Imtiaz Sooliman – Gift of the Givers’ angel amongst men talks about money

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The host discusses the challenges faced by local and national governments in the region, including poor fodder availability, high water requirements, and a lack of energy. The Labor Relations Act helps people in need, including those who don't know the difference between Monday and Sunday. The success of the "medical industry" has been motivated by people to help others, and the importance of balance and healthy life is emphasized. People need to make their own decisions and not feel the need to make their own decisions.

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			gift of the Vega, gift of the
givers, our Make Money Monday
		
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			Special Edition guest this
evening. How nice of you to have
		
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			you on the show again. How are
you? MTS, fine, Bruce, thank you
		
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			very much. It's nice to have you
with us now. We had you on as a
		
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			shapeshifter a couple of years
ago, and you told us the story of
		
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			gift of the givers, but just bring
us up to speed with the work that
		
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			you've been doing in the last
while.
		
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			Well, it's been a very busy last
two to three years, especially the
		
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			last year locally. Well, right now
we're busy with drought
		
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			interventions in the Western Cape
balls, lot of balls in the area,
		
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			lot of water requirements on the
west coast of Cape Town. Further
		
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			requirements in Sutherland, no
water in the area. All the bowls
		
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			are dry. We're sending a team.
We're drilling 200 new bowls in
		
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			Sutherland, providing fodder for
the farmers, providing school
		
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			items for the kids at school,
blankets, food, parcels LED lights
		
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			in Sutherland. Then last week, we
got a call that muscle Bay in
		
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			lanesburg are in big trouble in
terms of fodder. We did our first
		
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			delivery of fodder on Friday,
Western Cape MEC for finance.
		
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			Doctor Ivan Mayer was with us when
we did that. On Saturday, we
		
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			delivered to Mosul Bay. Moss Bay
to Wednesday, we delivering again
		
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			to Mosul Bay Thursday in Aberdeen,
in free state, they also in
		
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			trouble. And on, we've now been
called by several quarters to get
		
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			involved in the protest in
hamanas. We've already sent teams
		
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			there. We've spoken to the people,
and by Wednesday, we should be
		
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			starting an intervention in
hamanas. So there's lots of things
		
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			happening in the country and
internationally. Of course, we're
		
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			involved in a big way in Syria, in
Yemen, in Somalia, in Malawi, in
		
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			Zimbabwe, lots of things
happening. How many people are
		
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			working under the banner of gift
to the givers? Now, locally, 120
		
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			people, and that's five offices.
Is that all? I mean, it's
		
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			you're taking on so many projects.
I'm understand, actually, that
		
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			it's so few. Yeah. Well, the you
know, sometimes we have a lot of
		
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			staff. You have reduced
efficiency. Sure, we are very good
		
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			project managers. We have teams
that are dedicated, because nobody
		
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			works here for the money. They
work for the heart and for the
		
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			spirit, and if dedicated,
committed people who don't know
		
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			the difference between Monday and
Sunday, between a weekly and a
		
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			public holiday, the only aim is to
help people in need in any part of
		
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			the country, in any part of the
continent, and in any part of the
		
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			world, if you're not paying them,
they're not employees. So you
		
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			don't they don't fall under the
Labor Relations Act, so they can
		
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			work seven days a week.
		
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			I don't have volunteers. The only
volunteers we have are the medical
		
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			and search and rescue teams that
come with us on international
		
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			missions. And you don't need that
every day. No, but these are
		
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			professionals, and that's the
point that you make here is that
		
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			this is a career. It is a
professional. These are people who
		
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			could go and work in a in a large
corporation, if they chose to do
		
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			so. They happen to choose to spend
their time
		
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			making improving other people's
lives, and are remunerated on that
		
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			basis. Yes, but a lot, lot of the
people that work for us are lower
		
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			level. You know, employees to be
given opportunity to people. They
		
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			are packers, vehicle drivers,
truck drivers, people, account,
		
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			goods, back, parcels, deliver
them. And a few people you know,
		
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			of slightly higher level in terms
of degrees and diplomas to deal
		
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			with government, did to deal with
projects and to set up projects.
		
