Khalid Latif – Perfecting Your Prayer Essentials of Salah (Hanafi) #01

Khalid Latif
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So,

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whose first time is it here? Anybody's?

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It's your first time? Oh, great. I saw

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that. What we had been doing

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for

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the last

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month or so, was just kind of going

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through the different mechanics to the prayer.

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And what I was thinking we would do

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over the course of this summer, is a

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deeper dive into prayer itself.

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Talking about outward and inward aspects of it,

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but the various terms that are utilized,

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I think a lot of us in the

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room are not native Arabic speakers and even

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if you are,

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Quranic Arabic

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isn't necessarily

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the same as spoken Arabic in various dialects.

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So there's a little bit of nuance that

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gets lost.

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So spending a good chunk of time just

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going through the words and what they mean,

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you know,

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to kind of not lose nuance

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on it.

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How does that sound?

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Yeah. Does that make sense? Yeah. People do.

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Yeah.

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How has it been for those who were

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here the last few weeks? Has anyone been

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able to, like, try to implement any of

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what we were discussing,

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kinda as you're practicing or building relationship just

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with the mechanics of prayer?

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Yeah. When I've been doing prayers, really been

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with, what my upbringing has taught me. Yeah.

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So I've been able to take, like, your,

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your

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You guys are late. Oh man.

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You're a school teacher and you're late to

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class.

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That's crazy. I should make you sit in

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the corner.

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No. No worries.

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Anyone else? Sorry. Did anyone else have their

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hand raised?

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We're just asking if there's been, like, implementation

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of things that we talked about over the

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last few weeks and how that's been

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in terms of just kind of building

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a relationship to the mechanics of the prayer

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itself.

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Yeah. I found it very helpful because I

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think I told you, like, I was raised

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in this religion at all, and so I

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was, like, following a YouTube video. Yeah. Yeah.

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And there's, like, just certain things you can't

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pick up on from that. And so, like,

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when we're talking about, like, really the specifics

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of, like, posture and, like, different positions, that

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was very helpful because it's not something you

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can

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quite get from a video.

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Great. Glad to hear

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that. Okay.

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Any other thoughts before we start getting into

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some things today?

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So why don't we take a quick minute?

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I know everyone doesn't know everyone else,

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and I also just have to get used

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to being in this room

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and, kind

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of, the shift in the vibe of the

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space. So if you just take a quick

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minute, introduce yourselves to the people sitting around

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you, if you already know the person right

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next to you, maybe the person behind you,

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in front of you, and then we'll get

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started in just a minute. But go ahead.

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Okay. Should we get started?

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So

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we're gonna do a deeper dive

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into

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what is a particular form of prayer in

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Islam

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that is called salah.

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You might also see it,

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people will call it salah.

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These are in reference to the 5 daily

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prayers

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that Muslims have.

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Some of what we're gonna talk about, will

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rehash over the course of the coming months,

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what we've talked about in terms of mechanics

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in the last few weeks.

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A lot of it will be, kind of,

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juxtaposed

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to other

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information, as well. I think, likely, what we're

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gonna do is

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try to start we're probably at 6, and

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that's my fault. I apologize. I just got

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tied up in a couple of things beforehand,

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and we're also just trying to tell people

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that we're at the end of the hall,

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that we're in a different room. We're gonna

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be in this room

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through mid August.

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So just people wanna keep that in mind.

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Doctor Madhwa,

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who is one of our staff psychologists,

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she's not here today.

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If you can keep her in your prayers.

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Her mother is feeling sick. So she is

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at home with her mom.

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But she typically will be doing

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a class,

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concurrently in the prayer room. That was, like,

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the time she was doing regularly. The building

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closes at 8 now in the summer. That's

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why we moved this up to 6 o'clock.

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We'll aim to end

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between, like, 7:15

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and 7:30.

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So that for those of you,

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who

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are

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gonna be in need of praying the 4th

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prayer of the day, Maghrib,

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at sunset,

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you'll be able to get to a place

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with enough time to actually pray it because

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the building will be closed here. We won't

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be able to do that here. That make

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sense? Likely between, like, 6 and 7 30

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is the time frame that we'll be, kind

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of, doing this. And what I'd like to

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do is utilize,

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kind of, a combination

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of structures to the class, but the more

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generic form of it would be

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in talking

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about outward elements of the prayer, the mechanics,

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the do's and don'ts, these kinds of things,

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and

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then for a chunk of the class talking

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about, like, the inward aspects of it.

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Right? Which is a big part of the

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prayer in Islam.

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We're not just praying with our bodies, but

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we're praying with our hearts. Right. We're not

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just praying, but we're praying to God.

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That's kind of the fundamental idea

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of prayer in Islam.

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The way Arabic functions as a language

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is that words

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have,

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root letters to them. Does anybody here have

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any familiarity with Arabic as a language? Just

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so we know. A little bit. You do?

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A little? Yeah.

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Anyone else?

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Yeah. Yeah. Great.

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So,

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for example, the name

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of the religion that we're discussing is

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Islam.

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Someone who practices

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Islam

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is called a Muslim,

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and you've likely heard other

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words that have these letters like, salaam,

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for example,

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or somebody might say, Assalamu

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Alaikum to you when they're greeting you. Right?

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But you see a link

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where there are

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these letters

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in each of these words,

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sa, la, ma.

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In Arabic,

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it's

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a seen,

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a lam, and a mim.

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And you can say the link between the

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words.

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Does that make sense? Right. There's a etymology

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there that is important to understand. And the

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way Arabic functions as a language, which is

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not a Arabic class,

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but we wanna understand the nuance of certain

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things

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through kind of the base meanings of these

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words. The way that Arabic functions as a

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language

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is that most words have

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3 letter root systems.

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On occasion, you might have a word that

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has 2 letters or 4 letters, but predominantly,

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all of the words, for the most part,

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have a 3

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letter

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root system. Does that make sense? Probably, like,

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my name is Khaled.

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In Arabic.

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The root of that is Khaleda.

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Right? And then, the way that the words

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are built out, there's like forms.

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So you have kind of

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the letters placed into the forms and they

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then denote meaning through

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the form that the letters are taking. Yeah.

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So, in this word that we're gonna be

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looking at, in terms of prayer, like, particularly,

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the salah, the daily ritual prayers, the

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base

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root letters of these

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are a waw,

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a sawd, and a lam,

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waslada.

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And you could also find it in an

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Arabic dictionary

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where it would be under Saad, Laam,

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Waw.

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So this

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is a Waw,

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a sad,

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and a lam,

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right? Wasada

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or

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sad, lam, waw.

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You don't have to know the letters. That's

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not, like, the point of it.

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But this root

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of wasalah,

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in Arabic, it denotes, like, to be linked

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to something

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or to be connected to something.

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There's like a union that's taking place there.

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Right?

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And that idea of that link is imperative

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to understand because that's the basis of this.

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Right? There's so much that goes into understanding

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things

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through

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the names of things, the meanings of things.

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So when somebody says to you, sola is

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just daily prayer,

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like that's gonna have a connotation to you

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through language that you have familiarity with

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and it's

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got whatever

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kind

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of imagery it's going to evoke.

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But, what the Arabic is seeking to evoke

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is that this thing

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is

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a link

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between you and God.

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Like, that's what it's doing. It's literally linking.

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It's connecting you to the divine in these

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moments that you're engaged in.

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So, where we would have

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kind of,

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here's me.

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This is a prayer.

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And then what it's connecting me to is

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God. Like a literal

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linkage

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in the sense of

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I'm not standing in prayer, I'm standing in

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prayer

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to Allah.

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Do you see the nuance difference?

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And that linkage is something that's important to

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understand.

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Right? It's a point of connection.

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It's a point of

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building off of a foundational

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theology in Islam.

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That the salah

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in and of itself is an act of

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worship,

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but it demonstrates

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fundamentally

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what

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the role is of the worshiper to the

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one being worshipped.

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So, if you think about it in terms

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of things that we discussed

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in our prayer

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classes the last few weeks for those of

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you who are here.

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Do you have a question? Are you raising

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your hand? No? You can. It's okay.

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Like, when I'm going into prayer,

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I'm in a place now where fundamentally

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everything

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that I have going on can I erase

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this stuff?

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Mhmm. I'm erasing it.

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The actions,

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recitations,

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like, everything that's going on there

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is meant to give us

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at a more

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microcosmic

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level and understanding

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that I'm not the one that's in charge

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of everything.

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Right? If you remember when we talked about

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the conditions of prayer,

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the obligations

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of prayer. One of the things that we

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discussed was

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called the Tahrima.

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This is like that initial Allahu Akbar. Thanks,

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man. That you would say to enter into

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the prayer. Right? If you guys remember, we

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said you could say like, subhanAllah

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or alhamdulillah

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in the obligation

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category.

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But, the necessary, the wajib is to say,

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Allahu Akbar.

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What this means, the hrima, the same idea.

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You look at the root letters,

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its basis is harama,

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which you get words like haram from, for

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example.

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The idea is that when you're doing this

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Tahrima

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similar to when people go on pilgrimage to

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Mecca

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and you've ever seen people dressed in their

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clothes,

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they're in a state that's called Ehram

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And it's a state where what's permissible is

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now made to be impermissible.

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So like when you're in your salah

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and you're connected to God,

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everything else stops.

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That's the idea.

