Rights Responsibilities Of The Muslim Woman

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No Hungry left

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handed

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hungry. So that was Mr. mbf.

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Well Allah He was happy he was while he

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was in a circle had his tablet

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for hydro hydro hydro mohammedanism a lot while he was

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washing raw

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in Valhalla

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Are you

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about to say that

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to the

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respective non Muslims who may be present here, whether it is one or many

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we'd like to show our gratitude for your presence. And we hope that

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what we have to say in the comments that we make, will benefit you

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and provide you with some insight into a very important sensitive topic.

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We want to thank the

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the municipality

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where this lecture is being held for facilitating this. And we want to thank the

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the owner, and staff of this facility for making it available to the Muslims to make this presentation.

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We want to thank the kindy Islam group, and the Jonas

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organization for coordinating, collaborating to make this happen.

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We want to thank the elders of the various massages in the local area

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for their indulgence, their tolerance, letting the young people move forward and establish a new precedent.

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And of course, we want to thank the brothers and sisters who have made the sacrifice to be here.

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The topic that we're going to address today is the

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the rights and the responsibilities of the Muslim woman.

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And, of course, we hope that our sisters will benefit directly, or we hope that our brothers will listen. Because it may help you in your future marriages, or the marriage that you are presently in may help you better to appreciate your mother, your sisters, your daughters.

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And it may help also

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to remove the distortions

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about Islam and Muslims,

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many of which originate from the Muslims themselves.

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This lecture

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was written

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in 2005.

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So nearly eight years ago,

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we have delivered this lecture in some 13 countries.

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And I didn't rewrite it or rehash it,

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I'm going to read it exactly the way it was written.

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Because you can't change water what is what it is

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regarding the as of the end, or the a hadith from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam because everybody here speaks English

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for the most part, or

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you speak in English.

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So

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for the sake of the time, I will not translate much into Arabic, or I will not read much of the delay in Arabic because then I will have to translate into English. So it's taking time. So if there's anyone who would like to have a copy of this lecture, just sign your name

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and send me an email and our administrative assistant He will send you a free copy of the lecture. And then you can go to the pneus of the call and or the Hadith and you can get

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the out of it reference for your selves.

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All the praise is for our last panel with Allah who reminded us in his book

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volley we created you male and female,

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and made you into tribes and nations in order that you may know each other

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and not despise each other.

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In the economical mind a lot, very, the most noble of you

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in the sight of a lot

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is those who have the most, a lot consciousness, taqwa

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all the praises for law, who set the balance of equity between men and women, and extended his unlimited bounty

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to both of them by saying

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and wish not to the things in which Allah has made some of you to excel others

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for men day as a reward for what they have earned. And likewise for women, there is a reward for what they have earned, and asked a lot of his bounty, surely Allah is Ever knowing of everything. And the first I recited was on the 70th surah, the 31st and the second I just recited was from suta Nisa, the 32nd verse,

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all the praises for Allah who mandated the contractual relationship between men and women, through his saying

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all the praises for Allahu mantaining the contractual relationship between men and women, through his say.

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And among His Signs is this, that he created for you mates from among yourselves,

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that you may dwell with them and tranquility and peace, and he has placed love and mercy between your hearts value and that assigns for those who reflect, you will find this in so to facilitate

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the 21st

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all the praises for a law who distinguished the role of the believing woman, and in doing so elevated her above shamed and corruption and illuminated her path towards paradise. Listen to these verses from the solar, which alarm calls and nickel and swords

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and whomsoever of you women

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that are obedient to Allah and His Messenger, so a lot of it was send them and those righteous deeds, we shall give her her reward twice over. And we have prepared for her risk on karimun a noble provision of Paradise

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or wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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You are not like any other women.

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If you keep your duty to Allah,

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then do not be soft,

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provocative and alluring in your speech.

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Less one in whose heart there may be some disease

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or some hypocrisy or some lust.

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They might be moved with desire,

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but speak in a very honorable, decent manner.

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And stay quietly in your homes which means the more prevalent place for women is their home

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doesn't mean they have to stay home.

