Maryam Amir – Young Identity

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The speakers discuss their desire for a kiss from their parents and their mother, as well as their desire for a kiss from their father and their mother. They also talk about their religious connections, including finding support in the Muslim community and finding a friend named Hamur Al Maktoum. The segment includes advertisements for a music interlude and plays a music interlude.

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			Some information and share some
information with us. Please put
		
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			your hands together for shake up
Mariam Amen brother Hemi,
		
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			give it up for my sister. Come on.
You got it all week. Why is
		
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			that?
		
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			Now this is a story all about how
my life got twisted upside down,
		
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			and I'd like to take a minute, so
just sit right there. I'll tell
		
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			you how I ran France be president,
born in California and raised on
		
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			the basketball courts where I
spent most of my days chilling
		
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			out, maxing, relaxing, all cool,
taking over the school. What a
		
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			couple of people up to no good
started making trouble in my
		
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			neighborhood. They started one
little fight, and my mom got
		
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			scared. She said, you're running
for ASB president, even if you
		
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			don't care. I begged and pleaded
with her day after day, but she
		
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			kept my lunch box and sent me on
my way. She gave me a kiss, and
		
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			then she gave me a holler. I put
up my signs, and I said, Man, I
		
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			wish I was Tala when I started
high school. The last thing I
		
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			cared about was Islam. I wanted to
be popular. And so I thought that
		
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			the way it could be popular was to
do something like one for ASB
		
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			president, because at my high
school in particular, that was a
		
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			really big deal. So when my
parents told me that we were gonna
		
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			go to Mecca, I was scared because
I didn't want to change. I didn't
		
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			think that praying and fasting and
being religious would make me
		
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			super cool. But when I saw the
Kaaba for the first time in my
		
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			life I felt like something
happened in my heart that went
		
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			like
		
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			it woke me up, and when I started
reading a translation of the
		
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			Quran, because I'm not Arab, and I
didn't know Arabic at that time,
		
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			every time something happened to
me, I would open the Quran, point
		
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			out a verse in the Quran, And then
that verse had to do with my life.
		
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			So I would open it and say, Oh,
Allah, are you even listening to
		
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			me? Do you ever feel that way? Is
Allah even listening to me? I
		
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			would wonder that. And then I'd
close my eyes, open the Quran
		
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			point at an ayah. And the ayah
was, what either Are you burying?
		
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			I'm Don,
		
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			when you ask me if I am listening,
I am close. I listen to the caller
		
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			of the one who is calling when
they call, I asked Allah, are you
		
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			even listening? And Allah responds
when you pray to Me, I answer you
		
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			over and over every time I read
the Quran, something in my life
		
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			would happen, and I'd go bawling
to the Quran, open it, point at a
		
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			random verse in English, and then
Allah would answer me exactly what
		
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			I'm going through. And then I came
across this ayah make
		
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			an UID on the whoever wants honor,
whoever wants success, whoever
		
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			wants popularity, then your
connection with Allah is where
		
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			that's at.
		
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			By the time I got to this point, I
didn't care about popularity
		
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			anymore. I just wanted to
connection to Allah, but I decided
		
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			that I'm gonna run for Abu
President anyway, because I wanted
		
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			people to see that as a Muslim, we
care, we care about social
		
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			justice, and we care about reform
and we care about change. And so I
		
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			ran, and that's the rap that I
did. And I want to tell you
		
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			something, which is that
sometimes, even if you read the
		
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			Quran, even, no matter what you
do, how much you try to connect
		
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			with the Quran, it doesn't mean
that your life is going to be
		
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			perfect. It just means that you're
never going to be alone when
		
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			you're going through what you're
going through.
		
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			Have you ever asked your mom or
dad to give you a kiss because
		
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			something hurts?
		
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			Yeah. Yeah. Have a three year old,
and every time he gets hurt, he's
		
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			like, Mommy, my foot is hurting. I
need a kiss right on my toe. I'm
		
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			like, That's exactly where I want
to kiss you.
		
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			This concept of kissing someone,
your child, getting a kiss from
		
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			your parent to give you that
source of comfort, or someone in
		
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			your life who you love, we're
gonna look at what that looks like
		
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			when it comes to the Quran. We're
gonna look at the concept of Kiss.
		
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			When I say K, you say a Quran. K,
okay.
		
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			I already told you my story about
the Quran. Read it in English, if
		
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			that's if the only language you
know.
		
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			Read it and connect with it, and
it will change your life
		
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			Inshallah, and you will never be
alone when I say, I, you say,
		
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			intention, I, I.
		
