Kamil Ahmad – 99 Concise and Comprehensive Hadiths 63-67

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The speaker discusses the importance of manners and finding the right treatment for every illness and disease. They also emphasize the importance of protecting people from evil and sharing good dreams with others. The speaker provides advice on the best way to live in a material upbringing, including dream interpretation, and emphasizes the importance of giving children what they want to give, even if they don't have the same manners and adab. They also discuss the importance of dream interpretation, which is a skill that can be learned and taught to children through actions rather than words.

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			It's not haram in and of itself, not
		
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			because gold is haram, but wearing it for
		
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			men is haram.
		
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			And wearing it for women is permissible.
		
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			And so here in this hadith, Allah has
		
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			made certain things to be from the characteristics
		
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			of women.
		
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			And certain things to be from the characteristics
		
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			of men.
		
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			And so these are two different genders that
		
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			have their own qualities, their own characteristics, their
		
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			own way of thinking, their own capabilities, etc.
		
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			And he mentions here that we can say
		
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			that when it comes to, you know, what
		
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			is permissible for men, what is permissible for
		
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			women, we have three categories.
		
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			We have three different categories.
		
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			Number one, that which is only permissible for
		
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			men, right?
		
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			That which is specific for men, so they
		
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			can wear different kinds of clothes that women
		
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			are not allowed to wear.
		
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			And then number two, that which is specific
		
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			for women, and it's not permissible for men.
		
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			And we mentioned an example of that, gold,
		
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			and silk as well.
		
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			And number three, number three, that which both
		
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			men and women share, right?
		
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			It's permissible for both men and women.
		
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			It's not specific to one of the two.
		
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			And he mentions the wisdom behind why the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ said this, right?
		
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			That we're not supposed to imitate the other
		
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			gender, and he mentions the reason for that
		
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			is because Allah ﷻ made men to be,
		
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			as Allah says in the Qur'an, قَوَّامُونَ
		
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			عَلَى الْنِسَانِ, to have the authority over women.
		
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			And Allah gave men certain qualities that make
		
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			men distinct and different than women.
		
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			So if a man imitates a woman, what
		
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			is he doing?
		
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			He's bringing his status that Allah gave him
		
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			down, right?
		
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			Because Allah gave men a certain status above
		
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			women.
		
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			So when someone starts imitating women, he's bringing
		
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			his status down from the status that Allah
		
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			gave him.
		
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			As for a woman doing it, vice versa,
		
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			the opposite, a woman imitating men, then what
		
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			she's doing is she's getting rid of that
		
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			distinction that Allah made between men and women.
		
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			And he also mentions the harms of it,
		
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			what it can lead to.
		
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			It leads to basically all kinds of
		
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			evil akhlaaq and manners and way of thinking,
		
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			and it leads to men wanting to mix,
		
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			freely mix, with women, and so on and
		
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			so forth.
		
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			Alright, the next hadith is the hadith of
		
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			Abu Hurair RA, and this is in Sahih
		
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			al-Bukhari.
		
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			He says, قَالَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ مَا أَنْزَلَ
		
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			اللَّهُ دَاءً إِلَّا أَنْزَلَ لَهُ شِفَاءً مَا أَنْزَلَ
		
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			اللَّهُ دَاءً إِلَّا أَنْزَلَ لَهُ شِفَاءً The Prophet
		
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			ﷺ says, Allah has not sent or decreed
		
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			any sickness, any illness, any disease, except that
		
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			He has also sent and also decreed and
		
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			made for it a cure.
		
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			There's no illness, there's no sickness, there's no
		
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			disease that has ever afflicted human beings, except
		
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			that there is a cure for it.
		
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			There is a cure for it.
		
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			So, this hadith basically tells us that for
		
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			every disease that Allah has created, there is
		
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			a cure for it.
		
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			And basically, what this falls under is the
		
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			topic of Al-Qadr, right?
		
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			That Allah decrees everything, including diseases and sicknesses
		
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			and whatnot.
		
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			So if Allah has decreed that, He has
		
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			made it part of His Qadr, then likewise,
		
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			He has also made it a part of
		
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			His Qadr that there is a cure for
		
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			everything.
		
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			There is a cure for every disease.
		
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			And the Shaykh mentions what we learn from
		
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			this hadith is the importance of learning medicine.
		