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But the more prevalent place for women is the home because that's where the children are. Secondly, that is where they are the safest. And thirdly, that is where their beauty can be displayed without any fitna

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and stay quietly in your homes and do not display yourself like that of former times of ignorance and offer your prayers perfectly.

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And give your Zakat and obey Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Allah only wishes to remove you and protect you from a rich, rich here means evil deeds and sins that might be done by yourself or evil deeds incense

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You may be affected by

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all members of the profits in the long run ever since family

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and also to purify you with a thorough purification. And remember, are you members of the profits loss and family. And here when a loss handler is speaking to the prophets loss him with this revelation and directing that revelation to the Omaha cattle movement, he is also directly to the most the best woman is directing this towards the best women. So if a Why is warning, if the last founder is advising the best women, certainly this advice is for the women in general.

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And remember all you members of the practices and family, the grace of your Lord.

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That which is recited in your houses of the verses of the loss of Allah tala and the hikma of the prophets will log on, he was certain

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that you may give thanks to Allah and glorify His praises for this court and, and this sooner. Verily, Allah is Ever well acquainted

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with All Things broadly, the Muslims who submit to a law in Islam, the men and women, the believers, men and women who believe in Islamic monotheism, the men and women who are obedient to Allah, the men and women who are truthful in their speech and needs, the men and women who are patient, the men and women who are humbled before the Lord, the men and women who give set apart the men and women who fast, the men and women who got their chastity from illegal sexual sins, and the men and women who remember Allah much

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after saying that, a loss of power with Allah He says,

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After saying that, Allah subhanaw taala he says,

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it is not for a believer, male or female. When Allah and His Messenger have so long it was to them has prescribed a matter

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or decreed a matter

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that they shouldn't have any option

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about that decision.

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And whosoever disobeyed the law and His Messenger so long, I never said

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they have indeed straight away in clear error are those is that I just recited from the surah which is called a zap. And it's Sunday 31st through the 36th.

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All the praises for the last $100 reveal Andrew his sermon, Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam sent the book out called n and allow there is no crookedness. This is from the suit of cat, the first day of

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all the praises for law who told us in his book, certainly NACA can Allah Kofi rasulillah or Swan has an a lemon cannon. Yo Jude Law will Yeoman aka Dr. Madhu, Kazuhiro.

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So, he said, certainly there is for you.

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In the messenger of a law, some of our incident the most perfect pattern of human behavior for him or her who believes in a loss and without and the last day and remember a lot much

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one of the ways we show our respect and following of the prophets of Allah Islam is by referring and complying with his Sunnah. So last hondata he said in his book, my attacker, more resourceful woman, I have mine.

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So whatever the messenger so Lawson's gives you

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permits you take it

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wherever he forbids you, warns you about leaving

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the Muslims.

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Listen to the advice and the instructions of the Prophet of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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in the last rodeo, unrelated that the prophet SAW log on Instagram said

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The world and all things in it are precious.

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But the most precious and useful thing in the whole world is a virtuous moment.

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It is important that the Muslim Brothers they understand that, that when the last 100, Allah gives you a Muslim woman, you have by virtue of taking her and paying the mouse, you have one of the most precious things in your hands.

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She's not perfect, but neither are you. But a lot of them call us precious, he called him precious.

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The prophets of Allah said, shall I not inform you about the best treasure a man can have. It is a virtuous woman who pleases him when he looks at her, who obeys him when he commands her, and who guards herself when he is absent from her.

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Normal run the law unrelated that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Every one of you is a guardian, and a protector and a shepherd

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of that which is in their immediate charge.

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And they all will be held responsible for those persons under their care. The ruler

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is the guardian

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and is accountable for those under his authority.

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A man is a guardian in respect of his family members and household, a woman is the Guardian in respect to her husband's house and children and property in his absence. And everyone will be held accountable for that which is under their responsibility.

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These headings which we just read, you will find them in Sahil Mohammad,

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Abu huraira, rajala rhodiola, and related that the province of the law, Madison said,

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had it been permissible that any person may prostrate themselves before another, I would have ordered that a wife should prostrate herself to her husband.

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Now, in this Hadith, the prophet SAW Selim is singing to the Muslim woman,

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that when you have a husband,

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that plays the bow

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that takes care of you,

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that protects you,

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that honors you.

