Kamil Ahmad – 99 Concise and Comprehensive Hadiths

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The importance of z Insurance in the financial system is discussed, including the importance of giving only a small amount of money to a person with a farm or farm equipment. The speakers emphasize the importance of patient mental health, forgiveness, and rewarding one's fasting. They also discuss the benefits of fasting, including a chance to increase one's reward and a source of wealth.

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			In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious,
		
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			the Most Merciful.
		
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			All praise is due to Allah, the Lord
		
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			of the worlds.
		
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			And peace and blessings be upon the best
		
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			of Allah's creation, and upon his family and
		
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			companions, and upon those who have been guided
		
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			by his guidance, and who have waited by
		
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			his Sunnah until the Day of Judgment.
		
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			O Allah, teach us what will benefit us,
		
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			and benefit us by what You have taught
		
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			us, and increase us in knowledge.
		
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			And show us the truth as it is,
		
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			and grant us to follow it.
		
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			And show us the falsehood as it is,
		
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			and grant us to avoid it.
		
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			And make us of those who listen to
		
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			the Word, and follow the best of it.
		
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			And after this, peace and blessings be upon
		
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			you.
		
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			And it is agreed upon, found in Bukhari
		
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			and Muslim.
		
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			Here Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam says, He says,
		
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			there is no zakat.
		
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			There is no zakat.
		
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			On anything below, anything below, five awsuk
		
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			of dates.
		
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			Anything below that amount, zakat is not obligatory.
		
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			And there is no zakat obligatory on anything
		
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			below five awaqin of silver.
		
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			And there is no zakat obligatory on anything
		
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			below five camels.
		
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			So we're going to explain each one of
		
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			these, but basically, here the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam is clarifying for us, what is known
		
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			as the nisab.
		
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			What is known as the minimum threshold.
		
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			The minimum amount of money that you have
		
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			to have, in order for zakat to become
		
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			obligatory.
		
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			And he explained it regarding three different kinds
		
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			of wealth.
		
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			That's because we all know, that zakat is
		
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			2.5% of our wealth.
		
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			But many of us don't know that, the
		
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			zakat for other things has a different measuring
		
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			system.
		
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			So if you have animals, there is a
		
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			different way of calculating the zakat.
		
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			If you have crops, agriculture, you have fruits,
		
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			you have vegetables that you're growing, there is
		
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			zakat due on that.
		
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			But the way you calculate the zakat, it's
		
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			different.
		
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			For each one of these, it's different.
		
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			And the same thing for animals.
		
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			If you have grazing animals.
		
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			So here the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, he
		
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			mentions, first of all, the nisab for crops.
		
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			And he mentions specifically dates.
		
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			Because that was the agriculture of the people
		
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			of Medina.
		
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			So the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam mentions that,
		
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			zakat is not obligatory if you have less
		
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			than five.
		
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			He says, awsuq.
		
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			Awsuq is a way of measuring in the
		
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			time of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			It's a plural of wasq.
		
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			And wasq is basically 60 sa'ah.
		
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			60 sa'ah.
		
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			Again, a sa'ah was a way of
		
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			measuring in those days.
		
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			It is basically equivalent to three kilograms.
		
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			One sa'ah is basically equivalent to three
		
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			kilograms.
		
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			So here the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam says,
		
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			the nisab for dates is five awsuq.
		
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			And one wasuq is how many sa'ah?
		
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			60.
		
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			So now what is the nisab of dates?
		
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			300 sa'ah.
		
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			Okay, now tell me in kilograms.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			900 kg.
		
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			900 kilograms.
		
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			Because one sa'ah is three kilograms.
		
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			So this is regarding crops and dates.
		
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			So basically, if you have less than that
		
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			amount, you don't give zakat.
		
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			You don't give zakat on that.
		
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			And so if you have things you're growing
		
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			in your backyard, it's not going to equal
		
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			to this amount, right?
		
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			So you don't give zakat for what you're
		
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			growing in your backyard, for example.
		
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			This is for someone who has a farm,
		
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			and he has more than that.
		
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			And obviously, a year passes by.
		
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			And when it comes to the zakat of
		
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			crops, the time to give it is not
		
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			like wealth, where a year passes by.
		
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			No.
		
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			The time to give it is the time
		
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			of harvest.
		
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			At the time of harvest, when those crops
		
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			are ready.
		
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			After that, the Prophet ﷺ mentions the nisab
		
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			of silver.
		
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			And he says, anything below five awaqin, there
		
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			is no zakat for it.
		
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			And so awaq is a plural of ulqiyah.
		
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			And so one ulqiyah is equivalent to 40
		
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			dirhams in those days.
		
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			40 dirhams.
		
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			So that means, what is the nisab of
		
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			silver?
		
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			If one ulqiyah is 40 dirhams, and the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ said five of those, 200 dirhams.
		
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			200 dirhams is the nisab of silver.
		
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			And I believe in ounces, it's very similar
		
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			to that.
		
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			It's similar to that.
		
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			I believe it's somewhere around four, basically four
		
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			or five ounces of silver.
		
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			Nonetheless, when it comes to gold and silver,
		
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			we have a nisab for gold and we
		
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			have a nisab for silver.
		
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			And now when it comes to cash, the
		
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			cash that we have, it goes back to
		
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			the nisab of gold and silver.
		
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			But how do we decide?
		
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			Here the scholars differed.
		
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			Should we go by the nisab of silver
		
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			or the nisab of gold?
		
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			Some said we go by gold, some say
		
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			we go by silver.
		
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			And the more balanced opinion regarding this is
		
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			that we go by what is more beneficial
		
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			for the poor and the needy, which is
		
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			the lower of the two, which everyone happens
		
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			to be lower.
		
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			And nowadays, silver, the value of silver is
		
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			lower.
		
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			And so if you have just a couple
		
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			of hundred dollars, maybe two hundred, three hundred
		
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			dollars that has been with you for over
		
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			a year, then zakah is obligatory on you.
		
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			But if you were to go by the
		
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			nisab of gold, it's somewhere in the thousands,
		
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			something like five, six thousand dollars.
		
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			So you see the huge difference.
		
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			And when it comes to gold and silver
		
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			and cash, the zakah is due when you
		
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			have those savings for a year.
		
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			And then the Prophet ﷺ mentioned the nisab
		
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			of animals.
		
