Ingrid Mattson – Our Muslim Neighbor Conference

Ingrid Mattson
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The speakers discuss the importance of diverse culture and acknowledging the demands of neighbors. They stress the need for attention to relationships and acknowledging cultural differences. The speakers also emphasize the importance of trusting oneself and showing faith in oneself to avoid further harm. The speakers stress the need for constant engagement and sharing experiences to achieve goals.
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Good morning, everyone.

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Good morning.

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May God's peace and blessings be with all

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of you.

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It is really such an honor and such

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a joy, more than anything, to be here

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with you today.

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I am

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so blessed to be among people of faith,

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people

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who

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remember God regularly,

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who care deeply, who care enough

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to really stand forth with moral courage and

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say our faith can be something good in

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the world and I'm gonna be part of

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that.

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I'm so grateful to God for having created

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us with this diversity.

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In the Holy Quran, God says that, certainly,

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as the creator

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of all things,

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God could have made us

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one people with no difference

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among us.

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Sounds like a recipe for perfect harmony,

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but

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it was God's will to create us with

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diversity.

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All kinds of diversity, linguistic,

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racial,

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including religious.

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And in fact, it is this through these

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differences that we come to know each other,

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we come to know God

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because we explore

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what we can be and how we can

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be better.

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In the holy Quran, God says,

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worship God and do not ascribe divinity to

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anything apart from him.

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Be good to your parents

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and to relatives and to orphans,

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to those in need

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and to neighbors

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to whom you are close,

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and to neighbors with whom there is some

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distance.

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To the friend by your side and the

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wayfarer,

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and for those who are under your authority,

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verily God does not love those who are

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arrogant and boastful.

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The prophet Muhammad, may God's peace and blessings

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be upon him, said, none of you believes

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who goes to bed satiated

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while his neighbor is hungry.

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And he said, by God,

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he does not believe

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the person

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from whose harm his neighbor is not safe.

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The obligation to care for the neighbor,

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to do good for the neighbor,

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whether that neighbor is a friend, is a

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relative or someone

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with whom you do not have a particularly

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close relationship is an obligation

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in Islamic law

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and in Islamic ethics.

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Now,

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why all of this emphasis on the neighbor?

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The reality is,

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it's not always easy to get along with

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neighbors.

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Even those who share our local customs and

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have lived in the same area for generations,

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we know that. We've all had annoying neighbors.

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And maybe sometimes,

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maybe in our student days more,

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we were not always the best neighbor either.

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There's a delicate balance

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in being a neighbor of granting privacy

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and being helpful.

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We have to judge our circumstances

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and decide

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what we can put in the public area

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or maybe in our front yard as opposed

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to the backyard,

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and that differs from place to place.

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Whether we sit on our front porch

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and socialize

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or whether the back deck is the more

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appropriate place,

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because where we live, like in Canada,

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you keep your

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socializing

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to the back.

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What is tasteful or distasteful

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to put out front?

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Very large

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decorative fountain, perhaps, in your front yard that

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some neighbors may not

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have thought was particularly

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appropriate or in keeping with the aesthetics of

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the neighborhood.

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There's a lot of

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conformity, social conformity

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that is expected of neighbors and

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slight deviations from it can

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make feeling p make people feel annoyed that

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it's not quite right.

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So it's not that easy. It's not that

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easy being a neighbor and that's why we're

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taught

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to be good to the neighbor. We have

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to remind ourselves

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of that.

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And we have to be reminded that it's

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a moral obligation to do good to them

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and not be harmful. And what is harmful

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to them?

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Well, again, as Reverend Isaac said,

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we won't know

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what's harmful to them unless we know them.

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Now, in the modern era,

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the stresses might even be more.

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Some people have tried to escape the

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pressures of conformity on our traditional cultures by

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escaping to the city and and what they

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really want is freedom and

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independence

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from the expectations of their neighbors about how

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they should live or not live.

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They're seeking a new identity or new way

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of being

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in a city.

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Affluence

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can also divide us and can be a

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instrument of separation

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to put that

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large lawn or that high fence,

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that can separate us.

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Cars, so that we could drive right by

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our neighbor without ever

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having to interact with them.

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Technology can also divide us. We don't need

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each other as much

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as we used to, at least for those

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of us who live in urban areas, until

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a disaster strikes and suddenly the neighbor becomes

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very important

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when you need some

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Your electricity doesn't work and might need to

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use that fireplace and you don't have any

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wood or

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you need

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to run a line from your neighbor's generator

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when

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the power goes out as it did when

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I lived in Connecticut and we had a

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snowstorm that knocked out our power for 9

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days and believe me, everyone knew who their

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neighbor was then.

