Ismail Londt – Dinner and Doubts. For those leading Tarwh. Suggestions reminders advice.

Ismail Londt
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The speaker advises the audience to manage their doubts and feelings, as they may cause embarrassment and stress. They suggest taking a meditation or going with what one felt and thinking to avoid any confusion. The speaker also advises the audience to practice meditation and handling their feelings and feelings to avoid embarrassment.
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Bismillah, salaam, Alaikum, wahtullah.

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Dinner and doubts. I know many Rafales who prefer not eating

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before Tarawa,

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perhaps because of nerves or because they fear they're going to

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be too full and it'll leave them uncomfortable during their

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rendition and enduring the salah. I understand I was there too many

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years ago, but I've changed over the years, because I've realized

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you need something in your stomach. You've been fasting for

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12 hours or more, and you need something to draw energy from.

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Otherwise you know what's going to happen. You may lose concentration

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during your prayer and you may feel fatigued or you may feel

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strained afterwards to take its toll, I stood behind a half with

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ones who fainted in the mihrab, dehydrated and the nourished was

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not looking after himself. You need something naturally sweet,

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like fruits. You need some roughage and fiber like your

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veggies, you need some protein for your muscles, fish, chicken, red

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meat, something, not too much, but something one plate is sufficient.

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Then eating after taraweeh, so that's that's a dinner issue.

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Eating after taraweeh,

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you get hungry and you must eat something. Okay, but the problems

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are these two problems, two potential issues. You end up not

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resting adequately, because if you eat late, your body works through

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the night, digesting what you've eaten, and you get up tired and

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not really

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hungry and craving something for sehari becomes a formality.

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Secondly, if you eat too late,

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you may wake up with some acid reflux that you thought was a

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start of a cold, like an itch in your throat or dryness in your

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mouth and throat. You thought it was a nasal drip, but it's, it's

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actually. It was actually, or is actually acid reflux, heartburn,

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ENT specialists, ear, nose and throat specialist will tell you

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have a Gaviscon after you've eaten late at night, or have an antacid

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before you eat, or

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if you are able to and prop yourself up with the upper part of

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your body is higher than your the lower part, and sleep in that

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manner, uncomfortable, but it saves you from any reflux. The

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reflux is is what

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attacks your chords and your vocal box and may affect you long term.

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So try your best with dinner. Is concerned. Have something before

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tarawih. You need the energy. And if you must have something after,

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then minimal and have the gabascon or antacid or some some liquid,

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something light, and do your best to nourish yourself appropriately.

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Then where doubts are concerned, it is natural to doubt. Your brain

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is an overdrive. It's intensely focused. So it's going to give you

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some additional options. If you're doubting throughout the day or on

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your way to the masjid or before your turn, take a musthave, take a

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copy of the Quran, take your phone app, etc, and check that gives you

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more confidence, because you saw what you are seeing and you know

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what you are supposed to say. However, if a doubt arises, if you

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get a doubt during your rendition in the Salah, then my advice to

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you is go with what you first felt and thought to say. Your brain

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gave you more options, but you were going to say something. You

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were going to say. It made you say. It made you think, isn't it

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possibly what you were going to say? Yala moon, for example. It

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made you think, isn't it Tala moon, my advice is, 90% of the

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time your first, your initial idea or plan or intention is the

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correct one. If it happens to be incorrect, those behind you

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will rectify you, and if they missed it, then after you check

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for yourself and you learn through the experience, there's no perfect

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reciter. Doubts are going to come if ever there was a perfect

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reciting with bi Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, we are merely

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trying to serve the book and do our best in that space. And the

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younger you are in this relationship with the Quran, the

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more prone you are to some doubts, which is normal, natural with time

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over years and repetition, your ear becomes conditioned to the

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particular flow. Your eye becomes conditioned, your mouth becomes

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conditioned, and your brain becomes conditioned, and

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hopefully, your heart becomes conditioned as to where the words

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fit and how they fit and where they fit.

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So don't worry. So dinner, consider having something before

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tarawih and having less after, so you can wake up for sahore Nice

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and hungry and then your doubts. Be gentle with yourself and handle

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them. Manage them and take them as a learning curve, a learning

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experience. Sha Allah, salaam, Alaikum.

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Muhammad Sallallahu.

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