Maryam Amir – You dont love wearing hijab
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The speaker discusses the issue of wearing incorrectly, which they believe is a sign of obligations and weakness. They ask the other person to reframe the situation for them, explaining that wearing it for the sake of Allah is a pleasing experience for Allah. The speaker also suggests that wearing it for a pleasing purpose only is not a sign of dedication to Allah.
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The fact that you think this is a problem, subhanAllah, why do you
wear hijab? Because it's an obligation. That's it. That's
literally the only reason you're not doing it because it gives you
a high. You're not doing it because you're addicted to a
feeling. You're wearing it out of obedience to Allah, subhana wa
taala, and that's all. I fully understand the feelings of
discouragement, but I want to reframe that for you, the fact
that you wear it for the sake of Allah only as a sign of the
dedication of your faith, what you might see as not being good
enough. Or maybe Allah doesn't love the fact that you that you're
not like skipping jumping for joy because you get to wear hijab
every day. Maybe you see that as not as pleasing to Him, but maybe
to Allah, he is so pleased with you because you're doing it for no
other sake than for the sake of Allah. Do not belittle your
struggle, because maybe in your sight it's a struggle, but maybe
in the sight of Allah, it is what is elevating your status, because
your commitment to it literally only for the sake of Allah, and
that is all.