Mirza Yawar Baig – Does life seem unreal

Mirza Yawar Baig
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The speaker discusses the confusion surrounding the punishment system in Islam, which is designed to reward individual behavior. The importance of learning history and avoiding mistakes is also emphasized. The speaker discusses the realism of life and the choice made by the owner of the game, which is the one who decides. The choice is made based on the right choice, not the rule-maker, and the decision is made based on the right choice, not the rule-maker.

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			In the name of Allah, and praise be
		
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			to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon
		
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			His Messenger, Ubaid.
		
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			So, Omar asked me another question.
		
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			Does it seem, has it ever seemed to
		
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			you that life is unreal?
		
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			He said, it seems to me sometimes life
		
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			is unreal.
		
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			Like what we are doing now, we're walking
		
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			here, and it doesn't seem real, it seems
		
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			unreal.
		
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			It's one like this, when you think about
		
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			it, it's absolutely clean, pure air.
		
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			The phone can't capture it just now, but
		
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			I'm seeing flights of geese and duck.
		
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			I know they're my lads because I've seen
		
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			them before.
		
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			If you can catch them, I'll show them
		
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			to you.
		
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			No, they're gone, okay.
		
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			So, there are lots of them up in
		
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			the distance there, geese, ducks, and as I
		
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			said, they are my lads.
		
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			I know that because I've seen them before.
		
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			And if you look through there, it's a
		
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			picture, can't be very good with this distance,
		
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			but all those dots that you're seeing, lots
		
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			of dots, these are all ducks and geese.
		
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			So, very beautiful.
		
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			This water is clean and pure.
		
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			This is actually drinking water for the city
		
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			of Holyoke.
		
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			So, it's clean and pure water, unpolluted, unpolluted
		
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			air.
		
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			I'm getting information about the pollution index in
		
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			Delhi, for example, which I don't even know
		
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			how anyone in Delhi does not have respiratory
		
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			problems.
		
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			Most likely they have.
		
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			And then somebody sent me something from Pakistan
		
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			that's more than double that, which is, in
		
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			a sense, because of farm fires, they burn
		
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			the stubble of the crop, so they plant
		
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			wheat, and after the harvesting, the dry stalks
		
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			and crop are there, so they set it
		
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			on fire to clean the fields, and that
		
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			creates this huge phenomenal amount of smog and
		
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			smoke in the air, which is the killer.
		
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			So, none of that.
		
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			Here we are walking through this park, which
		
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			is four lakes surrounded by forest, and different
		
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			kinds of trees in the forest.
		
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			You saw my khateras from before, which showed
		
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			these same forests in fall.
		
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			All those colours, of course, are gone now.
		
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			We just have the greens and browns, and
		
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			of course the dry trees.
		
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			I'm coming up here to some mallards, which
		
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			I will show you closer up, inshallah.
		
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			So, does it look unreal?
		
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			Of course it looks unreal.
		
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			And so my response to Omar was, yes,
		
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			it looks unreal.
		
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			But if you look at it from, not
		
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			so much philosophy, but from the lens of
		
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			Islam, the religion, the Qur'an, the Qur
		
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			'an al-Karim tells us that this life
		
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			is unreal.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, Allah said,
		
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			verily the life of this world is nothing
		
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			but deception.
		
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			It is deceiving, it is deception.
		
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			What looks positive is not positive.
		
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			What looks negative is not negative.
		
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			The one who looks strong is not strong.
		
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			The one who looks weak is not weak.
		
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			The one who looks as if he or
		
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			she is immensely successful and powerful, they are
		
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			not.
		
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			They are hugely unsuccessful.
		
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			They're just waiting to be punished, to get
		
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			to the place where they will be punished.
		
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			And there is no doubt that this punishment
		
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			will come, because that is a promise of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Allah does not leave anybody unrewarded for what
		
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			they do, whether that reward is good or
		
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			bad depends on the individual.
		
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			And so it is deceptive, very deceptive.
		
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			And this is what deceives us.
		
