Karim Abuzaid – Umm Sulaym – An Everlasting Role Model

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The transcript is a jumbled mix of disconnected sentences and phrases, making it difficult to summarize. The discussion covers issues of marriage, acceptance of alcohol, and the loss of Islam in the US and UK. The importance of learning about Islam and finding a good person to be is emphasized, as well as the need for education and advice on personal and political issues. The segment also touches on the loss of Islam and the importance of protecting one's daughter from the Prophet sallama Alayhi wa Sallam.

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			In Alhamdulilah
		
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			Nakamoto who want to stay in wanna stop
		
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			when we learn him in Surah fusina woman sejati Amina Maja de la de la
		
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			sala de la
		
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			ilaha illallah wa de hula Sheree Kala
		
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			what a shadow Donna one avianna Mohammedan Abdullah he won a solo.
		
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			Yeah, yo holla de mano de la haka to party wala tomo tune in to the moon.
		
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			Yeah Johan suta hora de como la de Holla
		
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			Holla Holla caminhada jaha. Semin humare Jang Cathy wrong one is
		
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			what de la la la de
		
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			una de Waal
		
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			in namaha canon eco merkiva
		
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			Johan Latina, De La Hoya pulu Colin sadita. Useless lakum Malecon young
		
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			woman, Ella hora Sula, who cerca de
		
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			la Vina.
		
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			In the cul de Kitab LA or hiral. Heidi had you Mohamed Salah, la mala he was, he was a lamb
washougal moody mcdata to her wakulla des 13 bidda wakulla be docume Allah Allah, work will love
Allah Allah tin phenol.
		
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			Brothers and sisters in Islam
		
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			call Allahu taala Chiquita realizes fissara dakara
		
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			wala Tang Kiku sharika t Hata Yeoman
		
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			while Amma tune Mina tune hayoun min machinery cotton wala Jabba
		
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			Walla toon que el machete kena
		
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			wala
		
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			min Hyun min mushrik in Walla Walla, Java comm
		
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			Ola aka de Roon Illa na
		
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			one La Jolla de o Ll Jenna T one month one La Jolla Oh Ella fue el el Janaki Fiera TV evening while
you buy a new t healing naskila Allahu Mia Tata karoon
		
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			the meanings
		
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			of this verse
		
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			do not marry the mushrik women.
		
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			Indeed, as slave, a woman
		
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			who is a believer
		
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			is much better than a free mushrik woman.
		
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			Segment two of the verse
		
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			one while I turn key who do not give your daughters in marriage to Moshe rittman.
		
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			While ibutton minion
		
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			a slave man who is a believer
		
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			hiren minuti is much better than a missionary who's fee
		
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			even if you like the mushrik
		
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			Why? Both of those? The mushrik woman and the mushrik man.
		
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			Ola, aka the owner, Elena.
		
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			They call you to the hellfire.
		
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			And the other hand, if you follow the command of Allah subhanho wa Taala you will earn what Allah
subhana wa Taala is calling you to which is an agenda paradise. Well among Fira
		
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			and forgiveness
		
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			a very
		
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			shaky subject and I asked Allah subhana wa tada to bless me with guidance using my words
		
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			Today
		
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			and the reason I, I brought this subject up,
		
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			I received a phone call from a brother out of state not from here
		
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			asking me to talk to his daughter
		
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			who wants to marry a non Muslim.
		
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			And, you know, it's this is like the nightmare of a father.
		
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			And
		
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			it's really a nightmare.
		
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			I cannot imagine a father who believes at least 5050
		
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			would have to face such an experience.
		
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			And
		
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			I did my research and I'm just going to share with you what I shared with her.
		
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			And maybe at the end, we'll make dua for her that Allah Subhana Allah guide her heart.
		
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			This verse, brothers and sisters in Islam
		
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			has two rulings
		
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			in conjunction with another verse in Surah, tilma ada
		
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			in which Allah subhana wa Taala says, One musona to mean alladhina ooh till keytab I mean, publikum
		
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			and the chaste women
		
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			from those who are given the Scripture before you, meaning the Christians and the Jews, are lawful
for the men.
		
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			If you bought those two verses together,
		
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			you will come out with two rulings,
		
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			one for the men and one for the women.
		
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			As for the men,
		
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			it is lawful for a Muslim man
		
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			to marry
		
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			two categories of non Muslims.
		
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			A Jewish woman,
		
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			a Christian woman,
		
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			based on the verse, philosophical married, while most Sunnah to mean alladhina O'Toole kita, Domine
kubla Khan
		
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			and the chase, but underline that word chased
		
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			ch a s t. e, not Shay's from chasing
		
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			f Minal F, virtuous, virtuous women.
		
