the other meaning of,
		
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			it's a in.
		
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			It's a pit
		
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			in the hellfire
		
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			where if you put all the mountains
		
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			of the earth, they will melt in it.
		
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			Whale. And that is
		
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			dedicated
		
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			to the one who practiced tatfif.
		
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			So
		
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			we really need to know what is tatfif
		
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			in order to to avoid it.
		
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			Now tafif tafif in Arabi, tafif, khalid. What
		
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			tafif means?
		
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			There are 2 khalids.
		
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			What does tafif mean? Jumah.
		
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			Tafif.
		
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			Khalif, light.
		
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			Means khalil. So imagine, Yachwan,
		
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			if is
		
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			for
		
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			Khalil,
		
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			can you imagine the one who does?
		
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			What is his punishment?
		
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			Give me example, Sheikh. I'll give you an
		
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			example.
		
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			Somebody has a 50 kilo
		
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			bag of sugar, it says 50 kilo.
		
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			He took
		
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			not 5 kilos off, half a kilo.
		
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			Tafif,
		
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			Sheykh Basit, he took a little bit and
		
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			he sold it as 50 kilos.
		
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			Hadha Mutafif, this is Mutafif.
		
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			You ordered
		
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			5,000 pieces of an item from me
		
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			without telling you
		
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			without telling you, and I know
		
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			I gave you 4,993,
		
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			Not not 4,600.
		
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			No. No. No. Tafeez,
		
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			little bit. I took off a little bit
		
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			thinking I am
		
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			shrewd businessman. I'm a very smart.
		
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			When I buy things from China and I
		
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			put made in Italy,
		
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			When I sell an item that is about
		
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			or already expired,
		
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			change the expiration date.
		
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			You are a tatfif.
		
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			These are some examples
		
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			of tatfif.
		
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			And this sin, and that's why we're discussing
		
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			it, it is not restricted
		
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			to weight
		
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			and measurement.
		
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			It can be in any
		
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			form
		
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			it can be in any form of our
		
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			daily life.
		
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			Let's let's explain.
		
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			In general,
		
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			anyone
		
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			who asks
		
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			for his rights
		
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			and does not give his dues is a
		
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			mutafif.
		
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			So the question is and I
		
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			really want you to open your ears and
		
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			your heart and focus. This is extremely important
		
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			topic that's hardly discussed.
		
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			Are you a Motafef?
		
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			Somebody will say, Sheikh, I have nothing to
		
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			do. I'm an IT guy. I'm a doctor.
		
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			I'm a physician. Listen up, Habibi.
		
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			Listen.
		
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			Okay. Let's start with the one that's probably
		
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			most common,
		
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			husband and wife.
		
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			Husband and wife.
		
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			When the husband
		
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			asks his wife for all his rights and
		
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			he shows her a hadith,
		
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			if you don't do this, the malaika will
		
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			make la'ana for you all night and he's
		
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			not giving his dues, he's a mutafifa.
		
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			And when the wife
		
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			and the man is doing everything he's supposed
		
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			to do
		
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			and she's not doing
		
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			her dues to her husband, she is a
		
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			mutafifa.
		
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			She is a mutafifa.
		
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			The husband is doing everything he's supposed to
		
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			do.
		
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			He's taking care of the bills, respecting her,
		
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			honoring her,
		
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			and in return,
		
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			she curses him. She puts him down. She
		
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			leaves the house without his permission.
		
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			She's a mutafifa.
		
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			He's doing
		
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			his his dues,
		
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			and he's giving her her rights, but she's
		
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			not.
		
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			Mutafifa.
		
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			My beloved brother,
		
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			we want always to be the best,
		
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			tayib.
		
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			This is for the brothers and the sisters.
		
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			You Rasulullah,
		
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			who is the best
		
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			man? The best man.
		
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			The one who's best to his wife.
		
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			Allahu Akbar.
		
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			The one who's best
		
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			to his wife.
		
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			Treat that
		
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			wife that that Allah
		
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			and the parents entrusted you with. Treat her
		
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			with respect and honor and the way you
		
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			would like your daughter to be treated
		
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			with your in laws.
		
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			Yahuwann, if I tell you the the the
		
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			the
		
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			the the the problems in the community,
		
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			I don't wanna
		
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			shift from the topic, but I have to
		
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			say
		
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			20 something years listening to
		
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			marital problems.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			If you ask me, Sheikh, summarize
		
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			from all your years of experience,
		
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			what is the number one reason for divorce
		
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			or the most common reason for divorce?
		
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			Are you ready?
		
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			Are you ready for the shock?
		
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			In laws.
		
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			In laws.
		
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			Can you imagine?
		
