Mohamad Baajour – Anger The Fire Within – Shaytan Hates This
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The series of disconnected sentences and phrases discussed include a woman claiming to be a woman and a man calling her a cow, negative emotions, sall campaigns, and "unsure" messages. The speakers emphasize the importance of controlling anger and avoiding negative behavior. They also offer a place for families to stay and encourage gentle gentle behavior.
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LAA ILAHA ILAYH Infusina
wa min sayi'ati a'malina man yahdihi Allah
fa la mudhilla lah wa man yudhlil fa
la hadiya lah wa ashhadu an la ilaha
illa Allah wahdahu la sharika lah wa ashhadu
an muhammadan abduhu wa rasuluh amma ba'd yaqulu
subhanahu wa ta'ala fi kitabihi al kareem
Ya ayyuha alladhina amanu ittaqullaha haqqa tuqatih wa
la tamutunna illa wa antum muslimun Ya ayyuha
an-nas ittaqu rabbakumu alladhi khalaqakum min nafsin
wahida wa khalaqa minha zawjaha wa batha minhuma
rijalan kathiran wa nisa'a wa ittaqullaha alladhi
tasa'alun bihi wal arham inna Allaha kana
alaykum raqiba Ya ayyuha alladhina amanu ittaqullaha wa
quluu qawlan sadeeda yuslih lakum a'malakum wa yaghfir
lakum dhunubakum wa min yuti'illaha wa rasulah
faqad faza fawzan azeema amma ba'd fa inna
asdaqa al hadith kitabullah wa khayra al hadi
hadi muhammadin sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wa sharra
al umur muhdathatuha wa kulla muhdathatin bid'ah
wa kulla bid'atin dalalah wa kulla dalalatin
finnaar thumma amma ba'd My dear, beloved, respected
brothers and sisters, I ask Allah azza wa
jal to make our last deeds, our best
deeds, and our last words, la ilaha illallah.
He had an argument with his wife.
In the middle of the argument, he took
a plate and he threw it at his
wife.
The wife ducked.
The plate hit the daughter in the neck.
Six, seven years old.
She was not harmed badly, but the next
day when she went to school and the
teacher saw the mark on her neck so
the young daughter innocently told everything that happened.
They came to the house, took all the
children, and they are currently living with a
non-Muslim family.
A brother, I was leaving the masjid and
I wanted to drop him home, going to
his home.
He said, no, no, no, sheikh, don't make
a right, keep going straight.
I said, what happened, you moved?
He said, no.
Last night, we had a major argument with
my wife and I uttered the divorce.
I said, inna lillah wa inna ilayhi raji
'oon.
He said, sheikh, this is not the problem.
The problem is, this is my third divorce.
A young man had an argument with his
father.
He pushed him, the father fell down the
stairs, broke his arm, took him to the
hospital.
And I can go on and on and
on about drastic stories, about the danger of
anger.
Anger.
It's a powerful emotion that rages through the
person creating a desire of revenge or a
desire to strike the object of anger.
How many homes have been broken because of
anger?
How many wars erupted because of anger?
How many friends you lost because of anger?
How many ties of kinship are cut because
of anger?
How many words of kufr are uttered because
of anger?
He told the truth when he said, that
anger, the beginning of it is madness and
the end of it is regret.
And one of our righteous salaf, he said,
أَقْرَبْ مَا يَكُونِ الْعَبْدِ إِلَىٰ غَضَبِ الرَّبِّ وَهُوَ
غَاضِبٌ The closest a person to the wrath
and the anger of Allah is when the
person is angry.
Some people say, brother, don't come close to
me, don't be in front of me when
I'm angry.
If you translate this in an Islamic term,
that means you are saying, brother, Iblis is
my best friend.
The shaitan is my best friend.
When we are angry, the shaitan is extremely
happy.
Because you lose focus in your salat.
You lose peace at home.
You lose peace at work.
And the shaitan takes over.
