Imtiaz Sooliman – talks kindness, callings and CT fires

Imtiaz Sooliman
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The radio station discusses their upcoming radio show and upcoming radio show with a customer. They talk about the use of food and supplies, social distancing, and the importance of social activity. They also talk about the impact of COVID-19 on schools and the importance of honoring people for their work. The speakers share their experiences with loss and challenges, and express their desire to become a doctor.
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Kindness can the podcast with radio personality Jane Lindley

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Thomas and psychologist Paul bushel, because every act of

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kindness, no matter how big or small, can change lives. In this

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series, Jane and Paul hope to enrich your life by giving you

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practical tools on how to be kinder in your relationships with

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yourself, with those around you, at home, work and in your

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community.

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So we are absolutely delighted to have Doctor MTS, suluman, founder

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and chairman of gift of the givers, with us on kindness can

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today, greetings and cheery Salutations to you, doctor, ah,

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take to you. To also Jane and to Paul. Thank you very much for

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having me on your program. Well, it's an absolute privilege to have

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you, not only founder of gift of the givers, who, since 1992 has

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managed to raise more than 3 billion rand and help people in

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more than 40 countries, but Doctor sulaman, you personally as well,

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no less than nine honorary doctorates, countless presidential

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and international awards, and must be one of the greatest South

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Africans of our time. We are just so delighted to have you on

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kindness. Can today. I know Jane and I both. You're a role model

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for us. So thanks for taking the time to chat with us today. Thank

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you very much. It's a pleasure. I was Thank you, Paul. Earlier, this

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is bigger than interviewing Bono.

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Doctor

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Sullivan, it's really wonderful to Beth you. Mean, I've had the

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absolute privilege of working alongside the gift of the givers

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throughout my time at East Coast Radio. So again, thank you. So

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what is that the conversation of with obviously, gift of the givers

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making news around our country and around the world, as far as the

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support given during the Cape Town fires, I mean, more than 4000 UCT

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students fed and housed. What kind of logistics goes into an

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operation like that? To be honest, Jane, you know, the logistics of

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this one is not too big, because, you know, it's a limited space,

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it's a limited area. It's a well organized city. So it's not like

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in a disaster zone in an earthquake or something like that.

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The only complication was that you had to cook so many meals very

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quickly at short notice on the first night, because it happened

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very suddenly. So on the first night, you get a call at half past

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four to say, arrange for 4000 students. The cook. It's Sunday

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afternoon. All the shops are not open. Now. It's to bring a staff

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back, get the ingredients, cut them, clean them, cook them, and

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we're catering for different tastes, chicken, mutton and

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vegetarian. All that has to be sorted out. And then the students

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themselves. You don't know where they are, because the university,

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at the same time, is trying to find accommodation for 4000

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students at short notice. And with lockdown, a lot of hotels have

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closed, you know, are not functional. The staff are home.

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They haven't been working for months, which means hotels are

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going to find staff management, bring in, clean up the hotels,

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bring the place, bring the teams in. And the students were awake,

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so now cooking the food, but you're not sure where you're going

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to deliver it. And eventually, as you were getting to the hotels,

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the students were coming in, as you were coming there, you know,

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they were walking at the same time, and some of them,

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fortunately, they were already in their rooms. So in essence, we

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took four the all those pots of food, almost 14 pots of food, it

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was brought to our office. Then fall of all of Cape Town came to

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volunteer. And then, whilst that is happening, of course, now I

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have to worry about social distancing and masking, so to

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bring my medical teams in just to make sure that everybody follows

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the rules. But fortunately, everybody was well disciplined,

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organized a way of covid 19, and we package all the food in those

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form, plates from our phone boxes, from the pots. And then everybody

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came. I got a car. I got a vehicle. I got this, I got that I

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can deliver. We delivered to 29 hotels. So it was from the cook to

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the office. Volunteers form packages, different cars, people,

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less of go to what and where and what quantities in each hotel, 30

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year, 50 year, 500 there, 420, there, 255, there, 250, they took

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it to all the different hotels. And in some places they went in

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hotel, door to door, room to room, to deliver to the students. So

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that was the exciting part. But then the university gets back to

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us on Sunday night and says, we have another favor to ask of you,

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besides tonight. Can you pay for the next six to seven days, three

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meals a day?

