Khalid Latif – Living in A Trump State

Khalid Latif
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The host of a radio show discusses the impact of the political situation on their day-to-day life, including supporting individuals experiencing mental and physical struggles and the need for a youth line for Muslims. They also acknowledge the difficulty of portraying certain experiences in a rooted way and express their desire to be present for others. They share their experiences as black college chaplain and their connection to minority groups, and discuss the importance of acknowledging one's actions for one's own safety and bringing their own experiences to the table. They also emphasize the need to be oneself and not just do things, but to be there for oneself.
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Welcome back. We had the wonderful opportunity not

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too long ago to attend Under the Stars

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Naseeha Fundraising Gala to talk to ma'am Khaled

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Latif about his personal experience living in a

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Trump state. How is his day to day

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life being impacted?

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How has this political situation inspired and reenergized

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him to stand up for other social issues

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like Standing Rock? Before I take you to

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our both engaging and emotional interview, let me

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tell you a little bit about Imam Khaled

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Latif. Imam Khaled Latif is a university chaplain

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for New York University,

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executive director of the Islamic

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NYPD.

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Here is our interview with him now during

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his visit to Toronto.

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Welcome to the show, ma'am, Khalid. Thank you

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for having me. So I know you flew

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in here, to support the Nasiyyah Muslim Youth

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Helpline. Why is that something that's important to

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you?

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You know, Nasiyyah is important to me just

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given the work that I do. I end

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up seeing a lot of people who are

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survivors of domestic violence, sexually assault,

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people who are experiencing

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mental wellness issues, emotional wellness, spiritual wellness,

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suicide ideation,

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personality disorders,

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relationship issues, grief issues, anything that you could

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think of,

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makes its way through my doors in some

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capacity.

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And I think

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the idea that

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individuals can have access to a resource

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that allows for them to engage somebody of

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their faith community

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that is trained and is a professional

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and is able to help elevate them through

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some of the realities that they find themselves

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in to get to where they're fully entitled

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to be in terms of moving in their

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life forward. Something that's remarkable. These guys,

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are fielding tens of thousands of calls from

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all over the world,

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from a lot of people in the United

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States where I live.

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I think it's just important to support them

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in what they're doing. And do you think

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it's important for us to have a youth

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line specific for Muslims like Nasihah?

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I do. You know what? The

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way a lot of mental health works is

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not just based off of

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credentials and training, which is a really important

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part. That people are gonna connect to people

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that they have a certain familiarity with,

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for individuals to understand the nuances that exist,

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within the Muslim community in terms of race,

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ethnicity, culture,

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social class, lived experience

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necessitates

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the person across the table

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being as familiar as possible. And

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unfortunately, many people who work in the mental

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health profession that are not Muslim are not

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beyond their own stereotypes.

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You know, they see dress as a symbol

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of religiosity.

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So if someone is wearing or not wearing

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a headscarf,

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someone has a beard, does not have a

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beard, is wearing a kufi, is not wearing

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a kufi.

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Skin color becomes a symbol. And so someone

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who is not South Asian or not Arab,

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but is African American,

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is Latino, is Caucasian,

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is somehow engaged differently in terms of their

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level of religiosity.

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And so to just know that the person

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across the table

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kinda gets what you're going through and not

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having to explain yourself over and over, or

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feel as if it's not working for reasons

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that have nothing to do with counseling,

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but just the fact that the person

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is not so acquainted with your experiences,

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makes a huge difference. Now I know you

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mentioned a little bit about different racial groups,

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and I wanna take the conversation a little

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bit different now. You know, Trump recently got

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elected.

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I guess I know I was shocked. Were

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you expecting that to happen?

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You know, towards the end of the election

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cycle,

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I thought Trump was gonna win. You did?

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And so I I didn't

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feel so shocked. I have to ask, why

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did you think that?

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You know, I think the reality of people

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who are pretty disenfranchised

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with the current establishment,

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also tied to really the deeply embedded racism

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that exists in the United States

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that

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I think what people are more shocked by

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is not

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his being voted in,

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but now they can't deny certain realities around

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systemic and structural racism that exist. I The

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country in and of itself is founded upon

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realities where indigenized populations,

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were killed, pillaged, their land was taken from

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them.

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Slavery in and of itself

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is a reality

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that the country was built upon,

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and the treatment of black people until today

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is something that is undeniably

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inequitous and oppressive,

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not just on an individual level, but on

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an institutionalized level. I think for many people,

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what they're becoming more woke to

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is the idea that

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race

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is something that people experience very differently,

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and they can't pretend any longer that it's

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not a problem.

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What about you in your profession? Do you

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experience some of that systemic racism? Because I

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know you're a police chaplain

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and you're not a Muslim chaplain. You're a

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mainstream chaplain.

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Yeah. So, you know, I work as a

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chaplain for the New York City Police Department.

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I also serve as the university chaplain at

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NYU.

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I share the title there with the rabbi,

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and we have about 60 affiliated chaplains of

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various religious denominations.

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And in both capacities,

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I work with a broader

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community,

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the importance of providing just pastoral care to

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whoever needs it,

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anyone who's looking for that kind of support.

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I think whatever I've experienced in terms of

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policy that infringes upon my rights as a

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Muslim,

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I would say pales in comparison to the

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realities that black people face,

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especially in the United States. You know, I've

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traveled to a lot of countries all over

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the world. The unfortunate reality is that there's

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a lot of racism and there's a lot

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of inequity that exists,

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racial disparity in pretty much any country that

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you could think of. But

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to

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take

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the mode of false equivalency,

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and to equate what it is that I

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would go through or people of my racial

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or ethnic background go through in a way

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that somehow undermines, like, the black experience,

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I think is really problematic.