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			And here, specifically, we're talking about what are
		
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			known as assa'imah, which are grazing animals.
		
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			Not just any animals, they have to be
		
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			grazing animals.
		
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			And they are basically bahemat al-an'am,
		
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			which are camels, sheep, goats, cows.
		
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			If you have these animals with you, then
		
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			zakah is due.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ explained it.
		
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			If you have five camels, meaning five and
		
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			below, there's no zakah.
		
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			So you have to have more than five.
		
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			And it's different for each of the animals.
		
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			But here, specifically, the Prophet ﷺ spoke about
		
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			camels.
		
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			For cows, it's a different nisab.
		
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			For sheep, it's different.
		
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			And then also, in terms of how much
		
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			to give, even that differs.
		
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			There's an entire chart that the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			outlined that once you have this many camels,
		
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			this is what you give of it.
		
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			Once you have ten, once you have fifteen,
		
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			once you have a hundred, this is what
		
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			you give.
		
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			And this is useful for anyone who has
		
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			a farm or has animals.
		
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			But for the rest of us, I don't
		
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			know if it's much useful.
		
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			But what we learn from this hadith, the
		
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			lesson that we learn from this hadith, is
		
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			the mercy of Allah.
		
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			And look at how Allah ﷻ made it
		
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			so easy for us, this deen.
		
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			Where something like zakah, even though it's a
		
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			pillar of Islam, it's not obligatory on everyone.
		
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			It's only obligatory on you once you have
		
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			reached that threshold.
		
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			Because those who haven't reached that threshold, they're
		
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			going to be struggling.
		
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			And this is the little amount that they
		
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			have saved.
		
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			Or they perhaps don't have any savings at
		
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			all.
		
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			Even though the amount to give is very
		
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			little, 2.5% is nothing, but still.
		
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			Look at the mercy of Allah and how
		
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			Allah ﷻ has made this deen extremely easy
		
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			and convenient for us.
		
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			Even though zakah is a pillar of Islam,
		
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			as we said.
		
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			It's one of the pillars of Islam.
		
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			Where do we give zakah?
		
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			Who do we give it to?
		
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			Many people think it's only the poor and
		
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			the needy.
		
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			Other people, they like to expand it.
		
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			We could give zakah wherever we like.
		
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			Allah ﷻ has outlined eight outlets of zakah
		
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			in one ayah.
		
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			And that is in Surah At-Tawbah.
		
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			So these are the eight outlets.
		
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			The poor, the masakeen, the needy.
		
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			Those who work in collecting the zakah.
		
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			Those who we hope that if we give
		
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			them some money, non-Muslims, we hope that
		
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			it will attract them to Islam.
		
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			Freeing a slave.
		
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			Those who are in debt.
		
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			In the cause of Allah.
		
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			And what is meant here is jihad fi
		
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			sabeelillah.
		
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			Even though some scholars like to mention that
		
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			fi sabeelillah is more general to include anything
		
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			for the sake of Allah.
		
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			But the correct view here is that it
		
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			is specifically regarding jihad.
		
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			And the reason for that is because whenever
		
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			Allah ﷻ says in the Qur'an, it
		
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			only refers to jihad fi sabeelillah.
		
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			And if you want to say it includes
		
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			something else, then you need to prove it.
		
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			You need to bring evidence.
		
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			You need to bring evidence.
		
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			And there is no evidence to say that
		
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			fi sabeelillah here means other things as well.
		
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			We don't have a hadith where the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ is explaining this ayah to be fi
		
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			sabeelillah as general.
		
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			So fi sabeelillah and ibn sabeel, the wafer,
		
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			the traveler who is stuck, these are the
		
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			eight outlets of zakah.
		
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			We move on to the next hadith.
		
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			And that is the hadith of Abu Sa
		
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			'id al-Khudri again.
		
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			Also in Bukhari and Muslim.
		
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			يُغْنِهِ اللَّهِ وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ يُصَبِّرْهُ اللَّهِ وَمَا أُعْطِيَ
		
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			أَحَدٌ عَطَاعًا خَيْرًا وَأَوْسَعَ مِنَ الصَّبَرِ Here the
		
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			Shaykh mentioned a part of the hadith.
		
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			But the beginning part of the hadith, basically
		
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			some of the Ansar came to the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ and asked him for some money.
		
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			So he gave them.
		
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			Then they came again.
		
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			And he gave them.
		
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			Then he said, whatever I have, I would
		
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			never hide it from you.
		
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			But Allah ﷻ, then he mentioned this part
		
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			of the hadith.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ says, but whoever abstains from
		
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			asking, then Allah ﷻ will make him one
		
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			who will be satisfied with what he has.
		
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			And whoever is self-sufficient, then
		
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			Allah ﷻ will make him self-sufficient.
		
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			And whoever strives to be patient, Allah ﷻ
		
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			will make him patient.
		
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			And then he said, no one has been
		
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			given a greater or a better gift nor
		
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			a more vast gift than the gift of
		
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			patience.
		
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			And so here the Prophet ﷺ mentioned three
		
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			things.
		
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			He mentioned three things.
		
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			These are three qualities that we should strive
		
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			to attain.
		
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			The first two are very similar.
		
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			Al-'afaf and al-ghina.
		
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			And so al-'afaf means to basically abstain.
		
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			And it's usually used in the context of
		
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			controlling one's desires.
		
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			It's usually used in that context.
		
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			So it usually means being chased.
		
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			Abstaining from your sexual desires.
		
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			But here it doesn't mean that.
		
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			Here it means in terms of wealth.
		
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			Abstaining.
		
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			Abstaining in the sense that if you don't
		
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			have it, don't go around asking for it.
		
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			If you don't have money, abstain from it.
		
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			That's the meaning of what the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			is saying here.
		
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			And he says, whoever does that, then Allah
		
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			ﷻ will make him to be afif.
		
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			Ya'ifuhullah.
		
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			Allah will make him to be one who
		
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			abstains.
		
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			He'll help him in that basically.
		
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			And the second is al-ghina, which means
		
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			richness.
		
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			Or here in the context of this hadith,
		
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			it means self-sufficiency.
		
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			That you're satisfied with what you have.
		
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			Whoever strives to be like that, then Allah
		
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			will make him to be that.
		
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			Allah ﷻ will make him to be that.
		