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We said, Fine, we'll do that, because we got some more time on

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on Monday morning arrangement. But on Sunday night, when we went to

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the rooms, the students very grateful, very thankful. Then ask,

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Can you arrange, you know, a soap, toothbrush and a toothpaste for

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us, and because we don't have those hygiene items, because we

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just left our room suddenly, so on Sunday, on Monday morning, we

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started packaging hygiene tax in addition to the three minutes per

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day, no wonder how many volunteer funds. I mean, you know that

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doctor MTS has four cellphones, and now we know why

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I was about to say that little black book has got a lot of

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numbers in it. How many volunteers Doctor cinnamon does it take to

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make something like that happen? Look, we have no volunteers, to be

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honest. We have full time staff who work like machines because we

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specialize in disasters.

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We can't have people coming who don't really know how the system

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works. Each one in the team knows how the other guy works. So whilst

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volunteers can become a pro, because they will tell you they're

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coming Monday morning, then suddenly they got a dental

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appointment, or the cat got sick, or something else called, you

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know, we have got that kind of story, and it can't work on us. It

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has to be on the spot. You know, it's like robots. Our teams are

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like robots in their sleep. They can tell you what to do, but where

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the volunteers help is where the people of Cape Town came forward,

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because that kind of packaging, you know, assist text and then the

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core tip and concentrate on goods coming in, organizing things,

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making sure all the paperwork is in, knowing which hotels students

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have to go for just to get quality instructions. And it was very,

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very interesting that more than 300 if not more, than the

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volunteers turned up to have. And to be honest, quite frankly, we

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could have had more than 4000 volunteers, more volunteers than

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the students that needed out, because the whole of Cape Town

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wanted to come. And we had to hold that back, because, again, for the

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rules. And it was very, very interesting to see that the first

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guys on the pot offloading food into foam box was an orthopedic

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surgeon and a pediatric nutrition members of my team, emergency

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medicine specialists came, gynecologists came, all kinds of

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people came to the area itself to assist in the delivery and

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distribution of the food. So my sister lives in Cape Town, and she

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was obviously extremely emotional on the phone, day in and day out.

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But it's always the case, isn't it, that, you know, Paul and I are

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so passionate about kindness. That's why we started the kindness

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can movement three years ago, because we so believe in the power

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of kindness. And I suppose it's when the chips are down that we

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realize that we are capable of so much. And I guess that you get to

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see that day in and day out in this beautiful country, Shane, you

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know, and Paul, you know, what, what was different this time?

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Remember, we we've been socially estranged. Besides social, you

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know, distancing, we've been socially estranged from family,

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from friends, from the workplace, from going to the park, from going

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out. And to me, they get together in Cape Town. The desire to be

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together was to feel being, working together and doing in a

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responsible, sensible way. That's why so many people came up. Yes,

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yes. They came because they fell for the people of for the students

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in UCT. You know their difficulty, but just to see each other. I

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mean, the last two days we've got people from different companies.

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So you know what? We just want to be here. I said, to do what? No,

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we just have to be here. It's such a nice atmosphere, nice feeling.

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We just want to be here. It's funny, having suffered all and we

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fasting. So of course, teams of us are fasting too. So they come and

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join us for fasting, and they say, No, we want to be here, but since

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you can be here, it's not a problem. And the other striking

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thing was, this a guy called from kalitra. He says, I don't have a

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house. I'm from a shack. I don't have money, I can't offer

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anything, but I lost everything in five years previously, and you

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guys helped us. I know what it's like. Can I take a taxi and come

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to the building there and assist you pack boxes or whatever is

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necessary? And he said, you know, what can we do that? I said, Yes,

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you know, you're almost welcome if you can make money, if you come,

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come here. That was one of the positive message. Then a lot of

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people who came said, we don't know who the students are. It

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doesn't family and friends. The family and friends this, this

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students are in in residences. So all people, young people, came,

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they said, we feel for the students. It's like looking after

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our children, our daughters and sons. And we know when we are

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mothers and our kids are far away, what it feels like all different

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races, different religion, different color, not knowing who

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is, who all came just to be and take care of the students. And

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then when there was such an outpouring so there was a

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compassion on the one side, the care that the students are away

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from home for another the third problem was they came back to

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study after a year. Basically, last year was the last year, and

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just as they started, then the fire comes and stops teaching time

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again, and especially medical students are worried about a

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volume. And then, of course, the people want to be together. And

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the beautiful thing was this, at fasting time when the Muslim guys

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were breaking the fast, everybody else was not fasting. Join them.