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			Women who do not commit adultery, women who are virgin
		
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			virginity in this society, it's a sign of imperfection that you're ugly
		
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			is not a good sign. Not in this society, but
		
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			in the society we live in.
		
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			We're talking about people talking about introducing sexual education to students in school.
		
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			I actually read a while back in New York, that they are debating distributing as a cola condoms to
primary school students.
		
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			So chase women from the table of the book underlying this, but they are lawful for you to marry.
		
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			That means a man who marries a Buddhist,
		
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			a Hindu
		
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			idol worshipper. This marriage is invalid in Islam. It's like committing adultery.
		
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			This is for men.
		
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			Have Allah reduce
		
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			the war about the women?
		
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			women
		
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			cannot marry Bara Muslim man.
		
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			I repeated again
		
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			and again and again and again and again. And I know this is a controversial contemporary issue.
		
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			And some people are casting doubts into the hearts of fathers regarding this issue.
		
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			Muslim females cannot marry
		
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			a Muslim man.
		
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			And if they do marry a non Muslim that will include a Christian,
		
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			a Jew.
		
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			idol worship any for
		
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			the sun, the moon, the cows, the trees.
		
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			It's invalid.
		
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			It's still legitimate marriage in Islam, it's like committing adultery.
		
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			This this issue raises the question
		
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			that a lot of non Muslims like to sing the blues once it comes to it
		
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			and to women
		
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			voting down women
		
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			why Muslim men
		
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			are allowed
		
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			to marry a Christian and a Jewish woman
		
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			and Muslim females cannot? And they asked you this question
		
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			inshallah I'm planning tomorrow in my lecture between Maghrib and Isha.
		
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			To answer the wisdom, why in details,
		
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			this is a hookah and normally it is not recommended to go over
		
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			a lot of controversial issues.
		
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			But very quickly,
		
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			just to give you a piece of it, but please, if you have a daughter, who may ask you this question,
Father, why I cannot marry a Christian man or a Jewish man come tomorrow to learn how to answer it.
		
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			inshallah,
		
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			but very quickly, just give you a bit of it.
		
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			We as Muslims, we believe in all the messengers.
		
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			A Muslim man believes in the messenger ship of Moosa,
		
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			the messenger ship of Asia, and then Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Salalah Ali him
Damien.
		
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			But a Christian man, he stops at Asia.
		
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			He does not know anything about your messenger, my dear daughter.
		
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			He does not accept Muhammad
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
		
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			a Jewish person.
		
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			He does not accept Mohammed. He does not accept Acer either.
		
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			Now, I'll give you a scenario quickly.
		
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			A Muslim man
		
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			who married a Christian woman.
		
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			He will tell her Listen, I do not drink alcohol, drinking drinking alcohol is haram
		
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			for me,
		
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			can we please not have any alcohol in the house?
		
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			This will not harm the religion of the Christian woman.
		
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			Because it is not a requirement to drink to be a Christian.
		
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			Actually it is haram.
		
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			You tell her Listen, I do not eat pork.
		
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			I'm a Muslim. Of course if she's Jew then you won't have an issue but if she's Christian,
		
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			I do not eat pork.
		
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			Can we please not have any pork in my house?
		
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			This is not going to harm her.
		
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			It is not a requirement to be a Christian to eat pork actually it is against the laws of Prophet Isa
to eat pork. And one of the things that he will do, and it's mentioned in Hadith, Abu hurayrah the
killing of this vine or the pork
		
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			it's an indication that he will lick his his Bible no Listen, I never made pork lawful for you.
		
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			To look at the other picture.
		
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			hypothetical here.
		
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			A Christian man.
		
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			hypothetical, that marriage is invalid having a Muslim woman
		
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			Listen, I like to drink.
		
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			You don't have to drink but I like to drink.
		
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			Just serve it to me.
		
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			Debian Fahad Leon Allahu la cumbre
		
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			waha Milan wasapi wash aribo
		
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			a la curses dos wala? Yeah, you're Latina. enamel hombre one nice one. unsub well as lab rich soon
minimalis a pod
		
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			10 you boo.
		
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			feel proud if you know you show your legs or you show your body outside, can you please look
attractive? Man, in fact,
		
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			a Christian you know that does that he does that I do does that he walks next to his wife no
problem.
		
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			But then he will ask the Muslim main
		
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			main fan.
		
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			I don't want to go any further with this inshallah tomorrow in the lecture will cover this, but
		
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			it's really alerting
		
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			to us as a community in America because we are minority.
		
