Imtiaz Sooliman – Episode 16 on Gift of The Givers & The Power of Humanity

Imtiaz Sooliman
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The speakers discuss the importance of understanding the God of all-america and embracing the "iva leadership style" in leadership. They emphasize the need for people to increase their donation to charity, especially during difficult times like droughts and floods. The speakers also emphasize the importance of avoiding "has been there" in the election process and avoiding advertisements and not advertising on social media. They stress the need for strong management and leadership, creating jobs, and fixing people's health systems and addressing COVID-19. The speakers emphasize the importance of creating jobs and being grateful for one's progress, creating a "bringing light on people's life," and addressing COVID-19.
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It's 1986

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I still haven't seen Cape Town. When am I going to get to Turkey?

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He said something very important, important to understand the power

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of faith and the power of spirituality. So Miller says, what

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God worlds happens? There's a time and a place, and five years later

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it happened, my wife and I landed up in Turkey. It is a long story

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why we got there and what we went for, but five years later, we got

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into Turkey in August 91

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I saw the spiritual teacher, not the one that Miller man, were you

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going there to see the spiritual teacher? I was actually on my way

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to Bangladesh to deliver aid to the cyclone victims, so you had

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already started. Then that was pre gift of the givers. I was involved

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in in social work. In pre gift of the givers. I was involved with

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youth. I did a mission to Mozambique during the there was a

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drought there when, when Salam invaded Kuwait, funding in

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Mozambique collapsed, so the Mozambique and government and

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people are still required assistance. And we went and we

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drilled 30 boreholes. We put in malaria medication. We held the

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hospital. In 91 I got involved in the Gulf War, and in 91 at some

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point, we got involved in taking aid. And it is different. In

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Bangladesh Relief Fund, Iraq really fund, Mozambique Relief

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Fund, I was in an organization then, and in the process, I landed

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up in Turkey because of that vision. And the teacher I met was

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the new one. It was the one that Miller met had passed on in 1985

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but as part of a succession in spiritual law, in Sufi law, the

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next teacher takes on, and it carries on his own chain of now

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we're on the 22nd teacher right now from these three so, so I went

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there, what Miller saw in New York, I saw in Istanbul. You know,

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people from all religion, all nationalities, all in Muslim holy

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place. But what is amazing that this is post Gulf War. Gulf War

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had polarized the world into different religions and different

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civilizations, and we had conflict with each other. But here they

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were, Christians, Jews, Hindus, Muslims, people who said they

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don't believe. People said they're not from and they don't have

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they're not certain. They don't have any faith. Americans,

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Russians, people from Europe, you know, Australia, New Zealand,

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South America, Africa, Asia. The amazing thing was, there was

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absolute respect for each other, no conflict, no friction. And

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that's the kind of thing you want to see happen in the whole world.

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Yeah, the spiritual teacher sees me, sees that, you know, I'm

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stunned watching all this that's going on. How's this possible? And

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he tells me, my son, mankind is one single nation. The God of all

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mankind is one. We just call him by different names, any Imam,

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Priest, Sheik, Sufi, Pandi, to anyone else who promotes violence,

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extremism, terrorism, Discord, conflict, confrontation and

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disorder, is not a man of God. Don't follow him. The real person

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of God is He who promotes love, kindness, compassion and mercy. I

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fell in love with that concept, yeah,

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again. Went back to my wife and I went back to South Africa. A year

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later, my heart well in the year, my heart was waiting for that

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place, because I felt a huge spiritual upliftment. That's 1992

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92 I can't explain the spiritual upliftment. It's something you

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gotta feel to understand it. Anyway, six, August, 1992

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10:10pm, on a Thursday night, the spiritual teacher finishes a zikr.

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He picks up his head, makes eye contact me. I'm on the other side

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of the room, and he looks heavenward at the same time in

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FLUENT Turkish, and I don't speak a word of Turkish, but that night,

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I understood every single word that he said in Turkish. He said,

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My son, I'm not asking you, I'm instructing you to form an

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organization. The name in Arabic will be wakul waqifin, translated

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gift of the givers. You will serve all people of all races, all

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religions, all colors, all classes, all cultures, of any

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geographical location and of any political affiliation, but you

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will serve them unconditionally. You will expect nothing in return,

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not even a thank you. In fact, in what you're going to be doing for

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the rest of your life, expect to get a kick up your back. If you

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don't get a kick up your back, regard that as a bonus, serve

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people with love, kindness, compassion and mercy, and remember

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the dignity of men is foremost, clothe the naked, feed the hungry,

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provide water to the thirsty, and in everything that you do, be the

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best at what you do in those exact words, Yes, wow. It's amazing that

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you can remember that not because of ego, because ego is

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destructive,

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be the best, because you're dealing with human life, human

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emotion, human suffering and human dignity. He said, My son, remember

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that whatever you do is.

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Done through you, and not by you. 30 years I'm a living witness. All

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the things people think I do is not humanly possible.

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I asked him, How come when you speak Turkish, I understand and

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other people speak Turkish, I don't understand

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you, said, My son, when the hearts connect and the souls connect, the

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words become understandable.

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Asked him, What exactly am I supposed to do? And you're asking

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in English, yeah, in English, what am I supposed to do?

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And he said, My son, you will know for 30 years, I do know what to

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do, what not to do, what to touch, what not to touch, how to do it,

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how not to do it. That's amazing. The one thing I wanted to ask you,

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based on the spirituality and the mentality of the Muslim community,

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I've often seen, firstly, it's it is often said that the Muslim

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people are the most successful globally. I've heard that quite a

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number of times. I've often seen,

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you know how Muslim people, Muslim communities, how they are so good

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at building businesses and building things. So I wanted to to

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ask of you what your

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thoughts are on where that comes from, where that ability of the

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Muslim community comes from to build things and to you know, it's

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a combination of factors. One is, it's not a Muslim thing only. It's

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a cultural thing or the background that you come from. Remember,

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Muslims come from different nationalities, different cultures,

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different race groups, and a lot of it is inborn culture that goes

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from the parents and the grandparents dollars. They're good

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in business in different categories of Muslims, in in

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different from India, from the Arab world, from other parts of

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the world. They just got it in their blood. Businesses in the

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blood. But in addition to that, from a from a not a spiritual

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point of view. Now, from a religious point of view, we are

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told that when you give you always get back more than what you give

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second. We are told that God is not in need of your prayer. If you

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don't care, care for fellow being that of your prayer will be thrown

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flat, thrown into your face. I'm not interested, because God will

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say, I don't really need your prayer. The purpose of prayer is

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to prepare the mind, the intellect, the soul, the spirit,

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the body, for service, because it's a way of showing public

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because God himself is not coming here.

