Mirza Yawar Baig – Balancing Deen and College

Mirza Yawar Baig
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The speakers discuss various historical events and their significance, including the significance of the Bible and the Milky Way, as well as the importance of the Sun and the Earth being the largest galaxy in the universe. They stress the importance of understanding the meaning of balance and balancing personal opinions and values, particularly in achieving a balance in life. The dean of the religion is the most important person in the world, and individuals should fulfill spiritual goals and pray for success. Prayer and eating foods are also discussed, and rules and regulations are emphasized as important drivers of success.

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			Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem, Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen.
		
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			Wasalatu wasalamu ala sharafil anbiya wal mursaleen, Muhammadur
		
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			Rasulullahi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Tasneemun kathiran kathiran.
		
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			Do you know the meaning of all this,
		
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			what I say?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So, Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem.
		
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			We begin in the name of Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala, who is the most beneficent,
		
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			the most merciful.
		
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			Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Alameen.
		
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			All thanks and all praise is to Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala who is the creator,
		
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			the sustainer, the maintainer, the protector, the provider
		
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			of the entire universe.
		
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			Every living being, small, big, large, from the
		
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			smallest virus to the biggest blue whale on
		
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			this planet, as well as the entire universe.
		
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			Because let's not forget that Allah is not
		
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			the creator only of the earth.
		
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			Allah is the creator of Rabbil Alameen, of
		
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			all that we know and all that we
		
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			don't know.
		
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			Because what we don't know is far more
		
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			than what we know.
		
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			The very fact that we don't know means
		
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			that we don't know the extent of it.
		
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			When people say, we only know 1%
		
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			of creation.
		
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			My question is, how do you know it's
		
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			1%?
		
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			Because if you don't know, then logically it
		
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			means you don't know.
		
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			So you can't say, if I know the
		
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			whole 100%, when I say I know only
		
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			1% of the 100, it means what?
		
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			I know that there is a 100, at
		
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			least extent.
		
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			I don't know the details of that, but
		
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			extent.
		
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			But in the case of the creation of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, we don't even
		
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			know the extent.
		
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			All the stars, all the galaxies, there are
		
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			billions.
		
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			Just to get an idea, I'll send you
		
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			guys a wonderful video which somebody made about
		
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			the size of the universe.
		
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			Have you seen that?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			That is one.
		
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			There's another one.
		
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			That's also a very nice one.
		
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			Starts off with the girls on the grass.
		
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			There's another absolutely wonderful one where this guy
		
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			is standing.
		
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			In England, I've been to a cathedral.
		
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			He's standing in front of the cathedral and
		
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			he's got a grain of sand, literally one
		
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			grain of sand on the tip of his
		
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			finger.
		
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			He holds it out like that.
		
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			He says, close one eye and look at
		
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			the grain of sand.
		
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			You can do this as an experiment.
		
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			Look at it like this.
		
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			There is a little bit of space that
		
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			is blocked by that grain of sand.
		
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			That's the way of getting perspective.
		
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			He talks about that.
		
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			He says, what is in that blocked space?
		
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			It's incredible.
		
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			I'll send you the video when we are
		
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			finished.
		
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			Take a look at it.
		
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			Just to give you a very small idea,
		
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			we are on Earth, which is a planet
		
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			that is part of a solar system that
		
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			revolves around our Sun.
		
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			This is the basic fundamental thing.
		
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			The Sun is a bunch of planets and
		
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			this is our solar system.
		
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			Sun is a star, basically.
		
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			Such stars in our galaxy, which we call
		
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			the Milky Way, is one among billions.
		
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			They are saying billions because, effectively, they haven't
		
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			counted.
		
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			Maybe after one billion, some people gave up.
		
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			We don't know how many billions.
		
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			One Sun, and that's why when people worship
		
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			the Sun, they say, what are you worshipping?
		
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			It's one star among billions.
		
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			What is it you are worshipping?
		
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			The star is one Sun, which is one
		
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			star among billions in this galaxy.
		
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			And this galaxy, the Milky Way, is one
		
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			of the billions of galaxies in the visible
		
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			universe.
		
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			Visible universe means what we are actually able
		
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			to see using our current telescopes.
		
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			Obviously, we are not talking about our telescope
		
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			you might have at home.
		
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			We are talking about the big ones.
		
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			But that visible universe itself has billions of
		
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			galaxies like our galaxy.
		
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			And our galaxy has billions of Suns like
		
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			our Sun, which is one which has around
		
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			that a set of planets, which is our
		
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			solar system.
		
