Maryam Amir – The Mother

Maryam Amir
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The speaker discusses the impact of Islam on their daughter, who has been struggling with depression and anxiety. They talk about the importance of women in their generation and how their father, who they call a mother, has had a direct impact on their daughter's life and mental health. They also mention the need for mothers to raise children like their mother.

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			I have been following Ahmed Hijazi
for a few years now. Prior to the
		
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			genocide, his content really
focused on the Quran and the
		
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			people of ghazah and just
beautiful Islamic inspiration. I
		
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			had never seen his mother prior to
the genocide, and he showed her
		
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			when their home was bombed and how
she was comforting him and giving
		
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			him words of advice. Recently, his
brother and her son were was
		
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			martyred. May Allah enter him into
the highest paradise. And many of
		
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			you may have seen the clip of her
praising Allah. She says that she
		
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			was afflicted with illness, and
she thanked Allah. Her home was
		
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			bombed, and she thanked Allah. Her
son was taken kidnapped as a
		
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			hostage. And she thinks Allah that
He has her son was March hurt. And
		
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			now she thinks Allah, I have seen
people when they lose, you know, a
		
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			material possession, their
response is, why me? Why? God? Why
		
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			did this happen to me? And I fully
understand where the question
		
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			comes from. I respond with
complete empathy for someone who
		
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			is trying to navigate that
question, but I want to contrast
		
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			that with the way that Ahmed's
mother has an outlook for her life
		
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			and the way that it's impacted her
son, Ahmed, because before I knew
		
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			about the mother, I was inspired
by him, and now I see who raised
		
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			him, and I've been thinking about
us as women. For any of you who
		
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			are mothers, or any of you who
hope to become mothers one day, or
		
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			any of you who have the influence
of a younger sibling or a younger
		
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			cousin, or if you're a teacher,
you're students, or in any
		
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			capacity, younger people, what we
do, how we train ourselves in our
		
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			relationship with Allah has a
direct impact on those whom we
		
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			nurture. Where is our time? Where
is our focus? Where is our heart's
		
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			focus? That someone like Ahmed's
mother clearly a woman of the
		
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			Quran, the fact that her reaction
is, how am I going to show my
		
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			acceptance that this oppression is
happening to me? It doesn't mean
		
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			she doesn't speak against or or
stand against the oppression in
		
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			every way. But how is her internal
conversation with Allah's Panama
		
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			to Allah, her internal
conversation is not I've already
		
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			gone through so much. Why is this
happening too? It is Allah. I
		
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			trust you. We need the mothers of
Ahmed Hijazi to raise men like
		
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			Ahmed hajazi. Who are we going to
raise?