Ieasha Prime – Mending Hearts The Prophetic Model

Ieasha Prime
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The speakers discuss the importance of remembering words and actions to strengthen one's heart and prevent future injuries, as well as the healing process of a damaged heart, including the use of drugs and physical therapy. They stress the need for people to be aware of their emotions and use them to avoid negative consequences, particularly when dealing with people who are worst-case scenarios. The importance of finding a person to support a woman who passed away and keep it in one's mind is also discussed, as well as the struggles of finding a woman who was in a relationship with someone who passed away and the importance of finding a partner. The hesitation of publicizing public embarrassment and the Yontaro Project for building houses and schools for women is also discussed, as well as the challenges of finding a person to support them.
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So inshallah, I want to You know why

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we're in this time together.

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I want it.

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I want us just to make some intentions.

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All right, I want us just to Jam

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-pack this last moments that we have of

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Yom al-jumu'ah together All right, like

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this moment is thank you This moment of

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Yom al-jumu'ah is a time where

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said there's

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a there's a special hour There's a special

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hour on the day of Jumu'ah that

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you want to make du'a at that

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time I think because the du'a is

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mustajab and so many of our scholars believe

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that that hour, subhanAllah, is that time like

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right before Maghrib comes in like that time

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between Asr and Maghrib, that last moment because

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after we prayed salatul Jumu'ah We've recited

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our Quran and I want to say a

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big jazakallah for the recitation that just subhanAllah

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Just healed my heart even as I was

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coming in But subhanAllah, we don't we want

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to catch it.

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Hey, we know that this is there.

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This is a time where that barakah is

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descending and When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam said barakah is descending.

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It's like a blessed rain And that blessed

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rain is something we want to catch There's

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some people when there's a barakah that's descending

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or a blessed rain that's descending they bring

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their cup And they said let me catch

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some of it.

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I there's some excuse me, they go out

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and they just expose themselves to it Like

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here I am, it's Jumu'ah, I came,

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I'm good enough.

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And that's what they got.

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Whatever, you know, just came onto them There's

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some people who come with a cup and

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they said let me catch some of this

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blessing that I may nourish myself Or give

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some to my child by it.

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And then there's others who said let me

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dig a trench Hey, let me prepare for

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this blessing that I may benefit from it

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all year round my family my neighborhood my

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Entire community may benefit from it.

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And so we want to be from amongst

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those people.

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We're asking ya Allah By this on this

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day of Jumu'ah and this special hour

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Do not let this day close except that

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you've written us from amongst the true believers

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Ya Rabbi, we intend by being in your

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in your house Right in this hour at

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this time We intend to be with the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in our actions

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in our deeds in our character and our

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Spirituality in this dunya and the akhira.

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Ya Rabbi, I intend to give victory to

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his way Ya Rabbi, we intend to strengthen

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the ummah of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam We intend just to to give

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victory to those who are in Philistine We

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intend to be a means of mercy for

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them.

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We intend to be a means of light

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and hope for them We intend this for

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our brothers and sisters in Philistine and Lebanon

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and in Syria and in Yemen in Afghanistan

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In the Congo and in Sudan, we intend

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to let them know that their brothers and

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sisters love them We intend to send dua

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for them We intend to please Allah subhanahu

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wa'ta'ala by being in this gathering and

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sending salawat on the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam And by this because Allah loves the

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Prophet We intend to attach ourselves to everything

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that Allah loves and who he loves.

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We intend to sit with the ulama We

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intend to be in the company of the

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righteous We intend that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

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would grant us his nazar, his gaze of

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rida We intend that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

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by us being in his house in this

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moment at this time Seeking him and gathered

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for no other reason except him We intend

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that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala would make this

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moment a means by which we're saved from

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the torment of the grave and the punishment

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of the hellfire and our entire lineage will

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be from amongst those that are saved that

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our entire lineage and those that we love

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and Our family members and our friends and

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those who pray for us and support us

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would be from amongst those who enter into

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janatul Firdaus al-ala wa al-habibullah Muhammad

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salallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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We intend that all of our affairs would

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be rectified We intend that Allah in this

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moment that you would heal our hearts by

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mentioning you by mentioning the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam We intend that our deen would

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be fortified.

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We intend that we would be the people

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of yaqeen, the people of ma'rifah We

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intend to expose ourselves to Allah's mercy in

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his expansion.

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We intend to expose our hearts to Allah's

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light We intend to expose our hearts to

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our fulfillment of our purpose We intend that

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Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala would number us right

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our names from amongst those who are who

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are the successful Ones who are the happy

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ones that the ones that Allah subhanahu wa'ta

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'ala has chosen as his elites We intend

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to everything that Allah intended of Qayr for

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the people on the earth in all of

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our teachers We intend that for them as

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well We intend that our teachers would be

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elevated by this moment that our teachers would

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increase in knowledge by this moment We intend

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that by this moment our teachers with their

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hearts would continuously be Expanded and that we

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were blessed to be in their blessed company.

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We intend to feed orphans To home to

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give them a home to close them We

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intend to be a means of a better

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future and a brighter future for them We

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intend that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala would grant

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us a victory from his victory feed dunya

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What I said and that we and our

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families will be saved from the fitna of

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Masih had to gel Allahumma, I mean So

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I want to start by saying that when

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we talk about mending the hearts You know

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the the nature of the heart is that

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it's it's a part of the souls the

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greater part of the soul There are four

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aspects to the soul and the matter of

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the heart is that the having coming by

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the Sunni man is something so Significant because

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if it is broken as you just if

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you have any vessel and you want to

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pour something inside of it Of course by

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nature It's gonna seep out So when our

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hearts are broken We're not able to be

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a sound vessel a sound container for knowledge

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or for spirituality Right literally and I want

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to talk about the type of we're gonna

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talk about in Shambhala the different types of

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broken hearts And when that heart is broken

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and it doesn't have subhanAllah even the right

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healing Like for example, I'm not very good

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at all of the building materials So you'll

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forgive me, but I know that you know

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how you you you have a base, right?

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It's a beautiful base and it's broken subhanAllah

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and you put you know, maybe just some

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you find some super glue Well, you put

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some super glue on it, you know, you

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just want to you know, you want to

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just put it back together You just want

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it to make it look like it's together.

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You know, don't touch it.

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It's broken.

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All right, don't don't touch it It's you

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know, it's it will easily fall apart.

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It's very fragile.

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We don't want that type of epoxy We

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want the type that will like seal it

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as if it were never broken Okay, then

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it would seal it in a way.

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So how long that you would actually become

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new They will look at it someone would

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look at it and say wow, I never

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I never imagined that this heart was broken

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and so when we look at broken hearts

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again, there are different types of broken hearts

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and It depends on what broke it and

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who broke it Okay, and how it got

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broken There's the type of heart broken heart

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that happens For example, like the one that

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we're experiencing as a result of them as

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a result of oppression That when we see

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people subhanAllah in positions that we just feel

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so weak That we feel so insignificant That

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there's something we want to do about it

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But watching them subhanAllah there, you know and

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all of their suffering that breaks our hearts

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But that type of stuff that kind of

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broken heart is a good broken heart That

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kind of like yeah Allah I don't have

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you know I don't have the means that

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kind of broken heart is the kind that

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subhanAllah Allah can mend I Allah can mend

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all of them But it's the type that

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you want Allah to mend you it's a

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it's a type of brokenness That you want

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to present yourself to Allah subhanAllah in this

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broken state Right to say yeah Allah.

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I recognize how limited I am.

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I Recognize How weak I am I recognize

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my own smallness and So I present to

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you my brokenness asking you.

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Yeah algebra.

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Yeah, I'll call we young Mateen fix this

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Fix this That's one type inshallah.

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We'll and we're just gonna list the types

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and we'll come back and talk more in

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detail about them later There's another type of

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broken heart that happens as the result of

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life events someone died a divorce Someone you

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know that you love very closely something about

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that relationship is severed That type of broken

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heart is different Right.

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There's a there's a sense of literal loss.

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There's a grief that's there and You know

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subhanAllah I was looking at some statistics About

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you know, I remember in my own life.

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There was a time when my heart was

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so broken I actually you know, I could

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I could feel it You know that feeling

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where like you it feels like it's like

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there's a hole Right and you wonder yeah

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Allah will this hole ever Be filled is

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there any way like will it ever come

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together again?

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Well, I would this feeling this this so

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I don't love this deep rift in my

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chest.

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Will it ever go away?

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But by Allah's grace and mercy, I don't

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feel it.

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No, I Don't feel not only that brokenness

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but that empty space in between Where you

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feel as if there's a there's a darkness

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there.

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I and so subhanAllah we we learn how

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over time Through events through Allah subhanahu wa'ta

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'ala saying you've learned that lesson So now

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I've replaced that what I put I put

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something there.

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I put a healing medicine on it So

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that's one type of broken heart there's another

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type of brokenness that comes from spiritual diseases

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That comes from spiritual ailments that come from

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How we would say things that are like

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all types of things that can arise from

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our enough from our ego That can happen

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as a result of money.

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Give me some more spiritual diseases Vanity grief

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lust desire Hey, all of those things can

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actually cause deep sicknesses in the heart, especially

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if left untreated if they're left to a

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state of like, oh, I know that I'm

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in a state of ghafla and I'm Indulging

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it.

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I Know that I'm in a state of

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laziness and I'm indulging it and there's a

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it can be compounded when especially it's It's

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left to be in its in its literally

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diseased state When it's left to kind of

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like pass over and just let it be

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there there's another type that's as a result

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of a deep deep deep anger that becomes

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like a Rage and that kind of rage

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can become a rancor and left untreated Literally,

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it can become treachery.

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It can become a type of bitterness that

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that heart becomes become so hard Right that

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that heart becomes so hard in its rigidness

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that anything I chips away at it Any

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event any life events?

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That you know the smallest thing happened.

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I came into the messian and someone bumped

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my shoulder Right, that's why I don't come

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to the messian That's why I don't hang

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around with these people.

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That's why I don't you know Because all

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the Muslims are like that I That's a

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hardened heart That literally subhanallah that kind of

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rigidness.

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It just it literally just chips away the

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smallest thing Will cause it to fall apart

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each one of these Alhamdulillah, when Allah has

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its treatment has its cure.

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Is that the other?

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The Amazing thing about our beloved Prophet salallahu

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alayhi wa sallam Is that he's a heart

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doctor?