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So it became one big, happy family to eat together. It was such a

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good spirit of South Africans working together after a year of

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depression, a distance from each other, things not going right. And

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it was like, you, life is back. Yeah, I get goosebumps while

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you're talking, of course, I suppose lots of moments of

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unkindness, whether human made or from nature, the kindness that

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comes to fix that must be so inspiring for you as a person, I

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can hear it in your voice. Yeah. Maybe you can take us through some

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of your stories where, where kindness is has really stood out

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for you. Where the the spirit of kindness has just made such a big

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difference. It's been in every country, wherever we go, locally,

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even locally, wherever we work. You know, you could see the the

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effect of that. It's always a spiritual and a religious element

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to when you go and serve people you get let's take covid 19.

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Now these are professional people. These are doctors, CEO of

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hospitals, nursing managers, hospital managers, sitting in

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hospital. And as you develop the stuff, as you get there, they just

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ask you, how did you know? Now you think about that. No question is

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this, how did you know? How did you know what they said? How did

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you know that the nurses were about to go into strike in the

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next one hour, because they were short of PPEs and they were afraid

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to go and see the patients. What made you come at this moment of

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time? We said, We just came here because it was part of the

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schedule. What are exaggeration? It happened in so many facilities.

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When we got there, they said, You know what the last mass is in the

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room? The last mask in the room when I drove into Internet

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hospital, when my kids drove into Internet Hospital in Melbourne,

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ECA was said the same thing. They said, You know what? We were so

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disillusioned, so demotivated. We had run out of PPEs. There was no

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deliveries. And we saw the gifts of the givers, branded vehicle

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driving, and we knew our answer was in that van. We didn't know

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what you brought, we didn't know why you're coming. We didn't know

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when you were coming, we didn't know that you were coming. But

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when we saw the van, we knew that our solution lies in that van. And

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it happens over and over and over again. That's covid 19 a few weeks

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ago. You may have read the story. It's quite big in the media, and

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all men from muscle bank, Africana, Christian man calls and

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he says, I need to see you guys, allegedly. So we see for what he

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says, I want to be quit my property to you. So we said, you

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just need to speak to your lawyer. He says, No, understood you,

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because I don't trust lawyers. I want you guys to recommend the

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lawyer to make sure that there's no cost and everything comes to

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you. We didn't ask among nothing. We said, okay, my friend, we're

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busy with covid. 19. We busy with drought. Denise, okay, this guy is

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from muscle brain. We said, we'll get to you. It's fine. It so

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happened we were doing a delivery of food parcels for farmers. First

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time farm workers, farmers have offered four parcels because

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they've lost everything. It's unusual for a farmer to ask for a

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food parcel for his family, because the food parcel to the

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farmer. We took the food parcel for the farm workers, and then we

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went to the area, and we told the guy, my guy's from Cape Town, I'll

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come and see you. So he goes, he only speaks through Africans. So

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my guy said he had to adjust to Africans. And in case, he goes

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inside the area, and he says he sees a picture of me on initial an

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article about something we have done in Tiktok. And the guy says,

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Thank you very much for coming Afrikaans. And then he starts

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pouring his heart out. He says, you know, when I was very young,

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at the age of around 20, I was going to get married that week.

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Everything was arranged. The bride was ready. I was ready. The bride

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outfit was ready. My outfit is ready. Invitation cards went out.

