Khalid Latif – Speech of when he was given the Alumni Distinguished Service Award at NYU 2014

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			Alumni are crucial to the success of any
		
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			college, and we're fortunate in having dedicated alumni
		
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			who generally get generously give to the college
		
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			their time, their experience, and support.
		
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			And each year we recognize one of them
		
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			for their involvement with the college over the
		
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			years, as well as for their own personal
		
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			and professional achievements. And this year is someone
		
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			who many of you know,
		
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			Our
		
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			Our alumni honoree today and the recipient of
		
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			the college alumni distinguished service award is Imam
		
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			Khaled Latif.
		
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			He is the university
		
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			chaplain for NYU, executive director of the Islamic
		
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			Center here, as well as chaplain for the
		
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			New York City Police Department. He graduated
		
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			10 years ago. Yeah. I'm old.
		
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			In 2004,
		
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			with a major in Middle Eastern Studies and
		
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			Modern Politics.
		
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			Just a year after graduation, he was appointed
		
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			the 1st Muslim chaplain here, and 2 years
		
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			after graduation, the 1st Muslim chaplain at Princeton.
		
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			In 2007, under his leadership, the Islamic Center
		
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			here became the first ever established Muslim student
		
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			center at any institution of higher education in
		
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			the United States. And also that year, when
		
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			he was 24,
		
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			Mayor Michael Bloomberg nominated him to become the
		
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			youngest chaplain in the history of the NYPD.
		
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			Through his work, Heman Latif has demonstrated not
		
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			only an exceptional dedication to gaining and disseminating
		
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			religious values and values, but has begun to
		
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			carve out much needed space for young American
		
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			Muslims to celebrate their unique identity and have
		
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			their voices heard in the larger public sphere,
		
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			working tirelessly to foster dialogue with people of
		
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			other faiths in order to clarify misconceptions
		
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			and encourage mutual education.
		
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			In 2012,
		
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			Malativ cofounded with our vice chancellor, Linda Mills,
		
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			our rabbi, Yehuda Sarna, and Chelsea Clinton, the
		
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			Evmini Institute,
		
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			a programmatic groundbreaking model
		
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			for multi faith leadership at the university level.
		
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			The Of Many Institute supports a new generation
		
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			of religious and civic leaders who reach across
		
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			faith
		
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			boundaries
		
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			to solve social problems together. And it's work
		
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			has recently been documented in the film that
		
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			is made, our imam, a movie star.
		
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			The title of Many premiered at Tribeca earlier
		
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			this year. He's been named a global faith,
		
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			global interfaith visionary by the United Nations Temple
		
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			of Understanding,
		
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			one of a 100, NY New York City
		
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			Luminaries by the public library, one of the
		
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			500 most influential Muslims in the world, by
		
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			Georgetown University's
		
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			Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Center For Muslim Christian
		
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			Understanding, and the Royal Islamic Studies Center. He's
		
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			a millennial leader. He was named Christian Science
		
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			Monitors 30 Under 30. You all have a
		
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			lot to live up to.
		
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			And for all of those reasons, and for
		
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			the fact that he is one of the
		
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			people that makes NYU not just be a
		
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			home or a college or community in name,
		
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			but a home and a college and community
		
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			in reality.
		
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			We're lovingly
		
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			presenting to him the Back bowl, a mom
		
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			Latif.
		
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			You know, I just took a look at
		
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			myself and realized
		
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			I look like Piccolo from Dragon Palsy.
		
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			It's truly an honor and privilege to be
		
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			with you all on this special day to
		
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			accept this award.
		
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			And a decade has passed since I sat
		
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			where you all sit.
		
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			I can honestly say that my time as
		
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			an undergrad at New York University's College of
		
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			Arts and Sciences
		
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			has helped me to become a quote unquote
		
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			citizen of the world
		
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			because during my time as an undergrad at
		
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			NYU, I realized
		
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			not that the world was such a big
		
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			place, but that the world was large enough
		
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			to fit so many different types of people
		
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			in it.
		