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the amazing thing About the beloved messenger of

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Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sahbihi wa sallam is

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that even his name is a healing That

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sending salawat on him is a healing To

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have remembrance of him is a healing To

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read about him is a healing To implement

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his way is a healing that everything about

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him subhanallah is shifa Which means you come

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at the right time That you have excellent

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timing Then if you entered into this door

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with any form of a broken heart That

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Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala said this month this

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moment is for you Then if you came

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into this month knowing Sayyidina Wahabina Siraj al

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munir rahmatil alameen Yasin Tahara If you came

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into this building knowing the name of Habibullah

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salallahu alayhi wa sallam Knowing that ya Allah

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By your mercy you chose me to know

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him By your mercy subhanallah You allowed me

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to be from his ummah which means that

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Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala Intended healing for you

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and the only reason you walked into this

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door is because Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala says

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I want to heal you I want to

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fill those empty spaces I want to soften

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that rigidity I want to remove all of

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the disease and replace it with light and

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with nur That subhanallah wa bihamdihi subhanallah al

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adheem You're in the right place at the

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right time with the right people Knowing having

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the right doctor Allahumma salli wa sallim wa

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barikana sayyidina wa habibina wa maulana muhammad So

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when we think about You know, how can

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I mend my broken heart?

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The great thing about it is like we

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have an exact guidance Right, we have an

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exact way Like not only do we have

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his you know, like his Not only do

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we have the book of instruction right we

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have the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam himself

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and his example And then there are two

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types of healing we will talk about today

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and inshallah we'll pause for that and then

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we'll come back There are two types of

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healing One there is the self healing There

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is the recognition that I have a broken

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heart.

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I have a splintered soul.

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I'm in trouble That's one healing There's another

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type When you are responsible and all of

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us are responsible For being a means of

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healing somebody else's broken heart For being a

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means of mending their broken heart And so

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is an

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example for us in both That walillah and

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how we don't Allah didn't send us a

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prophet that actually we couldn't relate to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala sent us a prophet

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who experienced a broken heart We all know

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that the beloved messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam went through a year of sadness

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Literally subhanAllah his family breaking his heart before

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that his father being born You know without

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his father Then of course the loss of

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his mother the loss of his grandfather then

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the loss of his uncle and then subhanAllah

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He experienced so much love and comfort from

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our mother Khadija radiAllahu ta'ala anha al

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-kubra alayha as-salam Then subhanAllah Then the

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separation of her I know some of you

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say Why did you say alayha as-salam

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upon our mother Khadija?

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There's a narration where once the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam was coming home And this

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was after the boycott.

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He was coming home and the angel Jibreel

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stopped him in the middle and He stopped

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him and he said Khadija is preparing your

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favorite dish And he said Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala has a message for him Now

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Allah sends salam on Khadija And I send

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salam on Khadija So from that narration I

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used to think like you send salam She's

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not a prophet She's not but you send

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salam on her and then you send angel

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Jibreel to the messenger of Allah To tell

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us that you send salam on her So

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that the angels would also send salam on

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her Ya Allah I don't know about you,

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but for me, that was a huge healing

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especially as a woman The hope the hope

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so this man is coming to tell us

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that is prayer time Wa lillahi l-hamd

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Make dua between the Adhan and the Iqama

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for surely that that time of dua is

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a dua mustajab So bismillah rahman rahim alhamdulillah

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rabbil alamin wa salatu wa salam ala sayyidina

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habibina muhammad wa alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam

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So we were talking about of course the

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state of our hearts and Thinking about how

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the messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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first informed us about our hearts in the

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meaning of its brokenness Right the different aspects

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of its brokenness.

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So first I want to talk about why

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does Allah break our hearts?

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Like why would Allah allow our hearts to

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be broken?

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So the first thing is is that what

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remember we talked about when that?

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Oh When we I'm too powerful Okay

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that the first thing is that when our

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hearts are broken That Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

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allows the contents of it to literally be

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exposed to ourselves So that when things happen

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and we begin to see Wow, I didn't

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realize That I had that level of attachment.

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I Didn't realize that I you know had

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that level of weakness or I didn't realize

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That there was vanity there or I didn't

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realize that there was conceit there or sometimes

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I didn't realize I had that much resilience.

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I didn't realize that I had that much

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strength I didn't realize how much Allah subhanahu

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wa'ta'ala was holding me together Until there

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was something that actually caused it all to

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just fall apart Hey, and so a lot

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of times we look at our hearts as

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something that's broke that's broken as a result

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But sometimes Allah's breaking into it There's some

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aspects of it that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

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is saying I'm breaking it because there's certain

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aspects of it that are no longer Going

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to benefit you There's some parts of your

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heart that you've become that you've grown attached

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to that's what kind of what we've got

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to let that go And we need to

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grow some new things in its place or

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in other cases.

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There are some tumors Right, there are some

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diseases that you have inside of it and

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in order subhanAllah Because you because you won't

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let go of that thing or that person

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or that that trauma or that thing that's

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happening Because of it subhanAllah Allah subhanahu wa'ta

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'ala says listen, I'm gonna break your heart

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now, but don't worry as a result There's

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a there's a there's a sickness inside.

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I'm going to remove it All right, and

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then once I remove it I'm going to

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put it back together in a way that

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it never was before So this is some

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of the reason that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

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allows our hearts to be broken Right, not

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necessarily Because it's it's uh, not necessarily because

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it's a bad thing.

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Hey when we recognize My heart is broken

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because of certain, you know negative things Didn't

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be grateful that Allah broke your heart That

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might be difficult To be able to say

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Allah, you know me better than I know

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myself and I've been making dua To go

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to Jannah.

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I've been making dua right for sometimes the

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highest levels of Jannah and Allah subhanahu wa'ta

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'ala is saying as Because you want that

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and I want that for you, but this

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type of heart is not a Jannah heart

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right this type of heart subhanAllah this this

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heart doesn't have the Capacity to hold the

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kind of Iman that's needed to get to

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that level This type of heart doesn't have

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the level.

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It doesn't have the capacity It doesn't have

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the strength to have the fortification that it

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needs to do the work that I need

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you to do So as a result subhanAllah,

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I'm going to break it so I can

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expand it Okay, so we thank Allah subhanahu

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wa'ta'ala actually for that.

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That's the type of heart That's the kind

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of broken heart that's meant for heart surgery

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All right, where Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala is

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repairing subhanAllah Very similar to when the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when the angel Jibreel

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laid him down Right split open his chest

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and remove certain aspects remove certain spots from

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his heart Said that this subhanAllah you've got

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a mission to do you've got a work

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to do and because of that mission in

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that work You've got to do I'm gonna

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remove these things from your heart Because if

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it continues to grow like it is it

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can become bitterness It can become hatred It

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can become it can grow into all kinds

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of things.

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It can actually consume you So as a

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result, I'm gonna break your heart in order

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to remove to heal to expand to give

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you a new one Sometimes we need a

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whole new one Anybody ever felt like I

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just need a whole heart transplant Then yes

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I just need a new one y'all

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The one I have is broke Allahumma salli

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ala sayyidina habibina muhammad wa ala yusuf wa

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sallam So there are a couple of things

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that you also can do if you know,

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you recognize I have a broken heart.

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I Recognize that the heart that I have

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doesn't have the capacity of the type of

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a man that I want That I have

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a broken heart and it doesn't have the

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ability to love like I want it to

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love it doesn't have the type of ability

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to attach to the things that Allah loves

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or Attached to the people that Allah loves

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or for some reason it doesn't have the

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ability to hold the Quran Right.

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It doesn't have the ability right to hold

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on into and to be attached to a

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certain type of knowledge So if you recognize

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right there's some parts of your heart, that's

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you know, there's there's something wrong That's okay.

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Alhamdulillah That's okay.

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Why?

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Because you at least have the type of

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heart that can recognize it which means it's

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not dead so the first thing Hey, the

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first thing you want to do is make

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lots and lots and lots of istighfar You

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want to make lots and lots and lots

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of tawbah What tawbah says is Ya Rabbi,

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I've been feeding my heart the wrong things

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I've been turning my heart and giving my

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heart the attention for the wrong things So

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literally tawbah comes from tawbah which means to

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turn around Say ya Allah, let me expose

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my heart to your light to your mercy

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to your growth to your expansion So you

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turn around right and then you make a

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resolution The first one is I Don't want

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to do that again.

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I don't want to do that again because

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I recognize that's leading me the wrong way

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And I I'm not interested in going the

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wrong way Alright, so you turn around you

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make a resolution.

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I'm not gonna do that again Then if

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there's certain people in your life that you

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know, I every time I'm with you we

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commit this in Every time I leave you

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I always leave with this sickening feeling I

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always leave with my heart more restricted my

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heart more constricted should I say I don't

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leave with my heart expanded.

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I don't leave more full of light.

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I don't leave feeling well I leave knowing

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something is wrong.

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So we got you know, me and you

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either we change I have to change Either

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something changes about the way that we relate

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to each other or I'm going to have

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to change the way that I relate to

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you See boundaries are setting those boundaries to

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say I I need to grow in this

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way All right, and sometimes that's very difficult

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to do.

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Sometimes we feel like I don't really have

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the words to say that sister I sure

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what do I say?

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You just said I'm trying to go to

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heaven Right, and there's just some things some

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changes I have to make in my life

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because I'm trying to go to heaven or

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Just keep it, you know even more so

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like I'm real scared these days, you know

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I was I was learning about * and

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Looks, it sounds real horrible, and I can't

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go Not even for a minute It's not

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gonna work out for me.

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And again, sometimes those boundaries are about I

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love you Hey, and that's part of the

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problem That my love for you causes me

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to accept certain things that I shouldn't And

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I recognize the kind of love the way

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that you live your life and Although I

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I respect that.

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That's the way you live your life.

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I Understand that's the way you deal with

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your heart But I can't allow you to

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be reckless with mine.

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I Can't allow you to be reckless with

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my life or reckless with my Africa or

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reckless with my heart So it doesn't mean

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that I don't care about you.

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I Continue to make the offer you I

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Definitely, you know, I just have to make

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certain decisions about how I want to handle

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my life It's just maybe we have different

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values about the way you handle your life

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and the way you handle your heart and

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I have to kind of determine and decide

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for myself the way I want to handle

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my heart Because that's gonna determine how I

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handle my life And so it's okay to

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set gently lovingly set those boundaries I Love

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you, which is not gonna work out.

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Let me you mean you don't always work

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out So that's you know, and you and

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you leave it at that so that's one

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aspect Another thing what happened to do that?

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This is like shout out to dr.

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Rania Is that if you know your heart

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is broken and it's broken from a deep

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trauma or deep pain That's okay nobody's the

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same way if you broke your leg nobody's

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expecting you to get up and run a

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marathon Nobody's expecting you to go, you know

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beats Shikari Richardson.

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Nobody's expecting that of you Some of you

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like who don't worry Behind nobody's expecting you

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to go run a hundred meter race, right?

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Nobody's expecting that of you if you broke

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your leg Sometimes you have to go to

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the doctor You broke your leg.

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It's you know, you gotta go to the

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doctor.

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I need help.

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I need any physical therapy There is actually

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as such thing as a broken heart syndrome

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Where people as we all know with you've

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ever experienced a broken heart, you know that

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a broken heart releases cortisol in your brain

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It reduces stress hormones in your brain Right.

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It's in your brain, right cortisol Somewhere that's

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what she's for.

