Maryam Amir – Ghirah support vs control
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There's a difference between the concept of Rey being used to
support, protect, uplift women in men's lives, and women feel like
these men have got my back, versus using the concept to justify
controlling women. Alma radila, an who was the ruler of the Muslims
at the time when he was married to Attika bint Zaid rodi la Juan ha
she put in her marriage contract as Ibn Hazel espadani mentions
that he cannot prevent her from going to the masjid. She would go
to the masjid. And Ibn Al asked her, Why do you go out? And you
know that Amar hates it and he's jealous. And she responded, what's
stopping him from banning me? And he responded to her. What's
stopping him is a statement of the Prophet, peace be upon him. Do not
prevent the maid servants of God from the houses of God. So ayatika
kept going, because despite armors jealousy, he recognized that her
rights in Islam overruled his personal preference. He was in the
masjid when he was stabbed, which eventually led to his death.
Rodilo Ho Anhu and ati guilloha. Anho was in the masjid when the
stabbing took place. You could say that she might have been so
overwhelmed with guilt or regret that she was in a place where she
knew her husband didn't support and love for her to be when he was
murdered,
but when she got remarried later on to azube rodi Aloha anhu, she
still put in her marriage contract to him that he cannot prevent her
from going to the masjid for her, the Masjid was mentioned in
hundreds of narrations of woman companions who Were with the
Prophet Muhammad. Peace be upon him. The Masjid was a place that
they actively sought out, and they clung onto Alma adiloha anhu was
the example of a man who took Islam to be his compass. It wasn't
his jealousy, it wasn't his personal feelings over how women
should be. It was his religion.