Khalid Latif – Imam Nawawis 40 Hadith for Modern Times #20

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The speakers emphasize the importance of strong clout in protecting one's batch and the acceptance of Islam. They also discuss the use of "has" in language and the importance of knowing one's values. The focus is on becoming more patient, compassion, and compassion to increase in compassion. Pr420 forbearance and increasing compassion to be forgiving of oneself are also emphasized.

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			So this hadith is narrated
		
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			in a lot of different chains,
		
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			and is classified as being muthawadir
		
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			in
		
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			its kind of just abundance. It comes from
		
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			a lot of different people.
		
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			Abdullah ibn Umar Radhiallahu Anhumaha, he's the son
		
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			of Umar ibn Al Khattab.
		
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			So when we looked at hadith number 3,
		
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			Abu'l ibn Amar was the narrator of that
		
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			hadith also.
		
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			And so not to go into too much
		
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			detail in his biography
		
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			because we already talked about him a lot,
		
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			but he's the eldest son of Umar ibn
		
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			al Khattab.
		
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			And
		
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			why we want to look at the narrators
		
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			of these hadith
		
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			is because we want to also be able
		
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			to, 1, contextualize
		
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			through them. Right? He's the youngest son of
		
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			Omid ibn Al Khattab,
		
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			meaning that he's also a young person.
		
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			And we wanna be able to think out
		
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			how
		
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			he fits into the broader framework of what
		
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			it is that he's narrating.
		
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			Right? Abdullah ibn Umar, for example,
		
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			he's narrated well over 2,000 hadith
		
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			or attributed to him in terms of chains
		
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			of transmission.
		
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			As a young person,
		
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			he is one of the 4 abbullas,
		
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			who
		
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			are just known as having a deep impact
		
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			on the development of Islam.
		
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			A lot of his teachings, a lot of
		
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			his insights
		
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			influenced the development of the Maliki school,
		
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			the school associated
		
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			with the people of Medina.
		
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			And one of the things that's really interesting
		
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			about Abdullah bin Umar, among many things, is
		
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			that he wasn't somebody who was drawn towards
		
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			leadership or authority
		
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			or being in a political role.
		
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			His father, Umar ibn Al Khattab,
		
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			is somebody that the prophet
		
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			says within kind of a normative understanding in
		
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			Sunni Islam,
		
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			that if there was a messenger after me,
		
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			it would be this man, Umar.
		
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			He is one of the people
		
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			that when the prophet is looking for strength
		
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			in his community,
		
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			because in their early years, they're deeply persecuted.
		
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			Right? There's a lot of boycotts, beating, abuse.
		
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			If you come on Wednesday nights when we
		
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			talk about the prophetic biography of the sira,
		
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			we're in this stage of the Sira now
		
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			where they're in this initial phase of revelation,
		
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			but also public propagation for the first time.
		
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			They're being mistreated very heavily.
		
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			And so one of the duas that the
		
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			prophet makes
		
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			is about bringing people
		
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			who have, like, power and clout
		
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			to help leverage that for the sake of
		
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			their community.
		
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			So he makes a dua,
		
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			that, oh, Allah brings some Izzah to Islam.
		
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			And Izzah is different from Kuwa. Right? Kuwa
		
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			is physical strength.
		
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			Is like a strength rooted in dignity that
		
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			if you speak Urdu or Hindi,
		
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			maybe Bangla. I don't know. I don't speak
		
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			Bangla. But you have a word, right, which
		
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			is like respect.
		
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			You know, it's got this sense of dignity
		
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			to it. It's the way a is. Right?
		
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			So he's saying bring that kind of strength,
		
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			by the one of the 2 men who
		
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			is more beloved to you, Amr ibn Hisham
		
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			or Amr ibn Al Khattab,
		
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			meaning, like, make one of them Muslim. Right?
		
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			Bring this izzah to Islam.
		
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			And the dua is accepted
		
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			for umrib al Khattab, right, which you can
		
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			take a lot from this du'a, but one
		
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			of the many things that we're taught is
		
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			that these 2 men who were adversaries,
		
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			like, the du'a is kinda prefaced on the
		
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			one who is more beloved to you, meaning
		
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			that Allah still has a love for Umar
		
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			ibn Al Khattab in the state pre Islam,
		
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			and now his strength
		
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			is leveraged because he's a great
		
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			champion on behalf of the mushrikeen.
		
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			They know that he causes problems
		
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			for the Muslim community.
		
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			And so
		
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			he
		
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			is now being made dua for to leverage
		
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			this. And what's interesting about Umar
		
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			story
		
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			of his acceptance of Islam, he's actually in
		
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			a place where he's on his way to
		
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			kill the messenger of God,
		
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			and
		
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			he gets
		
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			met on the way and deterred towards his
		
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			own house. The companion says, well, maybe you
		
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			should look at your own home.
		
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			And his sister Fatima,
		
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			she's studying the verses of Surat Al Baha
		
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			with Khabab ibn A'rat. Right?
		
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			And to not go into too much detail,
		
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			Umar
		
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			he, like, demands to see
		
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			the pages that she's reading from, that they
		
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			would
		
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			have some of the verse of the Quran
		
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			written at that time,
		
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			as a way for them to study it,
		
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			but not like a bound the way we
		
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			know the mussaf was bound. Because the whole
		
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			thing hadn't been revealed at that time, even
		
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			to begin with. And so she went and
		
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			showed it to him. They have an altercation.
		
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			He, like, pushes her down to the ground,
		
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			strikes her. She gets injured. It's bleeding.
		
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			He, like, gets, like, consciousness. Right? Like, he's
		
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			now not hurting somebody else. He's hurting his
		
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			own, like, people, his own clan. And in
		
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			this tribal society
		
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			that you are protecting your clan, you're not
		
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			the hurting,
		
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			mechanism of your clan, he kinda realizes what
		
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			it is that he has done.
		
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			And they engage with the text,
		
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			and it just resonates differently with him. And
		
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			now he sets forward again,
		
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			and they take him to where the prophet
		
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			is,
		
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			and people are afraid.
		
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			Hamzah
		
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			had accepted Islam before this He's the uncle
		
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			of the prophet And so when Umar
		
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			knocks on the door,
		
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			he still has his sword with him Right?
		
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			And very famously, they say he wears his
		
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			sword on his neck. You know, that's how
		
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			massive of a person he is. That he
		
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			can actually wear it, like, hanging from his
		
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			neck, and it's not cutting into him. You
		
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			know, the way you wear a necklace, like
		
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			he's got this thing hanging from his neck,
		
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			and they don't know. They still know him
		
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			as an adversary. So when he knocks on
		
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			the door, everybody jumps out of the way
		
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			except Hamza. Hamza says, I'll go open the
		
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			door for him. Do you know? And Umar
		
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			he now comes in. He accepts Islam.
		
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			For the first time, they can walk in
		
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			public.
		
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			Hamza
		
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			and Umar
		
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			leading the lines,
		
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			2,
		
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			rows,
		
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			and the prophet's walking in between them. Nobody
		
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			can do anything, but he goes and knocks
		
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			on Abu Jahl's door.
		
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			And Abu Jahl is excited because this is
		
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			his champion. Right? Marhabani Umar. Right? Like, welcome,
		
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			O Umar.
		
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			And,
		
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			Umar
		
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			he says
		
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			that I converted to Islam.
		
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			And he says,
		
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			don't do this.
		
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			And he says,
		
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			it's done. And now they changed drastically the
		
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			situation
		
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			for that early community, and
		
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			Umar is a big part of this. And
		
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			then after Abu Bakr's
		
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			caliphate,
		
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			Umar ibn al Khattab becomes the second khanifa.
		
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			And under his caliphate,
		
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			the community grows substantially. There's a lot of
		
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			prosperity
		
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			and other things,
		
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			and he's got a really unique relationship with
		
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			his son who's narrating this hadith
		
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			that Abdullah bin Umar is on one occasion
		
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			with
		
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			the companions and his father. And the prophet
		
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			asks, you know, what tree is
		
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			the Bedouin most like? What tree is the
		
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			believer most like? And he knows the answer.
		
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			Right? The nakhla tree, the date palm tree,
		
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			but he doesn't answer the question.
		
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			And
		
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			after some time passes, nobody answers. And then
		
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			the prophet says, it's the tree, the date
		
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			palm tree. And he gives descriptions
		
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			as to why, like, this is the case
		
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			and how it produces, like, shade and its
		
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			fruit and all of these things. And that's
		
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			the idea. Like, as a believer,
		
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			supposed to bring benefit to the world, not
		
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			detriment to the world. Right? May Allah make
		
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			his people a benefit.
		
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			And so,
		
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			Abdullah bin Umar says to his father,
		
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			Khattab, I knew the answer, like, later on.
		
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			And Umar
		
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			says, well, why didn't you speak up? And,
		
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			you know, he indicates that he's a young
		
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			person in a crowd of older people, but
		
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			his father says, no. Like, it would have
		
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			been better for you to speak up. They
		
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			have this type of relationship.
		