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			And as the Prophet ﷺ says in another
		
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			hadith, that real al-ghina is not having
		
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			a lot of riches of the dunya, but
		
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			the real richness is the richness of the
		
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			heart, which is the self-sufficiency of the
		
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			heart.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ also tells us in
		
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			another hadith that this wealth, whatever if it
		
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			comes to you without you asking for it,
		
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			without you going out of your way for
		
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			it, then take it.
		
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			But if it is not the case, if
		
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			that is not the case, then don't go
		
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			asking people for money.
		
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			Basically, the lesson we learn from this hadith
		
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			is don't be a beggar.
		
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			As the Prophet ﷺ tells us in the
		
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			other hadith, that the hand that gives is
		
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			better than the hand that receives.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ also taught us a
		
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			du'a in this regard.
		
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			He taught us a du'a in this
		
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			regard that we ask Allah for these two
		
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			things, al-'afaf and al-ghina.
		
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			Allahumma inni as'aluka al-huda wa al
		
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			-tuqa wa al-'afafa wa al-ghina.
		
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			O Allah, I ask you for al-huda,
		
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			which is guidance, and the Shaykh here comments,
		
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			he says, al-huda here means beneficial knowledge.
		
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			Wa al-tuqa, which means al-taqwa, he
		
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			says the meaning of this is good deeds
		
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			and staying away from haram.
		
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			So he says these two things, they perfect
		
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			your deen.
		
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			Guidance, al-huda and al-tuqa, these two
		
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			things perfect your deen.
		
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			And then the other two things, which is
		
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			al-'afaf, shastity and ghina, he says these two
		
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			things, they give you that richness of the
		
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			heart.
		
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			They make you, you know, not only to
		
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			be beloved by Allah, but also make you
		
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			to be beloved to the creation.
		
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			And then the last part of the hadith
		
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			talks about patience.
		
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			And notice how here the Prophet ﷺ does
		
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			not say patience in general.
		
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			He doesn't say whoever is patient, Allah will
		
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			make him patient, no.
		
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			He says, وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ He doesn't say, وَمَنْ
		
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			يَصْبِرْ He says, وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ And in the
		
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			Arabic language, تَصَبَّرْ, you know, on this scale,
		
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			what it means is to strive in something.
		
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			To strive in something.
		
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			So, for example, تَعَلَّمْ To strive in learning.
		
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			تَكَلَّفْ You know, he really took a huge
		
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			responsibility, a huge task on himself, so he's
		
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			striving to fulfill that task.
		
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			And تَصَبَّرْ means, to strive hard to be
		
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			patient.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ says, whoever strives hard to
		
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			be patient, Allah will make him patient.
		
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			So it's not just we try to be
		
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			patient, we're patient sometimes, we're not patient other
		
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			times, no.
		
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			We're striving hard constantly to struggle against that
		
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			nafs, to be patient.
		
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			Whoever does that, Allah will make him patient.
		
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			And, you know, there is no greater thing
		
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			that we could possibly strive to attain than
		
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			a صَبَرْ Because with that, you know, everything
		
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			will be made easy for you in your
		
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			dunya and your akhirah.
		
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			That's why Allah ﷻ commands us, وَاسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ
		
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			وَالصَّلَاحِ Seek help through these two things.
		
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			For all of, you know, your affairs, whether
		
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			it's related to your deen or your dunya.
		
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			Seek help through these two things.
		
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			الصَّبَرْ and الصَّلَاحِ الصَّبَرْ and الصَّلَاحِ And,
		
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			you know, patience is, as a scholar say,
		
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			over three things.
		
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			But the Shaykh adds a fourth.
		
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			The first is patience over the commandments of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Patience over what Allah has commanded.
		
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			Meaning, everything Allah and His Messenger have commanded
		
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			us to do, to be patient in performing
		
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			that duty.
		
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			So for example, Allah has commanded us to
		
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			pray.
		
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			Salat al-Fajr is difficult for some people.
		
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			We need to be patient in getting up.
		
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			And then making wudu on winter days with
		
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			the water, if it's cold.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So that requires patience over the commandments of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Number two, patience over what Allah has made
		
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			haram.
		
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			Being patient, meaning, to strive against your nafs,
		
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			not to do what is haram.
		
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			You need patience.
		
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			You need patience to, you know, stay away
		
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			from haram, when it's tempting, when your nafs
		
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			wants to do it.
		
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			But you're patient and you don't do it
		
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			over the prohibitions of Allah.
		
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			Number three, patience over the painful calamities that
		
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			Allah sends upon us.
		
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			You fall ill, you get diagnosed with a
		
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			disease, you have a financial calamity in your
		
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			life, you have a marital problem in your
		
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			life, you have a disability, you've lost a
		
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			loved one, you've lost this, that, all of
		
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			these calamities and, you know, afflictions, they require
		
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			patience.
		
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			They require patience.
		
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			And then the Shaykh adds a fourth, he
		
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			says, being patient, being patient over the blessings
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			So, being patient in tough times, but also
		
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			being patient in good times.
		
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			How?
		
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			He says, that in good times, we don't
		
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			indulge in the blessings of Allah to the
		
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			point where we forget about Allah.
		
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			So that requires patience in controlling yourself when
		
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			you're enjoying life, basically.
		
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			And, you know, being grateful to Allah for
		
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			the blessings of Allah.
		
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			And he concludes this hadith by mentioning that
		
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			patience is the key to Jannah.
		
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			Patience is the key to Jannah.
		
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			Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la says,
		
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			وَالْمَلَائِكَةُ يَدْخُلُونَ عَلَيْهِم مِّن كُلِّ بَابٍ Allah talks
		
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			about the people of Jannah.
		
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			He says, the angels enter upon them from
		
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			every door.
		
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			What do they say to them?
		
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			سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ بِمَا صَبَرْتُمْ They say Salam to
		
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			us.
		
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			For what?
		
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			They say, سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ for what you were
		
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			patient over.
		
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			Meaning, you have attained this reward because you
		
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			used to be patient.
		
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			بِمَا صَبَرْتُمْ And Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta
		
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			-A'la also says, أُولَٰئِكَ يُجِزَوْنَ الْغُرْفَةَ بِمَا
		
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			صَبَرُوا After Allah talks about the people of
		
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			Jannah and the rewards that they're gonna have,
		
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			Allah says, they attained these chambers in Jannah,
		
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			these palaces in Jannah because they were patient.
		