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			If the Prophet ﷺ is saying that there
		
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			is a cure for every disease, then what
		
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			that means is we should search for that.
		
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			We should search for every cure and every
		
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			treatment that there can possibly be for all
		
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			kinds of diseases.
		
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			And by doing so, we're helping people.
		
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			By doing so, we're helping people.
		
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			Because Allah has not sent diseases to destroy
		
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			us.
		
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			If that was the case, then the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ wouldn't say this.
		
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			If there were diseases that don't have a
		
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			cure, then that means Allah just wants to
		
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			destroy us.
		
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			But we see from this hadith that that's
		
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			not the case.
		
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			That's not the case.
		
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			And he mentions here, now the Shaykh, Shaykh
		
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			Abdul Rahman Al Saadi, he passed away back
		
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			in the 1950s.
		
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			We're talking about more than 70 years ago.
		
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			So he says here that people used to
		
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			think, he's talking about his time, the time
		
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			in which he lived.
		
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			He says that people used to think that
		
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			certain illnesses, there's no cure for it.
		
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			There's no cure for it.
		
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			Until modern medicine has advanced and now we
		
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			have the cure for it.
		
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			He's talking about a time that is way
		
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			before the modern time.
		
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			So imagine if he was here today.
		
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			We have cures for diseases and illnesses that
		
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			weren't even discovered in his time.
		
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			But then we also have diseases and illnesses
		
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			today that never existed in his time and
		
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			we still haven't found a cure for it.
		
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			Like HIV and cancer.
		
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			Now what this hadith also teaches us is
		
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			that if there is a certain disease that
		
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			we have not found a cure for it,
		
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			it doesn't mean that there is no cure
		
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			for it.
		
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			It just means that we haven't found it.
		
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			It just means that Allah has not allowed
		
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			us to find it as of yet.
		
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			But the cure is there.
		
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			The cure is there.
		
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			And what that means is we need to
		
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			make an effort.
		
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			We need to make an effort to look
		
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			for the cure.
		
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			And again the Shaykh, he talks about different
		
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			things that can help us to live healthy
		
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			lives.
		
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			Things that we know today in terms of
		
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			how to live a healthy life, in terms
		
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			of nutrition, in terms of exercise, etc.
		
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			He mentions these things.
		
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			And then he mentions how we should also
		
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			strive to use prophetic medicine.
		
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			Something that a lot of people ignore nowadays.
		
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			A lot of people, they have more iman
		
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			in conventional medicine than they do in the
		
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			various things that the Prophet ﷺ mentioned regarding
		
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			medical treatment.
		
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			And Ibn al-Qayyim, he has a nice
		
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			book on this called The Prophetic Medicine and
		
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			it's available in English as well.
		
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			Now Ibn al-Qayyim also has another book
		
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			called Al-Da'a wa'l-Dawa'a
		
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			The Disease and the Cure.
		
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			What is this book about?
		
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			The disease and the cure.
		
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			Is it a book of medicine?
		
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			Or is it talking about what we spoke
		
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			about here?
		
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			No.
		
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			This book Al-Da'a wa'l-Dawa
		
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			'a, right?
		
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			He takes it from this hadith, right?
		
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			In the very beginning of the book, he
		
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			mentions this hadith and he goes on talking
		
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			about how whatever illness Allah has sent, He
		
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			has sent for a cure.
		
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			But then he mentions how this is very
		
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			general and it could apply to all kinds
		
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			of illnesses.
		
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			Not just bodily illnesses, but also spiritual.
		
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			And so that book talks about sins and
		
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			the problem with certain sins and addictions, right?
		
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			He actually wrote this book for someone who
		
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			asked him a question and he said, there's
		
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			a sin that I have been stuck with
		
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			for ages and I just cannot rid myself
		
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			of it.
		
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			Is there a way that you can advise
		
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			me to rid myself of this sin?
		
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			And later on in the book you could
		
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			understand what he's talking about.
		
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			Someone had a love affair with someone and
		
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			he was stuck in that love affair.
		
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			So basically the point is that for every
		
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			illness there is a cure including the illnesses
		
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			of the heart.
		
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			And so no one should ever think that
		
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			if there's a sin that they're stuck with
		
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			and their heart is stuck with a certain
		
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			sin, that there's no cure for it, right?
		