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But there are some people who still live

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a lifestyle where they they do need to

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rely on their neighbors and others to help

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them complete a job, those in agricultural

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areas

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and other places where,

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you know, calling in people

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from the from around them is necessary just

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to get a job done. Where I live

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in Canada right now, there's still a lot

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of farmers,

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and people engage in agricultural work despite all

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the modern technology and farm equipment.

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You still need a number of extra hands,

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when it comes to the harvest.

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And so you need to know those people

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and that that forces us into relationship.

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So sometimes we want that and sometimes we

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don't want that.

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In today's world,

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it's a time of movement and displacement,

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voluntary

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or involuntary

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moving around.

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You know, whether whether they're environmental

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disasters

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or economic collapse or political upheaval, people aren't

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in motion constantly.

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And we ourselves, those who are privileged

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and aren't forced

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to move, nevertheless, still do it in search

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of education

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or employment opportunity

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or maybe different weather even

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that suits our

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constitution.

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So

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many of us don't have the time for

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that,

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you know, the luxury

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of time to get to know people.

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Where over a lifetime,

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you experience the ups and downs of living

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in a neighborhood, and of getting to know

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people, and of sharing

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some difficulties and hardships in the area and

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of celebrating

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together.

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So all of this

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makes

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being a neighbor much more challenging and it

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require means that we're required to have be

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more attentive and mindful of these relationships.

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And sometimes we have to construct

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what are somewhat artificial,

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opportunities to get to know each other because

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a kind of passive approach to getting to

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know each other just might not

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be sufficient.

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Now, new neighbors

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can be in in a time of change,

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new neighbors can also be really

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scapegoated

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for the loss of an old way of

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life. And I think about this,

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when when we see the resentment that some

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kind times has turned towards migrants.

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And I'm not even someone who is is

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free from this kind of tendency because I

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think it is a human tendency.

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I've returned now after over 20 years in

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the United States.

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I consider myself an Americanized,

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Canadian,

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and I've returned to the place where my

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ancestors have lived over 200 years.

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So I've got very deep roots in Southern

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Ontario.

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A lot of traditions

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and

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habits and fond memories. We all have those

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fond memories of the rhythm of life when

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we were children

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and it's different.

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You know, it's changed now.

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And it's very difficult

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sometimes not to distinguish the fact that these

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changes

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have come

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as a result of choices that that we've

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made,

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as much as

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as a result of

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new people who have come into the area

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with with different customs and habits.

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It's so easy to say,

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well, these people who are building this or

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their house looks like this or their customs

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are this way, they're replacing

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or they're displacing what we had when already

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we had moved on.

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But nostalgia

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is,

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is a big part of the human experience.

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We still mourn our expulsion from the Garden

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of Eden. So it's it's primordial

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in us to mourn the past.

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The childhood that we look at through this

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rosy lens,

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even though we know it wasn't always great.

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So I think we need to allow people

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and find ways

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to allow people to mourn

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what it has been lost that they thought

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was good

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and to share experiences

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about a way of life that

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necessarily felt closer and more loving and where

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people cared more about each other.

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If we are able to do that as

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a shared human experience as part of our

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dialogue,

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we may not jump as quickly into scapegoating

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and blaming

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the newcomers to our area

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for having destroyed that because they didn't.

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And it's also easy when someone is a

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stranger or foreigner

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to jump

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to an explanation that is racialized

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or ideological when they do something we don't

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like.

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I mean, how easy it is to blame

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the

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immigrants

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who moved into the house next door

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from this or that country

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and say, well, see those kind of people

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do that

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when remember

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that Betty and John who used to live

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there also were pretty annoying neighbors and they

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used to drag their put their garbage cans

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just a little bit too close to my

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fence for my

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my taste. I thought they should have put

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it a little bit more on their side

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of the property.

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But we jump

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to racialized

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explanations. We jump very quickly to stereotypes

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when people are from what we perceive

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to be another group.

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I would say that in particular

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in this time,

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when we look at what it means to

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be a neighbor and we try to overcome

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stereotypes and

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a resort so quickly to hate and dislike

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and irritation

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that we have to understand there are some

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things that truly are different in the time

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we live today. There are some things that

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are universal and our old, old stories are

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in universal and our old old stories are

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in the bible, they're in the Quran, they're

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in our

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you know, the narratives of human history of

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difference being easily susceptible

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to division and hatred. That is an old

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story, but there's some things that are new

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now.

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And one of the things that I've noticed

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having been engaged in,

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you know, interfaith work and social justice work

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and and public engagement for so long

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is that there are

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no longer any naive encounters.