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That preserve your distinction.

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He almost deserves the kind of sugar that is thankfulness that is near to such depth. But of course, there is no sense that no human being to another human being, we only make sense for a while. But we should see how it was part of water and how the process didn't characterize this hadith. So the brothers, they should like use this Hadees you know, to tell the sisters like you know, Yo, check me out, see what the problem was. And he said,

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Why? Because most of you, most of us, were not even given the rights to the sisters.

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So in many cases, the sisters you didn't give the sisters nothing to even been painful about how you expect to like almost.

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But if we struggle as men to deliver to them their rights and go beyond the rights, to give them their dignity and their distinction, and the sisters should understand the level of obedience and respect that they should have for their husbands.

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A lot mentioned in the

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original qalamoun Island, he said

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that men are responsible for women

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from what a lot gave them a lot he gave you some physical strength more than them

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a lot he gave the man a responsibility of emotion of responsibility of political authority moreso than del

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agua he gave to the men the ability to protect the borders and to defend the women and the children and the properties more so than them.

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Therefore, this is why a lot he said

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why not? And he said that men generally they have $1 jet

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they have a

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certain

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Psychological, political damage in front of a lot. This is a responsibility, which is earned by the men.

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Now, so the men who is not taking care of their wife,

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or their mothers, you know, when a boy becomes 18 years old, he's gonna be taking care of his mother.

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Man, his mother's still taking care of him, and him still living with his mommy.

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When a man marries his wife, a woman, he can't be putting her on the welfare. Because if he put on the welfare, she's taking care of him and the chicks. This man is like spiritually, camping.

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Now, brothers, if you don't like it, don't make no difference if that's what you do, and that's what it is.

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The man needs to be dignified. He needs to be also very, like he has to have here.

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He has to be jealous

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that any money comes into his home place families, it come from him.

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Even the man who do not want to take money from his father for his family.

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So if I don't want to take money from my father, from my uncle, for no man for my family, how's the brothers allowing the sisters to go downtown and subscribe to the welfare?

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How you allowing the check to come in your wife's name?

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How you live in the house and somebody was actually the council is taking care of the house, you ain't take care of the house. Then you come to the mosque.

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At the righteous are you a pious Muslim butcher? Who isn't Germans and gosun arguing about you know who you are and the desire this hadith and aqeedah and blah, blah, blah, when in actuality you have no dignity in front of Allah.

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So we men, we have to work hard

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to get to a station where we earn the rewards. And the distinction which allows us in a region of cola Mona Lisa

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and every man here knows how he feels when he takes care of his family,

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with his wife doesn't have to worry about anything material, because her husband takes care of that.

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We are so lost. That we mean that we are honest.

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We have to ask a loss of Hello data we pray to all Muslims, that we men we work hard to earn that distinction. So we can remove

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the distortion

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that other non Muslims other human beings see when they visit the Muslim communities.

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Remember in

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the last football the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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in his parting words to the oma, he warned us regarding the rights and the treatment of women.

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He said, so a lot of money was stolen, or people feel a lot concerning women.

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verbally you have taken them on the security of a lot and have made their persons lawful unto you by the word of Allah. It is incumbent upon them to honor

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is incumbent upon them to honor the conjugal rights and not to commit any acts of impropriety for which if they do you have the right

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to reprimand them, but you cannot reprimand them severely. That means we have no right to be beating them and acting like we own them. No, we don't have that right.

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And the profit, some of our money was set up as our example. Whenever his wives acted out of jealousy, whenever his wives, they acted in some ways, Allah advised him and our prophets, a lot of them, he was always gentle with them. And I promised them he never be the wife

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or the law, I never be the wife.

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Never be the wife and

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never be the wife life. So this is the hood of our ICD. So when we want to talk about that issue, or the unbelievers want to talk about that issue. That's the reference that we give. And that's the interpretation that we have regarding that issue.

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If your wives refrain from impropriety and they are faithful to you,

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feed and clothe them suitably.

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Remember, the narrow

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Have the message of a loss of a loved one in Sam, when he passed by some women,

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you know when the message of a loss of lives when he made

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the DSR and

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he saw some things that we have not seen, but he has related to us. And he said that

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while he was on the Israeli Mirage a lot showed him the help file.