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			And you know what?
		
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			I started thinking about our community here in Denver.
		
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			I mean, we don't even have a high school.
		
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			And this is the age
		
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			when these girls
		
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			start thinking about these things.
		
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			They need education.
		
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			They need to learn about it.
		
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			And I tell you something, and I'm not being blaming the father here. The father is guilty
		
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			once it comes to this girl,
		
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			because he waited
		
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			until the disaster is here,
		
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			and he has to deal with it.
		
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			We have to think ahead, we have to be proactive.
		
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			After saying all of this, the girls still
		
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			and here I go.
		
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			Listen to this.
		
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			There was a woman
		
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			around the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.
		
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			Her name is
		
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			Muslim Hardy. And you read her biography. I don't know if you know about her or not
		
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			out of this world.
		
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			She was knowing with her her new book nobility noble a noble woman in Medina.
		
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			She married a man his name mellie kipnis.
		
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			The father
		
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			of ns if nomadic, or Viola one,
		
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			the companion, the one who served the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam for many years
		
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			and he learned so much of him from him.
		
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			You may hear me all the time and as narrated and as narrated as neti neti
		
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			when an answer went to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and Mecca and they established the three key
with him,
		
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			the pledge
		
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			that O Messenger of Allah come to Medina, we will protect you. We will support you. We will help you
deliver your message to people to mankind
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam immediately sent Mossad epner my wife, Omar to to Medina, to
teach will answer to teach the people in Medina, the Quran and the salah and the deen
		
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			Malik,
		
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			the father of Ennis, the husband of Omar Suleiman
		
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			went in a journey. He traveled somewhere
		
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			as soon as almost to lay him heard about Islam.
		
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			She went to massage
		
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			and she did her Shahada and she became a Muslim.
		
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			And she loved him
		
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			to the extent that she would teach us
		
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			when he is five years old, yeah, and us or others say a shadow Allah, Allah illallah wa shadow no
Mohammed Rasulullah. Say Say, say, say your *.
		
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			The messenger is gonna come your * from Makkah. And I want you to learn from him that in your
*. I wish our mothers can do this to our children now.
		
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			When you press feeding the child, you breastfeed the child that hate La ilaha illAllah
		
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			Melek returned.
		
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			He found his wife changing on him.
		
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			He said to her a salvati Did you disbelief?
		
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			Call at Bell and
		
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			rather I believed
		
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			and every time he would hear her
		
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			talking to us about a law about the messenger, he would get upset. led to city wala de la
		
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			don't spoil my son.
		
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			Call it in Nila of pseudo I'm not spoiling him.
		
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			And bribing him.
		
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			Malik got angry, upset. He went out of the house.
		
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			One of his enemies killed him.
		
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			He died
		
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			almost July.
		
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			Almost William had the brothers and sisters in Islam Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cannot
use a Muslim said the whole tool Jen.
		
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			I intergender Samia to Harsha
		
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			as I'm walking in Jenna, I heard behind me. I know is of somebody walking I looked for either he or
she saw Wi Fi wire. Our room I said
		
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			been to mill Han? Ella here.
		
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			She was given a woman who was given glad tiding of Jenna
		
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			by Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			Allah Nila young cuando el Hawa.
		
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			The one who does not speak out of desire
		
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			it became known in Medina that como Salam is a widow.
		
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			She's up for marriage.
		
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			The elite, the best,
		
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			the best
		
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			King
		
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			amongst them,
		
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			a man whose name is Abu talha
		
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			Abu talhah.
		
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			Abu Taha, very known in the community,
		
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			wealth, riches, nobility of good character
		
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			but he was yet a Catholic.
		
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			Not a Muslim.
		
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			He came tomasulo wanting to marry her.
		
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			My dear daughters
		
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			listen to almost what she said to her.
		
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			She said to him, yeah, tell her tell her
		
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			one lie by Allah. Myth look like
		
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			someone like you.
		
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			any sane woman will not refuse.
		
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			Well a kidney Moroccan Muslim. Ah.
		
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			What Antara jhulan careful that the holy
		
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			banana a Muslim woman
		
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			and you are a disbeliever.
		
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			I will tell her I was shocked.
		
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			He was shocked.
		
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			He thought in his mind the issue is money.
		
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			He went back home.
		
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			He returned with silver and gold.
		
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			And he pulled it in front of her
		
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			sakala to tell her all about wala
		
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			someone like you
		
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			is not to be rejected.
		
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			You are the dream.
		
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			man or a woman.
		