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The hall was booked. The caterers booked. This is going to happen

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this week, get married this week, and in that week, he said there

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was a car accident and the bride to be died. He said, I lost faith

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in God Almighty. I lost religion, I lost hope in mankind, and I live

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like that for many, many years. It takes out a fight. It says, Look

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at this. And five years of gifted articles. It takes out on that

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file. He said, Look at the style. I've been following you guys. He

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said, I've been watching what you do for the farmers, for the

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animals. And he said, What I love about it, it's all race, all

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religion, all color, no questions asked. He said, When I looked at

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that, my faith started coming back. He said, For that to happen,

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that for that kind of compassion, it has to come from a god. It

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can't come from nowhere. So there has to be a god, and I need to

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reprogram my mind. He said, I've been going back to my religious

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books. I'm reading again. I'm checking again. I'm getting faked

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again. And I want to give you my estate. I have nobody, no cat, no

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dog, No wife, no children. It's only me. My money is invested. My

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investments, my returns is I need 25,000 I need 25,000 Rand a month

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to live. And this is what I need to save myself. But when I pass

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on, I got my money all different funds, different insurances,

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different investments. I need that lawyers to write all these things

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down. I want everything to come to you. And we asked how much 8.2

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million? He said, everything must come to you. And I said, and he

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said, I want to come with you when you go next time to specifically

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when you go and feed the animals and the farmers, I want to come

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with you. So we are arranging a father delivery very soon in

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oswaran, just to take this gentleman with us. Do you know

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what's the best beauty of the story? When the story broke, my

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guys went back to him a few weeks ago. He said, Let me tell you

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something.

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It. He said, people in the South have been coming. They heard about

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a story, and they came to me. They said, You know, there's a man in

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this town wants to keep 8 million men. Who is it man? He said, I

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don't keep a straight face. All my neighbors and friends are

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disgusting about what's going on. I tell you, I'm like, I know

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nothing. They said that every time to figure out who is this man in

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muscle bank, that's you guys talk to me, and everybody's speaking to

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each other. It's me, and nobody knows that.

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And I think that's one of the beauties about being kind, is that

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it doesn't have to be seen as a headline. It's that currency, and

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that's why Paul and I so believe in kindness as well. Is that we do

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things not in the view of everybody else. It's the stuff

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that happens behind the scenes. And I kind of think that leads

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into, you know, I was going to talk about, I mean, there's been

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rumors about you being up for the Nobel Peace Prize, or talking

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about awards that are to go towards you, and you have said,

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*'s to the nose. Nose, nose. I'm not interested, right? Look,

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there's two. I'm not interested in Nobel Prize or anything like that,

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for that matter, to be honest, because my teacher told me

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something very important when he came in instruction. I explained

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this clearly. When I was given instruction, he said, My son,

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whatever you do will be done through you and not by you, so

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automatically, that whatever is coming is coming because of some

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spiritual power to you. It's not your own achievement, he said. And

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then, but people come to you, they said, we really want to honor you.

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We feel important because it's good for our institution to give

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you, you know, the kind of our recognition, and we just feel like

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doing it. Now, when people come with such kind of love, it doesn't

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sound very nice to say, I don't want it where I will not take an

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award is where somebody says you must write in and say why you must

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get this award. And my staff laugh was quite often, because some

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request comes from America a million dollars to me to for the

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recipient of this award, you gotta fill it and motivate why? When

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they get it, they know they just have to delete the email. I'm not

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even going to read it and and like that. Somebody comes and says, You

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know what, you've been nominated by somebody. A lot of people got

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together and they want to give it this award. Will you accept? In

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that case, I'll say yes, because it's coming that comes from the

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heart, and you don't turn away you because people feel you want to

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recognize something good, like universal doctorate school, they

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will phone you and say, look, we've got a whole board set the

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company said, and you are nominated on behalf of the

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university. Would you accept this? And if it's your own university,

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for example, where you come from, you can't say no, you know. And

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you can't say no to a university is not in the top 10 or top 50 in

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the world. It means you are selective again, you know or not.

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You only one to go to the top universities, and not those ones

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are not so recognized because of resources or even maybe so you

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can't do that. Yeah, I've taken awards from very unknown people

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and from very highly recognized people in the interest of saying,

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I appreciate what you do. So. Doctor sueman, lots of awards, but

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what have been some of the greatest rewards for you in doing

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the work that you've been doing for the last 28 years, the answer

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is always the same. It lies in the eyes of those people that you

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have. It's not a thank you verbally. It's not a this. It's a

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look in the eyes. You see it in the children. You see it in the

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women. You see the elderly. And you can see on the face a

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spiritual kind of glow on the face when you bring the stuff. All

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people in the rural areas in the Pascal will do this. They'll put

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their heads up and, you know, thank God Almighty. They'll say,

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like the doctors and the CEOs and the managers hospital said, How

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did you know the old people on a stick in the rural area, I will

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say God answered our prayers. The people in green came. We knew he

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won't let us down. We knew our prayers will be answered someday.