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			There's definitely a cure for it.
		
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			We just need to find the appropriate treatment
		
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			for us.
		
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			The next hadith is the hadith of Abu
		
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			Qatada.
		
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			And this is in Bukhari and Muslim.
		
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			He says, فَلْيَتَعَوَّذْ
		
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			بِاللَّهِ مِن شَرِّهِهَا وَمِن شَرِّهِ الشَّيْطَانِ وَلْيَتْفُلْ ثَلَاثًا
		
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			وَلَا يُحَدِّكْ بِهَا أَحَادًا فَإِنَّهَا لَنْ تَضُرَّهُ The
		
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			Prophet ﷺ says that the good dream is
		
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			from Allah and the bad dream is from
		
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			Shaytan.
		
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			And then he says, so whoever sees something
		
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			in a dream that he likes, basically a
		
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			good dream, then he should not tell anyone
		
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			about it except those he likes.
		
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			Whoever sees what he loves, he should not
		
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			share that except with those he loves.
		
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			And if he sees something that he doesn't
		
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			like, then what should he do?
		
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			He should seek refuge in Allah from it
		
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			and from the evil of Shaytan.
		
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			He should seek refuge in Allah from the
		
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			evil of that dream and the evil of
		
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			Shaytan.
		
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			And then he should blow three times and
		
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			he shouldn't tell anyone about it.
		
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			For indeed it will not harm him.
		
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			Indeed it will not harm him.
		
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			And so basically here in this hadith, the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ, he starts by talking about the
		
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			good dream.
		
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			He starts by talking about the good dream.
		
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			And he says that the good dream is
		
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			from Allah.
		
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			It is a sign from Allah and it
		
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			is as the Prophet ﷺ says in another
		
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			hadith, one part of 46 parts of prophethood.
		
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			The good dream is one part of 46
		
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			parts of prophethood.
		
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			Meaning that good dreams that are from Allah,
		
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			they are a form of Allah communicating with
		
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			us, telling us something.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ also said that the
		
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			prophethood has finished but there will still be
		
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			good dreams.
		
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			And these good dreams bring about a lot
		
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			of good.
		
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			They do bring about a lot of good.
		
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			And he mentions several examples of this.
		
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			First of all, from the life of the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			In Surah Al-Anfal, Allah tells the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ that how we showed you in your
		
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			dream, this is regarding the battle of Badr,
		
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			we showed you in your dream your opponents
		
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			on the battlefield as being few.
		
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			And then Allah says if we had shown
		
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			you them as being a mighty force, then
		
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			you would have failed.
		
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			So what Allah is saying is that, and
		
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			this happened the night before, the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			saw a dream in which the enemy, they
		
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			were few.
		
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			And the purpose of this was for Allah
		
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			to prepare the Prophet ﷺ to give him
		
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			some confidence going into this battle.
		
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			Showing him that the enemy, they are few.
		
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			You'll be able to handle them.
		
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			And Allah says if we had shown you
		
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			them as being a mighty force, you would
		
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			have failed.
		
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			And so look how that benefited the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ.
		
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			Also, the dream that Allah showed the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ going and making Umrah, that Allah mentions
		
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			in Surah Al-Fatih.
		
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			And so it was a dream that he
		
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			saw, and as a result, the Muslims, they
		
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			started heading out to make Umrah to Mecca.
		
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			And then what happened, they were stopped, prevented,
		
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			and then they were forced to sign this
		
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			treaty, the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah.
		
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			And now they're having to go back to
		
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			Medina.
		
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			And so some of the companions said, Ya
		
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			Rasulullah, you said you saw a dream.
		
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			And you promised us we're going to be
		
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			going in.
		
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			So what did the Prophet ﷺ say?
		
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			He said, did I promise it's going to
		
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			be this year?
		
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			And in the treaty, the deal was that
		
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			they would come the following year.
		
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			Also, he mentions the Adhan, how it was
		
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			seen in a dream.
		
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			It was seen in a dream by Abdullah
		
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			ibn Zayd and Umar and Bilal.
		
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			And as a result of seeing the Adhan,
		
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			the Adhan that we have today is based
		
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			on a dream.
		
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			The Adhan that we have today, it is
		
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			based on a dream that these Sahaba saw.
		
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			Because the Prophet ﷺ didn't know what to
		
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			do.
		