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			Because they were patient.
		
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			And so this shows us that patience is
		
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			something we need to strive for.
		
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			It's something we need to strive for practically
		
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			in every part of our life.
		
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			There's never a time when we should lose
		
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			sight of being patient.
		
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			And as the Prophet ﷺ says, to strive
		
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			for it.
		
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			Not just, you know, I'm gonna be patient.
		
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			No, I need to strive.
		
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			يَتَصَبَّرْ وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ يُصَبِّرْهُ اللَّهُ Whoever strives to
		
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			be patient, Allah will make him patient.
		
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			We move on after that to the next
		
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			hadith.
		
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			And this is the hadith of Abu Hurair
		
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			r.a, which is narrated by Imam Muslim
		
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			in his Sahih.
		
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			قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ مَا نَقَصَتْ صَدَقَةٌ
		
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			مِن مَالٍ وَمَا زَادَ اللَّهُ عَبْدًا بِعَثْوٍ إِلَّا
		
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			عِزَّةً وَمَا تَوَاضَعَ أَحَدٌ لِلَّهِ إِلَّا رَفَعَهُ اللَّهُ
		
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			Here the Prophet ﷺ mentions three things.
		
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			He mentions three things.
		
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			And these are three virtuous things that we
		
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			should strive for.
		
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			And he mentions that these three things are
		
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			actually beneficial for us.
		
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			And that we actually gain by applying these
		
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			three things in our lives.
		
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			And we don't lose anything.
		
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			We don't lose anything by doing these three
		
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			things.
		
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			And the reason why the Prophet ﷺ mentions
		
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			these three things is because most people think
		
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			that if I do these three things, it's
		
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			gonna impact me negatively.
		
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			I'm gonna face negative consequences as a result.
		
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			So that's why the Prophet ﷺ mentions these
		
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			three things.
		
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			And he mentions the opposite of what people
		
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			think.
		
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			So what does he say?
		
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			Number one, مَا نَقَصَتْ صَدَقَةٌ مِن مَالٍ الصَّدَقَة
		
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			This money, this wealth that we have, it
		
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			is something that our hearts are attached to.
		
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			As Allah Azzawajal says, وَإِنَّهُ لِحُبِّ الْخَيْرِ لَشَدِيدٌ
		
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			That man is attached to khayr here means
		
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			wealth.
		
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			His heart is attached to it.
		
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			وَتُحِبُّونَ الْمَالَ حُبًّا جَمًّا And you love wealth.
		
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			So you don't want to give it up.
		
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			You don't want to give it away.
		
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			And we only use whatever wealth we have
		
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			to satisfy our own pleasures.
		
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			But now, how are we gonna give sadaqa
		
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			if that's the case?
		
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			So people, they have this idea that if
		
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			I am gonna give, I'm gonna be losing.
		
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			They're thinking according to material standards.
		
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			If I give, you know, obviously, obviously my
		
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			savings are gonna go down.
		
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			And the more I give, the more I'm
		
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			gonna become bankrupt.
		
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			But what did the Prophet ﷺ tell us
		
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			here?
		
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			That no, sadaqa does not decrease wealth.
		
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			That's what he says here.
		
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			Sadaqa does not decrease wealth.
		
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			The Shaykh says, how do we understand this?
		
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			We understand it that from one aspect, yes,
		
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			it does decrease wealth.
		
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			But when you look at it from other
		
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			aspects, it's not decreasing, it's only increasing.
		
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			And that is from the aspect of the
		
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			barakah.
		
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			Who is it who gave you this wealth
		
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			to begin with?
		
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			It's Allah.
		
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			So if Allah gave it to you, and
		
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			you want to keep it, you want it
		
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			to remain with you, and you want it
		
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			to grow, then one of the ways of
		
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			making it to grow is by giving it.
		
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			By giving it in sadaqa for the sake
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			And so when you do that, not only
		
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			is it not gonna decrease, but it's actually
		
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			gonna increase.
		
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			It's actually gonna increase.
		
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			And the Shaykh says, this is not only
		
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			something that we have been promised by Allah
		
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			and His Messenger, right?
		
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			In one hadith, the Prophet ﷺ says that
		
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			whatever you give up for the sake of
		
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			Allah, Allah will replace it with something better.
		
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			Not only is it something we've been told
		
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			about, and so we believe it, part of
		
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			our iman, but he says it's also been
		
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			tested and tried.
		
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			It's also been tested and tried.
		
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			Almost everyone who actually does give sadaqa, and
		
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			they give it with ikhlas, with sincerity, not
		
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			to show off or for other reasons, for
		
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			the sake of the dunya, but sincerely for
		
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			Allah, they found that this money actually is
		
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			coming back.
		
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			It's actually growing, it's actually increasing, and it's
		
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			not decreasing.
		
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			So this is number one.
		
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			Number two, the Prophet ﷺ says, وَمَا زَادَ
		
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			اللَّهُ عَبْدًا بِعَفْوٍّ إِلَّا عِزَّا That
		
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			Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, anyone who pardons
		
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			others, anyone who pardons others, he only increases
		
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			in glory, in honor.
		
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			Allah does not increase a servant by pardoning,
		
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			except by increasing him in honor.
		
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			Again, pardoning and forgiving others when they do
		
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			evil to us, or we are wronged by
		
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			others, whether verbally or physically.
		
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			Right?
		
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			When people do us wrong, it's very difficult
		
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			to forgive.
		
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			It's very difficult to let it go.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And most people think that if I forgive,
		
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			if I'm going to pardon, then that's going
		
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			to make me, you know, disgraced and humiliated.
		
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			Right?
		
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			That's the way people think.
		
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			Most people, that's how they think.
		
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			That why should I lower myself to that
		
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			level?
		
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			He did me wrong.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Why should I forgive him?
		
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			Right?
		
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			Why?
		
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			That's humiliating.
		
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			So these are people with an ego.
		
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			They don't want to let it go.
		
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			They don't want to let it go.
		
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			They want to keep that grudge in their
		
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			hearts.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So the Prophet ﷺ is explaining, no, it's
		
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			the opposite.
		
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			By pardoning and forgiving, you're not lowering yourself,
		
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			but you're actually, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala
		
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			is actually elevating you in izzah, you know,
		
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			with honor.
		