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What I see in terms of my realities

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is that there are many minority populations that

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are distinct from my own,

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who live realities day to day that experientially,

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I have to be able to relent to

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the idea that I've never gone through what

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they've gone through. So I know recently, and

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it's very interesting to hear a Muslim,

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you know, talk about different racial groups and

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the challenges that they're going through. I know

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off air, we spoke briefly about, the fact

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that you just recently attended Standing Rock. So

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tell me a little bit about that and

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why you chose to go.

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So, you know, I we took about,

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15 students from New York University.

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Myself, we met Sheikh Dawood Yacine from Zaytuna

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College,

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and about a dozen Zaytuna students as well.

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Linda Sarciore, who's a good friend of mine,

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came with us also.

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And I took my wife and my kids

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as well.

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And,

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you know, the importance of it, I think,

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was to not go and do something, but

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just to be there to serve the people

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there. It's really remarkable

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when you walked in, you know, the indigenous

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populations,

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our native brothers and sisters,

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the chieftains of their tribes were telling everybody

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who came into the campsite

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that this is a prayer camp, and we're

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meeting the oppression

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and inequity

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with spirituality and with prayer.

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And I think that was something that we

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didn't expect going in, but created a different

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frame, at least for me personally, to really

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reflect upon my own connection to my faith

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and spirituality

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and

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a connection to tradition.

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I mean, these were people who had a

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long lasting

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embracement of a tradition, and they understood deeply,

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you know, our connection to our tradition.

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And I think to understand where there was

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a spectrum

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of

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behavior in front of us, people who are

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heavily motivated by greed, the acquisition of wealth,

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selfishness,

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who wanted to build this pipeline

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regardless of what it would do to the

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water there, what it would do to the

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land there, how it disrupt just the ecosystem

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there.

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And individuals who are purely there for the

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sake of saying, we have to stand up

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for what's right because it's the right thing

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to do. And I think,

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to me, it just indicated what real balance

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is and how the relationship between rightness and

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wrongness necessitates us not just following up

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our wrong actions with good actions, but understanding

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when someone else interjects

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inequity and oppression into the world, we as

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Muslims should also be countering their wrongness with

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that much more rightness.

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You know, I took my kids there and

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my students there

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so that they could understand

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it doesn't take that much to give up

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to actually go and be with people. And,

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you know, they went, they chopped wood,

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they helped separate donations and clothing,

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but their role is just to serve the

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people that were there.

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My daughter's 3a half. My son is 1.

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He's not gonna know, you know, we took

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him there.

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But when they're older,

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you know, I could tell them that we

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didn't just talk about it. Like, we actually

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took you there. Yeah. I don't know why

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this is making me emotional.

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But I think a lot of the times,

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we fail to recognize

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how it's important for us to live mercy

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and to live hope and live compassion,

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and to not be so distracted by the

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world

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that we think so much about what we'll

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lose,

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but really

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what we're giving up on in terms of

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our hearts when we don't move when we

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have the ability to. Yeah. I think you

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shared a very powerful message about the importance

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of thinking beyond us as Muslims and thinking

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for the broader humanity. Right? Black lives matter,

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indigenous issues. So just wrapping up on that

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note, what advice do you have for

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every human being given the political and social

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climate that we're living in, not just in

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the United States, but I would go as

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far as to say even in Canada.

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Look, I would tell people who are Muslim

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in specific

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that

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you have to just be yourself.

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I mean, if we retreat into the boxes

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that society seeks to put us in, And

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we're gonna see a regurgitated

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reality

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over and over. I'm not God. I can't

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tell you why things happen the way that

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they do. But Muslims are in a place

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where we dealt with the reality and are

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dealing with the reality of individuals who speak

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in the name of our faith that do

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not really embody the teachings of compassion, love,

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and mercy in our faith.

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And it put us in a place where

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we didn't know what to do. How do

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we respond to the realities of ISIS? How

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do we deal with the fact that they're

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killing more Muslims than anybody else? There's not

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gonna be anything worse than this than we

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experience.

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And then sometime later, like, Donald Trump got

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elected. And everybody said, this is the worst

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thing that's ever happened to Muslims. And what

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are we gonna do? And it's gonna ruin

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our world and set us back however many

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decades and centuries.

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God is gonna keep putting challenges in front

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of us until we recognize our ability and

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potential to meet those challenges.

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I'm not gonna live in reaction to somebody

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else's perspectives on who it is I'm supposed

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to be and to embody a set of

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attitudes and principles

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that only make me accepted when I turn

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into something that I'm not. And so to

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be Muslim

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is to just go out and be Muslim.

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And And I would say that to any

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minority population at this point that where you

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have salient frames to your identity,

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embrace yourself and love yourself and go out

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and be the best version of you. And

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when somebody tells you that you need to

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be in a box, let yourself understand that

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if you allow for yourself to be in

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that box, then you're just giving them victory.

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And we need each one of us right

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now

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to move forward at a place that we're

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comfortable with,

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and to just offer people a different reason

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to have hope in this world and never

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a reason to really dread it. Thank you

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for a very hopeful message, Imam Khalid. Really

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appreciate it. Thank you.

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