Mohamad Baajour – Apply These 3 And Enjoy The Dunia & Akhira

Mohamad Baajour
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The speakers discuss the use of three statements during a secretive period, including the importance of fixing relationships and avoiding negative behavior. They emphasize the rewarding aspect of having a heart that inspires one's behavior and avoid damaging one's health and retirement. The speakers also touch on the topic of a woman who lost her jobs and became upset, highlighting the importance of fixing one's mind and avoiding giving too much information.

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			Our righteous predecessors, Salafi
Saleh,
		
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			when they used to be gathered
before they leave and depart from
		
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			one another, they used to tell
each other three statements, even
		
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			when they send a message to one
another from across the countries,
		
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			they used to end the message with
these three statements. What are
		
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			these three statements that the
scholars used to tell each other
		
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			and remind each other about?
		
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			They used to say, Man, asla
		
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			haslahu, Alain woman, aslaina hu
wabay, Allah, aslaina, wabana, nas
		
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			woman can at Al aqah, Akbar,
Hamma, kapha, Allah, hammadunia,
		
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			what a profound statement. If we
apply it, Wallahi, you will be
		
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			successful in the dunya in the
akhira three statements, let's
		
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			take them one by one. Whomsoever
fix
		
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			his secret private
		
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			affairs, Allah will fix his
External Affairs.
		
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			Whomsoever fix sarira is a plural
of Sir. Sir means secret. Yani,
		
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			whomsoever
		
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			focus on himself when he's alone,
		
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			when he's alone in privacy, Allah,
Subhanahu wa Taala will fix his
		
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			external Unfortunately, many of us
focus on the external. How big is
		
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			the beard? How short is the thub?
How what people think about me and
		
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			we neglect the inner but it is the
other way around. Focus on the
		
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			Amelia, the actions of the heart,
automatically the outside will be
		
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			fixed.
		
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			If you notice the seven people
under the shade of Allah,
		
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			look at their Amal, you will
notice that at least three of
		
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			them, they got that honor of being
under the shade of Allah, and
		
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			there's no shade except his shade,
because their behavior when they
		
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			are alone is unbelievable. Number
one, the first one, he gave
		
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			charity. Look how secretive the
level that his left hand does not
		
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			know what his right hand gave
secretly. And the second he was
		
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			alone with the woman that was so
gorgeous and with a high status.
		
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			And she told him, fear Allah. And
he immediately stopped. He left
		
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			that for the sake of Allah
subhanaw taala. It was one second
		
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			decision when he was alone. And
the third one wa rajulun Khala,
		
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			Allah, Subhanahu wa said that a
man was alone at night and he
		
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			remembered Allah, and his eyes
start weeping alone. That's the
		
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			secret word, and I always repeat
YAHWAH. You want to know who you
		
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			are,
		
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			how strong is your iman? What is
your status with Allah? Check your
		
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			actions when you are alone. Now in
the masjid, look at these
		
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			beautiful faces. Everybody is
pious, but when you are alone, how
		
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			do you behave when the parents are
away, when the wife is away, what
		
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			do you do when you are in a
vacation and nobody knows you? How
		
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			do you act? This is you here.
Everybody's biased. Everybody
		
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			looks great alone when you're
alone.
		
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			Subhanallah,
		
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			the more, because, you know, we
focus on what the people see, and
		
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			we neglect where is the center of
attention of Allah. Rasulallah
		
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			yang GUR, la
		
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			Yang GUR, Allah does not look at
your attire and your wealth, WADA
		
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			kin, but Allah looks at your heart
and your actions. We focus on what
		
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			the people see, and we ignore and
neglect what Allah is looking at.
		
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			This is the center of attention of
Allah. So listen carefully to this
		
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			statement, the more
		
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			the more
		
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			the heart is involved in a ibadah,
the higher the reward of that
		
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			ibadah, I will repeat
		
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			the action or the amount of reward
of any ibadah. It depends on how
		
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			much was the heart involved.
		
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			Involved in that. Ibadah, is
		
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			it clear? Let me give an example.
Two people praying.
		
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			They are both, to me as a human
being, looking they are both
		
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			praying.
		