If you look at yourself in the mirror,
when you're angry, you will not recognize yourself.
Brothers and sisters, the hard part is not
to get angry.
The easy part is to get angry.
I yelled at you, I screamed at you,
I cursed you.
The easy part is to curse back.
The hard part is to control your anger.
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when he walked
into the masjid, and he saw the sahaba
wrestling.
He asked him, do you know who is
the strongest among you?
They said, Ya Rasulullah, the one who beats
everybody in wrestling.
He said, alayhis salatu was salam, ليس الشديد
بالسرعة No, the strongest one among you is
not the one who beats everybody in wrestling.
The strongest one among you is the one
who controls himself when he's angry.
Brothers and sisters, we all get angry.
And that is not what we're talking about.
Anger is a feeling.
Just like you see something sad.
You cannot tell the guy, don't be sad.
Anger is a feeling.
We're talking about acting upon the anger.
Leashing your tongue with all kind of vulgarity
when you're angry.
Letting your limbs take over and throwing everything
around you when you're angry.
Acting upon the anger.
Anger is a human feeling.
It's about what do you do with that
anger.
That is what we're talking about.
But, my brothers and sisters, how did Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam act when he was
in a situation that requires real anger?
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was distributing the
booties of war.
And a Bedouin came and grabbed him from
his collar to the level that it left
mark on his neck.
This is not your money.
This is not your father's money.
Give me from the booties of war.
Umar put his hand on the sword to
cut his head off.
This is not a way to treat Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
Immediately, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Calm down,
Ya Umar.
Calm down, Ya Umar.
Da'ahu.
Fa inna li sahibi al-haqqi maqala.
Everyone who has a right, he has the
right to express what he wants.
And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he gave
him from the booties of war.
Umar bin Abdul Aziz.
Umar bin Abdul Aziz.
The ruler of the Muslim empire.
He was ruling 21 what we call countries
right now.
One time at night, he walked into a
masjid.
And by mistake, without noticing, he stepped on
a person that was sleeping.
The person who was sleeping screamed.
And he said, Are you crazy?
Immediately, the guard of Umar bin Abdul Aziz
took the sword.
How could you talk like this to Amir
al-Mu'mineen?
Immediately, Umar radiyallahu anhu, he said, Calm down,
what happened?
He asked me, And I said, No.
So why are you getting angry?
I'm not majnoon.
Subhanallah.
My brothers and sisters, The true believer, is
like a tree full of fruits.
When you hit them with a rock, it
gives you a fruit.
The true believer is like a fruitful tree.
When you hit it with a rock, it
gives you a fruit.
And this is exactly what happened with the
Imam al-Shaabi.
Imam al-Shaabi, one time, a man was
cursing him.
Loud.
Accusing him of things that is not true.
And the man was furious.
And Imam al-Shaabi was very calm.
He said, Did you finish?
He said, I finished.
He said, If what you said about me
is true, May Allah forgive me.
And if it's not true, May Allah forgive
you.
Allahu Akbar.
What kind of manners is this?
My brothers and sisters, One of the governors,
He told his minister, his right hand man,
He said, I'm gonna give you this piece
of paper.
Every time you see me get angry, make
sure you give it to me.
What was written in that paper?
Woe to the ruler of the earth from
the ruler of the sky.
Remember me when you get angry.
I'll remember you when I get angry.
Allahu Akbar.
He wrote down, this governor, Woe to the
ruler of the earth from the ruler of
the heavens.
Remember Allah.
When you're angry, He will remember you when
He's angry.
My brothers and sisters, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam,
Just like he gave us everything we need
in this life to be better human beings,
to be better Muslims, He also gave us
tips how to cure our anger.
Because when we are angry, how many times
you regretted every single word you uttered when
you're angry.
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam, One time he was
sitting with the sahabi, and he saw two
people fighting, arguing to the level the hadith
said, their veins were bulging out of anger.
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam looked at the sahabi
next to him, and he said, Inni, I
know the word.