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			Do you get what I mean? You wanna
		
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			think about that practically
		
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			from your own socialization.
		
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			Now his son is narrating this hadith.
		
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			He doesn't want any type of political role
		
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			as he gets older.
		
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			People ask him to take on these types
		
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			of roles. His father literally is the second
		
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			caliph of Islam. He's of the Ashar Abu
		
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			Bashara.
		
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			Right? He is a senior companion. The prophet
		
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			says of Umar,
		
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			that if there was a messenger after me,
		
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			it would be this man, Omar,
		
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			and his son takes a very different route
		
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			than he does.
		
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			Do you understand what I'm saying?
		
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			So in this tradition,
		
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			this is, like, embedded in pretty much every
		
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			aspect
		
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			of what we understand
		
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			that just because your family goes a certain
		
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			way, doesn't mean you go that way necessarily.
		
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			And you can see it even in, like,
		
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			modes
		
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			that
		
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			are very adversarial or contradictory in a problematic
		
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			way. Like Adam, peace be upon him, in
		
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			an Adamic narrative of creation,
		
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			like the first human created, he's got 2
		
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			sons,
		
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			Habil and Kabil, Cain and Abel.
		
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			And our,
		
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			you know, narratives
		
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			coincide with this idea
		
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			that one of his sons kills the other
		
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			son.
		
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			And they're literally the son
		
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			of Adam, peace be upon him. Right? How
		
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			does it trickle down into this way?
		
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			You know? But you can see that there's
		
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			distinct characteristics
		
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			and variables
		
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			at play immediately
		
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			even within the first family that's ever made.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			Omid ibn Al Khattab does not make Abdullah
		
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			ibn Umar
		
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			become
		
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			like a political leader. He doesn't say this
		
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			is me, so you have to be this.
		
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			He
		
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			says, like, as he did to him when
		
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			he was a child, you know, like, you
		
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			should speak up.
		
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			So it coincides well the encouragement that he
		
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			has for his son in speaking up in
		
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			a gathering of adults,
		
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			let alone the fact that he took his
		
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			child to a gathering of adults in the
		
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			first place, and is now telling him that
		
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			you should feel
		
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			empowered
		
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			to share your voice,
		
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			to share your insights
		
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			without it being understood as a mechanism
		
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			of violating etiquette.
		
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			So
		
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			simultaneously,
		
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			he's teaching him how to be, like,
		
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			in terms of with others. Do you see
		
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			what I mean? That's his upbringing,
		
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			and he chooses
		
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			to not be in a place
		
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			where
		
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			he gives indication
		
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			to wanting,
		
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			like,
		
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			politics in his life. He doesn't wanna be
		
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			about that life. Does that make sense?
		
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			Right?
		
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			Why is that important to understand? Right? Like,
		
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			just because your dad's a doctor doesn't mean
		
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			you have to be a doctor. Or does
		
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			it mean you have to love to be
		
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			a doctor? Do you know what I mean?
		
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			Or when you have kids, if you already
		
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			do or you're blessed to have children, like,
		
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			they don't have to be you.
		
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			You know? Love in our tradition
		
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			is not that you love people
		
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			because
		
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			of how they do what you do necessarily.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Because if you only love people when they're
		
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			like you,
		
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			then you're just loving yourself in them.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Or the parts of them that remind you
		
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			of yourself. And then that's just a weird
		
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			way of being in love with you in
		
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			an unhealthy capacity.
		
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			Right? You wanna love people for who they
		
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			are fully and who they are wholly. Do
		
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			you know what I mean? And so Abdullah
		
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			bin Umar,
		
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			he was not on the same trajectory as
		
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			his father, but he greatly contributed
		
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			to the development of a lot of different
		
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			things,
		
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			including,
		
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			like, the legislative
		
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			aspects of this religion. He influences greatly
		
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			the development of a Medanese school of thought,
		
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			the
		
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			school of Imam Malik, and he's able to
		
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			do that without being a political
		
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			kind of influence. Does that make sense?
		
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			So he now is a young person
		
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			at his conversion to Islam.
		
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			He's the eldest son of Umar ibn Al
		
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			Khattab. You think about this in your own
		
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			structure.
		
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			Right? Familiarly,
		
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			how the first child is very different
		
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			from, like, the younger children. I'm the youngest
		
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			child in my family.
		
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			People
		
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			often
		
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			wonder,
		
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			if, you know, depending on who it is
		
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			that talks to me, they say either that
		
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			makes sense or does not make sense. And
		
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			I don't know if that's like a knock
		
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			on me. Right? But in my family, like,
		
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			it's my brother, my sister, and then me.
		
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			And I would say that,
		
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			what I'm told like a youngest child's exposure
		
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			is to the world, I did not definitely
		
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			have that upbringing growing up.
		
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			But I can see the difference in terms
		
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			of how my parents relate to my older
		
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			brother versus relating to me, wherein working with
		
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			a lot of people, how that fundamentally happens.
		
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			Yeah. Think about that as you're trying to
		
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			think out, like, these companions play a role
		
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			in preserving the hadith,
		
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			but what they speak to and how it
		
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			is that it comes to pass
		
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			that they narrate the specifics of the ones
		
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			that they are. We don't wanna divorce, like,
		
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			Abdullah ibn Umar's upbringing and his socialization
		
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			from also what he contributes
		
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			to Islam. He's not in a vacuum. Does
		
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			that make sense?
		
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			So here now,
		
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			he is narrating this hadith
		
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			that quite often can get misconstrued
		
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			if it's not contextualized.
		
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			And it's really important to understand because we
		
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			have to acknowledge also
		
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			that there are people
		
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			who, within the framework
		
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			of our broader communal experience globally
		
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			and historically,
		
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			they take reductive simplistic understandings of religion,
		
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			and then they don't relate text to context.
		
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			And this is where religion in and of
		
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			itself
		
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			can turn into something
		
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			that can be a quite
		
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			problematic implementation
		
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			if you don't know what you're talking about.
		
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			This is not a text that then validates
		
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			and justifies
		
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			abhorrent behaviors
		
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			that we can't pretend like doesn't exist
		
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			within some elements of our community more broadly.
		
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			I went to the Maldives
		
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			twice,
		
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			probably like
		
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			14, 15 years ago when the country was
		
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			transitioning into a democracy for the first time.
		
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			Has anybody ever been to the Maldives before?
		
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			You've been to the Maldives? Yeah. Isn't it
		
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			beautiful?
		
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			It's amazing. You should go to the Maldives
		
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			if you can because it's this island nation,
		
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			in between the 10 months that I went
		
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			first and second
		
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			time, multiple islands submerged in the water. Right?
		
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			So it's disappearing. One of the things we
		
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			were looking at,
		
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			was also, like, plans they had that potentially
		
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			their country would not exist anymore
		
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			as the water continues to rise. Right?
		
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			It's crazy how all of us are not
		
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			only, like, me is connected to the rest
		
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			of me, but what I do is also
		
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			connected to other people.
		
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			So our unwillingness to understand
		
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			how we contribute to, like, climate change and
		
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			environment,
		
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			This entire, like, nation is made up of
		
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			islands in the water that will disappear,
		
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			you know, God forbid,
		
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			because of elevating,
		
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			like, sea levels that people fundamentally don't think
		
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			about when they're thinking about some of these
		
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			things. There's a lot of stuff. Like, if
		
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			you go visit the Maldives as a tourist,
		
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			it's not the same as, like, what my
		
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			trips were like when I went there.
		
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			About 66%
		
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			of the country is addicted to heroin. They
		
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			have the highest, like, divorce rate in the
		
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			world.
		
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			At that point, there were a lot of
		
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			inward conflicts communally
		
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			because,
		
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			of
		
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			very reductive approaches to religion,
		
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			conflicting now with Maldivian identity and what their
		
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			cultural heritage was. And there were literally people
		
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			that I was meeting
		
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			that,
		
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			were,
		
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			like, from all, like, kind of experiences.
		
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			But relevant to this conversation,
		
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			one of the,
		
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			trips that they took me on or visits
		
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			while I was there,
		
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			the entire country, like, on paper, constitutionally,
		
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			runs off of Shafiq.
		
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			Right? To be a citizen, you have to
		
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			be Muslim. Right? The Maldives is a Muslim,
		
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			like, nation.
		
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			They have these beautiful masjids from, like, 1500.
		
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			You know, it's really a remarkable landscape.
		
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			And
		
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			one of the days we got in a
		
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			boat to go to another island,
		
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			and that's how you got around. And it's
		
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			really majestic, and there's like fish flying
		
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			near you. So So I said, where are
		
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			we going today? And they said, do you
		
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			remember, like, the capital
		
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			city where we're staying, like, their main capital,
		
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			to 12 men who tried to blow it
		
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			up. And I said, yeah. I remember you
		
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			told me about this. And they said, we're
		
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			gonna go visit them today, and you're gonna
		
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			talk to them. I said, oh, thank you.
		
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			And nobody with me was armed or anything.
		
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			We got to the island that had the,
		
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			prison on it.
		