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			He is bringing you up.
		
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			So al-izzah is the opposite of, you
		
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			know, dhillah, humiliation.
		
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			So you're not being degraded, you're actually being
		
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			elevated.
		
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			And pardoning and forgiving is from, you know,
		
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			the qualities of the Prophets and the Messengers.
		
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			You know, look at the Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			On the day of Fath Makkah, you know,
		
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			he enters Makkah.
		
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			And here are all these people who for
		
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			years persecuted him, his companions, and all these
		
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			wars that they fought.
		
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			And what did he do in the end?
		
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			He pardoned all of them.
		
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			Right?
		
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			He pardoned all of them.
		
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			You know, that was the day of amnesty.
		
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			And we have the example of Yusuf ﷺ.
		
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			You know, after what his brothers did to
		
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			him, and now he becomes a grown man,
		
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			and he has a position of authority, he's
		
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			a minister, and these same brothers come back,
		
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			and they meet him, and he has the
		
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			upper hand over them.
		
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			When you have the upper hand, you could
		
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			easily take your revenge now.
		
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			Just like the Prophet ﷺ, he could have
		
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			taken revenge on that day, but he didn't.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Yusuf ﷺ forgave them.
		
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			He forgave them.
		
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			لَا تَثْرِيبَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْيَوْمُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ He
		
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			said, there's no blame on you today.
		
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			May Allah forgive you.
		
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			Did that lower Yusuf ﷺ in the eyes
		
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			of the people, or Muhammad ﷺ on the
		
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			day of the conquest of Mecca?
		
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			It didn't lower them, it only elevated them.
		
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			People then looked up to them.
		
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			You know, this is a real man, someone
		
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			who forgives.
		
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			And then number three, وَمَا تَوَاضَعَ أَحَدٌ لِلَّهِ
		
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			إِلَّا رَفَعَهُ اللَّهُ That no one humbles himself
		
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			for Allah, except that Allah raises him.
		
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			No one humbles himself for Allah, except that
		
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			Allah raises him.
		
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			Again, humbleness, humility.
		
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			To be humble with Allah and also with
		
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			the people.
		
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			Not to be arrogant.
		
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			Not to think that you're somebody and everyone
		
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			else are nothing.
		
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			But rather to show تواضع, humbleness.
		
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			If you do that, if you show humbleness,
		
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			it doesn't mean that you are lowering yourself,
		
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			humiliating yourself, degrading yourself, and people are now
		
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			going to look at you as being somebody
		
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			low.
		
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			No.
		
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			When you humble yourself before Allah and before
		
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			the people, then you actually rise in the
		
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			eyes of Allah and in the eyes of
		
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			the people.
		
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			But notice here, the Shaykh mentions this.
		
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			Notice how the Prophet ﷺ says here, وَمَا
		
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			تَوَاضَعَ أَحَدٌ لِلَّهِ That no one humbles himself
		
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			for Allah, meaning for the sake of Allah.
		
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			Meaning that we should do it for the
		
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			sake of Allah, not for any other reason.
		
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			Not for the sake of gaining the praise
		
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			of the people.
		
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			I'm going to humble myself to look humble
		
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			so that people call me someone humble and
		
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			they start praising me.
		
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			No, you're doing it for the sake of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			لِلَّهِ And so when you do it for
		
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			the sake of Allah, then Allah ﷻ elevates
		
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			you.
		
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			As Allah ﷻ elevated, the people of knowledge.
		
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			يَرْفَعِ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا مِنكُمْ وَالَّذِينَ أُوتُوا الْعِلْمَ
		
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			دَرَجَاتً Allah raises, elevates, those who believe among
		
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			you as well as the people of knowledge
		
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			by a lot of degrees.
		
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			Allah raises them by several degrees.
		
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			Finally, we'll take one last hadith.
		
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			And this is extravagant.
		
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			So the brother is asking about being extravagant
		
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			and open-handed.
		
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			What is the definition of, you know, spending
		
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			too much basically.
		
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			Because one of the qualities that Allah mentions
		
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			in the Quran of Ibadur Rahman, the servants
		
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			of Ar-Rahman, is that, you know, when
		
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			they spend, they don't withhold, they're not greedy
		
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			and stingy, nor are they extravagant.
		
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			وَلَمْ يُسْرِفُوا So what is the definition of
		
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			being extravagant?
		
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			Basically, this differs from person to person.
		
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			So the scholars say that, you know, a
		
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			rich person, what is considered Isra for him
		
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			is different than a poor person.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So it differs.
		
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			And basically, what it comes down to is
		
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			the norm.
		
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			Right?
		
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			For example, what you spend, or let's say,
		
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			you know, the norms of the society.
		
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			So what we may spend here, let's say
		
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			in North America, certain things that we spend
		
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			on, a person back home would see that
		
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			as being Israf.
		
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			Right?
		
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			But it's not.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So it differs from person to person, as
		
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			well as from society to society.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So basically, this is one of the things
		
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			that goes back to what is known as
		
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			the Urf and the customs of the people.
		
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			Allahu A'lam.
		
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			For example, forgiving goes to our Ka'bah.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			So what's the rule on the point?
		
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			Should we still forgive them and draw the
		
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			line on the friendship?
		
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			Yeah, so when it comes to forgiving, pardoning,
		
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			what is meant by that is where you
		
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			see that there is actually a greater benefit
		
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			in pardoning and forgiving.
		
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			And we're pardoning and forgiving when you have
		
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			the upper hand.
		
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			As we saw in the story of the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ and Yusuf ﷺ.
		
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			So when they had the ability to take
		
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			revenge, they forgave.
		
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			That's different than, for example, you know, you're
		
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			still subjugated by these people, and you're saying,
		
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			I forgive you.
		
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			You don't have the ability to take revenge,
		
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			and you're saying, I forgive you.
		
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			No, you don't forgive in that instance.
		
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			But rather when you have the upper hand.
		
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			And also, who to forgive and who to
		
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			pardon.
		
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			So obviously, you know, the same thing.
		
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			With regards to the kuffar, the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			forgave them on the day of the conquest
		
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			of Mecca while they were still kuffar.
		
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			And some of them remained kuffar for some
		
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			time.
		
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			And then later they became Muslim.
		