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Like that link is something

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that there's not anything else that you would

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be doing, that you could normally be doing.

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So in your salah, it's just you connected

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to the divine.

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You're not picking up a phone when it

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rings. You can normally pick up your phone.

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You can pick up your phone right now.

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But in your prayer,

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you have now entered into this

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through this indication

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that's saying,

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certain acts mundane or otherwise,

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they're not gonna happen

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as I'm engaged in the course of this

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prayer.

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I can't watch TV while I'm in a

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prayer. I'm not in a place even where

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it's about doing things that I could do

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stationary,

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but my movements, the way my arms go,

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my legs go, everything where my eyes are

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looking. I'm not turning my head around in

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circles.

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I'm in a place where

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everything

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according

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to Islamic practice in the course of this

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particular type of prayer that we're talking about,

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salah,

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you're just doing it the way that you've

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been told to do it.

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There's not room to say, maybe, I'm gonna

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do this today

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in

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like, you know,

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a wife beater and like a pair of

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short shorts, right? No.

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It's an act of obedience that also is

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instilling within its practitioner

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a notion that says, it's done the way

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that you're taught to do it.

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You do it at the times that you're

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taught to do it. You're in a place

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where the direction that you face is even

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identified.

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The placement of your hands,

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the positioning of your fingers,

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all of this thing is deeply outlined in

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this

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because it's giving now

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through

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the idea of it being

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a connection to God.

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The fundamental

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understanding

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in Islam

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that

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you're the one that is worshiping God and

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you're in a state of subservience to God

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and it's not the other way around.

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So whatever else is going on in that

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moment,

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barring like emergency situations,

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right? If you're in a place of prayer

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and something's going crazy around you, like, you

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break your prayer, you don't just keep kind

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of praying. Do you know what I mean?

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Does that make sense? Like, I was telling

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somebody earlier today,

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I was in a Zoom meeting

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and I live in a NYU building. Some

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of you have been to our place before

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in our building, right? And I don't know,

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was like, for any of you who are

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in college or you went to college at

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some point or even in high school, you

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had fire drills and stuff. So we live

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in a dorm building. There's all kinds of

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kids, they have no idea how to cook

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stuff and they'll, like, burn things in their

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microwave, the fire alarm goes off, but there's

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drills.

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And at 2 o'clock in the morning, after

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a bunch of people started moving out of

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the building,

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and we're in New York, and you can

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imagine a 1,000 kids moved out of the

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building, you know, over the course of a

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week. Garbage bags are piled crazy high

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and somebody lit the garbage bags on fire,

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you know.

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And we're in a place where we live

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on the 3rd floor

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and smoke is coming in and,

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you know, you could see, like, the flames.

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It's crazy, like, how high they were

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going. And everyone's evacuating and then they're telling

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us to go back in because the fire

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is outside of the building, not inside of

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the building. And it's 2 in the morning,

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I have no idea what's going on. My

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wife, Priya, comes and she shakes me and

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she's like, the building's on fire. I'm like,

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no, it's not. Go to sleep. She's like,

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no. Like, there's smoke everywhere.

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And I'm like, oh, it'll be fine. Right?

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Because that was a fire drill.

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If you are praying in the midst of

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that, you break your prayer.

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Do you understand?

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Right?

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That's not the same as, hey, like,

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I forgot to turn the stove off,

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or

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you know, my friend just sent me a

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text message. Do you see the difference?

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Within it,

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the link is to God

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and there's not an absolute

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severing,

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but the links to everything else,

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they just stop at that moment.

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You're putting aside anything else that you're connected

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to

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And for 5 times in a day,

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you're

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revisiting

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the idea

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that

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you are in a place

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where you are creation

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and there's a creator that you are engaging.

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And you're seeking to build a connection through

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this practice

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to that creator. Does that make sense?

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So somebody says to you, Muslims pray 5

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times a day. Really, what they're saying is,

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5 times a day, Muslims strive to build

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a connection to their God.

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Right? And it just sounds different. It doesn't

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sound the same, you know. Because when you

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think of prayer, there's

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so many different things that can come up.

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Right? People can have a certain sense of

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longing in prayer. Right? Some people conceptualize prayer

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the way that you make a wish on

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a birthday cake. That's what prayer is. You

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know, I'm just asking for things. Do you

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know what I mean? Right? That's not what

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the point is

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in Islam with this type of prayer.

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The point of it is embedded in the

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meaning of the word.

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The idea is that it is

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not only a way, but the best way

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to be connected

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to God.

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Does that make sense?

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Yeah?

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So what comes in the Quran

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is,

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over and over again,

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it's like,

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you know, almost

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There's less than a 100, but probably like

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70 to 80 different times this word is

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mentioned in the Quran in various ways.

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But, the same way when we talked about

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wudu

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and we looked at the verse in the

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Quran

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that had

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the parts of the body that we said

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were the obligatory parts to wash in your

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wudu.

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Do people remember what I'm talking about? Right?

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And, it says,

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in that verse,

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Father Selous, that you wash yourself.

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You know, it's in an imperative and it

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talks about then, washing your face

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and the arms and wiping over the head

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and washing the feet. Right? Does it remember?

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We would yeah. You know, the you remember

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it? Yeah. Yeah. I I always say it

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was 4 weeks. There you go. It was

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4 weeks of talking about washing your feet.

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You better remember it. That's right.

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And so what you find in the Quran

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in a lot of places

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is also an imperative around prayer,

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but it doesn't say,

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like, pray.

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It says, establish

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prayer. And so it'll be in the Arabic

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something like,

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a famous salah.

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It'll

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say, something

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like that. Right?

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And so, when we have, for example, the

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call to prayer in Islam,

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for our salah is called the adhan.

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Right? You might have heard it, somebody gets

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up, says, Allahu Akbar Allahu Akbar till the

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end of, like, the series of statements. And

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they're telling people, literally come to prayer.

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Right? And then, when everybody is praying in

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congregation,

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they do what's called the almah.

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It's about establishing

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the prayer

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and getting to a place where we can

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now understand, well, what does this mean? Right?

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What does it sound like to you when

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someone says, establish

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prayer in your life? What I want you

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to do is just turn to the person

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next to you Cause you're gonna read translations.

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Right? You're gonna hear people say this. Like,

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establish the prayer. What does that sound like

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when you have that terminology?

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Like, what is it evoking within you?

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If you could just discuss for a couple

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of minutes with the person sitting next to

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you, and then you can come back and

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talk it up. Yeah. Go ahead.

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Okay. So,

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what does it sound like? Somebody says, establish

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prayer,

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you know, in English or whatever language you

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speak.

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Like, how would you take that? What what

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do you think it's telling or instructing one

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to do?

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Diego? The discussion we're having at Sam brought

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up a report of having the intention of

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establishing a connection with God 5 times a

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day in the meetings as well.

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Great.

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Having the intention,

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establishing

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5 times a day connection with God. Other

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things? Yep? Yeah. Just just going on that.

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I was thinking, like, you can go to

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a a space,

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any space, whatever. But if you're going to

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an establishment,

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like, there's intention behind that space. So that's

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that was kind of the link to

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and also we're always talking about intention.

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Yeah. Intention. Great. And how does it link

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to establishment?

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Like you just said, you're going to an

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establishment.

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So just, like, think about that a little

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bit. Yeah. Go ahead. It hit different for

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me, like, saying praying versus established prayer. And

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it's similar to what was said over here.

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Almost like setting a foundation

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or creating circumstances that are conducive

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to prayer.

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I thought of, like, establishing a healthy eating

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routine or establishing a gym routine.

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Yeah. So it becomes normal in your life.

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And what is that like when you establish

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healthy if you flesh it out more? You

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maybe choose to

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stop going out drinking as much or these

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sorts of things. As we said here, you

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you pick a a setting that's

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conducive to Prager.

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You put yourself in the energetic space that's

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conducive to a very certain mindset. So that's

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why I thought of, like, a holistic approach.

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Great.

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Just to piggyback away, sir. Like when you're

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creating a gym routine, something that you wanna,

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like,

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you

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know, wanna create a routine for your prayer,

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and, like, find some value in it to

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your personal life. So

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I think that's pretty much what I go

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down to.

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Any other thoughts?

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Yeah. So,

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in the establishing

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of prayer,

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like, who's doing the establishing?

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Yeah. Right? You are, I am.

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The prayer is not establishing itself,

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like, you're establishing the prayer. Right? The same

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way, Sam says, you go to an establishment.

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What does that, like, literally mean?

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The foundation of something had to be created

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in order for some kind of edifice to

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now literally exist

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in this location.

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Before this building was here, there was a

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church that was here. Right? It was a

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Catholic church that served the university.

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The Catholic community here has supported Muslim communities

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amazingly, you know. We likely wouldn't have an

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Islamic Center if it wasn't for a Catholic

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priest that ran the church here, who was

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a great mentor of mine.

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And

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when

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the university bought this land,

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the Catholic Center is still on the first

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floor. That's why it says, Catholic Center NYU.

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It's a part of the deal when they

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built the building, but then they took it

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down, and then there was just a hole

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here for a long time. Right? And then

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they built something back up.

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Right? And that's how you construct an establishment

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of some kind. You're literally establishing

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something in that, but the ownership

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of the establishing.

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Right? The person who is doing the action

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is you.

