Kamil Ahmad – 99 Concise and Comprehensive Hadiths

Kamil Ahmad
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The importance of z Insurance in the financial system is discussed, including the importance of giving only a small amount of money to a person with a farm or farm equipment. The speakers emphasize the importance of patient mental health, forgiveness, and rewarding one's fasting. They also discuss the benefits of fasting, including a chance to increase one's reward and a source of wealth.
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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious,

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the Most Merciful.

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All praise is due to Allah, the Lord

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of the worlds.

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And peace and blessings be upon the best

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of Allah's creation, and upon his family and

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companions, and upon those who have been guided

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by his guidance, and who have waited by

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his Sunnah until the Day of Judgment.

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O Allah, teach us what will benefit us,

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and benefit us by what You have taught

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us, and increase us in knowledge.

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And show us the truth as it is,

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and grant us to follow it.

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And show us the falsehood as it is,

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and grant us to avoid it.

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And make us of those who listen to

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the Word, and follow the best of it.

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And after this, peace and blessings be upon

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you.

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And it is agreed upon, found in Bukhari

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and Muslim.

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Here Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam says, He says,

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there is no zakat.

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There is no zakat.

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On anything below, anything below, five awsuk

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of dates.

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Anything below that amount, zakat is not obligatory.

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And there is no zakat obligatory on anything

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below five awaqin of silver.

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And there is no zakat obligatory on anything

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below five camels.

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So we're going to explain each one of

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these, but basically, here the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam is clarifying for us, what is known

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as the nisab.

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What is known as the minimum threshold.

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The minimum amount of money that you have

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to have, in order for zakat to become

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obligatory.

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And he explained it regarding three different kinds

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of wealth.

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That's because we all know, that zakat is

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2.5% of our wealth.

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But many of us don't know that, the

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zakat for other things has a different measuring

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system.

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So if you have animals, there is a

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different way of calculating the zakat.

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If you have crops, agriculture, you have fruits,

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you have vegetables that you're growing, there is

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zakat due on that.

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But the way you calculate the zakat, it's

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different.

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For each one of these, it's different.

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And the same thing for animals.

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If you have grazing animals.

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So here the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, he

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mentions, first of all, the nisab for crops.

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And he mentions specifically dates.

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Because that was the agriculture of the people

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of Medina.

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So the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam mentions that,

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zakat is not obligatory if you have less

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than five.

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He says, awsuq.

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Awsuq is a way of measuring in the

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time of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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It's a plural of wasq.

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And wasq is basically 60 sa'ah.

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60 sa'ah.

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Again, a sa'ah was a way of

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measuring in those days.

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It is basically equivalent to three kilograms.

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One sa'ah is basically equivalent to three

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kilograms.

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So here the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam says,

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the nisab for dates is five awsuq.

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And one wasuq is how many sa'ah?

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60.

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So now what is the nisab of dates?

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300 sa'ah.

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Okay, now tell me in kilograms.

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Yes.

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900 kg.

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900 kilograms.

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Because one sa'ah is three kilograms.

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So this is regarding crops and dates.

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So basically, if you have less than that

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amount, you don't give zakat.

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You don't give zakat on that.

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And so if you have things you're growing

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in your backyard, it's not going to equal

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to this amount, right?

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So you don't give zakat for what you're

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growing in your backyard, for example.

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This is for someone who has a farm,

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and he has more than that.

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And obviously, a year passes by.

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And when it comes to the zakat of

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crops, the time to give it is not

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like wealth, where a year passes by.

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No.

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The time to give it is the time

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of harvest.

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At the time of harvest, when those crops

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are ready.

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After that, the Prophet ﷺ mentions the nisab

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of silver.

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And he says, anything below five awaqin, there

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is no zakat for it.

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And so awaq is a plural of ulqiyah.

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And so one ulqiyah is equivalent to 40

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dirhams in those days.

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40 dirhams.

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So that means, what is the nisab of

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silver?

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If one ulqiyah is 40 dirhams, and the

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Prophet ﷺ said five of those, 200 dirhams.

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200 dirhams is the nisab of silver.

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And I believe in ounces, it's very similar

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to that.

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It's similar to that.

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I believe it's somewhere around four, basically four

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or five ounces of silver.

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Nonetheless, when it comes to gold and silver,

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we have a nisab for gold and we

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have a nisab for silver.

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And now when it comes to cash, the

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cash that we have, it goes back to

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the nisab of gold and silver.

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But how do we decide?

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Here the scholars differed.

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Should we go by the nisab of silver

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or the nisab of gold?

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Some said we go by gold, some say

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we go by silver.

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And the more balanced opinion regarding this is

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that we go by what is more beneficial

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for the poor and the needy, which is

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the lower of the two, which everyone happens

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to be lower.

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And nowadays, silver, the value of silver is

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lower.

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And so if you have just a couple

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of hundred dollars, maybe two hundred, three hundred

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dollars that has been with you for over

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a year, then zakah is obligatory on you.

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But if you were to go by the

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nisab of gold, it's somewhere in the thousands,

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something like five, six thousand dollars.

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So you see the huge difference.

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And when it comes to gold and silver

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and cash, the zakah is due when you

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have those savings for a year.

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And then the Prophet ﷺ mentioned the nisab

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of animals.

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And here, specifically, we're talking about what are

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known as assa'imah, which are grazing animals.

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Not just any animals, they have to be

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grazing animals.

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And they are basically bahemat al-an'am,

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which are camels, sheep, goats, cows.

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If you have these animals with you, then

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zakah is due.

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And the Prophet ﷺ explained it.

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If you have five camels, meaning five and

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below, there's no zakah.

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So you have to have more than five.

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And it's different for each of the animals.

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But here, specifically, the Prophet ﷺ spoke about

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camels.

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For cows, it's a different nisab.

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For sheep, it's different.

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And then also, in terms of how much

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to give, even that differs.

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There's an entire chart that the Prophet ﷺ

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outlined that once you have this many camels,

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this is what you give of it.

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Once you have ten, once you have fifteen,

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once you have a hundred, this is what

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you give.

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And this is useful for anyone who has

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a farm or has animals.

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But for the rest of us, I don't

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know if it's much useful.

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But what we learn from this hadith, the

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lesson that we learn from this hadith, is

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the mercy of Allah.

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And look at how Allah ﷻ made it

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so easy for us, this deen.

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Where something like zakah, even though it's a

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pillar of Islam, it's not obligatory on everyone.

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It's only obligatory on you once you have

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reached that threshold.

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Because those who haven't reached that threshold, they're

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going to be struggling.

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And this is the little amount that they

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have saved.

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Or they perhaps don't have any savings at

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all.

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Even though the amount to give is very

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little, 2.5% is nothing, but still.

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Look at the mercy of Allah and how

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Allah ﷻ has made this deen extremely easy

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and convenient for us.

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Even though zakah is a pillar of Islam,

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as we said.

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It's one of the pillars of Islam.

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Where do we give zakah?

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Who do we give it to?

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Many people think it's only the poor and

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the needy.

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Other people, they like to expand it.

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We could give zakah wherever we like.

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Allah ﷻ has outlined eight outlets of zakah

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in one ayah.

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And that is in Surah At-Tawbah.

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So these are the eight outlets.

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The poor, the masakeen, the needy.

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Those who work in collecting the zakah.

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Those who we hope that if we give

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them some money, non-Muslims, we hope that

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it will attract them to Islam.

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Freeing a slave.

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Those who are in debt.

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In the cause of Allah.

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And what is meant here is jihad fi

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sabeelillah.

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Even though some scholars like to mention that

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fi sabeelillah is more general to include anything

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for the sake of Allah.

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But the correct view here is that it

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is specifically regarding jihad.