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And what I mean by that is that,

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when I began,

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you know, public engagement and speaking, say, in

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the early 19 nineties,

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in in a major way,

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that I would be able to speak to

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a group like this, go to a church

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or a library or civic group

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and

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be able to give an explanation

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of a topic like,

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what does Islam say about duties to the

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neighbor

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Or the rights of the neighbor? I would

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be able to explain it. I would give

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quotes from the Quran,

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statements from the prophet Muhammad as I as

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I did when I began today.

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Then I would open it up for questions

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and people would ask a few questions.

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We would have a little back and forth,

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discussion, comparative,

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and that would be it.

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By the mid 2000,

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at the end of a talk like that,

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I would,

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see a

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often

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stony faced audience

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and I would inevitably get the question. The

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first question would be,

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why don't Muslims denounce terrorism?

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Why are Muslim women,

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not allowed to drive?

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Even though my car might actually have been

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in the parking lot of that very church

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and I had driven there.

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You know, why do,

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Muslims hate America

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even though they had heard my biography and

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about, you know, here I was as a

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Muslim engaged in this country and in with

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the government

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and,

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civil society.

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So suddenly,

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what they were hearing,

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what I said was being filtered through,

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preconceived frames.

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They already felt that they knew what Islam

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was. They knew what Muslims were.

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And so anything that I said was being

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filtered through that and really being filtered out

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for the most part.

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So I realized that

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it was no longer simply about this face

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to face naive encounter where we shared information.

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Now, why is that the case?

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And I I, you know, I'm not a

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I don't wanna be an amateur

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psychiatrist

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or, you know,

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but but we do know and as Reverend

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Isaac said, there is information.

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You know, there is a lot of science

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behind how we receive information,

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how we change, how we interpret things.

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And and one thing is clear and there's

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many studies to prove it is that

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is that the first time we hear about

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something novel or new

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creates a a cognitive frame that is like

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an anchoring. It's like an anchoring effect.

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And afterwards,

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that

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that will always

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determine

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any

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how we weigh or measure any new information

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after that.

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So that means that if the vast majority

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of Americans have never met a Muslim before,

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the first place they will encounter Islam,

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probably, is on the news.

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And that will be a terrorist,

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a violent person,

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and and that was particularly true.

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So

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it was interesting because 911 didn't really do

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it. It was the war in Iraq

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where day after day after day, there were

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images of of the war, Americans being killed,

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bombs, violence.

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So it was really after that,

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that this, I believe this anchored within the

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mind of most Americans,

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the image of the Muslim. And the Muslim

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was a was a violent person.

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So that's there. And once it's there, it

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is it it will always be with you.

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And it needs to be worked against.

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Now

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for those

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what happens now, even even worse since then,

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is that our our beloved,

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you know, Internet

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that that is can be such a source

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of information

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has,

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emerged as a source of a vast source

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of disinformation

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when it comes to Muslims and Islam.

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It's very very distressing,

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to do a Google search on Islam and

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Muslims.

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If you, in my Muslim women's spirituality

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class, I asked them to do a Google

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search

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Muslim women and on images, Google images

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and you will just see,

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picture after picture after picture of,

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you know, a woman

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black, completely covered.

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Sometimes, you know, like, her her face cover

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will be like bars, prison bars over her

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face and it seems to be very popular.

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So even someone who said who who hears

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the news and might be interested, well,

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you know, I wonder, like, I wonder what

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it is about Muslims

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will,

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be mostly disinformed

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by searching the Internet.

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And then, of course, there are those who

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are ideologically

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opposed

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to Muslims and Islam either through a political

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particular political ideology

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or a xenophobic ideology that they've that they've

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attached and they associate Muslims with non whites.

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Right? There's a racialization

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of Islam.

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One time, one of my landlords,

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who was responding to the fact that we

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were having hate crimes,

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committed against us by, by one of the

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neighbors in our apartment complex and as a

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student looked at me and said, well, you

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know, it might not be religious. Sometimes, believe

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it or not, people just might not like

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you because of the color of your skin.

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And I said, oh, yeah. I guess there

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are those who don't like white people.

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So again, you know, she just she saw

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me as a person of color because of

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because of my hijab. I thought that was

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it was quite interesting.

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So,

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you know, so the result is that many

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people

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are are terrified of Muslims and that is

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their instinct.

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You know, they've been they've been made terrified

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by Muslims and I see it. You know,

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in Southwest Airlines, it used to be that

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you could you lined up and you,

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you know, you went to the 1st seat

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that you found. It was kind of first

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come, 1st serve.

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I'm actually a very good person to sit

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beside in an airplane because I'm not very

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big.

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So you can kind of like move into

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into my my space,

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but it would be remarkable to me how

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often I would be the one person left

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with an empty seat behind beside me. That

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was good for me, but,

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you know,

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it was quite quite

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quite amazing but it made me you know,

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it just made me really sad. It made

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me sad for me, you know, it's it's

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it's not nice to be

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to feel that people are afraid of you

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and it made me sad for them as

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well.

