Mirza Yawar Baig – Correct the Niyyah to study Islam

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The importance of learning in Islam is discussed, emphasizing the need for practicing and clarifying actions before answering questions to avoid confusion and mistakes. Visits to shacks and shacks around personal attributes are stressed, and advice is given on how to avoid embarrassment and difficulty. Visits to shacks and shacks around personal attributes are also emphasized, with advice given on how to avoid embarrassment and difficulty. The importance of learning Islam and not just sitting at a station is emphasized, with a focus on correction and avoiding promises.

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			My brothers and sisters,
		
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			one of
		
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			the,
		
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			things we see
		
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			is
		
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			in itself good,
		
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			which is an interest in Islam.
		
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			An interest in understanding that they in lying
		
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			that they
		
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			an interest in
		
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			trying to do the right thing,
		
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			and so on and so forth. So these
		
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			are
		
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			have been the good things. But
		
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			this world
		
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			is full of things which are
		
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			good,
		
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			but which
		
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			in excess or if they are done
		
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			in a way which is,
		
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			different from
		
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			the preferred
		
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			and correct ways, then that makes it deeper.
		
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			And that's the same thing applies also to
		
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			this interest in
		
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			being. Where the interest is purely for the
		
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			pleasure of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Meaning that I want to learn
		
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			in order to practice.
		
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			My idea of learning
		
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			is to practice. It is not anything else.
		
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			And so I learned something and I put
		
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			into practice.
		
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			And this is
		
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			beautiful. This is,
		
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			you know, the way it should be done.
		
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			We have the famous story
		
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			of,
		
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			who took 12 years to and then he
		
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			and,
		
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			he my mother's father's friends for the dinner.
		
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			He started the camel.
		
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			So they asked him,
		
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			why did it take you so long? Why
		
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			did you take 12 years to memorize this
		
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			one surah?
		
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			And,
		
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			he said,
		
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			the way we used to learn with Rasool
		
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			was
		
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			that you would take 10 ayaats.
		
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			You may be able to memorize those 10
		
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			ayaats. We would understand those 10 ayaats.
		
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			We would reflect on them.
		
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			We would introspect to see
		
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			how our lives
		
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			resonated with those ordnance and we made changes
		
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			we correct ourselves.
		
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			If there were any
		
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			messiah,
		
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			any,
		
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			you know, issues of being connected
		
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			with those, we
		
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			made sure that we
		
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			followed those things if there were any,
		
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			any rules,
		
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			any orders, command the Allah, we made sure
		
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			that we followed them.
		
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			And only when all of this was over
		
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			and we
		
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			were
		
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			happy
		
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			and content with what we were doing, then
		
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			we would go for the next. So it
		
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			took this long.
		
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			Now this is a clear indication of
		
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			how being is to be studied, which is
		
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			with the intention
		
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			of
		
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			practicing it
		
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			and the intention of.
		
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			Said, one of the signs of the
		
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			of the last day,
		
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			approach of the day of judgement,
		
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			is that people seek knowledge
		
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			without concern for the deen.
		
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			They seek knowledge for this other than
		
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			deen. Number 2, he said that they
		
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			study,
		
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			the deen
		
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			with no intention of
		
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			implementing any of it.
		
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			They're not studying in order to practice. They're
		
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			just studying for the sake of studying.
		
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			There's no intention practice to deen. And he
		
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			said the third thing is where they seek
		
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			the dunya
		
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			with the armal of the akhirah.
		
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			They seek the dunya by doing
		
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			things which are
		
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			for
		
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			or we should be exclusively
		
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			for seeking the with Allah
		
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			We ask Allah to save us from this.
		
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			In other,
		
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			hadith
		
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			narrated by
		
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			Abdullah ibn Masood Radiramu, Rasood Rasoolam said, do
		
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			not seek the knowledge of Islam
		
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			for these three reasons.
		
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			And the reasons he gave was,
		
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			he said, do not seek knowledge
		
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			to argue with the.
		
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			Don't seek knowledge to argue with the jurors,
		
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			to argue with the, to argue with the
		
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			scholars.
		
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			Number 2, he said, do not seek knowledge
		
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			in order
		
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			to look good before the.
		
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			He said, do not seek knowledge in order
		
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			to look good
		
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			before the fools.
		
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			Ignorant bunch of people
		
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			and even you have a little bit of
		
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			knowledge, and they say, oh,
		
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			This person is so,
		
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			knowledgeable,
		
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			and he's such a fantastic, great scholar
		
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			and so on. The simple question is how
		
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			do you know?
		
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			How do you know he's a great scholar?
		
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			Have you some?
		
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			Have you some way of judging
		
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			to say who's a good old scholar and
		
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			who's not a great scholar? I mean, do
		
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			you know anything about
		
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			the levels of scholarship and so on? Right?
		
