Ismail Kamdar – New Book- 25 Keys to a Happy Life

Ismail Kamdar
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The speaker discusses their book 25 Keys to Happy Life from the Quran and Sunuston, which was released on Amazon a week prior. They emphasize the importance of creating books that serve as textbooks for people to learn and reference, as long as they are meant to be taught. They explain their journey to write the book and how they found it difficult to maintain a happy mindset during difficult times. They emphasize the importance of family and community in achieving happiness, citing the negative younger generation following the Quran and followed Islam, as well as their negative younger generation following the Quran and following Islam.

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			Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Alhamdulillah wassalatu wassalamu
		
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			ala rasulillah Today I want to just share
		
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			with you my latest book 25 Keys to
		
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			a Happy Life from the Quran and Sunnah
		
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			Published by Cube Publishing This book has been
		
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			out in South Africa for a few months
		
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			now It released on Amazon about a week
		
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			ago And I thought that would be a
		
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			good time to share a bit of the
		
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			backstory Behind why I wrote this book Now,
		
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			one of the first things you will notice
		
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			is that This book is a lot shorter
		
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			than the books I usually write Compared to
		
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			my previous book on Omar bin Abdul Aziz
		
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			Which was over 300 pages This book is
		
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			only around 70 pages It's a very short
		
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			book, very easy to read, very simple And
		
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			that was deliberate, that was on purpose The
		
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			reason why I made this book shorter There's
		
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			actually several reasons Number one is, I wanted
		
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			this book to reach people who don't usually
		
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			read books So, one of my goals behind
		
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			becoming an author Is to revive the culture
		
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			of reading amongst Muslims And for many people
		
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			who have not read a book in many
		
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			years It's a bit overwhelming to jump straight
		
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			into a 300 or 400 page book So,
		
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			can we produce books that are beneficial but
		
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			also short?
		
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			And, I mean, if you just look at
		
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			our history The answer is yes There have
		
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			been many short books written throughout Islamic history
		
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			That are extremely beneficial That have gone on
		
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			to benefit people for hundreds of years So,
		
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			I challenged myself to keep this book short
		
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			On every chapter there was a lot more
		
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			that I wanted to say But I forced
		
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			myself to limit each chapter to 1,000
		
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			to 2,000 words To keep it as
		
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			short as possible, as simple as possible So
		
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			that even people who don't usually read books
		
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			Would be motivated to read it It's just
		
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			25 chapters, each chapter is like 3 or
		
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			4 pages It's something that anybody can read
		
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			and digest in small portions And that would
		
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			make it beneficial to more people The second
		
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			reason why I kept this book short Is
		
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			I wanted it to serve as a textbook
		
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			As something to be explained in more details
		
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			Islamically, when we write books Our books are
		
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			meant to be taught, not just read And
		
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			when teaching a book I think it's better
		
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			that the book is summarized It's simple, it's
		
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			to the point And that the teacher is
		
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			able to expand upon it And so I
		
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			hope that this book would be something that
		
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			people teach That people explore in more details
		
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			I myself plan to do a full series
		
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			Explaining every chapter of this book in more
		
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			details And I hope others would do so
		
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			as well Now as for why I wrote
		
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			this book And what the book is actually
		
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			about 25 Keys to a Happy Life from
		
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			the Quran and Sunnah There is a thematic
		
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			reason why I wrote it And there's a
		
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			personal reason why I wrote it I'll get
		
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			into the personal reason first Those of you
		
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			who know me Know that the past 6
		
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			years of my life have been very difficult
		
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			I've been through many trials, one after the
		
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			other Multiple of them at the same time
		
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			And last year in Ramadan When I was
		
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			writing this book I was going through two
		
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			of the most difficult trials in my life
		
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			Alhamdulillah they both ended just a week ago
		
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			Just one after the other But at that
		
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			time I was going through some really difficult
		
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			Things that I won't talk about publicly And
		
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			it was Ramadan And I said I'm not
		
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			going to write anything this Ramadan I'm going
		
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			to focus on my own soul And helping
		
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			myself think better Helping myself think correctly And
		
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			work through these difficult times So I started
		
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			writing some notes to myself On how to
		
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			maintain a happy mindset How to be more
		
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			content, how to have inner peace During difficult
		
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			times And by the 27th of Ramadan I
		
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			had written this book, Alhamdulillah It wasn't meant
		
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			to be written as a book It was
		
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			simply started off in the first week of
		
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			Ramadan As notes to myself On how to
		
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			think better And as I wrote everyday for
		
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			an hour I found it developing more and
		
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			more And I realized that this would make
		
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			a good book And so I shifted how
		
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			I wrote it And by the 27th of
		
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			Ramadan The first draft of this book was
		
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			ready, Alhamdulillah So I wrote this during the
		
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			month of Ramadan To myself To help me
		
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			get through some difficult times The dramatic reason
		
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			why I chose this topic 25 Keys to
		