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See anything That's why you go to the

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doctor Go to the doctor That it releases

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a stress hormone Right, you literally start to

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feel it in your body Which is why

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when it goes untreated you literally subhanallah go

00:31:01 --> 00:31:02

into a depression.

00:31:02 --> 00:31:03

You just sick, right?

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

I just don't want to get out of

00:31:05 --> 00:31:05

bed.

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You start to feel pain in your body

00:31:07 --> 00:31:08

when you have that kind of broken heart

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He's like I you go to the doctor

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and say I need help.

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I Need some guidance.

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I'm when you know Preferably you go to

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someone because we have them available who's trained

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in our tradition Someone who can subhanallah, of

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course treat you from the Quran That is

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a healing and a mercy as she found

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Rahman who can give you the tools Sometimes

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it's true.

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We just work.

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We just weren't taught certain things We just

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weren't you know, there's there's certain things that

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just weren't a part of our you know

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That it's not in our literacy bank.

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It's not in our emotional literacy, right?

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We just don't know them We just don't

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have those tools in our toolbox Not everyone

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grew up with like the most emotionally intelligent

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Community or the most emotionally intelligent parents not

00:32:02 --> 00:32:04

everybody grew up with that So we don't

00:32:04 --> 00:32:07

all necessarily have those tools and that's not

00:32:07 --> 00:32:07

bad.

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It just recognize like I don't know quantum

00:32:09 --> 00:32:16

physics right, I don't When I need it

00:32:16 --> 00:32:19

for something like even what I like chemical

00:32:19 --> 00:32:21

engineering I don't know chemical engineering when it

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comes time to like, okay We got to

00:32:22 --> 00:32:24

figure out how we're gonna get rid of

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

these parasites in this water I'm going to

00:32:25 --> 00:32:30

a chemical engineer because they know so in

00:32:30 --> 00:32:33

this case go to somebody who can help

00:32:33 --> 00:32:36

you and That's not I don't want you

00:32:36 --> 00:32:37

know subhanallah.

00:32:37 --> 00:32:38

We have so much stigma around it in

00:32:38 --> 00:32:39

our community.

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41

We think all that's backbiting I don't want

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

us know how many left do you you're

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

trying to have confidentiality, right?

00:32:46 --> 00:32:48

of course You're not gonna put out their

00:32:48 --> 00:32:50

business in the community, right?

00:32:50 --> 00:32:51

Of course not.

00:32:52 --> 00:32:56

Of course not So I don't want us

00:32:56 --> 00:32:59

to see that as something that subhanallah would

00:32:59 --> 00:33:02

be you know, that would be backbiting Sometimes

00:33:02 --> 00:33:04

it's just we need to get the skills

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

Right, we need to we need to learn

00:33:07 --> 00:33:09

new we need to learn new habits new

00:33:09 --> 00:33:12

ways of communicating new ways of relating with

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

people New ways for how to navigate our

00:33:14 --> 00:33:17

own life new ways for actually how to

00:33:17 --> 00:33:19

talk and to deal with our own hearts

00:33:20 --> 00:33:26

So that's one aspect The next one is

00:33:26 --> 00:33:29

that I cannot express to you how much

00:33:29 --> 00:33:34

subhanallah the Quran The Quran is a shifa

00:33:34 --> 00:33:35

or ahma.

00:33:36 --> 00:33:40

It is a healing and a mercy But

00:33:40 --> 00:33:42

I want it to you to recite it

00:33:42 --> 00:33:44

not just in a manner that's on your

00:33:44 --> 00:33:47

tongue But to recite the Quran from your

00:33:47 --> 00:33:53

heart That's when you're reciting recite it from

00:33:53 --> 00:33:57

your heart Reciting you know with the intention

00:33:57 --> 00:34:01

of Healing your heart with the intention of

00:34:01 --> 00:34:04

exposing yourself to all of its healing qualities

00:34:04 --> 00:34:10

and its expansion When you're reading it, right?

00:34:10 --> 00:34:12

Let your let the you know, they say

00:34:12 --> 00:34:14

the eyes are the windows to the soul.

00:34:15 --> 00:34:19

Let it sink into your heart Take time

00:34:19 --> 00:34:24

to ponder on its meanings That somehow subhanallah.

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

I don't know what happened.

00:34:26 --> 00:34:29

But somehow we gave meditation over to other

00:34:29 --> 00:34:35

traditions right Right, but meditation is something that

00:34:35 --> 00:34:38

is that is directly prophetic from Rasul Allah

00:34:38 --> 00:34:38

Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:40

What was he doing in the cave for

00:34:40 --> 00:34:40

30 days?

00:34:42 --> 00:34:47

What was he doing He was meditating he

00:34:49 --> 00:34:54

was reflecting Over his own state Over his

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

role and position in the world over the

00:34:57 --> 00:35:00

magnificence of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala About

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

his life's purpose.

00:35:01 --> 00:35:04

He was meditating and he had it as

00:35:04 --> 00:35:07

a regular practice and the more and more

00:35:07 --> 00:35:10

Revelation as it was coming to him the

00:35:10 --> 00:35:13

more and more he increased his time in

00:35:13 --> 00:35:17

meditation You have to have time.

00:35:17 --> 00:35:22

We're actually you're listening to your heart You

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

actually have to have time to sit in

00:35:24 --> 00:35:26

and actually say to your heart.

00:35:26 --> 00:35:27

How are you?

00:35:30 --> 00:35:35

Why are you so angry Why are you

00:35:35 --> 00:35:41

so sad Or I actually don't know what

00:35:41 --> 00:35:44

I'm feeling Because I haven't had a chance

00:35:44 --> 00:35:45

to let it sink in for a minute

00:35:45 --> 00:35:49

So you need those moments where you're living

00:35:49 --> 00:35:50

you had you have to have a relationship

00:35:50 --> 00:35:55

with your heart So that it can have

00:35:55 --> 00:36:02

a relationship with you You have to have

00:36:02 --> 00:36:05

time where you're sitting and you're talking to

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

it and you're allowing your heart to speak

00:36:07 --> 00:36:13

back to you Then and only then Will

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

you know it's level its health or not

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18

Its health or sickness and what is the

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

nature of its health or its sickness?

00:36:24 --> 00:36:37

and then Asmaa al-husna Bi dhikrillah Dhikrillah

00:36:38 --> 00:36:45

Tatama'inun Qulubu That the dhikr of Allah

00:36:45 --> 00:36:51

is something where the hearts find rest Right,

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

it's something where the hearts find rest.

00:36:53 --> 00:37:08

It's where the hearts subhanAllah find healing this

00:37:08 --> 00:37:13

takes a Certain type of patience with yourself

00:37:17 --> 00:37:21

Allowing your heart subhanAllah to have there has

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

to be where you push back the dunya

00:37:24 --> 00:37:27

And you take time to sit with yourself

00:37:27 --> 00:37:30

and literally to reflect over the names of

00:37:30 --> 00:37:35

Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala Up out of the

00:37:35 --> 00:37:40

Asmaa al-husna There are what I would

00:37:40 --> 00:37:44

say cures right for different diseases of the

00:37:44 --> 00:37:48

heart So this is something you want to

00:37:48 --> 00:37:52

take your time with Take time subhanAllah I

00:37:52 --> 00:37:55

can tell you that literally even reciting those

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

names of Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala from your

00:37:57 --> 00:38:01

heart by the way When you when you

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

recite the names of Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

00:38:03 --> 00:38:05

from your heart It's gonna it's gonna come

00:38:05 --> 00:38:07

out in a different voice than when you're

00:38:07 --> 00:38:08

saying it.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:11

Let's say from your lungs or When you're

00:38:11 --> 00:38:15

saying it from your head You might be

00:38:15 --> 00:38:19

surprised the voice that it comes out It

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

might not be that strong powerful voice that

00:38:21 --> 00:38:23

you know that like I got it voice.

00:38:23 --> 00:38:28

It might come out broken So Just be

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

prepared that when you recite the Asmaa al

00:38:30 --> 00:38:33

-husna from your heart it might sound like

00:38:33 --> 00:38:39

a very different voice the next thing is

00:38:40 --> 00:38:43

Is that you've got to you've got to

00:38:43 --> 00:38:48

give it nourishment The heart needs nourishment Dhikr

00:38:48 --> 00:38:52

is a part of its food Qiyam al

00:38:52 --> 00:38:57

-layl That khalwa with Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala

00:38:59 --> 00:39:05

That khalwa with Allah azawajal That's SubhanAllah, that's

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

a that's a that's a that's a feast

00:39:07 --> 00:39:10

for the heart moments where you can stand

00:39:10 --> 00:39:13

in the middle of the night and Yes,

00:39:13 --> 00:39:15

I want you to stand subhanAllah and if

00:39:15 --> 00:39:17

you can recite the Quran of course as

00:39:17 --> 00:39:19

much as you can as much as you

00:39:19 --> 00:39:22

Can stand in the night and recite Quran,

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24

but also I want you to make dua

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

to Allah in the middle of the night

00:39:26 --> 00:39:29

I'm not I'm not talking about just Quranic

00:39:29 --> 00:39:29

dua.

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

I'm talking about when you're like, no one's

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36

listening You know whether for me is like

00:39:36 --> 00:39:39

in my walk-in closet Or I'm distant

00:39:39 --> 00:39:42

from other people or in sujood when you

00:39:42 --> 00:39:48

whisper The moment where you literally talk to

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala and you admit your

00:39:50 --> 00:39:54

brokenness and you say yeah Allah I'm so

00:39:54 --> 00:39:55

broken.

00:39:55 --> 00:39:57

I don't even know how to fix it

00:39:59 --> 00:40:04

No, I'm so sad Or Yeah, I'll be

00:40:04 --> 00:40:07

I'm so happy That's also true, right?

00:40:07 --> 00:40:07

I love you.

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

I am so happy.

00:40:09 --> 00:40:13

Please keep me happy But hey Yeah, I

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

love this love.

00:40:14 --> 00:40:15

I'm experiencing.

00:40:15 --> 00:40:16

It's so great.

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

Yeah, I would do.

00:40:18 --> 00:40:22

Thank you Yeah, I'll be thank you give

00:40:22 --> 00:40:27

sugar gotta be I gotta tell you I

00:40:27 --> 00:40:29

Got that I just want to talk to

00:40:29 --> 00:40:31

you about it.

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

Oh Yeah, I'll be I'm so confused I

00:40:36 --> 00:40:39

Don't even my heart is not matching with

00:40:39 --> 00:40:45

my mind we are out of alignment So

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

it will tussle may be happy laughing to

00:40:47 --> 00:40:50

me and what I thought I could Hold

00:40:50 --> 00:40:51

on to the rope of Allah and don't

00:40:51 --> 00:40:52

be divided.