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And inside the help file, there was a lot of women

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in the process, and there's women SM on profits or loss and why is that?

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He said

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he saw in the lives of a woman who were accustomed to abusive talking.

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Hands harmful talking.

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abusive and harmful talk me, slandering people

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telling tales,

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talking about things, they have no right to talk about.

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And also being ungrateful to their husbands.

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You know, it's like, you can give a sister a house, you can give even a car, close up, feet up, do everything for her.

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But when you do something she doesn't like

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she says, I never seen no good and you did nothing for me.

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This

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is like ingratitude.

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And the other thing is that men should not tell the wife, why are you so jealous? What else they're gonna be?

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A while he gave a woman jealousy. Nike gave the man bravery.

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So the prophet SAW Sam said, if any women, they want to get the reward of the Mujahideen

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of the Magellan, they don't need to go to war.

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All they need to do is control their jealousy. If the woman control her jealousy, she's gonna get the same award as the Mujahideen, who was able to overcome his fear when he goes out to lose his life.

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Remember, that there are two qualities in which women can maintain leverage over their husbands and preference in the sight of a law. These two things is suburb,

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and honesty, patience, and modesty. If the woman is patient, she can elevate herself beyond her husband, in the sight of Allah. And if she is modest, in her speech, in her dress, and her behavior, she also can earn

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a presence

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with the loss of $100 her patience is manifested through her worship

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and obedience in difficulties in adversities.

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Mercy is manifested through her guarding herself from other men, and protecting the honor and property of her husband,

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the Muslim woman,

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our sisters,

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or mothers, or wives of aunties, our daughters,

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if they want to know how they should act,

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look to the best of

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the best. And the most beautiful and desirable women are really those who have the highest level of devotion in Baghdad

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and a strong and preserving the Islamic covenant there aqeedah was a law.

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Remember, the Messenger of the loss of the long run it was to them, he said, bless it is the woman who wait in the latter part of the night to pray the hydrogen and also with their husbands to do the same. And a lot.

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See,

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the sisters really want to earn a reward and a distinction was among

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set your class for three o'clock in the morning

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and get up

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and wash

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and pre two or four Raka. And then after that, go in with your husband and tell him you're hugging me.

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See what kind of man he really is.

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And brothers, if your wife wakes you up on the edge of prayer, and you're not able to get up, see what kind of man you are.

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All those who want to go somewhere and pray. You want to go and make

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You had someplace.

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If you can beat the sheets,

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you ain't gone some distance go lose your life. You just you just you just want people to say the brother went to lose his life.

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You just want people to say you had a brother, he went on the wrestler of jihad.

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I wonder

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how could a brother travel 5000 miles

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to put his life in danger.

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But he cannot go to six back and get up to make boo boo and prepare himself to go 50 yards, or 500 yards to go to the masjid and pray the central prayer.

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So all of you who was thinking about going somewhere to die before you go somewhere and die sheets back for Pfizer and getting that first rate.

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The ideal woman according to the Quran, and the Sunnah, of those that avoid excessive and unnecessary talk, sisters, listen now.

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Those that avoid excessive and unnecessary talk.

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That's why the telephone

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in the hands of unresponsible man is dangerous. But the telephone in the hands of a woman

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is more dangerous.

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Because women is given to gossiping.

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Talking about each other,

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talking about what they got and what they don't have complaining about their husbands telling tales about things they saw, or her

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passing issues and things on.

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It's just the nature of women, because men should be busy. However, there are some men of the Ummah, who spend their nights on Facebook, and Twitter, and YouTube. And those are the women. Those are the men who like women.

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You see a brother spending a lot of time on Facebook and Twitter,

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YouTube and on the telephone and talking whatever. He's got some feminine qualities about you know,

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because real men,

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real men get up for fudger prep, and they don't have no to three hours and be sitting up but hide behind a screen and talking to other people about other people.

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Real men, they don't have two or three hours a night to sit up behind Facebook watching YouTube, because they gotta get up for fudger and they gotta go to work.

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Real men in the daytime don't have that much time unless that's their job. They don't have that much time to be on no computers, because they are working 810 12 hours for the month for the dialogue taking care of their wives and their daughters and their mothers and their sisters.