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			a Happy Life Is that we are living
		
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			in a time of Unimaginable levels of sadness
		
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			and depression And suicide rates It's really a
		
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			time where A lot of people are not
		
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			happy And particularly in the West You know,
		
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			when I was growing up The West was
		
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			very optimistic It was a time of the
		
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			pursuit of happiness There was this idea that
		
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			modernity Is going to bring happiness And all
		
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			of that failed In our lifetime, we saw
		
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			all of that fail And now, in post
		
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			-modernity Nihilism has taken over The younger generation
		
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			Are very pessimistic about life They have this
		
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			doom and gloom mindset about the future People
		
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			don't see any motivation To live life, to
		
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			work hard Many people that I talk to
		
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			They just have a very negative Pessimistic understanding
		
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			of life Of the world, of why we
		
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			are here And they don't want to do
		
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			anything with their lives They don't want to
		
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			make anything of their lives And they're just
		
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			stuck in this negative mindset How do we
		
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			pull people out of this mindset?
		
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			Well, my idea Was to go back to
		
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			that Which made the early generations better The
		
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			early generations followed the Quran And followed Islam
		
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			And what we find is that Those civilizations
		
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			That were built upon Islam Were civilizations in
		
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			which People in general Were happier And this
		
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			happiness Comes from a very natural place They
		
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			are very natural sources of happiness That modernity
		
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			has cut us out from They have separated
		
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			us from the natural Sources of happiness And
		
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			tried to replace it With artificial happiness And
		
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			that did not work And you see this
		
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			in almost every Modern ideology For example Liberalism
		
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			Gives us this idea That the more free
		
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			you are The more happy you will be
		
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			Yet we see in these lands Where people
		
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			have unrestricted freedoms They also have the highest
		
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			suicide rates So This level of freedom By
		
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			the way Islam is not against freedom We
		
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			just have a different understanding of freedom From
		
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			the west but this type of freedom The
		
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			freedom to pursue any sin that you like
		
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			publicly Has not led to happiness Likewise in
		
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			capitalism There is this mindset That the more
		
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			money I have The happier I will be
		
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			And it has been psychologically proven That's only
		
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			up to a certain level Once you pass
		
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			a certain level of wealth More money does
		
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			not bring more happiness In fact it often
		
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			brings more problems So at what point do
		
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			you Become content?
		
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			At what point do you say this is
		
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			enough?
		
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			It's one of the topics I explore in
		
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			this book You know we talk about natural
		
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			sources of happiness Two things that I emphasize
		
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			a lot in this book Are family And
		
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			community And again living in the age of
		
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			Individualism Where everybody is all about themselves And
		
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			all they care about is themselves They think
		
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			to be happy they just need to focus
		
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			on themselves I want people to realize that
		
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			The natural path to happiness Is in large
		
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			families In traditional families In Islamic families That
		
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			is where you are going to find real
		
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			happiness And not just family but community To
		
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			be part of the ummah To be part
		
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			of society To play a role in the
		
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			community Life should not be just about work
		
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			and entertainment There is more to life than
		
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			this And you will find more happiness More
		
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			genuine inner peace and contentment If you work
		
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			towards being part of a Happy united loving
		
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			family And playing an important role in your
		
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			community Than if you only focus on yourself
		
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			You see the modern world has tricked us
		
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			into thinking That happiness comes through selfish pursuits
		
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			But the reality is True happiness comes from
		
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			being part of something bigger Being part of
		
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			the ummah Being part of a family Being
		
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			part of a community And having these loving
		
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			relationships So these are some of the themes
		
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			That I explore in this book And I
		
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			highly recommend you get yourself a copy It's
		
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			available on Amazon It's available in bookstores around
		
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			the world It's available on Kindle I'll place
		
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			the links below This book 25 Keys to
		
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			a Happy Life From the Quran and Sunnah
		
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			Is designed to help us think better To
		
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			think in a way That is pleasing to
		
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			Allah And it is through the pleasure of
		
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			Allah that we also Will find inner peace
		
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			And I hope that this book benefits you
		
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			I hope that it helps you To find
		
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			what you are looking for To improve your
		
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			life, to improve your mindset And to live
		
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			a life that is pleasing to Allah And
		
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			if you live a life that is pleasing
		
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			to Allah You also will find happiness This
		
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			is why Allah describes The state of a
		
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			person Who lives a life that is pleasing
		
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			to Allah When they are dying, Allah says
		
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			They return to their Lord Return to their
		
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			Lord in a state In which Allah is
		
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			happy and they are happy That's what we
		
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			are seeking A state in which Allah is
		
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			happy And we are happy And so our
		
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			happiness is linked to The pleasure of Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala I hope that you
		
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			find the book beneficial Jazakallah khairan wa akhira
		
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			dawana And alhamdulillahi rabbil alameen Wassalamu alaikum wa
		
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			rahmatullahi wa barakatuh