Khalid Latif – Imam Nawawis 40 Hadith for Modern Times #20

Khalid Latif
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The speakers emphasize the importance of strong clout in protecting one's batch and the acceptance of Islam. They also discuss the use of "has" in language and the importance of knowing one's values. The focus is on becoming more patient, compassion, and compassion to increase in compassion. Pr420 forbearance and increasing compassion to be forgiving of oneself are also emphasized.
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So this hadith is narrated

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in a lot of different chains,

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and is classified as being muthawadir

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in

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its kind of just abundance. It comes from

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a lot of different people.

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Abdullah ibn Umar Radhiallahu Anhumaha, he's the son

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of Umar ibn Al Khattab.

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So when we looked at hadith number 3,

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Abu'l ibn Amar was the narrator of that

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hadith also.

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And so not to go into too much

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detail in his biography

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because we already talked about him a lot,

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but he's the eldest son of Umar ibn

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al Khattab.

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And

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why we want to look at the narrators

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of these hadith

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is because we want to also be able

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to, 1, contextualize

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through them. Right? He's the youngest son of

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Omid ibn Al Khattab,

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meaning that he's also a young person.

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And we wanna be able to think out

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how

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he fits into the broader framework of what

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it is that he's narrating.

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Right? Abdullah ibn Umar, for example,

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he's narrated well over 2,000 hadith

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or attributed to him in terms of chains

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of transmission.

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As a young person,

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he is one of the 4 abbullas,

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who

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are just known as having a deep impact

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on the development of Islam.

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A lot of his teachings, a lot of

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his insights

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influenced the development of the Maliki school,

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the school associated

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with the people of Medina.

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And one of the things that's really interesting

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about Abdullah bin Umar, among many things, is

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that he wasn't somebody who was drawn towards

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leadership or authority

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or being in a political role.

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His father, Umar ibn Al Khattab,

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is somebody that the prophet

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says within kind of a normative understanding in

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Sunni Islam,

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that if there was a messenger after me,

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it would be this man, Umar.

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He is one of the people

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that when the prophet is looking for strength

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in his community,

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because in their early years, they're deeply persecuted.

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Right? There's a lot of boycotts, beating, abuse.

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If you come on Wednesday nights when we

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talk about the prophetic biography of the sira,

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we're in this stage of the Sira now

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where they're in this initial phase of revelation,

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but also public propagation for the first time.

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They're being mistreated very heavily.

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And so one of the duas that the

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prophet makes

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is about bringing people

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who have, like, power and clout

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to help leverage that for the sake of

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their community.

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So he makes a dua,

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that, oh, Allah brings some Izzah to Islam.

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And Izzah is different from Kuwa. Right? Kuwa

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is physical strength.

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Is like a strength rooted in dignity that

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if you speak Urdu or Hindi,

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maybe Bangla. I don't know. I don't speak

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Bangla. But you have a word, right, which

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is like respect.

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You know, it's got this sense of dignity

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to it. It's the way a is. Right?

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So he's saying bring that kind of strength,

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by the one of the 2 men who

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is more beloved to you, Amr ibn Hisham

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or Amr ibn Al Khattab,

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meaning, like, make one of them Muslim. Right?

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Bring this izzah to Islam.

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And the dua is accepted

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for umrib al Khattab, right, which you can

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take a lot from this du'a, but one

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of the many things that we're taught is

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that these 2 men who were adversaries,

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like, the du'a is kinda prefaced on the

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one who is more beloved to you, meaning

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that Allah still has a love for Umar

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ibn Al Khattab in the state pre Islam,

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and now his strength

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is leveraged because he's a great

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champion on behalf of the mushrikeen.

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They know that he causes problems

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for the Muslim community.

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And so

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he

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is now being made dua for to leverage

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this. And what's interesting about Umar

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story

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of his acceptance of Islam, he's actually in

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a place where he's on his way to

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kill the messenger of God,

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and

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he gets

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met on the way and deterred towards his

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own house. The companion says, well, maybe you

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should look at your own home.

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And his sister Fatima,

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she's studying the verses of Surat Al Baha

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with Khabab ibn A'rat. Right?

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And to not go into too much detail,

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Umar

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he, like, demands to see

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the pages that she's reading from, that they

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would

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have some of the verse of the Quran

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written at that time,

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as a way for them to study it,

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but not like a bound the way we

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know the mussaf was bound. Because the whole

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thing hadn't been revealed at that time, even

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to begin with. And so she went and

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showed it to him. They have an altercation.

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He, like, pushes her down to the ground,

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strikes her. She gets injured. It's bleeding.

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He, like, gets, like, consciousness. Right? Like, he's

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now not hurting somebody else. He's hurting his

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own, like, people, his own clan. And in

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this tribal society

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that you are protecting your clan, you're not

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the hurting,

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mechanism of your clan, he kinda realizes what

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it is that he has done.

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And they engage with the text,

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and it just resonates differently with him. And

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now he sets forward again,

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and they take him to where the prophet

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is,

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and people are afraid.

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Hamzah

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had accepted Islam before this He's the uncle

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of the prophet And so when Umar

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knocks on the door,

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he still has his sword with him Right?

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And very famously, they say he wears his

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sword on his neck. You know, that's how

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massive of a person he is. That he

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can actually wear it, like, hanging from his

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neck, and it's not cutting into him. You

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know, the way you wear a necklace, like

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he's got this thing hanging from his neck,

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and they don't know. They still know him

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as an adversary. So when he knocks on

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the door, everybody jumps out of the way

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except Hamza. Hamza says, I'll go open the

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door for him. Do you know? And Umar

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he now comes in. He accepts Islam.

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For the first time, they can walk in

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public.

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Hamza

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and Umar

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leading the lines,

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2,

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rows,

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and the prophet's walking in between them. Nobody

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can do anything, but he goes and knocks

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on Abu Jahl's door.

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And Abu Jahl is excited because this is

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his champion. Right? Marhabani Umar. Right? Like, welcome,

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O Umar.

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And,

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Umar

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he says

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that I converted to Islam.

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And he says,

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don't do this.

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And he says,

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it's done. And now they changed drastically the

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situation

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for that early community, and

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Umar is a big part of this. And

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then after Abu Bakr's

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caliphate,

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Umar ibn al Khattab becomes the second khanifa.

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And under his caliphate,

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the community grows substantially. There's a lot of

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prosperity

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and other things,

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and he's got a really unique relationship with

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his son who's narrating this hadith

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that Abdullah bin Umar is on one occasion

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with

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the companions and his father. And the prophet

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asks, you know, what tree is

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the Bedouin most like? What tree is the

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believer most like? And he knows the answer.

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Right? The nakhla tree, the date palm tree,

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but he doesn't answer the question.

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And

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after some time passes, nobody answers. And then

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the prophet says, it's the tree, the date

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palm tree. And he gives descriptions

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as to why, like, this is the case

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and how it produces, like, shade and its

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fruit and all of these things. And that's

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the idea. Like, as a believer,

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supposed to bring benefit to the world, not

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detriment to the world. Right? May Allah make

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his people a benefit.

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And so,

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Abdullah bin Umar says to his father,

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Khattab, I knew the answer, like, later on.

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And Umar

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says, well, why didn't you speak up? And,

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you know, he indicates that he's a young

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person in a crowd of older people, but

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his father says, no. Like, it would have

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been better for you to speak up. They

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have this type of relationship.

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Do you get what I mean? You wanna

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think about that practically

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from your own socialization.

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Now his son is narrating this hadith.

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He doesn't want any type of political role

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as he gets older.

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People ask him to take on these types

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of roles. His father literally is the second

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caliph of Islam. He's of the Ashar Abu

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Bashara.

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Right? He is a senior companion. The prophet

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says of Umar,

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that if there was a messenger after me,

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it would be this man, Omar,

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and his son takes a very different route

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than he does.

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Do you understand what I'm saying?

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So in this tradition,

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this is, like, embedded in pretty much every

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aspect

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of what we understand

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that just because your family goes a certain

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way, doesn't mean you go that way necessarily.

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And you can see it even in, like,

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modes

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that

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are very adversarial or contradictory in a problematic

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way. Like Adam, peace be upon him, in

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an Adamic narrative of creation,

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like the first human created, he's got 2

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sons,

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Habil and Kabil, Cain and Abel.

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And our,

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you know, narratives

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coincide with this idea

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that one of his sons kills the other

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son.

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And they're literally the son

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of Adam, peace be upon him. Right? How

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does it trickle down into this way?

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You know? But you can see that there's

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distinct characteristics

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and variables

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at play immediately

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even within the first family that's ever made.

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Does that make sense?

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Omid ibn Al Khattab does not make Abdullah

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ibn Umar

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become

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like a political leader. He doesn't say this

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is me, so you have to be this.

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He

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says, like, as he did to him when

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he was a child, you know, like, you

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should speak up.

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So it coincides well the encouragement that he

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has for his son in speaking up in

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a gathering of adults,

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let alone the fact that he took his

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child to a gathering of adults in the

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first place, and is now telling him that

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you should feel

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empowered

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to share your voice,

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to share your insights

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without it being understood as a mechanism

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of violating etiquette.

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So

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simultaneously,

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he's teaching him how to be, like,

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in terms of with others. Do you see

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what I mean? That's his upbringing,

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and he chooses

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to not be in a place

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where

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he gives indication

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to wanting,

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like,

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politics in his life. He doesn't wanna be

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about that life. Does that make sense?

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Right?

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Why is that important to understand? Right? Like,

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just because your dad's a doctor doesn't mean

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you have to be a doctor. Or does

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it mean you have to love to be

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a doctor? Do you know what I mean?

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Or when you have kids, if you already

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do or you're blessed to have children, like,

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they don't have to be you.

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You know? Love in our tradition

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is not that you love people

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because

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of how they do what you do necessarily.

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Right?

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Because if you only love people when they're

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like you,

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then you're just loving yourself in them.

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Right?

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Or the parts of them that remind you

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of yourself. And then that's just a weird

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way of being in love with you in

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an unhealthy capacity.

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Right? You wanna love people for who they

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are fully and who they are wholly. Do

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you know what I mean? And so Abdullah

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bin Umar,

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he was not on the same trajectory as

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his father, but he greatly contributed

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to the development of a lot of different

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things,

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including,

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like, the legislative

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aspects of this religion. He influences greatly

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the development of a Medanese school of thought,

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the

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school of Imam Malik, and he's able to

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do that without being a political

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kind of influence. Does that make sense?

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So he now is a young person

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at his conversion to Islam.

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He's the eldest son of Umar ibn Al

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Khattab. You think about this in your own

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structure.

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Right? Familiarly,

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how the first child is very different

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from, like, the younger children. I'm the youngest

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child in my family.

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People

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often

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wonder,

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if, you know, depending on who it is

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that talks to me, they say either that

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makes sense or does not make sense. And

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I don't know if that's like a knock

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on me. Right? But in my family, like,

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it's my brother, my sister, and then me.

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And I would say that,

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what I'm told like a youngest child's exposure

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is to the world, I did not definitely

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have that upbringing growing up.

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But I can see the difference in terms

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of how my parents relate to my older

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brother versus relating to me, wherein working with

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a lot of people, how that fundamentally happens.

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Yeah. Think about that as you're trying to

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think out, like, these companions play a role

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in preserving the hadith,

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but what they speak to and how it

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is that it comes to pass

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that they narrate the specifics of the ones

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that they are. We don't wanna divorce, like,

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Abdullah ibn Umar's upbringing and his socialization

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from also what he contributes

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to Islam. He's not in a vacuum. Does

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that make sense?

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So here now,

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he is narrating this hadith

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that quite often can get misconstrued

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if it's not contextualized.