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			One guy came because he wants to
meet somebody. He doesn't pray in
		
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			JAMA,
		
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			and the other guy made five, six
intentions before he comes. I want
		
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			to walk to the masjid with every
step has an 27 times more. I'm
		
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			going to say salaam to my
brothers, and I'm going to earn
		
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			the salah. He made all these
intentions to me. I'm looking I'm
		
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			seeing two people praying. One,
his reward is very simple, and the
		
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			other is from here to the heavens,
		
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			because he was focusing and
putting all that attention on
		
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			hushua. To me, they look the same,
but the more the heart is involved
		
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			in ibadah, the more the Ibadah is
being rewarding, and that applies
		
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			fasting, charity, any ibadah,
reading the Quran, making dua, all
		
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			of that. How much is the heart
involved in that ibadah? That will
		
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			increase the reward of the ibadah.
So the first fix your inside,
		
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			Allah will fix the outside. Second
		
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			fix, What's between you and Allah.
Allah will fix what's between you
		
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			and mankind. You
		
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			have problems at home, you have
problems at work, you have
		
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			problems in your life. You have
problems everywhere. You do not
		
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			talk to your cousin, you don't
talk to your in laws. You don't
		
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			talk to these people. You have
always have problems with others.
		
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			Fix your relationship with Allah.
Allah will fix your relationship
		
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			with everybody around you. What
does it mean? Fix your
		
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			relationship with Allah. Fix your
Salat
		
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			Allah. If you look at our salathan
		
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			Allah,
		
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			how many of us here now cannot
wait for Fajr?
		
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			Can't wait for the next Salat?
		
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			How many of us felt?
		
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			Allah, yeah, make the calm as we
want to feel, at ease, Allah,
		
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			maybe you are more worried than
before we started.
		
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			There's no feeling in the Salat.
Fix the Salat to the best of your
		
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			ability, concentrate focus as much
as you can. Fix your Siam, fix
		
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			your zakat, stay away from what
Allah has prohibited you. Want
		
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			Allah to fix your relationship
with your mother, with your
		
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			daughter,
		
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			fix your relationship with him.
Stay away from what he does not
		
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			like. You know, there's a huge
listen to the statement. There's a
		
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			huge difference between slipping
into a sin, falling into a sin,
		
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			and planning for a sin.
		
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			We all slip stuff for Allah, I
made a mistake. I I sneaked a
		
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			look.
		
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			There's a difference between
somebody passing by, what
		
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			do you call it, the gambling
machine, and he put $1 and he made
		
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			a stefar and a guy who's sitting
down in Dallas planning his trip
		
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			to Vegas, and when he's going to
do this and when he's going to do
		
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			that, there's a huge difference
between both this guy slipped and
		
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			he made a star, he moment of
weakness, and the other guy's
		
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			planning. There's a huge
difference. So stay away from what
		
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			Allah has prohibited. Allah will
fix your relationship with others.
		
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			And the last one
		
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			make the akhira, your main
concern, Allah, will take care of
		
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			all your dunya concerns.
		
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			Allah, YAHWAH, every single one of
us, if I ask them, brother, make a
		
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			list of the things that are
worrying you, Allah, every single
		
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			one of us said, Sheik, can I make
three lists?
		
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			Every one of us have so many
things, so many things. And
		
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			subhanAllah, as a matter of fact,
the last statement is very similar
		
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			to hadith of Rasulullah,
sallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			There's a hadith rasulallah,
whomsoever make the akhirah his
		
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			main concern, Allah will take care
of all his concerns. Similar, very
		
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			similar. So what does it mean?
Make the akhirah your main
		
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			concern. What does it mean
		
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			before I make any move, before I
make any decisions, before I utter
		
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			any statement, is it pleasing to
Allah? Yes, Bismillah.
		
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			Is that job pleasing to Allah,
even if it's paying $500,000
		
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			a year. Wallahi, if it's not
pleasing to Allah, refuse it. That
		
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			was just the test sent your way to
see how you're going to react
		
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			that cell that you were tempted to
make. And you know, It's haram,
		
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			but the shaitan came and said, You
give half of it to the man.
		