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And the reason for that is because whenever

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Allah ﷻ says in the Qur'an, it

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only refers to jihad fi sabeelillah.

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And if you want to say it includes

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something else, then you need to prove it.

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You need to bring evidence.

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You need to bring evidence.

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And there is no evidence to say that

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fi sabeelillah here means other things as well.

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We don't have a hadith where the Prophet

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ﷺ is explaining this ayah to be fi

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sabeelillah as general.

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So fi sabeelillah and ibn sabeel, the wafer,

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the traveler who is stuck, these are the

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eight outlets of zakah.

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We move on to the next hadith.

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And that is the hadith of Abu Sa

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'id al-Khudri again.

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Also in Bukhari and Muslim.

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يُغْنِهِ اللَّهِ وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ يُصَبِّرْهُ اللَّهِ وَمَا أُعْطِيَ

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أَحَدٌ عَطَاعًا خَيْرًا وَأَوْسَعَ مِنَ الصَّبَرِ Here the

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Shaykh mentioned a part of the hadith.

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But the beginning part of the hadith, basically

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some of the Ansar came to the Prophet

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ﷺ and asked him for some money.

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So he gave them.

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Then they came again.

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And he gave them.

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Then he said, whatever I have, I would

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never hide it from you.

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But Allah ﷻ, then he mentioned this part

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of the hadith.

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The Prophet ﷺ says, but whoever abstains from

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asking, then Allah ﷻ will make him one

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who will be satisfied with what he has.

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And whoever is self-sufficient, then

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Allah ﷻ will make him self-sufficient.

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And whoever strives to be patient, Allah ﷻ

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will make him patient.

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And then he said, no one has been

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given a greater or a better gift nor

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a more vast gift than the gift of

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patience.

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And so here the Prophet ﷺ mentioned three

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things.

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He mentioned three things.

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These are three qualities that we should strive

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to attain.

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The first two are very similar.

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Al-'afaf and al-ghina.

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And so al-'afaf means to basically abstain.

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And it's usually used in the context of

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controlling one's desires.

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It's usually used in that context.

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So it usually means being chased.

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Abstaining from your sexual desires.

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But here it doesn't mean that.

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Here it means in terms of wealth.

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Abstaining.

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Abstaining in the sense that if you don't

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have it, don't go around asking for it.

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If you don't have money, abstain from it.

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That's the meaning of what the Prophet ﷺ

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is saying here.

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And he says, whoever does that, then Allah

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ﷻ will make him to be afif.

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Ya'ifuhullah.

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Allah will make him to be one who

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abstains.

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He'll help him in that basically.

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And the second is al-ghina, which means

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richness.

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Or here in the context of this hadith,

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it means self-sufficiency.

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That you're satisfied with what you have.

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Whoever strives to be like that, then Allah

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will make him to be that.

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Allah ﷻ will make him to be that.

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And as the Prophet ﷺ says in another

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hadith, that real al-ghina is not having

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a lot of riches of the dunya, but

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the real richness is the richness of the

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heart, which is the self-sufficiency of the

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heart.

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And the Prophet ﷺ also tells us in

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another hadith that this wealth, whatever if it

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comes to you without you asking for it,

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without you going out of your way for

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it, then take it.

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But if it is not the case, if

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that is not the case, then don't go

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asking people for money.

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Basically, the lesson we learn from this hadith

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is don't be a beggar.

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As the Prophet ﷺ tells us in the

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other hadith, that the hand that gives is

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better than the hand that receives.

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And the Prophet ﷺ also taught us a

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du'a in this regard.

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He taught us a du'a in this

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regard that we ask Allah for these two

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things, al-'afaf and al-ghina.

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Allahumma inni as'aluka al-huda wa al

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-tuqa wa al-'afafa wa al-ghina.

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O Allah, I ask you for al-huda,

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which is guidance, and the Shaykh here comments,

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he says, al-huda here means beneficial knowledge.

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Wa al-tuqa, which means al-taqwa, he

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says the meaning of this is good deeds

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and staying away from haram.

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So he says these two things, they perfect

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your deen.

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Guidance, al-huda and al-tuqa, these two

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things perfect your deen.

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And then the other two things, which is

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al-'afaf, shastity and ghina, he says these two

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things, they give you that richness of the

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heart.

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They make you, you know, not only to

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be beloved by Allah, but also make you

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to be beloved to the creation.

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And then the last part of the hadith

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talks about patience.

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And notice how here the Prophet ﷺ does

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not say patience in general.

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He doesn't say whoever is patient, Allah will

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make him patient, no.

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He says, وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ He doesn't say, وَمَنْ

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يَصْبِرْ He says, وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ And in the

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Arabic language, تَصَبَّرْ, you know, on this scale,

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what it means is to strive in something.

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To strive in something.

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So, for example, تَعَلَّمْ To strive in learning.

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تَكَلَّفْ You know, he really took a huge

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responsibility, a huge task on himself, so he's

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striving to fulfill that task.

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And تَصَبَّرْ means, to strive hard to be

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patient.

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The Prophet ﷺ says, whoever strives hard to

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be patient, Allah will make him patient.

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So it's not just we try to be

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patient, we're patient sometimes, we're not patient other

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times, no.

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We're striving hard constantly to struggle against that

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nafs, to be patient.

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Whoever does that, Allah will make him patient.

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And, you know, there is no greater thing

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that we could possibly strive to attain than

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a صَبَرْ Because with that, you know, everything

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will be made easy for you in your

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dunya and your akhirah.

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That's why Allah ﷻ commands us, وَاسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ

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وَالصَّلَاحِ Seek help through these two things.

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For all of, you know, your affairs, whether

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it's related to your deen or your dunya.

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Seek help through these two things.

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الصَّبَرْ and الصَّلَاحِ الصَّبَرْ and الصَّلَاحِ And,

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you know, patience is, as a scholar say,

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over three things.

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But the Shaykh adds a fourth.

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The first is patience over the commandments of

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Allah.

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Patience over what Allah has commanded.

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Meaning, everything Allah and His Messenger have commanded

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us to do, to be patient in performing

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that duty.

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So for example, Allah has commanded us to

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pray.

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Salat al-Fajr is difficult for some people.

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We need to be patient in getting up.

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And then making wudu on winter days with

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the water, if it's cold.

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Right?

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So that requires patience over the commandments of

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Allah.

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Number two, patience over what Allah has made

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haram.

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Being patient, meaning, to strive against your nafs,

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not to do what is haram.

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You need patience.

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You need patience to, you know, stay away

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from haram, when it's tempting, when your nafs

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wants to do it.

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But you're patient and you don't do it

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over the prohibitions of Allah.

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Number three, patience over the painful calamities that

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Allah sends upon us.

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You fall ill, you get diagnosed with a

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disease, you have a financial calamity in your

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life, you have a marital problem in your

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life, you have a disability, you've lost a

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loved one, you've lost this, that, all of

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these calamities and, you know, afflictions, they require

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patience.

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They require patience.

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And then the Shaykh adds a fourth, he

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says, being patient, being patient over the blessings

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of Allah.

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So, being patient in tough times, but also

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being patient in good times.

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How?

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He says, that in good times, we don't

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indulge in the blessings of Allah to the

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point where we forget about Allah.

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So that requires patience in controlling yourself when

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you're enjoying life, basically.

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And, you know, being grateful to Allah for

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the blessings of Allah.

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And he concludes this hadith by mentioning that

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patience is the key to Jannah.

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Patience is the key to Jannah.

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Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la says,

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وَالْمَلَائِكَةُ يَدْخُلُونَ عَلَيْهِم مِّن كُلِّ بَابٍ Allah talks

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about the people of Jannah.

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He says, the angels enter upon them from

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every door.

