Maryam Amir – How to feel connected in Salah

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The speaker discusses the importance of praying for oneself and finding a place to comfort others. They also mention the use of words like "soak," "has," and "has a" in prayer, and the importance of remembering to use them when praying. The speaker also emphasizes the need to practice praying for oneself and finding a place to comfort others.

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			How do you feel Salah?
		
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			The first is change the way you talk
		
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			about Salah in your own head instead of
		
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			saying I have to go pray or I
		
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			Haven't prayed yet or think about it.
		
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			Like I have to go talk to my
		
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			best friend My best friend wants to hear
		
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			my voice.
		
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			I can't wait to have a conversation with
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala if you're gonna see
		
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			your best friend and you're super excited to
		
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			tell them news or you're really feeling down
		
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			and you just need a place to Relax
		
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			with someone who understands or you are devastated
		
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			and you need a refuge your heart your
		
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			physical body your mind is all going to
		
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			be thinking about a place of rest a
		
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			place of comfort a place of excitement of
		
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			joy of fun Think about Allah subhanahu wa'ta
		
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			'ala as your best friend and Salah as
		
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			a place that you are meeting To talk
		
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			to your best friend except this is so
		
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			much more You are going to have a
		
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			conversation with the Lord of all the worlds
		
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			The one who knows your past your present
		
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			your future you're here after the one who
		
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			has listened to people praying whispering to him
		
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			for Forever and yet Allah knows you Allah
		
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			knows your name Allah knows what you need
		
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			How could we even think that Allah doesn't
		
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			love to hear us?
		
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			a lot of people have negative associations with
		
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			Salah because of the way they were introduced
		
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			to it or just not really like Exciting
		
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			associations with prayer prayer doesn't need to be
		
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			a jumping for joy experience every time important
		
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			thing is that we just do the action
		
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			if you change the way that you smell
		
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			Salah For example have a scent that you
		
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			put on your prayer mat or bake cookies
		
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			and don't think about the cookies while you're
		
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			praying But like the scent of cookies being
		
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			associated with Salah is one That's going to
		
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			have your unconscious mind excited about it and
		
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			seeing it as a place of comfort There's
		
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			something that you love to wear just for
		
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			a very very very special moment And that
		
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			is a lot if you love to feel
		
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			the breeze pray outdoors pray in nature Rewire
		
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			your brain to have interactive experiences Can aesthetically
		
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			touch every one of your senses with Salah?
		
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			The second thing is for those who don't
		
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			understand what is being said in prayer or
		
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			what you're saying in prayer Just memorize the
		
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			translation of those particular words and phrases before
		
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			I learned Arabic.
		
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			I Memorized the translation of three surahs and
		
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			I would only say those surahs because I
		
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			knew the meaning and I would really try
		
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			to focus On that meaning every time you
		
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			say surah al-fatiha a lot Responds to
		
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			you a lot is responding to you Every
		
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			time you recite surah al-fatiha finally some
		
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			of the scholars suggested that before you pray
		
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			Imagine that Jannah paradise is on your right
		
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			hellfire is on your left and the angel
		
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			of death is behind you If this is
		
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			your very last moment and on earth in
		
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			prayer, what an honor You're not going to
		
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			be thinking about the keys that you've lost
		
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			or the thing that you're freaking out about
		
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			or what you're gonna do Tomorrow you're gonna
		
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			be thinking about this moment and what greater
		
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			moment or what greater honor of a moment?
		
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			Than to spend it With the one who
		
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			loves you more than you could even love
		
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			yourself