Lauren Booth – Qatari Women Speak Out I EXCLUSIVE

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A man talks about the culture of Qatar and how it has changed over time. He talks about the importance of privacy and being a woman in a Muslim culture. He also talks about the struggles of being a Muslim woman in a rural area and how it has affected their relationships with their relatives.

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			As-salamu alaykum, I pray this finds you
		
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			well and blessed.
		
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			Today I'm in a Qatari kitchen.
		
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			It occurred to me that the Qatari women
		
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			are invisible from their own story and they
		
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			choose it that way.
		
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			That is something really hard for us Westerners
		
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			to get our heads around.
		
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			Some sisters have given me permission to meet
		
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			them and for them to tell you their
		
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			stories and their way of life.
		
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			Share some of that with you.
		
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			I'm going to try not to turn into
		
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			David Attenborough here because there is a propensity
		
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			for a Westerner, even a Muslim like myself,
		
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			to come in and go here today we
		
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			examine the lesser spotted Qatari women in her
		
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			natural environment and be really patronizing.
		
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			So what I'm going to try and do
		
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			is let these incredible talented women tell their
		
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			own stories in the hope that you will
		
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			have a flavor of something different and a
		
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			new way of looking at the Muslim way
		
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			of life.
		
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			As a Qatari and adding a value to
		
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			our country, by the way, my field is
		
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			I'm working as a commercial analyst so we
		
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			can do whatever we want.
		
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			I think that we have our freedom.
		
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			For us, I go with the Abrahamic books,
		
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			you know, the people of Abrahamic faith.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			A homosexual relationship between a man and a
		
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			man and a woman and a woman is
		
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			sinful.
		
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			Is the society free from sin?
		
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			No.
		
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			There are sins similar to, you know, alcohol,
		
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			drugs, murder.
		
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			However, for us as Muslim society, and I
		
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			think my sister would agree, Islam looks at
		
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			the well-being of the society.
		
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			If the individual will harm the society, that
		
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			individual needs to be called out.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			I don't think the modern Western society has
		
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			that value.
		
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			Being a Muslim, being a Jew, being a
		
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			Christian, I think if we're going to go
		
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			by the book, this is prone upon, and
		
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			it's a big sin.
		
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			Because there's no way that we can dilute
		
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			it.
		
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			Being a Christian, being a Jew, or being
		
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			a Muslim.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Of a man or a woman of any
		
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			given faith.
		
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			Now, what did Qatar ask out of them?
		
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			They simply said, they cannot show public affection.
		
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			That's about it.
		
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			They're free to do whatever they please behind
		
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			closed doors.
		
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			And we're not here to say that we
		
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			don't have some of them within our community.
		
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			It is there.
		
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			We will have some of them, Allah knows
		
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			best.
		
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			But if this is happening behind closed doors,
		
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			it's their private business, and it's not up
		
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			for us to deal with.
		
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			They upheld the individualized, the individual right, even
		
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			if that led to the destruction of the
		
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			of the society.
		
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			And we are seeing now, you know, I
		
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			think the West has a glass home.
		
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			They don't start throwing stones at others, you
		
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			know, you know, broken families, homelessness, homelessness, I
		
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			think.
		
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			And, you know, all that.
		
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			Whoever you are, whether man and a man,
		
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			man or a woman, or whatever, it's illegal.
		
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			It's a law for us.
		
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			And our laws are derived from our religion.
		
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			This is the source of our laws.
		
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			And they came to play football, not to
		
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			do advertisements.
		
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			Mr. Oduziel, he had a statement, I think,
		
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			for legitimate reason, for oppressed people.
		
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			And he was, you know, persecuted very hardly
		
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			by the media and the community.
		
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			He was under scrutiny for quite some time.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			However, we are humanists, you know, we love
		
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			humor, we love a laugh.
		
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			It's part of our religion.
		
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			You know, smiling on each other's face is
		
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			an act of charity.
		
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			So for us, we are very laid back,
		
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			very, you know, easygoing people.
		
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			And I think everybody who visited Qatar, and
		
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			I'm seeing loads of YouTube videos, people are
		
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			expressing their gratitude.
		
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			And they were surprised, you know, like they
		
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			had different perception from the media, the horrible
		
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			media coverage that is done over many, many
		
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			years.
		
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			And I think, you know, I don't know,
		
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			I'll throw this out.
		
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			The media tried to scare people not to
		
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			come to visit.
		
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			I had no accommodation.
		
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			I had to check out of the fan
		
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			village.
		
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			And I had to check out the fan
		
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			village, and I can't get into the next
		
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			apartment with my mate Lewis until 3pm tomorrow.
		
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			And I had a beautiful Qatari man reaching
		
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			out to me.
		
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			And his father and himself came and picked
		
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			me up from the metro station.
		
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			And fourth of the night, I am camping
		
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			out in the Qatarian desert.
		
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			I've never just by a stranger, all this
		
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			Western media about Qatar.
		
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			And I was a man in need and
		
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			these people put me up.
		
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			So it's one of the kindest gestures that's
		
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			ever happened to me.
		
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			I can't believe it.
		
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			And I think once anybody came and saw
		
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			how the country is and how the people
		
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			are, they will go back home with a
		
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			very...
		
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			It's been an amazing morning with my Qatari
		
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			sisters.
		
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			Unless you're married to a Muslim woman, or
		
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			you're the child of a Muslim woman, you
		
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			won't get to know us.
		
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			We have our laughter and our dancing and
		
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			our tears and our joy in our private
		
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			spaces with those we love and who love
		
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			us.
		
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			And today's video is a small taste of
		
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			the personality of some people who are happy.
		
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			And if it frustrates you, you can't see
		
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			us, then I hope you'll look at that
		
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			into yourself and think about really what privacy
		
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			means.
		
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			I love you all.
		
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			Masha'Allah.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			Bye-bye.
		
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			Where are your shoes?
		
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			Okay, that is a real cultural moment.
		
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			Our culture, where are my shoes?