00:40:52 --> 00:40:54

Mostly we talking about this as it relates

00:40:54 --> 00:40:56

to the community I'm talking about the community

00:40:56 --> 00:40:59

of self When my mind is going one

00:40:59 --> 00:41:02

way my heart is going another my soul

00:41:02 --> 00:41:04

is saying no we should go up My

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

mind is saying no we have to focus

00:41:05 --> 00:41:08

on the dunya because of these bills Right.

00:41:08 --> 00:41:10

My heart is like but I really like

00:41:10 --> 00:41:10

this person.

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

My heart is going in another direction You

00:41:13 --> 00:41:17

need an alignment Yeah, I'll be making me

00:41:17 --> 00:41:26

a reflection of toheem And then you know,

00:41:26 --> 00:41:28

I'm gonna put them on the Colombo home

00:41:28 --> 00:41:31

beat the kitty left I'll be the kitty

00:41:31 --> 00:41:32

lady.

00:41:32 --> 00:41:35

That's a my own on Colombo That the

00:41:35 --> 00:41:38

translation is those who have believed and whose

00:41:38 --> 00:41:41

hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allah

00:41:42 --> 00:41:45

Unquestionably by the remembrance of Allah arts are

00:41:45 --> 00:41:53

assured the first part is And Nadina Amanu

00:41:56 --> 00:41:58

You have to have I mean it was

00:41:58 --> 00:42:03

like it's it's not just like faith It's

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

Like there's this is where I understand that

00:42:05 --> 00:42:07

this is where my safety is.

00:42:07 --> 00:42:09

It's not just I believe in Allah I

00:42:09 --> 00:42:14

it's not just Shahada It's not just Shahada

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

It's like Allah I know that you're my

00:42:18 --> 00:42:21

security I know that you're my safety I

00:42:23 --> 00:42:27

Have certainty about that So sometimes it's like

00:42:27 --> 00:42:33

I've submitted Right, I have Islam I've submitted

00:42:34 --> 00:42:37

But to be moment is as another matter

00:42:38 --> 00:42:41

So that means right, but for those who

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

understand that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala is their

00:42:43 --> 00:42:49

safety That Allah is their refuge For those

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

when they when when the the more and

00:42:51 --> 00:42:52

more and by the way The way you

00:42:52 --> 00:42:55

build up from just submission to believe right

00:42:55 --> 00:43:00

is the good Allah But the one who

00:43:00 --> 00:43:01

understands you ought to be this is my

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

safety so that's why I run to you

00:43:02 --> 00:43:12

you my true refuge it's like a It's

00:43:12 --> 00:43:16

like a cycle The more you remember Allah

00:43:16 --> 00:43:18

the more your heart the more you will

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

increase Iman the more you increase in Iman

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22

the more you increase In that surety that

00:43:22 --> 00:43:25

certainty that Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala is your

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

refuge in your security the more you have

00:43:27 --> 00:43:30

done the more you make Right, the more

00:43:30 --> 00:43:35

your heart will be Calm So there's a

00:43:35 --> 00:43:38

certain time I heart to like this We're

00:43:38 --> 00:43:40

in a state of duress and we're in

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

the state of worry in the state of

00:43:42 --> 00:43:46

stress Then there's another time you're like cut

00:43:46 --> 00:43:48

it on my shot on it You ever

00:43:48 --> 00:43:50

been in a certain situation you like I've

00:43:50 --> 00:43:52

been here so many times before Shaitan.

00:43:52 --> 00:43:55

You can't get me I Seen Allah rescue

00:43:55 --> 00:43:56

me from this so many times.

00:43:56 --> 00:44:01

I've seen this already But The way that

00:44:01 --> 00:44:03

happens is you actually got to remember Allah

00:44:04 --> 00:44:07

you got to remember those moments like Yeah

00:44:08 --> 00:44:12

We did this before Allah came to my

00:44:12 --> 00:44:12

rescue.

00:44:13 --> 00:44:14

I'm grateful.

00:44:14 --> 00:44:18

Yeah, I'd be I Know you You're the

00:44:18 --> 00:44:22

rescuer You won't come to me again be

00:44:22 --> 00:44:23

in there.

00:44:23 --> 00:44:26

I'll be and And you tell me stories

00:44:26 --> 00:44:28

and over and over and over again in

00:44:28 --> 00:44:30

the Quran about how you came to their

00:44:30 --> 00:44:39

rescue so That one the car Allah Yeah,

00:44:39 --> 00:44:42

I'm Elaine Quran the next one is Hidma

00:44:44 --> 00:44:48

Hidma Hidma Hidma Serve somebody else get your

00:44:48 --> 00:44:49

mind off your own problems.

00:44:49 --> 00:44:50

Trust me.

00:44:50 --> 00:44:52

There are people who have bigger problems than

00:44:52 --> 00:44:55

you Okay, there are people who are and

00:44:55 --> 00:44:57

you're thinking that's a kind of line you

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

we may have a lot of problems There's

00:44:59 --> 00:45:01

a privilege that you have that you can

00:45:01 --> 00:45:04

serve from that privilege Hey Even if it's

00:45:04 --> 00:45:06

something small you can wash dishes.

00:45:07 --> 00:45:09

I know you can come read to somebody

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

who's elderly You can just go bring them

00:45:11 --> 00:45:13

drop them off a bag of groceries.

00:45:13 --> 00:45:16

You can provide for them even something small

00:45:17 --> 00:45:20

From your privilege that you have you can

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

benefit somebody else and sometimes in that Hidma

00:45:22 --> 00:45:25

Why you start to become grateful for your

00:45:25 --> 00:45:26

own situation?

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

So Hidma helps Hidma is a huge healer,

00:45:30 --> 00:45:33

so that's when subhanAllah you're in a state

00:45:33 --> 00:45:36

of mending your own heart Now I want

00:45:36 --> 00:45:38

to talk about how you are when you

00:45:38 --> 00:45:41

are the one who's responsible for helping others

00:45:41 --> 00:45:44

How did the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam?

00:45:45 --> 00:45:49

Heal the hearts of others the first one

00:45:50 --> 00:45:52

Which I just find to me up to

00:45:52 --> 00:45:54

be honest so amazing is he came to

00:45:54 --> 00:45:58

their level and was relatable That yes, he's

00:45:58 --> 00:46:01

the messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

00:46:02 --> 00:46:06

But he would literally relate to them Okay,

00:46:07 --> 00:46:09

people would come to them with with all

00:46:09 --> 00:46:12

kinds of problems as we're very familiar there's

00:46:12 --> 00:46:15

a woman who had mental illness and She

00:46:15 --> 00:46:17

would come to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

sallam and said ya Rasulullah like I need

00:46:19 --> 00:46:20

you I need you.

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

I just need to talk to you and

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

He would say choose any street any alley

00:46:26 --> 00:46:33

in Medina I'll be there And she would

00:46:33 --> 00:46:35

find him and he would sit with her

00:46:35 --> 00:46:39

on the street in Medina not paved like

00:46:39 --> 00:46:42

we have now No street cleaners like he'd

00:46:42 --> 00:46:44

sit up with her and let her talk

00:46:44 --> 00:46:50

and get it out Talk therapy he would

00:46:50 --> 00:46:56

listen to her for hours Now of course

00:46:56 --> 00:46:59

most of us are like listen I'm busy.

00:47:00 --> 00:47:02

I Have like 200 people.

00:47:02 --> 00:47:03

I had to pick up my kids from

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05

school In addition to that I got to

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

get dinner on the table by 7 o

00:47:07 --> 00:47:13

'clock I've got work Hey, he could have

00:47:13 --> 00:47:15

said there are a number of people within

00:47:15 --> 00:47:18

the community that you can talk to He

00:47:18 --> 00:47:20

didn't say don't you know him the messenger

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

of Allah How many people want to talk

00:47:22 --> 00:47:22

to me?

00:47:25 --> 00:47:26

He said choose a street.

00:47:26 --> 00:47:27

I'll be there.

00:47:27 --> 00:47:34

You'll find me He was relatable Even to

00:47:34 --> 00:47:39

children He comes from the Battle of Uhud

00:47:39 --> 00:47:42

One of the most difficult moments in the

00:47:42 --> 00:47:44

life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

00:47:44 --> 00:47:48

Where literally he has seen his companions dismembered

00:47:51 --> 00:47:53

on the in the Battle of Uhud the

00:47:53 --> 00:47:55

companions say we never heard a groan from

00:47:55 --> 00:47:57

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Like we

00:47:57 --> 00:47:59

heard in that moment when he saw his

00:47:59 --> 00:48:02

uncle Hamza but I do a little timeline

00:48:02 --> 00:48:06

and Yeah, when he would turn back from

00:48:06 --> 00:48:08

that battle He heard that one of the

00:48:08 --> 00:48:11

children and that children in his community his

00:48:11 --> 00:48:13

his pet bird mayor had lost his bird

00:48:15 --> 00:48:17

Hey, so he said to him he got

00:48:17 --> 00:48:19

down and he said tell me about your

00:48:19 --> 00:48:24

bird what he used to do Meaning he

00:48:24 --> 00:48:25

had the moment just to relate.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:30

I understand loss You lost your bird He

00:48:30 --> 00:48:32

just wanted to take a minute to let

00:48:32 --> 00:48:33

him know that I didn't forget you.

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37

I know that that bird was important to

00:48:37 --> 00:48:41

you How many times we come home and

00:48:41 --> 00:48:43

our children want to tell us something?

00:48:45 --> 00:48:47

Hey or something happened with them, but we

00:48:47 --> 00:48:49

don't maybe they're upset about something that happened

00:48:49 --> 00:48:52

at school Maybe we're so busy in our

00:48:52 --> 00:48:53

own affairs.

00:48:53 --> 00:48:55

We don't take the time to mend their

00:48:55 --> 00:48:58

heart Or take the time to even listen

00:48:58 --> 00:49:01

to their heart How was school?

00:49:02 --> 00:49:08

fine It was fine Are we listening for

00:49:08 --> 00:49:16

those subtleties That sounds tell me what was

00:49:16 --> 00:49:19

fine about it Were there any struggles?

00:49:20 --> 00:49:22

We have to just take those moments to

00:49:22 --> 00:49:30

listen Make yourself available as we know One

00:49:30 --> 00:49:31

of my favorite moments in the life of

00:49:31 --> 00:49:36

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam He's talking

00:49:36 --> 00:49:39

to our mother With him and our mother

00:49:39 --> 00:49:40

like, you know, tighten it up a woman

00:49:40 --> 00:49:43

comes directly to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

00:49:43 --> 00:49:47

sallam And interrupts them I'm like this woman

00:49:47 --> 00:49:52

is bold Fine like the Prophet I want

00:49:52 --> 00:49:54

you to imagine this thing the Prophet sallallahu

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

alayhi wa sallam The Messenger of Allah is

00:49:56 --> 00:49:59

talking to Omar Ibn Khattab Right.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:03

Most of us would be like Yeah No,

00:50:03 --> 00:50:07

I'm gonna wait Right, there were women that

00:50:07 --> 00:50:09

when Omar went to a room they ran

00:50:09 --> 00:50:12

behind the curtain not this woman This woman

00:50:12 --> 00:50:15

walked straight up to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

00:50:15 --> 00:50:17

wa sallam and Omar Ibn Khattab And was

00:50:17 --> 00:50:19

like Ya Rasulullah, what about the women?