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Last week,

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I had,

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you know, when we talk about information,

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you know, what what is enough to prove

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to someone that you're a good person?

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Like, what how much do you have to

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do

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to prove that you're a good person?

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You know, first of all,

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we we shouldn't be guilty until proven innocent.

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That seems to be what it is. But

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even that, the degree of

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the degree of misinformation,

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the degree to which people are so convinced

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they understand

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that Islam

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requires Muslims to hate Christians,

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to hate America,

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to be,

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you know,

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against every value in this country is so

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pervasive that that last week,

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I saw on CNN,

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one of my former students being interviewed

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in response to,

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Carson's remarks.

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Now my student,

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it just retired from 35 years

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in the,

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Army Reserve as a Lieutenant Colonel,

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Sharita Hussain.

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She was one of my students in the

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the Islamic Chaplaincy Program.

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She served 35 years in the US military.

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Retired as a lieutenant colonel.

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And

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when she was being interviewed,

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she was

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forced

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to explain

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why,

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you know, to answer the question

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about Sharia law. And can you really say

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that a that a Muslim can be faithful

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to the United States

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when they

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still follow,

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a religious law?

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And the kind of questions that were being

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asked and she was being forced into this

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position, it was amazing to me

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that even her whole service, her life of

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service

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was not enough.

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The fact that she'd served all of these

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years

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and of course,

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clearly had been scrutinized

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throughout all of these years at multiple levels

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about her loyalty, her allegiance,

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her patriotism,

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none of that was enough.

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And it really struck me

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what a serious problem

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we're dealing with.

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I wish I didn't have to talk about

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this, but I have to talk about this

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now because we we've gotta be we've gotta

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be realistic.

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Reverend Isaac talked about tactics. And this afternoon,

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we're gonna have another keynote where where tactics

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is actually in the title. We have to

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be realistic

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about

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what's happening, the dynamics of what's happening.

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And one of the things that we hear

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again and again,

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and and I can't mention who it is,

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but there's someone in a very high government

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position in a certain country

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who once said to me,

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well, how do we really know,

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you know, how can we really trust what

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you're saying when, I'm sorry to say it,

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but we know that Muslims

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are required to engage in subterfuge,

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taqiyah,

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subterfuge

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to deceive,

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to be deceitful about what their faith really

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teaches.

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And this is something that Carson referred to.

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So how how is there all of this,

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you know, now you have all these people

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who know nothing about Islam and Muslims who

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are sure that they have a,

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a clear understanding

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of Islamic

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theological

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ethics and that is that Muslims are required

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to, lie about their faith.

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So we have to understand that,

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you know, if

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if you are convinced that the person you're

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engaging with

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whether they're, you know, they seem like a

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decent person, they seem like a nice neighbor,

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they seem like a good citizen,

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served for 35 years in the US military,

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but

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can you really trust them? Because underneath,

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we know that their loyalties

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lie somewhere else

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and they are religiously,

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obligated

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to lie about this.

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You will never get anywhere.

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You know, we will never get anywhere because

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right at the beginning,

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there there's a wall. This person can't be

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believed.

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So

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I would, first of all, like us to

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remember how many times that theme

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has been part of alienating

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people even within this country.

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You know, whether you could really trust a

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Catholic to be loyal to the United States

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and not to the pope. And now we

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see this is what gives me hope. Now

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we see the beautiful

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beautiful reception that's being given to the head

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of the Catholic church in this country,

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so that should give us hope and optimism

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that these things can change. But how often

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people have been considered to be at their

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core essentially

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disloyal to this country because they

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have another faith,

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or,

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cultural origin or ethnicity.

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So let me just say something

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about this so called Islamic doctrine, which is

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not a doctrine

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at all. It's not a pillar of Islam.

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It's not a key of Islam and it

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does not say that Muslims,

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are required to conceal their faith or be

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deceitful or any of this.

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There's a

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verse of the Quran that says,

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anyone who denies

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God

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after having attained faith.

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And this, to be sure, does not apply

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to one who does it under duress while

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his heart remains

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true to faith.

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The denial,

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the one who denies God after being faithful

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will be subject to God's judgment.

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But this does not apply to the one

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who has true faith but renounces it under

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duress.

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This goes back to the earliest period in

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Islam

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when there was terrible persecution of the first

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believers.

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And in particular, this was revealed

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with respect to a young man

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who was tortured

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for being a Muslim

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along with his parents.

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And his parents were both killed tortured to

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death

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under his eyes.

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His wife his, mother was sexually violated.

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The torture include a sexual violation of his

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mother.

