Ingrid Mattson – Women of Islam 2 of 4

Ingrid Mattson
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The speaker discusses the importance of the Islamicistic message of peace be upon men and women, which is linked to the holy grail of peace. The message is linked to a belief that God is the judge and that women are not just treated with a lack of human value. The message is also discussed in the context of the Islamicistic economy, where women are equal to men and men are treated with a lack of human value.
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Was there anything in the initial revelations of

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god that improve the status or role of

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the woman in Arabia?

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What we have to understand is that the

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first thing that,

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improved the status of women was simply

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a redefinition

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of the value of human beings. I mean,

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women as human beings

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were

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reassessed

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according to their value. Now their value was

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not primarily

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as,

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as chattel or as property of men,

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But

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as individual human beings who who had who

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had their

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own spiritual relationship with God.

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That's vitally important. It means that if a

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woman is married or if she's not married,

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whether she's a mother or she

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cannot have

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children,

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whether she lives a life that is,

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in

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in the public eye and is famous or

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is is someone who is,

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who gets

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great acclaim because of

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her, career or

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her accomplishments,

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that all of these things in the end

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are irrelevant because her primary

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value in relationship is the dignity that she

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can attain through a relationship with god. It's

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very important to understand that.

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Of course, there were specific

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rulings about females in that society

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that did help their situation

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within the limits of what was possible within

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7th century Arabia.

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One of the first things that was done,

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of course,

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in the early revelations was

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to link the mistreatment of women

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with,

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morality

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so that the burial of of,

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of female children, female infanticide

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that was practiced among the pre Islamic Arabs

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was condemned. And not only was it condemned,

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as something that was,

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that was wrong, but it was linked to

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a, ultimate

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value,

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which was that

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god

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would judge this action.

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It's very important to understand that the pre

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Samic Arabias Arabians did not believe in an

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afterlife.

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So they did not believe that their actions

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would have any ultimate consequences

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other than,

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whether,

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other human beings would assess them as good

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or bad.

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That's what's really important about this message is

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that

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whether human other human beings think that your

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actions are good or bad,

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ultimately it is God who is the judge.

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And the fact that that female infanticide

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is

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immoral,

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is sinful,

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is unlawful in the sight of God

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means that whether any

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person knows about your action or not, it

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is wrong. God will know, and you will

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be judged for for that.

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Because so many crimes that occur against women

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occur in private.

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So often, women are hurt and abused

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within the private sphere, within the domestic sphere.

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No one ever finds out about that abuse.

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And that's why,

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the awareness that it is god who sees

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all things, God sees these actions

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is the most important aspect of this message

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because you cannot get away

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with abusing girls, with abusing women,

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when god sees and knows all things.

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This is a cue back again to

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a statement where they practice infensicide, female infensicide.

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Why did they practice that?

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That? There are two different reasons why,

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the pre Islamic Arabs, some of them, not

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all of them, practice female infanticide.

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The first was out of,

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simple

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inability

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to take care of all of their children.

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Among the poorest tribes,

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those who are living on the margins of

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life,

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those who had the poorest grazing grounds,

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they would,

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kill

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some of their children because,

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they were afraid they wouldn't be able to

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take care of them.

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And they would rather kill,

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their girl

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than the possibility,

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not just of her dying, but of having

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to sell her or give her away,

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where she would be,

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be abused. So this in a way,

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for many of them, it wasn't something that

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they love doing. It's not because they hated

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girls,

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but because

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they did not

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have any hope that that,

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they would have a way to take care

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of their children.

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This is why we have to look at

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the Islamic message holistically

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because Islam not only said that

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it's,

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it's wrong to bury the child, but that

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you also have to believe

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that God will provide for you

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and for your children.

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So it's that linking to faith,

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realizing that it is God who gives Rizek

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that is important.

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But it doesn't stop at that because we

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know that there are people who are poor.

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We know that there are people who can't

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feed their children.

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And that is why

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this issue then has to be understood within

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the context of

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the Islamic Economic Social Order, which is that

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it is the responsibility

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of the rest of the community

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to help you

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if you can't take care of your children.

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That not only through the CAD, but also

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through through sharing

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and through a different social economic order,

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you have to,

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be assured that this community will take care

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of your children.

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How did the early Muslim women contribute to

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the understanding and preservation of Islam?

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What's important to understand is that the Quran

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was revealed over a period of 23 years.

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And

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and very often, verses of the Quran were

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revealed

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in connection with

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issues that arose in the community

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or questions that were asked.

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So

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from Islamic perspective we understand that God,

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put in place a certain community

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around the prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him,

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that

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asked questions,

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that was vocal,

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that wanted

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had a had a certain sense of curiosity

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and wanted to understand what this revelation meant

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for them. What that means is that the

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questions that were raised were important,

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and women were among,

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you know, were equal to men and asking

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questions.

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What does

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God have to say about my situation?

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If we think about about Kaula, for example,

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who came to the prophet Muhammad, peace be

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upon him, complaining

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that her husband

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had,

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uttered the words of Vihar

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against her saying to her, you are to

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me as my mother's backside.

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Very vulgar expression

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by which a man would separate himself from

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his wife but not divorce her.

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Completely unjust

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practice in pre Islamic Arabia.

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She came to the prophet Mohammed, peace be

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upon him, and said,

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you know, he's done that. Now I'm in

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this situation where I'm hanging between

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between marriage and divorce. I'm in kind of

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no man's land.

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What does god have to say to that?

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And soon, god does reveal,

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a judgment

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about this practice,

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outlawing it,

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saying that it is shameful

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and that,

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that a man who utters this pronouncement

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has to,

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make compensation

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and kafar and repent.

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That's just one example.

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We know of many other examples where women

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asked questions about their own situation,

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about their status.

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Selama, who asked,

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about the revelation.

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Why was the revelation

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being addressed to men?

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In in Arabic,

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the,

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the masculine form of a noun encompasses both

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male and female.

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Now, of course,

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the the Arab women knew that. They knew

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their language,

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but they wanted to

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clarify

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and make it make sure that the men

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in their community understood this.

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And it's a response to that question that

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Allah

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revealed,

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the verse

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that says, verily,

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the Muslim

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men and the Muslim women and the believing

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men and the believing women to the end

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of the verse saying that each of them

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will have,

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their reward from God. So that's an affirmation

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from God that that women are equal to

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men. And it's in response to that question

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that arises from a woman who knows the

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men of her time, who knows that the

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men of her time,

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do not think much of women, and that

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they might use the Quran

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and use the the way that the Arabic

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language is structured

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to exclude women from the life of the

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community.

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