00:50:22 --> 00:50:31

She came from lighthouse Those kind of women

00:50:31 --> 00:50:38

they come from Okinawa Alhamdulillah So she just

00:50:38 --> 00:50:43

go right to the point Omar his mouth

00:50:43 --> 00:50:49

is a gate Like The Prophet sallallahu alayhi

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

wa sallam said, Ya Omar, what do you

00:50:51 --> 00:50:52

think about that?

00:50:54 --> 00:50:55

Wallahi, I didn't even know women could do

00:50:55 --> 00:51:03

that He smiles, Omar this is Adi, he

00:51:03 --> 00:51:05

turns to her what about the women?

00:51:07 --> 00:51:12

What would make a woman do that My

00:51:12 --> 00:51:17

heart is tired of not being noticed My

00:51:17 --> 00:51:19

heart is tired of being on the outside

00:51:20 --> 00:51:22

My heart is tired of being excluded.

00:51:23 --> 00:51:25

My heart is tired of not having access

00:51:26 --> 00:51:29

My heart is broken that other people get

00:51:29 --> 00:51:31

to sit with a messenger of Allah sallallahu

00:51:31 --> 00:51:32

alayhi wa sallam I sit from afar and

00:51:32 --> 00:51:36

just watch and Just yearn and just hope

00:51:36 --> 00:51:38

and just wish that I could be close

00:51:38 --> 00:51:41

to him That I could learn from him.

00:51:42 --> 00:51:45

My heart is tired from that And if

00:51:45 --> 00:51:48

I just don't take my chance Maybe I'll

00:51:48 --> 00:51:50

just walk away from this community.

00:51:53 --> 00:51:56

I You know, I don't feel as if

00:51:56 --> 00:51:59

I'm valued So I'm gonna take my chance

00:52:01 --> 00:52:03

So in that moment the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

00:52:03 --> 00:52:07

wa sallam saw her heart See We were

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09

thinking about her words and her harshness and

00:52:09 --> 00:52:11

you know, we're thinking about that her character

00:52:11 --> 00:52:14

her boldness but sometimes that kind of boldness

00:52:14 --> 00:52:18

comes from a broken heart and The Prophet

00:52:18 --> 00:52:20

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saw her heart and

00:52:22 --> 00:52:27

said You know, he said what about the

00:52:27 --> 00:52:28

women what about them?

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

Said we want access to you Ya Rasulullah

00:52:32 --> 00:52:33

What's day?

00:52:36 --> 00:52:41

Tuesday Tuesday I'll be there So that became

00:52:41 --> 00:52:43

the day that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

00:52:43 --> 00:52:46

sallam Tuesday became the day that the Prophet

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sat for women that

00:52:48 --> 00:52:50

that was his day He came to the

00:52:50 --> 00:52:54

Masjid just to teach them Just to teach

00:52:54 --> 00:52:57

them You know who he brought with them

00:53:01 --> 00:53:04

You know who he brought with them Somebody

00:53:04 --> 00:53:08

else that might feel left out That might

00:53:08 --> 00:53:13

feel like You know, I'm not always included

00:53:13 --> 00:53:16

I'm not always viewed a particular way by

00:53:16 --> 00:53:20

the community Ya Rasulullah So the Prophet sallallahu

00:53:20 --> 00:53:25

alayhi wa sallam took Bilal Radi Allahu ta

00:53:25 --> 00:53:29

'ala Said Bilal I know how people make

00:53:29 --> 00:53:29

you feel.

00:53:29 --> 00:53:31

I know how people break your hearts in

00:53:31 --> 00:53:31

community.

00:53:32 --> 00:53:35

Come be beside me Me and you gonna

00:53:35 --> 00:53:39

hang out Not only that I'm gonna empower

00:53:39 --> 00:53:42

you the same way I empowered those women

00:53:43 --> 00:53:46

I'm gonna you're gonna you're gonna do something

00:53:48 --> 00:53:51

That every single Masjid every prayer they're gonna

00:53:51 --> 00:53:57

do what you did They're gonna call the

00:53:57 --> 00:54:01

event and for people who used to look

00:54:01 --> 00:54:02

down to you.

00:54:02 --> 00:54:06

I'm gonna uplift you You're gonna walk on

00:54:06 --> 00:54:08

their shoulders and you're gonna stand on top

00:54:08 --> 00:54:10

of the Kaaba and You're gonna call the

00:54:10 --> 00:54:13

event from on top of the Kaaba and

00:54:15 --> 00:54:17

it's not yes It's for you to uplift

00:54:17 --> 00:54:20

you to empower you To heal your heart

00:54:20 --> 00:54:22

and let you know how much I value

00:54:22 --> 00:54:28

you and I love you I'm not gonna

00:54:28 --> 00:54:32

dismiss you dismiss your concerns the same way.

00:54:32 --> 00:54:35

So how to love and Someone called me

00:54:35 --> 00:54:35

now.

00:54:36 --> 00:54:39

Oh you son of a black woman Hey,

00:54:39 --> 00:54:41

he came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

00:54:41 --> 00:54:41

sallam.

00:54:42 --> 00:54:45

They got us all the law Like this

00:54:45 --> 00:54:47

is This is what this Muslim said about

00:54:47 --> 00:54:49

me my brother that I'm studying with them.

00:54:50 --> 00:54:50

So long.

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

This is what he said about me Now

00:54:52 --> 00:54:54

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said could

00:54:54 --> 00:54:55

have said well you are a son of

00:54:55 --> 00:54:59

a black woman Right, but he saw his

00:54:59 --> 00:54:59

heart.

00:55:02 --> 00:55:03

I Understand what's happening?

00:55:04 --> 00:55:08

Your brother broke your heart because he discriminated

00:55:08 --> 00:55:13

against you So he doesn't say It out.

00:55:13 --> 00:55:17

Come on be strong Leave it You are

00:55:17 --> 00:55:18

a son of a black woman.

00:55:18 --> 00:55:18

Why are you worried?

00:55:20 --> 00:55:25

He didn't dismiss him He listen he recognized

00:55:25 --> 00:55:29

what the problem is He turned to the

00:55:29 --> 00:55:31

one with the sick heart And said you

00:55:31 --> 00:55:37

still have jahiliya in your heart He reprimanded

00:55:37 --> 00:55:41

him So when we are in positions where

00:55:41 --> 00:55:45

someone comes to us and says And I'm

00:55:45 --> 00:55:46

feeling discriminated.

00:55:46 --> 00:55:51

I'm feeling excluded I'm feeling like, you know,

00:55:51 --> 00:55:52

I want to be close I want to

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

have you know, I want to be have

00:55:54 --> 00:55:58

that brotherly and sisterly love, but I'm feeling

00:55:58 --> 00:56:00

brokenhearted I'm not feeling like I'm getting a

00:56:00 --> 00:56:06

part of that We don't dismiss them We

00:56:06 --> 00:56:09

let them know how we value them We

00:56:09 --> 00:56:13

raise them up Hey, we let their voice

00:56:13 --> 00:56:17

shine through the crowd We look at their

00:56:17 --> 00:56:19

strengths so how to love and say wow

00:56:19 --> 00:56:21

like be loud one of the great he

00:56:21 --> 00:56:23

was a great mathematician He was great at

00:56:23 --> 00:56:24

math.

00:56:24 --> 00:56:25

He was great at business.

00:56:25 --> 00:56:32

He became the Minister of Finance So I

00:56:32 --> 00:56:33

don't want them to think that the only

00:56:33 --> 00:56:35

thing you can do is sing well I

00:56:36 --> 00:56:41

Want them to respect your mind and it's

00:56:41 --> 00:56:43

not like I you know, it's not tokenism

00:56:43 --> 00:56:48

you qualify But I see you I see

00:56:48 --> 00:56:56

you qualified I See you So that's another

00:56:56 --> 00:57:00

way The other one of course don't know

00:57:00 --> 00:57:03

when we always and he smiled He smiled

00:57:04 --> 00:57:06

He would smile at people and make them

00:57:06 --> 00:57:09

feel like You know that feeling with someone

00:57:09 --> 00:57:11

smile so bright and they make you feel

00:57:11 --> 00:57:12

so welcome.

00:57:12 --> 00:57:14

You wonder like are they spending somebody else?

00:57:15 --> 00:57:23

Hey me Something about that smile just like

00:57:23 --> 00:57:24

warms your heart.

00:57:24 --> 00:57:27

It's healing All right, and so he would

00:57:27 --> 00:57:34

smile at people with a beautiful smile Any

00:57:34 --> 00:57:38

of them give them salam, he'd pass by

00:57:38 --> 00:57:40

the women making Salah or in the masjid

00:57:40 --> 00:57:44

salam alaikum He wasn't that was women in

00:57:44 --> 00:57:47

the masjid No, I see you.

00:57:48 --> 00:57:49

You're not invisible.

00:57:50 --> 00:57:55

I see you You're not so you're not

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

a fit not to the point that I

00:57:57 --> 00:58:00

can't give you a salam I see you

00:58:00 --> 00:58:05

I Mean of course who doesn't want a

00:58:05 --> 00:58:06

salam from a prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam

00:58:18 --> 00:58:20

The next one is that so kind of

00:58:20 --> 00:58:21

love for the worried heart there was a

00:58:21 --> 00:58:25

man in the his masjid and He was

00:58:25 --> 00:58:27

sitting and he was weeping and he was

00:58:27 --> 00:58:35

clearly worried that he was stressed and the

00:58:35 --> 00:58:37

Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam came and noticed

00:58:37 --> 00:58:40

him Sat next to him.

00:58:40 --> 00:58:41

What's wrong?

00:58:42 --> 00:58:43

What's wrong?

00:58:44 --> 00:58:46

he started to tell the Prophet salallahu alayhi

00:58:46 --> 00:58:48

wa sallam about his debts and his bills

00:58:48 --> 00:58:50

and Like all his we started to just

00:58:50 --> 00:58:52

literally pour his heart out to the Prophet

00:58:52 --> 00:58:55

salallahu alayhi wa sallam The Prophet alayhi salatu

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

was salam made dua for him, but also

00:58:57 --> 00:59:00

gave him a dua So when come when

00:59:00 --> 00:59:01

someone comes to you, right?

00:59:02 --> 00:59:04

Let's let's make dua together.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:08

I'm gonna pray for you But also subhanAllah,

00:59:08 --> 00:59:09

here's a dua.

00:59:09 --> 00:59:11

You know a dua, right?