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			The Jews have their bells, the Christians have
		
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			their bells, the Jews have their horn, and
		
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			we Muslims, what should we do?
		
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			Allah did not reveal anything to the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ.
		
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			No Wahi, but instead this is how Allah
		
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			decided to legislate the Adhan, through a dream.
		
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			The point is that through dreams, a lot
		
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			of good comes.
		
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			Through dreams, a lot of good comes.
		
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			But this is for the Prophets and the
		
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			righteous and those who are close to Allah
		
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			ﷺ.
		
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			This is not just anyone.
		
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			You have to be at a high level
		
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			of Iman and Taqwa, etc.
		
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			And then the Prophet ﷺ says that the
		
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			evil dream is from Shaytan.
		
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			The evil dream is from Shaytan.
		
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			Because Shaytan, his whole goal is to bring
		
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			grief to a believer, to put fear in
		
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			your heart.
		
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			So he doesn't leave you alone.
		
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			Even when you're asleep, he comes to you.
		
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			So what's the explanation of nightmares?
		
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			Shaytan.
		
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			The explanation of nightmares is that this is
		
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			Shaytan coming to you in your dream.
		
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			And then the Prophet ﷺ did not just
		
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			stop there, but he gave us advice, golden
		
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			advice, as to what to do in both
		
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			situations.
		
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			So if you see a good dream, what
		
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			should you do?
		
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			If you see a bad dream, what should
		
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			you do?
		
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			In the case of a good dream, the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ said, you're allowed to share it,
		
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			you're allowed to share a good dream, but
		
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			only with those who you trust.
		
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			Only with those who you trust.
		
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			And not with anyone.
		
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			And not just with anyone.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Exactly.
		
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			You know, Yusuf ﷺ saw the dream and
		
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			he came to his father.
		
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			First of all, look at how he came
		
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			to his father and no one else.
		
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			Because he trusted his father.
		
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			He loved his father.
		
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			So he shared the dream with him.
		
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			And then what did his father tell him?
		
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			He said, do not tell your brothers.
		
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			Specifically, your brothers.
		
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			Do not mention this dream to your brothers.
		
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			Because then they're going to do something.
		
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			They're going to plot.
		
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			And they plotted even without them knowing of
		
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			this dream.
		
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			They did that without, so imagine if they
		
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			had heard of this dream.
		
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			They would have done worse perhaps.
		
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			And so those you don't trust, those you
		
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			have some enmity with, you know, they're going
		
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			to be envious.
		
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			They're going to be envious.
		
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			Or as the Shaykh mentions, they may give
		
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			you an interpretation of the dream.
		
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			Right?
		
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			An interpretation that basically will, you know, make
		
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			you sad.
		
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			An interpretation that, you know, they don't want
		
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			any good for you.
		
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			So they'll say, you know, this dream doesn't
		
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			mean anything.
		
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			It actually means something negative, etc.
		
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			As for bad dreams.
		
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			Right?
		
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			What did the Prophet ﷺ tell us here?
		
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			Four things.
		
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			Number one, do not share it with anyone.
		
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			Even with those you trust.
		
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			Even those you love.
		
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			Because this dream is not from Allah.
		
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			It's from Shaytan.
		
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			And number two, if you're to wake up
		
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			from this dream, then immediately seek refuge in
		
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			Allah.
		
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			From the evil of that dream and from
		
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			Shaytan.
		
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			Saying, أعوذ بالله من شرها And أعوذ بالله
		
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			من الشيطان الرجيم Because the dream is from
		
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			Shaytan.
		
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			So you're asking Allah to protect you from
		
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			Shaytan.
		
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			And number three, blow three times.
		
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			Now, this blowing, it's mentioned in another hadith
		
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			as being three times to the right and
		
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			three times to the left.
		
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			And this blowing, the way it's done is
		
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			not a dry blow.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Nor is it spitting.
		
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			But rather in between the two.
		
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			Right?
		
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			In between the two.
		
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			So a blow that is a little bit
		
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			wet.
		
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			Right?
		
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			A blow that is just a little bit
		
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			wet.
		
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			And this is similar to the method used
		
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			in ruqya.
		
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			If you were to recite on yourself or
		
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			recite on someone else or recite in water
		
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			that you want to use for ruqya, etc.
		