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			And at the same time, those of
lower level are trained. They
		
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			given skills. They improve. They
go up the ladder, they get
		
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			opportunity. They get like, for
example, in nice now, last year,
		
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			two ladies were given the task of
running the entire operation, a 20
		
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			million operation for the fires in
nizana, two ladies, you know, from
		
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			the organization, who went up the
ladder, who learned the skills and
		
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			ran an entire project from the
ShopRite warehouse in nizana. Now,
		
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			you've been going for nearly a
quarter of a century. It's hard to
		
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			believe that you have and the
latest figures I've got is you've
		
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			done, you've delivered aid of
about 1.8 billion rand, 42
		
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			countries. I mean, are those
numbers accurate? Was that number
		
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			risen 2.3 billion 243 countries.
		
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			And the funding? I mean, that's
two point anybody who's ever tried
		
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			to raise funds at a cake sale for
a new roof for the church or
		
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			whatever the case might be, knows
how hard it is to raise that kind
		
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			of money in order to do good, no
matter, people are cashed up.
		
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			Times are tough. Where does that
2.3 billion rand come from? South
		
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			Africans? People always think
we've got international funders.
		
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			We don't have international
funders, but I need to qualify
		
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			that. In recent years, some money
has come from international people
		
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			who've seen our work on
international media, and maybe
		
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			through websites you know, or
online kind of following our work.
		
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			And you get maybe $10 from here,
five euros from there, 50 euros
		
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			from some.
		
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			Else you get get that kind of
money, but there's no active
		
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			soliciting for money, either
internationally or locally. 99.9%
		
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			of that money is from ordinary
South Africans. South Africans,
		
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			again, who see our work. The media
travels with us. They publicize
		
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			what we do. People are happy with
what we do, and you get accused,
		
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			people waiting to deposit to
support you for what you do, and
		
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			it comes both in cash and in kind.
You qualified as a medical doctor.
		
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			You had your own private practice
in Peters maritsburg, late 80s
		
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			into the early 90s, and you gave
that up, I think it was just after
		
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			the 1994 elections, and you
decided, no, it's time to actually
		
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			concentrate on gift of the givers.
And you started that, you had
		
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			started that, I think, in 1992
that became a big focus of your
		
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			life. At a time of huge optimism
in South Africa, you saw that even
		
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			amongst the optimism and the sense
that Madiba magic was was
		
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			prevalent, that there'd always be
need, not only here, but anywhere
		
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			in the world. Well, actually, it
wasn't something that I thought
		
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			about. It was a spiritual
instruction given to me. I never,
		
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			in my wildest dreams, thought I
was going to form an organization.
		
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			I never even had that idea to form
an organization. I was in Turkey.
		
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			I met a spiritual teacher, a Sufi
master. In 1991
		
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			I went to a Muslim holy place
where people of all religions, all
		
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			countries, all nationalities were
there. I saw them getting along
		
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			very harmoniously, even though the
thinking was different, the ideas
		
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			are different, the concepts are
different. But the one thing stood
		
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			out, there was love between
people. There was understanding
		
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			and rational behavior between all
of them. And I loved what I saw. I
		
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			came back in 92/6
		
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			August, 1992 it was a Thursday
night. The spiritual master looked
		
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			in the eye, and to cut it short,
just told me you will form an
		
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			organization. The name will be
gift of the givers. You will be
		
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			serving all people of all races,
of all colors, of any geographical
		
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			location, of any political
affiliation, and this is an
		
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			instruction for you for the rest
of your life. And then he told me,
		
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			whatever you do is done through
you and not by you. So there's no
		
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			place for ego. It's a spiritual
connection, and you are guided in
		
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			what you do. So what role does
money then play in your life?
		
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			Because this is the Make Money
Mondays Special Edition feature
		
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			where we talk to people, and
recently we've been said I made a
		
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			start with Kate Turkington, Auntie
Kate, also very spiritual person,
		
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			Professor Jonathan Jansen, Max
dupreer, and people, people who
		
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			have got good, good brains in
their heads. Um, to whom money is
		
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			useful and nice, but people don't.
They don't, don't obsess about it.
		
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			I get a sense that you don't
either, unless it's, of course,
		
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			the money that you need to do the
work. Yes, you know money is
		
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			important, you know, it's you've
got families. You've got children.
		
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			You have to give them an
opportunity. You don't want to be
		
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			standing for a handout. You don't
want to be among the unemployed.
		