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			This is the whole reason why, and just
		
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			think about it, I'm just thinking, for example,
		
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			why would a Muslim, who knows that Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala has declared war on
		
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			the one who deals with interests, any form
		
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			of interest, why would a Muslim still take
		
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			an interest-based loan?
		
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			Why would a Muslim not just take an
		
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			interest-based loan, but try to justify it
		
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			for himself and for others by giving all
		
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			kinds of ridiculous explanations and arguments about it,
		
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			and saying how it was prohibited then, it's
		
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			not prohibited now, and how these times are
		
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			different, those times are different, as if Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala is subject to any
		
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			of this stuff that we talk about.
		
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			Why would you do that?
		
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			Because you're deceived.
		
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			Because you are deceived.
		
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			Why would we say, look at somebody, I
		
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			don't want to take names, but look at
		
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			somebody who does something good in one area,
		
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			something clever, something smart, but if you look
		
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			at their life, their life is like a
		
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			cesspit.
		
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			Literally, it's like standing on top of a
		
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			cesspit, a pit in which the refuse from
		
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			latrines is poured in.
		
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			And you say, this is the person.
		
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			This person is a cesspit.
		
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			Because in a cesspit, the biggest lumps rise
		
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			to the top.
		
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			And that's what we have made of society.
		
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			So we say we are the most advanced,
		
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			the most educated, we are the most prosperous,
		
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			blah, blah, blah, all the superlatives that ever
		
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			existed on the face of the planet.
		
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			Of course, because we don't read any history,
		
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			just the stupidity of that statement doesn't strike
		
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			us.
		
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			All we need to do is to read
		
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			some history, and we don't need to read
		
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			ancient history.
		
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			You go back a few decades, and you
		
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			find how stupid this statement was, because there
		
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			were others who made exactly a similar kind
		
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			of statement.
		
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			And today they are six feet under, pushing
		
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			up the grass, and no one to even
		
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			mourn or regret their passing.
		
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			So, you know, my point is that, that's
		
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			the reason why they say in history, two
		
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			nice quotes, nations that don't learn from their
		
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			history are condemned to repeat it.
		
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			And the second one is that the only
		
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			thing you learn from history is that you
		
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			learn nothing.
		
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			It doesn't have to be like that, but
		
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			it is.
		
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			So imaginary.
		
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			So does this life look as if it's
		
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			imaginary?
		
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			Yes, it does.
		
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			And as I said, it is imaginary in
		
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			many ways.
		
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			Now having said that, we are not spectators,
		
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			right?
		
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			We are not spectators.
		
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			We are in the drink.
		
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			Like here, we are in that water.
		
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			Life-wise, we are in that water.
		
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			Now if you are in the water, you've
		
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			got two choices.
		
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			You swim, and one day you will get
		
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			to the side, and you can walk up
		
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			and walk away with your life intact, or
		
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			you can choose not to swim, and you
		
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			can say, well, you know, I'm a fish.
		
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			You are not a fish, you are fish
		
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			food, because you will die.
		
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			And that's the issue with life.
		
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			So life may seem to be unreal, but
		
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			we are participants in it.
		
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			Whether we like it or not, we are
		
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			players.
		
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			There are no spectators in life.
		
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			And if I'm a player in life, then
		
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			I better learn the game.
		
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			I better learn the rules of the game,
		
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			and I better learn how to play by
		
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			those rules, because I'm not the rule-maker,
		
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			I'm not the rule-changer, I'm the player.
		
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			And the one who will decide if I
		
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			won the game or lost the game is
		
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			the owner of the game.
		
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			It's not me.
		
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			So I can't kick a ball into my
		
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			own goal and say, oh, wow, fantastic, I
		
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			scored a direct hit.
		
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			That's right, you scored a direct hit, all
		
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			right, but where?
		
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			And that's the issue with life.
		
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			So Allah swt has given us the choice
		
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			of what we want to do with this
		
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			life.
		
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			So if it seems unreal, yes, but what
		
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			we need to do is to make sure
		
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			that we don't treat it as unreal.
		