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			As you sit in a sea of purple,
		
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			dress head to toe, exactly the same side
		
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			by side with people who are different races,
		
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			ethnicities,
		
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			have different lifestyles and beliefs, come potentially from
		
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			different countries of origin than your own,
		
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			on this special day of achievement,
		
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			I would ask that you make a commitment
		
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			that today will be the first of many
		
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			days that you will sit with people that
		
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			you could fully get away with never speaking
		
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			to at any point in your life, but
		
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			you won't do so because
		
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			your being with those who are different from
		
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			you will enhance your own individual growth.
		
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			And added to that, I would ask that
		
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			you make a commitment that when you have
		
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			the opportunity
		
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			to simply go out and do good,
		
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			you do so without condition or qualification,
		
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			not seeing if the hand that extends the
		
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			hand to you matches you in terms of
		
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			country of
		
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			origin, race, skin color, any other socially constructed
		
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			difference that we utilize to justify being separate
		
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			from each other.
		
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			But you look at the shared humanity that
		
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			you have to be able to say, I
		
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			will do when the opportunity is there for
		
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			me.
		
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			You don't know what kind of impact it
		
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			can have really on those who are waiting
		
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			for people like yourselves
		
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			to come into their lives and help them
		
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			get through some of the obstacles that they
		
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			face.
		
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			As was mentioned, one of the roles that
		
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			I fulfill today is serving as a chaplain
		
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			for the New York City Police Department, and
		
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			as a chaplain for the NYPD, I'm
		
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			given the rank of an inspector.
		
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			It's a pretty high rank. It's one rank
		
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			below a 1 star chief.
		
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			And one of the things that we do
		
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			as department chaplains is we attend the 911
		
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			memorial service that takes place every year. We
		
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			go to police headquarters and have
		
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			with family members who lost loved ones on
		
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			that day. We then take a bus down
		
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			to the ground zero site,
		
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			and we wait until the ceremony starts.
		
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			On the 9th anniversary of the 911 attacks,
		
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			the ceremony was a little different than what
		
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			you have today. You had the stage where
		
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			people spoke from. You had a area where
		
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			VIPs and family members and city officials would
		
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			stand, behind us would be a press pit,
		
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			and then behind them would be anyone from
		
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			the city who wanted to come and watch.
		
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			And as I was standing in my police
		
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			uniform, I had my beard, I was wearing
		
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			a skull cap, and I was talking to
		
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			people who were there, who had lost their
		
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			loved ones on that day.
		
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			And 3 men approached me in suits,
		
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			identifying themselves
		
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			as secret service saying that someone has spotted
		
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			you from the top of a building and
		
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			they wanted us to check your credentials just
		
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			in case.
		
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			I said, just in case what?
		
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			And the one man said, I'm sorry that
		
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			we're doing this to you.
		
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			And I said, then why are you doing
		
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			it?
		
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			And you have to understand what's being questioned
		
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			at that moment is not simply my presence
		
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			there at that time, but something that's much
		
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			bigger than that, my entire validity of emotions
		
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			tied to that site.
		
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			I was an undergrad at New York University
		
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			on September 11, 2001.
		
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			I stood with about 10,000 of my classmates
		
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			in Washington Square Park looking downtown. The Kimmel
		
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			Center was being constructed at that time. The
		
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			Global Center wasn't there. You had a more
		
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			clear shot of everything that was going on.
		
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			There was a lot of commotion, people were
		
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			talking, and as we were sitting there, a
		
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			silence erupted when we watched the second plane
		
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			fly into the towers.
		
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			Everyone just stood for what seemed like an
		
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			eternity, but really it was just moments and
		
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			as instantaneously
		
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			as that silence hit us, it shattered and
		
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			everyone went in different directions.
		
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			I went into my dorm where I was
		
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			living Goddard,
		
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			and I heard people who are living on
		
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			my floor saying things to the effect of
		
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			we should get all of the Muslims together
		
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			and send them out of the country so
		
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			that things like this don't happen.
		
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			We had to evacuate the building and someone
		
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			tried to push me down the staircase. And
		
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			when I turned around to look at her,
		
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			she had a lot of anger on her
		
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			face.
		