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And in that context,

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Omar Ibn Yasir said, okay.

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I I renounce God.

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I renounce God.

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And he came to the prophet Muhammad crying

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and feeling that he had done a terrible,

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terrible thing.

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And the prophet Mohammed told him, if they

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come back to you and ask you to

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say something, say the same thing.

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Save your life.

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Because in this case, he

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it was unbearable to him.

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It was so traumatic.

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And so this verse of the Quran was

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revealed as a comfort

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to those

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who were persecuted

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and under that

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torture

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could

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not

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hold up and

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and testify to their faith.

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This

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was relied upon

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in some cases by the Muslims who like

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the Jews were subject to the Spanish inquisition

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after

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Ferdinand and Isabella decided that everyone

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in that country must be Catholic or leave

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Andalusia.

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The Iberian Peninsula.

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And there were Jews

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and Muslims

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who both decided

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many of them left

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and they said, we just can't live here

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anymore.

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And there were many others who stayed

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and pretended to be Catholic

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because they they thought, well, maybe this regime

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will last only a little while.

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And and and maybe the Ottomans will come

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save us, or maybe someone else will come

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save us. Maybe we'll be able to be

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free.

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So

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why leave this land

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where we've been for

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centuries?

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You know, they knew no other homeland

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And so they stayed

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and the inquisition then went and very systematically

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found them.

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And 100 and 100 and 100, thousands

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were burned to death

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for being,

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not faithful Christians.

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And the the theme

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of

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the perfidious

00:29:32 --> 00:29:32

Jew

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and the deceitful Muslim

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became integrated

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into European literature,

00:29:39 --> 00:29:41

song, themes and,

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you you see it in Don Quixote,

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the the the fake Christian, the the the

00:29:48 --> 00:29:49

Muslim, the Marisco,

00:29:50 --> 00:29:52

who only pretended to be Christian for the

00:29:52 --> 00:29:53

sake of gain.

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So both Jews and Muslims suffered this and

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and by the way, a a large number

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of them were women,

00:30:01 --> 00:30:04

both Jewish and Muslim women because so much

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of Judaism and Christianity

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has to do with,

00:30:09 --> 00:30:12

sacred rituals in the home and making the

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home a place,

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where God's law is followed. So in dietary

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habits and festivals and all of these things.

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So women were were particularly

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subject to,

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the inquisition.

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So, you know, this is this is it's

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a horrible,

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you know, it's a horrible

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thing that people needed sometimes

00:30:39 --> 00:30:41

in order to save their life or to

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escape torture or being burnt to death,

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To have to sometimes say, yes, I'm I'm

00:30:47 --> 00:30:48

not a Muslim.

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But this has nothing to do with being

00:30:50 --> 00:30:52

disloyal, being unfaithful,

00:30:53 --> 00:30:54

being a liar, being dishonest,

00:30:55 --> 00:30:56

not being a good neighbor.

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That is a pure distortion.

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And so I really think it's it's important

00:31:01 --> 00:31:03

for us to understand the origin of this

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

because this word is thrown around by people

00:31:06 --> 00:31:08

who pretend they're experts on Islam and they

00:31:08 --> 00:31:08

aren't.

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10

They're people who hate Muslims who have an

00:31:10 --> 00:31:11

ideological,

00:31:12 --> 00:31:13

reason

00:31:13 --> 00:31:15

to want to distort

00:31:15 --> 00:31:16

Muslim beliefs

00:31:17 --> 00:31:18

and history and values.

00:31:19 --> 00:31:19

And so

00:31:20 --> 00:31:20

let's

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23

you know, where there are those concepts that

00:31:23 --> 00:31:25

come up, we need to discuss them.

00:31:26 --> 00:31:29

It's really important because otherwise, they're sitting there

00:31:29 --> 00:31:30

like the elephant in the room.

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

And when we have these these conversations,

00:31:33 --> 00:31:34

we don't get,

00:31:35 --> 00:31:36

further

00:31:36 --> 00:31:37

than

00:31:37 --> 00:31:38

that.

00:31:38 --> 00:31:41

The Quran emphasizes again and again, the requirement

00:31:41 --> 00:31:43

to fulfill trust and covenants.

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

And all Muslim scholars have agreed that it's

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

an absolute obligation

00:31:48 --> 00:31:49

on Muslims

00:31:50 --> 00:31:53

to fulfill their either explicit or implicit,

00:31:54 --> 00:31:57

social contract and political contract that we are

00:31:57 --> 00:31:59

loyal to each other.

00:31:59 --> 00:32:02

That we will protect and care for each

00:32:02 --> 00:32:02

other.