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			Intention means that no matter
what you do, if you remember Allah
		
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			when you do it, it's a forms of
blessing. So have you ever had one
		
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			of your friends? I need two people
		
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			right there, in the yellow shirt,
right here, in the blue sweater,
		
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			black sweater,
		
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			yes, yeah, yeah, come up behind
you.
		
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			Oh, you both can come up. We can
get three. Where is your yellow
		
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			dress? Come here. Come on up. We
can do three. We got three.
		
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			Okay, we apparently have four. We
have four. I don't know what
		
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			happened, but that's okay, all
right. Now here we go.
		
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			Who here is going to mega cry
		
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			who's such a good crier? You look
like a great crier. Okay. What's
		
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			your name? Yasin. Yasin is gonna
ball his eyes out. What's your
		
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			name? Zaid, what's your name,
		
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			what's your name? Zaina, Zaina,
okay, Zaina, Zaid and Yusuf, you
		
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			are gonna see that. Our friend
here is going to cry his eyes out.
		
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			What are you gonna do about it?
We're gonna find out. All
		
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			right, help me.
		
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			Okay, so he's gonna use humor to
help him feel better. You're good.
		
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			Thank you. Stand up here, what are
you going to do?
		
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			Help me?
		
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			Okay, what did you say? You say
		
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			it again. Do
		
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			you want to say after me? Pray
		
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			free. Allah. All right.
		
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			I
		
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			tell his parents you're gonna tell
his parents, because you want them
		
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			to support him. Look at all those
creative solutions. When you're
		
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			crying your eyes out.
		
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			Yours is just natural, which is
still creative. You're naturally
		
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			creative when you are going
through something a friend of
		
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			yours is crying when you think of
what you can do to help your
		
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			friend. That is a way that Allah
blesses you, because Allah loves
		
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			that you're trying to help your
friend. You make the intention
		
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			that you want to help him out.
Allah helps you out. Got it nice?
		
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			Take beer for these awesome kids.
		
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			Your family. Famous. You were
famous long before you got
		
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			upstage. Brother. Masha Allah, all
right, go down. Thank you. You're
		
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			amazing. So much. Masha Allah,
when you make the intention,
		
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			whatever you do for the sake of
Allah blesses you. The next s in
		
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			Kiss is
		
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			the Sira of the Prophet
sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, Who
		
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			here wants to be a doctor,
		
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			who, here is already a doctor,
		
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			rufaila al Asmaa, she was a female
companion of the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, who
was a medical surgeon. What a
		
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			boss? Who wants to be a therapist
or a counselor, yeah, who is
		
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			already
		
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			both of them were therapists of
the Prophet. Saw them in moments
		
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			that he needed that counsel Who
here wants to be a social media
		
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			influencer. Everyone
		
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			Hassan Ibn fabit, he used to
recite poetry that got retweeted
		
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			and shared like crazy throughout
Arabia, every single person that
		
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			you want to be, whether you in
your life are a janitor who is
		
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			someone who is beloved to the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam, who is a woman who used to
clean the masjid, or if you have a
		
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			special ability or a disability,
like Abdullah ibn Al Maktoum, who
		
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			used to give the ad of the Masjid
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam. You have someone in the
Sira of the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi salam who is like you. So
find support in the Sira. And
		
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			finally, that final S is support.
Who are you here with right now?
		
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			Are you here with a friend?
		
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			Yeah. Are you here with a parent
or someone older? Do me a favor.
		
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			Stand up, find a friend or find
someone that you love, and if
		
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			there is nobody here, you have
yourself and Allah always give
		
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			that person a huge hug or a kiss.
Go you.
		
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			And we're back in three. We're
back in two, we're back in one. We
		
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			are back in
		
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			the row.
		
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			The final s and kiss is support,
because sometimes you're not gonna
		
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			feel like you know what to do, but
we got your back. The Muslim
		
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			community has your back because
you're a younger siblings who we
		
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			love and who are standing up, no
matter how hard it is.
		
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			My friends, my friends, you know
what the Quran says about you? It
		
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			says
		
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			he has chosen you. That means he
chose you to be a part of this
		
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			ummah because of something that he
sees inside of you that even you
		
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			might not see, that he knows is
going to be a benefit to this
		
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			ummah. You've been chosen to be a
part of this ummah. We're blessed,
		
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			Hamdulillah, to have each other as
a brothers and sisters. So when
		
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			you're going through anything,
remember the Quran intention,
		
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			Sierra and support. Send that kiss
up to someone that you love, and
		
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			don't forget how much Allah loves
you.