Khalid Latif – Five Wisdoms Part 22

Khalid Latif
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The importance of understanding the word zipper in Islam is emphasized, along with the need to be mindful of one's behavior and not engage in evil activities. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of treating others in a non-equitable manner. The speaker stresses the need to not waste people's time and instead act upon what they have been taught and practice. Additionally, the speaker encourages individuals to not forget about personal relationships and allow others to take their own advice.
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We try to understand how can the word

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actually and effectively be a dua and what

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the shiuk say is that when you say

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this word Alhamdulillah,

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when you praise Allah, Azawajal, saying Alhamdulillah,

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that all praises to you, You Rabbi You

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Allah, not only are you praising him for

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what he has given to you, but in

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effect you are asking him that, you Allah,

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give me more so that I can continue

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to praise you for what you have given

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to me.

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But we forget the namaz and the blessings

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and all we focus upon our shortcomings and

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flaws that really have no effect on us

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in the long term at all.

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Thereafter the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wasallam, thirdly, he

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says to Abu Harayra,

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That be good, be kind to your neighbors.

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You will be a believer.

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And in this day and age, when we

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try to understand primarily what we have to

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understand from this point is the word asan

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itself. That the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam in

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the Hadith Jibrael, he is asked by the

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angel Jibrael that what is this thing of

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Hassan? What is this thing of Hassan?

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And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he

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says that it is to act in such

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a way that you that you can see

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Allah, azza wa jal. That you worship, you

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live your life in a way that you

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can actually see Allah, azza wa jal. For

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you understand the fact that you cannot see

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him, but he can see you.

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That when you treat someone with Hassan, when

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you treat them with the kindness, when you

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treat them with the respect and the generosity

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that is due to them, this is the

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way the prophet alayhi salaam is prescribed for

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us as Muslims, as believers to actually believe.

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That indeed Allah

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has prescribed this thing of asana and everything.

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And before we would even understand how we

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as human beings should be treating each other,

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let alone our neighbors, let alone the people

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in the community that we have or we

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are a part of, we would see that

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even in our deen, even in the law,

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we have mandates as to how we would

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prescribe asaan on the treatment of animals.

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Then the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam on one

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occasion, he sees one of his Sahabis with

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a knife in his hand and a goat

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in his other hand that he's about to

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slaughter with a knife and he goes to

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the Sahabi and reprimands him saying that, why

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are you torturing this poor animal? That the

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animal knows that you will take its life

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by this thing. You are not honoring the

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rights of the animal by doing so. That

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Umar radhiallahu an on one occasion, he sees

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a man that is about to slaughter an

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animal, a lamb, and he puts the lamb

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on the ground and he holds the lamb

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down with his foot And Umar

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goes to the man and starts beating him.

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And he says, Yeah, Umar, why are you

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hitting me? Why are you beating me? And

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Umar says that, why are you disrespecting this

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animal? Who are you to not honor its

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rights?

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And if this is the way our deen

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is telling us to treat those things that

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we actually consume, what do we think is

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the manner in which we should be treating

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the community in which we are living in?

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And right now there are so many who

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are trying to understand our deen. There are

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so many who are trying to understand the

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way of Islam, not

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And

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keeping us from going out and educating

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them about what our deen really stands for

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and all they have to go on is

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what they read in the headlines and what

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they see on the television,

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is because we are not honoring the rights

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of our neighbors. We are not honoring the

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rights of the community in which we are

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part of. We are not engaging the society

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in the way that we need to do.

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And the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he is

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telling Abu Horeira, be kind to your neighbors.

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You will be a believer.

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And thereafter he says to him,

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Muslim.

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The love for man kind which you love

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for yourself, you will then be a Muslim.

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And we would see even the point before

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this and the point after the prophet alaihis

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salam is making a distinction between iman and

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Islam and in the interest of time, we

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can't really go into it. But the prophet

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alaihis salam here is saying that and it

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it echoes the hadith that he tells us

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also that we will not enter into paradise

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until we love for our brothers what we

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love for ourselves.

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And so when we are engaging on a

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daily practice, when we are going out and

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engaging the society in the world in which

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we are part of, we should not be

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treating other people. We should not be treating

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individuals in a manner in which we don't

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want to be treated ourselves.

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I like to eat a certain food. I

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like to wake up at a certain hour.

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I like to watch a certain kind of

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TV show. I like to have a certain

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security, a certain comfort in my life. So

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too with the people around us.

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And so we have to treat the people

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in the way that we want to be

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treated. It might sound very elementary, but here

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the prophet alaihis salam is recommending it to

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Sahabi, and he is telling him to go

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out and tell the people after you as

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well that they need to do so also.

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And again, it is something that we have

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forgotten.

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It's all about me. It's all about myself.

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It's never about the other person that the

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prophet is the personification, the epitome of selflessness

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to the extent that this man, Muhammad ibn

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Abdullah

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that when he leaves from this world, when

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all of us leave from this world and

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we're going and standing in front of Allah

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on that day, and the only thing that

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we're thinking about is ourselves

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running here and there in utter chaos saying,

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myself, myself. The prophet alaihi wasalam's voice alone

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will be standing over everyone saying, Ummati, Ummati,

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my Ummah, my Ummah.