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			And one of those planets, and not the
		
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			biggest one by any stretch of the imagination,
		
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			is the Earth.
		
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			And on this Earth, we are living.
		
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			And on this Earth is a country called
		
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			America.
		
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			So what is the power of America?
		
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			So think about that.
		
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			Everybody, when people get power, they think, oh
		
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			my God, this is big.
		
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			The world is going to be...
		
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			Many like you came, many like you went,
		
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			you will also go one day.
		
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			That's true.
		
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			And that's why we read history.
		
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			That's why the Quran has so many historical
		
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			stories.
		
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			Stories of the pharaoh.
		
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			The pharaoh of Moses was Ramesses II, and
		
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			so on and so forth.
		
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			So these were...
		
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			Every one of them is...
		
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			Sometimes I read...
		
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			History is my major plus, also a deep
		
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			interest of mine.
		
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			So every time I love reading history, I
		
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			love reading biographies.
		
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			But every time I read history about people
		
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			like this, I ask myself, what is new?
		
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			There's nothing new.
		
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			The same stuff which today maybe Donald Trump
		
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			is saying, or Elon Musk is saying, people
		
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			said this before.
		
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			And people with much more than them, they
		
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			said it.
		
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			But today we don't even know their names.
		
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			Just think about this.
		
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			Let me ask you.
		
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			How many of you know the name of
		
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			your great-grandmother?
		
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			Either side.
		
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			I'm not saying great-grandfather, great-grandmother.
		
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			You know the name?
		
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			Sorry?
		
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			Great-grandmother.
		
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			Very nice.
		
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			Anybody else?
		
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			You don't know?
		
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			You know?
		
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			Eh?
		
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			You might know, but you're not sure.
		
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			Okay, no problem.
		
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			Anybody else knows?
		
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			Yeah, exactly.
		
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			Actual name.
		
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			I'm not saying the nickname was.
		
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			No.
		
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			Actual name.
		
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			Great-grandmother.
		
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			Now great-grandmother means, so you are here.
		
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			It's your mother or father.
		
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			Their mother or father.
		
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			So you got now from you, there are
		
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			two.
		
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			And from these two, there are four.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Mother-father of your mother, mother-father of
		
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			your father, and then the great-grandparents is
		
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			eight.
		
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			Yes?
		
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			So two of these two.
		
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			Out of this, you know the name of
		
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			one of them.
		
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			Can we go back one more generation?
		
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			Do you know the name?
		
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			So the point I'm saying is, and believe
		
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			me, nothing to feel bad about.
		
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			This is the reality.
		
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			This is the reality.
		
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			100 years from now.
		
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			This is 2024.
		
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			So 100 years from now, it will be
		
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			which year?
		
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			2024 is this year.
		
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			So 100 years, we'll go on.
		
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			2124.
		
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			In 2124, one thing I can say with
		
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			complete certainty probably, Allah only knows best, is
		
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			that none of us will be here.
		
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			Right?
		
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			100 years from today, none of us will
		
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			be here.
		
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			We don't know whether this building will be
		
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			here.
		
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			But even if the building is here, there
		
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			will be a new bunch of people sitting
		
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			here.
		
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			Nobody.
		
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			And you can make this statement.
		
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			I can do that in the mosque.
		
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			We can go to some wedding party.
		
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			Don't say it there.
		
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			They'll jump on your head if you say
		
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			that.
		
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			But the point is that 100 years from
		
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			now, none of the people alive here will
		
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			be alive.
		
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			Now if we go back 100 years, can
		
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			you name who were around?
		
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			Hardly.
		
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			Right?
		
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			I'm talking about our own families and so
		
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			on.
		
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			Hardly.
		
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			Maybe one or two people who are super
		
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			famous.
		
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			I can name a couple because of our
		
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			lineage and so on.
		
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			But other than that, we don't know.
		
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			So we don't even know the names of
		
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			who were there.
		
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			Now, when we don't even know the names
		
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			of who were there, how important do you
		
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			think their fears and their hopes and aspirations
		
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			and what they liked and disliked and who
		
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			they liked and disliked and who was there?
		
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			Does that have any meaning?
		
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			Forget about which car they were driving.
		
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			100 years ago, there was no car.
		
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			What kind of a house did they have?
		
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			Who knows?
		
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			What kind of a house they had?
		
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			The house probably has fallen down.
		
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			Even if it is there, like my ancestral
		
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			house is more than 100 years old.
		
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			But so what?
		
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			The reason I'm saying that is because to
		
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			put things in perspective, today when we are
		
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			sitting here, for us, we say, Oh my
		
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			God!
		
