Maryam Amir – When Muslim women struggle religious texts

Maryam Amir
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The speaker discusses how women are often pushed out of Muslim spaces due to issues like child sexual trauma and domestic violence, and how they are not valued because they don't have strong personalities. They suggest that women should recognize the lack of community systems of accountability and seek help from others, rather than just blaming them. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of learning from women who have made a difference in society.
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Sometimes when women have a question about a particular

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quranic verse or a hadith that they're not sure how could be

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empowering or uplifting, they're told it's because you don't have

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strong enough faith, or you're impacted by feminism, and that's

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why you don't understand the meaning of these verses. In

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reality, many women walk into many different Muslim spaces and feel

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like the architecture, infrastructure and policies of the

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masjid not only don't welcome her, but actively push her out, bind

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that with the reality of many women in our communities are

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victims and survivors of child sexual trauma and of sexual

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assault and domestic violence, and when they have the courage to seek

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help and blame shame, often their abusers are the ones who are

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protected, and instead of looking at a Muslim woman like a

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cumulative believer to support the messages that she keeps hearing is

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modesty and hijab are the only parts of you that we care about.

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Isn't that because she has a lack of faith, the fact that she's

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still Muslim speaks to the strength of her faith, because she

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keeps hearing that she doesn't have worth it's because she keeps

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seeing that her safety, her emotional protection, her physical

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protection, are not priorities. That is the lens that she goes to

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those verses with. So before blaming woman and saying they're

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just impacted by progressive feminism, recognize a lack of

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community systems of accountability impact her. Iman

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for you Queens know that the Quran is power for women. Get to know

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who Allah is, and take classes with women who are scholars, who

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understand your reality and who will support your journey. A.

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