00:59:11 --> 00:59:13

He gave him Allahumma la'udhu bika min

00:59:13 --> 00:59:17

alhammu buhazan, wa'udhu bika min ajizu kasan,

00:59:17 --> 00:59:19

wa'udhu bika min jubunu bukhul, wa'udhu

00:59:19 --> 00:59:22

bika min ghalabati daini wa qahri rija'an

00:59:22 --> 00:59:25

He gave him that dua Which also is

00:59:25 --> 00:59:29

like He gave him like a comprehensive dua

00:59:29 --> 00:59:35

That was specific min ghalabati daini wa qahri

00:59:35 --> 00:59:38

rija'an Like he gave him one specific.

00:59:38 --> 00:59:40

Okay, you're complaining about your debt and you're

00:59:40 --> 00:59:42

overpowered by you know, people are you know

00:59:42 --> 00:59:44

Demanding their money from you.

00:59:44 --> 00:59:46

But also I see that it's worrying you

00:59:47 --> 00:59:50

Allahumma la'udhu bika min alhammu buhazan, wa

00:59:50 --> 00:59:51

'udhu bika min ajizu kasan, wa'udhu bika

00:59:51 --> 00:59:53

min ajizu kasan He's saying I see you

00:59:53 --> 00:59:55

I see what it's doing to you.

00:59:55 --> 00:59:58

So I'm gonna give you this dua Right

00:59:58 --> 01:00:03

that's for the whole of your condition When

01:00:03 --> 01:00:06

you're crying for yourself, and by the way,

01:00:06 --> 01:00:10

crying is a big healer We know that

01:00:10 --> 01:00:13

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when his

01:00:13 --> 01:00:18

children passed away, he wept When Khadija passed

01:00:18 --> 01:00:24

away, he wept When he missed you, he

01:00:24 --> 01:00:29

wept There's a time he's sitting in his

01:00:29 --> 01:00:32

masjid, and he's crying so profusely That his

01:00:32 --> 01:00:35

beard, his beloved beard is dripping with tears

01:00:37 --> 01:00:40

Dripping wet, and the companions are like, Ya

01:00:40 --> 01:00:42

Rasulullah, what's wrong?

01:00:43 --> 01:00:44

He said, I miss my brothers.

01:00:45 --> 01:00:48

I miss them He said, Ya Rasulullah, we're

01:00:48 --> 01:00:49

right here.

01:00:49 --> 01:00:55

He said, no, you're my companions My brothers

01:00:55 --> 01:00:59

and my sisters, they're the ones that They

01:00:59 --> 01:01:00

believe in me, and they've never seen me

01:01:03 --> 01:01:07

They love me, they've never met me They

01:01:07 --> 01:01:15

sing salawat, they've never seen my face He

01:01:15 --> 01:01:17

longed for you the way you longed for

01:01:17 --> 01:01:22

him He yearned for your company the way

01:01:22 --> 01:01:27

you yearned for his company So he shared

01:01:27 --> 01:01:34

in our brokenheartedness from missing each other So

01:01:34 --> 01:01:39

of course, crying For yourself and for others,

01:01:40 --> 01:01:43

crying in sujood, crying for your brothers and

01:01:43 --> 01:01:47

sisters That becomes a healing, subhanallah, when you

01:01:47 --> 01:01:51

make dua, right, for them Allah also answers

01:01:51 --> 01:01:54

the dua for you as well But it

01:01:54 --> 01:01:57

becomes a healing, they just, subhanallah, they split,

01:01:58 --> 01:01:59

you ever felt like I can feel somebody

01:01:59 --> 01:02:00

praying for me?

01:02:01 --> 01:02:04

I can feel somebody is making dua for

01:02:04 --> 01:02:07

me Right, because I'm getting strength that I

01:02:07 --> 01:02:08

just, I know I didn't have, somebody is

01:02:08 --> 01:02:13

making dua for me Especially when they're on

01:02:13 --> 01:02:14

umrah or they're on hajj, or you're like,

01:02:14 --> 01:02:17

somebody's like, I just said, right I just

01:02:17 --> 01:02:18

made dua for you in front of the

01:02:18 --> 01:02:20

Ka'bah, you're like, I felt it, I

01:02:20 --> 01:02:23

knew it But even that message you just

01:02:23 --> 01:02:25

all of a sudden feel like, alhamdulillah, it's

01:02:25 --> 01:02:28

gonna get, things are gonna get better Because

01:02:28 --> 01:02:31

you know Somebody cares enough about me to

01:02:31 --> 01:02:34

mention my name to Allah, subhanahu wa ta

01:02:34 --> 01:02:39

'ala To remember me when I'm not with

01:02:39 --> 01:02:42

them, to remember me in my absence, that's

01:02:42 --> 01:02:46

a huge healing That you'll show that I'm

01:02:46 --> 01:02:50

concerned about you I care about you This

01:02:50 --> 01:02:53

is what the Prophet, salallahu alayhi wa sahbihi

01:02:53 --> 01:02:55

wa sallam If we were to list the

01:02:55 --> 01:02:58

ways that he mended hearts He was relatable

01:03:00 --> 01:03:03

He saw people, he saw their hearts, and

01:03:03 --> 01:03:07

then he empowered them He included them, he

01:03:07 --> 01:03:09

made dua for them, he gave dua to

01:03:09 --> 01:03:15

them, he smiled upon them He cared genuinely

01:03:16 --> 01:03:19

And he listened to them Whether he had

01:03:19 --> 01:03:25

the answer or not Sometimes you're like, I

01:03:26 --> 01:03:28

I Actually don't have the answer for that,

01:03:28 --> 01:03:32

other than let's make dua together It doesn't

01:03:32 --> 01:03:34

always mean you have, you know, the answer

01:03:35 --> 01:03:37

You don't always have to have the like,

01:03:37 --> 01:03:40

I can solve this problem Maybe there's some

01:03:40 --> 01:03:44

khidmah that you can do to help, or

01:03:44 --> 01:03:46

maybe it's one of those situations that you're

01:03:46 --> 01:03:49

just like All you can say is that

01:03:49 --> 01:03:53

is tough Let's make dua right now For

01:03:53 --> 01:03:56

Allah to remove that burden from you and

01:03:56 --> 01:04:00

to heal your heart I'm gonna ask Allah,

01:04:00 --> 01:04:05

subhanahu wa ta'ala, to heal you To

01:04:05 --> 01:04:09

comfort you I'm gonna sit and make a

01:04:09 --> 01:04:12

specific dua, I'm gonna sit and say a

01:04:12 --> 01:04:17

hundred, ya Latif, ya Latif, for you I

01:04:17 --> 01:04:19

can see that you're afflicted by many things

01:04:19 --> 01:04:21

I'm gonna sit and when I make my

01:04:21 --> 01:04:23

adhkar, I'm gonna definitely make you a part

01:04:23 --> 01:04:25

of my intention when I'm reading my adhkar

01:04:30 --> 01:04:32

So these are the ways, subhanAllah, just also

01:04:32 --> 01:04:36

being in community, sohbah, with each other It's

01:04:36 --> 01:04:42

healing, subhanAllah, it's healing, it's healing Subhanakallahumma wa

01:04:42 --> 01:04:44

bihamdika ashadu an la ilaha ila anta wa

01:04:44 --> 01:04:47

nastaghfiruka wa natuhu wa inaik Any questions?

01:04:53 --> 01:04:54

Any questions?

01:04:56 --> 01:04:58

Another thing I want to say, the Prophet,

01:04:58 --> 01:04:59

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, used to laugh with

01:04:59 --> 01:05:03

people When they would talk about things, he

01:05:03 --> 01:05:04

would listen, and when they laughed, he would

01:05:04 --> 01:05:08

laugh I don't know about you, but the

01:05:08 --> 01:05:09

thought of the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

01:05:09 --> 01:05:13

laughing The thought of his beautiful teeth to

01:05:13 --> 01:05:14

the point that you could see his molars

01:05:17 --> 01:05:41

That's human Yes So

01:05:41 --> 01:05:43

when you send salawat on the Prophet, sallallahu

01:05:43 --> 01:05:43

alayhi wa sallam, and he answers your prayer

01:05:43 --> 01:05:47

You have two dhikrs in between, you have

01:05:47 --> 01:05:49

the mention of Allah and the Prophet, sallallahu

01:05:49 --> 01:05:51

alayhi wa sallam Right, you say Allahumma sani

01:05:51 --> 01:05:54

ala Sayyidina Muhammad So it is a dua,

01:05:54 --> 01:05:56

so you're mentioning, you have dhikr of Allah

01:05:56 --> 01:05:59

while dhikr of the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa

01:05:59 --> 01:06:00

sallam So I don't want you to think

01:06:00 --> 01:06:02

that if you send salawat on the Prophet,

01:06:02 --> 01:06:03

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Right, because what do

01:06:03 --> 01:06:04

you say?

01:06:04 --> 01:06:06

Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam So there's, if you

01:06:06 --> 01:06:08

mention the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and

01:06:08 --> 01:06:10

you're sending salawat, you have mentioned Allah, subhanahu

01:06:10 --> 01:06:12

wa ta'ala So I don't want you

01:06:12 --> 01:06:15

to think that, like these are, you know,

01:06:15 --> 01:06:18

separate So, when is a good time to

01:06:18 --> 01:06:18

send salawat?

01:06:18 --> 01:06:22

Every time, every time, any time You say

01:06:22 --> 01:06:23

in the morning, in the night, in the

01:06:23 --> 01:06:26

afternoon, after, after your prayers during, you know,

01:06:26 --> 01:06:29

on, of course, Laylatul Juma'ah Right, Laylatul

01:06:29 --> 01:06:32

Juma'ah, Juma'ah itself Rabi'a al

01:06:32 --> 01:06:38

Awal Shaban, Ramadan Muharram All of it, send

01:06:38 --> 01:06:40

salawat on the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

01:06:40 --> 01:06:41

Why?

01:06:42 --> 01:06:45

Innalahu malaikatu yusalluna ala nabiyyaya ala dina amna,

01:06:45 --> 01:06:48

salluwa alayhi wa sallimu taslima Like, even in

01:06:48 --> 01:06:50

sending salawat on the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa

01:06:50 --> 01:06:52

sallam, you're obeying a command from Allah Because

01:06:52 --> 01:06:56

Allah says, salluwa alayhi wa sallimu taslima Right,

01:06:56 --> 01:06:58

so even in that salawat, you're, you're in

01:06:58 --> 01:07:00

a state of ibadah, you're in a state

01:07:00 --> 01:07:04

of Obeying a specific commandment from Allah, subhanahu

01:07:04 --> 01:07:07

wa ta'ala In addition to, you're choosing

01:07:07 --> 01:07:09

to place yourself in the company with Allah

01:07:09 --> 01:07:09

and His angels Why?

