Mirza Yawar Baig – How do you teach Islam practically

Mirza Yawar Baig
AI: Summary © The importance of learning and learning in personal development is emphasized, along with the need for monitoring and correction in a structured and compassionate way. The speaker also discusses the challenges of teaching Islam and the importance of partnering with parents in raising children. The speaker emphasizes the need for differentiation in teaching, taking risks, and learning within a safe way.
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My brothers and sisters,

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sometime a couple of days ago I said

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that Islam

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was not sent to be taught academically

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but sent to be taught practically.

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And that is

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the whole secret of the power of Islam

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as Rasoolullah

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taught it

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and what has happened to it since then

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when we have been now trying to teach

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Islam

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in a way that has literally,

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which is exactly the same as we teach

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any other subject in our schools,

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which is academically.

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And then we test,

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the students'

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memories, really, because

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we are not testing knowledge. We are not

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testing their understanding.

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We are not,

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you know, by by any means testing,

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their application

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of,

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the religion whether

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they can apply it in their lives or

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not.

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We're just testing how much of what we

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fed them the data

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information. How much of that do they return

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reach retain

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and how much of that can they

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regurgitate on the day of the exam,

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Which is completely completely useless.

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Having said that,

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is it necessary to assess

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the effectiveness of teaching

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and

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the depth of learning

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and the ability to use the knowledge that

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was imparted?

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Of course,

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To know

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that is critical,

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both for our own

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ongoing,

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ongoing,

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you know, modification

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necessary of,

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our teaching methods.

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And to ensure that at the end of

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the day,

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having spent all the time and energy and

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effort teaching something that,

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it results in something beneficial

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because people can actually apply it.

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Now this is where we fall apart.

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The reason for that is that this is

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a very

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time consuming

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and a very,

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1 on 1,

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physically demanding task in that sense.

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And that is why

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this whole this terminology

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when we say

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it takes a whole village

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to raise a child,

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you know, we like to bandy about these

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these statements.

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Question, I mean, I asked myself, do we

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really understand

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half the stuff we talk about? And my

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guess is we don't. So when we say,

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raise the needs the whole village, did we

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ask ourselves why do you need the whole

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village?

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Right? Because we have a education system

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where not only do we not have a

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whole village for 1 child,

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we have the entire village being taught by

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1 person because this is our schooling system.

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Our schooling system is that each class

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has 15,

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20, 30, 40,

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in in India, at least I know 50,

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60 students.

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And, 1 single teacher.

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So now on the other hand, you're saying

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that,

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you know, you need a whole village to

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teach 1 child.

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The reason is

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the difference of that. When you have a

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whole village teaching 1 child, you create a

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certain

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level and quality of,

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product. And when you and when you have,

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30, 40, 50, 60 children in 1 class

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with 1 teacher, you create a different

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quality of product.

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The

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reason you need

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so many people

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is because at the end of the day,

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when you are looking at

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the

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the issue of inculcating

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values.

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The way you measure that whether the values

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whether these values have been inculcated or not,

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is by

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is by physically

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seeing,

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monitoring action?

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How do I know if values have been

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imbibed?

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By seeing what,

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people do, what the child,

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the the student

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is doing,

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on a

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day to day basis. So if, for example,

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if I'm teaching the value of,

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if I'm teaching the value of honesty and

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integrity,

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then I have to

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say,

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I have to see whether

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the

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value that I taught, which is honesty and

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integrity,

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Whether the child is actually practicing honesty or

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not. Now there is no way of doing

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that

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apart from monitoring that child

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247.

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There's no way that any individual

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teacher

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is going to be able to do that.

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You're even for 1 child.