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Sisters will love blesses you to have a real man you need to appreciate

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and you should avoid excessive and unnecessary talk.

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The women who engage themselves in knowledge and remembrance of a law sisters, use the computer and use the phone to seek knowledge. download those applications on your phone that facilitate knowledge for you.

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Join those chat rooms or those platforms where there is not as being given that you can benefit from without leaving your home.

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Sisters give the cat and charity generously.

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Because the loss of Hannah Jada he plays the goal with the women. Men, they dig for the goal. Men work for the goal but they pass it on to the women can we can we can wear it.

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The women they can wear it and they can keep it

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when their fathers died.

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When their husbands died, the wealth comes over to the woman and the woman the best way for women to save their wealth is through gold. And the best way for the sisters to earn a reward from Allah is when a time and opportunity comes. Give up some of that gold in the way of a loss.

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The women who are vigilant and committed to the establishment of the deen that means women that are disciplined

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women who pursue knowledge

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and propagation of the Islamic message. Women who are engaged in knowledge and women who are engaged in it

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Our

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women who are disciplined, and they have good moral behavior, and they teach the same to others.

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Those women who want to emulate the character of the most excellent of all women,

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you should emulate, you should imitate Madonna, the mother of Esau, Elisa

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arsia, the wife of Philip

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Hadid Whalen rajala I'm

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the wife of the Prophet so long

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Asia, this avoca rhodiola

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Fatima Rasulullah sallallahu Alexandra

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hausa

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and all the woman from the companions of the messenger for wa salam exam, and those women from those generations that immediately follow the companions of the Prophet Salaam.

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The assistance, the special role of the Muslim woman is to attain and to sustain chakra

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consciousness,

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fear of Allah and to understand and implement the balance of equity given to her by Allah, to honor herself with marriage, and to cultivate a love to preserve her family and to strive for social superiority and spiritual elevation.

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This special role of the Muslim woman

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should be not simply to live in an isolated way, but no, her role should be distinguished and should be evident in the modern society that we live in. So the challenge of Muslim women is that whatever you are doing whatever it is all of you to do, you have to make it relevant to the society where you are.

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distinguish yourself inside the Muslim community. Find your place.

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Find your place to work where you fit, make your contribution.

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Obey your husband, and also obey the Amir.

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distinguish yourself as the leader of your family in the absence of your husband. Look after your family, take care of your children. Take care of your mom. Take care of your your your father when he becomes elderly. Take care of your grandmother and father. This is a big job for the sisters to do. Primarily it is their job to take care of those matters while it is the duty of the husband to give her all the tools that she needs to do.

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So sisters,

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take care of your identity. And your hijab is part of your identity.

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Don't listen to foolish, non Muslims. And don't listen to foolish Muslims who have went astray.

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Don't listen to the law of the shell T and don't listen to the worst of the week sisters

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telling you, Sister aren't you wearing all those clothes?

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Aren't you uncomfortable?

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Why do you have to wear all those clothes the men don't have to wear those clothes.

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Is your husband insecure?

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To make you wear those clothes?

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Sister you live in in the modern world.

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Relax

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your flesh.

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Mix with the man and have some fun.

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Just

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go to the cloud once in a while.

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Shake it shaken. Joy yourself you young, beautiful

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this how the people talk. And when you're in the university or the you in the High School of the University.

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This is what's happening all around you especially in the Western world. So our sisters who was in the university and they keep their hijab

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and they're trying to do the best of women, man brothers will be respected this man

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will be appreciating what we got.

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Because that's not easy man. And when difficulties come, you know when the Catherine's

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when the capitals put pressure on the Muslims.

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I have seen in America and other places that when the calculus was pressure

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on Muslims, brothers, they shave

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the

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mustache they shave

00:40:10--> 00:40:17

brothers change the clothes, they come out of the stone, put on whatever they got put on to Hi,

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brothers, these dresses for non cat.

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So they can be on the low low in cognito.

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So they can mix with the Catherine's brothers is doing that when the pressure come. But you know our sisters, they can't do that.

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Our sisters maintaining under all circumstances, they hold it down.