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We were waiting for food. Our children were hungry. We were

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hungry. We had no water. We knew God Almighty, will answer our

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prayer. You are God's people. You have come to fulfill his prayer.

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Then you see we say thank you. In other areas, they don't say

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anything. You look at the eyes, and the eyes slowly go heavenward

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like that, and it comes back down, and you can sit intense

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thankfulness in the eye. And one of the places that it happened was

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in Somalia, when we went in 2011

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when the famine was killing 1000s of children each day, and the

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mothers had no breast milk to feed the children, and there was no

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food. And you gave them 45 nutrition supplement to feed the

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children, and you gave something to feed them, and they said with

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their eyes, they looked at you like Thank you. In Niger, 2008

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famine again, hitting the country. We went in. We had 1000s of

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patients who came and they needed medical care besides, besides

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food, we sent out a medical team in the we had about eight or nine

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of us, and where.

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Be realized. There's like, eight or 9000 people here, how they're

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going to finish this? So when I started with the children, I saw,

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okay, some of them are not so bad. So when we went to see the

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children, and we asked the parent, can we see you? Because you guys

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haven't seen the doctor, we just did this, I couldn't understand

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why they don't ask. And when they came, no adults milking. No

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teenager came, no child above six came. When the mother came, she

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only pointed to the baby and not to herself. And I can't understand

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this based on other people, there were no medical care here. There's

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famine, there's disease, there's no medical care. Why did everybody

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else not come? Couldn't understand that. And then after a while, I

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said, Okay, there's too many people here. And then we went, and

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I started seeing the children, and I pointed the guy. I said, this

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baby's okay. So all I did is they understood instantly. They

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understood that. I said, the baby is okay. You need to go. No

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questions asked. They walked out. I can't understand what's going on

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here that evening when we're having supper, I always have the

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teams with me to discuss, the medical teams, the media teams, my

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workers teams, I didn't the government, and I said, Speak. You

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know, you everybody's got a chance to speak. One media guy says, I

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went into the village. I questioned the people. They said

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three to five children a day were dying in this village. I said,

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thank you very much. You don't need to speak anymore. I

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understood what happened. He said, What do you mean? You understood

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what happened? I said, these people understood that we've come

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with limited resources, with limited medical people, so they

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don't want to jam the queue up. That's why no adult came, no

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teenager came. They only came to bring the baby because babies were

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dying. So if they take the pressure of us and we only look at

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the baby, we have the chance of saving a baby or somebody, and if

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their baby is not so bad and we die in three weeks time, they are

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prepared to wait until three weeks time and hope that some adults

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will come in at three weeks so they sacrifice themselves. This is

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kind. Doesn't do it another way. It is compassion. It's the

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ultimate sacrifice. Actually, you know, they sacrifice their own

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health, their own being, so that somebody else's child could be

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saved. And the next day, they knew the system. The moment they came

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from five they said, I said, Thank you. Go on. They understood the

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system. And then all the sequence. They said that one come. And they

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started pointing to bring the sequence. We saved every single

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child on that

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because the community understood. And I then quenched the coin a

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phrase to say, you know, the the beauty, the dignity of the people

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of Africa, because we always say it's a continent with fighting and

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corruption and illness and disease, but nobody sees the

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spiritual side. What guarantee was there that it was time somebody

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else was coming. But they sacrificed seeing that child, to

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see one that was immediately very, very ill today, that may die this

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afternoon, that was an ex supreme sacrifice. It's one thing to be

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the the giver of kindness, and that's so inspiring and powerful.

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But it must be another thing so rewarding to watch beneficiaries,

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people who are struggling with illness and disease and and

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famine, finding within them the ability to continue to be kind,

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uh, in spite of that for their community, I mean, I think that

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that's just, that's just

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emotion, yeah, let me tell you a story of that. We were in Yemen.