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			I've got this exam.
		
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			Oh my God!
		
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			I've got this relationship which seems to be
		
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			collapsing around my neck or something.
		
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			I have this thing happening.
		
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			Everything looks like this huge thing.
		
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			It's going to kill me.
		
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			Believe me, nothing will happen.
		
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			Nothing will happen.
		
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			And the example I give people is, may
		
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			Allah keep you safe, if a small speck
		
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			of dust gets into your eye.
		
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			So now it's got into my eye and
		
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			I'm like, this is hurting me.
		
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			My eyes are shut.
		
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			And then they say, just look at this
		
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			beautiful view.
		
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			What view?
		
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			Forget the view.
		
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			I mean, this thing, get this thing out
		
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			of my eye.
		
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			But what is the size of that thing?
		
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			It's a speck of dust, little bit thick.
		
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			But because it is light in the eye,
		
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			it assumes this huge importance.
		
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			As if nothing in the world is more
		
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			important than that speck of dust.
		
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			Because it's not even important.
		
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			But that's what we do with our energy.
		
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			So when we are talking about a balance
		
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			between Deen and a traveling life and Godly
		
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			life, first and foremost, ensure that you keep
		
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			things in the right perspective.
		
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			So what is perspective?
		
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			Perspective is the ability to simultaneously hold two
		
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			pictures in your mind.
		
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			A picture of where you are and a
		
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			picture of where you want to be.
		
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			That's my definition of perspective.
		
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			To give you an example, supposing you are
		
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			trekking.
		
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			You've gone off on a trek.
		
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			Now, you don't really have a map or
		
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			something.
		
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			You are going somewhere, some path.
		
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			You decide to take the path.
		
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			And you walk and walk and walk.
		
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			And suddenly you find yourself in this place.
		
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			You have no clue where you are.
		
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			You are lost.
		
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			So what do you do?
		
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			How will you find your way?
		
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			I don't have Google Maps or whatnot.
		
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			Any normal person gets stuck somewhere.
		
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			The thing you do if you are stuck
		
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			like that, especially if you are stuck in
		
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			a flat kind of place, find a high
		
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			spot.
		
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			So maybe if there is a hillock or
		
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			a tree or something, climb on top.
		
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			It gives you a much bigger field of
		
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			view.
		
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			And there is a light there.
		
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			Like Musa A.S. Allah SWT said when
		
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			he was going from Madinah back to Egypt
		
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			with his wife, and we don't know who
		
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			else was with him, but obviously not a
		
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			big number of people, a couple of people.
		
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			And then Allah SWT says in the Quran
		
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			that Musa A.S., it was dark, it
		
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			was a night and he was lost.
		
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			And then he, He said, I see a
		
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			light, looks like a fire in the distance.
		
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			So now he's got perspective.
		
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			So sitting on top now, on the top
		
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			of the tree, he didn't climb a tree,
		
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			so when you see, there is a light.
		
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			Oh, that is the highway.
		
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			I can see the car moving.
		
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			So now I know where the highway is,
		
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			so now in relation to the highway, I
		
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			know where I am.
		
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			That is the river, or that is the
		
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			railway track.
		
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			So let me just get to the railway
		
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			track and if I just walk along the
		
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			railway track, at some point I will come
		
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			to a railway station, whichever direction, it's going
		
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			somewhere.
		
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			If I'm on the road, let me just
		
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			keep walking along the road, I will meet
		
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			somebody, some car, I can stop at the
		
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			right direction.
		
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			So it gives you perspective.
		
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			Perspective is to hold simultaneously two pictures in
		
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			your mind, where I am and where I
		
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			want to be.
		
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			In terms of life, also we need this
		
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			perspective.
		
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			Where I am now and where I want
		
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			to be.
		
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			Without perspective, you cannot get directions.
		
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			Right?
		
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			If somebody calls you and says, I want
		
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			to come to your halakha, give me directions.
		
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			What will you say?
		
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			Okay, forget about the technology part of it.
		
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			Let's say you are speaking.
		
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			Which road?
		
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			Western Ave.  But the guy says, but I'm
		
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			in New York.
		
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			Then what happens?
		
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			So what is the first question to ask
		
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			him?
		
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			Where are you exactly?
		
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			If you say, give me directions, the first
		
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			question to ask him is, where are you?
		
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			Because the directions to here depends on where
		
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			they are.
		
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			If somebody is calling from East Hampton, the
		
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			direction to come here is different from somebody
		
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			who is calling from Springfield.
		