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06

The prophet Mohammed, peace be upon him, is

00:32:06 --> 00:32:07

reported to have said,

00:32:08 --> 00:32:11

it is not permitted to cause harm or

00:32:11 --> 00:32:14

to reciprocate harm. This is an authenticated statement

00:32:14 --> 00:32:16

of the prophet Mohammed and it was adopted

00:32:17 --> 00:32:18

as one of the major

00:32:18 --> 00:32:21

5 major legal maxims in Islamic law.

00:32:23 --> 00:32:25

This is used to to explain a whole

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27

body of law

00:32:27 --> 00:32:28

that that

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

compels us and requires Muslims

00:32:32 --> 00:32:33

to promote public benefit.

00:32:34 --> 00:32:36

You know, from everything from,

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39

you know, policy initiatives

00:32:39 --> 00:32:42

that will promote the good, take care of

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

of children who are sick and and others.

00:32:46 --> 00:32:48

2 simple things like zoning laws.

00:32:49 --> 00:32:51

Promoting the good and

00:32:52 --> 00:32:54

and wording off harm are

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

essential and fundamental foundational,

00:32:57 --> 00:32:58

principles.

00:33:01 --> 00:33:02

It is

00:33:03 --> 00:33:06

necessary though, again, for us to know the

00:33:06 --> 00:33:09

person to know what will cause them harm.

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

So very often, our intention is not to

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

hurt someone, but to take care of our

00:33:14 --> 00:33:15

own interests.

00:33:15 --> 00:33:17

So for example, someone puts up a fence

00:33:17 --> 00:33:18

on their yard

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

and our intention may be to

00:33:21 --> 00:33:23

protect our property

00:33:23 --> 00:33:26

and to provide some privacy for our family.

00:33:26 --> 00:33:29

Yet in building the fence, we unwittingly cause

00:33:29 --> 00:33:31

harm to our neighbor. Maybe they had a

00:33:31 --> 00:33:33

nice garden and we've just put it in

00:33:33 --> 00:33:34

the shade and now they're,

00:33:35 --> 00:33:37

you know, peonies won't grow. Now, peonies will

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

need a little bit of shade. Right?

00:33:39 --> 00:33:40

Let's think about a flower that needs a

00:33:40 --> 00:33:41

lot of sun.

00:33:43 --> 00:33:45

So the neighbor in turn

00:33:46 --> 00:33:49

may interpret our action as

00:33:49 --> 00:33:51

ill intentioned or selfish

00:33:52 --> 00:33:55

and may retaliate. So the cycle of harm

00:33:55 --> 00:33:56

and

00:33:56 --> 00:33:59

causing the other harm and retaliating harm ensues.

00:34:00 --> 00:34:03

There's no doubt that in most cases, the

00:34:03 --> 00:34:05

cycle of harm could have been interrupted

00:34:05 --> 00:34:06

and antagonism

00:34:06 --> 00:34:09

avoided by a simple act of communication

00:34:09 --> 00:34:10

at various stages.

00:34:12 --> 00:34:14

In the first place, the person building the

00:34:14 --> 00:34:17

fence should be aware of its potential for

00:34:17 --> 00:34:17

delirious,

00:34:18 --> 00:34:20

deleterious impact on his neighbor.

00:34:21 --> 00:34:24

Knowledge of our environment and the people around

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

us then is necessary to avoid

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

causing unintended harm.

00:34:29 --> 00:34:32

After knowledge, it's necessary to pray embrace the

00:34:32 --> 00:34:35

ethical principle that other people's interests are as

00:34:35 --> 00:34:36

important as our own. This, of course, is

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

the golden rule.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:41

Articulated in the Islamic tradition by the prophet

00:34:41 --> 00:34:44

Muhammad's statement, none of you believes until he

00:34:44 --> 00:34:46

loves for his brother what he loves for

00:34:46 --> 00:34:46

himself.

00:34:47 --> 00:34:50

And the scholars interpret brother to mean brotherhood

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

of humanity.

00:34:52 --> 00:34:54

At the same time, if we experience harm

00:34:54 --> 00:34:56

from our neighbor, we should at the outset

00:34:56 --> 00:34:58

extend the benefit of the doubt

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

And assume no ill intent on his part

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

until we have evidence to the contrary. This

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

is in accordance with an early Islamic teaching

00:35:06 --> 00:35:07

which says extend 70 excuses

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09

to your brother.

00:35:09 --> 00:35:12

So knowledge of the needs, interests, and motivation

00:35:13 --> 00:35:16

of one's neighbor can only be attained

00:35:16 --> 00:35:17

through mutual communication.

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

Most of the time, there will be little

00:35:21 --> 00:35:22

need to say much. A wave of the

00:35:22 --> 00:35:25

hand and a daily friendly greeting help maintain

00:35:25 --> 00:35:26

a sufficient

00:35:26 --> 00:35:29

connection, so that when there's something to discuss,

00:35:29 --> 00:35:31

there will be a level of trust engagement

00:35:31 --> 00:35:32

as a starting point.