01:07:10 --> 01:07:13

Because Allah says, innalahu malaikatu Right, that Allah

01:07:13 --> 01:07:15

and the angels are sending salawat on the

01:07:15 --> 01:07:17

Prophet So if you sit and send salawat

01:07:17 --> 01:07:19

on the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Now

01:07:19 --> 01:07:20

you're in the company of Allah and His

01:07:20 --> 01:07:23

angels Right, so now, when can you do

01:07:23 --> 01:07:26

asma'al husna?

01:07:30 --> 01:07:32

Except post-mortem, like, that's the only time

01:07:33 --> 01:07:35

Don't, any other than that?

01:07:36 --> 01:07:37

Bismillah, would you like to say more about

01:07:37 --> 01:07:37

that?

01:07:37 --> 01:07:46

No, that's for you Yes Marital relations Post

01:07:46 --> 01:07:51

-marital relations Post-marital relations, that's not the

01:07:51 --> 01:07:57

time Yes, or Marital relations Before, but not

01:07:57 --> 01:07:58

after before, you got me?

01:07:58 --> 01:08:03

Yes, you with me, yes You can do

01:08:03 --> 01:08:05

it in both states, but being in a

01:08:05 --> 01:08:07

state of wudu is best Right, the only

01:08:07 --> 01:08:09

time is not in a state of janabah

01:08:13 --> 01:08:14

Anybody else?

01:08:14 --> 01:08:25

Yes, bismillah Wa alaikum salam to Allah Yes

01:08:26 --> 01:08:28

She said, how can we heal a broken

01:08:28 --> 01:08:29

heart when someone has passed away?

01:08:30 --> 01:08:32

Yeah, so the, one of the things is

01:08:32 --> 01:08:36

that recognize That you are definitely in the

01:08:36 --> 01:08:37

sunnah of the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

01:08:37 --> 01:08:40

Number one, he was sad when someone passed

01:08:40 --> 01:08:43

away So I don't want you to necessarily

01:08:43 --> 01:08:47

think that That that broken heart is a

01:08:47 --> 01:08:51

bad thing Right, like that's actually a sign

01:08:51 --> 01:08:52

that your heart is alive And a sign

01:08:52 --> 01:08:55

of mercy But the other thing is, is

01:08:55 --> 01:08:58

that the remembrance that This dunya is not

01:08:58 --> 01:09:02

forever, inshallah, you'll see them again Right Especially

01:09:02 --> 01:09:06

if they're Muslims, alhamdulillah, you're gonna see them

01:09:06 --> 01:09:12

again, inshallah And they're levels, right, they're levels

01:09:12 --> 01:09:15

For example, even in the case of Nabiullah

01:09:15 --> 01:09:23

Yaqub When he lost Yusuf We know that

01:09:23 --> 01:09:26

he cried until, subhanallah, there's a coating over

01:09:26 --> 01:09:28

his eyes And he was like, I'm just

01:09:28 --> 01:09:30

gonna complain of my grief and sorrow to

01:09:30 --> 01:09:35

Allah So he never stopped making dua Right

01:09:35 --> 01:09:37

And the truth of it is that, subhanallah,

01:09:38 --> 01:09:40

Allah This love that Allah subhanahu wa ta

01:09:40 --> 01:09:44

'ala puts in our hearts You know, it's

01:09:44 --> 01:09:49

from al-wadood So, we just keep asking

01:09:49 --> 01:09:51

Allah Ya Rabbi grant them husnul khatm, Ya

01:09:51 --> 01:09:53

Rabbi please Bless me to be in jannah

01:09:53 --> 01:09:55

with them And make so much dua for

01:09:55 --> 01:09:57

them, maybe establish a sadaqah jariah for them

01:09:57 --> 01:10:01

There are things, what I learned Is that,

01:10:01 --> 01:10:04

subhanallah, the relationship with that person is not

01:10:04 --> 01:10:07

over See, sometimes we think like death I

01:10:07 --> 01:10:10

used to think, like death is such a

01:10:10 --> 01:10:13

final thing One of my family members passed

01:10:13 --> 01:10:16

away and it was Extremely difficult for me

01:10:17 --> 01:10:18

It was the first time in my life

01:10:18 --> 01:10:20

that I was like, okay, I'm, you know,

01:10:20 --> 01:10:22

after a year I was like, okay, now

01:10:22 --> 01:10:23

I'm willing to go to therapy This is

01:10:23 --> 01:10:25

just not getting better, right?

01:10:26 --> 01:10:30

So, but I was thinking that my relationship

01:10:30 --> 01:10:33

with them was over But then what I

01:10:33 --> 01:10:37

learned is that it's not over If they're

01:10:37 --> 01:10:39

Muslims, subhanallah There are so many things that

01:10:39 --> 01:10:41

you can do to keep that relationship going

01:10:42 --> 01:10:45

Right Dua for them, sadaqah for them Different

01:10:45 --> 01:10:47

things that you can do for them, that's

01:10:47 --> 01:10:49

subhanallah That the relationship is not, it's not,

01:10:50 --> 01:10:53

it's not final Right And insha'Allah, bi

01:10:53 --> 01:10:55

-idhni rabbi Also make dua, ya rabbi, please

01:10:55 --> 01:11:00

give them jannah Make their graves spacious Let

01:11:00 --> 01:11:03

them be visited by the prophet, sallallahu alayhi

01:11:03 --> 01:11:05

wa sallam I can recite Quran and give

01:11:05 --> 01:11:08

it to them There are different things that

01:11:08 --> 01:11:10

you can do for them, insha'Allah So

01:11:10 --> 01:11:12

that you keep that relationship going And bi

01:11:12 --> 01:11:14

-idhni rabbi, they will visit you in your

01:11:14 --> 01:11:18

dreams Insha'Allah I just find that comforting

01:11:18 --> 01:11:21

when I see them, yes Ma'alikum salam

01:11:21 --> 01:11:24

to all One of the first things is

01:11:24 --> 01:11:31

that We always have to know That there

01:11:31 --> 01:11:36

is something to smile about Even, subhanallah, in

01:11:36 --> 01:11:40

all of the darkness and the crazy Then

01:11:40 --> 01:11:45

I'll give you an example There was a

01:11:45 --> 01:11:48

mother, and probably we all heard this narration,

01:11:49 --> 01:11:51

maybe If there was a mother, long story

01:11:51 --> 01:11:57

short This was in Gaza And She, basically,

01:11:57 --> 01:11:59

long story short, they had gotten They were

01:11:59 --> 01:12:02

told to go from one place to another

01:12:02 --> 01:12:04

And they, you know, did what they were

01:12:04 --> 01:12:06

told But as they started to walk from

01:12:06 --> 01:12:09

the north to the south To the Rafah

01:12:09 --> 01:12:11

border at that time Then bombs started to

01:12:11 --> 01:12:15

go off So she had gotten separated from

01:12:15 --> 01:12:18

her son So as her son was running

01:12:18 --> 01:12:24

toward her Basically, a bomb separated them And,

01:12:25 --> 01:12:26

you know, of course, this, you know, just

01:12:26 --> 01:12:31

Her heart, as a mother Subhanallah That night

01:12:31 --> 01:12:34

she had a dream The story is from

01:12:34 --> 01:12:36

her She said that night, she had a

01:12:36 --> 01:12:40

dream of her son And she asked him,

01:12:40 --> 01:12:40

what happened?

01:12:42 --> 01:12:43

He said, mama, I don't know I was

01:12:43 --> 01:12:47

running toward you And then, all of a

01:12:47 --> 01:12:49

sudden, I was running Like, to run toward

01:12:49 --> 01:12:50

you in the street And then all of

01:12:50 --> 01:12:51

a sudden, I saw myself running in a

01:12:51 --> 01:13:00

garden When I think about the hadith of

01:13:00 --> 01:13:04

the Prophet ﷺ Saying that the parents who've

01:13:04 --> 01:13:07

lost their children in the dunya That they

01:13:07 --> 01:13:09

are with Prophet Ibrahim, peace be upon him

01:13:10 --> 01:13:13

In this beautiful garden And that they will

01:13:13 --> 01:13:16

stand at the gateways of paradise And on

01:13:16 --> 01:13:19

the day of judgment, they will cry out

01:13:19 --> 01:13:21

to Allah Asking for their parents And Allah,

01:13:22 --> 01:13:25

just to quiet their To remove their cries

01:13:25 --> 01:13:27

and to calm their heart Will bring them

01:13:27 --> 01:13:30

their parents And they will enter into Jannah

01:13:30 --> 01:13:35

with their parents hand in hand That's what

01:13:35 --> 01:13:40

I think about that keeps me smiling It's,

01:13:40 --> 01:13:42

you know, I might be a little bit

01:13:42 --> 01:13:44

odd But even when I think about in

01:13:44 --> 01:13:49

the moment of Tauhid The companions met with

01:13:49 --> 01:13:52

the disbelievers And they were looking over the

01:13:52 --> 01:13:55

bodies And as they were looking over the

01:13:55 --> 01:13:59

bodies At first, the kuffar were laughing And

01:13:59 --> 01:14:01

then the Muslims started to laugh And have,

01:14:01 --> 01:14:04

like, beautiful smiles And the disbelievers were like,

01:14:04 --> 01:14:05

why are you laughing?

01:14:06 --> 01:14:09

Because your dead are in hellfire And our

01:14:09 --> 01:14:12

dead are in Jannah Right?

01:14:12 --> 01:14:15

And I can, like, for us, it's not

01:14:15 --> 01:14:16

the end Right?

01:14:17 --> 01:14:19

For us, if you, like, the dunya is

01:14:19 --> 01:14:22

not the end Like, Allah is gonna have

01:14:22 --> 01:14:26

the final say And just the thought of,

01:14:26 --> 01:14:31

subhanallah, like Even just thinking How Allah is

01:14:31 --> 01:14:36

sending, subhanallah People to Jannah, like shuhada We

01:14:36 --> 01:14:38

were thinking, like, this was just for the

01:14:38 --> 01:14:41

time of the sahaba Right?

01:14:41 --> 01:14:43

And yeah, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is

01:14:43 --> 01:14:48

giving us that chance Like, subhanal khaliq Like,

01:14:48 --> 01:14:53

subhanal khaliq And you know, I live in

01:14:53 --> 01:14:55

a place that Alhamdulillah, has so much beauty

01:14:55 --> 01:14:58

to be honest So much beauty, so much

01:14:58 --> 01:15:00

light, so much nur But yeah, there's so

01:15:00 --> 01:15:04

much poverty in certain areas And so much,

01:15:04 --> 01:15:10

like, so much sickness And you know, sometimes

01:15:10 --> 01:15:13

we go to rural areas And you're like

01:15:22 --> 01:15:26

And yet they smile And greet me and

01:15:26 --> 01:15:34

sing And sing salawat And I'm like Children

01:15:34 --> 01:15:39

who have no parents Children who Have all

01:15:39 --> 01:15:42

kinds of diseases and They're smiling I met

01:15:42 --> 01:15:52

this little boy About four days ago And

01:15:52 --> 01:15:53

he came and he kissed my hand And

01:15:53 --> 01:15:56

he was like He was the, I mean,

01:15:56 --> 01:16:00

the sweetest little boy I mean, just like

01:16:00 --> 01:16:02

You know those teenagers are so, oh my

01:16:02 --> 01:16:06

goodness He came and he kissed my hand

01:16:06 --> 01:16:09

And he said I want you on Celebrate

01:16:09 --> 01:16:13

Mercy And he was so, so sweet I

01:16:13 --> 01:16:14

mean, I just can't tell you how sweet

01:16:14 --> 01:16:16

he was And he just sat there with

01:16:16 --> 01:16:18

me And he was just, like, talking to

01:16:18 --> 01:16:19

me He was mostly just listening And he,

01:16:20 --> 01:16:21

to be honest You know you just have

01:16:21 --> 01:16:22

some children They're just like, you are just

01:16:22 --> 01:16:24

so angelic Right?

