Mirza Yawar Baig – No worries

Mirza Yawar Baig
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The speakers discuss the concept of worry and anxiety, stressing the importance of only using it when necessary to take care of oneself and avoiding worrying too much. They also emphasize the importance of living by one's desire and having a strong relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala for a peaceful future. The conversation ends with a discussion about death and worshipping Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to achieve a peaceful life.
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My brothers and sisters,

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one of the biggest killers and one of

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the biggest problematic things in life

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is worry.

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And worrying

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is

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somebody

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think about it like this. Somebody who is

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facing a tiger

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is not worrying.

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Right? He's not worrying at all.

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He is thinking of how do I get

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out of this or

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how do I prepare to die? He's not

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worried. Somebody who has not seen the tiger,

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who's not facing the tiger, but he thinks

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the tiger is somewhere around

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and he feels vulnerable.

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That person is worried.

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So when we are worrying, it means that

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the thing that we fear is not in

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front of us. It is somewhere in the

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future.

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And unlike the case of a tiger, which

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might actually be real,

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in our case, the things that we worry

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about are not even real.

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Most of these are a creation of our

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imagination.

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For example, we worry that the economy will

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collapse. What is the point of that worry?

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What is the meaning of that worry? What

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can we do to stop the economy from

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collapsing or whatever? Right? So there's there's no

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way in which we can deal with that

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worry. We worry.

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We worry about

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what will happen to my children.

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When they grow up, what's the kind of

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world that they will face?

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What can you do about that? We don't

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look at that and say, how can I

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prepare my children to face a world which

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I know nothing about? Instead, we worry about

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what will the world be like.

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We worry about,

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our own economic future, for example. Right? My

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business will succeed, but will I lose my

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job? Will this happen, that happen?

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The only thing that worry does is

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it weakens you.

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It weakens you. It drags you down.

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It takes away your strength and ability,

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to

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face

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difficulty.

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And,

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it it blows things out of proportion.

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It makes things

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seem to be bigger than what they are.

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Now,

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what is the actual reality of something? We

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don't know because this is in the future.

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So,

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he says, do not carry the worries of

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this life because this is for Allah.

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Why are you worried? You did not create

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this world. You did not create yourself.

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Allah

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created the world. Allah

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created you.

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Allah said, I will take care of you.

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Allah

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said

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I do not ask you for

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we are the ones who provide you

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with risk.

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Allah said

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Allah said, truly and barely Allah

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he is.

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He is the provider,

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the greatest provider,

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and he provides

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with his strength and his power

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and many such as in the Quran.

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So

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he says, do not carry the worries of

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this life because this is for Allah. Then

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he says, do not carry the worries of

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sustenance

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because it is from Allah.

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Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala said,

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Allah said, say my rub my Allah my

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rub is the one who

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expands your provision or constricts it,

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and most people do not know. So, therefore,

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we know that our sustenance

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is decided by Allah,

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has been written by Allah for us and

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has been decided and written long before we

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were born.

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Right?

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Time has no meaning in the

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world of the souls, in the Alamo or

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Wa. So I won't say this many years,

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that many years, Allah was best, but definitely

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written before our time.

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So therefore,

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he says, do not worry about that

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because it is from Allah.

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And do not carry the anxiety for the

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future because it is in the hands of

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Allah.

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Again, something which

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is self evident, which is obvious, but we

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unfortunately don't seem to,

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see that and we don't seem to understand

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that.

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So, therefore,

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it is in the hands of Allah.

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The future only Allah knows.

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We don't know, and Allah

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has not told us.

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So don't worry about it. Carry only one

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thing.

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And now he comes to what is it,

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therefore, what must you do? He said, do

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not carry the worries of this life. Do

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not carry the worries of sustenance and do

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not carry

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anxiety for the future.

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He says, carry one thing only.

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How to please Allah?

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That's it.

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How can I please Allah?

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If you carry that one thing,

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in your life,

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then

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if you please Allah

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Allah

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will please you

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And if he pleases you,

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you will be

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fulfilled,

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you will be enriched.

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If Allah

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is pleased with you, Allah's

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displeasure will be felt by the whole world.