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			We were put in front of media outlets
		
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			from all over the world because as students,
		
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			we were arguably the closest Muslim organization to
		
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			the ground zero site at that time, and
		
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			people wanted to know what Muslims thought, and
		
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			we had to step up to take on
		
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			the responsibility.
		
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			I stood at numerous funeral services for loved
		
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			ones who were lost on that day, both
		
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			who were of my faith and people who
		
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			came from different backgrounds.
		
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			So much of the work that I even
		
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			do to this day is informed by that
		
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			day.
		
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			And those men were questioning
		
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			the validity of all of that.
		
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			And the frustrating thing wasn't that I was
		
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			going through it,
		
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			but I couldn't really do anything about it.
		
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			If I said anything in return, it would
		
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			probably make the situation that much worse.
		
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			And many people were standing and watching,
		
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			and amongst them was one woman who had
		
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			lost her son on that day.
		
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			And where I could not speak, she spoke.
		
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			And she said to those men that what
		
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			you are doing today is more dishonoring to
		
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			the memory of our loved one that we
		
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			lost than anything else.
		
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			That here this young man is standing with
		
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			us in our moment of need, and you
		
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			are making it seem as if he is
		
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			doing something wrong just because he's Muslim.
		
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			And as instantaneously
		
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			as that validation
		
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			left, it came right back.
		
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			Why I share that story with you is
		
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			for two reasons. 1, for us to overcome
		
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			certain battles, the battles have to take place.
		
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			They have to exist to begin with.
		
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			If I was not in that place or
		
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			that circumstance or situation, the scenario would not
		
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			have taken place as you move forward,
		
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			Sometimes break out of your comfort zone and
		
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			go to places that you might not necessarily
		
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			see many who are like you, but you
		
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			know your presence will set a precedent for
		
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			those who come after to have it that
		
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			much easier.
		
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			And more importantly, when you think about what
		
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			it means to achieve and to be of
		
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			a person of distinction, don't think of somebody
		
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			like me.
		
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			But think of that woman who when the
		
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			opportunity to do right came her way, she
		
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			simply did it for no other reason other
		
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			than it was the right thing to do.
		
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			Be like her.
		
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			Be like Joshua Garcia,
		
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			the Aramark food employee who works at our
		
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			university, who when one of your classmates
		
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			fell in front of a oncoming train on
		
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			a subway track and people stood with their
		
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			phones taking pictures and videos, he moved and
		
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			jumped not thinking about what he would lose,
		
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			but only about the person that he could
		
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			go out and do something for. Be like
		
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			him.
		
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			When the opportunity comes to go out and
		
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			do work, don't put conditions on who your
		
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			allies and your partners could be.
		
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			You sit right now with friends,
		
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			but think of the people who are sitting
		
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			rows behind you.
		
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			Who you might not have spoken to at
		
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			all, but they could very likely be the
		
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			people who would be your best partners in
		
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			going out and changing this world.
		
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			I have no doubt that each and every
		
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			one of you as individuals
		
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			could go out and do amazing things on
		
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			your own.
		
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			But just because you could do it by
		
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			yourself,
		
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			doesn't mean that we shouldn't be able to
		
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			start doing things together.
		
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			If I could ever be helpful to any
		
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			of you as you go through your life
		
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			journeys and trajectories,
		
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			please don't hesitate in reaching out.
		
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			I will try my best to be a
		
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			resource to you in whatever way possible.
		
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			Congratulations to you on this day of celebration
		
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			and achievement.
		
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			May your noble intentions be elevated and life's
		
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			objectives be facilitated as you continue to do
		
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			all that you do.
		
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			May you be protected from hearts that are
		
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			not humble, tongues that are not wise, and
		
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			eyes that have forgotten how to cry.
		
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			May your successes of today be the first
		
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			of many,
		
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			and we may be granted more success on
		
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			every tomorrow that you see. Go out and
		
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			change the world, class of 2014.
		
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			We all are behind you and have high
		
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			hopes. Thank you.