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			The people who love you the most are
		
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			the main reason for divorce
		
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			because of the interference and every single thing,
		
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			because of putting the culture
		
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			above the deen
		
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			in many of our cultures. We all know
		
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			that.
		
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			So my sister,
		
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			who is the best
		
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			woman?
		
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			You Rasool Allah, you see, my sister, please,
		
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			do not listen to social media to define
		
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			who is the best wife.
		
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			Do not listen to the news, CNN, and
		
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			Fox to tell us who's the best wife.
		
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			Listen to the best man who ever created
		
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			to tell us who's the best wife.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Ask the one
		
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			who you beg Allah
		
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			for him to intercede for you on the
		
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			day of judgment.
		
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			Ask him who's the best wife You Rasulullah.
		
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			Ask the one that you beg Allah to
		
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			be in his company on the day of
		
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			judgment.
		
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			Ask the one who never lies.
		
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			He will give you the best definition
		
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			who is the best wife.
		
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			Could it come from any better source?
		
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			Taib, You Rasool Allah,
		
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			who is the best wife?
		
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			Many sisters, they got upset
		
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			with the speaker.
		
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			They forgot that the speakers, all he's doing
		
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			is quoting Rasulullah salaam.
		
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			If he was here, alayhis salatu wasalam, and
		
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			you ask him that question, he would say,
		
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			the best woman
		
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			is the one
		
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			when her husband looks at her,
		
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			he's pleased.
		
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			When he looks at her, he's pleased.
		
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			She's always taking care of herself
		
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			externally
		
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			and internally.
		
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			2nd,
		
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			when he
		
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			gives her a command, she obeys.
		
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			Allahu Akbar, forget about the sisters in the
		
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			community. You, Sheikh, you're telling us to obey
		
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			our husbands?
		
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			I'm not telling you anything. I'm just telling
		
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			you what your beloved told us to tell
		
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			you.
		
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			You obey your husband, this is a statement
		
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			that people hate,
		
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			they get upset.
		
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			If my husband is doing everything that he's
		
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			supposed to do,
		
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			my sister, do you know that obeying him
		
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			is an act of worship?
		
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			And you obey him
		
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			when he
		
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			is asking you to obey Allah? If he
		
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			ever asks you to disobey Allah, this is
		
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			where the obedience stop.
		
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			No obedience to any creation
		
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			while disobeying the creator.
		
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			The husband is taking care of everything,
		
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			kind, loving, caring.
		
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			Allahu Akbar. How would the house become a
		
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			beautiful household
		
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			when everybody knows their rights?
		
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			When everybody knows their rights and knows their
		
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			Jews.
		
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			And then you will have a peaceful home,
		
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			the home that Allah promised
		
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			that there is in it You
		
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			will feel the sakena when you go home.
		
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			I'm not gonna tell you raise your hands,
		
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			but how many people now would love or
		
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			cannot wait to go home?
		
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			Turn off the camera.
		
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			Sheikh, I wanna sleep here. Is there a
		
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			tikaf tonight?
		
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			So,
		
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			our homes became like, you know, like a
		
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			battlefield.
		
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			She doesn't want him to come home. He
		
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			doesn't wanna go home. Why? Why? Where is
		
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			this that Allah promised? Where is it? We
		
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			have must have done something.
		
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			We must have done something because it was
		
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			there. It came with the package.
		
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			So if any of the spouses
		
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			if this the wife similarly, I'm not talking
		
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			only about the husband. The wife is doing
		
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			everything possible, respectful,
		
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			taking care of everything, and
		
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			and also
		
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			raising
		
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			righteous children, everything, and the husband is abusing
		
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			her.
		
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			He's a mutafif.
		
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			As a matter of fact, I talk I
		
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			spoke about this in a Khutba by itself.
		
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			Allah hated 3 things for you.
		
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			Disobedience
		
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			and specifically to the mothers,
		
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			burying your daughters alive and the third one
		
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			our shahid. You
		
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			do not
		
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			give
		
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			your Jews
		
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			and
		
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			give me my rights.
		
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			What did the Hadith said? It started with
		
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			haramaalaykum.
		
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			It's haram.
		
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			It's haram. Haramaalaykum.
		
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			Look, it came with
		
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			the disobedience of the mothers.
		
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			It came with burying the daughters alive. Look
		
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			how deep it is.
		
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			Your dues and hat. Give me my rights.
		
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			That is the Mutafaf.
		
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			The employee,
		
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			when he is
		
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			being paid to go from 9 to 5,
		
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			he goes from 10 to 4 and during
		
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			the whole time he's on his phone. Mutafef.
		
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			And when it comes to his paycheck, if
		
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			it was short $10,
		
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			he raises
		
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			*. Mutaffif,
		
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			the mechanic.
		