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			So you say he's a great scholar because
		
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			most people say you're a great scholar as
		
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			long as you say things which they like.
		
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			This is the reality of dunya. Right? Who's
		
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			a great scholar? Somebody who says the kind
		
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			of stuff I like to hear. So if
		
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			I tell you that zakat is not fond
		
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			on you, a great scholar.
		
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			If I tell you that zakat has to
		
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			be paid only one time in your lifetime,
		
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			I'm a great scholar.
		
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			I'm I'm telling you to do something which
		
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			is haram. I'm telling you something which will
		
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			put you in the hellfire. But you don't
		
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			you you don't have the you do not
		
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			even have the knowledge to understand that. Right?
		
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			I mean, your ignorance is
		
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			what is great here is your ignorance, not
		
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			the knowledge of the scholar.
		
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			But people don't understand it. So you know,
		
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			oh, so and so the grace call.
		
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			The so the said,
		
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			do not,
		
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			seek knowledge in order to look good before
		
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			the sufaha.
		
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			Look good before the
		
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			before the fools. And then he said, do
		
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			not seek knowledge,
		
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			not to look good, not not to argue
		
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			with scholars,
		
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			not to and do not acknowledge to attract
		
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			the people towards
		
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			you. To attract the eyes of the people
		
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			towards you. To see, to become popular, to
		
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			become,
		
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			you know, this,
		
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			great
		
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			sheikh
		
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			who has so many followers on Instagram or
		
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			whatever it is. So don't seek knowledge for
		
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			the for these three reasons. So don't seek
		
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			knowledge
		
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			to argue with the scholars. Don't seek knowledge
		
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			to look good before the fools.
		
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			And don't seek knowledge to
		
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			to to attract
		
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			the eyes of people. Meaning, to
		
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			become popular
		
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			with the with the masses.
		
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			Truly, it is a such a tragedy that,
		
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			how Satan fools
		
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			and, turn something which,
		
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			you know, should be
		
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			a means of getting the Jannah,
		
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			into something that puts it in in peril.
		
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			Well, now we don't know if I go
		
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			to Jannah or not because
		
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			of the way I'm doing
		
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			something which in itself is good.
		
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			But the good thing I do in a
		
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			way, which is,
		
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			which is halal, which is prohibited.
		
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			And so, therefore, that good thing turns into
		
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			evil. It is very, very important
		
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			to
		
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			keep this in mind, to keep on
		
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			alerting ourselves,
		
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			warning ourselves
		
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			not to fall into
		
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			these traps
		
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			of shaytan.
		
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			Because that's what this is. This is a
		
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			these are all traps of shaytan.
		
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			And if we fall into them, then we
		
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			go away shaytan.
		
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			My brothers and sisters, it's a very, very
		
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			important thing.
		
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			Asking questions,
		
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			it's not we are not here,
		
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			prohibiting. We're asking questions.
		
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			We're just saying,
		
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			go to the.
		
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			Ask yourself,
		
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			why am I asking this question?
		
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			Because in the we
		
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			have,
		
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			we know this hadith and we have heard
		
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			this
		
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			multiple times and so on and so forth.
		
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			And, therefore, we should be clear in our
		
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			minds about
		
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			the,
		
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			the truth of this hadith. And the truth
		
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			of the hadith is that
		
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			ask yourself, why am I asking a question?
		
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			There's only one reason
		
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			to ask a question,
		
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			and that is to clarify
		
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			how must
		
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			I act in this case.
		
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			So I heard about something.
		
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			I want to practice it,
		
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			but I have some
		
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			confusion, some doubt. I need a clarification.
		
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			And therefore, I'm asking a question. That's it.
		
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			If the reason is anything other than this,
		
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			and then believe me, don't ask that question.
		
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			Clarify first with make sure that you,
		
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			correct your reason
		
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			before you
		
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			answer it, before you ask yourself.
		
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			Should I ask this question and answer in
		
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			your side?
		
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			My niyya is good. I
		
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			intend to practice, then ask the question, and
		
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			as soon you've got the clarification,
		
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			practice the
		
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			others. Many people ask questions to put the
		
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			issue.
		
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			Whoever they're asking, they want to
		
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			show off their,
		
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			own knowledge. So they ask a question. They
		
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			are not interested in the answer. They want
		
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			to show how much they know.
		
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			Some people ask questions because they want to
		
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			put the share in a tight spot.
		
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			So they ask a question which is
		
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			potentially embarrassing,
		
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			question which can lead to difficulties,
		
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			and so they ask these questions.
		
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			And, you know, they put the Sheikh in
		
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			a tight spot.
		