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That's why I say our women data frontline soldiers,

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sisters, pursuit of knowledge, compete with your husband in learning core and

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compete with your husband in learning, the sooner you

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compete with your husband in giving Dawa. And here in the issue of dour, primarily men should concentrate on giving downward to men.

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You know, a lot of brothers, you know, and especially University, you know, they like to give down to the sisters

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down.

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I don't know what he's given down.

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You don't say you got to check yourself brothers. And ask yourself with all the men that's a stray and neat down? Why do you keep on picking off the sisters.

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And also, when you find sisters sitting with non Muslim men giving them down something is wrong.

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The majority of people that enter Islam in the last 20 years in America or anywhere in the world, it's women.

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So sisters, when you develop your Tao skills, you stay among the women give down you ain't got to be given down with no non Muslim classmates because in most cases, either he's fooling you or you fooling him.

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Sisters

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compete with your husband in decent ways.

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impact the world. And on the same note, I want the brothers and sisters think about this year.

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You know, out of the

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out of the 20 most influential human beings in the world having the most power and influence in the world. Seven of them are women.

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Seven a woman so if you think that a woman can't lead a country

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and you can look at Angela Merkel.

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You gotta look at the lady down there in Argentina. They're running a country

00:43:09--> 00:43:19

that shows that women have the capability not better for an on the sooner recommended that but they can do that when they are not sufficient men.

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Our mother Ayesha Ravana when some people slaughtered of murder was Mary Milan.

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She put on her armor.

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She got on her camel and got her weapons ready to go out to do jihad.

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But Allah tala for the law and other companions. They prevented her from doing that because they felt that was below the dignity of our mother.

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She was a half ago.

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She also she was a Mojave Desert.

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She was also fat.

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So she understood the zip and she thought she understood the Quran. She was Mufasa.

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But it was not her role. It was not her responsibility to go out and deal with that kind of ambition.

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So sisters, you can impact the world. More than Michelle Obama.

00:44:32--> 00:44:40

You can impact the world more than Angela Merkel. You can impact the world more than Oprah Winfrey.

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You can impact the world more than any powerful, influential woman

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in the way that the loss of our dollar have prescribed for you.

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Special issues for you sisters, our dear sisters, mothers and daughters. Why?

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Protect your hijab at all costs, because the sister that takes off on the job is like the manager of a bank that leaves the door open at night.

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So if you heard that the manager of a bank left the door open, how would you feel

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you would ask him to be fired and removed from his job.

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Because what's in the bank

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certificate boxes that,

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you know, you got the room where everybody puts out special things, certificates of deposit, their special deposit boxes are there, all the values are there, the goal is there, you know, the the pearls of doubt, the jewels of doubt all the important papers inside the bank, and they got gates and they got locks, and they got balls, and they got security systems there to protect all that. Well, I say

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that the value of a woman is worth more than all that. And your hijab is the bank is the lock of the bank. So this is when you take your hijab off, or you allow your beauty to be seen. You're like the manager of the bank, who left the door.

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And the man who does not advise his wife, or his daughters, or his mother, or his Auntie, or his sisters, when they remove their hijab.

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Then he is like, the process and called him the youth.

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The youth.

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That's like the main, he don't even care if his wife should be mixing with men.

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He doesn't care, even if she be shaking hands with men.

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He doesn't care if she go out in the street at late at night.

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He is in the process of sensing. That kind of man alone won't even look at him on a day of judgment.

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systems, prepare yourself for marriage, mothers,

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prepare your daughters for marriage.

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He says,

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When your daughter has reached the age of menstruation,

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you start preparing her for marriage. He didn't say get married, right did

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according to the norm of society.

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But you start talking to her about that.

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You start preparing us psychologically and emotionally. You start showing her how to cook, how to solve how to do different things inside the house, how to talk how to speak how to please her husband, you the mothers have to start talking to the girls. So when the girl reaches that age, where she knows,

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mother knows she's ready.

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She has the tools that she needs.

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And this whole idea

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that women need to finish college or university before they get married. This is just some capital foolishness.

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This is the silliest thing in the world.

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That's like baking a cake and putting the cake outside on the steps to cool off.