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			When you go to him
		
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			and you only need one thing and he
		
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			gives you a huge list of stuff that
		
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			you do not need and you do not
		
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			know, Mutafaf,
		
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			the parent,
		
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			when he requests from his children to obey
		
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			him and respect him and be good and
		
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			kind to him, and he never taught them
		
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			their deen, he never taught them anything about
		
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			Islam,
		
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			Mutafif
		
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			and the kids
		
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			who has drained their parents of everything
		
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			and they raise their voice
		
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			and disrespect them and dishonor them. Mutafifin.
		
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			The taxi,
		
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			and that happens in a country I'm not
		
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			gonna mention.
		
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			The destination is
		
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			right where Muneer is standing right there. It's
		
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			right at the end of the
		
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			he takes me to Kroger and then brings
		
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			me back to Muneer.
		
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			That's
		
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			a. Yeah. Habibi.
		
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			I guess you know the country.
		
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			We all been there.
		
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			So, yeah, he last time I went to
		
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			the other guy, it was very close. What
		
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			happened?
		
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			It's it's like half an hour now.
		
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			So, Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Yeah. So all this is all this is
		
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			and Allah said,
		
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			Now,
		
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			and it happens a lot,
		
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			you hire somebody to do some work at
		
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			your house.
		
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			And unfortunately, this is a problem in our
		
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			Muslim communities.
		
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			I hired brother Harun, and I said, Harun,
		
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			how much does it take to fix all
		
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			these things in my house? He said a
		
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			$1,000.
		
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			After he finished everything,
		
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			I said,
		
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			come on. We are Muslim brothers. Here's 800.
		
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			We agreed
		
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			on a 1,000.
		
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			We agreed.
		
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			And after he finished
		
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			and perfected everything he has to do, I
		
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			gave him only 800.
		
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			He fulfilled his right, and he did not
		
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			give you a dues.
		
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			And listen to this very scary hadith. It's
		
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			also in
		
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			Allah is saying
		
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			there are 3 kinds of people. I am
		
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			their opponent
		
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			on the day of judgment.
		
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			Who can afford
		
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			for Allah
		
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			to be his opponent
		
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			on the day
		
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			on the day of judgment? Who can afford
		
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			it?
		
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			One of those people is a person, Rassoulahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam said, a person
		
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			that you hired and he fulfilled his job
		
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			and you did not give him his pay.
		
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			Unfortunately, this is very common
		
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			in Dubai,
		
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			in the Imarat.
		
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			When I used to live there, all these,
		
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			subhanAllah, our young our
		
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			our brothers that work there in a 120
		
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			degrees heat
		
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			outside
		
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			in construction
		
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			when they come to pray with us in
		
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			the Masjid,
		
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			They used to tell me stories that blow
		
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			your mind.
		
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			Sheikh,
		
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			3 months
		
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			I haven't got paid.
		
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			3 months
		
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			I did not get paid, and we all
		
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			know that the money the countries that they're
		
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			sending the money to,
		
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			the people are in dire need.
		
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			And what are we talking about?
		
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			A 1000, 2,000
		
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			rial a month.
		
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			This is
		
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			exactly what Rasool Allah shalallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			said. Allah is your opponent.
		
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			If someone finished their job and he did
		
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			not give them their dues, Tayeb. I will
		
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			finish with the worst kind
		
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			the worst kind of tatfif.
		
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			The worst kind.
		
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			I want
		
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			free oxygen.
		
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			I want the house. I want health. I
		
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			want children. I want spouse. I want all
		
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			this.
		
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			I'm asking,
		
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			and I don't pray.
		
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			I don't give my zakat in full.
		
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			For 10 years I've been qualified to go
		
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			to Hajj and I keep delaying it.
		
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			Tatfif
		
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			with the Creator.
		
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			That's the worst kind of Tatfif.
		
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			Any human being,
		
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			imagine that we have to go every single
		
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			day and order oxygen to survive for the
		
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			day.
		
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			If I do not pay the guy, he's
		
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			not gonna give me my supply of oxygen
		
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			for the day.
		
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			Does Allah do this to us?
		
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			While
		
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			while the person is drinking
		
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			alcohol, his heart is beating.
		
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			While
		
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			he's gambling, he's breathing.
		
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			During
		
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			the act of disobedience,
		
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			Allah is still blessing them.
		
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			This is the worst kind of tatfif.
		
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			You ask
		
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			Allah for things, You Allah, You Allah, You
		
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			Allah, and then in return,
		
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			you don't give your dues to Allah. And
		
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			Allah 1000000 times, I repeat this all the
		
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			time,
		
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			that Allah does not treat us the way
		
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			we treat each other.
		
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			We
		
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			with our own children, my child took this
		
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			car somewhere that is wrong. I'll I'll take
		
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			the car away from him.
		
