Mirza Yawar Baig – How to achieve your Life Goal #2

Mirza Yawar Baig
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The speaker is giving advice to the caller on how to measure their success in achieving their goals. They suggest using a notebook and pen to write goals for the day, analyzing goals and metrics every day, and setting metrics for each goal. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of setting metrics for performance appraisals and assessment every day to determine the best approach for the caller.
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We spoke about discipline, and

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I hope that is clear.

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We come to the next

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step in,

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realizing

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and achieving our life goal, and that is

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to

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keep track of

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our day.

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And I'm gonna teach you a

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very

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quick and small and very simple but very

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powerful

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way through that,

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and that is

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to

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keep a notebook.

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Just get a plain notebook. Now, again, when

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I say notebook, I don't mean any digital

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thing. I've got nothing against digital things, but

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there is,

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psychologically

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speaking,

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there is a power in the written word,

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which is written by hand.

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So get a notebook and a pen

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and write.

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This notebook, what you should do

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is

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on the left side,

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the left page,

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that will be your page of

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goals

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for the day.

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And on the right side

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will be your page

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of achievement of those goals.

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So left side is the goal, and right

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side is the achievement of those goals.

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So now take this,

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book,

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and

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every day,

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before you go to bed,

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write down

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3 goals.

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Never more than 3.

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Once you're finished with 3, then you can

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go and write more if you like,

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but

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at

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one time, only 3.

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Three goals

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in order of priority.

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Most important, next important, next important.

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Every day.

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So do not go to sleep until you

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have written down 3 goals

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in order of priority.

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Once you have written those 3 goals,

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then you go to sleep.

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And

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next day,

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before you go to sleep,

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you analyze those 3 goals.

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And you say these are the 3 goals

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that I wrote

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yesterday

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and today.

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What of these did I achieve?

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Did I achieve them? Did I not achieve

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them? Did I partially achieve them?

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What happened with my

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goals?

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This is very, very important

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that you write your 3 goals every day.

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And in the

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night before you go to bed,

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you analyze that and say,

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how did I do with these goals?

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What was the level of my

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achievement?

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So this is a very important exercise, which

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I

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strongly advocate

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that

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you do every day. As you can see,

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it's a very simple thing. It's nothing complicated

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about it.

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Just a notebook, and you're writing this.

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Now you might come to a situation where

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one day you have written the walls down,

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but when you look at your in the

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evening,

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you say, well, you know, I,

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I didn't do too well. Doesn't matter. That's

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a that's a wake up call.

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Nothing to despair about. Wake up call.

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Just make sure that

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you don't do the same thing the next

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day.

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Make sure that you do the right thing

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the following day. Right? So this is very

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important to me.

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Second thing is for each of those goal

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that you write,

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create metrics.

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I think I mentioned this before.

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The guy who

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invented the 6 sigma

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quality standard was a man called Michael Hadi,

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m I k e l. That's how he

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spelled his name. Michael

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Harry.

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He worked for Motorola,

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and he created the 6 sigma,

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quality standard.

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On a side note, the 6 sigma quality

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standard

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operates on the principle

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that you cannot measure

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how well you did something,

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but what you can measure

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is the number of mistakes.

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So

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now imagine this. If I

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tell you that I have a business,

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I have an activity at which

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I am 99%

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successful,

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99%

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good.

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And I asked you, what do you think?

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I mean, do you think this is,

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am I doing it well? Do you think

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this is good? I'm sure you will say,

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of course, 99% good is fantastic.

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But give me let me explain that to

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you with double 6 sigma.

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99%

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means

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scale it,

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99%

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is 10,000 mistakes per million.

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99%

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is 10,000 mistakes

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per million because it's one mistake per 100,

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which is 10,000

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mistakes

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per million.

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Six sigma

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is 3.4

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mistakes

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per million.

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Compare 99%

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with 6 sigma, 99% is 10,000 mistakes per

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million. Six sigma

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is 3.4

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mistakes

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per million.

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Now if you are flying

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in a plane

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at 30,000 feet elevations

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and somebody tells you that

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these engines in this plane

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were built by such and such a company,

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which,

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operates at

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99%

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good, 99%

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success.

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What will you feel? 10,000 mistakes per million?

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Which means for every 1,000,000 miles,

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these engines can fill

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10000 times.

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Not a very comforting thought. Right?

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So 3.4

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mistakes per million compared to 10,000 mistakes per

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million. This is the difference between 6 sigma

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and

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99%.

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Now why am I saying that to you?

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Because

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this is the power of,

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the power of,

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metrics

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of measurement.

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Unless we measure,

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we don't know what what is the

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level of efficiencies

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of ourselves and our actions

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and our operation. So it's very critical

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to measure.

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So set metrics for each one of your

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goals.

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Whatever your goals were for the for the

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the three goals for the day, metrics,

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which will tell you how

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you should be doing at those goals.

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And, then when you do your assessment

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in the night,

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you are going to be,

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looking at your goals in the context

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of those metrics,

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and you can then,

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you know, see

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what was the

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performance

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and how you did with this.

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Money.

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So this is very, very

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important to do.

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Goals,

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metrics,

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and assessment

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every day.

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If you do this,

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you will find that

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your time will never be wasted.

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You will be occupied in,

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in actual real goal achievement,

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which you can measure and which you, you

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know, is you feel nice about that. You

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don't need any

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external affirmation.

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You have your own figures and numbers.

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And especially

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for

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those in the corporate world and so forth,

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this is an excellent way also

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of

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helping

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your managers

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do your own performance

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appraisal and assessment, which is what they will

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be.

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Yes. It is.

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So your managers will

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to help them do your own performance assessment.

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Because many times people complain. They say, oh,

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you know, I did all this work. My

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manager never acknowledges anything,

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and, my marriage is against me and so

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on. My submission is,

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I don't know if your marriage is against

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you or not, but it would be very

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difficult for your manager

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to,

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ignore and not acknowledge

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your work if you have a

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daily,

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assessment report of your work. So all you

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need to do if you feel that your

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manager is

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ignoring you or, is is discounting your work

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is show him your daily assessment book

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and say, this is what I have recorded

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for myself

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every single day.

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So try that, and,

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it it works fantastically well. Remember one thing

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about

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whatever I say to you guys,

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which is

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that it's like, you know, in my childhood,

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I used to d read Louis L'Amour,

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books, western

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Louis Lamour books that I write, not just

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I don't know, but I loved reading them.

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He's one of the one of my favorite

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writers,

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writes fantastically well.

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He had a statement. He said, if I

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tell you about a stream,

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it is there, and the water is good

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to drink.

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Now I say the same thing about anything

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that I teach.

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If I'm teaching you, it means I have

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tried it, and it works.

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If I try something and it does not

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work, I will never teach it.

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So take my word for it. All you

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need to do is to make some effort.

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But what I'm teaching you is

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100%

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guaranteed

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that this would work, and,

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just try it. And, of course, keep your

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comments coming, questions coming.

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We'll try and give you as many answers

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as we can,

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and,

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I I appreciate the questions, especially because it

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helps me to think in areas which I,

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may not have thought of,

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you know, on my own. Thank you very

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much.

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