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What do they say to them?

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سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ بِمَا صَبَرْتُمْ They say Salam to

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us.

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For what?

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They say, سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ for what you were

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patient over.

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Meaning, you have attained this reward because you

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used to be patient.

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بِمَا صَبَرْتُمْ And Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta

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-A'la also says, أُولَٰئِكَ يُجِزَوْنَ الْغُرْفَةَ بِمَا

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صَبَرُوا After Allah talks about the people of

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Jannah and the rewards that they're gonna have,

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Allah says, they attained these chambers in Jannah,

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these palaces in Jannah because they were patient.

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Because they were patient.

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And so this shows us that patience is

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something we need to strive for.

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It's something we need to strive for practically

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in every part of our life.

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There's never a time when we should lose

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sight of being patient.

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And as the Prophet ﷺ says, to strive

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for it.

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Not just, you know, I'm gonna be patient.

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No, I need to strive.

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يَتَصَبَّرْ وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ يُصَبِّرْهُ اللَّهُ Whoever strives to

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be patient, Allah will make him patient.

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We move on after that to the next

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hadith.

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And this is the hadith of Abu Hurair

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r.a, which is narrated by Imam Muslim

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in his Sahih.

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قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ مَا نَقَصَتْ صَدَقَةٌ

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مِن مَالٍ وَمَا زَادَ اللَّهُ عَبْدًا بِعَثْوٍ إِلَّا

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عِزَّةً وَمَا تَوَاضَعَ أَحَدٌ لِلَّهِ إِلَّا رَفَعَهُ اللَّهُ

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Here the Prophet ﷺ mentions three things.

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He mentions three things.

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And these are three virtuous things that we

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should strive for.

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And he mentions that these three things are

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actually beneficial for us.

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And that we actually gain by applying these

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three things in our lives.

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And we don't lose anything.

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We don't lose anything by doing these three

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things.

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And the reason why the Prophet ﷺ mentions

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these three things is because most people think

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that if I do these three things, it's

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gonna impact me negatively.

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I'm gonna face negative consequences as a result.

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So that's why the Prophet ﷺ mentions these

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three things.

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And he mentions the opposite of what people

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think.

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So what does he say?

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Number one, مَا نَقَصَتْ صَدَقَةٌ مِن مَالٍ الصَّدَقَة

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This money, this wealth that we have, it

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is something that our hearts are attached to.

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As Allah Azzawajal says, وَإِنَّهُ لِحُبِّ الْخَيْرِ لَشَدِيدٌ

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That man is attached to khayr here means

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wealth.

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His heart is attached to it.

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وَتُحِبُّونَ الْمَالَ حُبًّا جَمًّا And you love wealth.

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So you don't want to give it up.

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You don't want to give it away.

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And we only use whatever wealth we have

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to satisfy our own pleasures.

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But now, how are we gonna give sadaqa

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if that's the case?

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So people, they have this idea that if

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I am gonna give, I'm gonna be losing.

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They're thinking according to material standards.

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If I give, you know, obviously, obviously my

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savings are gonna go down.

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And the more I give, the more I'm

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gonna become bankrupt.

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But what did the Prophet ﷺ tell us

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here?

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That no, sadaqa does not decrease wealth.

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That's what he says here.

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Sadaqa does not decrease wealth.

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The Shaykh says, how do we understand this?

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We understand it that from one aspect, yes,

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it does decrease wealth.

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But when you look at it from other

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aspects, it's not decreasing, it's only increasing.

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And that is from the aspect of the

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barakah.

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Who is it who gave you this wealth

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to begin with?

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It's Allah.

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So if Allah gave it to you, and

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you want to keep it, you want it

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to remain with you, and you want it

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to grow, then one of the ways of

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making it to grow is by giving it.

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By giving it in sadaqa for the sake

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of Allah.

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And so when you do that, not only

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is it not gonna decrease, but it's actually

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gonna increase.

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It's actually gonna increase.

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And the Shaykh says, this is not only

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something that we have been promised by Allah

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and His Messenger, right?

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In one hadith, the Prophet ﷺ says that

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whatever you give up for the sake of

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Allah, Allah will replace it with something better.

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Not only is it something we've been told

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about, and so we believe it, part of

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our iman, but he says it's also been

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tested and tried.

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It's also been tested and tried.

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Almost everyone who actually does give sadaqa, and

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they give it with ikhlas, with sincerity, not

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to show off or for other reasons, for

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the sake of the dunya, but sincerely for

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Allah, they found that this money actually is

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coming back.

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It's actually growing, it's actually increasing, and it's

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not decreasing.

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So this is number one.

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Number two, the Prophet ﷺ says, وَمَا زَادَ

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اللَّهُ عَبْدًا بِعَفْوٍّ إِلَّا عِزَّا That

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Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, anyone who pardons

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others, anyone who pardons others, he only increases

00:35:02 --> 00:35:06

in glory, in honor.

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Allah does not increase a servant by pardoning,

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except by increasing him in honor.

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Again, pardoning and forgiving others when they do

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evil to us, or we are wronged by

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others, whether verbally or physically.

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Right?

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When people do us wrong, it's very difficult

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to forgive.

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It's very difficult to let it go.

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Right?

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And most people think that if I forgive,

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if I'm going to pardon, then that's going

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to make me, you know, disgraced and humiliated.

00:36:07 --> 00:36:07

Right?

00:36:08 --> 00:36:09

That's the way people think.

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Most people, that's how they think.

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That why should I lower myself to that

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level?

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He did me wrong.

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Why?

00:36:19 --> 00:36:20

Why should I forgive him?

00:36:21 --> 00:36:21

Right?

00:36:21 --> 00:36:21

Why?

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That's humiliating.

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So these are people with an ego.

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They don't want to let it go.

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They don't want to let it go.

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They want to keep that grudge in their

00:36:32 --> 00:36:32

hearts.

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Right?

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So the Prophet ﷺ is explaining, no, it's

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the opposite.

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By pardoning and forgiving, you're not lowering yourself,

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but you're actually, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala

00:36:45 --> 00:36:51

is actually elevating you in izzah, you know,

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with honor.

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He is bringing you up.

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So al-izzah is the opposite of, you

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know, dhillah, humiliation.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

So you're not being degraded, you're actually being

00:37:04 --> 00:37:05

elevated.

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And pardoning and forgiving is from, you know,

00:37:13 --> 00:37:16

the qualities of the Prophets and the Messengers.

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You know, look at the Prophet ﷺ.

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On the day of Fath Makkah, you know,

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he enters Makkah.

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And here are all these people who for

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years persecuted him, his companions, and all these

00:37:36 --> 00:37:37

wars that they fought.

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And what did he do in the end?

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He pardoned all of them.

00:37:44 --> 00:37:44

Right?

00:37:44 --> 00:37:45

He pardoned all of them.

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You know, that was the day of amnesty.

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And we have the example of Yusuf ﷺ.

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You know, after what his brothers did to

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him, and now he becomes a grown man,

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and he has a position of authority, he's

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a minister, and these same brothers come back,

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and they meet him, and he has the

00:38:16 --> 00:38:17

upper hand over them.

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When you have the upper hand, you could

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easily take your revenge now.

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Just like the Prophet ﷺ, he could have

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taken revenge on that day, but he didn't.

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Right?

00:38:32 --> 00:38:34

Yusuf ﷺ forgave them.

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He forgave them.

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لَا تَثْرِيبَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْيَوْمُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ He

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said, there's no blame on you today.

00:38:46 --> 00:38:47

May Allah forgive you.

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Did that lower Yusuf ﷺ in the eyes

00:38:53 --> 00:38:56

of the people, or Muhammad ﷺ on the

00:38:56 --> 00:38:57

day of the conquest of Mecca?