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			Some people ask questions
		
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			because again, not because they want answers, not
		
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			because there is any,
		
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			practice involved in it, but because
		
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			they want somebody else
		
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			to hear that answer from
		
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			the mouth of the sheikh.
		
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			So
		
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			instead of telling somebody
		
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			that interest is haram,
		
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			because it is,
		
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			you go you wait for
		
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			a time when there is a Sheikh around,
		
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			and the other person is also there and
		
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			say, Sheikh, he's interested.
		
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			And then the shirk was interested in haram,
		
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			so this other person hurried from the shirk.
		
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			Now 3 different,
		
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			reasons.
		
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			The first two are
		
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			reprehensible.
		
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			They are,
		
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			you know, that that kind of questioning is
		
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			haram. Literally, I mean, it's something which
		
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			is terrible. It must never be done.
		
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			Don't try to, embarrass,
		
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			a teacher.
		
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			Don't ask questions
		
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			because you want to show off.
		
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			Never do that because you destroy your own.
		
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			And
		
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			embarrassing a teacher is not
		
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			beneficial to you or anybody else.
		
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			The third kind of questioning
		
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			is not bad.
		
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			This is something which
		
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			is sometimes,
		
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			a sign of wisdom because
		
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			sometimes people
		
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			know the right answer.
		
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			They even know that there's really no need
		
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			even to tell them.
		
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			But,
		
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			since they are
		
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			continuing in their disobedience
		
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			and disobedient way of living,
		
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			you say, well, you know, somebody thought to
		
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			tell them. And that somebody has to be
		
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			you because you are the closest to them.
		
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			But then you know that these people, they
		
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			will not listen to you. Not because what
		
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			you're saying is wrong, but because you are
		
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			saying it.
		
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			Very sad to say, but I've seen this
		
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			happened
		
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			many times in
		
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			with parents and
		
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			and, children,
		
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			and to also
		
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			a great extent,
		
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			with pair with
		
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			the spouses, husband and wife.
		
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			So the parent knows,
		
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			the father or mother knows that what the
		
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			child is saying is right,
		
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			but they will not
		
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			accept. They will not listen only because
		
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			this is my child.
		
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			This is some, you know, little kid,
		
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			who grew up in front of me. What
		
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			the * does he know?
		
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			Please understand
		
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			that
		
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			one of the reasons why
		
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			some of the
		
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			seniors of the Quraysh
		
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			rejected the
		
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			message
		
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			and teaching of Rasool Salam
		
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			was for precisely the same reason.
		
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			They said he's a kid. I mean, he
		
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			is he's my nephew.
		
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			Right? He's my nephew. He is,
		
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			I mean, I he literally sort of played
		
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			in my lap when he was a little
		
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			kid.
		
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			Why should I listen to him?
		
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			So this arrogance
		
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			of looking down on somebody because they are
		
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			young,
		
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			this is destructive. This is this is haram.
		
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			This is prohibited.
		
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			This is destructive. This is something which is
		
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			totally and completely
		
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			avoidable and must be avoidable. There's no 2
		
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			ways about this.
		
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			So so also with husbands and wives, may
		
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			Allah have mercy on us.
		
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			Instead of being supports for each other. Even
		
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			though some of the,
		
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			youth today, I want to get married because
		
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			I want this wife of mine to be
		
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			my greatest supporter and dean.
		
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			And then you get married and your wife
		
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			is trying to tell you something,
		
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			but then you get offended because you say,
		
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			oh, what? You know? How can you know
		
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			more than I do? Well, you just said
		
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			you wanted her to be a supporter indeed.
		
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			And she's trying to support you in this,
		
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			but you don't seem to, you know, like
		
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			that. So
		
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			rejecting
		
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			of,
		
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			something which is good and beneficial for you
		
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			can
		
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			only harm you, not anybody else.
		
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			My father, Raul, used to say,
		
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			if 3 people tell you that you are
		
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			drunk, lie down.
		
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			He used to say so
		
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			it's his way of saying, if you are
		
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			rejecting feedback,
		
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			you're doing it to your own,
		
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			detriment. Right? So he he would say, if
		
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			3 people tell you you are drunk, lie
		
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			down.
		
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			Because you reject the first person, no. No.
		
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			I'm not drunk.
		
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			Alright. And second person also tells you, look.
		
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			You're you're walking
		
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			in this wavy fashion,
		
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			which is not normal.
		
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			So
		
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			maybe you're drunk. No. I'm not drunk. Alright.
		
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			So you're not drunk.
		
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			And the 3rd person comes to you and
		
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			say, hello.
		
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			You know, you you how how many what
		
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			number is this? Right? And you're seeing 6
		
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			fingers.
		
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			You're drunk.
		
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			He said, I'm not drunk. So then what
		
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			happens?
		
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			Then you do something stupid.
		