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And it's really important to understand because we

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have to acknowledge also

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that there are people

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who, within the framework

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of our broader communal experience globally

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and historically,

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they take reductive simplistic understandings of religion,

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and then they don't relate text to context.

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And this is where religion in and of

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itself

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can turn into something

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that can be a quite

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problematic implementation

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if you don't know what you're talking about.

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This is not a text that then validates

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and justifies

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abhorrent behaviors

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that we can't pretend like doesn't exist

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within some elements of our community more broadly.

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I went to the Maldives

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twice,

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probably like

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14, 15 years ago when the country was

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transitioning into a democracy for the first time.

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Has anybody ever been to the Maldives before?

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You've been to the Maldives? Yeah. Isn't it

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beautiful?

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It's amazing. You should go to the Maldives

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if you can because it's this island nation,

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in between the 10 months that I went

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first and second

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time, multiple islands submerged in the water. Right?

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So it's disappearing. One of the things we

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were looking at,

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was also, like, plans they had that potentially

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their country would not exist anymore

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as the water continues to rise. Right?

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It's crazy how all of us are not

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only, like, me is connected to the rest

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of me, but what I do is also

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connected to other people.

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So our unwillingness to understand

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how we contribute to, like, climate change and

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environment,

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This entire, like, nation is made up of

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islands in the water that will disappear,

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you know, God forbid,

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because of elevating,

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like, sea levels that people fundamentally don't think

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about when they're thinking about some of these

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things. There's a lot of stuff. Like, if

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you go visit the Maldives as a tourist,

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it's not the same as, like, what my

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trips were like when I went there.

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About 66%

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of the country is addicted to heroin. They

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have the highest, like, divorce rate in the

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world.

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At that point, there were a lot of

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inward conflicts communally

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because,

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of

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very reductive approaches to religion,

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conflicting now with Maldivian identity and what their

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cultural heritage was. And there were literally people

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that I was meeting

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that,

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were,

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like, from all, like, kind of experiences.

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But relevant to this conversation,

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one of the,

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trips that they took me on or visits

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while I was there,

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the entire country, like, on paper, constitutionally,

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runs off of Shafiq.

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Right? To be a citizen, you have to

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be Muslim. Right? The Maldives is a Muslim,

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like, nation.

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They have these beautiful masjids from, like, 1500.

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You know, it's really a remarkable landscape.

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And

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one of the days we got in a

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boat to go to another island,

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and that's how you got around. And it's

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really majestic, and there's like fish flying

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near you. So So I said, where are

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we going today? And they said, do you

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remember, like, the capital

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city where we're staying, like, their main capital,

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to 12 men who tried to blow it

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up. And I said, yeah. I remember you

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told me about this. And they said, we're

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gonna go visit them today, and you're gonna

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talk to them. I said, oh, thank you.

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And nobody with me was armed or anything.

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We got to the island that had the,

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prison on it.

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And

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we're walking around, some guy's giving me a

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tour. He's telling me about, like, you know,

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how certain things have like burned down and

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he's showing me camera equipment and this and

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that.

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And I was asking him different questions.

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And I said, isn't it easy to just

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kinda break out of here the way this

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is all set up? And he was like,

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yeah. Prisoners have broken out a lot, and

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it's caused, like, problems. I was like, oh.

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I was like, when did you start working

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here? He's like, I don't work here. And

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I was like, you don't work here? And

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he said, no. And I was like, what

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are you doing here? He's like, I'm a

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prisoner. And I said,

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oh, and you're showing me around,

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and you worked on the surveillance systems of

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this place? He's like, yeah. And then they

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took me to meet these guys.

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And it was these 12 guys who were

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Maldivian

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and then there's one poor guy from Nigeria.

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Right? All these 12 guys

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were, like, dressed,

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you know, thobes and whatever else. And then

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there's one black dude wearing, like, black pants

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and a gold shirt. And I was like,

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what are you doing here, man? He was

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like, can you get me out of here?

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He said, I came here and had some

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issue with my visa, and they've had me

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stuck with these guys since then. I was

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like, I'm sorry, man. I don't know.

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And then I'm sitting with them and they're

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all together.

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And I said to these guys that brought

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me around, right, because the security guards at

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this place were not, like, cops the way

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you have, like, this paramilitary,

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like, you know, racist system in New York

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that in dows, like, these law enforcement agencies

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with, like, weaponry and whatever else. The guards

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at this place who actually worked there were

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like NYU security guards. You know, they had

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nothing, not even batons, like maybe light switches.

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I was like, who's gonna protect any of

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us right now?

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But all of these guys were in a

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cell together. They weren't isolated. And I was

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like, hey, man. Don't you think it's probably

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good to not have the guys that were

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planning to blow up something,

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like living and sleeping and eating together? Do

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you know?

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None of it made any sense.

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But I was also in my never met

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someone before who utilized Quran

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as a basis to justify violence.

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I just never met someone like that before.

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And now this person sitting in front of

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me,

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they felt

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as if the text that they held

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that I also

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venerate

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was something that validated

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what they were doing.

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Do you get what I mean? And why

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we need to study Hadith like this,

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similar to all the other Hadith that we

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looked at,

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is not so we can just say what

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it means, but we can also say what

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it does not mean.

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Do you get what I mean?

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And when you have, like, a baseline

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understanding of religion

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that doesn't, in our tradition, require

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a high bar of entry in order to

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engage

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or a high level of literacy, you

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can practice individually,

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but you can also then become susceptible

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to external variables.

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They want you to tell your religion is

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something that it's fundamentally not. Do you know?

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And our religion is in a place where

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the whole idea with hadith like this is

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to create

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understandings on where there are limitations.

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And if you have to engage,

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you engage within the confines

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and parameters of those boundaries

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and not just to whatever

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mode of excess

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that then is contrary

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to the entire purpose of it. Does this

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make sense?

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Right? So this hadith is gonna talk to

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us about very particularly,

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like, guidance that the prophet receives

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in order to now have parameters

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around engagement.

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But it also sets now very clear understandings

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of how you engage with Muslims

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and where and how

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you don't

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have, like,

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justifications

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for separation,

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but how the default is an understanding where

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we have togetherness.

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Does that make sense?

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So one anecdotal example,

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Right?

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I've been ordered to fight. Right? This verb,

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is not just about, like, fighting in the

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physical

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sense. That's one of the interpretations.

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And we don't want to engage in apologetics.

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Right? Our religion is a religion on a

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whole. Why wouldn't it have,

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like, a code of engagement,

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you know, if it is a religion that

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exists on a whole? And we'll look either

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today or tomorrow

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at a narration of Abu Bakr

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where he outlines, like, when you're engaged in

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battle and he says, you don't, like, do

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anything to, like, children and women and the

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elderly,

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to the monks and, like, monasteries

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and houses of worship and all the like,

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he's setting guidelines. You don't, like, you know,

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damage trees and vegetation. We're gonna look at

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that.

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But

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here, like this word,

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not only does it have that sense of,

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like, physical fighting, but it also means, like,

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kinda standing against something in opposition.

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Do you know? So if you were to,

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like,

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fight something principally in the courts,

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Right? You would use a derivation of this

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or this verb as well. Does that make

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sense?

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You know?

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So to demonstrate, like, this idea,

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the prophet

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has a companion by the name of Usama

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bin Zayd Usama bin Zayd,

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he is the son of Zayed bin Haritha

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and Umaimin Baraka.

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These are two companions

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that the prophet loves very deeply.

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Right? Umayman Barakah

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is arguably the only companion of the prophet

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that's with him from the day he's born

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till the day he passes. She's an Abyssinian

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woman who was taken at 16 years of

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age as a servant in the household of

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Abdullah.

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Right? She's a black lady, and she helps

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to raise the prophet of God, one of

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the many women who raises him.

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On Ayman Baraka, when the prophet passes,

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the

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companions of the likes of Abu Bakr and

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Umar, when they missed the prophet, they would

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go talk to Umayman Baraka

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about the prophet. That's how close she was.

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Zayd ibn Haritha

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is so close to the prophet that on

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one occasion, he's known as Zayd ibn Muhammad.

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And when verses are revealed that say you

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can't assume the natal identity of any individual,

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doesn't mean you can't adopt or take in

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orphans or treat people with respect or take

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children in who have needs, but it the

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natal identity. Right? It's problem solving for the

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challenge

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that you could adopt someone just to usurp

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their wealth. You know, like my wife and

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I became foster parents,

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and you could go into the foster system

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and see all kinds of things that are

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difficult.

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But the realities of what brought us in,

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one of the things that catalyzed it was

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in the work that my wife does with

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children who are survivors of abuse. There were

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so many children

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who were taken as foster children

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by people who were terrible people.

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Because they wanted, like, the government stipend and

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the benefits that came from it, and then

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they would treat these kids like garbage. Like,

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lock them up in, like, single rooms,

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like, not feed them well, all kinds of

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terrible things. Right?

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And if you can say, how is that

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possible? Well, you live in a world right

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now, man, where every day, like, there's people

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who are killing children, bombing them without any

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sense of, like,

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remorse whatsoever.

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You know? That ugliness

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exists also on micro levels

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embedded in every system that we see here.

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Do you get what I mean? Does that

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make sense? So Zayd bin Haritha

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goes back to being Zayd bin Haritha

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because you can't suddenly claim

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that somebody that you did not

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father into this world, mother into this world

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is your child, so that you can't take

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their inheritance.

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You can't claim that their belongings are now

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yours. They are always the child of their

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parent.

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Osama bin Zayed is the child of these

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two people.

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There's narrations where the prophet would put him

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on one knee and put his own grandson

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on his other knee and make Dua saying,

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You Allah, love them as I love them.

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Like, he loves Osama bin Zayd. When Osama

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bin Zayed is older, he is now appointed

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to be a general in the Muslim army.

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And in a Medanese

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period of Islam,

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they're in a battle, and as he and

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a man from the Ansar, like a Madinan

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man,

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are fighting with someone,

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before Osama bin Zayed is about to take

00:27:10 --> 00:27:11

this man's life, he says.

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And Osama bin Zayed has seconds to decide

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what it is that he is going to

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do.

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This man has been killing people, like, they're

00:27:22 --> 00:27:25

in war. You know? And so he decides

00:27:25 --> 00:27:28

to take his life. The Menenese man goes

00:27:28 --> 00:27:29

back to the prophet

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and says, You Rasool Allah, this is what

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happened. The man said, La ilaha illallah, Osama

00:27:35 --> 00:27:37

took his life. Is this what we're supposed

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to do?

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And the prophet says to Osama bin Zayed,

00:27:43 --> 00:27:45

did you kill him after he said, and

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Usama bin Zayed

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says, that he was just seeking protection.

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And he says, did you kill him after

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he said, la ilaha illallah? And he said,

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You Rasoolallah, he was just scared to die.

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And he says, oh, Osama, did you open

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up his chest and look into his heart

00:28:06 --> 00:28:08

to see that this is the reason as

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to why he said this? And then he

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continues to say it to him, you

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know,

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again and again and again

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until Osama bin Zayed says, I wish I

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became Muslim after that day so as to

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not have disappointed the prophet in the way

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that I did. Right?

00:28:27 --> 00:28:28

But, fundamentally,

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this is what it is.

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In that situation,

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you are literally

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at opposition with one another. Like, imagine in

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any battle that you can take place, this

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man said La ilaha illallah, at that point

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in time, that's it. Like, everything changes. There's

00:28:49 --> 00:28:51

nothing that comes after

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because

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he didn't live that long. So you think

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the last thing he says is the shahada.

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There's no metric to be able to gauge

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it. Do you get what I mean? Abu

00:29:02 --> 00:29:02

Hanifa,

00:29:04 --> 00:29:08

he famously says that I would rather include

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a 1,000 people within Islam

00:29:11 --> 00:29:12

and be wrong,

00:29:13 --> 00:29:15

then consider 1 to not be Muslim

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and be wrong on that who actually was.