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			No?
		
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			Obviously, different area.
		
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			So first question, where are you?
		
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			So if I know where I am, and
		
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			I know where I want to be, then
		
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			I can have directions.
		
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			But if I say, no, I don't know
		
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			where I am, but I want to get
		
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			here.
		
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			So the next best thing you do is,
		
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			okay, you don't know where you are, but
		
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			what you do is, get yourself to such
		
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			and such a place, and from there, this
		
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			is the direction.
		
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			So how you get to that place, you
		
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			figure it out.
		
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			But you get yourself to that place, say,
		
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			this is the park, get yourself to the
		
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			park, it's a well-known landmark, and from
		
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			that park, this is the road.
		
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			So it's important.
		
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			So in life also, so you've got your
		
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			family, you've got your school, your college, you've
		
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			got your relationships, you've got friends, and so
		
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			on and so forth.
		
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			You have the dean.
		
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			So what is the balance?
		
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			The mistake that many people make when they
		
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			think balance is, they think balance means little
		
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			bit of haram, no, that's not balance.
		
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			That's crazy.
		
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			That's not balance.
		
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			Balance is to use the dean as a
		
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			map.
		
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			Dean is what gives you direction.
		
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			Because in any situation, if you say, what
		
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			must I do, how must I behave, where
		
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			is the answer?
		
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			In the dean.
		
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			Because if I behave in that situation the
		
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			way Allah wants me to behave, the way
		
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			the Prophet Muhammad SAW behaved, then I won't.
		
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			I won't know that unless I know the
		
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			dean.
		
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			So that's why the importance of knowing the
		
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			dean.
		
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			Now you might say, I would like to
		
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			know the dean, but I'm not an expert,
		
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			I'm not an alim.
		
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			What must I do?
		
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			Okay, do two things.
		
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			One is, the fundamentals of it, get them
		
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			clear.
		
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			Because that's very important.
		
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			Every single Muslim must know the fundamentals.
		
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			And the next step is, wherever there is
		
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			a doubt, check with somebody who knows.
		
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			Go to Asia, go to whoever, may not
		
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			be Asia, go to somebody who knows and
		
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			check with them.
		
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			Don't invent.
		
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			Don't say what you see in my opinion.
		
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			No, no, no opinion.
		
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			There is something which Allah has told us.
		
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			There is something which Rasulullah SAW has told
		
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			us.
		
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			We follow that.
		
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			We don't follow personal opinions.
		
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			Personal opinions are the biggest trap of shaitan
		
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			because what is my opinion?
		
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			My opinion is whatever suits me.
		
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			No, I mean for anybody.
		
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			Opinion means, within words, make sense.
		
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			What is the meaning of make sense?
		
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			It means I like it.
		
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			My like and dislike cannot be a usul
		
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			in deen.
		
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			So Allah has made the religion, there is
		
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			a reason for it.
		
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			Some of that reason we understand, some we
		
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			don't understand, but we take it because Allah
		
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			told us.
		
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			Allah SWT made five times prayer followed on
		
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			us.
		
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			So whether you like it, you don't like
		
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			it, you think it is convenient, you might
		
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			say it would be nice if I had
		
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			only one salah.
		
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			You might say it would be nice if
		
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			I had ten salah.
		
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			Somebody might say, I think five is too
		
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			little.
		
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			I would like to pray more.
		
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			Good for you.
		
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			But how many is for five?
		
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			You can pray ten if you like.
		
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			No problem.
		
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			And somebody says, five is too much.
		
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			No, not too much.
		
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			This is what Allah has told us.
		
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			But in my opinion, why do I need?
		
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			No, there is no opinion.
		
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			Allah has said five.
		
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			Someone says, why must I fast only in
		
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			Ramadan?
		
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			Because Ramadan will come sometimes in the summer,
		
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			fast is long.
		
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			Why don't we have fasting only in winter?
		
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			So the fast is shorter.
		
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			No, people can say all this.
		
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			Why don't we fast only in winter?
		
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			More convenient.
		
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			It is more convenient.
		
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			No doubt about that.
		
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			It is more convenient to have a shorter
		
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			period of fasting.
		
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			But that is not the point.
		
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			The point is, we fast in Ramadan because
		
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			Allah made that point.
		
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			Somebody says, why must I have the Jumu
		
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			'ah?
		
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			Why must that be on Friday?
		
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			The communicational prayer.
		
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			Let's have it on Sunday.
		
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			Sunday is alright anyway.
		
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			Friday we have complications.
		