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			This is the kind of blowing that we're
		
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			supposed to do.
		
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			And then finally, finally after that, you know,
		
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			be rest assured that no harm is going
		
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			to touch you.
		
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			Because the Prophet ﷺ says in the end,
		
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			at the very end he says, فَإِنَّهَا لَن
		
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			تَبُرَّهُ If he does, if he takes all
		
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			these steps, he should be rest assured the
		
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			dream is not going to harm him.
		
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			So that's where iman comes in.
		
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			Right?
		
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			That's where our iman comes in.
		
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			And we have to actually believe that as
		
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			long as I've taken these steps and I've
		
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			asked Allah to protect me from shaytan, then
		
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			Allah will protect me from shaytan.
		
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			No harm is going to touch me.
		
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			So we shouldn't continue to be afraid basically.
		
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			Now, there's one other kind of dream that
		
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			wasn't mentioned here.
		
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			And so the scholars mentioned that there are
		
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			three kinds of dreams.
		
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			Good dreams, bad dreams.
		
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			And then there is basically a dream that
		
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			doesn't mean good or bad.
		
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			Right?
		
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			It is what is known as hadith al
		
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			-nafs.
		
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			Basically something that is on your mind and
		
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			you slept with that.
		
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			Or something that has been on your mind
		
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			all day and you're just constantly thinking about
		
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			it until you see it in your dream.
		
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			Right?
		
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			It doesn't mean anything.
		
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			It's not good nor is it bad.
		
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			And there's no action that you need to
		
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			take regarding that.
		
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			But that's why we should say our adhkar
		
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			before going to sleep.
		
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			Right?
		
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			These adhkar, they protect us from having any
		
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			kind of discomfort when we sleep at night.
		
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			Alright, the next hadith is the hadith
		
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			of Abu Hurairah.
		
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			And this is in al-Tirmidhi.
		
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			And also narrated by Imam Malik and Imam
		
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			Ahmad and Ibn Majah.
		
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			قَالَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ مِنْ حُسْنِ إِسْلَامِ الْمَرْءِ
		
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			تَرْكُهُ مَا لَا يَعْنِيهُ This is a very
		
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			famous hadith and Imam al-Nawawi, he includes
		
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			it in his 40 hadith al-Nawawi.
		
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			In his 40 hadith al-Arba'een al
		
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			-Nawawiya.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ says that from the perfection,
		
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			from the completeness of a person's Islam is
		
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			that he leaves what does not concern him.
		
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			He doesn't bother himself with what does not
		
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			concern him.
		
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			And so here what we learn is that
		
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			there is something called Ihsan.
		
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			Because Prophet ﷺ says من حُسْنِ إِسْلَامِ الْمَرْءِ
		
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			So what that means is not all Muslims
		
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			are at the same level in terms of
		
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			their Islam.
		
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			Not all Muslims are at the same level
		
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			in terms of their Islam.
		
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			But there are some who excel and they
		
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			are good in their Islam.
		
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			As Prophet ﷺ says here.
		
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			And there are others who are the opposite.
		
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			So there is someone who is حَسَن في
		
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			إِسْلَامِهِ And someone who is مُسِيط في إِسْلَامِهِ
		
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			Someone who is مُحْسَن في إِسْلَامِهِ And someone
		
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			who is مُسِيط في إِسْلَامِهِ Someone who is
		
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			good in his Islam and someone who is
		
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			bad in his Islam.
		
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			And this goodness and this badness or evil.
		
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			It all depends on how much you obey
		
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			Allah and His Messenger.
		
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			The more you obey Allah and His Messenger,
		
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			the higher you are going to go in
		
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			your Islam.
		
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			And the less, then the less.
		
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			And here the Prophet ﷺ is telling us
		
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			one of the ways of perfecting our Islam.
		
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			He is telling us one of the ways
		
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			of perfecting our Islam.
		
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			And that is by only busying ourselves with
		
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			what concerns us.
		
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			And this is very very general.
		
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			It's a very comprehensive statement.
		
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			It includes those matters related to our deen
		
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			as well as our dunya.
		
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			So for example, every sin, every single sin
		
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			that we've been warned against, that is something
		
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			we shouldn't do because it doesn't concern us.
		
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			It's not going to bring us any benefit.
		
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			It's not going to bring us any benefit.
		