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It didn't lower them, it only elevated them.

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People then looked up to them.

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You know, this is a real man, someone

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who forgives.

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And then number three, وَمَا تَوَاضَعَ أَحَدٌ لِلَّهِ

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إِلَّا رَفَعَهُ اللَّهُ That no one humbles himself

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for Allah, except that Allah raises him.

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31

No one humbles himself for Allah, except that

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

Allah raises him.

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Again, humbleness, humility.

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To be humble with Allah and also with

00:39:44 --> 00:39:45

the people.

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Not to be arrogant.

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Not to think that you're somebody and everyone

00:39:49 --> 00:39:50

else are nothing.

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But rather to show تواضع, humbleness.

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If you do that, if you show humbleness,

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it doesn't mean that you are lowering yourself,

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humiliating yourself, degrading yourself, and people are now

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going to look at you as being somebody

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low.

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No.

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When you humble yourself before Allah and before

00:40:11 --> 00:40:15

the people, then you actually rise in the

00:40:15 --> 00:40:17

eyes of Allah and in the eyes of

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the people.

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But notice here, the Shaykh mentions this.

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Notice how the Prophet ﷺ says here, وَمَا

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تَوَاضَعَ أَحَدٌ لِلَّهِ That no one humbles himself

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for Allah, meaning for the sake of Allah.

00:40:33 --> 00:40:37

Meaning that we should do it for the

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sake of Allah, not for any other reason.

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Not for the sake of gaining the praise

00:40:43 --> 00:40:43

of the people.

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I'm going to humble myself to look humble

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so that people call me someone humble and

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they start praising me.

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No, you're doing it for the sake of

00:40:55 --> 00:40:55

Allah.

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لِلَّهِ And so when you do it for

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the sake of Allah, then Allah ﷻ elevates

00:41:01 --> 00:41:01

you.

00:41:03 --> 00:41:08

As Allah ﷻ elevated, the people of knowledge.

00:41:08 --> 00:41:12

يَرْفَعِ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا مِنكُمْ وَالَّذِينَ أُوتُوا الْعِلْمَ

00:41:12 --> 00:41:18

دَرَجَاتً Allah raises, elevates, those who believe among

00:41:18 --> 00:41:21

you as well as the people of knowledge

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by a lot of degrees.

00:41:22 --> 00:41:26

Allah raises them by several degrees.

00:41:28 --> 00:41:31

Finally, we'll take one last hadith.

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And this is extravagant.

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So the brother is asking about being extravagant

00:42:18 --> 00:42:19

and open-handed.

00:42:20 --> 00:42:23

What is the definition of, you know, spending

00:42:23 --> 00:42:24

too much basically.

00:42:25 --> 00:42:27

Because one of the qualities that Allah mentions

00:42:27 --> 00:42:31

in the Quran of Ibadur Rahman, the servants

00:42:31 --> 00:42:35

of Ar-Rahman, is that, you know, when

00:42:35 --> 00:42:39

they spend, they don't withhold, they're not greedy

00:42:39 --> 00:42:44

and stingy, nor are they extravagant.

00:42:45 --> 00:42:49

وَلَمْ يُسْرِفُوا So what is the definition of

00:42:49 --> 00:42:50

being extravagant?

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

Basically, this differs from person to person.

00:42:52 --> 00:42:57

So the scholars say that, you know, a

00:42:57 --> 00:43:02

rich person, what is considered Isra for him

00:43:02 --> 00:43:04

is different than a poor person.

00:43:05 --> 00:43:05

Right?

00:43:07 --> 00:43:08

So it differs.

00:43:09 --> 00:43:12

And basically, what it comes down to is

00:43:13 --> 00:43:14

the norm.

00:43:15 --> 00:43:15

Right?

00:43:17 --> 00:43:22

For example, what you spend, or let's say,

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

you know, the norms of the society.

00:43:25 --> 00:43:28

So what we may spend here, let's say

00:43:28 --> 00:43:31

in North America, certain things that we spend

00:43:31 --> 00:43:34

on, a person back home would see that

00:43:34 --> 00:43:35

as being Israf.

00:43:37 --> 00:43:37

Right?

00:43:39 --> 00:43:40

But it's not.

00:43:41 --> 00:43:41

Right?

00:43:41 --> 00:43:44

So it differs from person to person, as

00:43:44 --> 00:43:46

well as from society to society.

00:43:47 --> 00:43:47

Right?

00:43:47 --> 00:43:49

So basically, this is one of the things

00:43:49 --> 00:43:51

that goes back to what is known as

00:43:51 --> 00:43:53

the Urf and the customs of the people.

00:43:54 --> 00:43:55

Allahu A'lam.

00:44:01 --> 00:44:03

For example, forgiving goes to our Ka'bah.

00:44:31 --> 00:44:31

Yeah.

00:44:31 --> 00:44:34

So what's the rule on the point?

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

Should we still forgive them and draw the

00:44:41 --> 00:44:42

line on the friendship?

00:44:43 --> 00:44:46

Yeah, so when it comes to forgiving, pardoning,

00:44:47 --> 00:44:50

what is meant by that is where you

00:44:50 --> 00:44:55

see that there is actually a greater benefit

00:44:56 --> 00:44:57

in pardoning and forgiving.

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03

And we're pardoning and forgiving when you have

00:45:03 --> 00:45:04

the upper hand.

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

As we saw in the story of the

00:45:06 --> 00:45:07

Prophet ﷺ and Yusuf ﷺ.

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

So when they had the ability to take

00:45:11 --> 00:45:12

revenge, they forgave.

00:45:13 --> 00:45:18

That's different than, for example, you know, you're

00:45:18 --> 00:45:21

still subjugated by these people, and you're saying,

00:45:21 --> 00:45:22

I forgive you.

00:45:22 --> 00:45:25

You don't have the ability to take revenge,

00:45:26 --> 00:45:27

and you're saying, I forgive you.

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

No, you don't forgive in that instance.

00:45:31 --> 00:45:33

But rather when you have the upper hand.

00:45:33 --> 00:45:36

And also, who to forgive and who to

00:45:36 --> 00:45:36

pardon.

00:45:38 --> 00:45:40

So obviously, you know, the same thing.

00:45:41 --> 00:45:46

With regards to the kuffar, the Prophet ﷺ

00:45:46 --> 00:45:48

forgave them on the day of the conquest

00:45:48 --> 00:45:50

of Mecca while they were still kuffar.

00:45:51 --> 00:45:53

And some of them remained kuffar for some

00:45:53 --> 00:45:53

time.

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And then later they became Muslim.

00:45:57 --> 00:45:59

So the same thing, if you have the

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

upper hand, and you have non-Muslims who

00:46:01 --> 00:46:04

did something bad to you, you have to

00:46:04 --> 00:46:07

look, you know, do I have the upper

00:46:07 --> 00:46:07

hand or not?

00:46:08 --> 00:46:10

And then you need to look at, you

00:46:10 --> 00:46:12

know, if I forgive, will something good come

00:46:12 --> 00:46:12

out of that?

00:46:13 --> 00:46:16

So the Prophet ﷺ, when he forgave these

00:46:16 --> 00:46:20

people on that day, he was looking ahead.

00:46:21 --> 00:46:22

He was looking at their Islam.

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

He was looking at the interest of having

00:46:26 --> 00:46:31

these people becoming Muslim by him forgiving them.

00:46:32 --> 00:46:33

And that's exactly what happened.

00:46:33 --> 00:46:36

Some of them, until that day, they said

00:46:36 --> 00:46:38

that he was the most hated individual to

00:46:38 --> 00:46:38

us.

00:46:40 --> 00:46:42

But then because he forgave us.