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You can do this individually, you can do

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it communally,

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but the prayer is not establishing itself.

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When we talked about standing

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in prayer over the last few weeks,

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Right? We said one of the

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integrals

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of the prayer, when you're in prayer, one

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of the obligations. And if you weren't here

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for that, or you forgot, it's okay. We're

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gonna review it in a few weeks. But

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one of the obligatory

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acts of prayer is standing.

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People remember? We talked about this. And then

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we said, like, in the Hanafi school, you

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have to just recite something of the Quran

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in the obligatory

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acts, in the standing. Right?

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So the word for standing

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in Arabic

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is qiam.

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It's got the same letters

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as this.

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Right? Do you know that word? Kiam? No.

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I was just thinking about the Grand Qiam.

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It totally makes sense. Grand Qiam. Look at

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that. Right?

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Do people come to the Grand Qiam in

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Ramadan?

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Do we know what Sam's talking about when

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we were here overnight?

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Right. So, one of the things that happens

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a lot

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in the calendar year, but also, more so,

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at certain times seasonally, is people pray into

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the night.

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And, if you've ever heard the name, Laila,

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for example,

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right? Leila means night. Kiamu leil means standing

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in the night. Right? So, kiam means standing.

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Ikama,

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when you say,

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ikimaslalah,

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it's like you're

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establishing the prayer, meaning you're, like, making the

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prayer

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stand. Does that make sense?

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And the way you wanna think about it

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is in this same way. Right? If you

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walk through New York City, which is not

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like other parts of the world, and every

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block there's, like, a tree or, you know,

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maybe not. But you see, like, these little

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trees. It's crazy.

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In the park, you can see them, like,

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surrounded by concrete and they're baby trees.

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Those baby trees are in a place where

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if this is like the tree,

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it's usually, like,

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strengthened by some kind of pole that it's

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tied to. Do you get what I'm saying?

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You ever seen that in New York City?

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Right?

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The pole

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is what is helping to make

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the tree stand.

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It needs a support mechanism.

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What this is saying

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is make the prayer stand

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the way the pole makes the fledgling tree

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stand.

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Be in a place where you have consciousness

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of how it is that you give it

00:28:03 --> 00:28:06

that support vehicle, that support structure.

00:28:06 --> 00:28:08

Because the goal is to not

00:28:08 --> 00:28:11

just pray the prayer and check it off

00:28:11 --> 00:28:13

like, I prayed the prayer.

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The goal is to pray to God.

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And in the course of the establishing of

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the prayer, one can think about this in

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a lot of different ways. You establish a

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place of prayer. You establish

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like your kind of ritual washing, the wudu,

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you establish this and that. But you want

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to think about it in this way. And

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then,

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if you're in a place where you're trying

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to relate

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to religion,

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Islam is a religion

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tells you often just reflect on the things

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that are around you. So when I'm walking

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down the street and I'm trying to figure

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out how am I gonna explain this

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and like literally in front of me, there's

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this like a little tree,

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you know. It's got all kinds of signs

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on it that say, don't let your dog

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like pee on this thing. Right? It's like

00:28:58 --> 00:29:00

a little baby tree, you know. Your dog

00:29:00 --> 00:29:03

gonna kill it if it does that. Do

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you know what I mean? Don't feed the

00:29:05 --> 00:29:07

pigeons because when you feed the pigeons, you're

00:29:07 --> 00:29:09

feeding the rats. Right? Only in New York

00:29:09 --> 00:29:12

City. There's like literal signs like this everywhere.

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And all that they're doing

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is they're saying like, hey,

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we

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are establishing

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the tree. We've got this thing with its

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branches tied up because the wind could knock

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this thing down.

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It rains really bad, it's gonna get uprooted.

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Do you get what I'm saying?

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The idea

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in utilizing this as a metaphor, it's like

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a picture of a tree there. I don't

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know where it came from but

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try to think about this.

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That if that tree

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had nothing in it

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and you were to seek to push it

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down the way that you might have ever

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seen a TV show before, where somebody

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in a comical fashion,

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they're trying to like hang up something and

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they take a hammer and it just goes

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straight through the wall.

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Because there's nothing behind that wall.

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They don't know

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necessarily,

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but it wasn't built in that way. It

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didn't necessitate that versus like a solid trunk

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that's got everything in it. If you try

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to

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push through something that was hollow, you would

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break through it. But if you try to

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push through something that was concrete, you'd probably

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break your hand banging against like a solid

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tree trunk. Do you know what I'm saying?

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That's what this is saying.

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Make it like solid.

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Help it to stand upright.

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Establish it in that way.

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The way that when you're standing,

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you're gonna make this thing stand in that

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capacity.

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Does that make sense?

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Right? And it's coming in this form to

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be able to say to you, like nobody

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can do that for you because you don't

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pray my prayer, I don't pray your prayer.

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Islam is a religion

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does not have this established

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kinda hierarchy to authority. It's a very pure

00:31:03 --> 00:31:03

monotheism.

00:31:04 --> 00:31:07

It's you and God. There's nothing that you

00:31:07 --> 00:31:09

need between you and God.

00:31:09 --> 00:31:11

If you convert to Islam,

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you can literally take your Shahada

00:31:14 --> 00:31:15

sitting in your home

00:31:16 --> 00:31:18

all alone and nobody can tell you that

00:31:18 --> 00:31:19

you didn't become Muslim.

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Because you don't need a person to sanctify

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it. There's no kind of like

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person or individual that needs to bless in

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that way shape or form. There's certain things

00:31:30 --> 00:31:31

that can happen communally

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that then necessitate

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an individual leading a prayer or something to

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that extent.

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But it's not the same as what you

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would find in other religious traditions. Do you

00:31:41 --> 00:31:43

know what I mean? Like I used to

00:31:43 --> 00:31:45

be a chaplain for the NYPD

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and they have ceremonies of all kinds like

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for everything,

00:31:50 --> 00:31:52

you know. And as chaplains, we were on

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a rotation

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because there was always an indication at the

00:31:55 --> 00:31:58

beginning of ceremony and a benediction at the

00:31:58 --> 00:32:00

end of it. And one of the things

00:32:00 --> 00:32:03

that I got invited to early on was

00:32:03 --> 00:32:04

they were doing like a street nay name

00:32:04 --> 00:32:05

for somebody

00:32:06 --> 00:32:09

and I came and I asked the people

00:32:09 --> 00:32:12

who were part of the ceremonial unit, what

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

are we doing and they were like an

00:32:13 --> 00:32:14

invocation,

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

benediction

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and you have to do a blessing for

00:32:18 --> 00:32:20

the plaque that they're gonna put up. And

00:32:20 --> 00:32:22

I was like, I don't how do you

00:32:22 --> 00:32:24

do that? And they're like, just bless it.

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27

And I was like, I just asked you

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how to and you told me to do

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

it by doing it. Right? Like, one of

00:32:31 --> 00:32:34

us is not making sense here. Like we

00:32:34 --> 00:32:36

don't have this in our religious tradition.

00:32:36 --> 00:32:37

Do you know?

00:32:38 --> 00:32:40

And I said it's not like I'm not

00:32:40 --> 00:32:44

knocking somebody else's belief, but there's not something

00:32:44 --> 00:32:47

like this in in what we do.

00:32:47 --> 00:32:50

And it trickles into this idea

00:32:50 --> 00:32:53

of like, there are religious scholars in Islam,

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

there are individuals who study Islam,

00:32:57 --> 00:33:00

but it doesn't become the base of

00:33:00 --> 00:33:03

being like a mediator between you and God.

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05

You get what I mean? Why is that

00:33:05 --> 00:33:05

important?

00:33:06 --> 00:33:06

Because this

00:33:07 --> 00:33:08

is an individual

00:33:08 --> 00:33:11

obligation in Islam. Right? I'm gonna give you

00:33:11 --> 00:33:12

like some terms in Arabic,

00:33:13 --> 00:33:14

but they're gonna be overarching

00:33:15 --> 00:33:18

categories of things. And so, what

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

salaf fits into

00:33:20 --> 00:33:22

is not just an obligation,

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

but it's an obligation,

00:33:27 --> 00:33:30

a farr. Right? People remember the word obligation.

00:33:33 --> 00:33:34

It's called the fardayn.

00:33:35 --> 00:33:36

It's an individual

00:33:37 --> 00:33:37

obligation.

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This is different from a fard that's called

00:33:50 --> 00:33:51

a fard kifaya

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which is communal obligation.

00:34:06 --> 00:34:07

So for example,

00:34:07 --> 00:34:09

somebody passes away

00:34:09 --> 00:34:10

in the community.

00:34:11 --> 00:34:14

That person has a right to,

00:34:14 --> 00:34:17

as the deceased, for their body to be

00:34:17 --> 00:34:20

washed and shrouded and prayed over and buried.

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

As long as one of us knows how

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

to do that,

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

the entire responsibility

00:34:26 --> 00:34:27

towards that person

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

is lifted. Not just knows, but does it.

00:34:30 --> 00:34:31

Do you know what I mean? They have

00:34:31 --> 00:34:33

to get it done. Right?

00:34:34 --> 00:34:35

I had another funny story pop up my

00:34:35 --> 00:34:37

head, but has nothing to do with talking

00:34:37 --> 00:34:39

about. Maybe we'll tell you at the end.