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			It is real, it is very real for
		
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			us, and we need to take the right
		
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			choices.
		
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			Allah swt, in His great mercy, didn't leave
		
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			us to guess, He didn't leave us to
		
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			figure out what to do.
		
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			Allah swt gave us the choices and told
		
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			us, showed us the paths through His Kitab
		
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			and through His Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			and said, so we know this is the
		
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			path that leads to Jannah, this is the
		
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			path that leads to Jahannam.
		
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			Qul il haqqum min rabbikum fa man sha
		
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			'a fal yubin wa man sha'a fal
		
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			yakfur Allah swt said, say, the truth is
		
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			by Rabb, the truth is your Rabb, and
		
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			the one who wants to believe can believe,
		
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			the one who wants to disbelieve can disbelieve.
		
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			Obviously, inna a'tazana lilkafeena jahannama jami'a If
		
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			you disbelieve and if you insist on disbelieving,
		
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			then your destination cannot be the same as
		
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			the one who believes and you try to
		
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			live a life of obedience.
		
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			If you see here now, here is one
		
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			of the creatures of Allah, that's a squirrel,
		
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			and the squirrel is doing what squirrels do
		
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			at this time, which is he is burying
		
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			nuts, he's burying basically acorns, oak nuts, there
		
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			he digs and buries.
		
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			Now, this is a huge lesson as far
		
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			as we are concerned, because here is a
		
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			squirrel who picks up an acorn, which is
		
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			food for it, but it doesn't eat it,
		
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			it might even be hungry, but it does
		
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			eat it, it digs a hole and buries
		
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			the acorn, because the squirrel knows that these
		
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			beautiful, beautiful days that we are facing just
		
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			now and we are enjoying thoroughly, are going
		
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			to go away.
		
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			Last night the temperature fell to minus two,
		
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			so I saw my bird baths and the
		
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			water that I leave for the birds, frozen
		
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			solid.
		
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			So you're already seeing frost, and the squirrel
		
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			knows that, the squirrel knows that a time
		
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			will come when all of this will be
		
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			covered in ice and snow, and that is
		
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			when I'm going to need food.
		
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			So the squirrel is burying the food, keeping
		
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			the food in a nice safe place, so
		
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			that when the weather changes, she or he,
		
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			I don't know which one it is in
		
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			this case, will have the fruit that she
		
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			needs or he needs.
		
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			So the sense of Akhira, sense of something
		
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			which is beyond what is visible, is there
		
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			even in animals and birds.
		
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			Squirrels, on a side note, squirrels don't always
		
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			remember where they buried those oak seeds, and
		
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			that is how oak trees grow, planted by
		
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			squirrels.
		
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			And America is full of them, of oak
		
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			trees planted by squirrels, because the squirrel buried
		
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			the acorn and forgot where it was.
		
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			I'm going to go up this little elevation
		
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			here and try to show you a picture
		
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			of a very large flock of geese, which
		
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			is there on that water.
		
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			I hope I can see it.
		
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			It's imaginary life.
		
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			See this beautiful, absolutely fabulous color of this.
		
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			OK, there it goes.
		
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			Let me see now, if we can show
		
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			you this thing.
		
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			It's not the greatest picture, obviously, but I
		
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			guess that's the best we can do, given
		
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			the circumstances.
		
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			I ask God to help us to learn
		
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			the lessons and to always, always, always remind
		
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			ourselves that this life is a test.
		
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			Does it appear unreal?
		
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			Yes, because it's a simulation.
		
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			It's a test.
		
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			And that's the reason why Allah also gave
		
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			us istighfar and tawbah.
		
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			He gave us an eraser in our hand
		
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			while we are writing our paper.
		
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			You can also erase.
		
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			If you write something wrong, erase it.
		
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			Make sure that when this paper is submitted
		
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			to the examiner, that it only has good
		
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			in it, that it only has things that
		
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			you really wanted the examiner to look at
		
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			and to examine you on and to reward
		
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			you on.
		
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			That is the choice we have.