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			Take time off, go to the masjid.
		
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			Sunday I am home, I am free.
		
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			Let's do it on Sunday.
		
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			Can we do that?
		
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			No.
		
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			Even though it is like in this country.
		
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			Sunday is not necessary.
		
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			Meaning whatever is the holiday for that culture,
		
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			for that country.
		
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			Let's have it on that day.
		
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			Maybe holidays on Tuesday, let's do it on
		
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			Tuesday.
		
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			No.
		
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			Jumu'ah is Jumu'ah.
		
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			Jumu'ah is not only because it is
		
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			Friday.
		
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			Jumu'ah is the Salatul Jumu'ah.
		
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			So we obey Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said so.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said Allah said
		
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			Allah has made trade, has made business halal
		
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			and has made interest-based dealing halal.
		
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			So if you read all those ayats together
		
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			in Surah Al-Baqarah, Allah does not tell
		
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			us, you see, don't deal in interest because
		
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			it decreases wealth, because it does this, because
		
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			it puts you in the debt trap, because
		
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			that is the root of all poverty.
		
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			All of this is true but Allah does
		
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			not show that.
		
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			What is the reason Allah has given?
		
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			Why is interest halal?
		
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			Allah says because I said so.
		
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			Why is trade and business halal?
		
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			Because I said so.
		
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			For Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to say
		
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			because I said so is dalil as far
		
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			as we are concerned.
		
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			That's enough for us.
		
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			As Muslims, Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Because Allah knows best and Allah loves us
		
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			and Allah wants for us that which is
		
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			best.
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Somebody comes along and says, no, no, no,
		
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			you know, this is America, right?
		
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			So don't worry about this.
		
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			Okay, those days, 7th century Arabia, this is
		
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			America.
		
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			Everybody takes interest, man.
		
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			I mean, you have to say only you.
		
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			Everyone takes.
		
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			It's in the system.
		
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			You can't escape it.
		
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			It's like the air you're breathing in.
		
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			What is the answer?
		
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			How will you answer this?
		
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			Anyone?
		
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			These questions get asked, no?
		
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			So you must know the answer.
		
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			Tell me, no, right and right.
		
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			I'm not punishing anybody here.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			What's the answer?
		
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			Not true.
		
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			So why not true?
		
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			Because Allah said so.
		
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			For us.
		
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			Who knows more?
		
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			Simple question.
		
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			Who knows more?
		
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			You or Allah?
		
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			If he says, I know more.
		
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			Then it's okay.
		
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			Goodbye.
		
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			If Allah knows more, then why are you
		
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			putting your opinion into this thing and saying,
		
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			do this, do this?
		
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			You obey Allah because Allah said so.
		
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			And I gave you so many examples.
		
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			For all of these, there's only one answer.
		
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			Why five Salah?
		
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			Because Allah said so.
		
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			Why Juma on Friday?
		
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			Because Allah said so.
		
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			Why Ramadan in Ramadan?
		
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			Why fasting in Ramadan?
		
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			Because Allah said so.
		
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			And so on.
		
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			What's so great about life?
		
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			It's a night like a night.
		
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			Oh, is it?
		
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			Is it special?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			What makes it special?
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Allah is the one who created everything and
		
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			He chooses.
		
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			He chooses.
		
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			Why is Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam the best
		
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			of all human beings and the best of
		
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			the prophets and the Imam of the Prophets
		
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			and Sayyidul Mursaleen?
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because Allah picked him.
		
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			Otherwise, he is like anybody else.
		
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			Allah said, Say to them, I am a
		
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			human being like you.
		
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			But I get Wahi.
		
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			That is what makes him special.
		
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			Because Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has picked him.
		
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			Otherwise, he says, I am like you.
		
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			I am a human being.
		
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			So who Allah picks?
		
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			And that is why this Deen is special
		
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			because Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, Allah
		
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			said, Today I have completed your religion for
		
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			you and I have completed my blessing on
		
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			you and I have chosen for you Islam
		
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			as your Deen.
		
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			So this Deen is not something we chose.
		
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			It is not something that is chosen or
		
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			prescribed by Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam or
		
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			by some great and wonderful and wise person.
		
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			This is something that Allah chose for us.
		
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			I am pleased for you to have this
		
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			Deen.
		
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			The gift of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			So the Deen is a road map.
		
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			So anytime there is a question, we come
		
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			back to it.
		
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			That is the meaning of balance.
		
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			Balance is to use the Deen as a
		
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			road map which is what Deen is.
		
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			It is a road map on the road
		
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			which is called our life.
		