If that man said it, all the anger
will disappear.
He said, What is it, Ya Rasulullah?
He said, A'udhu billahi minash shaytanir rajim.
Because shaytan took over, and you're asking the
owner of the shaytan to get rid of
him.
And if you see two people fighting, you
yourself, from the sideline, start saying, A'udhu
billahi minash shaytanir rajim.
Because many times the people who are fighting,
they're not gonna remember to say, A'udhu
billahi minash shaytanir rajim.
Second, Qala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam, Itha ghadiba
ahadukum fal yaskut.
When one of you gets angry, let him
zip it.
Be quiet.
Be quiet.
Someone pressed all your buttons.
Do not reply right away.
Don't ever send a text message when you're
angry.
Do not ever reply to an email when
you're angry.
Do not answer a phone call from a
person that you have problem with when you
are angry.
If you write down that email, and don't
send it, and read it back in an
hour or so, you'll say, Alhamdulillah, I did
not send it.
So when you are angry, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wasallam, who's giving these advices?
Not a master in anger management.
The master of mankind.
Be quiet.
Count to ten.
If your anger is very high, count to
20, 30, 50.
You will see that your anger calm down.
And my sister, if you see your husband
angry, do not instigate, In kunt ragil talla
'ni.
If you're a man, divorce me.
Don't ever say these statements when your husband
is angry.
And if he's quiet, don't let that make
you furious, because he is practicing a sunnah.
He's practicing a sunnah.
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam said, When you get
angry, just be quiet.
Do not reply immediately.
My brothers and sisters, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam,
He told us, If you got angry and
you're standing up, sit down.
Change positions.
When I'm standing and I can still fight
and argue and maybe punch, but when I
sit down, it gets less.
And he said, If you're sitting down and
you got angry, lie down.
How much damage can you do when you're
lying down?
How much damage can you do when you're
lying down?
May Allah make us from the people who
listen and apply.
قُلُوا قَوْلِ هَذَا أَسْتَغْفِرُوا اللَّهِ فَاسْتَغْفِرُوهُ إِنَّهُ هُوَ
الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ بِسْمِ
اللَّهِ وَحْدَهِ وَالصَّلَاةَ وَالسَّلَامُ عَلَى مَنْ لَا نَبِيَّ
بَعْدَهِ Wallahi, my brothers and sisters, this topic
was not just inspired because I have nothing
to talk about.
Because of what I'm hearing that's happening at
homes, in our communities, at least I would
say two to three times a week, I
get the complaint either from the husband or
from the wife of what's happening at home.
And one of the main reasons is anger.
One of the ways to control the anger
is to remember, is to remember that this
is an advice from Rasulullah ﷺ.
When a man came to him and he
said, Ya Rasulullah, advise me.
He said, لا تَغْضَبْ Okay Rasulullah, I got
this one, give me another advice.
He said, لا تَغْضَبْ I got it Rasulullah,
give me another one.
لا تَغْضَبْ Does Rasulullah ﷺ have nothing to
say?
He is the most eloquent human being ever
created.
Why does he have to repeat the same
advice three times?
Because he knows that any danger originates from
anger.
Remember the rewards of controlling the anger.
Rasulullah ﷺ, Abu Darda came to him, and
he asked him a question that's in the
mind of every Muslim, every true believer.
He said, Ya Rasulullah, guide me to a
amal that will lead me to Jannah.
He said, لا تَغْضَبْ وَلَكَ الْجَنَّةِ Guide me
to a amal that will lead me to
Jannah.
He said, don't get angry, and Jannah is
yours.
Another great reward.
قَالَ عَلَيْهِ الصَّلَاةُ وَالسَّلَامُ مَنْ كَذَمَ غَيْظًا مَلَأَ
اللَّهُ قَلْبَهُ رِضًا يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ Whomsoever control his
anger, because sometimes you're angry and you cannot
do anything about it.