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That's like cooking the best meal you can and wait until next week to share that meal.

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Can you imagine a Muslim father

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preventing his daughter from marriage? Because he wants her to finish the university? I mean, in the Western world, what's he smoking?

00:48:44--> 00:48:46

What kind of the center is he under?

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In the high school, she's forced to meet with boys. And in the college, she's forced to mix with boys. And in the university, she's forced to mix with boys and unfortunately, not just to mix with boys. But she's also forced to mix with women who love women more than men.

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So you're telling me you're waiting for her to finish college

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and you expect her to be

00:49:21--> 00:49:24

secure? untouched.

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I don't know what you're smoking.

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brother's father, fathers.

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Encourage the sisters to get married

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within the framework and constitution of the society.

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No problem. If the society said they can't get married till they are 16 they should be ready. They should have all the tools in the society said they cannot get married to the 18 they should have all the necessary tools.

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And when someone asks the process in which they get mad, he said,

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that means without any delay,

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and there's no problem.

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Brothers, you don't have to wait the merit system to buy a house, and the furniture, you know that all the other things that go with it know, in your house where you live with your mother and father, you marry a sister and bring her home to your house, in your own room.

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Or you can move into the house of her mother and father, because she has

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so many different ways we can satisfy this issue without putting the difficulty upon the young brothers and sisters.

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And how nice it would be

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for a young brother and sister in high school, to get married, and to get up in the morning and meet his wife. And they do walk into school together hand in hand.

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And they in the University are they in the college, and they meet every morning, and they meet each other and they walk in hand in hand.

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How will feel rather for you to be in the university or the college and you walk across the campus with your honey.

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So we have to think of practical ways to protect our women and practical ways to protect our sisters and our brothers, we have to have practical ways to do that. So we do not fall into the trap of promiscuity. You know that is overexposure between men and women, just because the society recommends that because the society is tolerant towards that.

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Sisters

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look at the human rights

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of others. And brothers. Look at the human rights of our sisters.

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And also sisters.

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Protect the Muslim sisters.

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protect them from their families. Sometimes you hate them and hate their decision.

00:52:20--> 00:52:24

protect them from the brothers sometime Who was

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your dad, this brothers who allegedly waiting for new sisters to come through like fresh meat.

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They don't want to take care of the system. They just want to have us take advantage of all not giving the rights to her. Like he owns her sisters protected existence from that. And brothers, protect our new sisters from those kinds of brothers. If you have the wilayah of a system, you have to examine a brother when he comes to say he wants to marry.

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I think where you work.

00:53:04--> 00:53:06

Where do you live? Okay, who are you?

00:53:08--> 00:53:15

What's your what's your skills? What's your resources? You got money in the bank? Do you drive a car,

00:53:16--> 00:53:19

check his background. See if he got a watch out for him.

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Check his family, see if he comes from a good family. Because you would do that for your sister, your blood sister. So why you don't do that for your sister.

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is very important.

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The other thing is sisters.

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Protect your society.

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This is where you live. And chances are

00:53:46--> 00:54:11

regardless of where your parents came from, chances are you're not going back there to live. And chances are your parents are not going back there to live to kill the society where you live. Make good contributions in society where you live. Make sure that your neighbor, your colleague, your coworker, your neighbor, your neighbor, your colleagues, your co worker, and the non Muslim that you associate with, make sure that you have good relationship with them.

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Consistent consistence is nothing more valuable that you can take in your family.

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My dear brothers and sisters surely law is the best known, we ask that he accept only the best of what we have said or listen to.

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brothers sisters. That's the that's the end of my presentation on that topic. And so without taking a break, and without any hesitation, we want to shift right over to the next

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article for our gathering.

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As I understand it, and all of us we can understand

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there's a serious issue

00:55:00--> 00:55:02

humanitarian crisis

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taking place in Syria today.

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Now without getting political,

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without becoming a source of support or propagation, for any factor, we just want to deal with the humanitarian crisis.

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Some of us should certainly just go on the internet. And look at some of the images of the refugees

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in Syria, Muslim sisters and their families, Muslim brothers and their families who are living without shelter,

00:55:43--> 00:55:45

living without clean water,

00:55:46--> 00:55:48

or living without food,

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or living without these clothing.