00:29:19 --> 00:29:21

Do you get what I mean? Right? They're

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looking for reasons

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to, like, embrace

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and be compassionate

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and be kind to people.

00:29:27 --> 00:29:28

Does that make sense?

00:29:29 --> 00:29:30

So this Hadith

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is giving us an understanding

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also on, like, what it means to build

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community,

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how it is that La Illaha illallah

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becomes a connecting variable

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that you now start to have this interaction

00:29:45 --> 00:29:47

with people more broadly.

00:29:47 --> 00:29:48

Does that make sense?

00:29:49 --> 00:29:51

Yeah? Okay. So let's do this. It's more

00:29:51 --> 00:29:53

people have trickled in from when we started

00:29:53 --> 00:29:55

and there was 3 people in the room.

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If you can turn to the persons next

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to you,

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and exchange some names.

00:30:01 --> 00:30:02

What are you taking away so far? What

00:30:02 --> 00:30:04

is it bringing up for you? Just so

00:30:04 --> 00:30:06

we can get kinda talking, and then we'll

00:30:06 --> 00:30:08

jump into the text of the hadith a

00:30:08 --> 00:30:10

little bit. So go ahead.

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We're gonna go through it again.

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Yeah. Yeah. We'll go through it once we

00:30:30 --> 00:30:31

start again.

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We're for those who came in sorry. We're

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on hadith number 8 of the 40 hadith

00:30:37 --> 00:30:39

of Imam Naul. So if you wanna pull

00:30:39 --> 00:30:40

it up, that's the one we're looking at.

00:30:40 --> 00:30:42

But, yeah, sorry. Not to interrupt. Go ahead.

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Is it working okay?

00:33:35 --> 00:33:36

Is it working okay?

00:33:38 --> 00:33:39

What? The

00:33:43 --> 00:33:44

noise is from my shirt?

00:33:45 --> 00:33:46

It's from my shirt?

00:33:48 --> 00:33:49

Not bad. Oh, like, right now?

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

Okay.

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

So what are some of the things that

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

are coming up for people right now?

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

Maybe we can get a couple of people

00:34:19 --> 00:34:22

just so we're talking and thinking about it.

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

Or, like, have you how do you relate

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

to this hadith? Like, what does it bring

00:34:25 --> 00:34:26

up for you

00:34:26 --> 00:34:27

itself?

00:34:28 --> 00:34:29

What do we

00:34:32 --> 00:34:33

discuss?

00:34:38 --> 00:34:38

Anybody?

00:34:39 --> 00:34:40

Yeah.

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42

No. No. I asked you a question.

00:34:42 --> 00:34:44

You can't ask me a question.

00:34:49 --> 00:34:50

How was it? Well, no, man. Answer my

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

question first. What did what did you guys

00:34:52 --> 00:34:53

talk about?

00:34:54 --> 00:34:55

We just,

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

well, first exchange wasn't.

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And we kinda talked about this survival, the

00:35:01 --> 00:35:01

the whole.

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

This is where it's saying what? What?

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

Why are you laughing so hard? Solo sent

00:35:07 --> 00:35:09

you up. Just to be honest Yeah. What

00:35:09 --> 00:35:10

was your question?

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

What was your what did you wanna The

00:35:12 --> 00:35:13

question has to do specifically I know it

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15

was, like, a little bit of a canning,

00:35:15 --> 00:35:15

but,

00:35:17 --> 00:35:18

I was taking up the last name, but

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

Kyle that you adopt. I know that, like,

00:35:21 --> 00:35:23

the name is invention. I know it sounded

00:35:23 --> 00:35:23

probably

00:35:24 --> 00:35:26

Like, like, officially trace a little bit. It

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

means, like, a little bit more, like,

00:35:30 --> 00:35:31

more importance

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

in how they did it. But nowadays, with,

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

like, if you were to adopt a child

00:35:35 --> 00:35:36

through a system,

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

can you give them your last name or

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

you're not giving your last name according to

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

the

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

it's not like a like the the challenge

00:35:45 --> 00:35:46

comes in

00:35:46 --> 00:35:49

and what creates, like, the issue

00:35:50 --> 00:35:50

of,

00:35:51 --> 00:35:52

natal identity.

00:35:53 --> 00:35:55

So it doesn't kind of factor in the

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

same way as it did before. So you'll

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

hear different people say different things. Like, if

00:35:59 --> 00:36:02

someone converts, for example, there's some people who

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

they change their entire name. Right?

00:36:06 --> 00:36:06

And

00:36:06 --> 00:36:09

there's other people who will change their first

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

name, but not their last name because their

00:36:11 --> 00:36:14

last name still attaches to, like, their family

00:36:14 --> 00:36:14

lineage,

00:36:15 --> 00:36:17

but they're not taking, like, their father's name.

00:36:17 --> 00:36:19

Right? And that was kinda what the custom

00:36:19 --> 00:36:21

was during the time of the prophet.

00:36:21 --> 00:36:23

So Osama bin Zayed

00:36:24 --> 00:36:27

is actually Osama bin Zayed bin Haritha.

00:36:27 --> 00:36:29

You know, like they're going in that way.

00:36:29 --> 00:36:32

Abdullah ibn Umar is Abdullah ibn Umar ibn

00:36:32 --> 00:36:36

Al Khattab. Right? So they're taking their father's

00:36:36 --> 00:36:36

name

00:36:37 --> 00:36:39

as like just essentially their name is a

00:36:39 --> 00:36:41

sentence that's their lineage. Do you know what

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

I mean? So do you see the difference

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

there? Right? So if you were taking,

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

like, your dad's last name

00:36:48 --> 00:36:51

as like a family name, as a clan

00:36:51 --> 00:36:51

name,

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

the way that, you know, the prophet is

00:36:53 --> 00:36:56

of Quraysh or Banu Hashem

00:36:56 --> 00:36:59

or like Abu Bakr's Banu Thaym. Right? Like,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:02

they know their clan, etcetera. Do you do

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

you get what I mean? But we're not

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

saying you're not your dad's son.

00:37:06 --> 00:37:07

Does that make sense?

00:37:08 --> 00:37:10

Is that right? So what these guys were

00:37:10 --> 00:37:13

doing is saying, like, he's now my son.

00:37:13 --> 00:37:16

He inherits from me. I like, you know,

00:37:16 --> 00:37:18

it it creates that conundrum.

00:37:18 --> 00:37:21

It's like natal identity can't be assumed in

00:37:21 --> 00:37:22

that way.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:25

Okay. So I just understood that it's okay

00:37:25 --> 00:37:26

to give them your last name when it

00:37:26 --> 00:37:27

comes to the current insurance.

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

It may not apply to the same way

00:37:29 --> 00:37:30

that it is.

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

The different rules that come into play.

00:37:34 --> 00:37:35

Yeah. Yeah.

00:37:35 --> 00:37:38

So what did anybody talk about in relation

00:37:38 --> 00:37:38

to this?

00:37:40 --> 00:37:40

Yeah.

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

What kind of conversations do you have with

00:38:11 --> 00:38:12

people?

00:38:13 --> 00:38:14

That does.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

Yeah.

00:38:16 --> 00:38:17

No. It makes sense.

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

There are had punishments in Sharia,

00:38:22 --> 00:38:25

but the had punishment also necessitates, like, due

00:38:25 --> 00:38:25

process.

00:38:26 --> 00:38:29

It's not something that's just kinda implemented in

00:38:29 --> 00:38:32

those ways. This is talking very particularly. So

00:38:32 --> 00:38:33

why don't we get into the hadith?

00:38:33 --> 00:38:35

Right? If we look at it from the

00:38:35 --> 00:38:37

beginning of it,

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

the prophet says,

00:38:39 --> 00:38:40

I was commanded.

00:38:41 --> 00:38:43

It's very different from when a companion says,

00:38:43 --> 00:38:44

we were commanded.

00:38:45 --> 00:38:47

Right? If you have sayings that get attributed

00:38:47 --> 00:38:47

to the sahaba

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

and they say, we were commanded,

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52

The assumption is that they were commanded by

00:38:52 --> 00:38:53

the prophet,

00:38:54 --> 00:38:56

but the potential lies that someone

00:38:56 --> 00:38:58

could be saying, we were commanded,

00:38:58 --> 00:39:00

and it could be from another companion.

00:39:00 --> 00:39:03

You know? Abdullah ibn Umar could have been

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

told by his father, Umar ibn al Khattab.

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

That doesn't mean he was told by the

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

prophet of God. Do you see? When the

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11

prophet is saying, umirtu,

00:39:11 --> 00:39:14

like, who is commanding the prophet?

00:39:17 --> 00:39:18

What do you think?

00:39:20 --> 00:39:23

Allah is commanding the Prophet, Right? So the

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

particulars of the language

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

already give us an understanding.

00:39:28 --> 00:39:29

Do you know? And you wanna be able

00:39:29 --> 00:39:32

to understand language in this way. Like, if

00:39:32 --> 00:39:33

somebody is a teacher,

00:39:33 --> 00:39:35

then you know they must have students.

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

Right? Someone's a father, they must have a

00:39:38 --> 00:39:40

son. Right? Someone is, you know,

00:39:41 --> 00:39:42

a son,

00:39:42 --> 00:39:44

they have to have a mom. Right? Like,

00:39:44 --> 00:39:46

there's these relationships,

00:39:47 --> 00:39:48

but language also,

00:39:49 --> 00:39:49

by default,

00:39:50 --> 00:39:51

gives logical

00:39:51 --> 00:39:52

conclusions.

00:39:52 --> 00:39:54

So if the prophet is saying, I was

00:39:54 --> 00:39:55

commanded,

00:39:55 --> 00:39:56

then logically,

00:39:57 --> 00:39:58

the prophet is commanded

00:39:59 --> 00:39:59

by

00:40:00 --> 00:40:00

someone

00:40:01 --> 00:40:02

who has capacity

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

to command the prophet of God.

00:40:06 --> 00:40:07

It's going to be God.

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

Right?

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

If you can look up on your phones,

00:40:10 --> 00:40:12

there's a verse in Surat Al Baqarah

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

verse 216.

00:40:15 --> 00:40:17

If we can pull it up.

00:40:21 --> 00:40:23

How do people like this setup better where

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

there's no table and we're all sitting on

00:40:25 --> 00:40:27

the ground? Does it work well?

00:40:28 --> 00:40:30

I'm a very short person, so I don't

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

know if it changes the dynamic.

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

But I didn't like sitting at the table.

00:40:37 --> 00:40:39

Does anybody have the verse in front of

00:40:39 --> 00:40:39

them?

00:40:40 --> 00:40:41

So the 2

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

16, can we read it?

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

Yeah. Go ahead. Sure. English is great.

00:40:48 --> 00:40:49

I need a

00:41:02 --> 00:41:04

Yeah. Can anybody read the Arabic?

00:41:07 --> 00:41:08

Good. Yeah.

00:41:21 --> 00:41:22

Okay.

00:41:23 --> 00:41:25

We can unpack this verse and look at

00:41:25 --> 00:41:27

commentaries but just from

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

the onset of this verse,

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

how does it relate to the idea that

00:41:32 --> 00:41:34

the prophet is being commanded

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

to do this thing. Right? Because the very

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

first part of this

00:41:40 --> 00:41:40

verse,

00:41:43 --> 00:41:44

It has the same

00:41:45 --> 00:41:45

word

00:41:46 --> 00:41:47

here, right?

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

What?