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			And
		
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			we're walking around, some guy's giving me a
		
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			tour. He's telling me about, like, you know,
		
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			how certain things have like burned down and
		
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			he's showing me camera equipment and this and
		
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			that.
		
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			And I was asking him different questions.
		
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			And I said, isn't it easy to just
		
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			kinda break out of here the way this
		
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			is all set up? And he was like,
		
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			yeah. Prisoners have broken out a lot, and
		
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			it's caused, like, problems. I was like, oh.
		
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			I was like, when did you start working
		
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			here? He's like, I don't work here. And
		
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			I was like, you don't work here? And
		
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			he said, no. And I was like, what
		
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			are you doing here? He's like, I'm a
		
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			prisoner. And I said,
		
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			oh, and you're showing me around,
		
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			and you worked on the surveillance systems of
		
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			this place? He's like, yeah. And then they
		
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			took me to meet these guys.
		
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			And it was these 12 guys who were
		
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			Maldivian
		
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			and then there's one poor guy from Nigeria.
		
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			Right? All these 12 guys
		
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			were, like, dressed,
		
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			you know, thobes and whatever else. And then
		
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			there's one black dude wearing, like, black pants
		
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			and a gold shirt. And I was like,
		
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			what are you doing here, man? He was
		
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			like, can you get me out of here?
		
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			He said, I came here and had some
		
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			issue with my visa, and they've had me
		
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			stuck with these guys since then. I was
		
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			like, I'm sorry, man. I don't know.
		
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			And then I'm sitting with them and they're
		
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			all together.
		
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			And I said to these guys that brought
		
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			me around, right, because the security guards at
		
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			this place were not, like, cops the way
		
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			you have, like, this paramilitary,
		
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			like, you know, racist system in New York
		
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			that in dows, like, these law enforcement agencies
		
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			with, like, weaponry and whatever else. The guards
		
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			at this place who actually worked there were
		
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			like NYU security guards. You know, they had
		
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			nothing, not even batons, like maybe light switches.
		
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			I was like, who's gonna protect any of
		
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			us right now?
		
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			But all of these guys were in a
		
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			cell together. They weren't isolated. And I was
		
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			like, hey, man. Don't you think it's probably
		
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			good to not have the guys that were
		
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			planning to blow up something,
		
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			like living and sleeping and eating together? Do
		
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			you know?
		
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			None of it made any sense.
		
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			But I was also in my never met
		
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			someone before who utilized Quran
		
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			as a basis to justify violence.
		
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			I just never met someone like that before.
		
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			And now this person sitting in front of
		
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			me,
		
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			they felt
		
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			as if the text that they held
		
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			that I also
		
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			venerate
		
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			was something that validated
		
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			what they were doing.
		
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			Do you get what I mean? And why
		
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			we need to study Hadith like this,
		
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			similar to all the other Hadith that we
		
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			looked at,
		
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			is not so we can just say what
		
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			it means, but we can also say what
		
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			it does not mean.
		
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			Do you get what I mean?
		
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			And when you have, like, a baseline
		
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			understanding of religion
		
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			that doesn't, in our tradition, require
		
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			a high bar of entry in order to
		
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			engage
		
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			or a high level of literacy, you
		
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			can practice individually,
		
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			but you can also then become susceptible
		
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			to external variables.
		
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			They want you to tell your religion is
		
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			something that it's fundamentally not. Do you know?
		
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			And our religion is in a place where
		
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			the whole idea with hadith like this is
		
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			to create
		
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			understandings on where there are limitations.
		
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			And if you have to engage,
		
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			you engage within the confines
		
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			and parameters of those boundaries
		
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			and not just to whatever
		
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			mode of excess
		
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			that then is contrary
		
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			to the entire purpose of it. Does this
		
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			make sense?
		
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			Right? So this hadith is gonna talk to
		
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			us about very particularly,
		
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			like, guidance that the prophet receives
		
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			in order to now have parameters
		
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			around engagement.
		
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			But it also sets now very clear understandings
		
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			of how you engage with Muslims
		
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			and where and how
		
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			you don't
		
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			have, like,
		
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			justifications
		
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			for separation,
		
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			but how the default is an understanding where
		
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			we have togetherness.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			So one anecdotal example,
		
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			Right?
		
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			I've been ordered to fight. Right? This verb,
		
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			is not just about, like, fighting in the
		
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			physical
		
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			sense. That's one of the interpretations.
		
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			And we don't want to engage in apologetics.
		
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			Right? Our religion is a religion on a
		
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			whole. Why wouldn't it have,
		
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			like, a code of engagement,
		
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			you know, if it is a religion that
		
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			exists on a whole? And we'll look either
		
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			today or tomorrow
		
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			at a narration of Abu Bakr
		
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			where he outlines, like, when you're engaged in
		
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			battle and he says, you don't, like, do
		
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			anything to, like, children and women and the
		
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			elderly,
		
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			to the monks and, like, monasteries
		
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			and houses of worship and all the like,
		
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			he's setting guidelines. You don't, like, you know,
		
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			damage trees and vegetation. We're gonna look at
		
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			that.
		
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			But
		
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			here, like this word,
		
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			not only does it have that sense of,
		
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			like, physical fighting, but it also means, like,
		
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			kinda standing against something in opposition.
		
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			Do you know? So if you were to,
		
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			like,
		
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			fight something principally in the courts,
		
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			Right? You would use a derivation of this
		
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			or this verb as well. Does that make
		
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			sense?
		
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			You know?
		
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			So to demonstrate, like, this idea,
		
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			the prophet
		
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			has a companion by the name of Usama
		
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			bin Zayd Usama bin Zayd,
		
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			he is the son of Zayed bin Haritha
		
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			and Umaimin Baraka.
		
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			These are two companions
		
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			that the prophet loves very deeply.
		
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			Right? Umayman Barakah
		
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			is arguably the only companion of the prophet
		
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			that's with him from the day he's born
		
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			till the day he passes. She's an Abyssinian
		
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			woman who was taken at 16 years of
		
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			age as a servant in the household of
		
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			Abdullah.
		
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			Right? She's a black lady, and she helps
		
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			to raise the prophet of God, one of
		
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			the many women who raises him.
		
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			On Ayman Baraka, when the prophet passes,
		
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			the
		
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			companions of the likes of Abu Bakr and
		
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			Umar, when they missed the prophet, they would
		
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			go talk to Umayman Baraka
		
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			about the prophet. That's how close she was.
		
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			Zayd ibn Haritha
		
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			is so close to the prophet that on
		
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			one occasion, he's known as Zayd ibn Muhammad.
		
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			And when verses are revealed that say you
		
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			can't assume the natal identity of any individual,
		
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			doesn't mean you can't adopt or take in
		
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			orphans or treat people with respect or take
		
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			children in who have needs, but it the
		
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			natal identity. Right? It's problem solving for the
		
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			challenge
		
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			that you could adopt someone just to usurp
		
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			their wealth. You know, like my wife and
		
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			I became foster parents,
		
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			and you could go into the foster system
		
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			and see all kinds of things that are
		
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			difficult.
		
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			But the realities of what brought us in,
		
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			one of the things that catalyzed it was
		
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			in the work that my wife does with
		
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			children who are survivors of abuse. There were
		
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			so many children
		
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			who were taken as foster children
		
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			by people who were terrible people.
		
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			Because they wanted, like, the government stipend and
		
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			the benefits that came from it, and then
		
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			they would treat these kids like garbage. Like,
		
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			lock them up in, like, single rooms,
		
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			like, not feed them well, all kinds of
		
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			terrible things. Right?
		
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			And if you can say, how is that
		
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			possible? Well, you live in a world right
		
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			now, man, where every day, like, there's people
		
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			who are killing children, bombing them without any
		
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			sense of, like,
		
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			remorse whatsoever.
		
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			You know? That ugliness
		
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			exists also on micro levels
		
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			embedded in every system that we see here.
		
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			Do you get what I mean? Does that
		
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			make sense? So Zayd bin Haritha
		
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			goes back to being Zayd bin Haritha
		
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			because you can't suddenly claim
		
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			that somebody that you did not
		
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			father into this world, mother into this world
		
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			is your child, so that you can't take
		
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			their inheritance.
		
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			You can't claim that their belongings are now
		
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			yours. They are always the child of their
		
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			parent.
		
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			Osama bin Zayed is the child of these
		
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			two people.
		
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			There's narrations where the prophet would put him
		
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			on one knee and put his own grandson
		
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			on his other knee and make Dua saying,
		
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			You Allah, love them as I love them.
		
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			Like, he loves Osama bin Zayd. When Osama
		
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			bin Zayed is older, he is now appointed
		
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			to be a general in the Muslim army.
		
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			And in a Medanese
		
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			period of Islam,
		
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			they're in a battle, and as he and
		
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			a man from the Ansar, like a Madinan
		
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			man,
		
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			are fighting with someone,
		
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			before Osama bin Zayed is about to take
		
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			this man's life, he says.
		
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			And Osama bin Zayed has seconds to decide
		
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			what it is that he is going to
		
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			do.
		