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			Likewise, things which may not be sins but
		
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			they may be, for example, makrooh, disliked.
		
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			It's better for us to stay away from
		
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			it because it's not going to bring us
		
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			any good.
		
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			And then there can be things which are
		
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			halal, completely halal.
		
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			Again, it's best not to indulge in certain
		
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			halal things because it's not going to bring
		
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			us any good.
		
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			Here we're talking about indulging in it.
		
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			We're not talking about making haram what Allah
		
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			has made halal for us.
		
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			Because Allah actually criticized the Prophet ﷺ for
		
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			doing that.
		
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			يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ لِمَا تُحَرِّمُ مَا أَحَلَّ اللَّهُ
		
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			لَكُ O Prophet, why do you make haram
		
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			what Allah has made permissible for you from
		
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			halal things?
		
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			But certain halal things, we shouldn't indulge in
		
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			them.
		
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			Likewise, when it comes to things of the
		
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			dunya that do not concern us, we shouldn't
		
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			bother ourselves with it.
		
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			Whether it be related to individuals or whether
		
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			it be related to organizations, if it doesn't
		
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			concern you, don't bother yourself with it.
		
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			Do not bother yourself with it and don't
		
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			talk about it and don't investigate and don't
		
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			ask and don't inquire.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because it's none of your business.
		
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			So this is a golden rule that the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ teaches us in this hadith.
		
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			Now, the Shaykh also mentions that what we
		
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			learn from this hadith is that whoever busies
		
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			himself with what does not concern him, then
		
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			he is مُسِيء في إسلامه.
		
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			The opposite.
		
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			He's doing a disservice to his Islam.
		
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			And as I mentioned, this is a famous
		
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			hadith and for a more detailed explanation, one
		
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			can refer to the many commentaries on the
		
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			40 hadith of Imam al-Nawwi.
		
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			The next hadith, and this is the last
		
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			hadith that we'll cover for tonight, is the
		
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			hadith of Ayyub ibn Musa,
		
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			this narrator, narrates from his father who narrates
		
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			from his grandfather.
		
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			And then the grandfather is narrating from the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			However, this hadith is in Sunan al-Tirmidhi.
		
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			Tirmidhi is the one who compiled this hadith.
		
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			Imam al-Bukhari says that this hadith is
		
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			مُرسَل.
		
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			What is مُرسَل?
		
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			What kind of hadith is مُرسَل?
		
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			Basically, where the chain, the sahabi is missing,
		
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			or it's connected, but the sahabi or the
		
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			person who is claimed to be the sahabi,
		
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			he never heard the Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			So he isn't a sahabi basically.
		
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			So yes, the sahabi is missing.
		
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			So Imam al-Bukhari says that this grandfather
		
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			here, he never heard anything from the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ.
		
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			He never heard anything from the Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			It says, أَنَّ الرَّسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ مَا
		
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			نَحَلَ وَالِدٌ وَلَدَهُ مِنْ نَحْلٍ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ أَدَبٍ
		
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			حَسَنٍ مَا نَحَلَ وَالِدٌ وَلَدَهُ مِنْ نَحْلٍ أَفْضَلَ
		
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			مِنْ أَدَبٍ حَسَنٍ This hadith is for all
		
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			parents.
		
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			He says, a father cannot gift his
		
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			son with a better gift than good adab,
		
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			good manners.
		
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			There is no gift that a father can
		
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			give to his son better than good manners.
		
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			And so, our children, we all look out
		
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			for our children and we do everything we
		
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			can for their upbringing, for nurturing them, in
		
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			terms of their survival in this dunya.
		
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			In terms of their survival in this dunya.
		
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			We give them food, we give them drink,
		
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			we give them the best education, we give
		
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			them shelter.
		
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			And then on top of these necessary things
		
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			for their survival, on top of that we
		
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			give them gifts.
		
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			But material gifts.
		
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			We give them, we shower them with all
		
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			kinds of material gifts.
		
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			So the Prophet ﷺ is directing our attention
		
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			to the fact that this is natural, that
		
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			we do.
		
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			Naturally, we want to do that and there
		
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			is nothing wrong with that.
		
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			However, he is bringing our attention to the
		
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			fact that there is a gift that is
		
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			more deserving and far better than any gift
		
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			in the world, for us to give our
		
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			children and that is to give them that
		
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			tarbiyah of good manners.
		