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His only role was to serve the people

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around him.

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And here he is telling his companion that

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don't think only of yourself, but think of

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the people around you and treat them in

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a manner in which you would want to

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be treated.

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And thereafter, he tells Abu Herrera lastly and

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fifthly,

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that do not laugh very much

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because indeed laughter, excessive

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laughter will weaken your heart. It will cause

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your heart to die.

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That in another hadith, the prophet

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he makes our nafs, he makes our kalb

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analogous to land.

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And he would say that the things of

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this world, the laughter and the mirth and

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all of these kind of things, it would

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actually dry this land.

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But in order for it to have some

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kind of vegetation, for order it to have

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some kind of viruses, some kind of life,

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for it to have the rains of mercy

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shower upon it, it will require the individual

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to actually shed the tears that would water

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that and cause the sustenance and the growth

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to come out of it.

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And so by no means is the prophet

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alaihi salam telling us to be the somber

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and serious individuals that we have become where

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we cannot engage the society around us, we

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end up engaging them in a very awkward

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way either coming into a place where we

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are highly exclusive or going to a point

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where nobody wants to talk to us.

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But amidst the amusements, amidst the laughter, amidst

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all of the joyous occasions, we should also

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take the point in the night, the time

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to think and reflect and let a tear

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roll from our face. Let our tears come

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down from our face and reflect upon everything

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and anything that Allah has given to us.

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Whether there are tears of mercy, whether there

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are tears of fear, we should allow our

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faces to never be dry. The male

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law of protect us from eyes that are

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dry. But these are the things that we

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have to reflect upon.

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And we are in a situation now where

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we are not doing any of it.

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That the prophet, alayhis salam, he is not

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reflecting. He is not recommending to his Sahabi

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that, yeah, Abu Hureira,

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go out and pray a 1000 nights.

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Go out and pray a 1000 rakas every

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night of your life.

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You Abu Huraira, go out and tell the

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people that at every single month of their

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life, they should be making a pilgrimage to

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the house of Allah.

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That you Abu Hurairah, go out and tell

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the people that they should be fasting every

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other day of the week. That you Abu

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Hurairah, go out and tell the people that

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they should be committing the Quran and they

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should be carrying it in their hearts, memorization,

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all of these kind of things. Yeah, Abu

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Hurairah, go out and tell the people to

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engage in ritualistic practice.

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But when the prophet alaihis salam has asked

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his sahabis, he has asked his companions, when

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he is leaving behind his advices, when he

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is leaving behind his legacy, when he is

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leaving behind his recommendations,

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his word, he is telling his Sahabi and

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in turn telling that Sahabi to go out

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and let it be known amongst the entire

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community so the likes of you and I,

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1400 years later can still be talking about

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it that just treat the people good.

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They just have a good character, have a

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good personality that, yes, we can't ever undermine

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the ritualistic practice and the obligations that are

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upon us in terms of our 5 daily

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prayers, in terms of fasting the month of

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Ramadan, in terms of performing the pilgrimage to

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the house of Allah in Mecca, and in

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terms of giving of zakat and charity to

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provide social equity in the community.

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But we should also not forget about the

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internal things. We should not also forget about

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the manner in which we have relations amongst

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the people that we are around. We should

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not forget about the way we treat one

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another.

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That the prophet, alayhis salaam, when he is

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standing on the day of Arafah and the

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blessed place of Arafah near the confines of

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the city of Mecca in the month of

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Dhul Hijjah, he asked his companions. He asked

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his people that what place is this? What

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month is this? What day is this? And

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when they respond to him in accord, he

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tells them that the way that you treat

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one another, the rights that you have over

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each other, they are more sacred than this

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day, in this month, in this place.

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And we have forgotten it today.

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He left behind us no male relatives that

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he had as his sons. He left behind

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us none of the people that could say

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that I am the son of Muhammad ibn

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Abdullah.

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He did not have to leave a legacy

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like this the way that the people behind

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him had to leave behind.

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That they were remembered only by the fact

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that they had children that would say that

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look at who my father was, look at

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who my grandfather was.

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But the prophet to

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this day, he is being praised because of

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the things that he had left behind for

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the likes of you and I in terms

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of the wisdoms that he had taught us

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about.

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We have to become those individuals that reflect

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upon these advices and seek to implement them

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into our lives. That the prophet

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on that day,

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you act upon this and you teach the

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who will to practice it. Now

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if how you and I heard it, we

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should strive to become people who will as

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we act upon it. Well, man, that he

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had recommended. He had said, Quran, the Yeah

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Abi, let us stay away from the haram.

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It will be of the most virtuous of

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people. The

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will be amongst

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the

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people. Neighbors with to your mind. Be kind.

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You will your neighbors

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be a believer. They love for what you

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love. The people love for yourself. You will

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be.

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Don't don't want too much to live. Have

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excess that ex be laughter Excessive as your

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heart will cause your heart to

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weak and that we have to somewhat upon

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what you have the time to also to

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do may

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guide us and

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May he take us with knowledge that he

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benefits us. May he bless us with a

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to understand and implement that knowledge into our

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daily lives, and may he guide and bless

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us all.

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