00:46:43 --> 00:46:45

And then after that, he was giving them

00:46:45 --> 00:46:47

from the spoils of the war.

00:46:48 --> 00:46:52

He said, one of them, he said, the

00:46:52 --> 00:46:53

Prophet ﷺ kept on giving me, and this

00:46:53 --> 00:46:57

hadith is in Sahih Muslim, he says, until,

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01

so before he was the most hated individual

00:47:01 --> 00:47:03

to me, but he kept on giving me,

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05

and giving me until he became the most

00:47:05 --> 00:47:06

beloved person to me.

00:47:08 --> 00:47:08

Right?

00:47:09 --> 00:47:12

So you have to take into consideration what

00:47:12 --> 00:47:15

is known as the masaleh and the mafasid.

00:47:15 --> 00:47:19

What are the benefits versus the harms.

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

So if you think there's a benefit in

00:47:22 --> 00:47:23

forgiving, then you should forgive.

00:47:24 --> 00:47:26

If you think that they'll take advantage of

00:47:26 --> 00:47:30

it, they won't care, then no.

00:47:30 --> 00:47:31

It depends.

00:47:33 --> 00:47:35

Alright, we move on to that last hadith.

00:47:39 --> 00:47:41

And this is also narrated by Abu Hurairah

00:47:41 --> 00:47:45

r.a. And also it is found in

00:47:45 --> 00:47:46

Bukhari and Muslim.

00:47:47 --> 00:47:52

And this hadith we all, I'm sure, have

00:47:52 --> 00:47:52

heard.

00:47:53 --> 00:47:55

We hear it every Ramadan.

00:47:56 --> 00:47:59

And so it's related to the virtues of

00:47:59 --> 00:47:59

fasting.

00:48:01 --> 00:48:04

But the Prophet ﷺ starts off by talking

00:48:04 --> 00:48:05

about deeds in general.

00:48:08 --> 00:48:10

So Abu Hurairah r.a. says, قَالَ قَالَ

00:48:10 --> 00:48:16

رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ كُلُّ عَمَلِ بْنِ آدَمَ يُضَاعَفْ

00:48:16 --> 00:48:25

الْحَسَنَةُ بِعَشْرِ أَمْثَالِهَا إِلَىٰ سَبْعِمِيئَةِ ضِعْفٍ It's a

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

long hadith, so we'll take it in parts.

00:48:27 --> 00:48:33

The Prophet ﷺ says, every deed, every act

00:48:33 --> 00:48:37

of the son of Adam, every human being,

00:48:37 --> 00:48:38

is multiplied.

00:48:38 --> 00:48:41

Every good deed you do, it is multiplied.

00:48:42 --> 00:48:45

One good deed, one hasanah, you get ten.

00:48:46 --> 00:48:47

The reward is ten.

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

From ten up to seven hundred.

00:48:53 --> 00:48:55

The Prophet ﷺ says here, from ten up

00:48:55 --> 00:48:57

to seven hundred.

00:49:01 --> 00:49:02

And that is based on ayat of the

00:49:02 --> 00:49:02

Qur'an.

00:49:03 --> 00:49:10

Allah ﷻ says, that الْحَسَنَةُ بِعَشْرِ أَمْثَالِهَا That

00:49:10 --> 00:49:12

one hasanah is equal to ten.

00:49:12 --> 00:49:18

As for seven hundred, where is that mentioned?

00:49:22 --> 00:49:24

Yes, in Surah Al-Baqarah, the reward of

00:49:24 --> 00:49:25

sadaqah.

00:49:26 --> 00:49:31

That Allah ﷻ, He compares it to a

00:49:31 --> 00:49:38

grain that you grow, that has seven leaves

00:49:38 --> 00:49:38

that come out.

00:49:39 --> 00:49:43

And each of these leaves or stalks has

00:49:43 --> 00:49:44

a hundred seeds.

00:49:45 --> 00:49:47

So that becomes seven hundred.

00:49:47 --> 00:49:51

So the Prophet ﷺ says, every good deed

00:49:51 --> 00:49:55

we do, it is from ten to seven

00:49:55 --> 00:49:55

hundred.

00:49:58 --> 00:50:03

And then he says, قَالَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى إِلَّا

00:50:03 --> 00:50:08

الصَّوْمِ فَإِنَّهُ لِي وَأَنَا أَجْزِي بِهِ He says,

00:50:08 --> 00:50:16

Allah ﷻ says, except for fasting, it was

00:50:16 --> 00:50:19

done for me, so I will reward him

00:50:19 --> 00:50:19

for it.

00:50:20 --> 00:50:24

It was done exclusively for me, so I

00:50:24 --> 00:50:25

will reward him for it.

00:50:25 --> 00:50:26

What does that mean?

00:50:29 --> 00:50:31

All of our deeds, we do them for

00:50:31 --> 00:50:31

Allah.

00:50:32 --> 00:50:34

And all of our deeds, Allah will reward

00:50:34 --> 00:50:34

us.

00:50:35 --> 00:50:35

So what does this mean?

00:50:36 --> 00:50:41

What this means is, that fasting is one

00:50:41 --> 00:50:45

of those deeds that it's difficult to do

00:50:45 --> 00:50:47

it for other than the sake of Allah.

00:50:48 --> 00:50:53

Whereas almost all other good deeds, it's easy

00:50:53 --> 00:50:56

to fall into what is known as riyal,

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

which is showing off your good deeds.

00:51:00 --> 00:51:06

But it's difficult with regards to fasting, because

00:51:06 --> 00:51:09

you could tell people you're fasting, you could

00:51:09 --> 00:51:11

show them you're fasting, you could stay away

00:51:11 --> 00:51:13

from food and drink, they offer you food,

00:51:13 --> 00:51:15

you say I'm fasting, you could show it

00:51:15 --> 00:51:15

off.

00:51:15 --> 00:51:20

But then when there's no one around, you

00:51:20 --> 00:51:21

could easily eat and drink.

00:51:23 --> 00:51:23

Right?

00:51:25 --> 00:51:26

But why don't you eat and drink?

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

Because you're doing it for Allah.

00:51:29 --> 00:51:32

You're doing it exclusively for Allah.

00:51:33 --> 00:51:34

So fasting is one of those things, it's

00:51:34 --> 00:51:36

difficult to do it for other than Allah.

00:51:36 --> 00:51:38

So that's why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:51:38 --> 00:51:39

says, accept fasting.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:43

Meaning, every good deed besides fasting, the reward

00:51:43 --> 00:51:46

is from 10 to 700.

00:51:47 --> 00:51:48

Except for fasting.

00:51:48 --> 00:51:49

What does that mean?

00:51:49 --> 00:51:52

It means a reward is something so great,

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

that we don't even know what it is.

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

It's more than just 10 or 700.

00:52:01 --> 00:52:03

It's reward is great.

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

It is so great that it wasn't mentioned.

00:52:10 --> 00:52:13

Just like with regards to as-sabr.

00:52:14 --> 00:52:17

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, إِنَّمَا يُوَفَّى

00:52:17 --> 00:52:23

الصَّابِرُونَ أَجْرَهُمْ بِغَيْرِ حِسَابٍ The people of patience,

00:52:23 --> 00:52:27

Allah will reward them without any equivalent reward.

00:52:29 --> 00:52:30

It's not, you know, this is your good

00:52:30 --> 00:52:33

deed, this is what you get in numbers.

00:52:33 --> 00:52:33

No.

00:52:34 --> 00:52:36

We don't even know what the reward for

00:52:36 --> 00:52:37

that will be.

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

It's so great.

00:52:39 --> 00:52:40

Likewise with regards to fasting.

00:52:42 --> 00:52:46

And then the Prophet ﷺ explains, why is

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

the reward so great for fasting.