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It was August, 2012

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it was Ramadan. I went there for the first time because I saw

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pictures of family and BBC whilst I was in tech, and I came across,

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I went across, and I said, I met a guy who was now my the guy who's

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my office manager is the guy with the under sagamati, the guy who

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took out Yolandi Koki from al Qaeda. I met him on that trip, and

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he took me around. And it was it was sunset. Now time to break

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fast. And suddenly this woman is screaming in the streets, and I'm

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thinking to myself, honest, what is wrong with this lady? He says

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she's fighting with all the men in the street to tell them they have

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no right to take me and him for for eating food. We need to break

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fast in her house. I said, breakfast in the house. What she's

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got in the house to eat.

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And it struck me then that the whole day, we were walking around,

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oh and Abu bak is the head of a such a rescue team. And we were

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three of us were together. And then suddenly I told Ahmad, you

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know, what went to every house looking for kids who got famine,

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or, you know, food or malnutrition, we couldn't find

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them, he said. I said, You know what we must What did we miss? I

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said, Did you realize that no house had any furniture, no

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fridge, no carpet, no food parcel, no food, no table. We were.

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About the whole day in 15 villages, and we must do something

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so important. There was nothing in those houses. What are these

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people eating? And then I said, this lady now wants me and you and

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to come into her house to eat. If we eat her food, what is she going

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to eat? So she probably going to put us in the dark, because

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there's no lights there. Very much like a Scotland, no lights day,

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and in the dark, she will make that she's eating, and whatever

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she has she will give you. And I said, How am I going to swallow

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that? Surely I can't eat that? I said, it's Ramadan. You're not

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supposed to lie any anytime. Ramadan is worse for us to lie.

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But I said, Oh God, I'm going to lie. Forgive me. But I said, Tell

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a lady we invited somewhere else to eat. I will actually accept an

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invitation somewhere else. I just couldn't have the heart to eat

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that we walked into Syria, into into a camp. It's freezing cold.

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I'm a guy who can't take more weather. It was freezing cold. The

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kids were walking naked, getting washed in ice cold water. And I

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think to myself, Oh, my God, what is this? And we go inside, and

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it's ready. And then a child comes from a ball of honors and says,

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the the biggest pastor is he said, You gotta take that, and you gotta

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eat, brother. He said, You gotta eat. I said, I gotta eat this. And

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then what is the challenge a family going to eat? He said, You

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have to eat it. It's part of the culture. You are the guest. You

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have to eat that all of the offer you, otherwise they will feel

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terribly insulted. And I'm thinking to myself, how am I going

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to swallow this thing? Because if I eat this, what is this challenge

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a family going to eat after that, I no choice. They made me eat it,

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and I had to eat it, and there was thankfulness in the eyes. I came

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to help them, but they give me the others, and they're nothing to

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eat. I can give you hundreds of stories like this, gosh, I don't

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know if I should cry or celebrate. I just feel so moved. Doctor

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Suleiman as a child, you know, I wanted to be a cashier when I was

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a small child. My aspiration was to be a cashier or an actress. As

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a small child, what did you want to do with your life? I wanted to

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be a doctor. I wanted in you always, you know, always. We had a

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doctor still alive. He was, I was born in Pakistan, and we had a

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general practitioner called Doctor Ismail hafeji, and he was both in

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the medical world and in the religious world. In Ramadan again,

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when at night, we have night prayers, where we decide the Quran

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from memory. And people from small, parents from small sent

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kids from small it to memorize. It's 30 chapters, so they will

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memorize it. And over 30 nights in the month of Ramadan, they recite

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it, and people follow them. So this guy was the doctor in the

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day. You calling for a house phone in any part of the night, no issue

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to come and and Ramadan, he studied the congregation in the

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prayer, and one day he said he's not doing it. He said he needs to

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take a break. And nobody turned out. There was nobody else who

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could read it as quantum and he stepped up to the mosque, and they

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said, there's nobody. He said, Okay, I'll do it, no problem. And

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when I saw the balance of the religious part and the service

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part, always with a smile, I said, Okay, I want to be a doctor. I

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said, the second part about memorizing part, I don't think

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I'll be able to do that, but being the part of being the doctor, yes,

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that I want to do. He eventually moved to German. He now lives in

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Durban, and he's a professor of pediatrics, and after today, you

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know, when we meet, I speak, I remember those days that he was

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such a dedicated doctor, and when I saw that, that inspired me to

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say, I have no other profession in my mind. I want to be a doctor. I

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mean, your job is so selfless, it's so giving, it's so community

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based. What do you do in your spare time for you to pour back

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in? Because if there's an old that saying that you can't pour from an

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empty cup, and I assume that you get so much buoyancy and resonance

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from people and community, but what do you do for you and your

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spare time? Do you have spare time? Always

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say that's the right question.