00:41:50 --> 00:41:51

This thing,

00:41:52 --> 00:41:55

So who is the one that's commanding the

00:41:55 --> 00:41:57

prophet of God? It's Allah. Here's a verse

00:41:57 --> 00:42:00

in Surah Baqarah that this comes, and now

00:42:00 --> 00:42:02

Allah is giving us an understanding

00:42:03 --> 00:42:04

of how

00:42:05 --> 00:42:06

this command

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

might be

00:42:08 --> 00:42:11

something that elicits a response

00:42:11 --> 00:42:12

in the prophet of God.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:14

Right?

00:42:14 --> 00:42:17

And then principally, it also gives us something

00:42:17 --> 00:42:20

that we'll talk about in a bit. But

00:42:20 --> 00:42:23

the fact that Allah is commanding the prophet

00:42:23 --> 00:42:24

to something,

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

what does the first part of this verse

00:42:26 --> 00:42:27

say?

00:42:30 --> 00:42:33

How does the what is the the feeling

00:42:33 --> 00:42:35

in it? Like, what did you read? Read

00:42:35 --> 00:42:36

the translation again.

00:42:37 --> 00:42:40

Fighting has been enjoying on you while this

00:42:40 --> 00:42:40

week.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

Yeah. While it is hateful for you. Right?

00:42:43 --> 00:42:43

There's

00:42:43 --> 00:42:45

in it. The word is

00:42:46 --> 00:42:48

one of the akham of sharia. Right? It's

00:42:48 --> 00:42:49

a disliked

00:42:49 --> 00:42:50

kind of category.

00:42:50 --> 00:42:51

Do you know?

00:42:52 --> 00:42:53

So you have fard, obligatory,

00:42:56 --> 00:42:56

mustahab,

00:42:57 --> 00:42:57

recommended,

00:42:58 --> 00:43:00

right, Mubah neutral,

00:43:00 --> 00:43:00

makru

00:43:01 --> 00:43:01

disliked,

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

and haram

00:43:04 --> 00:43:06

prohibited. You know? So when there's in

00:43:07 --> 00:43:07

something,

00:43:08 --> 00:43:09

like, you don't it's disliked.

00:43:10 --> 00:43:11

So the verse is saying,

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

this thing is prescribed for you

00:43:14 --> 00:43:15

and you

00:43:15 --> 00:43:16

dislike it.

00:43:17 --> 00:43:17

You know?

00:43:18 --> 00:43:19

You don't

00:43:19 --> 00:43:20

necessarily

00:43:21 --> 00:43:22

like this thing.

00:43:23 --> 00:43:23

Do you see?

00:43:24 --> 00:43:27

So when the prophet is giving this indication

00:43:27 --> 00:43:27

contextually,

00:43:29 --> 00:43:32

the companions are learning Islam in real time.

00:43:33 --> 00:43:36

Revelation is coming down over 23 years period.

00:43:36 --> 00:43:39

They move from a place where they are

00:43:39 --> 00:43:39

persecuted

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

to now being in a place where they

00:43:42 --> 00:43:43

are not persecuted.

00:43:43 --> 00:43:46

The default of the prophet of God is

00:43:46 --> 00:43:47

to try to always

00:43:48 --> 00:43:48

strategically

00:43:50 --> 00:43:51

limit fighting

00:43:52 --> 00:43:54

unless it's absolutely necessary.

00:43:54 --> 00:43:56

But if you're in a place now where

00:43:56 --> 00:43:59

you don't want to do something, you dislike

00:43:59 --> 00:44:01

it. It's a very human religion.

00:44:03 --> 00:44:04

And you're now at a place where there's

00:44:04 --> 00:44:05

a challenge.

00:44:06 --> 00:44:09

Boycotts are being implemented, people are being abused,

00:44:09 --> 00:44:11

people are being killed, and then they have

00:44:11 --> 00:44:13

battles like the Battle of Badr. They have

00:44:13 --> 00:44:16

battles like the Battle of Uhud. They have

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

things where people are actively

00:44:18 --> 00:44:22

going into battle against people that they know.

00:44:22 --> 00:44:25

Because the city of Mecca, right, when we

00:44:25 --> 00:44:27

are looking at this in the Sira Halakha

00:44:27 --> 00:44:28

on Wednesdays,

00:44:28 --> 00:44:29

how many people

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

live in the city of Mecca at any

00:44:32 --> 00:44:34

one time? There's not millions of people the

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

way there's millions of people in Manhattan,

00:44:37 --> 00:44:40

but there are, like, tens of thousands of

00:44:40 --> 00:44:42

people frequenting Mecca. Right? A 100000

00:44:43 --> 00:44:45

people in Mecca, you know, the original city

00:44:45 --> 00:44:46

of Medina,

00:44:46 --> 00:44:49

if you go to Medina now,

00:44:49 --> 00:44:52

the original city essentially fits into the confines

00:44:52 --> 00:44:54

of the courtyard. It's not like a big

00:44:54 --> 00:44:56

place. Do you know what I mean? And

00:44:56 --> 00:44:58

then you think about this not in terms

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

of, like, everybody that's represented

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

in our collective age demographic,

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

assuming, like, I'm one of the older people

00:45:06 --> 00:45:08

in the room, and the younger people in

00:45:08 --> 00:45:10

the room might be in their teens. Right?

00:45:10 --> 00:45:12

But we still generationally

00:45:12 --> 00:45:13

have a connection.

00:45:14 --> 00:45:17

But if we're saying a 100000 people, that's

00:45:17 --> 00:45:20

also including, like, children, women, the elderly.

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

So everybody is not just,

00:45:22 --> 00:45:24

like, of one age demographic.

00:45:25 --> 00:45:27

They're all not, like, you know, 20 to

00:45:27 --> 00:45:28

40

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

and everything in between.

00:45:32 --> 00:45:34

So when you have people that are of

00:45:34 --> 00:45:37

a common background than your own, you probably,

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39

like, know them or know of them. So

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

a good chance if somebody is an able-bodied

00:45:42 --> 00:45:42

individual

00:45:43 --> 00:45:44

that's in the battlefield,

00:45:44 --> 00:45:46

like, you might have had some kind of

00:45:46 --> 00:45:49

interaction with them or somebody that they knew.

00:45:49 --> 00:45:52

That could have even been somebody that was

00:45:52 --> 00:45:55

part of your clan or your family because

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57

it's upending an entire societal system

00:45:58 --> 00:46:01

that was about clans protecting clans.

00:46:01 --> 00:46:04

Right? The prophet's companions came from every race

00:46:04 --> 00:46:07

and every class and every, like, clan and

00:46:07 --> 00:46:09

tribe in that Mecca in Arabia as well

00:46:09 --> 00:46:12

as from people coming from outside of Mecca.

00:46:12 --> 00:46:12

Do you know?

00:46:13 --> 00:46:17

So here now, when you have this recognition,

00:46:18 --> 00:46:18

it's

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

this is coming from the divine.

00:46:22 --> 00:46:23

And this is something

00:46:24 --> 00:46:27

that we are only taking them on

00:46:28 --> 00:46:30

in this scenario and in this context.

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32

It's not

00:46:32 --> 00:46:33

a proactive

00:46:34 --> 00:46:35

kind of engagement

00:46:35 --> 00:46:37

that we're going out

00:46:37 --> 00:46:39

and just fighting for the sake of fighting.

00:46:40 --> 00:46:42

But now somebody is coming at us, and

00:46:42 --> 00:46:44

we have to go into a place of

00:46:44 --> 00:46:44

defense.

00:46:45 --> 00:46:48

One, they need to command from Allah. They

00:46:48 --> 00:46:50

don't just get up and say, we're gonna

00:46:50 --> 00:46:51

arbitrarily

00:46:51 --> 00:46:52

start

00:46:52 --> 00:46:55

fighting and engaging in this. And then 2,

00:46:56 --> 00:46:56

the limitations

00:46:57 --> 00:47:00

on it have to come into play. It's

00:47:00 --> 00:47:01

not just happening

00:47:01 --> 00:47:03

in the ways that

00:47:03 --> 00:47:06

one might assume my feelings dictate and define

00:47:06 --> 00:47:07

certain things.

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10

And the verse is really important to understand

00:47:11 --> 00:47:11

because

00:47:12 --> 00:47:14

embedded in it is fundamentally

00:47:14 --> 00:47:17

what this religion is rooted in,

00:47:17 --> 00:47:20

that Allah knows best even if I don't

00:47:20 --> 00:47:21

understand it.

00:47:22 --> 00:47:24

It doesn't exert itself off of a prism

00:47:25 --> 00:47:26

of rational or irrational

00:47:27 --> 00:47:27

frames

00:47:28 --> 00:47:28

that are subjective

00:47:29 --> 00:47:30

to my

00:47:30 --> 00:47:31

understanding.

00:47:31 --> 00:47:34

Rational or irrational to me, it makes sense

00:47:34 --> 00:47:37

or does not make sense to me, but

00:47:37 --> 00:47:40

it interjects a third frame that is super

00:47:40 --> 00:47:40

irrational.

00:47:41 --> 00:47:43

I don't have to understand it in order

00:47:43 --> 00:47:44

for it to be true.

00:47:45 --> 00:47:47

A God centric religion

00:47:48 --> 00:47:50

assumes that there's certain things God will ask

00:47:50 --> 00:47:52

you to do that you love to do,

00:47:52 --> 00:47:53

certain things God asks you to do that

00:47:53 --> 00:47:56

you'll struggle with, and certain things God asks

00:47:56 --> 00:47:57

you to do

00:47:57 --> 00:47:58

that you just don't fundamentally

00:47:59 --> 00:47:59

understand.

00:48:01 --> 00:48:02

And the rest of the verse is now

00:48:02 --> 00:48:05

giving us this principle.

00:48:05 --> 00:48:07

What's the rest of the verse in translation?

00:48:07 --> 00:48:07

Perhaps you're gonna think, and it is good

00:48:07 --> 00:48:07

for you. Perhaps you love the thing, and

00:48:07 --> 00:48:07

it is bad for you.

00:48:21 --> 00:48:23

So the spirit of the practice

00:48:23 --> 00:48:26

is not what defines the actual

00:48:26 --> 00:48:27

kinda

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

worth of the practice.

00:48:29 --> 00:48:31

We can sit here and talk about, like,

00:48:31 --> 00:48:34

the merits of why we shorten prayer when

00:48:34 --> 00:48:35

we travel.

00:48:36 --> 00:48:38

We can sit here and conjecture on why

00:48:38 --> 00:48:39

we don't eat pork

00:48:39 --> 00:48:42

or why it makes sense that alcohol is

00:48:42 --> 00:48:42

prohibited.

00:48:43 --> 00:48:43

Right?

00:48:44 --> 00:48:44

But, fundamentally,

00:48:45 --> 00:48:46

at the end of the day,

00:48:46 --> 00:48:49

it's not because it makes sense to you

00:48:49 --> 00:48:51

or me that we don't eat pork.

00:48:52 --> 00:48:54

We don't eat pork because god said

00:48:55 --> 00:48:57

we don't eat pork. That's what it is.

00:48:57 --> 00:49:00

Right? You might struggle with it. It's not

00:49:00 --> 00:49:02

that you become the Sharia police and start

00:49:02 --> 00:49:05

saying, god said we don't eat pork. You're

00:49:05 --> 00:49:07

gonna knock out, like, the ham out of

00:49:07 --> 00:49:09

everyone's hands. Right? No. That's not what we're

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

saying. But we're saying,

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

it doesn't need for you

00:49:13 --> 00:49:14

to understand

00:49:15 --> 00:49:17

why we don't eat it in order for

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19

it to make sense.

00:49:20 --> 00:49:22

Because the wisdom of it

00:49:22 --> 00:49:24

is rooted in the source of wisdom.

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

And knowing who Allah is

00:49:28 --> 00:49:30

then has a role

00:49:31 --> 00:49:31

in understanding,

00:49:32 --> 00:49:34

like, the command

00:49:34 --> 00:49:35

and its implementation

00:49:36 --> 00:49:39

from the command giver, not the command doer.

