Maryam Amir – Do you feel like you arent doing enough this Ramadan

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The speaker discusses the importance of helping others, especially those who are struggling with their own worth. They suggest that helping others is a fundamental part of their job, and that they should shift their intentions to help others. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of focusing on their own worth and not trying to be the person they
the Prophet peace upon them.

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			Story Time. I have a friend who
was sitting in Egypt, and she
		
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			would often be approached by women
and their children to give them
		
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			money. And she didn't have enough
money to be able to give
		
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			frequently. And so instead, what
she made the intention to do is
		
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			just to spend time with them. She
would ask them their names or
		
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			kids' names, what they like to do.
And over time, every time she
		
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			would see them, they would never
ask, and instead they would ask
		
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			her, what prayers can we make for
you? What do I do? Do you want us
		
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			to make for you? And so she said,
every single thing that she asked
		
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			them to pray for her came true.
Adnan alayam talks about the fact
		
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			that you might be asleep, but 10s
of supplications are knocking on
		
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			the doors of heaven from someone
that was sad and you made them
		
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			happy, someone who was distressed,
and you gave them relief. Maybe
		
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			the reason why someone else is
praying for you at a time when
		
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			you're sleeping, but others are
making dua for you. The Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
teaches us that Allah is with you
		
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			as long as you're helping your
brother or sister. I don't know
		
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			what you do in the medical field,
but literally, even if you were
		
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			filling out paperwork, you are
helping someone at all times of
		
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			the day and whatever else someone
else is doing, whether you're
		
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			studying, working, taking care of
kids, you are supporting yourself
		
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			and other people. That's and it's
very, very kind of you to help
		
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			your roommates. That's super nice.
Mashallah, it's not something that
		
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			you would need to do, but you're
choosing to do it, and that is
		
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			such a blessing for them. At your
generosity, you feel guilty for
		
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			not giving enough to Ramadan, but
your every day is giving to
		
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			Ramadan. So what you need to do is
just shift your intention. Indeed,
		
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			actions are by intention. So what
is your intention to help, to have
		
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			Allah aid you, to be relieved of
your own burden on the Day of
		
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			Judgment. All of these are what
the Prophet peace upon him have
		
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			taught us. Are rewards and
blessings of helping others. And
		
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			you might be asleep, and people
are praying for you, including the
		
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			angels. The angels are ordered to
pray for you. If you were in
		
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			Mecca, your prayers would be very
different than they are with the
		
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			chaos of your life, it might not
taste sweet. You're not crying
		
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			tears of faith when you are doing
the dishes, but Allah sees what
		
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			you are doing, and he is a SHA
cool. He is the most appreciative.
		
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			And if your roommates or the
people that you work with are
		
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			grateful or not grateful when they
should be for what you're doing.
		
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			Then think about, what about
Allah? What about Allah, who knows
		
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			that if you had all the time in
the world, you would try to focus
		
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			on your relationship with him even
more, and yet you're still trying
		
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			with everything you have going on
that
		
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			is someone who truly believes and
truly truly loves him.