00:34:39 --> 00:34:42

And if nobody knows how to do

00:34:42 --> 00:34:45

it, then the entire community is responsible

00:34:45 --> 00:34:46

and bears the burden

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

of that obligation not being fulfilled.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:50

Right? So,

00:34:52 --> 00:34:55

you, for example, could fit social services under

00:34:55 --> 00:34:55

this.

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

Right? If you have capacity

00:34:57 --> 00:34:58

to

00:34:58 --> 00:35:00

build a shelter for survivors of

00:35:01 --> 00:35:04

abuse. You have capacity to set up food

00:35:04 --> 00:35:05

pantries and clinics.

00:35:06 --> 00:35:09

Right? There's certain gaps, The underserved and underprivileged

00:35:09 --> 00:35:12

needs are not being met. Right? Their communal

00:35:12 --> 00:35:12

responsibilities

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15

that need to happen. Does it mean everybody

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

has to do it? No. But some people

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

have to get it done and if nobody's

00:35:19 --> 00:35:22

getting it done and there's capacity too, then

00:35:22 --> 00:35:23

that's a problem. You see,

00:35:25 --> 00:35:28

we're talking about individual obligations. The faderayin.

00:35:29 --> 00:35:32

That your prayer is your prayer. That's what

00:35:32 --> 00:35:33

salah fits

00:35:34 --> 00:35:36

under. You have to pray your fajr.

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

I can't pray it for you as much

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

as you can't pray it for me.

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

I could do the janaza prayer, the funeral

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

prayer for everybody in the room. Right? Some

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

of you might be able to do mine

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49

because you know how to do it. Do

00:35:49 --> 00:35:49

you know?

00:35:50 --> 00:35:52

But, it doesn't mean all of us have

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

to know how to do it. Just one

00:35:54 --> 00:35:55

of us needs to do it.

00:35:55 --> 00:35:59

But, you can't do something that you don't

00:35:59 --> 00:36:00

know how to do.

00:36:00 --> 00:36:03

And in some acts, like, you're the only

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

one that can do that thing.

00:36:04 --> 00:36:05

And sala,

00:36:06 --> 00:36:07

that's one of them.

00:36:08 --> 00:36:11

I wanna share like some narrations that echo

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

the importance of this as we're gonna get

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

into it at a deeper level over the

00:36:15 --> 00:36:18

coming weeks. The mechanics, the do's and don'ts.

00:36:19 --> 00:36:20

We talked about the obligatory

00:36:21 --> 00:36:21

actions,

00:36:21 --> 00:36:23

the necessary actions,

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

the recommended acts.

00:36:25 --> 00:36:27

We haven't talked about

00:36:27 --> 00:36:30

what nullifies the prayer, like what are disliked

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

acts in the prayer, you know, and these

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

kinds of things.

00:36:34 --> 00:36:36

We'll get into those as well.

00:36:37 --> 00:36:39

But here, we want to know, for example,

00:36:40 --> 00:36:40

like

00:36:41 --> 00:36:42

some of

00:36:42 --> 00:36:42

the

00:36:43 --> 00:36:43

kinda

00:36:45 --> 00:36:46

importance of this,

00:36:47 --> 00:36:48

there is

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

a prophetic tradition

00:36:51 --> 00:36:54

where the prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him,

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

he says to his companions,

00:36:58 --> 00:37:02

that Islam is built on things, on 5

00:37:02 --> 00:37:02

things,

00:37:03 --> 00:37:06

right? And in Arabic, when you say building,

00:37:06 --> 00:37:06

it's binaya.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

So Buniyal

00:37:09 --> 00:37:11

Islam is that like you're literally building on

00:37:11 --> 00:37:12

these five things.

00:37:13 --> 00:37:15

And in normative Sunni

00:37:16 --> 00:37:17

practice of Islam,

00:37:17 --> 00:37:20

these are referred to like the 5 pillars

00:37:20 --> 00:37:20

of Islam,

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

right? 1, to say the Shahadah,

00:37:23 --> 00:37:26

that you testify that there is nothing worthy

00:37:26 --> 00:37:28

of worship except

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

God alone

00:37:29 --> 00:37:30

and that Mohammed

00:37:31 --> 00:37:32

is his messenger.

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

And then in this particular narration,

00:37:35 --> 00:37:36

it says, the establishment

00:37:37 --> 00:37:37

of the prayer,

00:37:38 --> 00:37:41

the giving of the obligatory charity, the zakat,

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

which we'll probably talk about towards the end

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

of the year.

00:37:45 --> 00:37:46

Then it says,

00:37:46 --> 00:37:47

the pilgrimage

00:37:48 --> 00:37:49

to God's house.

00:37:49 --> 00:37:52

Hajj Al Bayt, it says. Right? The pilgrimage

00:37:52 --> 00:37:53

to Mecca, the Hajj.

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

And then it says, the fast of Ramadan.

00:37:57 --> 00:38:00

Those are the 5 things that are

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

obligatory

00:38:03 --> 00:38:06

in terms of like ritual and practice

00:38:06 --> 00:38:07

across the board.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:09

For Muslims

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

who are sane

00:38:11 --> 00:38:12

and post pubescent.

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

And then, they get nuanced

00:38:16 --> 00:38:17

in terms of

00:38:18 --> 00:38:19

which ones

00:38:19 --> 00:38:22

are applicable to some, but not others.

00:38:22 --> 00:38:23

Right? Like everybody

00:38:24 --> 00:38:25

has to pray.

00:38:26 --> 00:38:28

Some people, they won't go for Hajj because

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

they don't have the means to go for

00:38:30 --> 00:38:30

it.

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

Right? Some people they won't give zakat

00:38:34 --> 00:38:37

because they don't have the wealth that requires

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

them to.

00:38:38 --> 00:38:41

Some people, they're not gonna fast in Ramadan

00:38:41 --> 00:38:43

because they don't have the physical capacity to

00:38:43 --> 00:38:44

fast.

00:38:44 --> 00:38:45

My father

00:38:45 --> 00:38:48

who had a severe stroke some years ago,

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

they left him paralyzed on the right side

00:38:49 --> 00:38:50

of his body

00:38:51 --> 00:38:53

and without the ability to speak.

00:38:54 --> 00:38:55

He still prays.

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

The prayer changes a bit for him because

00:38:59 --> 00:39:00

of his physical

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

restrictions. But the narration say that even if

00:39:03 --> 00:39:04

you were to just pray

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

with moving your eyes in the ways that

00:39:07 --> 00:39:11

your body would normally go, Right? But prayer

00:39:11 --> 00:39:12

in this form

00:39:12 --> 00:39:13

is not something

00:39:14 --> 00:39:15

that is undermined.

00:39:15 --> 00:39:18

It's not a choice also. There's another narration

00:39:19 --> 00:39:22

that says, bein al mari wa kufri tarakos

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24

salah, the between an individual

00:39:25 --> 00:39:25

and

00:39:26 --> 00:39:26

disbelief,

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

meaning like leaving Islam,

00:39:29 --> 00:39:30

is the abandonment

00:39:30 --> 00:39:31

of salah.

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

What most people would say is that this

00:39:34 --> 00:39:35

is a qualitative

00:39:35 --> 00:39:36

understanding.

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

That it's not an essential understanding.

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

But we're gonna learn

00:39:41 --> 00:39:44

like prayer and mechanics according to one

00:39:45 --> 00:39:47

legal school of thought in Islam,

00:39:48 --> 00:39:51

in Sunni Islam called the Hanafi School. There's

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

another school that's called the Hanbali School

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

and the namesake of that school was a

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59

great scholar by the name of Ahmed ibn

00:39:59 --> 00:39:59

Hanbal

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

and he was of the opinion that said,

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

no. If you don't pray,

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

it is an essential

00:40:07 --> 00:40:07

distinction

00:40:08 --> 00:40:11

between somebody who's Muslim and somebody who's not.

00:40:11 --> 00:40:11

Not a qualitative

00:40:12 --> 00:40:12

distinction.

00:40:13 --> 00:40:15

And there were opinions that said, somebody wasn't

00:40:15 --> 00:40:18

praying then that meant that they were outside

00:40:18 --> 00:40:19

of the fold of Islam.

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

Most people would say no. Like that's not

00:40:22 --> 00:40:23

the case.

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

But I'm saying this to give you an

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

understanding

00:40:26 --> 00:40:28

of what the importance is of it as

00:40:28 --> 00:40:30

an act in Islam

00:40:30 --> 00:40:33

and why it's also an important act

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

because it's an obligation

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

and these are things that are owed to

00:40:38 --> 00:40:38

God,

00:40:39 --> 00:40:42

but the benefit comes to us back. So

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

if you meet somebody

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

as you are exploring Islam,

00:40:46 --> 00:40:47

somebody

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

who might have a tangential relationship with their

00:40:50 --> 00:40:51

faith.

00:40:51 --> 00:40:53

A lot of us don't grow up necessarily

00:40:54 --> 00:40:56

learning so much. I didn't pray for a

00:40:56 --> 00:40:57

good chunk

00:40:57 --> 00:40:58

of

00:40:58 --> 00:40:59

like my adolescence

00:40:59 --> 00:41:00

and teens.