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When you respond to God's people, and I've seen it all over in the

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Eastern Cape and all over, they pick up their hands. They said,

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God, you don't let me down. You send somebody to bring the food

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parcel, to help with the house, to help out the storm, to help with

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the floods and the drought. You send somebody. It increases faith

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of people in God when somebody responds to them. And that's why

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it is so important that it's ingrained in you. In the Muslim

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family from from a small our kids are taught from a small age, take

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your pocket money and give it. Hm, charity is an essential aspect of

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what we do. It's very critical. And you'll find that in the month

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of Ramadan, when we fast, we emphasize that charity must

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increase tenfold, and because when you're fasting, you understand the

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hunger of people. When it's winter, you understand the cold of

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people. So people will start doing blankets when there's a drought

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and people have problem with water, they understand the

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importance of water. So everything in life is a lesson, a real life

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lesson, and that's why it is as a strict, obligatory duty on us to

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take our charity. We have no choice about that, and we have to

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give it, but it's say God says it's more important if you do it

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with free will, not to support your gun to your head. I'm

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assuming that, essentially, when you started that a lot of the

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donations came in from the Muslim community. Yes, remember in South

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Africa, pre 94 you know, again, being Indian and not being a white

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and be a Muslim. There was always prejudice. Oh, you guys are

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terrorists. You guys, even in South Africa, I thought that it

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was driven a lot by the media and by the communities were not Muslim

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and not Indian. It was mobile from the white communities. You know,

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not everybody. I mean, everybody's not like that. There was there was

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people. And it was driven in the media all the time, because they

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were not attacking us, but they were talking about Muslims in

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general over the world. You know, you guys are like this, and you

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terrorists and fundamentalists and people couldn't understand that,

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you know? And so we all put on the same brush. So the initial money

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came from the Muslim community and from my own family, you know, we

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put our own money, and I put my own money too. That you had made

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from practice was still growing. It wasn't big that time. It was

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still growing. Yeah, growing. So from the whatever I could put, I

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put, and the family people put, and everybody put, and then Muslim

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community started supporting it. At some point, the media that

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started traveling with us, and they realized that this is not a

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religious thing, it's a humanitarian thing. But.

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Real turnaround came in 2017

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many, many years later, that's quite decent, yeah, when we

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responded to the fire in naisna, hm, and then they understood our

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full capability, because people from the corporate world and

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everybody, and the tourists and everybody come there, how we

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rebuilt houses, how we send in medical teams, how we supported

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the firefighters, how we rolled out food parcels, blankets,

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hygiene packs supported the bees, the React. What did be the

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rehabilitation for the bees? 22 million bees were destroyed in

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that fire. We have the sheep, the cattle, the pigs, the horses, the

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cow. We had the pets, the cat and the dog. And then we build

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support, the firefighters, and roll out support, every type of

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support. It was at that point that most of the population and

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corporate South Africa understood that we were really an

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organization based on serving fellow human being, race,

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religion, color, class doesn't matter to us. A few months later,

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we drilled boreholes in bofod West they were running dry. And at the

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same point, we started supplying Sutherland. What fodder from in

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the last six years. What fodder? What boreholes? What food parcels

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for the farm workers and even for the farmers, and then now making

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pallets, fortified nutritional pallets to feed the sheep. Wow,

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we've spent close to 400 million in trying to save the farmers and

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the laborers and agriculture and the economy. Wow. There's been a

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major shift in thinking in the country, hm, corporate, South

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Africa and all groups, white, black, Indian, religious, Hindu,

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Muslim, everybody, have seen us as people that make a difference in

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it. Are following the law exactly the instruction of a Sufi teacher,

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unconditional love heart, without expecting anything in return.

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Don't worry about race, color. Culture came 2018 we helped with

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Day Zero in Cape Town. 2019

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Makanda was in big trouble with the water. We got in there in 2019

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and we still there four years later, hm, and then we expanded

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into Eastern Cape. Then came covid. And in between all the

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fires and the floods and the storms, 2000 and then of 2019 the

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floods in 2020

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covid We supported 210 hospitals nationwide, wow, but oxygen

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machines, infrastructure, PPEs to covid testing teams, you know,

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food parcels to the nation with lockdown, 1000s, hundreds of 1000s

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of food parcels, supporting hundreds of soup kitchens, helping

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people in every way. And then came 2021 and the civil unrest in

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Durban, when in 48 hours, we were in the areas, helping people,

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calming them down, providing food because everything was burnt,

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there was a way to buy, yeah, stuff. And then 2022 came the big

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floods. Again, we got involved in that. And what now, there were

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challenges in the economy. We involved everywhere, storms,

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floods, fire. We everywhere. How do you do it? Because, I mean, I

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know you've been asked this question so many times you You

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gift of the givers is always one of the first responders in all of

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these

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disastrous cases. So how? How? What is it about how you run the

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organization that makes you guys so good at what you do, and how

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can that be replicated by other organizations and non profits and

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people out there, so that the good that you guys are doing is, you

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know, multiplied. Remember, I told you the organization's got a very

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strong spiritual basis. So it's spiritual, it's spiritual, it's

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driven by a spiritual gift. You know that the teacher said, you

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know, this is your job, your instruction to do that. He said,

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People will look for you. You pay for your money, and people may be

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invested in your company and the people that we serve both ways. So

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we do a proper third job, but we can't do five half jobs. It's not

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going to work because we're not involved in one thing at a time.

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We get hit by a disaster in Turkey and Syria. Then we have floods in

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Western Cape. We're not even finished with that. And there's

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floods in Northern Cape, and then you got cholera outbreak in a

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man's crowd. And then they tell us, in fear the fort. And then

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there's equal like problems in Makanda, and all the things are

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shut and the waters is a problem in Makana itself, and fought

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Beaufort and Adelaide. And then you got water crisis in the

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Northern Cape. And then the sheep are dying. It was no food. And

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then there's a fire in bogoletto or somewhere in nyanga or

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kailitha. And then you get a storm at tornado in Nanda in Dublin, all

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at the same time. And then you did catch up surgery in the hospital,

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and something needs help there, and the kids need station near the

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school. And then it's winter, so they got no jersey and no jacket

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and no blanket, you know, and somebody's thirsty somewhere else.

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So we gotta do all these things, but we gotta do it properly.

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There's no second chance. So our teams to ask you a question, it

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didn't happen overnight. It's 30 years. Yeah, we've evolved. We got

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a social media team, we've got a corporate team. We've got a

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financial team, corporate team that deals with corporates. Okay

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they deal with because they call them and then we advise them, your

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project is not good. You're wasting your money and your time.

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You shouldn't be doing this. And other advantage of that, 10 people

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will say, where to put food parcels in? Kalisha, we said

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another nine guys want to do it already. What's the point? Mm.

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In Google, nyanga, you know, Sani, waiting at other parts of UK. PD,

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all other areas are looking for stuff. Why don't you go there?