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			This man has been killing people, like, they're
		
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			in war. You know? And so he decides
		
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			to take his life. The Menenese man goes
		
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			back to the prophet
		
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			and says, You Rasool Allah, this is what
		
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			happened. The man said, La ilaha illallah, Osama
		
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			took his life. Is this what we're supposed
		
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			to do?
		
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			And the prophet says to Osama bin Zayed,
		
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			did you kill him after he said, and
		
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			Usama bin Zayed
		
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			says, that he was just seeking protection.
		
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			And he says, did you kill him after
		
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			he said, la ilaha illallah? And he said,
		
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			You Rasoolallah, he was just scared to die.
		
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			And he says, oh, Osama, did you open
		
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			up his chest and look into his heart
		
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			to see that this is the reason as
		
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			to why he said this? And then he
		
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			continues to say it to him, you
		
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			know,
		
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			again and again and again
		
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			until Osama bin Zayed says, I wish I
		
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			became Muslim after that day so as to
		
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			not have disappointed the prophet in the way
		
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			that I did. Right?
		
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			But, fundamentally,
		
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			this is what it is.
		
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			In that situation,
		
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			you are literally
		
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			at opposition with one another. Like, imagine in
		
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			any battle that you can take place, this
		
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			man said La ilaha illallah, at that point
		
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			in time, that's it. Like, everything changes. There's
		
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			nothing that comes after
		
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			because
		
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			he didn't live that long. So you think
		
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			the last thing he says is the shahada.
		
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			There's no metric to be able to gauge
		
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			it. Do you get what I mean? Abu
		
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			Hanifa,
		
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			he famously says that I would rather include
		
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			a 1,000 people within Islam
		
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			and be wrong,
		
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			then consider 1 to not be Muslim
		
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			and be wrong on that who actually was.
		
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			Do you get what I mean? Right? They're
		
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			looking for reasons
		
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			to, like, embrace
		
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			and be compassionate
		
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			and be kind to people.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			So this Hadith
		
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			is giving us an understanding
		
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			also on, like, what it means to build
		
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			community,
		
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			how it is that La Illaha illallah
		
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			becomes a connecting variable
		
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			that you now start to have this interaction
		
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			with people more broadly.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			Yeah? Okay. So let's do this. It's more
		
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			people have trickled in from when we started
		
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			and there was 3 people in the room.
		
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			If you can turn to the persons next
		
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			to you,
		
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			and exchange some names.
		
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			What are you taking away so far? What
		
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			is it bringing up for you? Just so
		
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			we can get kinda talking, and then we'll
		
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			jump into the text of the hadith a
		
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			little bit. So go ahead.
		
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			We're gonna go through it again.
		
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			Yeah. Yeah. We'll go through it once we
		
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			start again.
		
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			We're for those who came in sorry. We're
		
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			on hadith number 8 of the 40 hadith
		
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			of Imam Naul. So if you wanna pull
		
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			it up, that's the one we're looking at.
		
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			But, yeah, sorry. Not to interrupt. Go ahead.
		
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			Is it working okay?
		
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			Is it working okay?
		
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			What? The
		
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			noise is from my shirt?
		
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			It's from my shirt?
		
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			Not bad. Oh, like, right now?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So what are some of the things that
		
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			are coming up for people right now?
		
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			Maybe we can get a couple of people
		
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			just so we're talking and thinking about it.
		
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			Or, like, have you how do you relate
		
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			to this hadith? Like, what does it bring
		
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			up for you
		
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			itself?
		
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			What do we
		
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			discuss?
		
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			Anybody?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			No. No. I asked you a question.
		
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			You can't ask me a question.
		
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			How was it? Well, no, man. Answer my
		
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			question first. What did what did you guys
		
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			talk about?
		
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			We just,
		
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			well, first exchange wasn't.
		
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			And we kinda talked about this survival, the
		
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			the whole.
		
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			This is where it's saying what? What?
		
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			Why are you laughing so hard? Solo sent
		
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			you up. Just to be honest Yeah. What
		
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			was your question?
		
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			What was your what did you wanna The
		
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			question has to do specifically I know it
		
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			was, like, a little bit of a canning,
		
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			but,
		
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			I was taking up the last name, but
		
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			Kyle that you adopt. I know that, like,
		
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			the name is invention. I know it sounded
		
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			probably
		
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			Like, like, officially trace a little bit. It
		
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			means, like, a little bit more, like,
		
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			more importance
		
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			in how they did it. But nowadays, with,
		
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			like, if you were to adopt a child
		
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			through a system,
		
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			can you give them your last name or
		
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			you're not giving your last name according to
		
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			the
		
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			it's not like a like the the challenge
		
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			comes in
		
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			and what creates, like, the issue
		
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			of,
		
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			natal identity.
		
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			So it doesn't kind of factor in the
		
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			same way as it did before. So you'll
		
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			hear different people say different things. Like, if
		
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			someone converts, for example, there's some people who
		
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			they change their entire name. Right?
		
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			And
		
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			there's other people who will change their first
		
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			name, but not their last name because their
		
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			last name still attaches to, like, their family
		
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			lineage,
		
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			but they're not taking, like, their father's name.
		
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			Right? And that was kinda what the custom
		
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			was during the time of the prophet.
		
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			So Osama bin Zayed
		
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			is actually Osama bin Zayed bin Haritha.
		
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			You know, like they're going in that way.
		
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			Abdullah ibn Umar is Abdullah ibn Umar ibn
		
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			Al Khattab. Right? So they're taking their father's
		
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			name
		
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			as like just essentially their name is a
		
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			sentence that's their lineage. Do you know what
		
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			I mean? So do you see the difference
		
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			there? Right? So if you were taking,
		
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			like, your dad's last name
		
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			as like a family name, as a clan
		
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			name,
		
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			the way that, you know, the prophet is
		
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			of Quraysh or Banu Hashem
		
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			or like Abu Bakr's Banu Thaym. Right? Like,
		
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			they know their clan, etcetera. Do you do
		
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			you get what I mean? But we're not
		
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			saying you're not your dad's son.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			Is that right? So what these guys were
		
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			doing is saying, like, he's now my son.
		
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			He inherits from me. I like, you know,
		
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			it it creates that conundrum.
		
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			It's like natal identity can't be assumed in
		
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			that way.
		
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			Okay. So I just understood that it's okay
		
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			to give them your last name when it
		
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			comes to the current insurance.
		
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			It may not apply to the same way
		
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			that it is.
		
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			The different rules that come into play.
		
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			Yeah. Yeah.
		
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			So what did anybody talk about in relation
		
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			to this?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			What kind of conversations do you have with
		
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			people?
		
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			That does.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			No. It makes sense.
		
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			There are had punishments in Sharia,
		
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			but the had punishment also necessitates, like, due
		
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			process.
		
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			It's not something that's just kinda implemented in
		
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			those ways. This is talking very particularly. So
		
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			why don't we get into the hadith?
		
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			Right? If we look at it from the
		
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			beginning of it,
		
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			the prophet says,
		
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			I was commanded.
		
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			It's very different from when a companion says,
		
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			we were commanded.
		
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			Right? If you have sayings that get attributed
		
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			to the sahaba
		
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			and they say, we were commanded,
		
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			The assumption is that they were commanded by
		
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			the prophet,
		
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			but the potential lies that someone
		
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			could be saying, we were commanded,
		
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			and it could be from another companion.
		
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			You know? Abdullah ibn Umar could have been
		
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			told by his father, Umar ibn al Khattab.
		
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			That doesn't mean he was told by the
		
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			prophet of God. Do you see? When the
		
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			prophet is saying, umirtu,
		
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			like, who is commanding the prophet?
		
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			What do you think?
		
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			Allah is commanding the Prophet, Right? So the
		
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			particulars of the language
		
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			already give us an understanding.
		
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			Do you know? And you wanna be able
		
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			to understand language in this way. Like, if
		
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			somebody is a teacher,
		
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			then you know they must have students.
		
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			Right? Someone's a father, they must have a
		
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			son. Right? Someone is, you know,
		
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			a son,
		
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			they have to have a mom. Right? Like,
		
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			there's these relationships,
		
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			but language also,
		
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			by default,
		
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			gives logical
		
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			conclusions.
		
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			So if the prophet is saying, I was
		
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			commanded,
		
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			then logically,
		
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			the prophet is commanded
		
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			by
		
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			someone
		
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			who has capacity
		
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			to command the prophet of God.
		
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			It's going to be God.
		
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			Right?
		
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			If you can look up on your phones,
		
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			there's a verse in Surat Al Baqarah
		
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			verse 216.
		
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			If we can pull it up.
		
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			How do people like this setup better where
		
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			there's no table and we're all sitting on
		
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			the ground? Does it work well?
		
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			I'm a very short person, so I don't
		
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			know if it changes the dynamic.
		
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			But I didn't like sitting at the table.
		
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			Does anybody have the verse in front of
		
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			them?
		
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			So the 2
		
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			16, can we read it?
		