00:41:01 --> 00:41:03

I just left it behind and I forgot

00:41:03 --> 00:41:04

how to pray for the most part and

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

had to reteach it to myself. Now, I

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08

started to explore religion and spirituality,

00:41:10 --> 00:41:12

when I was about 16 years old, I

00:41:12 --> 00:41:14

started looking at more different things

00:41:14 --> 00:41:17

and I would, as I got older, I

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19

was 17, I would cut class and go

00:41:19 --> 00:41:21

to the mosque. I just didn't know what

00:41:21 --> 00:41:24

to do. I was very intimidated asking people,

00:41:24 --> 00:41:27

you know, for advice or anything like that.

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

But,

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

where I'm at now is not where I

00:41:32 --> 00:41:32

was,

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

but I'm also a product of where I

00:41:35 --> 00:41:36

came from. Do you get what I mean?

00:41:37 --> 00:41:38

And so,

00:41:40 --> 00:41:41

I didn't have

00:41:41 --> 00:41:44

that sense of a connection so to speak

00:41:44 --> 00:41:47

because I didn't learn it in that way.

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

I learned it only as like do's and

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

don'ts.

00:41:50 --> 00:41:53

And it wasn't necessarily taught to me in

00:41:53 --> 00:41:55

Sunday schools. I went to like 12 different

00:41:55 --> 00:41:58

Sunday schools. It's terrible, you know.

00:41:59 --> 00:41:59

And fundamentally,

00:42:00 --> 00:42:02

like, it it didn't like click

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

because it was just given in terms of

00:42:05 --> 00:42:05

lists.

00:42:05 --> 00:42:07

It's much harder to do this

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

if it just becomes an ends and not

00:42:10 --> 00:42:13

a means to something. You're not recognizing it

00:42:13 --> 00:42:15

for what it's intended to be and then

00:42:15 --> 00:42:17

thinking out, well how do I establish it

00:42:17 --> 00:42:19

in that meaningful way that allows for me

00:42:19 --> 00:42:22

to sever connection to other things and then

00:42:22 --> 00:42:24

just focus on this connection

00:42:24 --> 00:42:27

in this way. The gain that's there, another

00:42:27 --> 00:42:28

prophetic tradition.

00:42:29 --> 00:42:31

The prophet peace be upon him, he asks

00:42:31 --> 00:42:33

his companions like, what would you say of

00:42:33 --> 00:42:34

an individual

00:42:34 --> 00:42:35

who

00:42:35 --> 00:42:38

essentially like bathed themselves in a river flowing

00:42:38 --> 00:42:40

in front of their home 5 times a

00:42:40 --> 00:42:41

day.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

Like, how would you understand the state of

00:42:43 --> 00:42:45

this person to be?

00:42:46 --> 00:42:48

And there is like, yeah like he's gonna

00:42:48 --> 00:42:50

be clean like it's not dirt. You know

00:42:50 --> 00:42:51

what I'm saying?

00:42:51 --> 00:42:53

And the prophet said, this is what

00:42:54 --> 00:42:54

your relationship

00:42:55 --> 00:42:56

is to the salah.

00:42:57 --> 00:42:59

Like it's a cleansing mechanism

00:43:00 --> 00:43:03

but the cleansing mechanism is not only outward

00:43:03 --> 00:43:05

because think about it, there's aspects that are

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

about physical cleanliness also,

00:43:07 --> 00:43:09

right? You can't pray

00:43:09 --> 00:43:11

if you don't make wudu. You can't pray

00:43:11 --> 00:43:14

if there's filthy things on your body, right?

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

You haven't like

00:43:16 --> 00:43:20

kind of washed off like urine or excrement,

00:43:20 --> 00:43:23

somebody drops alcohol on you, these kinds of

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

things. Like those are not clothes you can

00:43:25 --> 00:43:28

be praying in. So there's a physical

00:43:28 --> 00:43:29

aspect to the cleanliness

00:43:30 --> 00:43:33

also because anticipating that I'm gonna pray is

00:43:33 --> 00:43:36

just gonna create better hygiene in relation to

00:43:36 --> 00:43:36

the prayer

00:43:37 --> 00:43:39

regarding like other things, otherwise.

00:43:39 --> 00:43:42

But also, it's like a metaphysical cleansing,

00:43:42 --> 00:43:43

right?

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

It's a inward cleansing

00:43:46 --> 00:43:48

that becomes a protection.

00:43:49 --> 00:43:51

The way that when we fast, we talked

00:43:51 --> 00:43:54

about it that it yields consciousness.

00:43:55 --> 00:43:56

What the Quran says

00:43:56 --> 00:44:00

is that establish prayer because the establishment

00:44:00 --> 00:44:02

of the prayer is a protection

00:44:03 --> 00:44:05

from things that are kind of corrupt and

00:44:05 --> 00:44:06

wicked and evil.

00:44:07 --> 00:44:09

That's what the yield is supposed to be.

00:44:09 --> 00:44:12

Right? It shields you from doing like terrible

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

things or problematic things. Now, are there terrible

00:44:14 --> 00:44:16

things that happen in the world? Yeah. Like

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

I was talking to my wife, you know,

00:44:18 --> 00:44:19

it's a long weekend

00:44:19 --> 00:44:20

and

00:44:20 --> 00:44:22

I said to her like 2 weeks ago,

00:44:22 --> 00:44:24

hey, what should we do this coming weekend?

00:44:24 --> 00:44:26

You know, a long weekend coming up. And

00:44:26 --> 00:44:28

she was like, oh, you know, let's just

00:44:28 --> 00:44:29

kinda stay home. I was like, why don't

00:44:29 --> 00:44:30

we find some of our friends staying home.

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

She's like, no, fine. Then yesterday, she was

00:44:32 --> 00:44:34

like, why don't we hang out with some

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

people this weekend? I was like, oh, what

00:44:36 --> 00:44:38

a great idea. I wish I had said

00:44:38 --> 00:44:39

that 3 weeks ago

00:44:40 --> 00:44:40

and

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

I was sending names to her like, you

00:44:43 --> 00:44:44

know, why don't we talk to hang out

00:44:44 --> 00:44:45

with this person, that person.

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

And one, it's like crazy

00:44:48 --> 00:44:51

just what some people do with their lives,

00:44:51 --> 00:44:53

right? And one person I said, she was

00:44:53 --> 00:44:54

like, yeah,

00:44:55 --> 00:44:57

you know they have kids also our age

00:44:57 --> 00:45:00

and like we're close in age to the

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

husband and wife too. And she said, the

00:45:02 --> 00:45:05

wife isn't here this weekend because she's gone

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

down to the Texas border

00:45:07 --> 00:45:08

to help protect,

00:45:09 --> 00:45:10

asylum seekers.

00:45:11 --> 00:45:12

And she's gone with a lot of her

00:45:12 --> 00:45:13

own law students

00:45:14 --> 00:45:15

who themselves are undocumented

00:45:16 --> 00:45:17

or DACA recipients

00:45:17 --> 00:45:19

and they can't cross the border because of

00:45:19 --> 00:45:20

that reason,

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

but they're in a place where,

00:45:24 --> 00:45:26

you know, they want to help whatever they

00:45:26 --> 00:45:29

can, right? And it's like wow, like there's

00:45:29 --> 00:45:31

people who are built that way. You know,

00:45:31 --> 00:45:33

any one of those kids let alone the

00:45:33 --> 00:45:36

professor who's our friend, they could step just

00:45:36 --> 00:45:38

like in the wrong place and someone will

00:45:38 --> 00:45:40

just send them out of the country.

00:45:40 --> 00:45:41

You know what I'm saying?

00:45:42 --> 00:45:42

But

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

juxtaposing it now to the people

00:45:45 --> 00:45:46

who

00:45:46 --> 00:45:47

are willfully

00:45:48 --> 00:45:48

planning

00:45:49 --> 00:45:50

to make life difficult

00:45:51 --> 00:45:52

for asylum seekers.

00:45:53 --> 00:45:56

People who like will deliberately

00:45:57 --> 00:45:58

sit and plan

00:45:58 --> 00:45:59

about

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

let's get these size cages

00:46:02 --> 00:46:05

to put children in them when we separate

00:46:05 --> 00:46:07

them from their families at the borders. Like

00:46:07 --> 00:46:10

that's a literal conversation that someone has. Do

00:46:10 --> 00:46:11

you get what I mean?

00:46:11 --> 00:46:13

They don't have just like in a giant

00:46:13 --> 00:46:15

warehouse a bunch of cages.

00:46:15 --> 00:46:16

Someone had to sit

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

and plan and say when they come, what

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

should we do? And someone had to say,

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

why don't we stick them in cages?

00:46:24 --> 00:46:25

And then someone had to go through the

00:46:25 --> 00:46:26

process

00:46:26 --> 00:46:28

of actually taking the step

00:46:28 --> 00:46:30

to buy and assemble

00:46:30 --> 00:46:33

and line up and lock the door behind

00:46:33 --> 00:46:33

people.

00:46:34 --> 00:46:36

How can you do that every step of

00:46:36 --> 00:46:38

the way? Do you know what I mean?

00:46:39 --> 00:46:39

Right?

00:46:39 --> 00:46:41

What the Quran is saying,

00:46:42 --> 00:46:44

if you do this thing right

00:46:44 --> 00:46:46

and it's going to be transformative

00:46:47 --> 00:46:47

inwardly,

00:46:48 --> 00:46:50

you're not gonna be in a place where

00:46:50 --> 00:46:52

you fall into that kind of mess.