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			You don't want to be dependent on
others. So, yes, you need a
		
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			certain amount of money, you know,
to to live, to have a home, to
		
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			have education, to have medical
aid, to take care of yourself, not
		
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			to be a burden on others, not to
be a burden on the state, but to
		
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			run after, you know, totally and
totally committed to quality money
		
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			all the time. We have a simple
philosophy, you know, a simple
		
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			teaching, what you don't use is
not yours. So you can have 1
		
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			billion, 2 billion and 5 billion,
but if you're only going to spend
		
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			10 million from there, only 10
million is yours, and you're going
		
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			to spend 100 million, but you're
not going to use that house, that
		
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			car, that yacht, that holiday
resort, somewhere else. It's not
		
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			yours. So what are you pursuing
that kind of, you know, life for a
		
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			materialistic life, chasing after
things, having stress, something
		
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			that you can't use? Yeah, it's
such a wonderful philosophy. What
		
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			you don't use is not yours. I
mean, is that the basis of it?
		
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			Yes, but you don't use and some
after you're gonna blow it away
		
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			for your hard work. I mean,
somebody like a Warren Buffett, I
		
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			mean his most simple quote on
giving money away was, you can
		
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			only wear one pair of pants at a
time,
		
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			like you can only try one car at a
time. Sleep in one bedroom at a
		
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			time. And that's the philosophy as
well. I mean, when you look at
		
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			people like that, people who've
made a lot of money, and Patrice
		
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			Motsepe, of course, a couple of
years ago, also committed a large
		
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			portion of his family's wealth to
doing good that's critical. People
		
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			have made money in business are
important to your cause as well.
		
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			Do you? Do you admire the sort of
financial success of the gates and
		
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			the buffets and the motsepes Yes,
I hope everybody makes a lot of
		
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			money, the more people make money,
and as long as they they recognize
		
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			that in their money there is a
place for someone else, somebody
		
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			who needs an opportunity, not a
handout, but an opportunity. So if
		
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			everybody makes money and not
depend on others and use a
		
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			percentage or a portion of that
money to help uplift other people,
		
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			it's very good, and I pray as many
people as possible, you know, have
		
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			the means where they're not
dependent on others and but
		
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			recognize that there is someone
who needs that opportunity to
		
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			uplift someone else. You know, I
wish those kind of people all the
		
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			best and all the success. All
South Africans, by nature,
		
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			generous, absolutely, one of the
most generous nations on earth.
		
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			You know, from my own experience,
even.
		
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			In times of difficulty, they take
out money when the economy is
		
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			down, when the petrol price is up,
when it's food inflation, when
		
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			school fees are gone up, when
medically rates are high, people
		
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			still dig into their pockets. They
want to help each other. The night
		
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			on a fire is a classical example
where people just pour their money
		
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			out to help people you know, and
in the best part is people they
		
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			don't know. But the drought in
Cape Town, when we made a call for
		
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			water, the water poured out from
all over Johannesburg, Cape Town,
		
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			Durban, all over the country, even
from the small towns and even for
		
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			international projects. And one
stands out for me. I keep
		
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			mentioning this over and over
again, in 2011
		
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			when we responded to the famine in
Somalia, yeah, when so many
		
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			children were dying every day,
there was a small school in orange
		
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			farm. The kids in that school
don't have breakfast, they don't
		
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			have a lunch box, they don't have
school shoes, they don't have a
		
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			jersey for winter. They walk to
school. They got to that school,
		
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			they said, Somalia is in
difficulty. The kids in that
		
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			school raised 40,000 men,
		
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			no, but that's that's got to be
motivating. I mean, every day that
		
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			you see that kind of selfless
behavior has to be absolutely
		
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			motivating. Make money. Mondays
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			wealth, your wealth, our craft.
Let's talk about whether or not
		
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			the founder and the chairman of
South Africa's most effective
		
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			charity has got a pension? Do you
have a pension plan? Nope, no, no
		
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			pension plan currently, because I
don't have much earnings at the
		
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			moment. No, but, but that's the,
that's the the what is so
		
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			interesting, do you anticipate,
spiritually, that it'll all just
		
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			be okay, that, as you've taken
care of people one day, should you
		
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			need to be taken care of that
it'll happen? Yes, that's, you
		
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			know, that's a given. That's a
spiritual teaching. Of course, you
		
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			gotta tie your camel too. But the
spiritual teacher told me, like,
		
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			I'm like a spiritual teacher to
you, I'm also like a father to
		
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			you. And in everything that I tell
you, it will happen, you will be
		
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			taken care of, you will be looked
after, and everything will be
		
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			worked out. And up till now, you
know Bruce, I don't know. I'm not
		
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			a rich man, but I'm a satisfied
man, and I'm, I'm a contented man,
		
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			and everything that and I needed
so far I have, and that's an
		
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			extraordinary faith, isn't it?
Yes, you know, this can think,
		
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			cannot be drawn by anything else
but faith. Yeah, my father told
		
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			me, You're crazy. You said you
got, you know, we spent all this
		
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			money on your education, and
you're doing what? Yes, that he
		
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			said, What are you doing? You
know, as you said, You are a
		
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			doctor, and you got three
practices, and you doing so well.
		
