Maryam Amir – Feeling judged by other Muslims

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A customer talks about a situation where a man accidentally pointed at a woman with a tattoos while on a walk. The customer explains that they had tattoos of Muslims throughout their life and that they were hesitant to say "ron, judge you" as a way of apologizing. The customer also mentions that many people are not judging people for their past or present, and that everyone has the right to feel like they are not a part of the community.

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			I'm at a park and I saw a
		
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			father playing with his son and then he
		
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			somehow gets hurt so he walks around he's
		
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			asking if someone has a band-aid and
		
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			I just happened to have one so I
		
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			gave it to him and then he says
		
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			I hope you don't judge me and I
		
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			was like he's pointing to his tattoos he
		
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			had tattoos like all over his arms and
		
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			I was like oh no like why would
		
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			I judge you then he told me that
		
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			he is Muslim and he had a time
		
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			period in his life where he wasn't really
		
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			sure he wanted to be and he was
		
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			navigating a lot of questions and he pointed
		
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			the tattoos and he's like I've got them
		
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			during that time but when I meet Muslims
		
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			I get really scared you are not going
		
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			to be welcoming to me they want to
		
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			share with you and you are worried about
		
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			approaching another Muslim and you want to say
		
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			salam or you just want to feel like
		
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			you're a part of the community but you
		
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			know that you might be judged.
		
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			I want to remind you that Allah knows
		
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			your circumstances in your situation your past your
		
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			present and that no one has a right
		
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			to make you feel like you are not
		
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			deserving of being a part of this ummah.
		
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			There are so many people who are not
		
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			judging you when you're nervous about saying to
		
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			please go and say the salam.
		
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			It's a gift to be a part of
		
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			the same ummah as you.