Maryam Amir – Ghirah support vs control

Maryam Amir
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The transcript describes a woman named Alma adiloha that was killed by her husband in a marriage contract. Her actions were criticized by the Prophet Muhammad and led to her becoming jealous and refusing to allow her to go to the Mastermind. Her religion caused her to become upset and feel like a victim.
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There's a difference between the concept of Rey being used to

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support, protect, uplift women in men's lives, and women feel like

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these men have got my back, versus using the concept to justify

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controlling women. Alma radila, an who was the ruler of the Muslims

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at the time when he was married to Attika bint Zaid rodi la Juan ha

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she put in her marriage contract as Ibn Hazel espadani mentions

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that he cannot prevent her from going to the masjid. She would go

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to the masjid. And Ibn Al asked her, Why do you go out? And you

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know that Amar hates it and he's jealous. And she responded, what's

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stopping him from banning me? And he responded to her. What's

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stopping him is a statement of the Prophet, peace be upon him. Do not

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prevent the maid servants of God from the houses of God. So ayatika

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kept going, because despite armors jealousy, he recognized that her

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rights in Islam overruled his personal preference. He was in the

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masjid when he was stabbed, which eventually led to his death.

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Rodilo Ho Anhu and ati guilloha. Anho was in the masjid when the

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stabbing took place. You could say that she might have been so

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overwhelmed with guilt or regret that she was in a place where she

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knew her husband didn't support and love for her to be when he was

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murdered,

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but when she got remarried later on to azube rodi Aloha anhu, she

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still put in her marriage contract to him that he cannot prevent her

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from going to the masjid for her, the Masjid was mentioned in

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hundreds of narrations of woman companions who Were with the

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Prophet Muhammad. Peace be upon him. The Masjid was a place that

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they actively sought out, and they clung onto Alma adiloha anhu was

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the example of a man who took Islam to be his compass. It wasn't

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his jealousy, it wasn't his personal feelings over how women

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should be. It was his religion.

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