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We have the famous hadith

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of, Rasool Salam who said that when Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala loves 1 of his

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slaves,

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Allah calls

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and says, I love so and so, so

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you also love him.

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So Jair Islam says, I love this person

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because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala loves him and

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he announces in the heavens that Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala loves so and so and remember

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it's your name being spelled there, spelled out

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and announced by none other than Jibreel

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on the hook of Allah.

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So this is announced to the heavens that

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Allah

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loves so and so, and you love him

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also and

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said,

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all

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the beings of the heavens love this person

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and this love for this person is also

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established

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among the beings, among the people who live

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on earth.

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And the converse is equally true. If Allah

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hates somebody,

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then Allah

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announces this and this hatred for this person

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is established

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in the heavens and on the earth. Now

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what is it that determines

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whether

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we are in 1 or the other?

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Simple.

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Our actions.

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So if we focus our life

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on, I want to please Allah,

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this is the meaning of taqwa. Taqwa is

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the desire to please Allah and to live

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our lives in a way where Allah has

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pleased with us. When we carry that in

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our lives

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and we want to become,

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live by taqwa,

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then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala establishes

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tawakul in our lives. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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establishes

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tawakul in our hearts. He establishes

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reliance and trust on him alone in our

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hearts.

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When there is reliance and trust for Allah

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alone in our hearts,

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then all worries, all fears,

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all anxieties,

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all stress disappears.

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No worries, no stress.

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That's the whole beauty.

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That is the whole beauty of this thing.

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That if we,

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live our lives like this,

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then

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we will be

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free from all of these bodies.

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Now,

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therefore, final principle

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to live by that Ibn al Qayyim tells

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us, be good even if you don't receive

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good,

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not because

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of others, but because Allah loves those who

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do good.

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Rasool Rasool Rasoolam said, be just to those

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who are unjust to you.

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This is the this is the,

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you know, the the definition of of ehsan,

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if you think about it.

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To be just

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to those who are unjust to you.

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Somebody did not treat you well,

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but you treat them well.

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Not because of anything else, but because you

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want to please Allah

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And that is why,

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I want to close with this beautiful,

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story of Hassan Masir Antirale again,

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which I have mentioned many times before.

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Somebody asked him,

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they said, what is

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the

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secret of your taqwa

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and

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your,

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the peace and harmony that seems to be

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in your life.

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You seem to be so content and so,

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you know, at peace.

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They said, what is the secret of that?

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So he said, there are 4 things that

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I have understood.

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Four things that I have understood and I

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believe in, and these are marked.

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He said, first,

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that my risk,

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nobody else can take. What Allah has written

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for me, nobody else can take that or

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eat that.

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So he said, therefore, my heart is content

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with regard to my sustenance. I'm not worried

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about my substance.

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He said, the second thing that I've understood

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is that

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Allah created me for a purpose, and that

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is to be to to worship him. And

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this nobody else can do on my behalf.

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Nobody else can do my salah for me.

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Nobody else can fast on my behalf and

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so on. So I have to do my

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own Ibadat. I have to do my own

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worship. And this is what Allah

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created me for. So therefore,

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he said, I focus on that, on worshiping

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Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala. He said, 3rd thing that I

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have understood and which has taken root in

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my heart is that Allah

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is watching me and knows me

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247

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Because

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Allah said,

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He is with you wherever you are. So

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if I am in something good, Allah is

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with me. If I am in something evil,

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Allah is also with me. And how ashamed

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would I

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be to do something which Allah dislikes

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knowing that he's with me?

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So he said, I make sure that I

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do not do anything

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which allow I'd be displeased with. And he

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said, the 4th thing

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that I have understood

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and that has taken root in my heart

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is that death is waiting for me.

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That death is waiting for me and one

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day I will meet Allah and so therefore

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I

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prepare for that meeting with Allah

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Now think about this.

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What

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a completely and totally

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beautiful

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piece of advice this is.

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And we ask Allah

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to help us to

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follow the advice of these

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great people, our

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we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala therefore

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to give us this Insha'Allah

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and,

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help us to live our lives in a

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way where Allah is pleased with us.

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