00:49:39 --> 00:49:41

So when the prophet is saying this to

00:49:41 --> 00:49:42

his companions,

00:49:43 --> 00:49:44

they know

00:49:45 --> 00:49:45

implicitly

00:49:46 --> 00:49:46

and explicitly

00:49:47 --> 00:49:50

what he's telling us he has been taught

00:49:50 --> 00:49:50

from Allah

00:49:52 --> 00:49:53

Does that make sense?

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

And then there's this is just what it

00:49:56 --> 00:49:57

is.

00:49:57 --> 00:49:58

Do you know?

00:49:59 --> 00:50:01

And you get to a place where the

00:50:01 --> 00:50:01

contextualization

00:50:02 --> 00:50:03

is important

00:50:03 --> 00:50:05

Do you know what I mean? The Prophet

00:50:05 --> 00:50:06

was really intelligent

00:50:08 --> 00:50:11

When they come into the conquest of Mecca,

00:50:11 --> 00:50:14

it's not that at the conquest of Mecca

00:50:14 --> 00:50:15

where there's no bloodshed.

00:50:16 --> 00:50:18

Right? They come back

00:50:18 --> 00:50:19

20 years

00:50:19 --> 00:50:21

after this thing started.

00:50:22 --> 00:50:25

And in the 1st 13 years, they're being

00:50:25 --> 00:50:27

beaten and abused and all of this other

00:50:27 --> 00:50:30

stuff. 2 decades have passed. They built up

00:50:30 --> 00:50:31

clout,

00:50:31 --> 00:50:33

but it's not that the Meccans are in

00:50:33 --> 00:50:36

a place where they don't think that they're

00:50:36 --> 00:50:38

gonna, like, be ready to fight. Do you

00:50:38 --> 00:50:39

get what I mean?

00:50:41 --> 00:50:43

One of the things that the prophet does

00:50:43 --> 00:50:44

as he approaches Mecca

00:50:45 --> 00:50:47

is he tells people to make fires,

00:50:48 --> 00:50:49

you know, in the night.

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

They're in the desert. It's cold. If you've

00:50:51 --> 00:50:53

ever been to, like, a desert area

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56

in the evenings, it's not, like, necessarily hot

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

at nighttime. It can get a little bit

00:50:58 --> 00:50:59

colder.

00:50:59 --> 00:51:01

And if they would conventionally

00:51:01 --> 00:51:02

make fires

00:51:02 --> 00:51:05

in these settings, they've set up camp,

00:51:05 --> 00:51:08

how many fires do you need to warm,

00:51:08 --> 00:51:09

like,

00:51:09 --> 00:51:10

a group of people?

00:51:11 --> 00:51:13

Like, how many have you ever been to

00:51:13 --> 00:51:14

a fire, like,

00:51:14 --> 00:51:17

you've roasted marshmallows on a fire? Does everybody

00:51:17 --> 00:51:18

get their own fire?

00:51:19 --> 00:51:21

No. How many people can fit around a

00:51:21 --> 00:51:23

fire when you're roasting marshmallows?

00:51:27 --> 00:51:30

Ten people. Great. And typically, what would happen

00:51:30 --> 00:51:33

is that they would make one fire

00:51:33 --> 00:51:34

for 10 people.

00:51:35 --> 00:51:37

The prophet told the people when they came,

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

every person make your own fire.

00:51:41 --> 00:51:43

And so what it gave was

00:51:44 --> 00:51:45

the illusion

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

to the people in Mecca that they just

00:51:47 --> 00:51:49

came with, like, 10 times as many people

00:51:49 --> 00:51:51

as they actually came.

00:51:52 --> 00:51:53

Why do you think he does this?

00:51:58 --> 00:51:59

They're trying to avoid

00:52:00 --> 00:52:00

fighting.

00:52:02 --> 00:52:03

Do you understand?

00:52:05 --> 00:52:06

If they get in

00:52:07 --> 00:52:08

with an understanding

00:52:09 --> 00:52:11

that this is a force that we cannot

00:52:11 --> 00:52:12

take on,

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

then there's no fighting.

00:52:16 --> 00:52:18

It's not even worth it for us to

00:52:18 --> 00:52:18

try.

00:52:19 --> 00:52:21

Because think, right? Badr

00:52:21 --> 00:52:22

happens,

00:52:22 --> 00:52:25

and how many Muslims are there at Badr?

00:52:26 --> 00:52:28

How many people are in the opposition?

00:52:28 --> 00:52:30

And they still fight.

00:52:30 --> 00:52:33

We have the numbers, we talk about these

00:52:33 --> 00:52:35

things. There's substantially

00:52:35 --> 00:52:35

less

00:52:36 --> 00:52:37

in one

00:52:37 --> 00:52:40

arena and substantially more. Right? But they still

00:52:40 --> 00:52:43

they didn't say let's run away. They got

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

up. The prophet makes all night.

00:52:45 --> 00:52:47

Like, all of us who believe in this

00:52:47 --> 00:52:49

thing are right here. If we, like, all

00:52:49 --> 00:52:52

die, this is gonna stop. There's not that

00:52:52 --> 00:52:53

many of them.

00:52:53 --> 00:52:54

So

00:52:54 --> 00:52:55

this culture,

00:52:56 --> 00:52:56

societally,

00:52:57 --> 00:52:59

is ready to, like, stand on its feet

00:52:59 --> 00:53:00

in this way,

00:53:01 --> 00:53:03

and the prophet gets them to understand

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

that there's a lot more of them than

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

they actually are.

00:53:08 --> 00:53:10

They go in, everybody's forgiven.

00:53:10 --> 00:53:13

He says, keep people in their homes. Like,

00:53:13 --> 00:53:16

don't do anything to anybody,

00:53:16 --> 00:53:18

even the ones who are the most adversarial.

00:53:19 --> 00:53:19

Right?

00:53:20 --> 00:53:22

You have a man by the name of

00:53:22 --> 00:53:23

Ikramah,

00:53:23 --> 00:53:25

who's the son of Abu Jahal.

00:53:27 --> 00:53:27

Ikramah

00:53:28 --> 00:53:31

is not Muslim at this time at Fattal

00:53:31 --> 00:53:32

Makkah,

00:53:33 --> 00:53:36

and the prophet says every house is forgiven,

00:53:36 --> 00:53:38

Ikrimah doesn't believe a word of it.

00:53:39 --> 00:53:40

Ikrimah,

00:53:41 --> 00:53:43

not only is he the son of Abu

00:53:43 --> 00:53:43

Jahl,

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45

who made his life about

00:53:46 --> 00:53:47

like hurting Islam,

00:53:48 --> 00:53:49

Ikramah,

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

in the Battle of Uhud,

00:53:51 --> 00:53:53

he led one of the flanks,

00:53:54 --> 00:53:56

while Khadib bin Walid, who was not Muslim,

00:53:56 --> 00:53:57

led the other flank

00:53:58 --> 00:54:00

that came upon and shifted the tide of

00:54:00 --> 00:54:01

battle.

00:54:01 --> 00:54:03

Right? And they killed a lot of senior

00:54:03 --> 00:54:05

companions in this battle.

00:54:05 --> 00:54:06

Ikoma runs

00:54:07 --> 00:54:08

away.

00:54:09 --> 00:54:11

And when the prophet finds out he runs,

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14

he tells people, go tell him to come

00:54:14 --> 00:54:14

back

00:54:15 --> 00:54:17

and he'll be forgiven. And Ikrimah doesn't understand.

00:54:18 --> 00:54:20

He's like, I don't think this is what

00:54:20 --> 00:54:21

he said. And they said, no. He did.

00:54:22 --> 00:54:23

And then he comes back

00:54:24 --> 00:54:24

to

00:54:25 --> 00:54:25

Mecca

00:54:26 --> 00:54:28

and engages a prophet,

00:54:28 --> 00:54:29

takes his shahada,

00:54:30 --> 00:54:32

and the prophet tells his companions,

00:54:33 --> 00:54:34

don't

00:54:34 --> 00:54:35

ever

00:54:35 --> 00:54:36

disparage his father,

00:54:37 --> 00:54:38

Abu Jahl.

00:54:40 --> 00:54:42

Do you understand what I'm saying?

00:54:42 --> 00:54:45

If you don't read this Hadith in the

00:54:45 --> 00:54:47

context of Quran

00:54:47 --> 00:54:49

and, like, Hadith more broadly,

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

then you see where people have a reductive

00:54:52 --> 00:54:53

methodology

00:54:54 --> 00:54:56

that then violates fundamental principles

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

of what this religion is. This is why

00:54:59 --> 00:55:00

I tell you guys when you come on

00:55:00 --> 00:55:02

Wednesdays and we read the Sira,

00:55:02 --> 00:55:05

the Sira makes all of this concrete.

00:55:06 --> 00:55:08

Like you see how the prophet lived the

00:55:08 --> 00:55:09

Quran.

00:55:09 --> 00:55:11

Do you get what I mean?

00:55:11 --> 00:55:13

So here, he's saying, Umertu,

00:55:14 --> 00:55:16

I was commanded by Allah And then in

00:55:16 --> 00:55:19

the Quran, the verse that we read, Allah

00:55:19 --> 00:55:20

is saying

00:55:20 --> 00:55:23

that this is something that is written for

00:55:23 --> 00:55:24

you.

00:55:26 --> 00:55:27

It's got the same Arabic

00:55:28 --> 00:55:29

as, like, when we have the verse for

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

fasting.

00:55:32 --> 00:55:34

Right? Fasting has been written for you. So

00:55:34 --> 00:55:37

when you have this construct in the Quran,

00:55:37 --> 00:55:39

right, this is one of the things that

00:55:39 --> 00:55:41

denotes a mandate or an obligation.

00:55:42 --> 00:55:42

Right?

00:55:44 --> 00:55:45

Fasting has been written for you.

00:55:47 --> 00:55:49

That this has been something that's prescribed for

00:55:49 --> 00:55:52

you. Right? And then Allah says,

00:55:53 --> 00:55:55

though you dislike it.

00:55:55 --> 00:55:56

Do you know what I mean?

00:55:57 --> 00:55:58

What I like for us to think about

00:55:58 --> 00:56:02

now is the latter part of this, like,

00:56:02 --> 00:56:02

verse

00:56:04 --> 00:56:05

where Allah says

00:56:05 --> 00:56:09

that you may dislike something although there is

00:56:09 --> 00:56:10

good in it for you

00:56:10 --> 00:56:12

and you may like something

00:56:13 --> 00:56:13

although

00:56:14 --> 00:56:16

there is not good in it for you.

00:56:16 --> 00:56:19

Allah knows and you do not know.

00:56:19 --> 00:56:22

Because not as a tangent, but to be

00:56:22 --> 00:56:24

able to apply it to the practical of

00:56:24 --> 00:56:25

this hadith,

00:56:25 --> 00:56:27

but to also then think about it in

00:56:27 --> 00:56:29

terms of where we are day to day

00:56:29 --> 00:56:31

in our existence,

00:56:32 --> 00:56:33

our understanding

00:56:34 --> 00:56:35

of how we implement religion

00:56:36 --> 00:56:39

is not rooted in feelings that become devoid

00:56:39 --> 00:56:41

of moments of rest,

00:56:41 --> 00:56:44

then logically we try to ascertain meaning that's

00:56:44 --> 00:56:45

rooted in this thing.

00:56:47 --> 00:56:49

Just because you like it or dislike it

00:56:49 --> 00:56:52

doesn't make that the basis of its implementation.

00:56:54 --> 00:56:56

Right? You might like something and it's not

00:56:56 --> 00:56:57

good for you.