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			This life is a journey.
		
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			This life is a journey.
		
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			It started in this world.
		
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			It started when we were born.
		
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			Otherwise our existence is before this world and
		
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			our existence will continue after this world.
		
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			But in this world, our life starts.
		
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			This peace of life starts when we are
		
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			born and it ends when we die.
		
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			And nobody knows when that end is going
		
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			to come.
		
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			May Allah give you a long and healthy
		
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			life with Iman and Yaqeel and make it
		
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			easy for all of you.
		
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			But we all, one day, there is no
		
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			doubt about this.
		
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			Some go early, some go late but everyone
		
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			goes.
		
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			And the key is to keep ourselves on
		
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			the right track until we get off.
		
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			Once we get off at the right exit,
		
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			then we are good.
		
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			Home and drive.
		
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			He used to get off at the right
		
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			exit.
		
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			Like on the highway.
		
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			You take the right exit, it takes you
		
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			home.
		
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			But you get misled somewhere in between and
		
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			you lose some money and stuff.
		
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			Now, then what happens?
		
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			Now when we say balancing this with family
		
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			life and college.
		
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			So in college, the biggest and please join
		
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			in this.
		
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			In my own college life and so on,
		
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			and I'm not talking about the ancient history.
		
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			My last encounter in college was last year.
		
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			I was in Bennington College for two months,
		
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			my immersion course.
		
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			I was following the regular college schedule.
		
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			I was staying in the hostel and so
		
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			on and so forth.
		
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			What happens in college life is that to
		
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			a great extent, your time is not in
		
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			your hands.
		
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			You have classes, you have then assignments, then
		
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			you have tests and so forth.
		
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			Now in a regular college, the amount of
		
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			classes is not that much.
		
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			Maybe three or four hours a day or
		
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			some such thing.
		
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			But the rest of the time is supposed
		
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			to be free, but it's not free because
		
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			you've got all kinds of assignments and classes
		
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			and this and that.
		
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			So how do you manage all that?
		
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			With the Deen.
		
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			So the secret is make sure that you
		
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			fulfill whatever Allah has made for you.
		
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			So what is the first part to fulfill?
		
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			Pray.
		
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			Salat.
		
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			So make sure you pray the five prayers
		
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			on time.
		
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			In the five prayers, the morning Fajr and
		
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			Isha is not a problem because you are
		
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			back wherever you are, either in your room
		
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			in the hospital or you are back home.
		
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			So Fajr and Isha should not be a
		
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			hassle.
		
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			For the guys, go to the Masjid for
		
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			both of these because it's good for you.
		
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			It's good for you.
		
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			I see you every day.
		
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			May Allah bless you.
		
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			So go to the Masjid.
		
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			You will get the benefit of the Jama
		
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			'at plus usually after Fajr and Isha there
		
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			is some program, most Masjids have some reading
		
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			of the Quran or some Khatir or something.
		
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			Sit and listen to that.
		
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			It's always good to get some good stuff
		
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			from there.
		
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			So those two are taken care of.
		
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			Now you've got the other three.
		
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			Zohr, Asr, Maghrib.
		
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			So one or two of them will come
		
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			during your actual college working hours.
		
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			Maybe one will be back again home or
		
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			maybe you are in transit somewhere.
		
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			Just manage to do that.
		
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			Just the Fardh.
		
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			At least just pray only the Fardh.
		
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			Try and pray the Sunnah because this is
		
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			another mistaken impression we have to think that
		
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			the Sunnah is only Sunnah.
		
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			Sunnah is very important.
		
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			Especially Sunnah Muhaqqadah which is the Sunnah which
		
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			Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam always prayed.
		
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			So for the Salah which is the Sunnah
		
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			which he always prayed in Fardh in Fajr,
		
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			how many are there?
		
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			Two Rakat.
		
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			Before the Fardh two Rakat of Sunnah.
		
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			This is Muhaqqadah.
		
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			In Zohr, how many?
		
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			Four.
		
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			And then two.
		
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			So four and two.
		
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			In Isha you pray two and two also.
		
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			It's acceptable but four and two is better.
		
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			Asr, there is no Sunnah.
		
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			Maghrib, two.
		
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			After Isha, two.
		
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			And then there is Wujud.
		
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			So these, make sure you pray them.
		
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			Now you can pray them straight away.
		
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			Ideally pray them straight away because then you
		
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			are done with that.
		
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			But for whatever reason, if you can't pray
		
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			them straight away, make sure you pray them
		
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			before the time of that Salah is over.
		