00:52:49 --> 00:52:56

يَدَعُ شَهْوَتَهُ وَطَعَامَهُ مِنْ أَجْلِ Now obviously, this

00:52:56 --> 00:52:58

is Allah speaking here, until the end of

00:52:58 --> 00:52:59

the hadith.

00:53:03 --> 00:53:05

And any hadith in which Allah subhanahu wa

00:53:05 --> 00:53:07

ta'ala is speaking, this is called a

00:53:07 --> 00:53:09

hadith Qudsi.

00:53:10 --> 00:53:11

A hadith Qudsi.

00:53:13 --> 00:53:18

So Allah azzawajal says, He abandons, He leaves

00:53:18 --> 00:53:22

His shahwa, His lustful desires, and His food

00:53:22 --> 00:53:23

for my sake.

00:53:25 --> 00:53:25

Okay.

00:53:25 --> 00:53:27

So again we understand the reasoning here.

00:53:28 --> 00:53:34

He abandons food and His desires for the

00:53:34 --> 00:53:34

sake of Allah.

00:53:35 --> 00:53:36

Right.

00:53:36 --> 00:53:38

Not for anyone else.

00:53:44 --> 00:53:49

And then He says, لِلصَّائِمِ فَرْحَتَانَ فَرْحَةٌ عِنْدَ

00:53:49 --> 00:53:57

فِطْرِهِ وَفَرْحَةٌ عِنْدَ لِقَاءِ رَبِّهِ The fasting person

00:53:57 --> 00:54:02

has two joyous moments.

00:54:04 --> 00:54:06

The fasting person is going to be happy

00:54:06 --> 00:54:07

twice.

00:54:08 --> 00:54:10

The first time when he breaks his fast.

00:54:11 --> 00:54:14

So after a long day of fasting, now

00:54:14 --> 00:54:15

it's time to break your fast.

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

You know, you're happy.

00:54:19 --> 00:54:22

You're feeling content and in a state of

00:54:22 --> 00:54:22

joy.

00:54:24 --> 00:54:27

And the second time, when you meet your

00:54:27 --> 00:54:27

Lord.

00:54:28 --> 00:54:30

When you meet Allah.

00:54:30 --> 00:54:32

When you meet Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

00:54:34 --> 00:54:36

Now what's the relation between the two?

00:54:37 --> 00:54:43

Basically, the fasting person, he stayed away from

00:54:43 --> 00:54:47

what was otherwise halal for him.

00:54:49 --> 00:54:51

In fact, the essentials of life.

00:54:52 --> 00:54:53

Food and drink.

00:54:55 --> 00:54:56

Essentials of life.

00:54:58 --> 00:55:01

You abstained from it, right?

00:55:02 --> 00:55:03

For the sake of Allah.

00:55:03 --> 00:55:05

And it wasn't easy to do that.

00:55:06 --> 00:55:07

It wasn't easy to do that.

00:55:08 --> 00:55:11

Especially if your fasting is a voluntary fast.

00:55:12 --> 00:55:14

If it's Ramadan, it's different.

00:55:15 --> 00:55:17

It's easier in the sense that, you know,

00:55:17 --> 00:55:18

everyone's fasting.

00:55:19 --> 00:55:22

And, you know, this is a pillar of

00:55:22 --> 00:55:22

Islam.

00:55:22 --> 00:55:23

I have to do it, right?

00:55:24 --> 00:55:29

But voluntarily fasting, a sunnah fast, it's not

00:55:29 --> 00:55:29

easy.

00:55:30 --> 00:55:32

Because no one made it compulsory upon you.

00:55:33 --> 00:55:33

Right?

00:55:34 --> 00:55:36

You did it out of your own free

00:55:36 --> 00:55:36

will.

00:55:38 --> 00:55:40

And it required patience.

00:55:40 --> 00:55:41

It was tough.

00:55:42 --> 00:55:45

But you strove hard, as we spoke earlier

00:55:45 --> 00:55:48

about, you know, the importance of striving hard

00:55:48 --> 00:55:48

and patience.

00:55:49 --> 00:55:52

You strove hard throughout the day.

00:55:53 --> 00:55:54

You know, you could have broken your fast,

00:55:54 --> 00:55:55

a voluntary fast.

00:55:55 --> 00:55:56

You could break it in the middle.

00:55:56 --> 00:55:57

But you didn't.

00:55:57 --> 00:55:58

You kept on going.

00:55:59 --> 00:55:59

Right?

00:56:00 --> 00:56:02

Through that hardship, you struggled.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:04

And then you made it to the end.

00:56:05 --> 00:56:07

Obviously, you're gonna be happy that I made

00:56:07 --> 00:56:08

it.

00:56:08 --> 00:56:09

Alhamdulillah, I made it.

00:56:09 --> 00:56:10

I did it.

00:56:11 --> 00:56:13

Likewise, when you meet Allah.

00:56:14 --> 00:56:16

Why is a fasting person, why did the

00:56:16 --> 00:56:17

Prophet ﷺ say this?

00:56:19 --> 00:56:20

Two joyous occasions.

00:56:20 --> 00:56:22

One, when he breaks his fast.

00:56:22 --> 00:56:23

And one, when he meets Allah.

00:56:23 --> 00:56:24

Because when you meet Allah, the same thing.

00:56:25 --> 00:56:28

You went through a life of struggling.

00:56:30 --> 00:56:33

Of staying away from indulging in haram.

00:56:34 --> 00:56:36

It required patience.

00:56:38 --> 00:56:40

It was difficult.

00:56:41 --> 00:56:42

It was a struggle.

00:56:43 --> 00:56:44

But you kept on going, you kept on

00:56:44 --> 00:56:44

going.

00:56:44 --> 00:56:45

Until now, you meet Allah.

00:56:46 --> 00:56:47

Obviously, you're gonna be happy.

00:56:48 --> 00:56:48

Right?

00:56:49 --> 00:56:54

And then, he says, وَلَا خَلُوفُ فَمِي الصَّائِمِ

00:56:54 --> 00:56:58

أَطْيَبُ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مِنْ رِيحِ الْمِسْكِ He says

00:56:58 --> 00:57:05

that, the smell that comes out from the

00:57:05 --> 00:57:10

fasting person's mouth is more beloved to Allah

00:57:10 --> 00:57:15

than the smell of perfume and mist.

00:57:17 --> 00:57:22

Because when you fast, obviously, on an empty

00:57:22 --> 00:57:27

stomach, there is the smell that's gonna come

00:57:27 --> 00:57:28

out from your mouth.

00:57:32 --> 00:57:34

And what we learn from this hadith, this

00:57:34 --> 00:57:38

part of the hadith, is that the standard

00:57:38 --> 00:57:42

by which we look at things as being

00:57:42 --> 00:57:49

either good and clean, or evil and filthy,

00:57:49 --> 00:57:56

the standard is by what Allah has told

00:57:56 --> 00:57:57

us.

00:57:57 --> 00:58:03

So any act of ibadah, that is gonna

00:58:03 --> 00:58:09

result in something that people perceive as being

00:58:09 --> 00:58:14

nasty or filthy, it is actually beloved to

00:58:14 --> 00:58:14

Allah.

00:58:16 --> 00:58:16

Why?

00:58:16 --> 00:58:19

Because it resulted from ibadah.

00:58:20 --> 00:58:21

It was as a result of ibadah.

00:58:25 --> 00:58:27

So you shouldn't think, I'm not gonna fast

00:58:27 --> 00:58:28

because of that smell that comes out from

00:58:28 --> 00:58:29

my mouth.

00:58:31 --> 00:58:31

Right?

00:58:33 --> 00:58:34

You shouldn't think along those lines.