00:56:58 --> 00:57:01

You might dislike something and it's good for

00:57:01 --> 00:57:01

you.

00:57:02 --> 00:57:04

How you get to a place where the

00:57:04 --> 00:57:07

feeling doesn't exert the decision making

00:57:07 --> 00:57:09

necessitates fun understanding

00:57:09 --> 00:57:11

what this verse means

00:57:11 --> 00:57:12

in its latter part,

00:57:13 --> 00:57:15

coming back to me.

00:57:15 --> 00:57:16

Taddabur,

00:57:16 --> 00:57:17

reflection on the Quran,

00:57:18 --> 00:57:20

is not in a vacuum, but taddabur,

00:57:21 --> 00:57:22

reflecting on the Quran

00:57:22 --> 00:57:24

is through the perspective

00:57:24 --> 00:57:25

of

00:57:25 --> 00:57:27

what is the verse speaking to me?

00:57:28 --> 00:57:30

How does this mean to me? So this

00:57:30 --> 00:57:31

latter part of this verse,

00:57:32 --> 00:57:33

you might like something,

00:57:34 --> 00:57:36

but there's not good in it for you.

00:57:36 --> 00:57:39

You might dislike something, but there's good in

00:57:39 --> 00:57:40

it for you. Right?

00:57:41 --> 00:57:43

Allah knows and you do not know.

00:57:44 --> 00:57:46

How is this relevant

00:57:46 --> 00:57:47

to us individually?

00:57:48 --> 00:57:49

What do we take from it?

00:57:50 --> 00:57:52

So question makes sense? So what I'd like

00:57:52 --> 00:57:53

for you to do is turn to the

00:57:53 --> 00:57:55

person next to you, and just think about

00:57:55 --> 00:57:58

this latter part of this verse of Quran,

00:57:58 --> 00:57:59

the 216th

00:57:59 --> 00:58:02

verse of the second chapter, Surah Baqarah.

00:58:02 --> 00:58:04

You may dislike something and there's good in

00:58:04 --> 00:58:07

it for you. Right? You may like something

00:58:07 --> 00:58:09

and it's not good for you. Allah knows

00:58:09 --> 00:58:10

and you don't know.

00:58:10 --> 00:58:12

How does this bear relevance

00:58:13 --> 00:58:14

to our engagement

00:58:15 --> 00:58:17

with our faith and our decision making? If

00:58:17 --> 00:58:19

you can turn to the person next to

00:58:19 --> 00:58:20

you, talk it out a bit, and then

00:58:20 --> 00:58:22

we'll come back and discuss. But go ahead.

01:02:00 --> 01:02:00

Hey, Zach.

01:02:01 --> 01:02:03

Yeah. What's up? Yeah. So I just okay.

01:02:03 --> 01:02:05

This is all on the camera, by the

01:02:05 --> 01:02:05

way.

01:02:06 --> 01:02:07

Yeah. Yeah. So,

01:02:09 --> 01:02:11

if I was a Muslim, right, and I

01:02:11 --> 01:02:13

was trying to simplify and and I can

01:02:13 --> 01:02:14

dominate this exciting

01:02:15 --> 01:02:17

huge concept, this old edition,

01:02:17 --> 01:02:19

and there's so much that's happening with it.

01:02:20 --> 01:02:21

The first thing I would try to do

01:02:21 --> 01:02:22

is to try

01:02:22 --> 01:02:24

to simplify it. Right? So, like, things from

01:02:24 --> 01:02:25

that point of view,

01:02:26 --> 01:02:27

I heard 2 things from

01:02:28 --> 01:02:28

earlier

01:02:29 --> 01:02:30

when I'm my where my first came in

01:02:30 --> 01:02:32

was the importance of contextualizing

01:02:33 --> 01:02:34

and relating it to me.

01:02:35 --> 01:02:35

And then

01:02:36 --> 01:02:39

when we're going through this this IHG system,

01:02:39 --> 01:02:40

I'm hearing

01:02:40 --> 01:02:41

it's not really about

01:02:42 --> 01:02:44

what I think. It's about what's set.

01:02:45 --> 01:02:47

I'm I'm I'm feeling like a smooth sweep.

01:02:47 --> 01:02:48

I feel like this

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to to put, like, yes. And I know

01:02:51 --> 01:02:52

it's not. I know it's

01:02:52 --> 01:02:53

late. I know, like, one come

01:02:54 --> 01:02:55

can can you just, like,

01:02:56 --> 01:02:59

prioritize that? Just like So because faith precedes

01:02:59 --> 01:03:01

practice. Right? So if you know what Allah

01:03:01 --> 01:03:02

is,

01:03:02 --> 01:03:05

that's where you get a route here to

01:03:05 --> 01:03:07

be able to determine, like,

01:03:08 --> 01:03:09

how do I,

01:03:09 --> 01:03:11

like, relate to, like, things God asked me

01:03:11 --> 01:03:13

to do. I might struggle with them. Do

01:03:13 --> 01:03:14

you know? But I fundamentally

01:03:14 --> 01:03:16

still know that Allah is the one that

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

knows what's best.

01:03:17 --> 01:03:18

Do you get what I mean?

01:03:19 --> 01:03:21

So if someone's a new Muslim, for example,

01:03:21 --> 01:03:23

you know, they're struggling with, like, waking up

01:03:23 --> 01:03:25

to bring fajr in the morning. Do you

01:03:25 --> 01:03:28

know? Or it's hard. Right? But they're in

01:03:28 --> 01:03:30

a place where even, like, their sleep is

01:03:30 --> 01:03:31

messed up, and they're like, I you know?

01:03:32 --> 01:03:34

But they know, like, because Allah is saying

01:03:34 --> 01:03:36

to do this, there's in

01:03:36 --> 01:03:37

it. Do you get what I mean? That's

01:03:37 --> 01:03:39

what it comes down to. Right? Like, Allah

01:03:39 --> 01:03:40

is the determiner

01:03:41 --> 01:03:42

of,

01:03:42 --> 01:03:44

like, all of these things, not not me.

01:03:45 --> 01:03:45

Do you know?

01:03:46 --> 01:03:48

Does that make sense? Yeah. And

01:03:48 --> 01:03:50

I have to be content with the idea

01:03:50 --> 01:03:51

that my comprehension

01:03:52 --> 01:03:53

is not an ingredient

01:03:54 --> 01:03:57

to its goodness being validated.

01:03:57 --> 01:03:59

Do you know? Yeah. Like, it doesn't need

01:03:59 --> 01:04:02

me to comprehend it or to be its

01:04:02 --> 01:04:04

validator. Right. It's like what it is because

01:04:04 --> 01:04:06

Allah said that that's what it is. Do

01:04:06 --> 01:04:08

you know? Yes. So by taking that right

01:04:08 --> 01:04:10

let's say I was somebody who's just I'm

01:04:10 --> 01:04:13

not very, like, averse to violence in every

01:04:13 --> 01:04:15

way. I'm coming at this time, and I

01:04:15 --> 01:04:18

come across this high that talks about, you

01:04:18 --> 01:04:18

know,

01:04:20 --> 01:04:22

striking down where we might might and then

01:04:22 --> 01:04:23

and then I think when you say, I'm

01:04:23 --> 01:04:24

like, okay.

01:04:25 --> 01:04:26

I can't understand. Well, the contextualization

01:04:27 --> 01:04:29

part is where you were wrong. The contextualization

01:04:29 --> 01:04:30

part is not contextualizing

01:04:31 --> 01:04:32

back to you. Right? Contextualization

01:04:33 --> 01:04:34

is contextualizing in the text.

01:04:35 --> 01:04:37

Right? Like, what was when was the verse

01:04:37 --> 01:04:39

revealed and what context? When was the hadith

01:04:39 --> 01:04:43

revealed, like, or said, like, in what space?

01:04:43 --> 01:04:45

Do you know what I mean? It's not

01:04:45 --> 01:04:46

just, like, what does it mean to me

01:04:46 --> 01:04:49

in my context? It's, like, what was happening

01:04:49 --> 01:04:51

when this happened? Do you know? So they

01:04:51 --> 01:04:54

weren't sitting celebrating Eve. Right? And so that's

01:04:54 --> 01:04:56

where the context of that verse gets taken

01:04:56 --> 01:04:59

out because it's just read very

01:04:59 --> 01:05:00

simplistically.

01:05:00 --> 01:05:02

Right? I'll go back and explain it to

01:05:02 --> 01:05:03

people again.

01:05:03 --> 01:05:05

Oh, it's just the That makes sense? Yeah.

01:05:07 --> 01:05:07

Okay.

01:05:08 --> 01:05:10

Let's come back. So

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I wanna clarify one thing really quickly. Right?

01:05:15 --> 01:05:16

Like, our tradition,

01:05:17 --> 01:05:18

when you do tafsir

01:05:19 --> 01:05:22

of a text, that's kind of commentary on

01:05:22 --> 01:05:23

Quran, it's an exegetical

01:05:23 --> 01:05:24

analysis.

01:05:25 --> 01:05:27

Right? You're drawing meaning from the text,

01:05:28 --> 01:05:30

exegetical. Right? It's got x in it like

01:05:30 --> 01:05:31

exit or extra.

01:05:32 --> 01:05:34

You know, you're taking out of. What a

01:05:34 --> 01:05:36

lot of people do today is more isegetical.

01:05:37 --> 01:05:40

They formulate an argument, and then they pick

01:05:40 --> 01:05:43

verses and hadith to prove the argument. You

01:05:43 --> 01:05:44

could turn a book into anything

01:05:45 --> 01:05:47

that you want to. Right? And that's like

01:05:47 --> 01:05:49

any book. You can turn it into whatever.

01:05:49 --> 01:05:50

If there's no contextualization,

01:05:51 --> 01:05:53

you just cherry pick things. This is what

01:05:53 --> 01:05:55

people do today. Look at, like, how

01:05:56 --> 01:05:58

there is media that splices

01:05:59 --> 01:06:00

people's comments

01:06:00 --> 01:06:01

into sound bites

01:06:01 --> 01:06:05

that are, like, 6, 7 seconds long. It's

01:06:05 --> 01:06:06

like this person said this,

01:06:07 --> 01:06:09

and it just takes out, like, a sentence

01:06:09 --> 01:06:11

and a paragraph or whatever else.

01:06:11 --> 01:06:13

That's where a reductive approach to Islam is

01:06:13 --> 01:06:14

problematic,

01:06:14 --> 01:06:17

and it lends itself towards the behaviors

01:06:17 --> 01:06:19

that those men that I told you that

01:06:19 --> 01:06:20

I met in the Maldives,

01:06:20 --> 01:06:23

they take a verse and they say, This

01:06:23 --> 01:06:23

justifies

01:06:24 --> 01:06:27

our violence against people. Right? But they're not

01:06:27 --> 01:06:27

contextualizing

01:06:28 --> 01:06:31

the verse. There's a relationship between text and

01:06:31 --> 01:06:31

context.

01:06:32 --> 01:06:33

Do you know what I mean? And this

01:06:33 --> 01:06:35

becomes the limits on a methodology

01:06:36 --> 01:06:37

that says this is what it is, and

01:06:37 --> 01:06:40

that's just what it must mean. I only

01:06:40 --> 01:06:42

take it without any contextualization.

01:06:43 --> 01:06:45

Do you know? And hadith like this, when

01:06:45 --> 01:06:48

you don't contextualize them, they then become the

01:06:48 --> 01:06:49

grounds

01:06:49 --> 01:06:52

for a lot of things that we see

01:06:52 --> 01:06:53

people have done

01:06:54 --> 01:06:56

that go outside of what our religion allows

01:06:56 --> 01:06:58

for. Does that make

01:06:58 --> 01:06:59

sense?

01:06:59 --> 01:07:00

Yeah?