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			Yeah. Go ahead. Sure. English is great.
		
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			I need a
		
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			Yeah. Can anybody read the Arabic?
		
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			Good. Yeah.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			We can unpack this verse and look at
		
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			commentaries but just from
		
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			the onset of this verse,
		
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			how does it relate to the idea that
		
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			the prophet is being commanded
		
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			to do this thing. Right? Because the very
		
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			first part of this
		
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			verse,
		
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			It has the same
		
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			word
		
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			here, right?
		
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			What?
		
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			This thing,
		
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			So who is the one that's commanding the
		
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			prophet of God? It's Allah. Here's a verse
		
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			in Surah Baqarah that this comes, and now
		
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			Allah is giving us an understanding
		
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			of how
		
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			this command
		
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			might be
		
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			something that elicits a response
		
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			in the prophet of God.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And then principally, it also gives us something
		
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			that we'll talk about in a bit. But
		
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			the fact that Allah is commanding the prophet
		
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			to something,
		
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			what does the first part of this verse
		
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			say?
		
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			How does the what is the the feeling
		
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			in it? Like, what did you read? Read
		
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			the translation again.
		
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			Fighting has been enjoying on you while this
		
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			week.
		
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			Yeah. While it is hateful for you. Right?
		
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			There's
		
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			in it. The word is
		
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			one of the akham of sharia. Right? It's
		
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			a disliked
		
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			kind of category.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			So you have fard, obligatory,
		
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			mustahab,
		
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			recommended,
		
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			right, Mubah neutral,
		
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			makru
		
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			disliked,
		
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			and haram
		
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			prohibited. You know? So when there's in
		
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			something,
		
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			like, you don't it's disliked.
		
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			So the verse is saying,
		
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			this thing is prescribed for you
		
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			and you
		
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			dislike it.
		
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			You know?
		
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			You don't
		
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			necessarily
		
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			like this thing.
		
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			Do you see?
		
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			So when the prophet is giving this indication
		
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			contextually,
		
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			the companions are learning Islam in real time.
		
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			Revelation is coming down over 23 years period.
		
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			They move from a place where they are
		
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			persecuted
		
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			to now being in a place where they
		
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			are not persecuted.
		
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			The default of the prophet of God is
		
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			to try to always
		
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			strategically
		
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			limit fighting
		
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			unless it's absolutely necessary.
		
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			But if you're in a place now where
		
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			you don't want to do something, you dislike
		
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			it. It's a very human religion.
		
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			And you're now at a place where there's
		
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			a challenge.
		
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			Boycotts are being implemented, people are being abused,
		
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			people are being killed, and then they have
		
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			battles like the Battle of Badr. They have
		
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			battles like the Battle of Uhud. They have
		
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			things where people are actively
		
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			going into battle against people that they know.
		
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			Because the city of Mecca, right, when we
		
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			are looking at this in the Sira Halakha
		
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			on Wednesdays,
		
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			how many people
		
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			live in the city of Mecca at any
		
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			one time? There's not millions of people the
		
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			way there's millions of people in Manhattan,
		
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			but there are, like, tens of thousands of
		
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			people frequenting Mecca. Right? A 100000
		
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			people in Mecca, you know, the original city
		
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			of Medina,
		
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			if you go to Medina now,
		
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			the original city essentially fits into the confines
		
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			of the courtyard. It's not like a big
		
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			place. Do you know what I mean? And
		
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			then you think about this not in terms
		
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			of, like, everybody that's represented
		
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			in our collective age demographic,
		
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			assuming, like, I'm one of the older people
		
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			in the room, and the younger people in
		
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			the room might be in their teens. Right?
		
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			But we still generationally
		
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			have a connection.
		
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			But if we're saying a 100000 people, that's
		
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			also including, like, children, women, the elderly.
		
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			So everybody is not just,
		
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			like, of one age demographic.
		
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			They're all not, like, you know, 20 to
		
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			40
		
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			and everything in between.
		
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			So when you have people that are of
		
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			a common background than your own, you probably,
		
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			like, know them or know of them. So
		
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			a good chance if somebody is an able-bodied
		
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			individual
		
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			that's in the battlefield,
		
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			like, you might have had some kind of
		
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			interaction with them or somebody that they knew.
		
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			That could have even been somebody that was
		
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			part of your clan or your family because
		
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			it's upending an entire societal system
		
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			that was about clans protecting clans.
		
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			Right? The prophet's companions came from every race
		
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			and every class and every, like, clan and
		
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			tribe in that Mecca in Arabia as well
		
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			as from people coming from outside of Mecca.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			So here now, when you have this recognition,
		
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			it's
		
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			this is coming from the divine.
		
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			And this is something
		
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			that we are only taking them on
		
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			in this scenario and in this context.
		
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			It's not
		
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			a proactive
		
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			kind of engagement
		
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			that we're going out
		
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			and just fighting for the sake of fighting.
		
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			But now somebody is coming at us, and
		
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			we have to go into a place of
		
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			defense.
		
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			One, they need to command from Allah. They
		
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			don't just get up and say, we're gonna
		
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			arbitrarily
		
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			start
		
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			fighting and engaging in this. And then 2,
		
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			the limitations
		
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			on it have to come into play. It's
		
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			not just happening
		
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			in the ways that
		
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			one might assume my feelings dictate and define
		
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			certain things.
		
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			And the verse is really important to understand
		
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			because
		
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			embedded in it is fundamentally
		
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			what this religion is rooted in,
		
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			that Allah knows best even if I don't
		
00:47:20 --> 00:47:21
			understand it.
		
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			It doesn't exert itself off of a prism
		
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			of rational or irrational
		
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			frames
		
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			that are subjective
		
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			to my
		
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			understanding.
		
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			Rational or irrational to me, it makes sense
		
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			or does not make sense to me, but
		
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			it interjects a third frame that is super
		
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			irrational.
		
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			I don't have to understand it in order
		
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			for it to be true.
		
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			A God centric religion
		
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			assumes that there's certain things God will ask
		
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			you to do that you love to do,
		
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			certain things God asks you to do that
		
00:47:53 --> 00:47:56
			you'll struggle with, and certain things God asks
		
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			you to do
		
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			that you just don't fundamentally
		
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			understand.
		
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			And the rest of the verse is now
		
00:48:02 --> 00:48:05
			giving us this principle.
		
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			What's the rest of the verse in translation?
		
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			Perhaps you're gonna think, and it is good
		
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			for you. Perhaps you love the thing, and
		
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			it is bad for you.
		
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			So the spirit of the practice
		
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			is not what defines the actual
		
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			kinda
		
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			worth of the practice.
		
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			We can sit here and talk about, like,
		
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			the merits of why we shorten prayer when
		
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			we travel.
		
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			We can sit here and conjecture on why
		
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			we don't eat pork
		
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			or why it makes sense that alcohol is
		
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			prohibited.
		
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			Right?
		
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			But, fundamentally,
		
00:48:45 --> 00:48:46
			at the end of the day,
		
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			it's not because it makes sense to you
		
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			or me that we don't eat pork.
		
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			We don't eat pork because god said
		
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			we don't eat pork. That's what it is.
		
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			Right? You might struggle with it. It's not
		
00:49:00 --> 00:49:02
			that you become the Sharia police and start
		
00:49:02 --> 00:49:05
			saying, god said we don't eat pork. You're
		
00:49:05 --> 00:49:07
			gonna knock out, like, the ham out of
		
00:49:07 --> 00:49:09
			everyone's hands. Right? No. That's not what we're
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:11
			saying. But we're saying,
		
00:49:11 --> 00:49:13
			it doesn't need for you
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:14
			to understand
		
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			why we don't eat it in order for
		
00:49:17 --> 00:49:19
			it to make sense.
		
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			Because the wisdom of it
		
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			is rooted in the source of wisdom.
		
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			And knowing who Allah is
		
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			then has a role
		
00:49:31 --> 00:49:31
			in understanding,
		
00:49:32 --> 00:49:34
			like, the command
		
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			and its implementation
		
00:49:36 --> 00:49:39
			from the command giver, not the command doer.
		
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			So when the prophet is saying this to
		
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			his companions,
		
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			they know
		
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			implicitly
		
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			and explicitly
		
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			what he's telling us he has been taught
		
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			from Allah
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			And then there's this is just what it
		
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			is.
		
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			Do you know?
		
00:49:59 --> 00:50:01
			And you get to a place where the
		
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			contextualization
		
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			is important
		
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			Do you know what I mean? The Prophet
		
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			was really intelligent
		
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			When they come into the conquest of Mecca,
		
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			it's not that at the conquest of Mecca
		
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			where there's no bloodshed.
		
00:50:16 --> 00:50:18
			Right? They come back
		
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			20 years
		
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			after this thing started.
		
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			And in the 1st 13 years, they're being
		
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			beaten and abused and all of this other
		
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			stuff. 2 decades have passed. They built up
		
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			clout,
		
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			but it's not that the Meccans are in
		
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			a place where they don't think that they're
		
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			gonna, like, be ready to fight. Do you
		
00:50:38 --> 00:50:39
			get what I mean?
		