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Mother, well, and do something else. They say, Okay, what do you

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advise? And then the team will say, this is a chart. This one is

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given for that one. You should give that one, that one's give

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that one on the other side, so that way we don't duplicate, yeah,

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more people benefit. They get the corporate maximum value for what

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they're spending, and the people benefit in different areas. So

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that's our advantage. That's why, when you have one team, that one

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team knows exactly what everybody else said, spread it out to 10

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different guys in organization, nobody's going to know what the

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other guy knows. So we have organized teams everything to do

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with donations comes to the corporate team. Okay? They need to

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filter that out. We have what is called the Community Liaison

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Officer, the Clos. They are the eyes and ears. They're on the

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ground with the people. And they say in this area, this school

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needs that. They need a garden, they need a toilet. They need

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school needs infrastructure. Yeah, they need a general special

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education needs there. They need water so they know what's on the

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ground. So when the corporates come, it works both ways. They

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want something, and we know what they need. So we felt upwards, and

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the message comes down and said, This is what's required. What can

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we do? So the teams and then we have regular meetings, virtual and

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in person. How did you very often? You know, in the year, quite a few

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times. No, no, no. We don't need to do it once a week, you know,

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because it's four times a year or so, okay. And if necessary, we can

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just slot in, because I'm the link. I go to all areas myself. So

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whilst we have the Clos on the ground, and if the corporate team,

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I'm the guy that's on site. I design projects, I implement them,

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and the teams follow that. We got a medical team, a search and

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rescue team, canine teams, the equipment team, the truck drivers,

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the bucket drivers, the Packers. Everybody knows their own and we

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bring everybody together. But those are not all full time. Full

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Time. No volunteers. The only volunteers we have are the guys

00:27:04 --> 00:27:07

that respond to disasters. I don't need them every day. So how big is

00:27:07 --> 00:27:11

your team? 109 people locally. 109 local just in South Africa. Yes.

00:27:11 --> 00:27:15

Okay. 500 overseas, okay, but, but that number is a bit less little

00:27:15 --> 00:27:19

misleading, because of the 503 20 belong to a hospital that we build

00:27:19 --> 00:27:23

in Syria. It's all our stuff. We've got stuff in Yemen, in

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Malawi, in Zimbabwe, in Somalia, in Palestine, in Syria, and in

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parts of Turkey. I was, you know, something you said that just got

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me thinking about your style of leadership, because you said

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you're on the ground and you're always visiting, and you're the

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link between all of this. Number one, that must be very taxing,

00:27:44 --> 00:27:47

that must be very tiring, but number two, just in terms of the

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leadership style, the opposite of that would be someone leading from

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an office and just looking at data and information. So I'm very

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intrigued by that, and maybe Can you expand a bit on that and where

00:28:02 --> 00:28:05

that comes from? You being on the ground, and you always,

00:28:06 --> 00:28:11

I started on the ground. Gift of givers was me, one person, and my

00:28:11 --> 00:28:14

wife, and then eventually one person came, one staff when we

00:28:14 --> 00:28:17

opened an office. So I've always been on the ground. Nobody in my

00:28:17 --> 00:28:21

organization can laugh me, because I've done everything from packing

00:28:21 --> 00:28:25

a truck to carry a maze mill on my shoulder, from sending effects,

00:28:26 --> 00:28:29

yeah, so you can't bluff me in any part of the organization. Your

00:28:29 --> 00:28:32

things. You can tell me nonsense. I did a fly. I can do it without

00:28:32 --> 00:28:35

you, because I've done it myself. I've been to every disaster

00:28:35 --> 00:28:37

myself. I've been to every fireplace locally,

00:28:37 --> 00:28:41

internationally, myself. I look at projects. I just look at the

00:28:41 --> 00:28:44

ground. I design projects. You can't bluff me in any aspect.

00:28:44 --> 00:28:47

Whether you bring a drilling team, where you bring a geologist, you

00:28:47 --> 00:28:50

bring us. I learn all those things. I'm not practical. I learn

00:28:50 --> 00:28:54

from them. I'm not a genius. I learn from other people. I'm very

00:28:54 --> 00:28:56

willing to learn from everybody, whether it's an engineer, where

00:28:56 --> 00:28:59

it's a builder, we got our own building teams. We got our own

00:28:59 --> 00:29:03

drilling teams. When I say I want we contacted out, but it's so busy

00:29:03 --> 00:29:06

with us, they're gonna time to work for anybody else. Yeah. So

00:29:06 --> 00:29:09

it's about that, and to me, I always tell the government, you

00:29:09 --> 00:29:12

guys are sitting in office. Do you know what that's going on on the

00:29:12 --> 00:29:14

outside, you got all these advisors who tell you the things

00:29:14 --> 00:29:17

you want to listen. But did you go check yourself? They'll tell you

00:29:17 --> 00:29:19

all the right things. You tell everything's going well, the guys

00:29:19 --> 00:29:21

are senior people. Yeah, they because they could protect their

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so, no, everything's going well, don't worry about well, don't

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worry. The meantime, it's a * mess, you know, and nobody knows

00:29:25 --> 00:29:31

what's going on. I also, I like to go in the field, because besides

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the experience, you get

00:29:33 --> 00:29:37

the spiritual upliftment when you see the look in the lady's eyes,

00:29:38 --> 00:29:40

or the child getting some kind of food parcel, that's priceless. You

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can't get that in an office. Is that something that feeds you,

00:29:43 --> 00:29:47

that feeds you all the time? No, and that's why I can't. I'm never

00:29:47 --> 00:29:51

at home. I live in planes and on the road, and I don't my staff

00:29:51 --> 00:29:53

don't even see me. I'm traveling. I did 173

00:29:54 --> 00:29:58

engagements last year, rather to one, just to one person. Don't

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write it to 100 and miss.

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It up. Yeah, start off small. When we go to an earthquake, I tell my

00:30:03 --> 00:30:06

teams from the beginning, we're not taking the entire city. We

00:30:06 --> 00:30:08

already take one street. What happens on the left and the right

00:30:08 --> 00:30:11

really is not my problem, because we can't save everybody. I'm a

00:30:12 --> 00:30:16

very cold guy. My teams call me assassin. I go into a street and

00:30:16 --> 00:30:20

they say, straight in the street. Watch a finish this job in the

00:30:20 --> 00:30:24

street, then we have left and left as we helping nobody. That's an

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important principle. Yeah, you have to be realistic, measured

00:30:28 --> 00:30:33

outcomes, proper goals, but give your full attention, laugh a job,

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and when you do it properly and consistent.

