Maryam Amir – Starting Ramadan on your period

Maryam Amir
AI: Summary ©
The speaker discusses the concept of "verbal behavior" during the period, which is related to women not being able to feel included in the community. They argue that women should be rewarded for their actions and connect with their sisters in their emotions to help alleviate the situation. The speaker also mentions the importance of not feeling guilty about participating in a constructive period and not being afraid of women to feel present.
AI: Transcript ©
00:00:00 --> 00:00:03

Sisters, if you are starting this month on your period, I tell you

00:00:03 --> 00:00:06

is that many women in the world understand what it's like to start

00:00:06 --> 00:00:09

Ramadan and not be fasting and praying with everyone else in the

00:00:09 --> 00:00:14

same way. Unfortunately, there is a lot of taboo in some communities

00:00:14 --> 00:00:18

about talking about menstruation. Lam Islam is very clear, but due

00:00:18 --> 00:00:21

to the taboo of some cultures, it's led to a lot of women feeling

00:00:21 --> 00:00:24

like starting Ramadan on your period is a form of punishment, or

00:00:24 --> 00:00:28

it's a form of not being able to feel as included in the community

00:00:28 --> 00:00:33

space. In reality, starting your period in Ramadan is simply what.

00:00:33 --> 00:00:39

It's simply submission to God that you are choosing to not

00:00:39 --> 00:00:43

participate in the Acts you normally would be participating in

00:00:43 --> 00:00:49

only because this is your worship to Allah. Why are we refraining to

00:00:49 --> 00:00:51

do that? Honor periods, not a punishment from God? Oh, it's

00:00:51 --> 00:00:55

simply because this is what Allah asked us to do, what the Prophet,

00:00:55 --> 00:00:58

Holy Son, guided us. So in this time of being in Mensis, honor

00:00:58 --> 00:01:03

your body. Rest and relax and eat and drink and take care of

00:01:03 --> 00:01:06

yourself. Don't feel guilty about taking care of your body. That's

00:01:06 --> 00:01:08

literally what you're supposed to do in this time. And make two

00:01:08 --> 00:01:11

intentions. The first intention is it's it's worship in and of

00:01:11 --> 00:01:16

itself. Every single second of Ramadan, you are getting rewarded

00:01:16 --> 00:01:18

in the second even when you're eating and drinking, you are being

00:01:18 --> 00:01:22

rewarded for doing so. And number two, try to connect with the woman

00:01:22 --> 00:01:25

companions on an emotional level. Think about what it was like for

00:01:25 --> 00:01:29

Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu to get her period as she's going to make Hajj

00:01:29 --> 00:01:31

with the Prophet sallallahu sallam. And she was weeping, and

00:01:31 --> 00:01:34

was the Prophet SAW them's reaction to comfort her that this

00:01:34 --> 00:01:38

is something ordained. What was it like for Sophia radiAllahu anha to

00:01:38 --> 00:01:41

get her period at the end of Hajj? What was it like for the woman

00:01:41 --> 00:01:44

companions to get their periods at a time where there were no

00:01:44 --> 00:01:50

products for women to be able to navigate cleanly existing in

00:01:50 --> 00:01:56

spaces without being worried about dripping, and that is a very real

00:01:56 --> 00:02:00

reality for our sisters in greza. Think about the woman of grese and

00:02:00 --> 00:02:04

how they are navigating being on their periods in tents without any

00:02:04 --> 00:02:08

type of supplies in a genocide in Ramadan, and what it's like for

00:02:08 --> 00:02:12

them. This is our opportunity to connect with our sisters in ghaza,

00:02:12 --> 00:02:16

emotionally, our sisters in Sudan, in the Congo in all parts of the

00:02:16 --> 00:02:21

world, and how can we use the privileges that we have to support

00:02:21 --> 00:02:21

their liberation?

Share Page