01:07:00 --> 01:07:02

Okay, what do we talk about in the

01:07:02 --> 01:07:05

latter part of this verse? Right? You might

01:07:05 --> 01:07:07

dislike something and there's good in it for

01:07:07 --> 01:07:10

you. Right? You might like something and it's

01:07:10 --> 01:07:12

not good for you. Allah knows and you

01:07:12 --> 01:07:13

do not know.

01:07:14 --> 01:07:16

How is this like, relevant? Why is this

01:07:16 --> 01:07:18

an important thing for us to build a

01:07:18 --> 01:07:21

relationship with? Like this verse of Surah Baqarah,

01:07:21 --> 01:07:23

what do you take from it? What does

01:07:23 --> 01:07:24

it evoke? What do you discuss?

01:07:26 --> 01:07:27

Yeah.

01:08:08 --> 01:08:11

Yeah. It's an amazing example. Right? Exercise.

01:08:11 --> 01:08:13

I go to the gym in the morning

01:08:14 --> 01:08:16

and my wife one day, she said to

01:08:16 --> 01:08:17

me,

01:08:17 --> 01:08:19

like, do you like going to the gym?

01:08:19 --> 01:08:21

And I said, yeah, I do. And then

01:08:21 --> 01:08:23

after I came back up from the gym,

01:08:23 --> 01:08:24

I said, I don't know why I said

01:08:24 --> 01:08:26

that to you. I don't like going to

01:08:26 --> 01:08:28

the gym. Right? But my intentionality is rooted

01:08:28 --> 01:08:31

in wellness. At this stage in my life,

01:08:31 --> 01:08:32

it's not an intentionality

01:08:32 --> 01:08:33

of vanity,

01:08:34 --> 01:08:35

but I know my head is a lot

01:08:35 --> 01:08:38

clearer and my body feels a lot better

01:08:38 --> 01:08:40

when I am exerting

01:08:41 --> 01:08:41

exercise.

01:08:42 --> 01:08:44

But it's not because I typically enjoy

01:08:45 --> 01:08:46

the experience of exercising.

01:08:47 --> 01:08:50

You might dislike something, and there's good in

01:08:50 --> 01:08:50

it for you.

01:08:51 --> 01:08:52

Draw that parallel

01:08:53 --> 01:08:56

and analogize it to things that are attached

01:08:56 --> 01:08:57

to, like, anything.

01:08:58 --> 01:08:58

Do you know?

01:08:59 --> 01:09:02

And if you get up and go right

01:09:02 --> 01:09:04

back to bed, right,

01:09:04 --> 01:09:07

like, what are you liking that there's not

01:09:08 --> 01:09:10

good in it for you? Do you know?

01:09:12 --> 01:09:14

The emotions are not gonna define

01:09:14 --> 01:09:16

the goodness. Just because you feel something,

01:09:17 --> 01:09:19

that always isn't necessarily the indicator

01:09:20 --> 01:09:22

of whether it's good or bad.

01:09:23 --> 01:09:25

You can love something and it's terrible for

01:09:25 --> 01:09:26

you.

01:09:26 --> 01:09:28

And you can dislike something and it's the

01:09:28 --> 01:09:29

best thing for you.

01:09:31 --> 01:09:32

How do I start to reconcile

01:09:33 --> 01:09:35

and bring logic to emotion?

01:09:40 --> 01:09:42

It can't be as you're experiencing the emotion.

01:09:43 --> 01:09:45

Right? Like, if you've ever sat with me

01:09:45 --> 01:09:47

in my office, and we're talking about things

01:09:47 --> 01:09:49

where, like, most people that come and stay

01:09:49 --> 01:09:51

with me, they have no self care and

01:09:51 --> 01:09:54

emotions run them empty to a point where

01:09:54 --> 01:09:56

at their wits end, they're making decisions. And

01:09:56 --> 01:09:59

I'll say, you can't say to someone when

01:09:59 --> 01:10:01

they're drowning, how does it feel to drown?

01:10:02 --> 01:10:03

How will the person drowning be able to

01:10:03 --> 01:10:05

tell you what it's like to drown while

01:10:05 --> 01:10:06

they're drowning?

01:10:06 --> 01:10:07

Right?

01:10:07 --> 01:10:09

And even if they got out of the

01:10:09 --> 01:10:11

water, 10 seconds later, they're not gonna be

01:10:11 --> 01:10:12

able to articulate,

01:10:13 --> 01:10:15

like, how does it feel to drown? They'll

01:10:15 --> 01:10:16

need some time to process.

01:10:17 --> 01:10:18

You make knee jerk reactions

01:10:19 --> 01:10:21

in response to it,

01:10:21 --> 01:10:23

then this verse

01:10:23 --> 01:10:25

quite often manifests.

01:10:26 --> 01:10:28

You're engaging in the pursuit of something that's

01:10:28 --> 01:10:31

not good for you, and you like it,

01:10:31 --> 01:10:34

and that in and of itself is what

01:10:34 --> 01:10:36

defines it. I feel like something. Do you

01:10:36 --> 01:10:38

know what I mean? I can sit here

01:10:39 --> 01:10:39

and like

01:10:40 --> 01:10:42

eat, you know, a crazy amount of food

01:10:42 --> 01:10:45

that makes me feel great. Why don't I

01:10:45 --> 01:10:47

just eat, like, candy all the time?

01:10:47 --> 01:10:49

Do you know? I'm 41 years old. Can

01:10:49 --> 01:10:51

you imagine what it would be like? I

01:10:51 --> 01:10:53

used to sometimes, man, when I was younger,

01:10:54 --> 01:10:56

like, have milkshakes for breakfast.

01:10:56 --> 01:10:59

You know? I loved it. It was great.

01:10:59 --> 01:11:01

And when I was, like, younger, even younger,

01:11:02 --> 01:11:03

I was trained to be an athlete, I

01:11:03 --> 01:11:05

had my own trainer, I was working out

01:11:05 --> 01:11:08

3 times a day. There was sometimes for

01:11:08 --> 01:11:08

breakfast,

01:11:09 --> 01:11:11

I would eat half a dozen donuts.

01:11:11 --> 01:11:13

Do you know? But it didn't do anything

01:11:13 --> 01:11:15

because I was burning it off in these,

01:11:15 --> 01:11:17

like, workouts. I don't work out like that

01:11:17 --> 01:11:20

anymore. Clearly, like, I don't work out like

01:11:20 --> 01:11:21

this anymore.

01:11:21 --> 01:11:23

Could I still eat the donuts

01:11:24 --> 01:11:25

for breakfast every day?

01:11:26 --> 01:11:28

Yeah. But I would probably die next year

01:11:28 --> 01:11:28

then.

01:11:29 --> 01:11:30

Right? Do you

01:11:32 --> 01:11:35

know? My enjoyment of it doesn't become the

01:11:35 --> 01:11:36

basis of its goodness.

01:11:37 --> 01:11:38

Do you get what I mean?

01:11:39 --> 01:11:41

You might enjoy whatever it is that keeps

01:11:41 --> 01:11:43

you from praying your prayer.

01:11:43 --> 01:11:46

That doesn't mean that it's good for you.

01:11:46 --> 01:11:48

The fact that you liked it.

01:11:49 --> 01:11:51

You might enjoy joking around with your friends

01:11:51 --> 01:11:53

at the expense of others.

01:11:53 --> 01:11:55

Just because you laugh doesn't mean that that

01:11:55 --> 01:11:56

was good for you.

01:11:58 --> 01:12:01

People might feel good about being racist.

01:12:02 --> 01:12:04

They're gonna be in for a rude awakening,

01:12:04 --> 01:12:05

man. That law will make it easy for

01:12:05 --> 01:12:06

all of us.

01:12:07 --> 01:12:09

Just because it feels a certain way,

01:12:10 --> 01:12:12

doesn't mean that that's what

01:12:12 --> 01:12:13

qualitatively

01:12:14 --> 01:12:14

identifies

01:12:15 --> 01:12:16

as goodness.

01:12:17 --> 01:12:18

So you dislike it,

01:12:19 --> 01:12:21

doesn't mean that there's not good in it

01:12:21 --> 01:12:21

for you.

01:12:22 --> 01:12:24

Just because you like it, that doesn't make

01:12:24 --> 01:12:26

it what makes it good for you. Do

01:12:26 --> 01:12:29

Do you get what I mean? In tawfiq,

01:12:29 --> 01:12:30

success in our religion

01:12:31 --> 01:12:33

is when what you want aligns with what

01:12:33 --> 01:12:34

Allah wants.

01:12:35 --> 01:12:37

Not with just what you want and what

01:12:37 --> 01:12:38

you want, or what you want and the

01:12:38 --> 01:12:41

dunya wants, or what you want and your

01:12:41 --> 01:12:43

culture wants. Right? It's when what you want

01:12:43 --> 01:12:46

and what Allah wants, those things align. And

01:12:46 --> 01:12:48

the verse is telling the prophet

01:12:48 --> 01:12:51

that this is something that you gotta do

01:12:52 --> 01:12:53

even if you don't like it.

01:12:54 --> 01:12:57

And you might dislike something, but there's still

01:12:57 --> 01:12:58

good in it.

01:12:58 --> 01:12:59

Does that make sense?

01:13:01 --> 01:13:03

What else do we take away from this

01:13:03 --> 01:13:05

verse? Maybe like 1 or 2 people before

01:13:05 --> 01:13:07

we wrap up. Yeah.

01:13:08 --> 01:13:10

I think for me, this first comes from

01:13:10 --> 01:13:12

handy when, like, calamity strikes going through something

01:13:13 --> 01:13:15

or, like, hardship shows up. I think it's,

01:13:15 --> 01:13:17

like, it's a it's an opportunity to look

01:13:17 --> 01:13:19

for good in in a passage or anything.

01:13:19 --> 01:13:21

But pretty helpful in those.

01:13:21 --> 01:13:22

Amazing. Right?

01:13:23 --> 01:13:24

A part of spiritual

01:13:24 --> 01:13:26

exercise the companions engaged in

01:13:27 --> 01:13:29

was the waiting for the ease.

01:13:30 --> 01:13:31

So when you have the verse

01:13:35 --> 01:13:36

then indeed

01:13:36 --> 01:13:37

with difficulty,

01:13:38 --> 01:13:39

there comes ease.

01:13:39 --> 01:13:41

With difficulty, there comes ease.

01:13:42 --> 01:13:45

A practice that they had, when difficulty came,

01:13:46 --> 01:13:47

they anticipated

01:13:47 --> 01:13:48

the ease.

01:13:48 --> 01:13:51

They were waiting for the ease, not like

01:13:51 --> 01:13:53

I'm gonna sit and wait for it, but

01:13:53 --> 01:13:56

they knew that Allah's promise is true. So

01:13:56 --> 01:13:59

with difficulty, there comes ease. The difficulty ensues,

01:14:00 --> 01:14:02

let me look for, like, the benefit,

01:14:02 --> 01:14:05

the khair that comes into it. Do you

01:14:05 --> 01:14:07

see what I mean? Right? So the affair

01:14:07 --> 01:14:10

of the believer is ajeeb, the hadith says.

01:14:10 --> 01:14:13

Right? It's wondrous. It's strange

01:14:13 --> 01:14:16

that when something good happens, they praise the

01:14:16 --> 01:14:19

divine, and there's good in that. And when

01:14:19 --> 01:14:20

misfortune befalls them,

01:14:21 --> 01:14:23

they patiently persevere, and there's good in that.

01:14:24 --> 01:14:26

These are not metrics of assessment

01:14:26 --> 01:14:27

to render self deprecation.

01:14:28 --> 01:14:29

They're aspirational

01:14:29 --> 01:14:30

tools.