00:58:35 --> 00:58:38

But instead, you should think that because it's

00:58:38 --> 00:58:43

happening because I'm worshipping Allah, then it's something

00:58:43 --> 00:58:44

beloved to Allah.

00:58:45 --> 00:58:45

Right?

00:58:49 --> 00:58:57

And then, he says, وَالصَّوْمُ جُنَّةٌ And fasting

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is a protection.

00:59:00 --> 00:59:03

Fasting is a protection.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:06

It's a protection against two things.

00:59:08 --> 00:59:12

Protection against sins, and protection from the punishment

00:59:12 --> 00:59:13

of Allah.

00:59:16 --> 00:59:18

And that we learn from what Allah tells

00:59:18 --> 00:59:20

us about fasting in the Qur'an.

00:59:20 --> 00:59:22

What is the objective of fasting?

00:59:24 --> 00:59:28

لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ Allah prescribed fasting upon us, so

00:59:28 --> 00:59:30

that we achieve taqwa.

00:59:32 --> 00:59:35

And taqwa basically means putting a barrier between

00:59:35 --> 00:59:36

yourself and the punishment of Allah.

00:59:37 --> 00:59:39

So here, the Prophet ﷺ tells us that

00:59:40 --> 00:59:42

fasting is a protection.

00:59:43 --> 00:59:44

It's a protection.

00:59:45 --> 00:59:49

Because when you're fasting, you're more conscious of

00:59:49 --> 00:59:49

Allah.

00:59:50 --> 00:59:53

So you're gonna stay away from sins.

00:59:54 --> 00:59:57

And also, when you fast, you don't have

00:59:57 --> 01:00:00

that energy to commit certain sins.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:02

Because now your body is weak.

01:00:03 --> 01:00:07

And that's why the Prophet ﷺ encouraged the

01:00:07 --> 01:00:09

young men to fast.

01:00:10 --> 01:00:12

He said, whoever among you, he was addressing

01:00:12 --> 01:00:16

the shabab, يَا مَعْشَرَ الشَّبَّابِ مَنْ إِسْتَطَعَ مِنْكُمُ

01:00:16 --> 01:00:19

الْبَاءَ فَلْيَتَزَوَّجُ Whoever among you is able to

01:00:19 --> 01:00:22

fast, whoever among you is able to get

01:00:22 --> 01:00:23

married, let him get married.

01:00:24 --> 01:00:27

But whoever is not able to, then let

01:00:27 --> 01:00:27

him fast.

01:00:28 --> 01:00:30

And then he explained the reason for that.

01:00:30 --> 01:00:30

What did he say?

01:00:31 --> 01:00:37

Because, because it helps in guarding the private

01:00:37 --> 01:00:41

part, and helps in lowering the gaze.

01:00:43 --> 01:00:43

Right?

01:00:44 --> 01:00:47

So that helps in staying away from certain

01:00:47 --> 01:00:48

sins.

01:00:48 --> 01:00:48

Fasting.

01:01:05 --> 01:01:06

Ability.

01:01:06 --> 01:01:09

And ability is something very comprehensive.

01:01:11 --> 01:01:14

It includes financially being able to.

01:01:15 --> 01:01:17

But it's not limited to just financially being

01:01:17 --> 01:01:17

able to.

01:01:30 --> 01:01:31

No, look for someone else.

01:01:42 --> 01:01:44

Like the man, he doesn't have the financial

01:01:44 --> 01:01:44

ability.

01:01:46 --> 01:01:48

No, then, no.

01:01:48 --> 01:01:51

If you don't have the financial ability, and

01:01:51 --> 01:01:53

you find someone who says, okay, I'm willing,

01:01:53 --> 01:01:55

even if you don't have the financial ability,

01:01:55 --> 01:01:57

you have to look at your personal situation.

01:01:59 --> 01:02:02

It may result in you doing zhul to

01:02:02 --> 01:02:02

her.

01:02:04 --> 01:02:07

If you're not able to financially provide for

01:02:07 --> 01:02:09

her, then you'd be doing zhul to her.

01:02:11 --> 01:02:11

Right?

01:02:12 --> 01:02:13

So it depends.

01:02:14 --> 01:02:14

It depends.

01:02:15 --> 01:02:16

Unless you have someone to help you, that's

01:02:16 --> 01:02:16

different.

01:02:17 --> 01:02:18

If you're on your own and you say,

01:02:18 --> 01:02:19

I'm going to get married even though I'm

01:02:19 --> 01:02:22

not able to, then that's not right.

01:02:22 --> 01:02:26

Okay, and then he says, وَإِذَا كَانَ يَوْمُ

01:02:26 --> 01:02:31

صَوْمِ أَحَدِكُمْ فَلَا يَرْفَثْ وَلَا يَصْخَبْ فَإِن سَابَّهُ

01:02:31 --> 01:02:37

أَحَدٌ أَوْ قَاتَلَهُ فَلْيَقُلْ إِن مُرُؤٌ صَائِمٌ The

01:02:37 --> 01:02:40

Prophet ﷺ says, and when you are fasting,

01:02:40 --> 01:02:44

on the day that you're fasting, do not

01:02:44 --> 01:02:55

use vulgar language, insulting language, nor

01:02:55 --> 01:02:56

fight and raise your voice.

01:02:57 --> 01:02:58

Do not raise your voice.

01:02:58 --> 01:02:58

Do not shout.

01:02:59 --> 01:03:03

Do not argue by raising your voices.

01:03:04 --> 01:03:07

And then he says, if someone insults you

01:03:07 --> 01:03:11

or fights you, then you should say, I

01:03:11 --> 01:03:12

am fasting.

01:03:13 --> 01:03:16

You should say, I am fasting.

01:03:21 --> 01:03:23

And so what we learn from this is

01:03:23 --> 01:03:26

that there are certain things that make the

01:03:26 --> 01:03:29

fast valid in the sight of Allah.

01:03:31 --> 01:03:34

Staying away from certain things makes the fast

01:03:34 --> 01:03:35

valid.

01:03:37 --> 01:03:42

Staying away from food, drink, sexual relations, this

01:03:42 --> 01:03:43

is what makes the fast valid.

01:03:45 --> 01:03:46

If you do one of these things, your

01:03:46 --> 01:03:47

fast is invalid.

01:03:48 --> 01:03:49

It doesn't count.

01:03:50 --> 01:03:53

But then there are certain things that we're

01:03:53 --> 01:03:55

not supposed to do when we're fasting, but

01:03:55 --> 01:03:57

it does not invalidate the fast.

01:03:57 --> 01:03:58

And among these things is what the Prophet

01:03:58 --> 01:03:59

ﷺ says here.

01:04:00 --> 01:04:03

And that is not controlling our tongues and

01:04:03 --> 01:04:07

all other haram things.

01:04:08 --> 01:04:11

What that does to the fast, it does

01:04:11 --> 01:04:15

not invalidate it, but it decreases and reduces

01:04:15 --> 01:04:16

its reward.

01:04:17 --> 01:04:21

It decreases and it reduces its reward.

01:04:21 --> 01:04:26

As the Prophet ﷺ tells us in another

01:04:26 --> 01:04:31

hadith, مَنْ لَمْ يَدَعْ قَوْلُ الزُّورِ وَالْعَمَلَ بِهِ

01:04:31 --> 01:04:34

فَلَيْسَ لِلَّهِ حَاجَةٌ فِي أَنْ يَدَعَ طَعَامَهُ وَشَرَابَهُ

01:04:35 --> 01:04:39

Whoever does not stay away from false speech

01:04:39 --> 01:04:43

and acting by it, then Allah has no

01:04:43 --> 01:04:47

need for him to leave his food and

01:04:47 --> 01:04:48

his drink.