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How have things changed for us? Black people from the Eastern Cape

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are working in big corporate companies. And suddenly we got a

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outbreak drop of calls from black people in Indian companies and

00:30:49 --> 00:30:53

corporate companies. What happened? Did you help that you

00:30:53 --> 00:30:56

went to, you went to petty, you know, my old migraine economy. You

00:30:56 --> 00:30:59

gave a food pass. Oh, wow, yeah, you know, I saw the picture in the

00:30:59 --> 00:31:03

social media. That's my auntie that you have. They're battling

00:31:03 --> 00:31:08

there. Wow. Thank you very much. And suddenly everybody opens

00:31:08 --> 00:31:11

towards, wow and, and it's a consistent thing that's happening

00:31:11 --> 00:31:13

all the time. So two from 2017

00:31:14 --> 00:31:18

it just been growing. Is that why you're so adamant on, you know,

00:31:18 --> 00:31:22

posting stuff and using social media to yes message one is

00:31:22 --> 00:31:27

transparency. If I don't put any pictures, I don't say anything to

00:31:27 --> 00:31:29

don't say, like, what happened to my money? What do I tell the

00:31:29 --> 00:31:32

company people? What do I tell other investors? What happened to

00:31:32 --> 00:31:36

the money? We don't want you to ask. We send you the pictures so

00:31:36 --> 00:31:39

you know what we did at the same time. It gives you a higher the

00:31:39 --> 00:31:42

type of projects the country needs. It can direct government to

00:31:42 --> 00:31:47

where they should be acting. It shows the difficulty of people. It

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

shows what * people need. There's a lot of messaging in

00:31:49 --> 00:31:50

there.

00:31:51 --> 00:31:56

Just a difficult question to ask, would be, you know, you said at

00:31:56 --> 00:32:02

the beginning, this is hugely spiritual. So on, on that point

00:32:02 --> 00:32:06

of, you know, publicizing all of these things. What about the the

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

spirituality of that? In terms of,

00:32:10 --> 00:32:13

you know, someone would say, but you you're putting people's

00:32:13 --> 00:32:15

poverty on display something like that.

00:32:16 --> 00:32:20

Have you ever, we always ask the people first, okay, let's take a

00:32:20 --> 00:32:21

very classical example,

00:32:22 --> 00:32:26

Africana, farmers will never put their hand out for anything. Yeah.

00:32:27 --> 00:32:30

And after a few years of difficulty, they came to us, and

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they said, you know, when you bring the food parcel for the farm

00:32:34 --> 00:32:37

worker, do you mind giving us a food parcel too?

00:32:38 --> 00:32:41

So they said, Look, we are really in trouble. We are battling. We

00:32:41 --> 00:32:45

can't feed our kids during covid, covid and trout in another game.

00:32:45 --> 00:32:48

We can't feed our kids anymore. We've taken them out of private

00:32:48 --> 00:32:51

school. We're doing homeschooling. We can't put fuel in the bucket to

00:32:51 --> 00:32:54

go fetch the Father for the sheep. Also, we are down in our credit

00:32:54 --> 00:32:58

card is mixed. The Co Op is mixed, the overdraft is mixed. We can't

00:32:58 --> 00:33:03

do anything. We just can't we need help. And then they tell us, put

00:33:03 --> 00:33:06

our picture on social media. We want people to understand it's not

00:33:06 --> 00:33:10

a shame, it's not a problem to be in difficulty, but it's not

00:33:10 --> 00:33:13

created by us, because other people may not ask, and some

00:33:13 --> 00:33:17

people shot themselves. So we want to prevent that kind of crisis.

00:33:18 --> 00:33:21

The people say, take the pictures. Please come we don't mind you. Put

00:33:21 --> 00:33:24

the pictures, because this is reality of our situation. If

00:33:24 --> 00:33:28

people don't know who's going to help us, yeah. So even when you go

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

to disasters, people say, please put the pictures. We want people

00:33:30 --> 00:33:34

know what our status is. Otherwise nobody's going to come here to

00:33:34 --> 00:33:38

help us. From a spiritual point of view, we have two teachings. Do

00:33:38 --> 00:33:42

charity, publicly and privately. We think there's a contradiction

00:33:42 --> 00:33:48

in terms. No, as a community, you do charity publicly, because in

00:33:48 --> 00:33:51

that way, you say this community or this company or this

00:33:51 --> 00:33:54

organization took stuff and gave it here, you're encouraging,

00:33:55 --> 00:33:58

you're motivating, you're driving other people to do the same thing.

00:33:58 --> 00:34:02

But me, as India tournament, the world doesn't have to know what I

00:34:02 --> 00:34:05

did with my private charity, whose house I gave it to, where I went,

00:34:05 --> 00:34:08

is nobody's business. That's my personal business. Is not to get

00:34:08 --> 00:34:11

but as gift of the givers, yes, I'm the face of gift of the

00:34:11 --> 00:34:14

givers, but as gift of the givers, we took your money and we put it

00:34:14 --> 00:34:14

there.

00:34:15 --> 00:34:18

Accountability, yes, fully transparency. Tomorrow. You can't

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

say the money disappeared.

00:34:20 --> 00:34:24

And of course, remember, when you're serving people, you want

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

more support to help more people, because when you go there, you

00:34:26 --> 00:34:29

can't help everybody. There's 50 people in wheelchairs. You can

00:34:29 --> 00:34:32

only do five. So what happens to the other 45 but when they see the

00:34:32 --> 00:34:36

five wheelchairs, you may get 10 the following week. You can use

00:34:36 --> 00:34:38

other 10 people wheelchairs. So it's about

00:34:39 --> 00:34:43

marketing, so you can help other people benefit themselves. They

00:34:43 --> 00:34:47

become independent. They become in their minds. It causes mental

00:34:47 --> 00:34:51

illness too. Oh, I'm troubling my mother, my sister, my brother

00:34:51 --> 00:34:53

wanted to come take me off the bed. They must take me to the

00:34:53 --> 00:34:56

table. They must take me to the toilet. They must take me to the

00:34:56 --> 00:34:58

bath. I'm stuck the whole day. They stuck. They can't do

00:34:58 --> 00:34:59

anything. What do you do?

00:35:00 --> 00:35:03

Mm, and to because, because we don't have a wheelchair, four or

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

five family members get involved. It's heartbreaking, yet one

00:35:06 --> 00:35:09

wheelchair, everything changes. And I'm telling you about

00:35:09 --> 00:35:12

wheelchairs because tomorrow we're launching the wheelchair project

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

for the Eastern Cape. Yeah, not that we haven't done it before,

00:35:14 --> 00:35:17

but a journalist wrote about, there's a shortage of 5000

00:35:17 --> 00:35:20

wheelchairs in Eastern Cape, and we starting off. What 1000

00:35:21 --> 00:35:25

tomorrow. Not that we're starting for the first time tomorrow.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:29

We've, we've been giving out wheelchairs, but symbolically, one

00:35:29 --> 00:35:32

Mandela day, we're running out 1000 wheelchairs, and we're doing

00:35:32 --> 00:35:33

the first 50 tomorrow morning.

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

Let's, let's, let's look at, I think that's an amazing project. I

00:35:38 --> 00:35:42

was actually talking to one of your colleagues who, who heads up

00:35:42 --> 00:35:45

your team in the Eastern Cape about that, and the stories she

00:35:45 --> 00:35:49

was telling me are just, you know, they are, they are heartbreaking,

00:35:49 --> 00:35:53

of how people have to carry their children because they don't have

00:35:53 --> 00:35:55

wheelchairs and all of that. Um, let's look at your your journey.