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

At least you'll know each other's names.

00:35:35 --> 00:35:37

But when society is under stress

00:35:38 --> 00:35:39

and under stress from

00:35:40 --> 00:35:43

external forces, when we're engaged in

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

global wars,

00:35:45 --> 00:35:48

when there are factors in society that

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51

that have nothing to do with our little

00:35:51 --> 00:35:51

neighborhood,

00:35:52 --> 00:35:53

then we need to be more intentional.

00:35:54 --> 00:35:56

We need to be more deliberate and we

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

need to engage in constant communication.

00:35:59 --> 00:36:02

Otherwise, it will be very easy to, for

00:36:02 --> 00:36:03

us to resort

00:36:04 --> 00:36:05

to

00:36:05 --> 00:36:05

stereotypes

00:36:06 --> 00:36:06

scapegoating

00:36:07 --> 00:36:08

are,

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

you know, familiar heuristics where,

00:36:12 --> 00:36:14

what we've heard is what we rely on.

00:36:25 --> 00:36:27

So let me just say a few final

00:36:27 --> 00:36:27

words

00:36:29 --> 00:36:30

for people of

00:36:32 --> 00:36:32

faith,

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

for Christians and Muslims

00:36:36 --> 00:36:37

who make up the

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

majority of people of faith in the world,

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

but for all of us of faith,

00:36:45 --> 00:36:48

You know, there there's a very common statement

00:36:48 --> 00:36:49

now that religion

00:36:50 --> 00:36:50

is

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

has been the source of the most conflict

00:36:53 --> 00:36:54

in the world.

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

More wars have been caused by religion. That's

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

factually untrue.

00:37:00 --> 00:37:02

It is factually untrue. More people have died

00:37:02 --> 00:37:02

in

00:37:03 --> 00:37:04

wars of,

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

national interest

00:37:08 --> 00:37:09

and by,

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

secular ideologies.

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

But some people say, well, that's just because

00:37:14 --> 00:37:15

we've had more technology.

00:37:16 --> 00:37:19

Our technology has been better at killing people

00:37:19 --> 00:37:21

since the, late 19th century.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:24

Whichever case it is,

00:37:24 --> 00:37:27

we know that religion can be a source

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

of conflict.

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

Like any difference, it can be used. It

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

can be leveraged. It can be used as

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

an excuse. It can be used to whip

00:37:35 --> 00:37:36

up popular sentiment.

00:37:37 --> 00:37:38

We, at a minimum,

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

do not

00:37:40 --> 00:37:42

want that to happen.

00:37:44 --> 00:37:47

It is in our common interest, whatever our

00:37:47 --> 00:37:50

whatever our views of salvation are. You know,

00:37:50 --> 00:37:51

you don't need to be a universalist,

00:37:51 --> 00:37:52

a theological

00:37:53 --> 00:37:53

universalist

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

to say that, you know what?

00:37:56 --> 00:37:57

If

00:37:57 --> 00:37:58

our religious communities

00:37:59 --> 00:38:01

continue to be a source of discord and

00:38:01 --> 00:38:04

fighting, most people will say, forget about it.

00:38:04 --> 00:38:07

Forget about religion. What good is it? So

00:38:07 --> 00:38:07

at a minimum,

00:38:08 --> 00:38:10

we need to get along. We need to

00:38:10 --> 00:38:13

show that this is not necessarily the case.

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

But honestly, if the most we can do

00:38:16 --> 00:38:18

is not cause harm,

00:38:19 --> 00:38:19

like,

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

what what what good are we?

00:38:21 --> 00:38:23

You know, I would hope that we could

00:38:23 --> 00:38:24

go a little beyond

00:38:25 --> 00:38:26

not causing harm

00:38:26 --> 00:38:29

to find that collective voice to witness for

00:38:29 --> 00:38:30

good in the world.

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

To witness for compassion and love. To witness

00:38:33 --> 00:38:34

for,

00:38:35 --> 00:38:36

an alternative value.

00:38:37 --> 00:38:40

To witness that success is not just about,

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

you know, acquiring

00:38:49 --> 00:38:49

consumption.

00:38:50 --> 00:38:53

Or that you are a powerful person in

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

the consumer market.

00:38:55 --> 00:38:56

I I'm not I'm not, you know, I'm

00:38:56 --> 00:38:59

not here to give an anti capitalist message

00:38:59 --> 00:39:01

or something like that. I'm not an economist.