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			And the reason for that is because this
		
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			is something that will remain with them forever.
		
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			You will leave them something that they will
		
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			benefit from, not only for themselves, but also
		
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			for society.
		
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			How many people in society benefit from the
		
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			akhlaq of a person?
		
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			And then on top of that, this will
		
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			continue from generation to generation.
		
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			This will continue from generation to generation.
		
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			So imagine how much reward is going back
		
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			to you if you give your children that
		
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			kind of tarbiyah, with the best of manners.
		
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			Leave them with al-adab al-hasan.
		
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			It just continues on from one generation to
		
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			the next.
		
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			As for those who neglect this aspect, and
		
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			they care more about the material upbringing, then
		
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			they are actually doing disservice to their children.
		
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			They have neglected them and basically, they didn't
		
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			allow their kids to benefit, nor will they
		
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			benefit from their kids in the future.
		
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			When they become old, just like you neglected
		
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			them, they will neglect you.
		
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			Just like you neglected them, they will also
		
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			neglect you.
		
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			So this shows us the importance of tarbiyah,
		
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			and the importance of giving our children the
		
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			best of tarbiyah, and leaving them with the
		
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			best of manners.
		
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			Also, manners and adab is something that passes
		
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			on through actions more than words.
		
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			Through actions more than words.
		
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			So you could learn a lot and teach
		
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			them a lot in terms of adab, in
		
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			terms of teaching them, this is what you
		
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			should do, that is what you should do.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ has taught us to do
		
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			this and to do that in terms of
		
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			adab.
		
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			But if they don't see you doing that,
		
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			then why would they do it?
		
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			If they don't see you doing that, then
		
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			it's not going to really have a huge
		
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			impact on their tarbiyah.
		
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			And that's why there are simple Muslims who
		
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			don't have much knowledge of the deen, who
		
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			come from backgrounds with very simple knowledge, like
		
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			almost no knowledge of the deen, but because
		
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			their parents gave them a good tarbiyah, they
		
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			don't have much knowledge.
		
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			They pass on that good tarbiyah through their
		
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			actions to the next generation, without even teaching
		
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			them anything that Allah has said this and
		
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			the Messenger has said that.
		
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			Showing you that manners and akhlaq and adab
		
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			are passed on through actions more than words.
		
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			Through actions more than words.
		
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			But obviously the best thing to do is
		
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			to combine the two, to learn what are
		
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			the adab that the Prophet ﷺ taught us,
		
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			and then to teach that to our children,
		
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			but also to let them see that as
		
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			well.
		
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			And Allah knows best.
		
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			We'll stop here.
		
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			And insha'Allah next week we'll move on
		
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			to hadith number 68.
		
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			Are there any questions?
		
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			The question is regarding dream interpretation.
		
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			There are many books out there where certain
		
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			things you see in your dream, they tell
		
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			you the interpretation of it.
		
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			To be honest, dream interpretation is a skill
		
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			that Allah gifts to certain people, like Yusuf
		
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			ﷺ.
		
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			Allah gifted it to him.
		
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			It's not something he learned on his own.
		
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			Likewise, Allah gifts it to certain people.
		
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			There are people who can do dream interpretation
		
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			because Allah has gifted that to them.
		
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			That's not to say it cannot be learned.
		
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			It can be learned, but through those who
		
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			are specialized in that.
		
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			Like for example me, I don't know dream
		
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			interpretation.
		
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			A lot of people come to me and
		
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			ask me, I've had this dream, what's the
		
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			interpretation?
		
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			I say, Wallahu Allah, I don't know.
		
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			It's a skill and it's also something that
		
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			can be learned.
		
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			Now relying on books is not sufficient.
		
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			Because you don't know the source of these
		
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			books.
		
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			Everyone claims to be a dream interpreter.
		
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			And as you mentioned, there are even kuffar
		
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			who have written books.
		
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			And this is not something that we should
		
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			rely on at all.
		
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			Rather, if you want your dream interpreted, go
		
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			to someone who is known for it.
		
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			A Muslim who is known for it.
		
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			And not just anyone, a lot of people
		
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			claim to be dream interpreters.
		
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			Look for someone who is legit.
		
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			So the question is, if you see a
		
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			dream related to someone else, and it's a
		
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			good dream, is it good to go and
		
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			tell him that I saw you in my
		
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			dream and it was a good dream?
		