00:46:53 --> 00:46:54

It's going to be a mechanism

00:46:55 --> 00:46:56

for inward transformation

00:46:57 --> 00:46:57

and healing,

00:46:58 --> 00:46:58

cleanliness.

00:46:59 --> 00:47:02

It's going to serve as an agent

00:47:03 --> 00:47:06

of polishing your inside in a meaningful way.

00:47:06 --> 00:47:07

Does that make sense?

00:47:07 --> 00:47:09

Yeah. What I want you to do is

00:47:09 --> 00:47:11

just turn to the person's next to you

00:47:11 --> 00:47:13

a couple minutes. What are you taking away

00:47:13 --> 00:47:15

from this so far? And then, we'll come

00:47:15 --> 00:47:17

back and discuss. Go ahead.

00:47:19 --> 00:47:20

Okay. So what are some of the things

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

we're taking away from today?

00:47:28 --> 00:47:28

Where

00:47:29 --> 00:47:30

are some of the things?

00:47:31 --> 00:47:31

Anything?

00:47:35 --> 00:47:36

Yeah.

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

We've been discussing a little bit about

00:47:40 --> 00:47:40

how

00:47:42 --> 00:47:44

the salah is kind of

00:47:45 --> 00:47:47

not kind of. It is stated as a

00:47:47 --> 00:47:50

necessity in Islam, and our metaphor was kind

00:47:50 --> 00:47:52

of like drinking water. Like, we have, like,

00:47:52 --> 00:47:53

water

00:47:54 --> 00:47:55

to stay hydrated, but also to clean,

00:47:56 --> 00:47:58

you know, kind of impurities in our body.

00:47:58 --> 00:48:00

And maybe some of us do something

00:48:00 --> 00:48:01

like that.

00:48:02 --> 00:48:03

Yeah. It's something that you need to do

00:48:03 --> 00:48:05

a certain amount of time

00:48:05 --> 00:48:08

a day and just kind of gets rid

00:48:08 --> 00:48:08

of

00:48:09 --> 00:48:10

It's And it's amazing,

00:48:11 --> 00:48:12

like, analogy. Right?

00:48:13 --> 00:48:15

You need to drink a lot of water.

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

It's not only

00:48:18 --> 00:48:19

kind of fleshing things

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

out, but it's just giving you energy. Right?

00:48:22 --> 00:48:24

It's like literally, it's gonna make your skin

00:48:24 --> 00:48:27

brighter. Right? Like, you're not gonna have all

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

the kind of challenges you have. And you

00:48:29 --> 00:48:31

think about the alternatives that you turn to,

00:48:31 --> 00:48:32

people

00:48:32 --> 00:48:34

overdo like caffeine,

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37

coffee, all kinds of stuff is just killing

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39

their insides, you know.

00:48:41 --> 00:48:42

And that's what you can see with like

00:48:42 --> 00:48:43

your salah.

00:48:44 --> 00:48:45

If you do it and you do it

00:48:45 --> 00:48:45

consistently

00:48:46 --> 00:48:48

with, like, the regularity that you're supposed to,

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

the yield is gonna be positive, as well

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

as pushing out what's detrimental.

00:48:53 --> 00:48:55

If you turn to other modes of engagement,

00:48:55 --> 00:48:57

it's just not gonna give you, like, what

00:48:57 --> 00:49:00

it what it's intended to. Yeah. Other thoughts?

00:49:00 --> 00:49:01

Other takeaways? Yeah.

00:49:02 --> 00:49:04

It resonates when you describe it as a

00:49:04 --> 00:49:05

form of protection.

00:49:06 --> 00:49:08

And and and then back to this, thought

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

that it's an establishment,

00:49:10 --> 00:49:10

like, providing

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

a a root or a foundation. So I

00:49:13 --> 00:49:14

think

00:49:14 --> 00:49:17

of the people who, as you mentioned, sort

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19

of go through these intentional processes to create

00:49:19 --> 00:49:20

cages for children.

00:49:21 --> 00:49:22

And

00:49:22 --> 00:49:25

I would assume or come to conclusion that

00:49:25 --> 00:49:25

maybe that

00:49:30 --> 00:49:32

They they're not I don't mean to put

00:49:32 --> 00:49:33

it like this, but they're sort of, like,

00:49:33 --> 00:49:34

lost in the wind or they're just they

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

don't really maybe they don't have a sense

00:49:36 --> 00:49:37

of ground and morality.

00:49:38 --> 00:49:39

So if that's the energy

00:49:40 --> 00:49:41

around them, they're just kinda going with it

00:49:41 --> 00:49:44

versus having a reference point or their own

00:49:44 --> 00:49:46

foundation where even if there's chaos around them

00:49:46 --> 00:49:48

or evil around them, they have nothing to

00:49:48 --> 00:49:49

sort of

00:49:50 --> 00:49:51

root themselves in.

00:49:52 --> 00:49:55

Yeah. And Islam is like a religion that

00:49:55 --> 00:49:58

sees prayer as an anchoring force.

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

You know, it's a mechanism for grounding

00:50:01 --> 00:50:03

when it's done with that like inward and

00:50:03 --> 00:50:03

outward

00:50:04 --> 00:50:05

aspect understood.

00:50:06 --> 00:50:08

And it's not just then like the shell

00:50:08 --> 00:50:10

of it or the mechanics of

00:50:10 --> 00:50:11

it. But you're simultaneously

00:50:12 --> 00:50:14

utilizing your body as a means to

00:50:14 --> 00:50:18

connect to God through your heart, right? And

00:50:18 --> 00:50:21

that connection, that sinna that we're talking about,

00:50:21 --> 00:50:24

it's not like a bodily connection. Do you

00:50:24 --> 00:50:25

know what I mean? Because

00:50:26 --> 00:50:28

we have an essential

00:50:28 --> 00:50:31

understanding of God that is different from other

00:50:31 --> 00:50:32

religious traditions.

00:50:32 --> 00:50:33

And so, there's no anthropomorphizing

00:50:34 --> 00:50:36

of God in Islam in any way. So

00:50:36 --> 00:50:39

there's not like a literal connection taking place

00:50:40 --> 00:50:42

on a physical sense, but the part of

00:50:42 --> 00:50:44

you that if you were to think about

00:50:44 --> 00:50:45

yourself on a whole,

00:50:45 --> 00:50:49

that you're connecting now through salah to God.

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

Like, what's that connection being made through?

00:50:52 --> 00:50:53

Do you know what I mean? And what's

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

like the driving

00:50:55 --> 00:50:58

part of you in formulating that connection?

00:50:59 --> 00:51:00

And a lot of times, we make decisions

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

through our stomachs. We make decisions through our

00:51:02 --> 00:51:05

sexual organs. We make decisions through like externals.

00:51:06 --> 00:51:08

We make decisions through all different things.

00:51:08 --> 00:51:09

Fundamentally,

00:51:10 --> 00:51:11

the prayer and all of its postures

00:51:11 --> 00:51:14

has your entire physical body oriented

00:51:14 --> 00:51:15

in a certain capacity,

00:51:16 --> 00:51:18

but the idea is that the driving force

00:51:18 --> 00:51:20

is your heart. Right?

00:51:20 --> 00:51:21

That's what it is that you want to

00:51:21 --> 00:51:24

be sovereign in the midst of this. And

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

then, it enables you to have that presence

00:51:27 --> 00:51:28

outside of the prayer as well.

00:51:30 --> 00:51:31

In Islamic tradition,

00:51:32 --> 00:51:35

the mandate for 5 daily prayers, we talked

00:51:35 --> 00:51:37

about like some weeks ago when we first

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

started talking about prayer.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:42

But the catalyst for it wasn't something that

00:51:42 --> 00:51:43

we discussed.

00:51:43 --> 00:51:44

Right? So, if you remember

00:51:45 --> 00:51:46

for those who are here,

00:51:46 --> 00:51:49

the mandate of 5 daily prayers comes to

00:51:49 --> 00:51:50

the prophet Muhammad

00:51:51 --> 00:51:53

when he goes on a journey from his

00:51:53 --> 00:51:55

home to the city of Jerusalem

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

and ascends into the heavens

00:51:57 --> 00:52:00

and there's a conversation that we discussed

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

where Moses, peace be upon him, like asks

00:52:02 --> 00:52:04

him, what did you speak to God

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

when he enters into this level of heaven?

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09

And he says, you know, God told me

00:52:09 --> 00:52:12

to pray 50 times a day for my

00:52:12 --> 00:52:12

community.

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

And Musa, alayhis salam, Moses, peace be upon

00:52:15 --> 00:52:18

him, says to the Prophet Muhammad, alayhis salam,

00:52:19 --> 00:52:21

peace be upon him, like, go back. Your

00:52:21 --> 00:52:23

people are not gonna do 50.

00:52:23 --> 00:52:24

Mine didn't do what they were supposed to

00:52:24 --> 00:52:26

do. Yours are definitely not gonna do what

00:52:26 --> 00:52:28

they're supposed to do. They go back and

00:52:28 --> 00:52:29

forth in this way until it comes down

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

to 5. Do people remember when we talked

00:52:31 --> 00:52:33

about this? Yeah.

00:52:33 --> 00:52:35

Do you just nod your head to to

00:52:35 --> 00:52:37

make me feel good? Yeah. And remember? Great.