I'm talking about a person, he's in charge,
he's the father, he's the imam, he's the
president, he's the king, he can do damage.
And he controlled his anger.
Rasulullah ﷺ said, Allah will fill his heart
with rida, with pleasure.
He will be pleased on the day of
judgment.
What does being pleased on the day of
judgment mean?
جَنَّاتٌ تَجْرِي مِن تَحْتِهَا الْأَنْهَارُ Remember Allah if
you get angry.
أَسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهِ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهِ لَا حَوْلَ
وَلَا قُوَّةَ إِلَّا بِاللَّهِ أَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ
الْقُلُوبِ When you remember Allah Azza wa Jal,
the hearts feel at ease.
Remember that it is one of the characteristics
of the best people.
Controlling anger is one of the characteristics of
the Muttaqeen, the pious ones.
When Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, وَسَارِعُوا
إِلَىٰ مَغْفِرَةٍ مِّن رَّبِّكُمْ وَجَنَّةٍ عَرْضُهَا السَّمَاوَاتُ وَالْأَرْضُ
Hasten to the forgiveness of Allah and to
huge Jannah, as big as the heavens and
the earth.
It has been prepared for the Muttaqeen.
اللهم اجعلنا منهم What is their characteristics ya
Allah?
What are their characteristics?
الَّذِينَ يُنفِقُونَ فِي السَّرَّاءِ وَالضَّرَّاءِ They spend when
they have money or when things are tight.
وَالْكَاغِنِينَ الْغَيْظِ And the one who controls their
anger.
وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ And the one who pardon
others.
وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ And Allah subhanahu wa ta
'ala loves the ones who do good.
اللهم اجعلنا من المحسنين Ja'far al-Sadiq,
his jariah came to give him wudu.
She brought him water for wudu.
As she's putting the wudu, she spilled the
whole water on him.
So he was about to scream and get
angry.
She said, وَالْكَاغِنِينَ الْغَيْظِ He said, I control
my anger.
وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ I forgive you.
وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ Go, you are a free
slave.
This is how the salaf used to stop
when the ayat of Allah are being recited.
My brothers and sisters, concealing our anger is
a sign of iman.
Remember this hadith.
It's in Bukhari.
Rasulullah ﷺ said, إِنَّ أَبْغَضَ الرِّجَالِ إِلَى اللَّهِ
أَلْأَلَدِّ الْخَصْمِ The most despicable people in the
sight of Allah are the ones who are
ruthless argumentative.
They're always arguing.
They're always fighting.
Did you hear the beginning?
The most despicable in the sight of Allah.
Who wants to be among these people?
To control the anger, of course Rasulullah ﷺ,
the one who taught us a dua for
everything.
Is there a dua for controlling the anger?
قال ﷺ, Say, أَسْأَلُكَ كَلِمَةِ الْحَقِّ فِي الْغَضَبِ
وَالْرِضَةِ Ya Allah, I ask you to make
me say the truth, say the haq when
I'm angry, or when I am pleased.
My brothers and sisters, who do not have
any problem with anger, الحمد لله رب العالمين
Rasulullah ﷺ he said, إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ
فِي الْأَمْرِ كُلِّهِ Allah loves gentleness, kindness in
all matters.
Continue controlling your anger, and بِإِذْنِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى
you'll be among the people whom Allah loves.
My brothers and sisters, do not allow your
anger to blind you.
Most of the time when we are angry,
the people that we hurt the most are
the most people that we love.
The most people we hurt are the people
who loves us the most.
And you will make them live around you
in fear of your anger.
They feel like they are walking on eggshells
when you are present.
Is this what you want in your household?
Is that the household that Rasulullah ﷺ told
us to have?
No, ya akhi.
Be rafiq, be gentle and be kind, and
work hard.
Whomsoever sincerely tries to work hard on their
anger, Allah ﷻ will make it easy for
him.
And then finally, there is a praiseworthy anger.
There is a good anger.