00:35:55 --> 00:36:00

It's been 31 years or so of gift of the givers foundation. You've,

00:36:00 --> 00:36:04

you've you and the team. We know it's not you, but through you, a

00:36:04 --> 00:36:08

wonderful organization has been built. I'm sure that you've made

00:36:08 --> 00:36:10

mistakes, you know, I I've listened to a couple of the

00:36:10 --> 00:36:13

conversations you've had with other people, some podcasts.

00:36:14 --> 00:36:18

Number one, let me say I was trying to look at the articles

00:36:18 --> 00:36:21

that are written about gift of the givers, and it was difficult to to

00:36:21 --> 00:36:26

find something negative, you know, because I was trying to see, you

00:36:26 --> 00:36:28

know, what are people saying? And everything that was really is

00:36:28 --> 00:36:32

positive. And I was thinking to myself, I don't know what to make

00:36:32 --> 00:36:35

of that, because there must be some, there must be mistakes that

00:36:35 --> 00:36:39

you, that you've made as an organization, that maybe other

00:36:39 --> 00:36:44

people have discovered and written about. And then I came across an

00:36:44 --> 00:36:51

article that was written about you and the foundation and IFP, and

00:36:51 --> 00:36:55

some part, you know, part parcel given, and you know that story,

00:36:56 --> 00:36:59

but I wanted to ask you in terms of mistakes, because for me,

00:37:00 --> 00:37:04

authentic leadership is also about learning from mistakes, because

00:37:04 --> 00:37:07

we're human. We make mistakes in our organizations and what we

00:37:07 --> 00:37:11

build. Are there any mistakes that you can look back and say, maybe

00:37:11 --> 00:37:14

that project, we shouldn't have handled it like that, or we

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

shouldn't have gone into that community. Is there anything like

00:37:16 --> 00:37:20

that when you reflect back, because it's spiritual, I haven't

00:37:20 --> 00:37:26

found any issues. I can say certain things. I'm OCD. I think I

00:37:26 --> 00:37:30

let go too late. Okay, yeah, every time I want to do myself, because

00:37:30 --> 00:37:34

that's the issue of trust now. So everything do little trust with

00:37:34 --> 00:37:37

the team. What if people add new people to work for you? Right? Can

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

they do it be as good as you? You know that is one trend. The second

00:37:40 --> 00:37:42

thing is, you never had that kind of money to keep paying salaries

00:37:42 --> 00:37:45

because paying salaries, because I know volunteers, so in time, as it

00:37:45 --> 00:37:48

grew up, we brought people in. But I should have, maybe have brought

00:37:48 --> 00:37:53

them in a little earlier, but I learned very quickly, and I didn't

00:37:53 --> 00:37:56

micromanage the people. I allowed people to develop their own

00:37:56 --> 00:38:00

skills, and said, Do what you want. Come on a new, fresh idea.

00:38:01 --> 00:38:04

Sure, that's the biggest mistake I made. They all come with 15

00:38:04 --> 00:38:07

different ideas, and they all correct. And that's what

00:38:07 --> 00:38:10

organization just went straight through the roof. And they feel

00:38:10 --> 00:38:14

empowered, they feel honored, they feel respected, they feel they

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

value the great thing, and they do a great thing, you know? And then

00:38:16 --> 00:38:21

if 15 guys say, you know, be in management and you delegate, it

00:38:21 --> 00:38:24

doesn't help. The work increases, you know, and you're going to make

00:38:24 --> 00:38:28

sure everything's going right. But I have no, no problem with that. I

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

should have probably done it a little earlier. The

00:38:31 --> 00:38:36

IFP thing wasn't a mistake, it was mischief. Hm, IFP had paid for the

00:38:36 --> 00:38:41

food passes themselves. What the ANC didn't realize then is the ANC

00:38:41 --> 00:38:44

didn't if it didn't ask for the foot passes on the day of that

00:38:44 --> 00:38:48

election that asked for it six months previously, but because of

00:38:48 --> 00:38:52

the floods and so many different areas, that area was earmarked for

00:38:52 --> 00:38:55

that date long before the election was set for that. Maybe to give

00:38:55 --> 00:38:58

people some context, because maybe some people don't know, can you

00:38:58 --> 00:39:02

give us a 32nd what happened? What was going on? No, the ANC said we

00:39:02 --> 00:39:06

gave the IFP food parcels to give to the people to vote for them.

00:39:06 --> 00:39:10

For the IFP, that wasn't true, and the IFP, the IFP, had actually

00:39:10 --> 00:39:11

given 250,000

00:39:12 --> 00:39:16

Rand, but not for that area, you know, to just help people

00:39:16 --> 00:39:20

generally, and as we do for donors, if a political party gives

00:39:20 --> 00:39:23

money. They most welcome to tell the people, this our money. We

00:39:23 --> 00:39:26

want 100 food parcels. You can be to corporate companies. The

00:39:26 --> 00:39:30

corporate company can come and say, we paid the money, and he has

00:39:30 --> 00:39:33

a foot parcel. What stops a political party from doing that

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36

right? But they can't take marriage or somebody else's money.

00:39:37 --> 00:39:40

Lots of political parties want to do you? Want to come stand with

00:39:40 --> 00:39:44

you and say, we help you. They haven't. And that was something

00:39:44 --> 00:39:47

about Zuma. You know, when you went to Zuma somewhere, he would

00:39:47 --> 00:39:50

tell the people, don't thank the president of the country. Don't

00:39:51 --> 00:39:54

thank the president of the ANC, we didn't bring anything. It says you

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

want to thank Sammy. Thank them. They brought I don't bring

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

anything for you. It was always that.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:03