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			But Allah
		
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			if
		
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			I don't pray Fajr at all,
		
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			I don't wake up in the morning with
		
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			one arm, with one leg, with one eye,
		
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			keeps giving me. That's the name Al Halim.
		
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			Al Halim
		
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			means he keeps giving you chances. He can
		
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			punishes you, but he keeps giving you chances.
		
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			Maybe
		
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			maybe maybe maybe.
		
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			So
		
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			so if someone
		
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			approaches your daughter for marriage
		
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			and he does not pray,
		
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			Do you think a person
		
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			that has no khair to Allah is gonna
		
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			have khair to your daughter?
		
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			35 minutes
		
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			he does not have for the person who
		
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			gave him everything.
		
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			He's gonna have respect and honor for your
		
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			daughter?
		
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			Allahi,
		
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			be careful.
		
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			Many people are being fooled by doctor and
		
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			PhD and accountant and Harvard and MIT and
		
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			all this, and the dean is 0.
		
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			Remember the story I told you? And a
		
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			a very righteous,
		
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			pious man approached a girl in marriage,
		
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			but
		
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			he is not that he's okay. He can
		
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			manage. The father refused.
		
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			And
		
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			a very wealthy,
		
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			highly educated man
		
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			approached,
		
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			but he does not know anything about the
		
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			deen
		
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			and he approved.
		
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			And when the father was asked,
		
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			You Habibi, how did you approve? What did
		
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			he say?
		
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			Inshallah, Allah will guide him.
		
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			So why didn't you say about the first
		
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			one, Inshallah, Allah will give him risk?
		
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			Our our priorities are messed up, and then
		
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			we wonder,
		
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			Sheikha, getting a divorce.
		
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			You started wrong.
		
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			You started this beautiful,
		
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			amazing
		
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			new life
		
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			wrong.
		
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			You did not take by the advice of
		
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			Rasulullah shalallahu alaihi wa sallam, if a man
		
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			has deen and akhlaq, both, not deen only,
		
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			not akhlaq only,
		
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			both,
		
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			give him your daughter.
		
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			Otherwise
		
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			if I don't do that you Rasoolah what
		
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			happens?
		
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			Deep
		
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			heavy
		
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			corruption on earth.
		
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			Corruption.
		
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			We are living it. We are living this
		
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			hadith.
		
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			If
		
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			committing tatfif with a human being,
		
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			you get.
		
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			How about committing tatfif with the creator?
		
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			If with a human being, you get while,
		
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			a pit in the hellfire.
		
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			So why do we fall into this tatfif?
		
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			Why do we fall into this?
		
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			Continue the ayat.
		
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			This is the main reason why people fall
		
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			into Tazfif
		
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			because they forgot
		
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			that there will come a day and they
		
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			have to report to Allah. They forgot.
		
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			They for I'll give you an example. We
		
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			are sitting here.
		
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			Let's assume we are sitting here in this
		
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			room, and we are all taking an exam.
		
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			Okay? And Basir and Rahim are in the
		
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			other room with cameras, and Munir and all
		
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			the guys with
		
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			security, they're watching in another room.
		
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			They're watching us.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And then
		
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			I
		
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			took my phone,
		
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			and I know. We all know that being
		
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			we are being watched. I took my phone,
		
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			and I started cheating.
		
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			And then I started asking, do you know
		
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			the answer for this?
		
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			And the guys in the other room, they're
		
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			saying,
		
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			doesn't he know that you're watching?
		
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			Allah is exactly the same thing.
		
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			Don't you know that if you mistreat your
		
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			wife, mistreat your husband, mistreat your parents,
		
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			cheating in your business, don't you know
		
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			that there's a day you're gonna report?
		
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			Literally, the the security guys are sitting.
		
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			What's wrong with this guy? He knows that
		
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			we're watching. We all know that our Raqib
		
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			is watching.
		
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			So
		
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			may Allah keep us away from this
		
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			evil act of tatfif.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			strengthen our relationship with our spouses.
		
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			May Allah bring love and mercy and tranquility
		
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			between us and our spouses. May Allah fill
		
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			our homes with love and mercy. May Allah
		
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			protect our children. May Allah protect our children.
		
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			May Allah protect our children. May Allah protect
		
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			our children. May Allah keep them steadfast on
		
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			this deen. May Allah keep them steadfast on
		
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			this deen till the day they meet Allah.
		
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			May Allah keep us united in this community.
		
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			May Allah purify our hearts to one another
		
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			and make us love one another only for
		
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			his sake.
		
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			Salallahu alayhi wasalam, and I will see you
		
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			all.
		
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			Who's coming to Fajr at 6 AM tomorrow?
		
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			Who's coming to Fajr at 6 AM?
		
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			See you tomorrow.