When you get angry that your brothers and
sisters are slaughtered all over the world, and
no one is doing anything.
When you see babies shattered, as a Muslim,
as a true believer, you get angry.
So not every anger is bad, is evil.
When Rasulullah ﷺ, he only got angry.
He never got angry for any dunya matter.
He only got angry when the limits of
Allah have been violated.
And that is the praiseworthy anger.
May Allah ﷻ make us from the people
who control their anger.
May Allah fill all our homes with love
and peace and mercy and tranquility.
May Allah ﷻ protect our children from any
harm.
O Allah, help our brothers in Gaza.
O Allah, make their feet firm.
O Allah, accept them among the martyrs.
O Lord of the worlds.
O Allah, accept them among the martyrs.
O Merciful.
O Lord, O Generous.
Help our brothers in Lebanon, in Yemen, in
Sudan, in Pakistan, in Bangladesh, in India, in
China, in Burma, in Iraq, and everywhere.
Ameen, O Lord of the worlds.
And may Allah ﷻ bless our Prophet Muhammad
ﷺ and all his family and companions.
Wa qumu ila salatikum.
Please brothers, come from the hallway and the
two rooms on the side and fill up
the main hall.
Look down, make sure foot to foot, shoulder
to shoulder.
Close all the gaps, heels on the line.
Sisters, please do the same.
Sisters, please do not leave any gaps.
May Allah reward you.
allahu akbar, allahu
akbar, allahu akbar, allahu
akbar alhamdulillahi rabbil alamin ar-rahman ar
-raheem maliki yawm al-deen iyyaka na'budu
wa iyyaka nasta'een ihdina al-sirata al
-mustaqeem sirata al-lazeena an'amta alayhim ghayri
al-maghdoobi alayhim walad daa ameen
qul huwa allahu ahad, allahu assamad lam yalid
wa lam yulad wa lam yakun lahu kufuwan
ahad allahu akbar sami
'a allahu liman hamidah allahu akbar, allahu
akbar, allahu akbar allahu
akbar assalamu
alaykum wa rahmatullah assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullah assalamu
alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh inshallah by the
time they bring the janaza i just want
to let you know inshallah we have a
few spots left in our umrah trip in
january if anybody is interested please let me
know so we have a janaza of a
2 year old boy please make a way
so ya khwan since the deceased is a
young child the dua will change we do
not say may allah forgive him because he
is nothing rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
told us that the pen has been lifted
from three kinds of people and one of
them is the young person until they hit
puberty so what do we make, what dua
do we make we ask allah subhana wa
ta'ala to make it heavy in the
scale of the parents we ask allah subhana
wa ta'ala to make him shafia for
his parents wallahi i cannot imagine or know
of any calamity worse than losing a child
so please make a sincere dua to allah
subhana wa ta'ala give the parents and
the grandparents the patience rasulallah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam he said that if a child died
at this age he would stand at the
door of jannah if the parents were patient
and he would tell allah ya allah i
will not enter until you bring my parents
so i advise the parents to be very
patient and remember that all our children are
an amanah, a gift from allah subhana wa
ta'ala that he can take whenever he
wants we believe in the hakim, we believe
in the alim and remember my brother and
my sister that the one who took your
son is the most merciful don't ever think
that you have more mercy than allah don't
ever think that you have more mercy than
allah azza wa jal salatul janazah is four
takbirah after the first takbirah we recite surah
al fatiha after the second takbirah we say
allahumma salli ala muhammad wa ala ali muhammad
the same durood that we say in the
salat all the way till the end after
the third takbirah you make a dua that
allah subhana wa ta'ala will give the
family the patience and after the fourth takbirah
we'll make salam on one side inshallah to
revive the sunnah assalamu
alaikum wa rahmatullah inshallah the burial will be
in farmersville if anybody would like to go
and get the ajr may allah reward you
and may allah bless you again please keep
the family in your dua inshallah you can
put it outside anyway let's put it outside
they're here