00:39:02 --> 00:39:03

I'm not an expert in finance.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:06

But I'll tell you, when when the university

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

you know, I'm at a little Anglican college

00:39:08 --> 00:39:11

that's affiliated with a large public university.

00:39:11 --> 00:39:14

And this large public university last year did

00:39:14 --> 00:39:15

a big marketing campaign

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

where they have 20 foot posters

00:39:19 --> 00:39:19

of,

00:39:20 --> 00:39:21

alumni from their university,

00:39:22 --> 00:39:23

individual people,

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

presidents of banks,

00:39:26 --> 00:39:27

head of big corporations,

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31

enticing the students, this is success.

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

I said to my my Christian colleagues that

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

are are are are are small Anglican college,

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

can we just, like, put a little picture

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

of Jesus weeping at the feet of one

00:39:41 --> 00:39:42

of these

00:39:42 --> 00:39:43

gigantic

00:39:43 --> 00:39:44

icons,

00:39:45 --> 00:39:48

you know, to the the the corporate world?

00:39:48 --> 00:39:48

It was just,

00:39:50 --> 00:39:53

like and and and they said, be ambitious.

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

You know, things like that.

00:39:56 --> 00:39:56

Achieve

00:39:57 --> 00:39:58

your ambition.

00:39:58 --> 00:40:00

I thought, what are we? What what are

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

our hopes? What are our dreams? What are

00:40:02 --> 00:40:02

our ambitions?

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

I think we have something to say. We

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

have something to bring that can be healing

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

to this world.

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

And and, you know, where are where are

00:40:11 --> 00:40:13

the disabled

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

in that narrative?

00:40:14 --> 00:40:17

Where are the people with with intellectual abilities,

00:40:18 --> 00:40:19

disabilities in that narrative?

00:40:19 --> 00:40:22

Where where are those who are doing

00:40:23 --> 00:40:24

real work?

00:40:24 --> 00:40:26

You know, real work that actually is not

00:40:26 --> 00:40:29

harming anyone unlike much of the financial sector.

00:40:29 --> 00:40:32

Oh, yeah. You know, someone where where is

00:40:32 --> 00:40:33

the poster of that person?

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

Be do something

00:40:35 --> 00:40:38

good and useful and beneficial to humanity and

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

the world

00:40:39 --> 00:40:40

that doesn't

00:40:40 --> 00:40:42

that that that doesn't put millions of people

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

in poverty.

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

You know, where's that poster? So I would

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

love to see us get together

00:40:47 --> 00:40:49

and do that kind of thing.

00:40:49 --> 00:40:51

You know, we need to

00:40:52 --> 00:40:54

just as we need to conserve the environment,

00:40:54 --> 00:40:56

we need to conserve a space for religion

00:40:56 --> 00:40:57

in this world

00:40:58 --> 00:41:00

because we're being squeezed out. And one of

00:41:00 --> 00:41:02

the things that I love about America,

00:41:02 --> 00:41:04

and I love both of my countries, one

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

of the things I love here

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08

is that is that it is whether it's

00:41:08 --> 00:41:11

true or not, Americans believe this country is

00:41:11 --> 00:41:12

founded on religious freedom.

00:41:13 --> 00:41:16

They believe that. And so there's still a

00:41:16 --> 00:41:18

respect I believe and a feeling that

00:41:19 --> 00:41:22

that religion can be something it's something to

00:41:22 --> 00:41:24

be respected and also

00:41:24 --> 00:41:27

can be a force in society that's necessary

00:41:27 --> 00:41:27

and good.

00:41:29 --> 00:41:29

But

00:41:30 --> 00:41:31

I don't think

00:41:31 --> 00:41:32

we're convincing

00:41:32 --> 00:41:33

everyone

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

of that. And I think less people are

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

being convinced of that

00:41:37 --> 00:41:40

when they hear us using our religious language

00:41:40 --> 00:41:41

to hate each other.

00:41:42 --> 00:41:43

And that's my community,

00:41:44 --> 00:41:46

and that's your community. That's all that's all

00:41:46 --> 00:41:47

of us.

00:41:47 --> 00:41:50

So let's get together and and do some

00:41:50 --> 00:41:52

good. And I know that all of you

00:41:52 --> 00:41:54

are doing that. And I'm so I feel

00:41:54 --> 00:41:55

so grateful to God

00:41:56 --> 00:41:56

to

00:41:56 --> 00:41:59

be encountering you again, to be among you

00:41:59 --> 00:41:59

again.

00:42:00 --> 00:42:02

And and to be part of this this

00:42:02 --> 00:42:04

really beautiful and holy sacred movement,

00:42:05 --> 00:42:08

towards doing good as faithful witnesses

00:42:08 --> 00:42:09

to God's,

00:42:09 --> 00:42:11

good creation. Thank you.

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