Khalid Latif – A Blind Woman Taught Me How to See

Khalid Latif
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The speaker advises the audience to be affirming themselves and not just acknowledge the limitations of reality. They stress the importance of learning from the stories of people who see themselves and not just through their appearances. The speaker also emphasizes the need for affirmation and growth in one's personal growth.
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Man, how short am I? A blind woman

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just told me I'm short.

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So we had a conversation for a few

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moments. And as we wrapped up, this young

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woman who was blind, she couldn't see. She

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said to me, you know, I thought you'd

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be a lot taller.

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I said, what?

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And she said, your voice, it's not coming

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from up here,

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but it's coming from down here.

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And I said, oh.

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And one of my students you

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understand

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Do you understand?

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And sometimes, we take the most simplistic

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level of understanding

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because all we're seeing is what it is

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that we see,

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but we're not getting to the depth of

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certain realities.

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How you see people is not indicative of

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who they

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are, but how you see people will tell

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you a lot about yourself.

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And if you perceive somebody solely through the

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way that they dress, the color of their

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skin, whether they have a certain accent or

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not,

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the fundamental question you have to ask yourself

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is why do you see it that way?

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Your organs of sensory perception, they are not

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limited to the eyes that you see with,

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the ears that you hear with, the tongues

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that you taste with, the hands that you

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touch with, even the minds that you think

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with.

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But you have a primary organ of cognition

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that will synthesize all of this information as

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it goes into you in various ways.

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If you don't know why it's processing in

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the way that it is,

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it's just gonna regurgitate the same challenges that

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we see day in and day out.

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Do you get what I'm saying?

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Our deepest strengths are not when we are

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apart,

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but only when we come together in ways

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that we uniquely can.

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And this is imperative to be able to

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reflect upon now because in your work, you

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will have full opportunity

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to decide who it is that you will

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serve and who it is that you will

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not serve.

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And you have to ask yourself today,

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what will somebody need to look like for

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me to not be there for them?

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What color of skin will they need to

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have? What will the texture of their hair

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need to be? What part of the world

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will they need to come from so that

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my education,

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my training,

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my skills

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will not be used for their benefit?

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What allows for the perpetration But

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so many more of us who have the

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ability to do something about it,

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But so many more of us who have

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the ability to do something about it,

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we simply sit back and do nothing.

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Don't hold back what it is that you

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have the unique ability to offer.

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That's the kind of goodness you want to

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be able to harness.

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Today, make an affirmation that your growth as

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you move forward on every tomorrow that you

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see will not be by understanding the other

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only through preconceived ideas and notions, but you

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will learn the stories of those that are

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different from you by actually being with them.

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To take time to understand that what it

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is that we are fed is not often

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what is reality,

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And the gain will not be only for

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those that will benefit from your presence,

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but your perspectives will broaden in ways that

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you can't even imagine.

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May you be protected always from hearts that

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are not humble, tongues that are not wise,

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and eyes that have forgotten to cry. You

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might be the only one that is standing

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when everyone else is seated.

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You might be the only one that is

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speaking when everyone else is silent.

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But you might be that critical voice, that

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critical body that ignites what is needed for

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everyone else to get going. Go forward and

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be the reason that people have hope in

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this world.

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