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			So again, this goes back to who the
		
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			person is.
		
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			As we said, the Prophet ﷺ said, do
		
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			not relate your dream, your good dream, to
		
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			someone who you don't like.
		
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			Or someone who you have a problem with
		
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			or enmity with.
		
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			Only narrate it to those who you love.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So if you trust the person.
		
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			If you trust the person, you know, it's
		
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			a close friend of yours, or relative, or
		
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			brother, or you know, etc.
		
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			Yes, there's nothing wrong with telling them about
		
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			the dream as long as it is a
		
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			good dream.
		
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			So the question is, regarding the hadith, from
		
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			the perfection of a person's Islam, Islam is
		
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			to not concern himself with, to not busy
		
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			himself with what doesn't concern him.
		
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			So does that include, you know, family and
		
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			relatives, who, you know, you want to advise
		
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			them.
		
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			You want to remind them.
		
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			You know, they're committing certain sins.
		
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			They're not doing, they're not praying, for example.
		
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			Does it mean that, no, this doesn't concern
		
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			him.
		
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			This is none of my business.
		
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			No.
		
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			No, obviously, when it comes to giving da
		
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			'wah, commanding the good, forbidding the evil, that
		
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			is an obligation upon us.
		
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			Right?
		
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			That is an obligation upon us according to
		
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			the different levels.
		
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			Right?
		
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			According to the different levels.
		
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			But even that, it should be done with
		
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			wisdom.
		
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			It should be done with wisdom.
		
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			So that is not included in this hadith.
		
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			What is meant by this hadith?
		
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			What is meant by this hadith is that
		
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			which is, you know, none of your business.
		
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			It doesn't concern you.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And it's not related to anything, you know,
		
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			related to the deen, where a person is,
		
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			you know, going down a wrong path.
		
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			Right?
		
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			But rather, related to dunya matters.
		
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			Right?
		
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			But if you want to advise someone, you
		
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			see that they're doing something wrong, or they're
		
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			planning on doing something wrong, you can advise
		
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			them.
		
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			For example, if you know that a friend
		
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			of yours is planning on getting married to
		
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			someone, and you know something about that girl
		
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			who, that's not good.
		
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			So you don't say, you know what, this
		
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			is none of my business.
		
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			Right?
		
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			No, if you know something, then it's your
		
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			duty to go and advise.
		
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			Right?
		
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			But let's say, you don't know anything about
		
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			her.
		
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			Here we say, yes, it's none of your
		
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			business.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Who are you to go and investigate and
		
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			research when he didn't come to you and
		
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			ask you for advice, for example.
		
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			This is just an example to differentiate between
		
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			the two.
		
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			And Allah knows best.
		
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			The question is regarding times when we see
		
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			certain dreams, at night, or after fajr, or
		
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			in the daytime, is there any indication of
		
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			anything regarding such dreams?
		
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			Not that I know of.
		
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			There could be, but Allah knows best.
		
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			Again, this is something to ask dream interpreters.
		
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			So a dream interpreter who is legit, I'm
		
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			not talking about fake dream interpreters, a legitimate
		
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			dream interpreter, he perhaps will ask you, when
		
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			did you see the dream?
		
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			Allah knows best.
		
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			So the question is how to find a
		
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			legitimate dream interpreter by basically asking around, asking
		
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			trustworthy people, if they know of any trustworthy
		
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			dream interpreter.
		
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			Just like a scholar, you don't go and
		
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			learn your deen from anyone.
		
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			There are people who teach the deen, but
		
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			they're not qualified, or they're deviant.
		
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			Just like a doctor, if you get sick,
		
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			and you want the best doctor, you go
		
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			and ask to look for a trustworthy, good
		
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			doctor.
		
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			Likewise, if your car breaks down, you go
		
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			to a trustworthy mechanic, not just anyone.
		
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			What's that?
		
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			Today?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Alright, we can end then.
		
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			Subhanak Allahumma wa bihamdik.
		
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			Ashhadu an la ilaha illa anta, astaghfiruka wa
		
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			atubu ilayk.
		
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			Wa sallillahi wa sallim ala nabiyyina Muhammad wa
		
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			ala alihi wa sahbihi ajma'in.
		
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			Wassalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.