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			You are someone women would dream to have as husband as a husband.
		
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			But again, it is not about the money.
		
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			And a Moroccan Muslim.
		
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			A Muslim woman, Tara Julian, careful.
		
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			And you are a disbeliever.
		
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			And you know what? My worry is your Islam.
		
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			I don't want any gold and silver
		
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			Call her after hearing this. He reflected upon it.
		
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			He went and he started studying this Dean,
		
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			this Dean that produce such a caliber in a woman.
		
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			After a while he became a Muslim.
		
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			And he returned with to her to marry her.
		
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			And she accepted
		
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			and her dowry was his Islam.
		
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			And if you really want to find out if he just became a Muslim to marry her, read about butala
		
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			you may hear those fundraisings people every time saying lantana will be
		
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			a boon.
		
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			You will never attain righteousness and piety until you spin from that which you love most.
		
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			I will tell how sitting next to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said Dr. rasulillah
in a happy family la
		
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			de Rubio has
		
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			the most beloved
		
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			of my wolf is a garden called by Europa. I want to give it to Allah.
		
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			If you want to know about Abu talha read what he did in the Battle of offered defending the Prophet
sallallahu wasallam
		
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			shades are the important thing brothers and sisters in Islam
		
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			is a Muslim woman is up there
		
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			should not come down
		
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			this is how we must bring our daughters up. This is the standard
		
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			that we must set them up to
		
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			aku Kohli had our stuff for law howdy welcome
		
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			Alhamdulillah Allah Allah Minh, la will handle Hassan
		
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			what Santa will Jamil
		
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			will shadow Allah Allah illallah wa sallahu la sharika
		
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			yaku will have cowboy hat is surreal.
		
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			What a shadow anessa Donna one of Vienna Mohammedan Abdullah Sulu sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa
sahbihi wa sallam
		
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			This issue has to do with a credo for an individual
		
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			and you may hear me talking all the time about the RP that RP that RP
		
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			this issue is connected directly to the appeal of an individual.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Why American minimum
		
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			one Amina
		
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			either Allahu Allah Sulu, Amira acuna, Allah will hear,
		
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			listen to this, we had a foreign, historical.
		
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			It is not befitting for a believing if you want to be called a believer,
		
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			a believing man or a believing women.
		
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			When Allah subhanho wa Taala and His Messenger rules, rule, both rule something that they do have a
choice
		
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			has a whole Islam.
		
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			What is Islam what is the word Islam means?
		
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			That you surrender, that you submit?
		
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			You don't question?
		
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			Because once you question then you're doubting the name of Allah Al Hakim,
		
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			the old wise.
		
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			One of the names of Allah is the old wise, he has wisdom.
		
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			Allah Subhana Allah is always all of our wisdom comes from the wisdom of come from the wisdom of
Allah. So when you question Why did Allah do this? So questioning Allah? That is why I told the
daughter don't say why. Ask for the wisdom.
		
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			And I asked all my brothers and sisters don't say what
		
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			Allah did this. Learn use
		
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			while home use
		
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			you don't question Allah has why there is something wrong with you go back then and study the names
and the attributes of Allah. Allah Ali Al Hakim, Al hobbies
		
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			but as for the wisdom
		
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			light jellicle beheading Allah
		
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			Subhana Allah Jean this generation
		
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			listen to this
		
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			there was a companion
		
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			whose name is Julie beep
		
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			and I am sure a lot of Muslims do not even maybe they have heard the name for the first time.
		
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			July we've had uranium toda la COVID una de feu saya Muslim in the La la la la la sua Kamala g Sammy
come in young guru ella kulu America.
		
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			Only the statement of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allah does not look at your faces,
nor your bodies, but Allah Subhana Allah looks at your hearts and deeds.
		
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			He will short
		
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			shoot
		
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			Cassia
		
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			tequila to
		
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			listen to this.
		
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			The mean
		
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			he was not given a physical beauty.
		
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			plaque
		
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			he was talking one day with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			He expressed his desire to marry to have a life he's a human being.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam to Anna was a widow.
		
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			I will get you married July beep
		
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			fekola Rasul Allah
		
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			who's going to give me his daughter in marriage?
		
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			the habit of the answer,
		
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			that when a father has a daughter up for marriage, they would come to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam asking him to recommend a husband or help them in getting her married.
		
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			father came to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Kala rasulillah My daughter is up for marriage.
		
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			Can you help me in getting her married? Carla Anna was a widow her
		
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			I will get her married.
		
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			The husband the father became excited he thought that the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam is the one
who will get married to her.
		
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			He said no.
		