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So what do you need? You need multiple

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teachers

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who are,

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monitoring that child. I mean, you're not looking

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at some kind of police state where you

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have, you know, people

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watching you all the time, but you're looking

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at

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a situation where in the most natural way,

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in the most kind way,

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in the most compassionate way,

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The

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child is being

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within course monitored

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and course corrected

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as the case might be. Now this

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forget about

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the ancient past even when I was growing

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up. I grew up in a joint family,

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and,

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you know, we lived

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in a vast house

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with aunts and uncles and so on. And

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it nobody had to spell out these rules.

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The basic rule was that any adult

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had the right to and did that in

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a very nice way.

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Correct me if I was doing anything

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wrong. Could be anybody.

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Aunts, uncles,

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grandparents,

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you know, grandparents,

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brothers and sisters. So they were grandparents, but

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like cousin, grandparents.

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And including

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because we had a whole

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bunch of in house servant to live in

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the house.

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Those servants. So these were these were not

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related to us. These were actually servants, but

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they were treated with respect. We had to

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treat them with respect. You didn't call them

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by name, for example.

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You know, you you call them by by,

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you call them uncle

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or auntie or something.

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And, if you did something wrong

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in and 1 of those servants saw that,

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they would correct you. Now this included I

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mean, never have a clue, but included, for

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example,

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this included

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a a person, an adult, including a servant,

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slapping you on the wrist, for example,

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or or giving you a whack on your

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behind if you were completely out of line.

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Obviously, nobody brutalized

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any of us. Nobody was beating them, beating

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up, beating us up and so on. But

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there was corporal punishment

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in that way

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not causing injury, but definitely,

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you know,

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an adult had the right to,

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to correct you,

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both by word or by action.

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And,

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this was

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and if the parents came to know that

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this happened,

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they would be thankful that they would express

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their thanks to the adult who corrected. And

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so thank you very much for looking out

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for my son for my son or daughter.

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The second thing was that if you wanted

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to complete as a child, if if, say,

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an uncle of mine corrected me on something,

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and this correction

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comprised of,

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you know, whack on my behind. And if

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I went and complained to my father, I

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would get a second whack on my behalf

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for complaining. Right? I get 2 whacks. 1

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for complaining and 1 for to reinforce,

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the whack that bank will give me. So

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the point here was that

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this supervision, 1 on 1 attention to each

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child

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was possible because there were a whole lot

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of adults

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involved

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in the care of 1 child.

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All family members

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related, even unrelated servant and so on We're

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we're concerned about this 1 person, 1 child,

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and they were

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interested in that person's welfare. And this happened

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in a very normal,

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matter of fact way. It wasn't in a

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class and so on,

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but it happened. You know, the the example

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of this I always think about is the

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way elephants

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bring up their young. An elephant calf is

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an extremely valuable member

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of the of the herd because it has

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a the elephants have a huge gestation period,

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very long gestation period. And then the the

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delivery of the calf is is very difficult.

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So, therefore,

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the calf is hugely hugely

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valuable. The the elephants elephant will not just

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let a calf go. So the whole heart

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takes care of the calf. The calf is

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in the center of the herd. The calf

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has a ball.

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The nicest childhood in the world is a

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childhood of an elephant calf. He is completely

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secure.

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He's taken care of by his mother and

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by what in in the in the our

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language we call aunts. So these are

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they're all related because the whole herd is

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related, but they are close closer

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and, more distant

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relative. They would be could be older siblings,

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could be siblings from a different,

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brood,

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different generation.

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Also would be the,

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the the literally the aunts,

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the sisters,

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of the mother

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and,

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including sometimes the hard bulls. They would all

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look after that 1 calf. Now, again, they

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will look after the calf if you did

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some if you did we're taking any risk.

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They would, you know, look out for him.

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They would allow him also to take certain

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risks.

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They will not completely protect him because they

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want him to learn. So they let him

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do something, but

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they let him do that

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within the purview of safety

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they did not let the car they would

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not let the

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car take risk which might put its own

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life in peril. But, within those boundaries, they

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they lend the car,

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do what it wants, have fun,

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and learn, make mistakes.