01:14:30 --> 01:14:33

But what this verse is saying also, just

01:14:33 --> 01:14:35

in the interest of time, in addition to

01:14:35 --> 01:14:37

the 2 things, 3 things we've talked about,

01:14:37 --> 01:14:40

is that you can't make sense of emotions

01:14:41 --> 01:14:42

as you experience them.

01:14:43 --> 01:14:46

So they're valid, but you give yourself the

01:14:46 --> 01:14:49

space. So it's also talking about, like processes

01:14:49 --> 01:14:52

of building self care. How do you get

01:14:52 --> 01:14:53

back to homeostasis

01:14:54 --> 01:14:56

so that you can comprehend with the best

01:14:56 --> 01:14:59

of yourself and not in the immediate? Right?

01:14:59 --> 01:15:01

If I got a phone call right now

01:15:01 --> 01:15:02

from my mother

01:15:02 --> 01:15:04

saying that, God forbid, my father went to

01:15:04 --> 01:15:04

the hospital,

01:15:05 --> 01:15:07

and it put me in an emotional state,

01:15:07 --> 01:15:09

and I said to all of you, maybe

01:15:09 --> 01:15:11

I should quit my job, maybe I should

01:15:11 --> 01:15:13

go move to where my parents live, some

01:15:13 --> 01:15:15

of you would probably say, maybe right now

01:15:15 --> 01:15:17

is not the time to make a decision.

01:15:18 --> 01:15:20

But how many decisions do you make in

01:15:20 --> 01:15:21

response to the feelings?

01:15:22 --> 01:15:24

How can you look for the good and

01:15:24 --> 01:15:25

the difficulty

01:15:26 --> 01:15:29

without presence and consciousness and wakefulness?

01:15:29 --> 01:15:30

That can't happen immediately

01:15:31 --> 01:15:31

always,

01:15:32 --> 01:15:34

but to practice forbearance

01:15:35 --> 01:15:38

as a tool for increasing in forbearance.

01:15:39 --> 01:15:40

So the vehicle

01:15:40 --> 01:15:42

to increase in the virtue quite often is

01:15:42 --> 01:15:45

the virtue itself. So you wanna be more

01:15:45 --> 01:15:47

patient. The way to be more patient is

01:15:47 --> 01:15:48

by being patient.

01:15:49 --> 01:15:51

Right? You wanna increase in compassion.

01:15:51 --> 01:15:54

The vehicle for being compassionate is compassion, and

01:15:54 --> 01:15:57

it applies also back to the self. If

01:15:57 --> 01:15:59

you wanna be kinder to yourself, then you

01:15:59 --> 01:16:00

gotta be kind to yourself.

01:16:01 --> 01:16:03

If You wanna be forgiving of yourself, then

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you have to be forgiving of yourself.

01:16:05 --> 01:16:07

And you take it incrementally.

01:16:08 --> 01:16:10

And vices work the same way. If you're

01:16:10 --> 01:16:12

a jerk to someone,

01:16:12 --> 01:16:14

then increasing in your jerkiness

01:16:15 --> 01:16:17

comes by being a jerk more often. You

01:16:17 --> 01:16:20

practice the vice more, you're gonna get better

01:16:20 --> 01:16:22

at it, and it's gonna become more habituated.

01:16:22 --> 01:16:23

Do you get what I mean?

01:16:24 --> 01:16:27

So you might like gossiping about people. There's

01:16:27 --> 01:16:29

no good in it.

01:16:29 --> 01:16:31

Just because you like it and it felt

01:16:31 --> 01:16:34

nice, it built trust between you and your

01:16:34 --> 01:16:36

friend. Let me tell you something that you

01:16:36 --> 01:16:39

can't tell anybody else, I feel a bond

01:16:39 --> 01:16:41

with you now because you're sharing with me

01:16:41 --> 01:16:44

something that no one else knows. Right?

01:16:44 --> 01:16:46

It doesn't change the fact that it's a

01:16:46 --> 01:16:47

terrible thing,

01:16:47 --> 01:16:49

and you're killing your own heart.

01:16:50 --> 01:16:50

Do you know?

01:16:54 --> 01:16:55

The Prophet has

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a companion

01:16:57 --> 01:16:59

whose name is, Abu Damdam

01:17:00 --> 01:17:00

And

01:17:01 --> 01:17:03

when Abu Dhamdham would find out that people

01:17:04 --> 01:17:05

gossiped about him,

01:17:06 --> 01:17:07

right, like in our tradition,

01:17:07 --> 01:17:09

if you gossip about someone,

01:17:10 --> 01:17:12

you get sins on your record, and your

01:17:12 --> 01:17:15

good deeds get transferred into their account

01:17:15 --> 01:17:16

as, like, expiation.

01:17:17 --> 01:17:19

Like, that's just what it is. Right?

01:17:23 --> 01:17:26

Because he had a control over himself emotionally,

01:17:26 --> 01:17:28

and he would people the prophet would tell

01:17:28 --> 01:17:29

people, be like this man.

01:17:30 --> 01:17:32

Somebody spoke poorly about him.

01:17:32 --> 01:17:34

He would say, like,

01:17:34 --> 01:17:36

your deeds are given back to you as

01:17:36 --> 01:17:37

a.

01:17:37 --> 01:17:40

You know? And this is a upon you.

01:17:41 --> 01:17:42

Like, I don't need I don't want your

01:17:42 --> 01:17:44

deeds. You can just take them back. I'm

01:17:44 --> 01:17:46

giving them back to you. Even though you

01:17:46 --> 01:17:48

gossiped about me, like, they're coming back to

01:17:48 --> 01:17:50

you. Do you get what I mean? Does

01:17:50 --> 01:17:53

that make sense? He knows what's pleasing to

01:17:53 --> 01:17:53

God.

01:17:54 --> 01:17:54

Do you know?

01:17:55 --> 01:17:57

Is that do you get what I mean?

01:17:57 --> 01:17:59

I'm not the arbitrator

01:18:00 --> 01:18:00

of morality,

01:18:01 --> 01:18:02

Allah is.

01:18:02 --> 01:18:04

This is not a religion rooted in moral

01:18:04 --> 01:18:05

relativism.

01:18:06 --> 01:18:08

You can struggle with certain things. That's a

01:18:08 --> 01:18:09

part of it.

01:18:10 --> 01:18:12

Right? There's not any one of us in

01:18:12 --> 01:18:14

this room that if we had a conversation

01:18:14 --> 01:18:16

together, that it wouldn't be 2 sinners speaking

01:18:16 --> 01:18:17

to each other.

01:18:18 --> 01:18:20

Each one of us would fit into that.

01:18:20 --> 01:18:21

Do you get what I mean?

01:18:24 --> 01:18:26

And it can apply back in that frame

01:18:26 --> 01:18:29

as well. You might dislike something, but there's

01:18:29 --> 01:18:31

still good in it. You might not like

01:18:31 --> 01:18:33

yourself, but there's still good in you.

01:18:35 --> 01:18:37

You have to be able to see yourself

01:18:37 --> 01:18:39

the way Allah sees you. Do you get

01:18:39 --> 01:18:41

what I mean? Does that make sense?

01:18:41 --> 01:18:44

Okay. We're gonna take a pause here. The

01:18:44 --> 01:18:46

building hours have changed. So the building closes

01:18:46 --> 01:18:48

at 8, which is before Maghrib.

01:18:49 --> 01:18:51

Right? So why we're starting at 6 is

01:18:51 --> 01:18:53

because we have to give people enough time

01:18:53 --> 01:18:55

to leave so you can get some place

01:18:55 --> 01:18:57

to pray Maghrib. We're trying to get them

01:18:57 --> 01:18:59

to extend the building hours. This is another

01:18:59 --> 01:19:01

reason why we're not doing the tatars here

01:19:01 --> 01:19:02

on Mondays Thursdays.

01:19:03 --> 01:19:05

So tatars after Maghrib, and we can't be

01:19:05 --> 01:19:07

here at Maghrib time. Do you know? In

01:19:07 --> 01:19:09

the long term, as we build up, like,

01:19:09 --> 01:19:11

a core group at this time, 6 o'clock,

01:19:11 --> 01:19:13

it'd be amazing. You know, if some of

01:19:13 --> 01:19:16

us can ideate how it is that maybe

01:19:16 --> 01:19:17

every so often on a Monday,

01:19:18 --> 01:19:21

we, like, pray together in the park or

01:19:21 --> 01:19:23

outside somewhere, and then we all go have

01:19:23 --> 01:19:24

iftar together. Right?

01:19:25 --> 01:19:27

You know? If that sounds like a good

01:19:27 --> 01:19:28

idea. But if any of you feel like

01:19:28 --> 01:19:30

that'd be interesting, even if it's just for

01:19:30 --> 01:19:32

a handful of us, it doesn't have to

01:19:32 --> 01:19:34

be with everybody. You know? We can figure

01:19:34 --> 01:19:36

that out, so we maintain that. Going into

01:19:36 --> 01:19:38

this summer, we're gonna also start doing some

01:19:38 --> 01:19:41

halakas in some, like, parks outdoors in different

01:19:41 --> 01:19:43

places as well as As the weather gets

01:19:43 --> 01:19:45

warmer more consistently, but

01:19:45 --> 01:19:46

we're gonna,

01:19:47 --> 01:19:49

have this halakah at this time,

01:19:50 --> 01:19:53

until hopefully we're able to change. Maybe we'll

01:19:53 --> 01:19:54

add Iftar

01:19:54 --> 01:19:55

back to it.

01:19:57 --> 01:19:59

We have these other programs that we're doing.

01:20:00 --> 01:20:02

Again, everything will end before Maghrib time,

01:20:03 --> 01:20:05

and in time for people to leave for

01:20:05 --> 01:20:06

Maghrib.

01:20:07 --> 01:20:09

So doctor Murmur will do tomorrow.

01:20:10 --> 01:20:11

And on Wednesday,

01:20:12 --> 01:20:13

I'm gonna do the seerajalika,

01:20:14 --> 01:20:16

and Shake Fowls will do Thursdays. On Fridays,

01:20:16 --> 01:20:18

we'll do some other stuff. And on the

01:20:18 --> 01:20:20

weekends, we'll be doing things around, like, New

01:20:20 --> 01:20:23

York City. So just look out for those

01:20:23 --> 01:20:25

things. Okay. So

01:20:25 --> 01:20:29

before we break, any other announcements people wanna

01:20:29 --> 01:20:31

make? Let people know about anything?

01:20:32 --> 01:20:33

Yes? No?

01:20:34 --> 01:20:36

So we're gonna continue with this hadith,

01:20:37 --> 01:20:39

next time and get into, like, the crux

01:20:39 --> 01:20:41

of it. So all we talked about was,

01:20:42 --> 01:20:44

and we looked at this verse. Go home

01:20:44 --> 01:20:46

and spend some time with the hadith as

01:20:46 --> 01:20:47

well as look at this verse of Surah

01:20:47 --> 01:20:48

Baqarah.

01:20:48 --> 01:20:51

And, inshallah, we'll see everybody next Monday. If

01:20:51 --> 01:20:52

you can put the chairs back against the

01:20:52 --> 01:20:54

wall before you leave, we appreciate it.

01:21:03 --> 01:21:05

Are you gonna be coming? Yeah.

01:21:07 --> 01:21:09

Hi. I'm trying to hang up. How are

01:21:09 --> 01:21:10

you doing? I'm like Give me one second,

01:21:10 --> 01:21:13

Sam. Everything's just on the live stream right

01:21:13 --> 01:21:14

now. I don't know if you wanna be

01:21:14 --> 01:21:15

on that or not.

01:21:17 --> 01:21:17

Hey,

01:21:19 --> 01:21:20

How are you doing?

01:21:21 --> 01:21:23

Let me just turn this off really quick.

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