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That's the right question. You know, yes, I work 24 sir, since

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covid 19, I've been working 20 hours a day from 50th of March

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after today, because there's always something else. But that's

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not an issue for me. I've always felt less. You know, I always

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worked more, and I'm a guy that loves action. I can't sit still,

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and my wife calls me an idiot. She says, You are not from this world,

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so when we're talking about human things, you can't be part of the

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conversation, because we are talking about human beings, and

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you are not human so so I said, What do you mean? She said, it's

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crazy. And when they say, go for holiday, I start getting stressed.

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I always get a joke. I find relaxation very stressful.

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She said, 10 years ago, she said she used to go to the book. I said

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to the bird, what you going to do there after six o'clock? So that

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day, there's nothing to do. I'll go crazy in the book.

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I want to relax. It

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took me 10 years to take it to the bug. I.

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And then I've got, I got a

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I've got, I've got a manager of mine who's now retired. He's not

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well, so one day he falls weak. He's just like me. He said, phew,

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I got a problem. I said, What's the problem? He said, My wife is

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coming. She wants to go to warmer for two days. What am I going to

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do in one box for two days? He said, I can't relax. What am I

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going to do in one box? I mean, you're going to sit there and hot

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water and do nothing. So no, I can't go to this place. So it's

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all inside of

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but to the last, to be honest, sometimes come from a three day

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one, once a person. I got sick one internship. I had to fill in a

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call time for some you did my time at some time there was no space,

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and I would do three calls in a row, 72 hours, work little Monday

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morning and go on Thursday afternoon. And when I get home, I

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quietly go to the video shop, get three action movies, hide them

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under my car seat, come home and hide them under the loud so far, I

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don't know if it's busy, I think about and then I watch, and I

00:31:03 --> 00:31:08

watch three action movies in a row. So my relaxation is actually

00:31:08 --> 00:31:12

action movies late at night. What's your favorite action movie?

00:31:14 --> 00:31:16

All of them, all the guys, Bruce Willis Stevens.

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I was about to say, please say Bruce Willis.

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My money was on British

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ah Sylvester, Stallone, Gerard, Butler,

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all those kind of actions stars. When I watched comedy, I thought a

00:31:33 --> 00:31:35

wife is too sad to watch a comedy. We're

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gonna find a romantic movie. And Sunday, I say, Oh, these things

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are so funny to kill a person.

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Well, Doctor, cinnamon, I certainly hope that there's an

00:31:49 --> 00:31:53

action movie in your very near future, because you are certainly

00:31:53 --> 00:31:56

deserving of it. Thank you for taking the time out of your busy

00:31:56 --> 00:32:01

schedule to share some of these amazing, heartwarming, inspiring

00:32:01 --> 00:32:05

stories with us, like the doctor was to you. You are certainly a

00:32:05 --> 00:32:09

role model to so many of us. I know Jane's nodding with me right

00:32:09 --> 00:32:13

now. Thank you for being such an inspirational South African. Yeah,

00:32:13 --> 00:32:16

we're very, very proud to to be part of you in some way, in the

00:32:16 --> 00:32:19

work that you're doing. So thank you very much. Thank you dear Paul

00:32:19 --> 00:32:22

and thank you, Jane and honest, thank you to East Coast Radio.

00:32:22 --> 00:32:24

We've done a lot of things together, and we're still doing

00:32:24 --> 00:32:27

things together. It's been great. You know, East Coast journals have

00:32:27 --> 00:32:29

been coming with us for a long time, and it's great. You know,

00:32:29 --> 00:32:32

being part of the station and having partnership with the

00:32:32 --> 00:32:34

station on so many occasions. And thank you for the special

00:32:34 --> 00:32:37

interview. Oh, lots of love team. Thank you so much for your time.

00:32:37 --> 00:32:41

May all your voyages be happy. One go well. Amen. Thank you very

00:32:41 --> 00:32:45

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