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And they are wounded, many of them

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without no access to medicine.

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These are Muslim brothers and sisters.

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And I know some brothers may feel the need to want to go there and get involved in the MD social political crisis itself. That's a decision you have to make between you and your father, and whoever is your leader, your advisor here. But that's not our discussion here. What we can do, which may be more important

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is that we can provide them with support.

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You see,

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because we see all the water that we drink and

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see all the food that we eat, all the restaurants we go to all the nice clothes that we have, and hospitals that we can go to, and all the things that are affordable to us and accessible to us, our brothers and sisters, they are suffering

00:56:55--> 00:56:57

babies laid out on the ground,

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nothing to cover them.

00:57:01--> 00:57:03

Our sisters wounded

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in situations that you cannot imagine the pictures will tell the story.

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So today, brothers and sisters,

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some brothers and I have come up with a very powerful way to assist those

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refugees.

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refugees in Syria are forced to buy bread

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from Turkey.

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So bread has got to be baked in Turkey, and then shipped into Syria across borders.

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By the time it gets there, the bread is not fresh.

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But the bread is very expensive.

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So the purpose they came up Mashallah the way Muslims can figure something out is just unbelievable.

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So the brothers came up with a beautiful solution. They said, let us buy a flour mill, a flour mill to take corn, flour, wheat or barley and millet, grind it, then the people can just take water and mix it and make their own bread. Say Allahu Akbar

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the mill, it costs 20,000.

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And we need to sin if we could we need 100 mils. We need 100 of those to send into the refugee camps.

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Last night, by the grace of the last pound dollar in Copenhagen, we got pledges

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to buy two mils 40,000.

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And we asked all the Muslims who was there who made those pledges to fulfill their pledges in the next 30 days. Because view was out there in the cold and you couldn't eat. You wouldn't want to be waiting two or three days, months and four months for brother and sister B chain you know like little by little by little it's an emergency. It's a crisis. So today

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we want to raise in this room will raise at least enough for another meal. And tonight

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or today itself. We want to match. We want to do what the brothers and sisters did in Copenhagen and there wasn't that many more in Copenhagen than it is here. It doesn't matter if you young or old. You see if all of us think about this year.

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If we all just take out the phone or two that we carry with us. How much is iPhone costs here?

00:59:52--> 00:59:54

How many euros is an iPhone costs

00:59:57--> 00:59:58

seven or 800 euros?

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Okay.

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And then when you tap it off when you use it,

01:00:07--> 01:00:11

each one of us just our phone, we use it 1000 euros

01:00:13--> 01:00:23

you buy the phone, and within six months between the phone and you're talking, you spent 1000 years, you got nothing else to show for it except for that phone.

01:00:25--> 01:00:28

And everybody in this room, got a phone.

01:00:30--> 01:00:33

I see some kids on the bus stop, can you believe it?

01:00:34--> 01:00:39

I see some little kids on the bus stop about nine years old, and they got an iPhone

01:00:42--> 01:00:45

or a Samsung phone on their head.

01:00:50--> 01:00:52

Then you got the laptop,

01:00:53--> 01:00:55

then you got to PC

01:00:56--> 01:00:58

then you get to HDTV and

01:01:00--> 01:01:03

then you get all these beautiful clothes.

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So brothers and sisters, all of us sitting here today, we could afford

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to give him 500 or 300 or 100 for this, we could raise this money so our brothers and sisters will be really solo.

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Let's just

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let's be straightforward. Let's be clear. We don't need to take no out of you know we don't have to be doing no bothering back and forth and like you know doing no options all and let's be clear and straight. You know right now, sister God forbid if your daughter or your son or your little baby became ill and needs a $5,000 operation, you would raise that money in 30 days or less.

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And if you became ill, or something else happened or your house burned down or your car crashed or any kind of situation could take place

01:02:02--> 01:02:07

and if anyone you lost your phone, you would replace it. Probably

01:02:22--> 01:02:23

the woman

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Jamie

01:02:55--> 01:02:56

Sophie

01:03:18--> 01:03:19

see

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the world

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Jamie and

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Jamie

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Okay, so

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To see

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the

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selfie

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