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			Do you know what you are doing?
I'm afraid for what's going to
		
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			happen. And several years that he
passed on now, you know, two years
		
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			ago, and several years ago, he
told me, You know what? I'm very
		
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			proud of you. I wish I had the
faith that you have. I wish, you
		
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			know, I had the belief that you
have carry on, my son, it's the
		
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			best thing you could have ever
done. Isn't that nice? I mean that
		
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			acknowledgement and that
appreciation for for the work,
		
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			yes, you know, and when he saw the
type of people getting assistance,
		
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			he met McGowan's father, Malcolm
McGowan, you know, in in Bramley,
		
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			before my father passed on. And he
saw that, you know, that this
		
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			hardship in McGowan's eyes and in
his family, and he saw the
		
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			hardships in so many other
people's eyes, and he said, You
		
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			know what? Just carry on. You're
helping so many people. It's a
		
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			blessing. God Almighty, you say
his words, God Almighty will take
		
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			care of you. Again, we were
teaching that when parents pray
		
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			for their children, you know those
prayers are answered.
		
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			You grew up in potchefs, through
him in northwest. You did go to
		
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			school in Durban and eventually to
the University of Natal, medical
		
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			school, medical school, as was
known in those days. When, when
		
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			you the connections, the the
friends that you made in those
		
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			days, have they been supportive?
Do they do they do they work with
		
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			you? Do they help?
		
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			Well, you know, none of those
friends are in involved with me
		
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			anymore, but when I meet them,
sometimes I know, maybe in a plane
		
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			or in some city or some function,
I met some friends after 20 years,
		
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			25 years, and they say, You know
what? We remember you. We grew up
		
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			with you. We support you. We pass
the word around, and we tell
		
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			everybody that we knew you. So,
you know, it's a warm support.
		
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			It's there. Some of them I see
after years into the bank
		
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			statements, they financially
support our projects. You don't,
		
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			we don't meet each other. I've met
some of the friends I go to Pajaro
		
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			quite often. It's my hometown. My
family is still there, but
		
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			everybody has moved on.
Unfortunately, in small town, all
		
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			the kids leave, and they move in
bigger cities, and most of them in
		
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			Johannesburg. So you don't see
them when you go there and when
		
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			you meet those ones. And from the
medical school, some of the
		
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			doctors you've come across, you
know, again, fully supportive. You
		
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			see them in medical functions. But
in essence, we've built a new team
		
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			people from across the country,
across race, across religion,
		
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			because when the school that we
went to that time were one race
		
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			schools, you know, so you didn't
have friends from other colors.
		
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			You didn't have them in medical
school. So it's a new friendship
		
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			that is developed after New South
Africa and people from different
		
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			fields joining you. Do you have
any extravagances whatsoever? Do
		
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			you ever allow yourself an
extravagance of any kind? No, no.
		
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			I'm a very simple person. I.
		
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			Don't have any I don't have any
materialistic thoughts or desires.
		
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			I had a good practice. I changed
cars, you know, six times in five
		
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			years. You know, I traveled
overseas. Nothing of that kind of
		
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			things interests me anymore. I
have no desire for clothes, no
		
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			desires for holidays, no desire
for outings, because all I see is
		
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			suffering of people. And when you
see suffering of people, your own
		
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			life takes a backseat. But at the
same time, whilst having that, you
		
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			have a dichotomy. You don't want
to neglect your family. You don't
		
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			want them to lose out on what
you've seen in terms of travel
		
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			early in life. So you try to have
a balance, take them out. But of
		
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			course, it's not as much as I
should read when I was a doctor. I
		
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			can't take it into Sony place like
I could do when I was a doctor.
		
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			But their understanding. They've
they've met the spiritual teacher.
		