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You know, sometimes they get a little bit

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hurt. Doesn't matter what. They still let them

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do that. Now this is what this is

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how they were brought up. And that is

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the reason why it,

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why these lessons were learned, and they were

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learned in,

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such a wonderful,

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practical way,

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which remained,

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lifelong. Right? Nobody needed to teach that lesson

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a second time.

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The lesson was learned very well. Now the

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challenge for us today

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in,

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in teaching Islam

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and now again before I come to that,

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the Rasool Allah Salam also taught in this

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way. Right? Children,

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individuals,

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the the Sahaba who they taught, who he

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taught were

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individually

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important to him. He spent time on each

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1 of them personally,

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and

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other senior Sahaba

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spend time on them,

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on the junior ones. So each Sahabi had

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multiple teachers. And, again, all done in a

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matter of fact way

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while doing their going through their daily jobs

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and work and,

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you know, social life and so forth.

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All of these things. Corrections were done.

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Reinforcement was done. Praise was given.

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They were they were applauded,

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and they were corrected. So this happened. Now

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the big challenge for us is that since

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we have created a,

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schooling system

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that is

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come that's the same. There's no differentiation between

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how we teach

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Islam and how we teach anything else. We

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teach all of those things in the same

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way,

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which is a which is in a classroom,

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which is with 1 teacher, maybe 2 teachers,

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and,

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multiple students,

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15, 20, 30.

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Even if you don't go all the way

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to 50 60 like they do in India,

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but, you know, you still 50. Even 15

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children, for example. 15 children, 2 teachers. You

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might say, well, you know, this is, this

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is fantastic. Yes. It is compared to the

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app the the others the other,

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way, which is 50, 60, but still,

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it's not the same as in 1 student,

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with 2, 3 teachers. Now, obviously, that is

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in in practice not possible,

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because here you're talking about people who are

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paid to do what they do and what

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our

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what we got in our families.

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All the people who,

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took the trouble to train us and to

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spend time on us,

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were, people,

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you know, who are not paid for that.

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Right? These are people who

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these are people who are,

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who who did that out of love. Right?

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So,

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and and they did that. They, I mean,

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they they they did what what we wanted

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them to

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do, and they did it out of affection,

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without being paid. But we have the situation.

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So I think the the thing is to

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see how we can

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partner with parents.

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That is the the key thing. Partner with

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parents in such a way that at least

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the things that you're trying to achieve in

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the school get reinforced

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back home,

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with proper parenting.

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Draw parents into the school also for example.

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Get the parents to say when you are

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free. Just come come to the school and

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and sit in the class and, and be

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co teachers.

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And now, you know, they might say, well,

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no. You're paying the you're not paying me.

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Sure. The the the child belongs to you.

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Your child is not the teacher's child. The

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teacher will get paid. You will not get

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paid. This is your contribution,

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to,

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to your own child and to,

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the others children or others, which is, you

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know, this is all part of the same

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game. We said, did did the whole village

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to raise 1 child? Obviously, the child is

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not related to everyone in the village, But

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the whole village is participating in raising that

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child because there is a,

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there there is a there is a joint

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stick

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for everyone

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in the raising of their child.

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Everyone is involved. So we say, well, you

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know, I will I may not be my

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child, but I'm raising another

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individual who is,

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who is equally important

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for me and for all of us. So

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I think this is very important for us

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to keep in mind and say, how can

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we get

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parents involved,

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in the raising of our children?

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And

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so that, you know, we at least,

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to some extent we measure.

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We we we mirror,

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the goodness of

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Tarbia.

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The that the Sahaba got. That's why the

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whole issue of Tarbia, the Suraba,

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the of,

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of elders,

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the importance of the importance

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of physical company of teachers,

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you know, there's we we have lost so

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much that it's

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a struggle to even recall what we lost.

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But anyway, as long as we keep working

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on it, there's

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always hope.

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