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			And it was a widow haired lady.
		
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			I will give her to July even marriage.
		
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			The father immediately July beep
		
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			let me talk to her with her mother. Please.
		
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			He went back home
		
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			and he had a conversation with the mother.
		
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			While the daughter is behind the curtain,
		
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			listening,
		
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			he said to his wife, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wanted
		
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			to get our daughter married
		
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			for Carla.
		
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			She also thought that the Prophet sallahu wa sallam is the one who wanted to marry her cannula
		
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			into who you read one young lady.
		
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			He wants
		
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			to give her in marriage to July
		
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			July de
		
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			la will love Lola mmediately came out of her mouth.
		
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			No way.
		
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			Learn que la la la be no.
		
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			The daughter came from behind the curtain.
		
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			And she said
		
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			how can you refuse someone?
		
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			Allah His Messenger chose for me.
		
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			What law he looked at as a word would really be bad.
		
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			And she recited the verse that I decided to you.
		
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			Womack and Ellie meaning
		
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			one Amina
		
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			either Kaaba law who are a Zulu unknown
		
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			acuna Lucha mahira
		
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			how are we gonna be called believers when Allah His Messenger
		
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			shows something for you
		
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			and you turn it down.
		
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			Be careful the Prophet is not forcing her. We know from our Deen that our women must agree to the
heart to the husband. She is willingly wanting to marriage will I be?
		
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			How can you refuse?
		
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			What Allah ordained for you as a female? A Muslim man and you go for a Christian and a June others
how can you
		
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			How can you
		
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			support Allah?
		
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			She got married to July be
		
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			Listen to this.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			made dua for her
		
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			Allahumma su ballyhale Hira Saba while Elijah Canada
		
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			Oh Allah put on her
		
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			wolf highs all type of goodness.
		
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			The morning of the wedding
		
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			Yeah, hi, Lola here Kirby LG, LG.
		
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			And one of the words in the Battle of offered
		
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			a colo
		
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			Jihad Jihad Jihad
		
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			get out Yama
		
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			July be
		
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			going out.
		
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			At the end of the battle
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam calls upon his companions
		
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			health afternoon I mean
		
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			are you missing anybody from the companions? Look?
		
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			They said lie Rasul Allah.
		
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			They said no messenger of Allah.
		
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			He asked again, health of Kaduna mean,
		
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			are you missing somebody? They said no or messenger of Allah. Three times.
		
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			And then he said, what a kidney f Kido. July Biba.
		
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			I don't see July beep
		
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			look for him. Please. Find him please.
		
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			They found him laying next to seven disbelievers
		
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			killed
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam goes and he looks and he says
		
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			have a mini war and I mean
		
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			have a mini one. I mean,
		
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			have a mini one. I mean katella Saba for petaloo
		
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			He is from me. July beeps from me. And I'm from him.
		
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			Three times.
		
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			He fought seven disbelievers he killed them and then they killed him at the end
		
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			of a sow sallallahu alayhi wasallam carried him with his own hands.
		
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			And he placed him in his graveyard.
		
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			buried him.
		
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			My dear daughters,
		
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			my dear sisters, and a sub nomadic the narrator of this hadith says
		
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			this woman
		
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			had lines of the best 10 Medina
		
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			asked in her hand in marriage.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because she obeyed Allah and His messenger.
		
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			You will never go wrong.
		
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			You will never go wrong.
		
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			If you submit to Allah
		
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			and follow the guidance of Mohammed Salah Bhavani
		
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			but you will go home
		
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			with other options.
		
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			Brothers and sisters in Islam.
		
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			We are as a community here in Colorado. Instead of consuming ourselves with destructive.
		
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			We got to think about the constructive.
		
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			I'm sure you have a daughter
		
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			or you will have one
		
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			I do have one
		
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			and I'm worried and I am concerned.
		
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			We have to do something for them.
		
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			They go to public schools, they are exposed to
		
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			non Muslims all the time.
		
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			All the time home on the internet
		
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			and we know what happens in the internet these days.
		
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			Let's think about our children. Because they are an interest they are a thrust in our hands.
		
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			By the way after finishing the conversation with the daughter Alhamdulillah
		
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			she was able to boost the idea of for now.
		
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			So make dua for her. Because you cannot imagine
		
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			a father
		
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			cries
		
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			tears to
		
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			somebody who cries please, my daughter wanna marry a crush
		
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			helped me. I don't know what to do.
		
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			Let's not wait for it to happen.
		
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			Let's protect it from happening Allahumma furlanetto Vanna White seraphina a bit of dam and Ensenada
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