Maryam Amir – Young Identity

Maryam Amir
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The speakers discuss their desire for a kiss from their parents and their mother, as well as their desire for a kiss from their father and their mother. They also talk about their religious connections, including finding support in the Muslim community and finding a friend named Hamur Al Maktoum. The segment includes advertisements for a music interlude and plays a music interlude.
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Some information and share some information with us. Please put

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your hands together for shake up Mariam Amen brother Hemi,

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give it up for my sister. Come on. You got it all week. Why is

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that?

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Now this is a story all about how my life got twisted upside down,

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and I'd like to take a minute, so just sit right there. I'll tell

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you how I ran France be president, born in California and raised on

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the basketball courts where I spent most of my days chilling

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out, maxing, relaxing, all cool, taking over the school. What a

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couple of people up to no good started making trouble in my

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neighborhood. They started one little fight, and my mom got

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scared. She said, you're running for ASB president, even if you

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don't care. I begged and pleaded with her day after day, but she

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kept my lunch box and sent me on my way. She gave me a kiss, and

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then she gave me a holler. I put up my signs, and I said, Man, I

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wish I was Tala when I started high school. The last thing I

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cared about was Islam. I wanted to be popular. And so I thought that

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the way it could be popular was to do something like one for ASB

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president, because at my high school in particular, that was a

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really big deal. So when my parents told me that we were gonna

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go to Mecca, I was scared because I didn't want to change. I didn't

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think that praying and fasting and being religious would make me

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super cool. But when I saw the Kaaba for the first time in my

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life I felt like something happened in my heart that went

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like

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it woke me up, and when I started reading a translation of the

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Quran, because I'm not Arab, and I didn't know Arabic at that time,

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every time something happened to me, I would open the Quran, point

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out a verse in the Quran, And then that verse had to do with my life.

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So I would open it and say, Oh, Allah, are you even listening to

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me? Do you ever feel that way? Is Allah even listening to me? I

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would wonder that. And then I'd close my eyes, open the Quran

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point at an ayah. And the ayah was, what either Are you burying?

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I'm Don,

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when you ask me if I am listening, I am close. I listen to the caller

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of the one who is calling when they call, I asked Allah, are you

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even listening? And Allah responds when you pray to Me, I answer you

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over and over every time I read the Quran, something in my life

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would happen, and I'd go bawling to the Quran, open it, point at a

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random verse in English, and then Allah would answer me exactly what

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I'm going through. And then I came across this ayah make

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an UID on the whoever wants honor, whoever wants success, whoever

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wants popularity, then your connection with Allah is where

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that's at.

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By the time I got to this point, I didn't care about popularity

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anymore. I just wanted to connection to Allah, but I decided

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that I'm gonna run for Abu President anyway, because I wanted

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people to see that as a Muslim, we care, we care about social

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justice, and we care about reform and we care about change. And so I

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ran, and that's the rap that I did. And I want to tell you

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something, which is that sometimes, even if you read the

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Quran, even, no matter what you do, how much you try to connect

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with the Quran, it doesn't mean that your life is going to be

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perfect. It just means that you're never going to be alone when

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you're going through what you're going through.

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Have you ever asked your mom or dad to give you a kiss because

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something hurts?

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Yeah. Yeah. Have a three year old, and every time he gets hurt, he's

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like, Mommy, my foot is hurting. I need a kiss right on my toe. I'm

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like, That's exactly where I want to kiss you.

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This concept of kissing someone, your child, getting a kiss from

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your parent to give you that source of comfort, or someone in

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your life who you love, we're gonna look at what that looks like

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when it comes to the Quran. We're gonna look at the concept of Kiss.

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When I say K, you say a Quran. K, okay.

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I already told you my story about the Quran. Read it in English, if

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that's if the only language you know.

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Read it and connect with it, and it will change your life

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Inshallah, and you will never be alone when I say, I, you say,

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intention, I, I.

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Intention means that no matter what you do, if you remember Allah

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when you do it, it's a forms of blessing. So have you ever had one

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of your friends? I need two people

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right there, in the yellow shirt, right here, in the blue sweater,

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black sweater,

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yes, yeah, yeah, come up behind you.

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Oh, you both can come up. We can get three. Where is your yellow

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dress? Come here. Come on up. We can do three. We got three.

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Okay, we apparently have four. We have four. I don't know what

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happened, but that's okay, all right. Now here we go.

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Who here is going to mega cry

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who's such a good crier? You look like a great crier. Okay. What's

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your name? Yasin. Yasin is gonna ball his eyes out. What's your

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name? Zaid, what's your name,

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what's your name? Zaina, Zaina, okay, Zaina, Zaid and Yusuf, you

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are gonna see that. Our friend here is going to cry his eyes out.

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What are you gonna do about it? We're gonna find out. All

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right, help me.

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Okay, so he's gonna use humor to help him feel better. You're good.

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Thank you. Stand up here, what are you going to do?

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Help me?

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Okay, what did you say? You say

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it again. Do

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you want to say after me? Pray

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free. Allah. All right.

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I

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tell his parents you're gonna tell his parents, because you want them

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to support him. Look at all those creative solutions. When you're

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crying your eyes out.

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Yours is just natural, which is still creative. You're naturally

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creative when you are going through something a friend of

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yours is crying when you think of what you can do to help your

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friend. That is a way that Allah blesses you, because Allah loves

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that you're trying to help your friend. You make the intention

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that you want to help him out. Allah helps you out. Got it nice?

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Take beer for these awesome kids.

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Your family. Famous. You were famous long before you got

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upstage. Brother. Masha Allah, all right, go down. Thank you. You're

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amazing. So much. Masha Allah, when you make the intention,

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whatever you do for the sake of Allah blesses you. The next s in

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Kiss is

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the Sira of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, Who

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here wants to be a doctor,

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who, here is already a doctor,

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rufaila al Asmaa, she was a female companion of the Prophet

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sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, who was a medical surgeon. What a

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boss? Who wants to be a therapist or a counselor, yeah, who is

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already

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both of them were therapists of the Prophet. Saw them in moments

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that he needed that counsel Who here wants to be a social media

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influencer. Everyone

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Hassan Ibn fabit, he used to recite poetry that got retweeted

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and shared like crazy throughout Arabia, every single person that

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you want to be, whether you in your life are a janitor who is

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someone who is beloved to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam, who is a woman who used to clean the masjid, or if you have a

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special ability or a disability, like Abdullah ibn Al Maktoum, who

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used to give the ad of the Masjid of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam. You have someone in the Sira of the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi salam who is like you. So find support in the Sira. And

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finally, that final S is support. Who are you here with right now?

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Are you here with a friend?

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Yeah. Are you here with a parent or someone older? Do me a favor.

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Stand up, find a friend or find someone that you love, and if

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there is nobody here, you have yourself and Allah always give

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that person a huge hug or a kiss. Go you.

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And we're back in three. We're back in two, we're back in one. We

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are back in

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the row.

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The final s and kiss is support, because sometimes you're not gonna

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feel like you know what to do, but we got your back. The Muslim

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community has your back because you're a younger siblings who we

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love and who are standing up, no matter how hard it is.

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My friends, my friends, you know what the Quran says about you? It

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says

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he has chosen you. That means he chose you to be a part of this

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ummah because of something that he sees inside of you that even you

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might not see, that he knows is going to be a benefit to this

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ummah. You've been chosen to be a part of this ummah. We're blessed,

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Hamdulillah, to have each other as a brothers and sisters. So when

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you're going through anything, remember the Quran intention,

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Sierra and support. Send that kiss up to someone that you love, and

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don't forget how much Allah loves you.

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