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			So the same thing, if you have the
		
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			upper hand, and you have non-Muslims who
		
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			did something bad to you, you have to
		
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			look, you know, do I have the upper
		
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			hand or not?
		
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			And then you need to look at, you
		
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			know, if I forgive, will something good come
		
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			out of that?
		
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			So the Prophet ﷺ, when he forgave these
		
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			people on that day, he was looking ahead.
		
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			He was looking at their Islam.
		
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			He was looking at the interest of having
		
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			these people becoming Muslim by him forgiving them.
		
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			And that's exactly what happened.
		
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			Some of them, until that day, they said
		
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			that he was the most hated individual to
		
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			us.
		
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			But then because he forgave us.
		
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			And then after that, he was giving them
		
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			from the spoils of the war.
		
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			He said, one of them, he said, the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ kept on giving me, and this
		
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			hadith is in Sahih Muslim, he says, until,
		
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			so before he was the most hated individual
		
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			to me, but he kept on giving me,
		
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			and giving me until he became the most
		
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			beloved person to me.
		
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			Right?
		
00:47:09 --> 00:47:12
			So you have to take into consideration what
		
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			is known as the masaleh and the mafasid.
		
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			What are the benefits versus the harms.
		
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			So if you think there's a benefit in
		
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			forgiving, then you should forgive.
		
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			If you think that they'll take advantage of
		
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			it, they won't care, then no.
		
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			It depends.
		
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			Alright, we move on to that last hadith.
		
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			And this is also narrated by Abu Hurairah
		
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			r.a. And also it is found in
		
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			Bukhari and Muslim.
		
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			And this hadith we all, I'm sure, have
		
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			heard.
		
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			We hear it every Ramadan.
		
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			And so it's related to the virtues of
		
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			fasting.
		
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			But the Prophet ﷺ starts off by talking
		
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			about deeds in general.
		
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			So Abu Hurairah r.a. says, قَالَ قَالَ
		
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			رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ كُلُّ عَمَلِ بْنِ آدَمَ يُضَاعَفْ
		
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			الْحَسَنَةُ بِعَشْرِ أَمْثَالِهَا إِلَىٰ سَبْعِمِيئَةِ ضِعْفٍ It's a
		
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			long hadith, so we'll take it in parts.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ says, every deed, every act
		
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			of the son of Adam, every human being,
		
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			is multiplied.
		
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			Every good deed you do, it is multiplied.
		
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			One good deed, one hasanah, you get ten.
		
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			The reward is ten.
		
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			From ten up to seven hundred.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ says here, from ten up
		
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			to seven hundred.
		
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			And that is based on ayat of the
		
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			Qur'an.
		
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			Allah ﷻ says, that الْحَسَنَةُ بِعَشْرِ أَمْثَالِهَا That
		
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			one hasanah is equal to ten.
		
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			As for seven hundred, where is that mentioned?
		
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			Yes, in Surah Al-Baqarah, the reward of
		
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			sadaqah.
		
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			That Allah ﷻ, He compares it to a
		
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			grain that you grow, that has seven leaves
		
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			that come out.
		
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			And each of these leaves or stalks has
		
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			a hundred seeds.
		
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			So that becomes seven hundred.
		
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			So the Prophet ﷺ says, every good deed
		
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			we do, it is from ten to seven
		
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			hundred.
		
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			And then he says, قَالَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى إِلَّا
		
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			الصَّوْمِ فَإِنَّهُ لِي وَأَنَا أَجْزِي بِهِ He says,
		
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			Allah ﷻ says, except for fasting, it was
		
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			done for me, so I will reward him
		
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			for it.
		
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			It was done exclusively for me, so I
		
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			will reward him for it.
		
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			What does that mean?
		
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			All of our deeds, we do them for
		
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			Allah.
		
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			And all of our deeds, Allah will reward
		
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			us.
		
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			So what does this mean?
		
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			What this means is, that fasting is one
		
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			of those deeds that it's difficult to do
		
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			it for other than the sake of Allah.
		
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			Whereas almost all other good deeds, it's easy
		
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			to fall into what is known as riyal,
		
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			which is showing off your good deeds.
		
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			But it's difficult with regards to fasting, because
		
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			you could tell people you're fasting, you could
		
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			show them you're fasting, you could stay away
		
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			from food and drink, they offer you food,
		
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			you say I'm fasting, you could show it
		
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			off.
		
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			But then when there's no one around, you
		
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			could easily eat and drink.
		
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			Right?
		
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			But why don't you eat and drink?
		
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			Because you're doing it for Allah.
		
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			You're doing it exclusively for Allah.
		
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			So fasting is one of those things, it's
		
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			difficult to do it for other than Allah.
		
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			So that's why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			says, accept fasting.
		
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			Meaning, every good deed besides fasting, the reward
		
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			is from 10 to 700.
		
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			Except for fasting.
		
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			What does that mean?
		
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			It means a reward is something so great,
		
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			that we don't even know what it is.
		
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			It's more than just 10 or 700.
		
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			It's reward is great.
		
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			It is so great that it wasn't mentioned.
		
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			Just like with regards to as-sabr.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, إِنَّمَا يُوَفَّى
		
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			الصَّابِرُونَ أَجْرَهُمْ بِغَيْرِ حِسَابٍ The people of patience,
		
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			Allah will reward them without any equivalent reward.
		
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			It's not, you know, this is your good
		
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			deed, this is what you get in numbers.
		
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			No.
		
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			We don't even know what the reward for
		
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			that will be.
		
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			It's so great.
		
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			Likewise with regards to fasting.
		
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			And then the Prophet ﷺ explains, why is
		
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			the reward so great for fasting.
		
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			يَدَعُ شَهْوَتَهُ وَطَعَامَهُ مِنْ أَجْلِ Now obviously, this
		
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			is Allah speaking here, until the end of
		
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			the hadith.
		
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			And any hadith in which Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala is speaking, this is called a
		
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			hadith Qudsi.
		
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			A hadith Qudsi.
		
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			So Allah azzawajal says, He abandons, He leaves
		
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			His shahwa, His lustful desires, and His food
		
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			for my sake.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So again we understand the reasoning here.
		
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			He abandons food and His desires for the
		
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			sake of Allah.
		
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			Right.
		
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			Not for anyone else.
		