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

Yeah.

00:52:38 --> 00:52:40

What's happening before this,

00:52:41 --> 00:52:42

when

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

Islam is revealed

00:52:45 --> 00:52:48

and the first revelation comes to the prophet

00:52:48 --> 00:52:50

Muhammad, he thinks he's lost his mind.

00:52:51 --> 00:52:52

He's seeking solitude

00:52:52 --> 00:52:54

in a cave known as the cave of

00:52:54 --> 00:52:54

Hira,

00:52:55 --> 00:52:57

the top of a mountain. The angel Gabriel

00:52:57 --> 00:52:59

is a very important,

00:53:00 --> 00:53:03

entity within Islamic tradition similar to other religious

00:53:03 --> 00:53:04

traditions.

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

He comes with this initial revelation

00:53:07 --> 00:53:10

and what the narrations and the traditions say

00:53:10 --> 00:53:11

is that everywhere the prophet looked in the

00:53:11 --> 00:53:14

horizon, he just saw the angel, really massive

00:53:14 --> 00:53:14

creature.

00:53:15 --> 00:53:18

When he goes home, he is shivering out

00:53:18 --> 00:53:18

of shock.

00:53:19 --> 00:53:20

He doesn't know what's happening

00:53:21 --> 00:53:22

and his wife

00:53:22 --> 00:53:23

Khadija,

00:53:24 --> 00:53:26

may God be pleased with her, puts a

00:53:26 --> 00:53:28

blanket on the prophet's shoulders.

00:53:28 --> 00:53:30

He like says everything he has to

00:53:30 --> 00:53:33

and she gives him affirmation. You're a good

00:53:33 --> 00:53:35

man. You treat orphans with

00:53:35 --> 00:53:36

dignity,

00:53:37 --> 00:53:41

and you remember the world's forgotten. You honor

00:53:41 --> 00:53:43

rights of guests. You wouldn't be tested in

00:53:43 --> 00:53:44

this way, you know.

00:53:45 --> 00:53:47

Then, she's with him throughout all of it.

00:53:48 --> 00:53:51

She's supportive of him. Like, has his back

00:53:51 --> 00:53:52

through everything.

00:53:53 --> 00:53:56

There's a really deep love that's there. Right?

00:53:56 --> 00:53:58

When the prophet describes the love that he

00:53:58 --> 00:53:59

has

00:53:59 --> 00:54:01

and the love he receives for his wife

00:54:01 --> 00:54:02

Khadija,

00:54:02 --> 00:54:05

the Arabic word he uses is a derivation

00:54:05 --> 00:54:07

of rizq which is your sustenance.

00:54:08 --> 00:54:11

But he's saying like her love was something

00:54:11 --> 00:54:14

that God like instilled within me and gave

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

to me. But it was a source of

00:54:16 --> 00:54:17

sustenance, he's saying, right?

00:54:18 --> 00:54:19

She passes away

00:54:20 --> 00:54:23

and when she passes away, they say he's

00:54:23 --> 00:54:25

not the same person as he was

00:54:26 --> 00:54:27

prior to her passing.

00:54:28 --> 00:54:30

Like years later, to give you an idea,

00:54:30 --> 00:54:31

there's an instance

00:54:31 --> 00:54:31

where

00:54:32 --> 00:54:34

a necklace that belonged to his wife

00:54:35 --> 00:54:38

by chance came into his hand and tears

00:54:38 --> 00:54:40

just started pouring out of his face because

00:54:40 --> 00:54:41

it was a reminder of this person that

00:54:41 --> 00:54:43

he loved so much.

00:54:44 --> 00:54:46

Not only does she die that year,

00:54:47 --> 00:54:48

but his uncle, Abu Talib,

00:54:49 --> 00:54:50

also passed away

00:54:51 --> 00:54:52

and he was

00:54:53 --> 00:54:56

an elder in this very tribalistic Meccan society.

00:54:56 --> 00:54:58

Right? So, when you think about Mecca,

00:54:58 --> 00:55:00

just on a sociological

00:55:00 --> 00:55:01

level,

00:55:01 --> 00:55:03

there's like no mayor of Mecca.

00:55:04 --> 00:55:05

There's no governor of Mecca.

00:55:06 --> 00:55:10

The city itself is not ruled by policies

00:55:10 --> 00:55:12

and these kinds of things, but it's broken

00:55:12 --> 00:55:13

into clans.

00:55:14 --> 00:55:16

And the way a clan is kind of

00:55:16 --> 00:55:16

given strength

00:55:17 --> 00:55:20

is through how it protects its kind of

00:55:20 --> 00:55:21

most underprivileged

00:55:22 --> 00:55:22

members.

00:55:23 --> 00:55:26

You know. There's kind of a connection, right?

00:55:26 --> 00:55:28

So you all could be like one clan

00:55:29 --> 00:55:33

and the most elite and powerful amongst you

00:55:33 --> 00:55:34

had the responsibility

00:55:34 --> 00:55:37

of caring for the ones that were most

00:55:37 --> 00:55:38

underserved and underprivileged.

00:55:39 --> 00:55:42

That's what the Meccan society was like and

00:55:42 --> 00:55:44

the stronger clans were the ones that had

00:55:44 --> 00:55:45

more nobility.

00:55:45 --> 00:55:48

The more powerful ones that had like certain

00:55:48 --> 00:55:49

lineage

00:55:49 --> 00:55:51

and the prophet came from a clan

00:55:51 --> 00:55:53

that was called the Quraysh.

00:55:53 --> 00:55:55

And they were given a certain dignity

00:55:55 --> 00:55:57

because amongst other things,

00:55:57 --> 00:55:58

they were the caretakers

00:55:59 --> 00:56:00

of the Kaaba in Mecca.

00:56:02 --> 00:56:04

The black cube, if you've ever seen it,

00:56:04 --> 00:56:06

when people are going for pilgrimage to Mecca.

00:56:07 --> 00:56:08

And Abu Talib

00:56:09 --> 00:56:11

was the prophet's uncle

00:56:12 --> 00:56:14

and because he was alive and he was

00:56:14 --> 00:56:16

an elder with like noble

00:56:16 --> 00:56:17

kind of status,

00:56:19 --> 00:56:21

Nobody could do anything to his nephew.

00:56:23 --> 00:56:25

They could do things to his followers and

00:56:25 --> 00:56:27

to other people, but they couldn't do anything

00:56:27 --> 00:56:29

to him because he had the protection

00:56:29 --> 00:56:30

of his uncle.

00:56:31 --> 00:56:34

And then, his uncle passes away too. And

00:56:34 --> 00:56:36

both of these things happen in the same

00:56:36 --> 00:56:36

year.

00:56:37 --> 00:56:38

There's a genre

00:56:39 --> 00:56:40

of literature

00:56:40 --> 00:56:41

in our tradition

00:56:41 --> 00:56:43

that's called the Sira.

00:56:45 --> 00:56:48

And, this is in reference to the prophetic

00:56:48 --> 00:56:49

biography.

00:56:49 --> 00:56:52

Right? It's like the prophet's life,

00:56:53 --> 00:56:55

You should read, like, some of these books.

00:56:55 --> 00:56:58

There's one by a person named Martin Lings.

00:57:00 --> 00:57:01

That's pretty popular.

00:57:03 --> 00:57:05

And so, in the seerah literature,

00:57:06 --> 00:57:07

this year

00:57:08 --> 00:57:10

that the prophet's wife and his uncle passed

00:57:10 --> 00:57:11

away,

00:57:11 --> 00:57:13

is called, the Amad huzin. The year of

00:57:13 --> 00:57:16

sadness, the year of depression, the year of

00:57:16 --> 00:57:16

grief.

00:57:17 --> 00:57:18

He's like really

00:57:19 --> 00:57:20

in a downstate.

00:57:21 --> 00:57:23

These 2 people he loves so much had

00:57:23 --> 00:57:25

passed away and they passed away in the

00:57:25 --> 00:57:26

same year.

00:57:28 --> 00:57:29

And so, what happens

00:57:29 --> 00:57:31

when this takes place

00:57:31 --> 00:57:33

is after that,

00:57:34 --> 00:57:36

he goes through this difficult experience

00:57:37 --> 00:57:38

of

00:57:39 --> 00:57:39

just

00:57:41 --> 00:57:42

inward angst,

00:57:42 --> 00:57:43

right?

00:57:43 --> 00:57:45

And there's more stuff that we could talk

00:57:45 --> 00:57:46

about in the interest time we won't,

00:57:47 --> 00:57:48

but in the aftermath of that is when

00:57:48 --> 00:57:50

he's taken on this journey

00:57:51 --> 00:57:53

and he's given

00:57:53 --> 00:57:55

this thing of prayer

00:57:56 --> 00:57:59

as a mechanism also for like inward healing.

00:57:59 --> 00:58:00

Do you know what I mean?

00:58:02 --> 00:58:04

You think about the person you love more

00:58:04 --> 00:58:05

than anybody in the world.

00:58:06 --> 00:58:09

Think about who you love like so deeply,

00:58:09 --> 00:58:10

Right?

00:58:10 --> 00:58:12

I love my daughter, Medina, so much.

00:58:13 --> 00:58:15

I didn't know what love was until we

00:58:15 --> 00:58:16

had my daughter.

