Maryam Amir – The companion who reached puberty in front of the Prophet

Maryam Amir
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A woman from the tribe of RIF describes a scene where a young woman from the tribe of RIF caught a bullet and killed her. The Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon her, gives her a bath, and she refuses to be on a battlefield. The woman refuses to
the opportunity to be on a battlefield and is embarrassed by the situation. She later describes a situation where a young woman caught a bullet and killed herself, but the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon her, gives her a bath, and she refuses to be on a battlefield. The woman describes the impact of the situation on her relationship with Islam.
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A group of women from the tribe of RIF came to the Prophet Muhammad,

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peace be upon him, asking if they could tend to the wounded during

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the Battle of khaybar. The Prophet's response, peace be upon

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him, was not to say, Why do you want to be on a battlefield, or

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are you trying to compete with men? Instead, he, peace be upon

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him, said by the blessings of God, literally giving them his

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blessing. Peace be upon him. With them was a young girl. Her name

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was umayyah bin space, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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had her sitting on his camel, and there was also luggage nearby. As

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the camel sits down, she realizes

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there's blood on the luggage. She got her period, she's super

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embarrassed, and she moves forward, trying to cover the

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traces of blood with her body. And then the Prophet, peace be upon

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him, sees what's going on, and he sees the blood, and he so gently

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asks, perhaps you got your period? To which she says, yes. Now so

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many women that I know remember embarrassing moments where they

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bled somewhere in public without realizing that they were on their

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period, and even 10 or 15 years later when they're laughing that

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off, it's like it was so embarrassing. I've never heard

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someone say that moment made me closer to God, but the Prophet

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Muhammad, peace be upon him. So lovingly, so with so much

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nurturing, he teaches her the thick of what to do, and then

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later on, after the battle is done, he comes to her PC upon him,

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and he puts around her neck and necklace honoring her, cherishing

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her, and she stipulated that she didn't want to be buried except

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with this necklace on her, getting her period in front of the Prophet

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Muhammad. Peace be upon him. Was a moment in which she was mentored.

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It was a moment in which she was nurtured and cherished as a young

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daughter, as a young child. Imagine the impact that had on her

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relationship with herself, with her self esteem, with the way that

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she felt about Islam.

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