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			And then He says, لِلصَّائِمِ فَرْحَتَانَ فَرْحَةٌ عِنْدَ
		
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			فِطْرِهِ وَفَرْحَةٌ عِنْدَ لِقَاءِ رَبِّهِ The fasting person
		
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			has two joyous moments.
		
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			The fasting person is going to be happy
		
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			twice.
		
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			The first time when he breaks his fast.
		
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			So after a long day of fasting, now
		
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			it's time to break your fast.
		
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			You know, you're happy.
		
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			You're feeling content and in a state of
		
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			joy.
		
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			And the second time, when you meet your
		
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			Lord.
		
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			When you meet Allah.
		
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			When you meet Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			Now what's the relation between the two?
		
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			Basically, the fasting person, he stayed away from
		
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			what was otherwise halal for him.
		
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			In fact, the essentials of life.
		
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			Food and drink.
		
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			Essentials of life.
		
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			You abstained from it, right?
		
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			For the sake of Allah.
		
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			And it wasn't easy to do that.
		
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			It wasn't easy to do that.
		
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			Especially if your fasting is a voluntary fast.
		
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			If it's Ramadan, it's different.
		
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			It's easier in the sense that, you know,
		
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			everyone's fasting.
		
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			And, you know, this is a pillar of
		
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			Islam.
		
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			I have to do it, right?
		
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			But voluntarily fasting, a sunnah fast, it's not
		
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			easy.
		
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			Because no one made it compulsory upon you.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You did it out of your own free
		
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			will.
		
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			And it required patience.
		
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			It was tough.
		
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			But you strove hard, as we spoke earlier
		
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			about, you know, the importance of striving hard
		
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			and patience.
		
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			You strove hard throughout the day.
		
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			You know, you could have broken your fast,
		
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			a voluntary fast.
		
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			You could break it in the middle.
		
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			But you didn't.
		
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			You kept on going.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Through that hardship, you struggled.
		
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			And then you made it to the end.
		
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			Obviously, you're gonna be happy that I made
		
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			it.
		
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			Alhamdulillah, I made it.
		
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			I did it.
		
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			Likewise, when you meet Allah.
		
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			Why is a fasting person, why did the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ say this?
		
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			Two joyous occasions.
		
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			One, when he breaks his fast.
		
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			And one, when he meets Allah.
		
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			Because when you meet Allah, the same thing.
		
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			You went through a life of struggling.
		
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			Of staying away from indulging in haram.
		
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			It required patience.
		
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			It was difficult.
		
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			It was a struggle.
		
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			But you kept on going, you kept on
		
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			going.
		
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			Until now, you meet Allah.
		
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			Obviously, you're gonna be happy.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And then, he says, وَلَا خَلُوفُ فَمِي الصَّائِمِ
		
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			أَطْيَبُ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مِنْ رِيحِ الْمِسْكِ He says
		
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			that, the smell that comes out from the
		
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			fasting person's mouth is more beloved to Allah
		
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			than the smell of perfume and mist.
		
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			Because when you fast, obviously, on an empty
		
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			stomach, there is the smell that's gonna come
		
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			out from your mouth.
		
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			And what we learn from this hadith, this
		
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			part of the hadith, is that the standard
		
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			by which we look at things as being
		
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			either good and clean, or evil and filthy,
		
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			the standard is by what Allah has told
		
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			us.
		
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			So any act of ibadah, that is gonna
		
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			result in something that people perceive as being
		
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			nasty or filthy, it is actually beloved to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because it resulted from ibadah.
		
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			It was as a result of ibadah.
		
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			So you shouldn't think, I'm not gonna fast
		
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			because of that smell that comes out from
		
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			my mouth.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You shouldn't think along those lines.
		
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			But instead, you should think that because it's
		
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			happening because I'm worshipping Allah, then it's something
		
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			beloved to Allah.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And then, he says, وَالصَّوْمُ جُنَّةٌ And fasting
		
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			is a protection.
		
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			Fasting is a protection.
		
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			It's a protection against two things.
		
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			Protection against sins, and protection from the punishment
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			And that we learn from what Allah tells
		
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			us about fasting in the Qur'an.
		
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			What is the objective of fasting?
		
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			لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ Allah prescribed fasting upon us, so
		
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			that we achieve taqwa.
		
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			And taqwa basically means putting a barrier between
		
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			yourself and the punishment of Allah.
		
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			So here, the Prophet ﷺ tells us that
		
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			fasting is a protection.
		
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			It's a protection.
		
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			Because when you're fasting, you're more conscious of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			So you're gonna stay away from sins.
		
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			And also, when you fast, you don't have
		
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			that energy to commit certain sins.
		
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			Because now your body is weak.
		
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			And that's why the Prophet ﷺ encouraged the
		
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			young men to fast.
		
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			He said, whoever among you, he was addressing
		
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			the shabab, يَا مَعْشَرَ الشَّبَّابِ مَنْ إِسْتَطَعَ مِنْكُمُ
		
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			الْبَاءَ فَلْيَتَزَوَّجُ Whoever among you is able to
		
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			fast, whoever among you is able to get
		
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			married, let him get married.
		
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			But whoever is not able to, then let
		
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			him fast.
		
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			And then he explained the reason for that.
		
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			What did he say?
		
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			Because, because it helps in guarding the private
		
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			part, and helps in lowering the gaze.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So that helps in staying away from certain
		
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			sins.
		
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			Fasting.
		
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			Ability.
		
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			And ability is something very comprehensive.
		
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			It includes financially being able to.
		
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			But it's not limited to just financially being
		
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			able to.
		
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			No, look for someone else.
		
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			Like the man, he doesn't have the financial
		
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			ability.
		
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			No, then, no.
		
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			If you don't have the financial ability, and
		
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			you find someone who says, okay, I'm willing,
		
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			even if you don't have the financial ability,
		
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			you have to look at your personal situation.
		
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			It may result in you doing zhul to
		
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			her.
		
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			If you're not able to financially provide for
		
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			her, then you'd be doing zhul to her.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So it depends.
		
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			It depends.
		
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			Unless you have someone to help you, that's
		
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			different.
		
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			If you're on your own and you say,
		
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			I'm going to get married even though I'm
		
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			not able to, then that's not right.
		