Did you guys work together on many times I met Zuma many times. You

00:40:03 --> 00:40:06

know, we do projects and as a guest, you know, as a president of

00:40:06 --> 00:40:08

the head of state people, in fact, the head of state, you come to

00:40:08 --> 00:40:12

events. They invite ministers to come. But he never took credit

00:40:12 --> 00:40:16

once for something that was never used always, you know, said, Does

00:40:16 --> 00:40:19

this help them? Thank them. Don't come to me. Come to him. Go, go

00:40:19 --> 00:40:22

tell him we had a very good relationship. It's amazing, yeah,

00:40:23 --> 00:40:27

so I've been to Tuli house. I've been to his house space, you know,

00:40:27 --> 00:40:33

I've been to in Yeah, yes, invited me many times, and so we did those

00:40:33 --> 00:40:37

kind of stuff. So it's always so they said, No, the food passes

00:40:37 --> 00:40:40

were there to get the election. It was nothing to do with that. That

00:40:40 --> 00:40:43

date was booked by us because we have a schedule. And it so

00:40:43 --> 00:40:46

happened that a by election came and it coincided with the date,

00:40:46 --> 00:40:50

you know, and only once in 30 years. Yeah, obviously something

00:40:50 --> 00:40:53

is not making sense. If we do that consistently all the time, then

00:40:53 --> 00:40:56

you can say that, yeah, but what about the how the benefited in so

00:40:56 --> 00:41:00

many ideas that we've been to? They don't talk about that and but

00:41:00 --> 00:41:04

people with the ANC, within the ANC, told us, we apologize. What

00:41:04 --> 00:41:07

do you do? You have, I'm sure you've got your own political

00:41:07 --> 00:41:12

views. I've never heard you speak publicly about, you know, whether

00:41:12 --> 00:41:15

politically, you vote for any political party, anything like

00:41:15 --> 00:41:21

that. I mean, we're going into 2024, now. I think part of how we

00:41:21 --> 00:41:23

can fix the countries, to put the right people in power, so that

00:41:23 --> 00:41:26

there's no other way manage. So what do you think? What do you

00:41:26 --> 00:41:29

think, just in terms of where the country is going, the politics,

00:41:30 --> 00:41:34

ANC, Eff, all of these parties, you know, there's good people in

00:41:34 --> 00:41:37

every party. We need to understand that doesn't look people. Need to

00:41:37 --> 00:41:40

understand, why are they coming to government? Why do you come to

00:41:40 --> 00:41:44

government? You say you you know you serving the people. Now you

00:41:44 --> 00:41:46

have to make up your mind. Are you serving the people? Are you

00:41:46 --> 00:41:50

serving yourself? Mandela Sisulu, the others, serve the people. They

00:41:50 --> 00:41:54

don't serve themselves. Are you going to follow the same example

00:41:54 --> 00:41:58

you're serving the people? It's fine, but the people must make the

00:41:58 --> 00:42:02

choice. Don't let the political party make the choice for you. I

00:42:02 --> 00:42:06

tell people now, don't duck the next election vote, yeah, but you

00:42:06 --> 00:42:09

will select your candidate. Who's your candidate? Your priest has

00:42:09 --> 00:42:12

been a very good man for the last 15 years. You know the man. He

00:42:12 --> 00:42:15

comes at nine. He comes in a day. He comes checks the house. Check

00:42:15 --> 00:42:18

how you doing? He's a good man. Your CPF guy, community police

00:42:18 --> 00:42:23

forum guy, your local some administrator, you know, somebody

00:42:23 --> 00:42:26

always there for the people, not asking for anything in return,

00:42:26 --> 00:42:29

consistent for the last 1520, years. Good character, good

00:42:29 --> 00:42:33

person. Tell him, please stand you know what we want you, you will

00:42:33 --> 00:42:37

serve the people. Government does not tell us what they want us to

00:42:37 --> 00:42:41

do. We must tell them what we want. We as the people, we as the

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

people. Tell them, you don't tell us what do you want to implement?

00:42:43 --> 00:42:46

We will tell you what we want. Yeah, that's how the country

00:42:46 --> 00:42:49

should work. And if you don't do the job, we take you out, we give

00:42:49 --> 00:42:52

you a good idea. We don't do the job properly. You know, that's

00:42:52 --> 00:42:56

what we need to do and when. And then only people who really want

00:42:56 --> 00:42:59

to serve or commented or dedicated will take that to a lousy job,

00:42:59 --> 00:43:02

because it's a thankful job. I'm putting you on the spot here. But

00:43:02 --> 00:43:05

should we be voting for the end? Should we be voting them out next

00:43:05 --> 00:43:09

year? I look, I won't say that, because

00:43:10 --> 00:43:13

there are a lot of good people in the ANC and I keep making this

00:43:13 --> 00:43:18

point, don't say government is corrupt. Everybody in government

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

is not corrupt. There are people in government that's corrupt.

00:43:20 --> 00:43:23

Government is not corrupt. And when you say government is

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

corrupt, then I'll tell you what our corporates that are corrupt.

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

Where did the corruption start?

00:43:28 --> 00:43:32

Who inflated the prices, who backhanded people, who encouraged

00:43:32 --> 00:43:35

them to inflate the invoices? Who did that came from corporate South

00:43:35 --> 00:43:39

Africa. The problem is not the system. The problem is the

00:43:39 --> 00:43:43

individual. You see, if you've got 1000 individuals, and they're all

00:43:43 --> 00:43:46

rotten, they'll mess up the best system in the world, and you've

00:43:46 --> 00:43:50

got 1000 good guys that care for the people, they'll fix up any

00:43:50 --> 00:43:54

messed up system. It's all about spirituality. It's about the

00:43:54 --> 00:43:57

individual you want to fix the country. Look in the mirror.

00:43:58 --> 00:44:02

Look at yourself first. Are you ethical? Four important qualities?

00:44:02 --> 00:44:07

Do you have? Spirituality, morality, values and ethics. And

00:44:07 --> 00:44:11

to the young people, when you make progress, don't forget where you

00:44:11 --> 00:44:15

came from. Don't forget your grandfather, your parents, who

00:44:15 --> 00:44:18

stunned to put you where you are. Unfortunately, a lot of young

00:44:18 --> 00:44:21

people have forgotten where they've come from and to sacrifice

00:44:21 --> 00:44:24

what their parents have done to put them where they are today.

00:44:24 --> 00:44:27

It's a glorious life, a materialistic life. Have the fun

00:44:27 --> 00:44:31

you're forgetting the part and the pain you cause into people who

00:44:31 --> 00:44:35

suffer for so many years. Please don't ever forget that I admire

00:44:35 --> 00:44:39

the people who play the pay the black tax, or look after 20 or 30

00:44:39 --> 00:44:42

family members who find it important to that, that from a

00:44:42 --> 00:44:45

spiritual point of view, we call it a huge blessing to take care of

00:44:45 --> 00:44:48

the elderly people, to take care of the mother, to take care of

00:44:48 --> 00:44:52

children who are vulnerable. That's a huge blessing. It's what

00:44:52 --> 00:44:55

it fills the soul. No one in the world can buy that, and we need to

00:44:55 --> 00:44:58

understand that very, very clearly, that, yes, make money,

00:44:58 --> 00:44:59

but do it the right way.

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03

Hmm, don't trample somebody else. Don't be dishonored. Being

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

dishonest, two things the right way. Remember your family, you

00:45:06 --> 00:45:10

will see it. You may not be a multi billionaire, but then again,

00:45:11 --> 00:45:14

what's the point of being a multi billionaire? How much can you eat?

00:45:14 --> 00:45:20

So we we have a teaching what you don't spend is not yours. Wow. So

00:45:20 --> 00:45:23

I give every child, every you are to tell me, spend is not yours. Of

00:45:23 --> 00:45:27

course, what you don't spend is not yours. If I give everybody 2

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

billion rand, please tell me how many lifetimes you going to need

00:45:30 --> 00:45:34

to spend that money. You can buy 50 houses, but you can only stay

00:45:34 --> 00:45:38

in one. You can have 20 bedrooms house. You can only sleep in one.

00:45:39 --> 00:45:42

You can have seven cars. You can drive one the six batteries don't

00:45:42 --> 00:45:48

like you. No, a lot of them have reflected a lot of top guys, CEOs,

00:45:48 --> 00:45:52

MDS, auditors have come and said, what have we done with our lives?