00:58:18 --> 00:58:19

And some of you heard me say this

00:58:19 --> 00:58:22

before, I literally loved her so much. When

00:58:22 --> 00:58:24

my wife was pregnant with our son, I

00:58:24 --> 00:58:26

said to my wife, I don't think I'm

00:58:26 --> 00:58:27

gonna like him so much.

00:58:28 --> 00:58:30

And she said, what? You can't like

00:58:30 --> 00:58:32

go, don't talk about our child like that.

00:58:32 --> 00:58:34

And I said, I wasn't being facetious, I

00:58:34 --> 00:58:35

just couldn't fathom

00:58:36 --> 00:58:38

how I could love somebody as much as

00:58:38 --> 00:58:39

I loved our baby girl.

00:58:40 --> 00:58:42

And then when Kadeem was born, not only

00:58:42 --> 00:58:44

did the love I have for his sister

00:58:44 --> 00:58:45

not diminish and increased,

00:58:46 --> 00:58:48

I had just as much love for him

00:58:48 --> 00:58:51

and the 2 of them just helped me

00:58:51 --> 00:58:53

fall more in love with their mother every

00:58:53 --> 00:58:53

day.

00:58:56 --> 00:58:58

I can't imagine what it would feel like

00:58:58 --> 00:59:01

to lose any one of them let alone

00:59:01 --> 00:59:02

losing more than one of them

00:59:03 --> 00:59:05

and all within a short time span.

00:59:05 --> 00:59:07

Like what it would do to me?

00:59:08 --> 00:59:09

And that's what happened to the prophet

00:59:11 --> 00:59:13

and then God who's watching over the prophet

00:59:14 --> 00:59:15

could give him anything

00:59:16 --> 00:59:18

When he brings into the heavens

00:59:19 --> 00:59:21

as a mechanism for his healing,

00:59:21 --> 00:59:24

he gives him the 5 daily prayers.

00:59:27 --> 00:59:29

Just like any kind of prescription,

00:59:30 --> 00:59:32

you could turn something into a vice

00:59:33 --> 00:59:35

rather than it being a virtual source of

00:59:35 --> 00:59:37

healing. You get what I mean?

00:59:38 --> 00:59:39

But the intended

00:59:39 --> 00:59:41

purpose of this act

00:59:42 --> 00:59:43

is what it is

00:59:43 --> 00:59:46

and in order for it to yield it,

00:59:46 --> 00:59:47

that's where the establishment

00:59:47 --> 00:59:50

of it has to be something that resonates.

00:59:50 --> 00:59:51

Right?

00:59:51 --> 00:59:53

You have to be the one that as

00:59:53 --> 00:59:55

you explore this religion,

00:59:55 --> 00:59:57

you're a new convert to it, you were

00:59:57 --> 00:59:59

born into it and trying to rebuild a

00:59:59 --> 01:00:02

relationship to it. When you walk past the

01:00:02 --> 01:00:02

tree

01:00:03 --> 01:00:04

on the sidewalk,

01:00:04 --> 01:00:07

that's branches are all tied up with strings

01:00:08 --> 01:00:10

and there's this giant pole that's holding it

01:00:10 --> 01:00:14

up. That's what it's doing. It's helping the

01:00:14 --> 01:00:15

tree to stand.

01:00:15 --> 01:00:16

It's establishing

01:00:16 --> 01:00:16

it.

01:00:17 --> 01:00:19

That's what it means to establish the prayer.

01:00:20 --> 01:00:23

You're helping it to be stood upright. Do

01:00:23 --> 01:00:24

you get what I'm saying?

01:00:25 --> 01:00:27

We're gonna start to use is a text,

01:00:27 --> 01:00:29

it's called ascent to felicity.

01:00:30 --> 01:00:32

It's a hanafiq

01:00:33 --> 01:00:34

like manual.

01:00:34 --> 01:00:37

It's got some aspects of theology in it.

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

If you can't buy the book, which you

01:00:39 --> 01:00:40

don't have to,

01:00:41 --> 01:00:43

you can find excerpts of it online.

01:00:43 --> 01:00:45

If you Google Hanafi Fick books,

01:00:47 --> 01:00:49

you know, it'll come up on like archive.com

01:00:49 --> 01:00:52

and stuff. But try to support, you know,

01:00:52 --> 01:00:53

where you can, if you have the money.

01:00:54 --> 01:00:56

We're gonna be looking at the prayer sections,

01:00:57 --> 01:00:59

as we go through the mechanics of the

01:00:59 --> 01:01:01

prayer. The other thing that we'll do when

01:01:01 --> 01:01:02

we start that next week,

01:01:03 --> 01:01:05

next week we're gonna talk about a concept

01:01:06 --> 01:01:06

also

01:01:07 --> 01:01:08

that is called hushur

01:01:09 --> 01:01:12

that is like focus in the prayer, concentration

01:01:12 --> 01:01:14

in the prayer, how to build that. Right?

01:01:15 --> 01:01:17

And so what I'd like to do is

01:01:17 --> 01:01:18

use half of the class

01:01:18 --> 01:01:21

to go through, like, the outward mechanics, as

01:01:21 --> 01:01:23

well as half of the class to talk

01:01:23 --> 01:01:23

about inwards,

01:01:24 --> 01:01:25

relatively speaking.

01:01:26 --> 01:01:28

And then end, like, around this time, so

01:01:28 --> 01:01:30

that for people who need to find a

01:01:30 --> 01:01:31

place to pray,

01:01:32 --> 01:01:33

the building's gonna close at 8, so we

01:01:33 --> 01:01:36

won't be able to pray our sunset prayer

01:01:36 --> 01:01:38

here. You'll have adequate time to get either

01:01:38 --> 01:01:40

to, like, a nearby mosque, or you could

01:01:40 --> 01:01:43

wash up and pray in park, or in

01:01:43 --> 01:01:44

front of the you know, there's a big

01:01:44 --> 01:01:47

open space in front of our business school

01:01:47 --> 01:01:49

down the street, or, like, a more quiet

01:01:49 --> 01:01:52

park, like, right behind this building. It's called

01:01:52 --> 01:01:55

Suzuki Garden. There's hardly anybody ever there.

01:01:55 --> 01:01:58

It used to be, like, my quiet place,

01:01:58 --> 01:02:00

and then COVID happened, and I didn't have

01:02:00 --> 01:02:02

a place to feed people indoors.

01:02:03 --> 01:02:04

And so I made the mistake of showing

01:02:04 --> 01:02:06

people my secret place,

01:02:06 --> 01:02:08

and now they do of things there.

01:02:09 --> 01:02:10

But you could play there, if you want.

01:02:10 --> 01:02:12

It's a really nice quiet place.

01:02:13 --> 01:02:16

But if you wanna look for this text,

01:02:17 --> 01:02:18

you can just also

01:02:18 --> 01:02:20

Google this with PDF

01:02:21 --> 01:02:22

attached to it.

01:02:23 --> 01:02:25

And then one of the things on archive.com,

01:02:25 --> 01:02:27

it'll show you, like, 8 or 9 different

01:02:27 --> 01:02:30

Hanafi fic books. The second one is Ascent

01:02:30 --> 01:02:30

to Felicity.

01:02:31 --> 01:02:33

That's the one. You can buy it on

01:02:33 --> 01:02:33

amazon.com,

01:02:34 --> 01:02:34

as well.

01:02:35 --> 01:02:36

If you want to buy a copy, but

01:02:36 --> 01:02:38

you don't have the funds, let me know.

01:02:38 --> 01:02:40

We can help to get that, but we'll

01:02:40 --> 01:02:41

start to go through it.

01:02:42 --> 01:02:44

It'd be great if people

01:02:44 --> 01:02:45

who aren't,

01:02:45 --> 01:02:48

are bringing some kind of, like, recording tools,

01:02:49 --> 01:02:49

notebook, paper,

01:02:50 --> 01:02:51

just so it becomes a little bit more

01:02:51 --> 01:02:54

concrete. Right? Statistically, when you write something down,

01:02:54 --> 01:02:57

you're gonna remember it like 60 to 70%

01:02:57 --> 01:02:59

more than if you're just trying to like

01:02:59 --> 01:03:00

absorb information.

01:03:01 --> 01:03:01

You know?

01:03:02 --> 01:03:04

And we're gonna like, do it a little

01:03:04 --> 01:03:05

differently than,

01:03:06 --> 01:03:07

what I was doing in the prayer room,

01:03:07 --> 01:03:09

where we were writing on the whiteboard, but

01:03:09 --> 01:03:11

we'll kind of delineate a little bit more,

01:03:11 --> 01:03:13

because I realized my handwriting is terrible.

01:03:14 --> 01:03:17

And have some PowerPoints that kinda show you

01:03:17 --> 01:03:18

how these things are more categorized,

01:03:20 --> 01:03:21

as well as give, like, some of the

01:03:21 --> 01:03:22

basis

01:03:22 --> 01:03:24

of where does it come from,

01:03:25 --> 01:03:26

you know, so that we're a little bit

01:03:26 --> 01:03:28

more connected to

01:03:28 --> 01:03:29

kinda the particular

01:03:30 --> 01:03:32

postures and movements and kinda indications

01:03:33 --> 01:03:35

in the course of the prayer itself.

01:03:35 --> 01:03:37

Yeah. Great. So we'll see everybody next week.

01:03:37 --> 01:03:38

Thank you so much.

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