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			One of the things that the prophet does
		
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			as he approaches Mecca
		
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			is he tells people to make fires,
		
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			you know, in the night.
		
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			They're in the desert. It's cold. If you've
		
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			ever been to, like, a desert area
		
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			in the evenings, it's not, like, necessarily hot
		
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			at nighttime. It can get a little bit
		
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			colder.
		
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			And if they would conventionally
		
00:51:01 --> 00:51:02
			make fires
		
00:51:02 --> 00:51:05
			in these settings, they've set up camp,
		
00:51:05 --> 00:51:08
			how many fires do you need to warm,
		
00:51:08 --> 00:51:09
			like,
		
00:51:09 --> 00:51:10
			a group of people?
		
00:51:11 --> 00:51:13
			Like, how many have you ever been to
		
00:51:13 --> 00:51:14
			a fire, like,
		
00:51:14 --> 00:51:17
			you've roasted marshmallows on a fire? Does everybody
		
00:51:17 --> 00:51:18
			get their own fire?
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:21
			No. How many people can fit around a
		
00:51:21 --> 00:51:23
			fire when you're roasting marshmallows?
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:30
			Ten people. Great. And typically, what would happen
		
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			is that they would make one fire
		
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			for 10 people.
		
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			The prophet told the people when they came,
		
00:51:37 --> 00:51:39
			every person make your own fire.
		
00:51:41 --> 00:51:43
			And so what it gave was
		
00:51:44 --> 00:51:45
			the illusion
		
00:51:45 --> 00:51:47
			to the people in Mecca that they just
		
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			came with, like, 10 times as many people
		
00:51:49 --> 00:51:51
			as they actually came.
		
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			Why do you think he does this?
		
00:51:58 --> 00:51:59
			They're trying to avoid
		
00:52:00 --> 00:52:00
			fighting.
		
00:52:02 --> 00:52:03
			Do you understand?
		
00:52:05 --> 00:52:06
			If they get in
		
00:52:07 --> 00:52:08
			with an understanding
		
00:52:09 --> 00:52:11
			that this is a force that we cannot
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:12
			take on,
		
00:52:13 --> 00:52:15
			then there's no fighting.
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:18
			It's not even worth it for us to
		
00:52:18 --> 00:52:18
			try.
		
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			Because think, right? Badr
		
00:52:21 --> 00:52:22
			happens,
		
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			and how many Muslims are there at Badr?
		
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			How many people are in the opposition?
		
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			And they still fight.
		
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			We have the numbers, we talk about these
		
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			things. There's substantially
		
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			less
		
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			in one
		
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			arena and substantially more. Right? But they still
		
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			they didn't say let's run away. They got
		
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			up. The prophet makes all night.
		
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			Like, all of us who believe in this
		
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			thing are right here. If we, like, all
		
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			die, this is gonna stop. There's not that
		
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			many of them.
		
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			So
		
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			this culture,
		
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			societally,
		
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			is ready to, like, stand on its feet
		
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			in this way,
		
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			and the prophet gets them to understand
		
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			that there's a lot more of them than
		
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			they actually are.
		
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			They go in, everybody's forgiven.
		
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			He says, keep people in their homes. Like,
		
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			don't do anything to anybody,
		
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			even the ones who are the most adversarial.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You have a man by the name of
		
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			Ikramah,
		
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			who's the son of Abu Jahal.
		
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			Ikramah
		
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			is not Muslim at this time at Fattal
		
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			Makkah,
		
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			and the prophet says every house is forgiven,
		
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			Ikrimah doesn't believe a word of it.
		
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			Ikrimah,
		
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			not only is he the son of Abu
		
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			Jahl,
		
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			who made his life about
		
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			like hurting Islam,
		
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			Ikramah,
		
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			in the Battle of Uhud,
		
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			he led one of the flanks,
		
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			while Khadib bin Walid, who was not Muslim,
		
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			led the other flank
		
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			that came upon and shifted the tide of
		
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			battle.
		
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			Right? And they killed a lot of senior
		
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			companions in this battle.
		
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			Ikoma runs
		
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			away.
		
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			And when the prophet finds out he runs,
		
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			he tells people, go tell him to come
		
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			back
		
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			and he'll be forgiven. And Ikrimah doesn't understand.
		
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			He's like, I don't think this is what
		
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			he said. And they said, no. He did.
		
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			And then he comes back
		
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			to
		
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			Mecca
		
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			and engages a prophet,
		
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			takes his shahada,
		
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			and the prophet tells his companions,
		
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			don't
		
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			ever
		
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			disparage his father,
		
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			Abu Jahl.
		
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			Do you understand what I'm saying?
		
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			If you don't read this Hadith in the
		
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			context of Quran
		
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			and, like, Hadith more broadly,
		
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			then you see where people have a reductive
		
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			methodology
		
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			that then violates fundamental principles
		
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			of what this religion is. This is why
		
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			I tell you guys when you come on
		
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			Wednesdays and we read the Sira,
		
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			the Sira makes all of this concrete.
		
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			Like you see how the prophet lived the
		
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			Quran.
		
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			Do you get what I mean?
		
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			So here, he's saying, Umertu,
		
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			I was commanded by Allah And then in
		
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			the Quran, the verse that we read, Allah
		
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			is saying
		
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			that this is something that is written for
		
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			you.
		
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			It's got the same Arabic
		
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			as, like, when we have the verse for
		
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			fasting.
		
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			Right? Fasting has been written for you. So
		
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			when you have this construct in the Quran,
		
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			right, this is one of the things that
		
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			denotes a mandate or an obligation.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Fasting has been written for you.
		
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			That this has been something that's prescribed for
		
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			you. Right? And then Allah says,
		
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			though you dislike it.
		
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			Do you know what I mean?
		
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			What I like for us to think about
		
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			now is the latter part of this, like,
		
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			verse
		
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			where Allah says
		
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			that you may dislike something although there is
		
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			good in it for you
		
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			and you may like something
		
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			although
		
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			there is not good in it for you.
		
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			Allah knows and you do not know.
		
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			Because not as a tangent, but to be
		
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			able to apply it to the practical of
		
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			this hadith,
		
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			but to also then think about it in
		
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			terms of where we are day to day
		
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			in our existence,
		
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			our understanding
		
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			of how we implement religion
		
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			is not rooted in feelings that become devoid
		
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			of moments of rest,
		
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			then logically we try to ascertain meaning that's
		
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			rooted in this thing.
		
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			Just because you like it or dislike it
		
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			doesn't make that the basis of its implementation.
		
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			Right? You might like something and it's not
		
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			good for you.
		
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			You might dislike something and it's good for
		
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			you.
		
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			How you get to a place where the
		
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			feeling doesn't exert the decision making
		
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			necessitates fun understanding
		
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			what this verse means
		
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			in its latter part,
		
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			coming back to me.
		
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			Taddabur,
		
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			reflection on the Quran,
		
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			is not in a vacuum, but taddabur,
		
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			reflecting on the Quran
		
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			is through the perspective
		
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			of
		
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			what is the verse speaking to me?
		
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			How does this mean to me? So this
		
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			latter part of this verse,
		
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			you might like something,
		
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			but there's not good in it for you.
		
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			You might dislike something, but there's good in
		
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			it for you. Right?
		
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			Allah knows and you do not know.
		
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			How is this relevant
		
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			to us individually?
		
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			What do we take from it?
		
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			So question makes sense? So what I'd like
		
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			for you to do is turn to the
		
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			person next to you, and just think about
		
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			this latter part of this verse of Quran,
		
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			the 216th
		
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			verse of the second chapter, Surah Baqarah.
		
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			You may dislike something and there's good in
		
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			it for you. Right? You may like something
		
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			and it's not good for you. Allah knows
		
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			and you don't know.
		
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			How does this bear relevance
		
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			to our engagement
		
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			with our faith and our decision making? If
		
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			you can turn to the person next to
		
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			you, talk it out a bit, and then
		
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			we'll come back and discuss. But go ahead.
		
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			Hey, Zach.
		
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			Yeah. What's up? Yeah. So I just okay.
		
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			This is all on the camera, by the
		
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			way.
		
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			Yeah. Yeah. So,
		
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			if I was a Muslim, right, and I
		
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			was trying to simplify and and I can
		
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			dominate this exciting
		
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			huge concept, this old edition,
		
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			and there's so much that's happening with it.
		
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			The first thing I would try to do
		
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			is to try
		
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			to simplify it. Right? So, like, things from
		
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			that point of view,
		
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			I heard 2 things from
		
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			earlier
		
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			when I'm my where my first came in
		
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			was the importance of contextualizing
		
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			and relating it to me.
		
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			And then
		
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			when we're going through this this IHG system,
		
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			I'm hearing
		
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			it's not really about
		
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			what I think. It's about what's set.
		
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			I'm I'm I'm feeling like a smooth sweep.
		