00:45:53 --> 00:45:57

It's pointless, useless life. We made money and made money and made

00:45:57 --> 00:46:03

money and made money. Now what? There is no contentment. It's from

00:46:03 --> 00:46:07

a spiritual point of view, the richest guy on Earth is the guy

00:46:07 --> 00:46:11

that is most content, because then you don't need anything else. And

00:46:11 --> 00:46:14

as you get older, if you eat more, you want to get sick, and all that

00:46:14 --> 00:46:19

money will go to hospital. So it doesn't make any sense. So it when

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

you make the money. Nobody's stopping you from making the

00:46:21 --> 00:46:26

money. Please make the money. Great jobs make people happy. You

00:46:26 --> 00:46:29

know, there's a man in Durban

00:46:30 --> 00:46:34

so some years wanted to buy his factory out and said, you don't

00:46:34 --> 00:46:38

put machines here. You can make so much more money. What machines?

00:46:39 --> 00:46:42

So the guy said, You're right. I can make much more money on

00:46:42 --> 00:46:47

machines, no doubt. But he said, My father told me that every job I

00:46:47 --> 00:46:52

create, every night, when that man goes home, that man, his wife and

00:46:52 --> 00:46:57

his children pray for me because I gave them a blessing, a job the

00:46:57 --> 00:47:02

moment machines want to pray for me. You know, that's why I it's

00:47:02 --> 00:47:06

better to create jobs. And I said, Yes, I make less money, but I

00:47:06 --> 00:47:10

still got a house. I still eat. I'm still surviving. What more do

00:47:10 --> 00:47:16

I need? It's about satisfaction, contentment, being grateful. Last

00:47:16 --> 00:47:20

couple of questions before we let you go, Doc, one is, I know you

00:47:20 --> 00:47:23

don't want to go into politics. No, you've said that multiple

00:47:23 --> 00:47:25

times on multiple platforms,

00:47:26 --> 00:47:29

but let's assume not as a spiritual instruction. I was given

00:47:29 --> 00:47:35

an instruction in 1995 the teacher saw way ahead, and he told me, you

00:47:35 --> 00:47:38

will never enter politics. You will never work for government.

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

You will always work with the government. But for 30 years,

00:47:41 --> 00:47:43

you've seen me work with the government. We fight in a day,

00:47:44 --> 00:47:47

punch each other by the night. We're friends. Good government,

00:47:47 --> 00:47:51

yes, oh, that's nice. Yeah, we have we because I'm outspoken,

00:47:52 --> 00:47:54

but there are the good guys who understand the value of what

00:47:54 --> 00:47:58

you're doing, and as a result, they want to do the right things,

00:47:58 --> 00:48:01

too. The good people in government. I wanted to ask you,

00:48:01 --> 00:48:05

based on that, I wanted to paint us. Now let's, let's assume that

00:48:05 --> 00:48:09

for some reason the the spiritual instruction changes, and he comes

00:48:09 --> 00:48:12

and says, South Africa are too good. They said, you're going to

00:48:12 --> 00:48:16

write to the spiritual teacher. We're going to tell him to change

00:48:16 --> 00:48:18

the instruction. Why not? But

00:48:20 --> 00:48:24

let's assume, because I really, I was thinking about this and

00:48:24 --> 00:48:27

reflecting on this today. Let's, let's, let's assume that the

00:48:27 --> 00:48:31

spiritual instruction changes. And he says, Okay, now is the time,

00:48:31 --> 00:48:36

maybe 100 days you must be president. Let's, let's examine

00:48:36 --> 00:48:40

those 100 days with the 31 plus years you have of working with

00:48:40 --> 00:48:44

people from all sorts of communities. What do you do? What

00:48:44 --> 00:48:48

do you change? I change a lot of things. First of all, I change the

00:48:48 --> 00:48:51

ethics of people. You know, people work in hospitals, they work in

00:48:51 --> 00:48:55

schools, and they're several servants, but they think entitled.

00:48:55 --> 00:48:56

Not everybody.

00:48:58 --> 00:49:01

A doctor goes and walks in hospital, and then he's got

00:49:01 --> 00:49:02

permission to do private practice.

00:49:03 --> 00:49:06

He doesn't give his full time to the hospital. He gives more time

00:49:06 --> 00:49:10

to the private practice. What happens? Health System is very bad

00:49:10 --> 00:49:14

when they don't look after the people. So the health system is

00:49:14 --> 00:49:17

unethical behavior of individuals that's not taking care they're

00:49:17 --> 00:49:20

getting paid for something which they haven't done. But how do you

00:49:20 --> 00:49:25

change that? You have strong management. Country needs strong

00:49:25 --> 00:49:29

management. That's a big problem in this country. Leaders will say,

00:49:29 --> 00:49:31

you don't do your job, you're out. Find the wrong people, get the

00:49:31 --> 00:49:35

right people, get the right people in and no mercy. Sorry, as I deal

00:49:35 --> 00:49:38

with compassion, but no mercy. Anybody that messes the system up

00:49:38 --> 00:49:42

in Eskom, they asked me, they said, I see people breaking the

00:49:42 --> 00:49:45

system, short on site, I'll have no mercy, because you're affecting

00:49:45 --> 00:49:49

the lives of 65 million people. Children are suffering. People are

00:49:49 --> 00:49:51

suffering. Jobs are being lost because of the greed of some

00:49:51 --> 00:49:55

people. Sorry, you don't belong in our system, you know. And I would

00:49:55 --> 00:49:58

be very, very hard to retrain the cops. And I tell the cops, if you

00:49:58 --> 00:49:59

if you scared to die, go find another job.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

Up to go to go into parks and recreation, go to something else.

00:50:02 --> 00:50:05

It's not your job. Sellers told him, many times people laugh at

00:50:05 --> 00:50:08

him, but he said, many times, don't die with your gun in your

00:50:08 --> 00:50:12

Ulster. You enrolled. This is according people don't go to a

00:50:12 --> 00:50:14

country because they've got a good health system, a good education.

00:50:14 --> 00:50:18

They go to a country the security is good. No other reason. Yeah. So

00:50:18 --> 00:50:22

if you do the security well for your own people, you'll have lots

00:50:22 --> 00:50:24

of tourists that will bring a lot of income to your country. They'll

00:50:24 --> 00:50:28

come and stay and you know, and be happy. They feel safe in that

00:50:28 --> 00:50:32

country. So the same way a fixed health there's lots of things,

00:50:33 --> 00:50:38

maintenance management, infrastructure, equipment, and

00:50:38 --> 00:50:42

also more categories, staff, personnel, five crucial things to

00:50:42 --> 00:50:45

fix in the health system. You can't cut registrar posts and say

00:50:45 --> 00:50:49

there's no money. Registrars train doctors, junior doctors, they

00:50:49 --> 00:50:52

become specialists. They bring dignity to the system. They

00:50:52 --> 00:50:55

improve the quality of healthcare. You cut the registrar's to kill

00:50:55 --> 00:50:58

the entire system. Schools tell teachers, please come back. But

00:50:58 --> 00:51:00

you can't be taking your grandfather's time and being

00:51:00 --> 00:51:04

relaxed and being easy about it. You want that could be your child.