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			So the Sunnah for Zohr must be prayed
		
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			before the Asr time comes in.
		
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			So whether you pray right there or you
		
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			go home and pray or you go to
		
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			your office and pray, that's okay.
		
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			But that's why I say the most convenient
		
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			is now you are there at the Musallah,
		
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			finish it.
		
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			And then go.
		
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			But if you are praying in the Masjid,
		
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			it is more rewardable to pray the Sunnah
		
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			at home.
		
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			Don't convert your home into cemeteries.
		
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			Meaning, in the cemetery you are not supposed
		
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			to do any Salah in the cemetery.
		
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			Don't make the house into a graveyard where
		
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			you are not praying anything in there.
		
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			So pray in the house also.
		
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			So pray some Sunnah in the house, pray
		
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			the Hajj, wake up right before the time
		
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			for Salatul Fajr starts.
		
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			Wake up, pray at least two Aqaf of
		
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			Fajr.
		
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			All this is good.
		
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			Good for the house also.
		
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			So make sure you do that.
		
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			So Fardh.
		
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			This is very important.
		
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			Second thing as far as the Fardh is
		
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			concerned is of course in Ramadan, fasting and
		
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			so on, which you will do InshaAllah.
		
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			Fardh also in terms of what Allah has
		
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			made halal for us in terms of our
		
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			relationships, in terms of our behaviour, in terms
		
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			of our clothing.
		
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			All of this must be make sure you
		
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			fulfil those things.
		
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			Other than that, and eating food.
		
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			Make sure you eat halal.
		
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			If there is a doubt, don't touch it.
		
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			Don't touch anything in which there is a
		
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			doubt.
		
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			What is halal?
		
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			Eat it.
		
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			If there is a doubt, clarify it.
		
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			In terms of meat, what is halal?
		
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			Something with a halal stamp or something which
		
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			is Zabiha and slaughtered.
		
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			Which one?
		
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			And slaughtered Zabiha.
		
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			I sent a detailed khatir on this.
		
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			If it is not hand slaughtered, it is
		
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			not halal, no matter how many stamps are
		
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			on it.
		
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			Machine slaughter is haram.
		
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			And it is your job to find out
		
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			what it is.
		
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			So do not hesitate whether you are eating
		
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			in somebody's house or you are eating in
		
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			a restaurant.
		
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			Ask them, is it hand slaughtered?
		
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			People say, no, it's haram.
		
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			No, no, I'm not asking.
		
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			That's not my question.
		
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			My question is, is it hand slaughtered?
		
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			Is it Zabiha?
		
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			If it is Zabiha, they will say, yes,
		
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			it is Zabiha.
		
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			If somebody is playing this game, no, no,
		
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			it is halal.
		
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			It means that there is some doubt in
		
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			this thing.
		
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			No problem.
		
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			I won't eat the meat.
		
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			You eat the veggies.
		
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			You ask for eggs.
		
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			You ask for fish.
		
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			You ask for shrimp.
		
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			There are many options.
		
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			One meal, if you don't eat a chicken
		
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			or you don't eat some meat, you won't
		
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			die.
		
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			It's not a life-saving drug.
		
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			It's a matter of play.
		
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			A life-saving drug is chicken.
		
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			Oh, my God, chicken, chicken, chicken.
		
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			No.
		
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			Don't eat it.
		
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			I mean, I have Hindu friends who don't
		
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			eat meat their whole life.
		
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			Not one chicken.
		
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			They never eat meat.
		
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			So what's so difficult?
		
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			Nothing is difficult.
		
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			It's a matter of saying what is important.
		
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			It's Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala's, how come
		
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			important for me or not.
		
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			So that's it.
		
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			As long as we follow these things, fulfill
		
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			the farhad, stay away from whatever is hard.
		
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			Now, this is not difficult in any college,
		
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			anywhere in the world.
		
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			What's so difficult?
		
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			So balancing in the sense of following our
		
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			Deen is the easiest thing in the world.
		
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			It's not difficult at all.
		
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			So don't fall into this.
		
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			Some of the psychological stuff which we have
		
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			been conditioned, oh, why not follow it?
		
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			It's so difficult.
		
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			Who told you it's difficult?
		
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			Tell me, what is difficult?
		
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			It's not difficult.
		
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			It's very easy.
		
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			And not just easy, remember this, whatever you
		
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			are doing, there is a benefit for it.
		
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			In Islam, we understand this, that every action
		
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			has two reactions.
		
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			One in this world, one in the other
		
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			world.
		