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			I feel like this
		
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			to to put, like, yes. And I know
		
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			it's not. I know it's
		
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			late. I know, like, one come
		
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			can can you just, like,
		
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			prioritize that? Just like So because faith precedes
		
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			practice. Right? So if you know what Allah
		
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			is,
		
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			that's where you get a route here to
		
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			be able to determine, like,
		
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			how do I,
		
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			like, relate to, like, things God asked me
		
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			to do. I might struggle with them. Do
		
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			you know? But I fundamentally
		
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			still know that Allah is the one that
		
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			knows what's best.
		
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			Do you get what I mean?
		
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			So if someone's a new Muslim, for example,
		
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			you know, they're struggling with, like, waking up
		
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			to bring fajr in the morning. Do you
		
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			know? Or it's hard. Right? But they're in
		
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			a place where even, like, their sleep is
		
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			messed up, and they're like, I you know?
		
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			But they know, like, because Allah is saying
		
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			to do this, there's in
		
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			it. Do you get what I mean? That's
		
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			what it comes down to. Right? Like, Allah
		
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			is the determiner
		
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			of,
		
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			like, all of these things, not not me.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			Does that make sense? Yeah. And
		
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			I have to be content with the idea
		
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			that my comprehension
		
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			is not an ingredient
		
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			to its goodness being validated.
		
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			Do you know? Yeah. Like, it doesn't need
		
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			me to comprehend it or to be its
		
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			validator. Right. It's like what it is because
		
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			Allah said that that's what it is. Do
		
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			you know? Yes. So by taking that right
		
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			let's say I was somebody who's just I'm
		
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			not very, like, averse to violence in every
		
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			way. I'm coming at this time, and I
		
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			come across this high that talks about, you
		
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			know,
		
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			striking down where we might might and then
		
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			and then I think when you say, I'm
		
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			like, okay.
		
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			I can't understand. Well, the contextualization
		
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			part is where you were wrong. The contextualization
		
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			part is not contextualizing
		
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			back to you. Right? Contextualization
		
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			is contextualizing in the text.
		
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			Right? Like, what was when was the verse
		
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			revealed and what context? When was the hadith
		
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			revealed, like, or said, like, in what space?
		
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			Do you know what I mean? It's not
		
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			just, like, what does it mean to me
		
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			in my context? It's, like, what was happening
		
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			when this happened? Do you know? So they
		
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			weren't sitting celebrating Eve. Right? And so that's
		
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			where the context of that verse gets taken
		
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			out because it's just read very
		
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			simplistically.
		
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			Right? I'll go back and explain it to
		
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			people again.
		
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			Oh, it's just the That makes sense? Yeah.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Let's come back. So
		
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			I wanna clarify one thing really quickly. Right?
		
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			Like, our tradition,
		
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			when you do tafsir
		
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			of a text, that's kind of commentary on
		
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			Quran, it's an exegetical
		
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			analysis.
		
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			Right? You're drawing meaning from the text,
		
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			exegetical. Right? It's got x in it like
		
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			exit or extra.
		
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			You know, you're taking out of. What a
		
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			lot of people do today is more isegetical.
		
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			They formulate an argument, and then they pick
		
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			verses and hadith to prove the argument. You
		
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			could turn a book into anything
		
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			that you want to. Right? And that's like
		
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			any book. You can turn it into whatever.
		
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			If there's no contextualization,
		
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			you just cherry pick things. This is what
		
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			people do today. Look at, like, how
		
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			there is media that splices
		
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			people's comments
		
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			into sound bites
		
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			that are, like, 6, 7 seconds long. It's
		
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			like this person said this,
		
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			and it just takes out, like, a sentence
		
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			and a paragraph or whatever else.
		
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			That's where a reductive approach to Islam is
		
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			problematic,
		
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			and it lends itself towards the behaviors
		
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			that those men that I told you that
		
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			I met in the Maldives,
		
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			they take a verse and they say, This
		
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			justifies
		
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			our violence against people. Right? But they're not
		
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			contextualizing
		
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			the verse. There's a relationship between text and
		
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			context.
		
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			Do you know what I mean? And this
		
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			becomes the limits on a methodology
		
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			that says this is what it is, and
		
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			that's just what it must mean. I only
		
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			take it without any contextualization.
		
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			Do you know? And hadith like this, when
		
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			you don't contextualize them, they then become the
		
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			grounds
		
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			for a lot of things that we see
		
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			people have done
		
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			that go outside of what our religion allows
		
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			for. Does that make
		
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			sense?
		
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			Yeah?
		
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			Okay, what do we talk about in the
		
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			latter part of this verse? Right? You might
		
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			dislike something and there's good in it for
		
01:07:07 --> 01:07:10
			you. Right? You might like something and it's
		
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			not good for you. Allah knows and you
		
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			do not know.
		
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			How is this like, relevant? Why is this
		
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			an important thing for us to build a
		
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			relationship with? Like this verse of Surah Baqarah,
		
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			what do you take from it? What does
		
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			it evoke? What do you discuss?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Yeah. It's an amazing example. Right? Exercise.
		
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			I go to the gym in the morning
		
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			and my wife one day, she said to
		
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			me,
		
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			like, do you like going to the gym?
		
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			And I said, yeah, I do. And then
		
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			after I came back up from the gym,
		
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			I said, I don't know why I said
		
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			that to you. I don't like going to
		
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			the gym. Right? But my intentionality is rooted
		
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			in wellness. At this stage in my life,
		
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			it's not an intentionality
		
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			of vanity,
		
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			but I know my head is a lot
		
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			clearer and my body feels a lot better
		
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			when I am exerting
		
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			exercise.
		
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			But it's not because I typically enjoy
		
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			the experience of exercising.
		
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			You might dislike something, and there's good in
		
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			it for you.
		
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			Draw that parallel
		
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			and analogize it to things that are attached
		
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			to, like, anything.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			And if you get up and go right
		
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			back to bed, right,
		
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			like, what are you liking that there's not
		
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			good in it for you? Do you know?
		
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			The emotions are not gonna define
		
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			the goodness. Just because you feel something,
		
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			that always isn't necessarily the indicator
		
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			of whether it's good or bad.
		
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			You can love something and it's terrible for
		
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			you.
		
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			And you can dislike something and it's the
		
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			best thing for you.
		
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			How do I start to reconcile
		
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			and bring logic to emotion?
		
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			It can't be as you're experiencing the emotion.
		
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			Right? Like, if you've ever sat with me
		
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			in my office, and we're talking about things
		
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			where, like, most people that come and stay
		
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			with me, they have no self care and
		
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			emotions run them empty to a point where
		
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			at their wits end, they're making decisions. And
		
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			I'll say, you can't say to someone when
		
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			they're drowning, how does it feel to drown?
		
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			How will the person drowning be able to
		
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			tell you what it's like to drown while
		
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			they're drowning?
		
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			Right?
		
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			And even if they got out of the
		
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			water, 10 seconds later, they're not gonna be
		
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			able to articulate,
		
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			like, how does it feel to drown? They'll
		
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			need some time to process.
		
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			You make knee jerk reactions
		
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			in response to it,
		
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			then this verse
		
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			quite often manifests.
		
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			You're engaging in the pursuit of something that's
		
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			not good for you, and you like it,
		
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			and that in and of itself is what
		
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			defines it. I feel like something. Do you
		
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			know what I mean? I can sit here
		
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			and like
		
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			eat, you know, a crazy amount of food
		
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			that makes me feel great. Why don't I
		
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			just eat, like, candy all the time?
		
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			Do you know? I'm 41 years old. Can
		
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			you imagine what it would be like? I
		
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			used to sometimes, man, when I was younger,
		
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			like, have milkshakes for breakfast.
		
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			You know? I loved it. It was great.
		
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			And when I was, like, younger, even younger,
		
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			I was trained to be an athlete, I
		
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			had my own trainer, I was working out
		
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			3 times a day. There was sometimes for
		
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			breakfast,
		
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			I would eat half a dozen donuts.
		
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			Do you know? But it didn't do anything
		
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			because I was burning it off in these,
		
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			like, workouts. I don't work out like that
		
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			anymore. Clearly, like, I don't work out like
		
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			this anymore.
		
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			Could I still eat the donuts
		
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			for breakfast every day?
		
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			Yeah. But I would probably die next year
		
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			then.
		
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			Right? Do you
		
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			know? My enjoyment of it doesn't become the
		
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			basis of its goodness.
		
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			Do you get what I mean?
		
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			You might enjoy whatever it is that keeps
		
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			you from praying your prayer.
		
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			That doesn't mean that it's good for you.
		
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			The fact that you liked it.
		
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			You might enjoy joking around with your friends
		
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			at the expense of others.
		
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			Just because you laugh doesn't mean that that
		
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			was good for you.
		
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			People might feel good about being racist.
		
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			They're gonna be in for a rude awakening,
		
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			man. That law will make it easy for
		
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			all of us.
		
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			Just because it feels a certain way,
		
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			doesn't mean that that's what
		
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			qualitatively
		
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			identifies
		
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			as goodness.
		
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			So you dislike it,
		
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			doesn't mean that there's not good in it
		
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			for you.
		