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			They appreciate my work, and all
of them want to get involved with
		
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			me in what I do. But are you, I
mean, are you able to send them to
		
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			university? Have you been able to
to give them the same
		
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			opportunities as your parents
afforded you? You haven't sort of
		
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			become obsessive about No, my
children will will suffer along
		
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			with me, or my children will go
without, no, no, no. You know, in
		
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			fact, they were better off than
me, all my my, you know, because
		
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			of the earlier years, all of them
to go to varsity with no student
		
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			loans to pay. I had student loans,
I had bank loans, I had bursaries,
		
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			all to be repaid back. I didn't
have my father bought me a car.
		
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			You know, when, only when I
qualified. They got cars much
		
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			earlier. They had flats and where
they were studying all that kind
		
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			of stuff. It's an important
perspective, isn't it? I mean,
		
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			this is your choice. It's not
their choice. If they choose to
		
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			follow, if they choose to support,
that is, you know that that'll be
		
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			their journey, but it's an
important distinction to draw, I
		
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			guess. Yes, you know, each one
must have its or his own decision
		
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			or her decision tomorrow, they
mustn't say. I forced them to do
		
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			something even in the career
choices. I said, choose what you
		
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			want. And my first daughter
changed course three times. I
		
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			said, The Father is paying it's
fine, so she's but I said, at the
		
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			end of the life and father is not
here, you must be happy with what
		
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			you chose. Yeah. And eventually
she became a dietitian. My son
		
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			became a computer engineer worked
for multi choice, and suddenly,
		
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			last year, gave up a top paying
job, resigned and joined me. Did
		
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			you say? What are you thinking? I
spent all this money on your
		
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			education? I said, you realize
what kind of life this is? I said,
		
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			I've messed up my family life. I
told my wife, please explain to
		
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			him. Did you know this? He must be
very careful before he comes in.
		
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			I've ruined my life, you know, in
terms of in inverted commas, no
		
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			family time, big sacrifices to
build what it is now, 26 years
		
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			later, I said, if he wants to come
in, he can come in, but he does
		
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			not go the same road that I went.
But here is something interesting.
		
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			I mean, you married, I'm assuming
fairly young. Your wife signed up
		
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			for a different life. She married
the doctor with three practices,
		
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			who got, you know, five cars in
six years. That was a good life.
		
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			How did you bring her along on the
journey? Well, when it started,
		
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			the doctor didn't have three cars.
The doctor was still studying and
		
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			had no means that time to, you
know, dependent on them. So she's
		
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			got a full full circle from
nothing to lots, back to not very
		
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			much when I, you know, when I lost
my practice? Well, I basically
		
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			gave it up. My wife stood two
o'clock in the morning in a flea
		
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			market selling scouts. There's a
huge sacrifice she made because
		
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			and then she ran a preschool
because we had no income when I
		
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			closed she, in fact, when I was in
Bosnia, she said, I have to close
		
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			these practices. These patients
are coming in, sitting for three
		
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			weeks, some is going to die
waiting for you. I said, close
		
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			them and and, you know, and she's
she's sacrificed all the way. She
		
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			was at me when she met the
teacher. She's a disciple of
		
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			spiritual order. She's a head,
she's the head of the counseling
		
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			division in gift of the givers.
She's also a founder member, and
		
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			she has no regrets for what we've
		
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			done. Does what scares you about
money. Does anything scare you
		
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			about money? Do you have faith
it'll greed? Yeah, tell me about
		
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			greed, greed and extravagance and
power. You know, I have no issue.
		
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			Money is not a problem. Yeah, it's
the people's attitude to money
		
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			that's the problem. Yeah, no,
people who will do anything
		
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			possible to make money. And as I
said, you can only spend, you
		
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			know, what you what you spend, is
yours. What you don't use is not
		
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			yours. And the kind of things
people will go to to make that
		
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			kind of money, losing jobs, state
capture, greed in corporate
		
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			companies, you know, the Stein of
issue, so on, KPMG, so many
		
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			different types of things. How
many jobs get affected? How many
		
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			lives get affected? How many
because of personal greed and want
		
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			and want and want, and yet, that
money could be put to more active
		
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			use improving the lives of so many
millions of people, and you would
		
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			be great person who's greedy would
still have plenty for himself, but
		
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			in the process, would have brought
so many people online and help
		
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			them. I'm just Solomon. It's
always such a pleasure to have
		
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			you. Thank you so much for again,
making time, for joining us on the
		
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			Money show Make Money Mondays for
other people, founder and chairman
		
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			of gift of the givers.