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			If you smile at somebody, what is the
		
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			reaction in this world?
		
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			The other person smiles back, good for relationship,
		
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			so on, so on.
		
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			But that smile is also sadaka.
		
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			So you are getting a good deed for
		
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			that.
		
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			Right?
		
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			If you give somebody charity, if you help
		
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			someone out financially, benefit in this world is
		
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			good for you.
		
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			Good for you, good for the relationship, you
		
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			help somebody, you feel nice, and so on,
		
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			so on.
		
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			But this is also on your scale of
		
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			buddhism.
		
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			So every action that we take has a
		
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			worldly benefit and has a other worldly benefit
		
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			in the akhira.
		
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			So do it with this niya.
		
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			And ask Allah to help you.
		
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			May Allah help me.
		
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			How can I succeed in this?
		
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			Put Allah first and you will find that
		
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			Allah will make it easy for you.
		
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			Many, many years ago, almost 25 years ago,
		
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			I was in Chicago and I was at
		
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			my cousin's place and her son, so my
		
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			nephew, he used to work for I can't
		
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			remember now, Motorola or one of these big
		
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			companies.
		
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			So we were talking about salah.
		
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			So I said, you pray.
		
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			He said, no, you know, Zohar and Asr,
		
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			two prayers, I can't pray because I'm at
		
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			work.
		
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			So I said, if you're at work, why
		
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			can't you pray?
		
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			What's the problem?
		
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			This is America.
		
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			And it is your right, your constitutional right
		
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			in this country to practice your religion.
		
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			Nobody can stop you.
		
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			Nobody.
		
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			Not only Islam, whatever your religion.
		
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			You have a constitutional right to practice your
		
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			religion.
		
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			And nobody can stop you by law.
		
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			And my experience of America is that people
		
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			are nice, they will not stop you.
		
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			They will actually help you.
		
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			So I said to him, I said, do
		
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			me a favor.
		
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			I said, I'll tell you one hadith and
		
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			after listening to the hadith, go and ask
		
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			your boss.
		
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			You say, I would like to have time
		
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			to pray.
		
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			He said, Zohar and Asr, two prayers.
		
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			I want time to pray.
		
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			How long does it take?
		
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			Five minutes.
		
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			Four prayers.
		
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			It doesn't take more than five minutes.
		
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			The hadith I told him is, Rasulullah Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam said, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			says, He says, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			says, The one who prays the five prayers
		
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			which I have made on time, on the
		
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			Day of Judgment, it is my responsibility.
		
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			Whose responsibility?
		
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			Allah's responsibility.
		
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			Allah says, it is my responsibility to forgive
		
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			that person and enter him or her into
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			And if they do not pray those five
		
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			prayers, then it is not my responsibility.
		
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			I may do it, I may not do
		
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			it.
		
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			Just the five prayers.
		
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			Five prayers on time.
		
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			Just the first prayers.
		
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			Sholay you pray, Alhamdulillah, good for you, you
		
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			should pray Sholay.
		
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			But just the first prayers if you pray,
		
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			the five first prayers on time.
		
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			The key is that, not making Khada and
		
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			so on.
		
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			No, on time.
		
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			Allah says, it is my responsibility.
		
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			I take on the responsibility.
		
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			Nobody can force Allah to do that.
		
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			Allah says, I take on the responsibility to
		
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			forgive that individual and put them in Jannah.
		
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			So I said, ok.
		
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			Then from there I was going to University
		
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			in Champaign.
		
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			So when I reached there, I get a
		
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			call the next day.
		
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			It was my nephew.
		
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			He said, you know, I went to the
		
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			office and I said to my boss, I
		
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			need five minutes to pray and so on.
		
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			His boss said, absolutely no problem.
		
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			He said, where can I visit?
		
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			He said, in my office.
		
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			Please come and pray here, in my office.
		
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			He said, I didn't realize that you know
		
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			my boss...
		
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			I said, of course, man.
		
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			You never asked him, how do you know?
		
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			You never asked him, right?
		
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			When you ask, Allah opens doors.
		
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			But if I don't even ask, then how
		
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			do you blame somebody else?
		
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			They don't know that you need this thing.
		
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			You just ask.
		
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			Can I have time to pray?
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			So it's easy.
		
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			It's not difficult.
		
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			It's very easy.
		
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			And Allah makes it easy.
		
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			You make the need, I want to obey
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Make dua, I say Allah, I want to
		
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			obey Him.
		
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			Here is the situation.
		
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			Please make it easy for me to obey
		
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			Him.
		
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			Allah will make it easy.