00:51:04 --> 00:51:07

Train the child. Bring small special education. Need teachers.

00:51:07 --> 00:51:09

There's kids with learning disorders. Where's the future for

00:51:09 --> 00:51:12

them? There's not enough trained people, psychologists. Our

00:51:12 --> 00:51:16

countries missed absence, covid, mental health issues are a huge

00:51:16 --> 00:51:19

issue in the country. Universities take seven clinical, seven

00:51:20 --> 00:51:23

educational and seven counseling psychologists. We need 1000s of

00:51:23 --> 00:51:28

them. You talk about job creation, Teddy, we need 1000s of nurses,

00:51:28 --> 00:51:30

doctors, you know, psychologists. Where's the big deal? What's

00:51:30 --> 00:51:33

What's the complication, finding the people you got too much of,

00:51:33 --> 00:51:36

guys in the civil service, in the administration, a director, a

00:51:36 --> 00:51:40

chief director, Guy below that. Director, 15 different people for

00:51:40 --> 00:51:44

one job and not one. Job, and not one guy can sign the form, and the

00:51:44 --> 00:51:47

country gets paralyzed. Remove all that. We are 109 people. We run

00:51:47 --> 00:51:51

the entire projects in the whole country, and equals drivers,

00:51:51 --> 00:51:55

staff, deceptionist, finance guys. We can read, why can't you lean?

00:51:55 --> 00:52:00

Government, lean and mean and and 15 guys. There was a no, it's not

00:52:00 --> 00:52:03

my fault. It's his fault. And that one says that one's fault, and

00:52:03 --> 00:52:06

that one says general fault. When me two guys, you see the UAE,

00:52:06 --> 00:52:07

nobody else who did it wrong.

00:52:10 --> 00:52:13

You'll see the efficiency and my team's work, yeah, efficient

00:52:13 --> 00:52:16

because a small in number, and they take responsibility. And

00:52:16 --> 00:52:20

above all, you know you don't have to police anybody. You look in the

00:52:20 --> 00:52:22

mirror, you have those four qualities I spoke about,

00:52:22 --> 00:52:27

spirituality, morality, values and ethics, you will police yourself.

00:52:27 --> 00:52:31

Nobody will need to police you. And when we reach that level, we

00:52:31 --> 00:52:35

can fix anything. Don't need money. You don't need money

00:52:35 --> 00:52:39

because you're accountable upstairs and to yourself. Doc,

00:52:39 --> 00:52:42

thank you so much for your time. Thank you for sitting down with

00:52:42 --> 00:52:46

us. Last couple of questions, just on your personal life. So what do

00:52:46 --> 00:52:49

you do to relax? What do you do to unwind? Because you're always on

00:52:49 --> 00:52:53

the road, you're always busy. I'm asking because I think looking

00:52:53 --> 00:52:58

after your, your, your, your, your mindset is important. Looking

00:52:58 --> 00:53:02

after your what's the right word now, well being, your well being,

00:53:02 --> 00:53:05

your mental well being, is important. So what do you do to

00:53:05 --> 00:53:09

you? Asked me earlier, Did I make any mistake? I made one very big

00:53:09 --> 00:53:13

mistake, which is personal. It's not the business. The spiritual

00:53:13 --> 00:53:18

teacher said, when you end in you by personality. He said, 1/3 for

00:53:18 --> 00:53:23

yourself, 1/3 for the work and 1/3 for the family. Meaning, yes, I

00:53:23 --> 00:53:27

divide your time personal growth, family time. And every time I went

00:53:27 --> 00:53:31

back and I said, this formula doesn't work, four thirds I give

00:53:32 --> 00:53:35

to the organization. That's it for myself. That's it to the family.

00:53:35 --> 00:53:38

That's one thing I would have liked to reverse. It's too late

00:53:38 --> 00:53:43

now, but if I had to start 30 years ago? Yeah, I would have done

00:53:43 --> 00:53:46

differently, you know, not neglected them the way I did. So I

00:53:46 --> 00:53:49

laughed. I said, Look, I got this problem. I don't create the

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

disasters I would respond to them.

00:53:52 --> 00:53:56

And you know, it's very hard to tell a child or a parent, sorry, I

00:53:56 --> 00:53:59

can't come to you when you know that you got the skill to respond

00:53:59 --> 00:54:02

to multiple disasters at the same time. Can send other people? Yeah,

00:54:02 --> 00:54:05

but everybody told you, management, they all start

00:54:05 --> 00:54:09

increasing the capacity, and you gotta Yes, I said, I don't even

00:54:09 --> 00:54:12

now to I already got a succession plan in place. I don't need the

00:54:12 --> 00:54:16

teams anymore. They go, but I still got to take care of them to

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

make sure they're safe, they're okay. You know, my phone doesn't

00:54:18 --> 00:54:21

switch off. You didn't understand. What does taking care of them

00:54:21 --> 00:54:23

mean, checking in on what they're doing if they get stuck somewhere,

00:54:23 --> 00:54:26

you know, because their lives on my head so like surround

00:54:26 --> 00:54:31

evacuation. 10 days I didn't sleep, because the network only

00:54:31 --> 00:54:33

works at certain time, and the guy sends a message at two o'clock in

00:54:33 --> 00:54:36

the morning, and you're sleeping, the chance of getting the guy out

00:54:36 --> 00:54:40

is almost zero. You can't miss the call. And because some South

00:54:40 --> 00:54:43

Africans missed the court because the network failed. They got stuck

00:54:43 --> 00:54:48

inside, and we had to do other things to get him out. And then

00:54:48 --> 00:54:50

other countries nationals wanted out. Do? We don't look at

00:54:50 --> 00:54:54

nationality. We look at as a human being, as a human being. I could

00:54:54 --> 00:54:56

have been that human being. It could have been my child. What did

00:54:56 --> 00:54:59

you do about that? So that's the mistake. So as in terms of

00:54:59 --> 00:54:59

relaxation.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:03

I need to watch heavy action movies. That's the thing that

00:55:03 --> 00:55:03

relaxes.

00:55:07 --> 00:55:10

Yeah, quickly. What movies do you like watching? Anything with

00:55:10 --> 00:55:14

Steven Seagal, Mel Gibson, Sylvester, Stallone, Jason

00:55:14 --> 00:55:17

Statham, the was the newer guys

00:55:20 --> 00:55:21

all this wood.

00:55:22 --> 00:55:23

Clint Eastwood

00:55:25 --> 00:55:26

hung then books, books that you

00:55:27 --> 00:55:29

read. Thank you so much.

00:55:31 --> 00:55:34

Thank you for your time. Thank you for the great work that you do, a

00:55:34 --> 00:55:35

pleasure. Thanks for.

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