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			Okay, and then he says, وَإِذَا كَانَ يَوْمُ
		
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			صَوْمِ أَحَدِكُمْ فَلَا يَرْفَثْ وَلَا يَصْخَبْ فَإِن سَابَّهُ
		
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			أَحَدٌ أَوْ قَاتَلَهُ فَلْيَقُلْ إِن مُرُؤٌ صَائِمٌ The
		
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			Prophet ﷺ says, and when you are fasting,
		
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			on the day that you're fasting, do not
		
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			use vulgar language, insulting language, nor
		
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			fight and raise your voice.
		
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			Do not raise your voice.
		
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			Do not shout.
		
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			Do not argue by raising your voices.
		
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			And then he says, if someone insults you
		
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			or fights you, then you should say, I
		
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			am fasting.
		
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			You should say, I am fasting.
		
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			And so what we learn from this is
		
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			that there are certain things that make the
		
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			fast valid in the sight of Allah.
		
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			Staying away from certain things makes the fast
		
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			valid.
		
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			Staying away from food, drink, sexual relations, this
		
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			is what makes the fast valid.
		
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			If you do one of these things, your
		
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			fast is invalid.
		
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			It doesn't count.
		
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			But then there are certain things that we're
		
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			not supposed to do when we're fasting, but
		
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			it does not invalidate the fast.
		
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			And among these things is what the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ says here.
		
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			And that is not controlling our tongues and
		
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			all other haram things.
		
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			What that does to the fast, it does
		
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			not invalidate it, but it decreases and reduces
		
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			its reward.
		
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			It decreases and it reduces its reward.
		
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			As the Prophet ﷺ tells us in another
		
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			hadith, مَنْ لَمْ يَدَعْ قَوْلُ الزُّورِ وَالْعَمَلَ بِهِ
		
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			فَلَيْسَ لِلَّهِ حَاجَةٌ فِي أَنْ يَدَعَ طَعَامَهُ وَشَرَابَهُ
		
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			Whoever does not stay away from false speech
		
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			and acting by it, then Allah has no
		
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			need for him to leave his food and
		
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			his drink.
		
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			And so we have to strive to not
		
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			only stay away from what invalidates the fast,
		
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			but also anything that could negatively affect the
		
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			fast and the reward for it.
		
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			Coming back to the beginning of the hadith,
		
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			the reward for fasting is humongous.
		
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			It's not something we can calculate like we
		
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			may be able to do with other good
		
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			deeds from 10 to 700.
		
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			This is something that Allah Azza wa Jalla
		
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			has said that I will reward him for
		
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			it.
		
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			Meaning, the reward is so great that I
		
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			will reward him for it.
		
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			So we don't want to reduce that reward.
		
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			So there are certain things that if we
		
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			were to do when we're fasting, it reduces
		
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			the reward, such as using foul language and
		
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			fighting with people and arguing.
		
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			And so we shouldn't be doing that because
		
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			we're actually in the state of ibadah.
		
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			We're actually in the state of ibadah.
		
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			And so it's not appropriate to be behaving
		
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			in such a way.
		
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			Obviously, it's not appropriate for a Muslim to
		
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			behave in such a way in general, right?
		
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			But it becomes even more emphasized at certain
		
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			times and places, right?
		
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			Like when you're in ibadah, you know, like
		
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			when you're fasting, or when you're in the
		
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			masjid, or when you're in i'tikaf, or when
		
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			you are in a blessed place like Mecca,
		
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			or in the sacred months, or in Ramadan,
		
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			and so on and so forth.
		
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			So there are certain times when it becomes
		
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			even worse.
		
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			And Allah knows best.
		
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			We'll stop here inshaAllah ta'ala if there's
		
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			any questions.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Any ibadah.
		
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			So the question was regarding the reward for
		
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			fasting when the days are shorter.
		
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			Yeah, so what is the reward when the
		
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			days are longer and when the days are
		
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			shorter?
		
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			Obviously, the reward is not the same, right?
		
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			The reward is greater.
		
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			And take this as a general rule.
		
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			Any good deed or act of ibadah that
		
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			requires more struggle and in which there's more
		
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			hardship involved, the reward increases.
		
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			The reward increases.
		
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			So fasting in the long days of the
		
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			summer is not the same as fasting in
		
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			the short days of the winter.
		
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			The reward is obviously greater where there's more
		
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			hardship and struggle and patience required.
		
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			And that goes across the board with all
		
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			good deeds.
		
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			With all good deeds.
		
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			For example, praying Nafl in the daytime is
		
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			not like praying a Nafl in the middle
		
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			of the night or in the last third
		
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			of the night when everyone is asleep.
		
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			And, you know, etc.
		
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			With regards to all good deeds.
		
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			Yeah, with sins as well.
		
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			So the more...
		
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			When it comes to sins, the same thing.
		
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			There are certain sins where you know, the
		
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			punishment for it varies in degrees.
		
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			It could be the same sin but depending
		
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			on the circumstances, it could be worse.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ mentioned, for example, that an
		
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			elder man, like a senior old man, if
		
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			he commits zina, Allah will not speak to
		
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			him on the Day of Judgment nor purify
		
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			him.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because there's no reason for it.
		
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			He doesn't have that temptation that a young
		
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			man has.
		
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			And so on and so forth.
		
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			You know, the same with committing sins in
		
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			certain places and times, etc.
		
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			Yeah, there's more reward for abandoning sins when
		
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			there's more struggle.
		
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			Any other questions?
		
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			And it's very practical.
		
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			The question is regarding the moon sighting.
		
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			So you're asking what is the correct...
		
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			Yeah, basically we look at you know, how
		
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			reasonable it is.
		
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			So if you are in the north, but
		
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			the timings are reasonable.
		
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			Like for example, let's say Edmonton.
		
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			It's very high in the north.
		
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			But you know, it's still reasonable to go
		
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			by the sunset and the sunrise in the
		
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			summer.
		
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			The day is very long.
		
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			So while we pray Maghrib at 9pm, they're
		
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			praying Maghrib at 10, 15 maybe.
		
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			But then still it's reasonable.
		
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			But if you go further north, like to
		
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			the North Pole, then here the scholars say
		
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			that they should go by the nearest reasonable
		
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			city.
		
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			Others say they should go by Mecca.
		
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			But the correct view is they should go
		
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			by the nearest reasonable city.
		
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			Like for example, Edmonton in this case.
		
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			And Allah knows best.
		
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			So we'll suffice with that.
		
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			JazakAllah khair.
		
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			Wa salamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.