01:04:52 --> 01:04:55

And so we have to strive to not

01:04:55 --> 01:04:57

only stay away from what invalidates the fast,

01:04:58 --> 01:05:02

but also anything that could negatively affect the

01:05:02 --> 01:05:04

fast and the reward for it.

01:05:05 --> 01:05:07

Coming back to the beginning of the hadith,

01:05:07 --> 01:05:10

the reward for fasting is humongous.

01:05:11 --> 01:05:14

It's not something we can calculate like we

01:05:14 --> 01:05:15

may be able to do with other good

01:05:15 --> 01:05:18

deeds from 10 to 700.

01:05:19 --> 01:05:22

This is something that Allah Azza wa Jalla

01:05:22 --> 01:05:25

has said that I will reward him for

01:05:25 --> 01:05:25

it.

01:05:25 --> 01:05:28

Meaning, the reward is so great that I

01:05:28 --> 01:05:29

will reward him for it.

01:05:29 --> 01:05:31

So we don't want to reduce that reward.

01:05:32 --> 01:05:34

So there are certain things that if we

01:05:34 --> 01:05:35

were to do when we're fasting, it reduces

01:05:35 --> 01:05:40

the reward, such as using foul language and

01:05:40 --> 01:05:42

fighting with people and arguing.

01:05:43 --> 01:05:45

And so we shouldn't be doing that because

01:05:45 --> 01:05:46

we're actually in the state of ibadah.

01:05:47 --> 01:05:49

We're actually in the state of ibadah.

01:05:49 --> 01:05:53

And so it's not appropriate to be behaving

01:05:53 --> 01:05:54

in such a way.

01:05:54 --> 01:05:56

Obviously, it's not appropriate for a Muslim to

01:05:56 --> 01:05:59

behave in such a way in general, right?

01:05:59 --> 01:06:03

But it becomes even more emphasized at certain

01:06:03 --> 01:06:05

times and places, right?

01:06:05 --> 01:06:08

Like when you're in ibadah, you know, like

01:06:08 --> 01:06:10

when you're fasting, or when you're in the

01:06:10 --> 01:06:14

masjid, or when you're in i'tikaf, or when

01:06:14 --> 01:06:16

you are in a blessed place like Mecca,

01:06:16 --> 01:06:21

or in the sacred months, or in Ramadan,

01:06:21 --> 01:06:22

and so on and so forth.

01:06:23 --> 01:06:24

So there are certain times when it becomes

01:06:24 --> 01:06:25

even worse.

01:06:26 --> 01:06:26

And Allah knows best.

01:06:27 --> 01:06:29

We'll stop here inshaAllah ta'ala if there's

01:06:29 --> 01:06:29

any questions.

01:06:49 --> 01:06:49

Yes.

01:06:51 --> 01:06:52

Any ibadah.

01:06:53 --> 01:06:56

So the question was regarding the reward for

01:06:56 --> 01:06:59

fasting when the days are shorter.

01:07:00 --> 01:07:04

Yeah, so what is the reward when the

01:07:04 --> 01:07:07

days are longer and when the days are

01:07:07 --> 01:07:07

shorter?

01:07:08 --> 01:07:11

Obviously, the reward is not the same, right?

01:07:12 --> 01:07:14

The reward is greater.

01:07:14 --> 01:07:16

And take this as a general rule.

01:07:18 --> 01:07:23

Any good deed or act of ibadah that

01:07:23 --> 01:07:27

requires more struggle and in which there's more

01:07:27 --> 01:07:29

hardship involved, the reward increases.

01:07:30 --> 01:07:31

The reward increases.

01:07:33 --> 01:07:35

So fasting in the long days of the

01:07:35 --> 01:07:40

summer is not the same as fasting in

01:07:40 --> 01:07:41

the short days of the winter.

01:07:42 --> 01:07:44

The reward is obviously greater where there's more

01:07:44 --> 01:07:47

hardship and struggle and patience required.

01:07:47 --> 01:07:50

And that goes across the board with all

01:07:50 --> 01:07:50

good deeds.

01:07:51 --> 01:07:52

With all good deeds.

01:07:53 --> 01:08:00

For example, praying Nafl in the daytime is

01:08:00 --> 01:08:02

not like praying a Nafl in the middle

01:08:02 --> 01:08:04

of the night or in the last third

01:08:04 --> 01:08:07

of the night when everyone is asleep.

01:08:09 --> 01:08:11

And, you know, etc.

01:08:11 --> 01:08:12

With regards to all good deeds.

01:08:16 --> 01:08:18

Yeah, with sins as well.

01:08:18 --> 01:08:22

So the more...

01:08:22 --> 01:08:24

When it comes to sins, the same thing.

01:08:26 --> 01:08:32

There are certain sins where you know, the

01:08:32 --> 01:08:35

punishment for it varies in degrees.

01:08:36 --> 01:08:39

It could be the same sin but depending

01:08:39 --> 01:08:41

on the circumstances, it could be worse.

01:08:42 --> 01:08:49

The Prophet ﷺ mentioned, for example, that an

01:08:49 --> 01:08:51

elder man, like a senior old man, if

01:08:51 --> 01:08:55

he commits zina, Allah will not speak to

01:08:55 --> 01:08:58

him on the Day of Judgment nor purify

01:08:58 --> 01:08:59

him.

01:09:00 --> 01:09:01

Why?

01:09:01 --> 01:09:02

Because there's no reason for it.

01:09:02 --> 01:09:04

He doesn't have that temptation that a young

01:09:04 --> 01:09:04

man has.

01:09:06 --> 01:09:07

And so on and so forth.

01:09:08 --> 01:09:14

You know, the same with committing sins in

01:09:14 --> 01:09:16

certain places and times, etc.

01:09:22 --> 01:09:26

Yeah, there's more reward for abandoning sins when

01:09:26 --> 01:09:27

there's more struggle.

01:09:30 --> 01:09:31

Any other questions?

01:09:31 --> 01:09:37

And it's very practical.

01:09:58 --> 01:10:02

The question is regarding the moon sighting.

01:10:27 --> 01:10:30

So you're asking what is the correct...

01:10:30 --> 01:10:39

Yeah, basically we look at you know, how

01:10:39 --> 01:10:40

reasonable it is.

01:10:41 --> 01:10:45

So if you are in the north, but

01:10:45 --> 01:10:46

the timings are reasonable.

01:10:47 --> 01:10:51

Like for example, let's say Edmonton.

01:10:51 --> 01:10:53

It's very high in the north.

01:10:55 --> 01:10:59

But you know, it's still reasonable to go

01:10:59 --> 01:11:03

by the sunset and the sunrise in the

01:11:03 --> 01:11:03

summer.

01:11:04 --> 01:11:05

The day is very long.

01:11:06 --> 01:11:09

So while we pray Maghrib at 9pm, they're

01:11:09 --> 01:11:11

praying Maghrib at 10, 15 maybe.

01:11:13 --> 01:11:15

But then still it's reasonable.

01:11:15 --> 01:11:18

But if you go further north, like to

01:11:18 --> 01:11:22

the North Pole, then here the scholars say

01:11:22 --> 01:11:26

that they should go by the nearest reasonable

01:11:26 --> 01:11:26

city.

01:11:27 --> 01:11:29

Others say they should go by Mecca.

01:11:30 --> 01:11:31

But the correct view is they should go

01:11:31 --> 01:11:33

by the nearest reasonable city.

01:11:34 --> 01:11:35

Like for example, Edmonton in this case.

01:11:36 --> 01:11:37

And Allah knows best.

01:11:38 --> 01:11:39

So we'll suffice with that.

01:11:41 --> 01:11:42

JazakAllah khair.

01:11:42 --> 01:11:46

Wa salamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

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