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			Just because you like it, that doesn't make
		
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			it what makes it good for you. Do
		
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			Do you get what I mean? In tawfiq,
		
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			success in our religion
		
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			is when what you want aligns with what
		
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			Allah wants.
		
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			Not with just what you want and what
		
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			you want, or what you want and the
		
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			dunya wants, or what you want and your
		
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			culture wants. Right? It's when what you want
		
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			and what Allah wants, those things align. And
		
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			the verse is telling the prophet
		
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			that this is something that you gotta do
		
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			even if you don't like it.
		
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			And you might dislike something, but there's still
		
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			good in it.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			What else do we take away from this
		
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			verse? Maybe like 1 or 2 people before
		
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			we wrap up. Yeah.
		
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			I think for me, this first comes from
		
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			handy when, like, calamity strikes going through something
		
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			or, like, hardship shows up. I think it's,
		
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			like, it's a it's an opportunity to look
		
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			for good in in a passage or anything.
		
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			But pretty helpful in those.
		
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			Amazing. Right?
		
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			A part of spiritual
		
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			exercise the companions engaged in
		
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			was the waiting for the ease.
		
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			So when you have the verse
		
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			then indeed
		
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			with difficulty,
		
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			there comes ease.
		
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			With difficulty, there comes ease.
		
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			A practice that they had, when difficulty came,
		
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			they anticipated
		
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			the ease.
		
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			They were waiting for the ease, not like
		
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			I'm gonna sit and wait for it, but
		
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			they knew that Allah's promise is true. So
		
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			with difficulty, there comes ease. The difficulty ensues,
		
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			let me look for, like, the benefit,
		
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			the khair that comes into it. Do you
		
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			see what I mean? Right? So the affair
		
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			of the believer is ajeeb, the hadith says.
		
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			Right? It's wondrous. It's strange
		
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			that when something good happens, they praise the
		
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			divine, and there's good in that. And when
		
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			misfortune befalls them,
		
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			they patiently persevere, and there's good in that.
		
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			These are not metrics of assessment
		
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			to render self deprecation.
		
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			They're aspirational
		
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			tools.
		
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			But what this verse is saying also, just
		
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			in the interest of time, in addition to
		
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			the 2 things, 3 things we've talked about,
		
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			is that you can't make sense of emotions
		
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			as you experience them.
		
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			So they're valid, but you give yourself the
		
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			space. So it's also talking about, like processes
		
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			of building self care. How do you get
		
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			back to homeostasis
		
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			so that you can comprehend with the best
		
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			of yourself and not in the immediate? Right?
		
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			If I got a phone call right now
		
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			from my mother
		
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			saying that, God forbid, my father went to
		
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			the hospital,
		
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			and it put me in an emotional state,
		
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			and I said to all of you, maybe
		
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			I should quit my job, maybe I should
		
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			go move to where my parents live, some
		
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			of you would probably say, maybe right now
		
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			is not the time to make a decision.
		
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			But how many decisions do you make in
		
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			response to the feelings?
		
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			How can you look for the good and
		
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			the difficulty
		
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			without presence and consciousness and wakefulness?
		
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			That can't happen immediately
		
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			always,
		
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			but to practice forbearance
		
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			as a tool for increasing in forbearance.
		
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			So the vehicle
		
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			to increase in the virtue quite often is
		
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			the virtue itself. So you wanna be more
		
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			patient. The way to be more patient is
		
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			by being patient.
		
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			Right? You wanna increase in compassion.
		
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			The vehicle for being compassionate is compassion, and
		
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			it applies also back to the self. If
		
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			you wanna be kinder to yourself, then you
		
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			gotta be kind to yourself.
		
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			If You wanna be forgiving of yourself, then
		
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			you have to be forgiving of yourself.
		
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			And you take it incrementally.
		
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			And vices work the same way. If you're
		
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			a jerk to someone,
		
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			then increasing in your jerkiness
		
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			comes by being a jerk more often. You
		
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			practice the vice more, you're gonna get better
		
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			at it, and it's gonna become more habituated.
		
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			Do you get what I mean?
		
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			So you might like gossiping about people. There's
		
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			no good in it.
		
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			Just because you like it and it felt
		
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			nice, it built trust between you and your
		
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			friend. Let me tell you something that you
		
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			can't tell anybody else, I feel a bond
		
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			with you now because you're sharing with me
		
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			something that no one else knows. Right?
		
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			It doesn't change the fact that it's a
		
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			terrible thing,
		
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			and you're killing your own heart.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			The Prophet has
		
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			a companion
		
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			whose name is, Abu Damdam
		
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			And
		
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			when Abu Dhamdham would find out that people
		
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			gossiped about him,
		
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			right, like in our tradition,
		
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			if you gossip about someone,
		
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			you get sins on your record, and your
		
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			good deeds get transferred into their account
		
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			as, like, expiation.
		
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			Like, that's just what it is. Right?
		
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			Because he had a control over himself emotionally,
		
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			and he would people the prophet would tell
		
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			people, be like this man.
		
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			Somebody spoke poorly about him.
		
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			He would say, like,
		
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			your deeds are given back to you as
		
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			a.
		
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			You know? And this is a upon you.
		
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			Like, I don't need I don't want your
		
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			deeds. You can just take them back. I'm
		
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			giving them back to you. Even though you
		
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			gossiped about me, like, they're coming back to
		
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			you. Do you get what I mean? Does
		
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			that make sense? He knows what's pleasing to
		
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			God.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			Is that do you get what I mean?
		
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			I'm not the arbitrator
		
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			of morality,
		
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			Allah is.
		
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			This is not a religion rooted in moral
		
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			relativism.
		
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			You can struggle with certain things. That's a
		
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			part of it.
		
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			Right? There's not any one of us in
		
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			this room that if we had a conversation
		
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			together, that it wouldn't be 2 sinners speaking
		
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			to each other.
		
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			Each one of us would fit into that.
		
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			Do you get what I mean?
		
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			And it can apply back in that frame
		
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			as well. You might dislike something, but there's
		
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			still good in it. You might not like
		
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			yourself, but there's still good in you.
		
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			You have to be able to see yourself
		
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			the way Allah sees you. Do you get
		
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			what I mean? Does that make sense?
		
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			Okay. We're gonna take a pause here. The
		
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			building hours have changed. So the building closes
		
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			at 8, which is before Maghrib.
		
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			Right? So why we're starting at 6 is
		
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			because we have to give people enough time
		
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			to leave so you can get some place
		
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			to pray Maghrib. We're trying to get them
		
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			to extend the building hours. This is another
		
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			reason why we're not doing the tatars here
		
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			on Mondays Thursdays.
		
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			So tatars after Maghrib, and we can't be
		
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			here at Maghrib time. Do you know? In
		
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			the long term, as we build up, like,
		
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			a core group at this time, 6 o'clock,
		
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			it'd be amazing. You know, if some of
		
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			us can ideate how it is that maybe
		
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			every so often on a Monday,
		
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			we, like, pray together in the park or
		
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			outside somewhere, and then we all go have
		
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			iftar together. Right?
		
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			You know? If that sounds like a good
		
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			idea. But if any of you feel like
		
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			that'd be interesting, even if it's just for
		
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			a handful of us, it doesn't have to
		
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			be with everybody. You know? We can figure
		
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			that out, so we maintain that. Going into
		
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			this summer, we're gonna also start doing some
		
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			halakas in some, like, parks outdoors in different
		
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			places as well as As the weather gets
		
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			warmer more consistently, but
		
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			we're gonna,
		
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			have this halakah at this time,
		
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			until hopefully we're able to change. Maybe we'll
		
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			add Iftar
		
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			back to it.
		
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			We have these other programs that we're doing.
		
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			Again, everything will end before Maghrib time,
		
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			and in time for people to leave for
		
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			Maghrib.
		
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			So doctor Murmur will do tomorrow.
		
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			And on Wednesday,
		
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			I'm gonna do the seerajalika,
		
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			and Shake Fowls will do Thursdays. On Fridays,
		
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			we'll do some other stuff. And on the
		
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			weekends, we'll be doing things around, like, New
		
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			York City. So just look out for those
		
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			things. Okay. So
		
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			before we break, any other announcements people wanna
		
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			make? Let people know about anything?
		
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			Yes? No?
		
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			So we're gonna continue with this hadith,
		
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			next time and get into, like, the crux
		
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			of it. So all we talked about was,
		
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			and we looked at this verse. Go home
		
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			and spend some time with the hadith as
		
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			well as look at this verse of Surah
		
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			Baqarah.
		
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			And, inshallah, we'll see everybody next Monday. If
		
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			you can put the chairs back against the
		
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			wall before you leave, we appreciate it.
		
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			Are you gonna be coming? Yeah.
		
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			Hi. I'm trying to hang up. How are
		
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			you doing? I'm like Give me one second,
		
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			Sam. Everything's just on the live stream right
		
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			now. I don't know if you wanna be
		
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			on that or not.
		
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			Hey,
		
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			How are you doing?
		
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			Let me just turn this off really quick.