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			You enjoy yourself, you kill yourself.
		
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			You kill somebody else.
		
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			So,
		
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			if 3 people tell you you're drunk right
		
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			now. So if 3 people tell you that
		
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			something is wrong, then something is wrong. Believe
		
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			me. Whether
		
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			you believe it or not, whether you agree
		
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			with it or not,
		
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			all of that makes no difference. Because
		
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			if 3 people are telling you
		
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			meaning, you know, if more people are telling
		
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			you something that there is something
		
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			in you that
		
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			requires correction. My brothers and sisters, the only
		
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			person in the world
		
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			who was free from sin, who was free
		
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			from the need to be corrected was the
		
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			Rasool.
		
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			He was.
		
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			Everybody other than him,
		
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			irrespective
		
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			of who that person is or was,
		
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			was and is in need of correction.
		
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			And we have
		
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			absolutely fantastic,
		
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			you know, stories of our sort of
		
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			of the great scholars
		
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			of our predecessors
		
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			who
		
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			took correction from the,
		
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			most unlikely sources,
		
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			but they did.
		
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			So for example, I'll tell you one wonderful,
		
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			story,
		
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			true story.
		
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			Came into the masjid
		
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			and
		
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			before
		
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			Salat al Maghrib. So he came to the
		
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			Maghrib, to the Maghrib just before
		
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			Salat al Maghrib.
		
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			And
		
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			he was about to sit down because the,
		
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			general rule
		
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			is
		
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			that when you are in
		
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			the time
		
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			of, of of the,
		
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			a time when salah is
		
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			prohibited,
		
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			which is the time of
		
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			and
		
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			and. So the time of
		
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			sunrise, sunset,
		
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			and when the sun is directly overhead.
		
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			These are the three times where it is
		
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			preferred not to make Sajidah not to pray.
		
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			There are some
		
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			specific instances where you can make,
		
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			but I'm not going to that. I will
		
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			not go into that. There's some but, anyway,
		
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			so very close to Maghrib. And we see
		
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			this incidentally on a side note. This is
		
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			something that many of the people who come
		
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			into massage their brothers and sisters.
		
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			I see this all the time.
		
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			They come like there is 1 minute for
		
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			Adan,
		
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			2 minutes to Adan, and they pray.
		
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			It is better for you to just sit
		
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			down
		
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			and not to pray.
		
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			Because the outcome of not praying
		
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			in the time of,
		
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			of time of Uruk,
		
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			sunset
		
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			is stronger and
		
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			more important than
		
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			actually praying. So
		
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			this,
		
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			was the case. Was
		
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			going to sit down.
		
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			When there was a a young boy
		
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			who was sitting there, and he
		
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			said to mam Malik,
		
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			Rasulullah Salim said, do not sit
		
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			until you have prayed to rakat
		
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			of,
		
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			salah
		
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			and Imam Malik immediately
		
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			raised his hands and made
		
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			and he prayed
		
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			to
		
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			and then he sat down. So after
		
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			was over,
		
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			his students, they asked him, they said, Yaima,
		
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			it is your fatwa. It is, you know,
		
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			you have said that
		
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			we must not pray
		
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			salah
		
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			at this time,
		
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			but,
		
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			we saw that you prayed.
		
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			Said,
		
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			the boy quoted
		
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			Rasulullah.
		
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			So what do you want me to do?
		
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			When he quotes the Nabi alaihis salam, I
		
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			obey.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			I'm not going to
		
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			correct the boy
		
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			even though
		
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			he could have done that.
		
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			I'm not going to tell him that what
		
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			you are saying doesn't apply right now for
		
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			this season that he he said I for
		
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			me to obey the Nabi,
		
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			is
		
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			primary.
		
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			There's nothing which supersedes that.
		
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			So he quoted the promise of salah, and
		
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			I obeyed.
		
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			I see this beautiful
		
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			akhlaq. See this beautiful,
		
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			way
		
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			of thinking. See this beautiful decision making.
		
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			When he's saying that the Nabi alaihis salaam
		
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			is not,
		
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			his word
		
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			is not open to,
		
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			to argue it.
		
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			He says we obey.
		
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			And that's what I want to leave you
		
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			with, which is the question,
		
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			the issue of learning.
		
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			Let's correct our
		
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			Let's correct our niyat, our intentions
		
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			of why we want to learn Islam. And
		
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			make sure that the learning of Islam
		
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			itself doesn't become a problem for us. Instead
		
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			of being
		
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			a source of great mercy and blessing,
		
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			it should not become
		
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			a reason for trouble
		
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			for us,
		
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			where
		
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			after
		
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			taking all the time and trouble
		
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			to study the religion, we end up with
		
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			nothing in the back because
		
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			our knee was wrong.