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			Masjid, as if Allah needs our
money in Allah, Tahir, wala,
		
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			akbal, illa Tayyip, Allah is pure,
and he only accepts what's pure,
		
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			the shaytaan whisper, give half of
it to the masjid, and you feel
		
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			good. He came and tempted you and
whispered,
		
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			make the akhira your main concern
		
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			is this major, a majoring in
encourage that jobs that it
		
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			provides. Are they pleasing to
Allah? Because you don't know how
		
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			many people, they were not very
religious, and they went to
		
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			school. And then during the
school, they became very
		
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			religious, already put invested
three, four years in Haram major.
		
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			And then do Sheik. I already
invested three, four years in this
		
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			major, and I just found out that
all the jobs from this major are
		
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			haram.
		
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			Quit Wallahi. Allah will replace
you. Allah will will give you
		
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			something better, because you left
something only for his sake. Any
		
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			statement before I say it is it
pleasing to Allah Bismillah. You
		
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			know, sometimes we, like I was
telling the brothers the other
		
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			day, we throw statements
		
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			and we do not know how damaging
they are.
		
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			So how often does your son visit
you?
		
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			That's it.
		
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			Salamani,
		
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			he threw a bomb. He made the
brother think, ah, subhanAllah,
		
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			that's it. My son was me once a
month, and he visit him. His son.
		
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			Visit him two, three times a week.
He calls his son. He fights with
		
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			him. So how much money do you
make? A shafaqat, that's it. He
		
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			did not raise you for two years.
		
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			I don't know what kind of boss we
have. He goes to the mother in
		
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			law. So how often does she invite
you over?
		
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			Allah, once every two weeks.
That's it. My daughter in law,
		
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			every day
		
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			you see, you see, you think those
statements
		
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			are they beneficial? You just
threw a poisoned arrow at someone,
		
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			and you ruined someone's life
without even you noticing, or
		
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			maybe you are noticing because you
many people, many people,
		
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			unfortunately, we're going to a
different topic now, many people,
		
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			unfortunately, they love to see
others down so they feel better,
		
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			so they try to throw and ruin your
home. So my home is safer. My home
		
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			is better. Wallahi, this is a
disease. This is a disease. So
		
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			yacht, one imagine. Look at this.
Look at this statement. Make the
		
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			akhira your concern. All I'm
concerned is the pleasure of
		
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			Allah. Allah will take care of all
my dunya concerns. Subhanallah, I
		
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			will end with this. If I ask you
right now,
		
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			what is your main concern.
		
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			How many of us, honestly, how many
of us will say I'm so concerned,
		
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			whether that's Salat, I just
prayed was accepted or not,
		
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			zero
		
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			every night, Sheik, I'm getting, I
don't know. I'm going to the
		
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			hellfire. I'm going to Jannah.
Very concerned. Yash, I'm very
		
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			concerned that the Hajj just came
with was it accepted, or was it
		
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			not? I'm very concerned. Is my
mother pleased with me? Did she
		
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			die? Did my father die and he was
pleased with me? This is the
		
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			concerns are always matters that
are pleasing to Allah. Azza wa
		
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			jal.
		
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			This is when the akhira is my main
concern. My main concern, if we
		
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			put all these three together, what
is the first one?
		
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			What's the first one?
		
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			Fix your secret. Allah will fix
your outside automatically. You
		
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			fix your secret automatically. The
beard will come automatically. All
		
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			the other stuff that people
Yahshua, Nas wala yachum. They
		
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			fear the people, and they do not
fear Allah, even though Allah is
		
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			with them. Second,
		
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			fix your relationship with Allah.
Allah will fix your relationship
		
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			with others. And third, make the
akhira your main concern. Allah
		
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			will take your take care of all
your dunya concerns. May Allah
		
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			make us from the people who listen
and apply. May Allah, Subhanahu wa
		
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			make our last deeds, our best
deeds and our last words. La ilaha
		
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			illallah
		
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			in
		
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			Al muslimen Muslim call mutant.
		
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			Swadhina
		
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			was
		
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			the Kiran law
		
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			down
		
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			your.