01:16:25 --> 01:16:31

His mom was weeping And My scheduler who

01:16:31 --> 01:16:34

was with me Said make dua for him

01:16:35 --> 01:16:37

His mom says that he has a chronic

01:16:37 --> 01:16:44

disease And I was like, subhanallah Does he

01:16:44 --> 01:16:44

know?

01:16:46 --> 01:16:52

She's like, yeah, he knows I was like

01:16:53 --> 01:16:57

La ilaha illallah I was like this That

01:16:57 --> 01:17:01

was like This little sheikh right here Right?

01:17:02 --> 01:17:07

Like, subhanallah And again, no, it's not popular

01:17:07 --> 01:17:08

in our culture Right?

01:17:09 --> 01:17:10

Do we smile at him?

01:17:11 --> 01:17:17

Just Keep your Keep your light Don't let

01:17:17 --> 01:17:19

them dim our light Don't let them take

01:17:19 --> 01:17:23

our smile They're not worthy of that They

01:17:23 --> 01:17:24

don't get to rip the smiles off our

01:17:24 --> 01:17:28

faces No they don't They don't They don't

01:17:28 --> 01:17:33

deserve that To not smile?

01:17:34 --> 01:17:39

Yes, to smile Yeah I find our smiles

01:17:39 --> 01:17:43

to be a resistance Right?

01:17:43 --> 01:17:49

Our smile is a resistance Yeah Tell me

01:17:49 --> 01:17:55

not to smile In addition to When you

01:17:55 --> 01:17:58

smile It does something to the heart Right?

01:17:58 --> 01:18:03

It lifts the heart Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Okay, dear

01:18:03 --> 01:18:03

brothers What's your question?

01:18:03 --> 01:18:04

I know you got one, right?

01:18:05 --> 01:18:06

You have one?

01:18:08 --> 01:18:10

Just raise your hand, brothers Come on Gotta

01:18:10 --> 01:18:16

do this I have one from online From

01:18:16 --> 01:18:18

one of the online viewers I'll read it

01:18:18 --> 01:18:21

off to you How can I amend a

01:18:21 --> 01:18:23

broken heart from spiritual abuse?

01:18:23 --> 01:18:25

I was spiritually abused by a Muslim brother

01:18:25 --> 01:18:28

Who prays on conferences first I no longer

01:18:28 --> 01:18:29

feel comfortable going to the mosque Because the

01:18:29 --> 01:18:32

leadership has done nothing And he is there

01:18:32 --> 01:18:33

often What do I do?

01:18:36 --> 01:18:41

One of the first thing is Is that

01:18:41 --> 01:18:44

Definitely, definitely, definitely There are counselors who are

01:18:44 --> 01:18:47

specialists in spiritual abuse Let me say that

01:18:48 --> 01:18:54

The second thing is Definitely If you're able

01:18:55 --> 01:18:59

Find another masjid Or another place where that

01:18:59 --> 01:19:04

person can go Another thing is like It's

01:19:04 --> 01:19:07

as challenging as it is And I feel

01:19:07 --> 01:19:08

like this is a question for Dr. Rania,

01:19:08 --> 01:19:15

honestly Because sometimes, of course A certain type

01:19:15 --> 01:19:20

of trauma makes us feel Not comfortable, not

01:19:20 --> 01:19:23

easy Or have anxiety in places Right?

01:19:23 --> 01:19:26

In crowds, in people In places that are,

01:19:26 --> 01:19:30

that remind us Of that trauma And so

01:19:30 --> 01:19:33

I know, subhanAllah That's not always easy So

01:19:33 --> 01:19:36

that's a process Just like any other You

01:19:36 --> 01:19:39

know Any other trauma It's a process to

01:19:39 --> 01:19:43

heal from that Two small things I want

01:19:43 --> 01:19:45

to say And I definitely want to hear

01:19:45 --> 01:19:49

from Dr. Rania on this one One Is

01:19:49 --> 01:19:51

never blame Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala For

01:19:51 --> 01:19:56

what people do Right People's diseases are not

01:19:56 --> 01:20:02

the deem They're people's diseases The other thing

01:20:02 --> 01:20:10

is Is that At least part of how

01:20:10 --> 01:20:13

I deal With certain things that have happened

01:20:13 --> 01:20:18

in my life I always try to Say,

01:20:18 --> 01:20:23

you know what This person does not have

01:20:23 --> 01:20:26

right To my heart They don't have right

01:20:26 --> 01:20:30

to my personality They don't have So let

01:20:30 --> 01:20:35

me remove Right Whatever that person has done

01:20:35 --> 01:20:37

Let me give it back to them Let

01:20:37 --> 01:20:39

me give them back their trauma Let me

01:20:39 --> 01:20:40

give them back their issues Let me hand

01:20:40 --> 01:20:43

that back to them And remove myself Right

01:20:44 --> 01:20:48

Because they don't have For me, there is

01:20:48 --> 01:20:52

a certain resistance In saying I don't give

01:20:52 --> 01:20:55

you permission To affect me for the rest

01:20:55 --> 01:20:58

of my life I don't give you permission

01:20:58 --> 01:21:02

to dictate My spirituality I don't give you

01:21:02 --> 01:21:04

permission to dictate where I go and come

01:21:10 --> 01:21:12

I just wanted to say About the spiritual

01:21:12 --> 01:21:15

abuse discussion is that For this person who's

01:21:15 --> 01:21:18

asking This is real I want you to

01:21:18 --> 01:21:20

know that this is real And as many

01:21:20 --> 01:21:22

times as people try to tell you that

01:21:22 --> 01:21:23

it's not I want you to know that

01:21:23 --> 01:21:26

it is a possible type of trauma and

01:21:26 --> 01:21:29

abuse There are good resources out there Please

01:21:29 --> 01:21:31

take a look at our teachers who've worked

01:21:31 --> 01:21:34

on this topic in particular Dr. Ingrid Madsen

01:21:34 --> 01:21:38

Who has the Hurma Project She has a

01:21:38 --> 01:21:40

podcast on this topic as well And a

01:21:40 --> 01:21:44

lot of resources Defining it, understanding it, healing

01:21:44 --> 01:21:46

from it Counselors that work with it That

01:21:46 --> 01:21:48

way you have a better sense, Inshallah And

01:21:48 --> 01:21:50

please do not feel that you have to

01:21:50 --> 01:21:53

be the one Who calls out this person

01:21:53 --> 01:21:56

publicly Although we hope that a group of

01:21:56 --> 01:21:58

people will come forward together Because we know

01:21:58 --> 01:22:02

that perpetrators only stop When they're publicly shamed

01:22:02 --> 01:22:04

and called out Unfortunately It's part of human

01:22:04 --> 01:22:07

psychology And this is why in our deen

01:22:07 --> 01:22:09

we have measures in place to do such

01:22:09 --> 01:22:12

a thing But there's no vigilantism either So

01:22:12 --> 01:22:13

you do not have to do this on

01:22:13 --> 01:22:15

your own or by yourself But I want

01:22:15 --> 01:22:17

you to know that this is real And

01:22:17 --> 01:22:18

I pray that Allah subhana wa ta'ala

01:22:18 --> 01:22:21

heals your heart But you're absolutely right, Sheikha

01:22:22 --> 01:22:25

This person and no person Has control over

01:22:25 --> 01:22:27

your heart or your deen May you heal

01:22:27 --> 01:22:29

and move forward, Inshallah In better ways, Ya

01:22:29 --> 01:22:41

Rabbi Brothers Wa

01:22:41 --> 01:22:47

alaikum salam I was wondering, the hadith that

01:22:47 --> 01:22:49

you share often About the tradition of the

01:22:49 --> 01:22:51

woman who approaches the Prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi

01:22:51 --> 01:22:54

wasalam And she has mental health issues And

01:22:54 --> 01:22:56

he says, go to any street, go to

01:22:56 --> 01:22:58

any area and you'll find me there Do

01:22:58 --> 01:23:00

you ever think about or apply that hadith

01:23:00 --> 01:23:02

in a way that's relevant to us Where

01:23:02 --> 01:23:04

the Prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wasalam isn't physically

01:23:04 --> 01:23:06

near But just to go to him when

01:23:06 --> 01:23:11

we have ideas Or we're struggling with Whatever

01:23:11 --> 01:23:13

we may be struggling with But falling back

01:23:13 --> 01:23:15

on that hadith as a reassurance That we

01:23:15 --> 01:23:16

can find him where we look for him

01:23:16 --> 01:23:21

Yes Even inside of that In the ayah

01:23:21 --> 01:23:23

That Allah commands us to send salawats on

01:23:23 --> 01:23:25

the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam And we're not

01:23:25 --> 01:23:27

always in Medina Right?

01:23:27 --> 01:23:33

So The The answer to that is Absolutely

01:23:35 --> 01:23:40

Absolutely Yes and yes and yes again Bismillah

01:23:40 --> 01:23:44

Yes Yes, I can tell you about the

01:23:44 --> 01:23:46

orphanage The Yontaro Project For which this QR

01:23:46 --> 01:23:50

code is for So in the Gambia The

01:23:50 --> 01:23:52

name of the project is called Yontaro Project

01:23:52 --> 01:23:55

Yontaro means the blessed collective Which comes from

01:23:55 --> 01:23:58

Nana Asma'un Nana Asma'un went to

01:23:58 --> 01:24:03

over 800 villages In West Africa Literally teaching

01:24:03 --> 01:24:07

sacred knowledge Giving women economic empowerment As well

01:24:07 --> 01:24:10

as like building clinics and building schools And

01:24:10 --> 01:24:12

so That's what we're trying to do Literally

01:24:12 --> 01:24:15

follow in that legacy Mostly what we're trying

01:24:15 --> 01:24:17

to do is go to heaven To be

01:24:17 --> 01:24:20

honest Let me just keep it real Inside

01:24:20 --> 01:24:24

the Yontaro Project There are We focus mostly

01:24:24 --> 01:24:27

on things that are Sadaqah Jariyah related So

01:24:27 --> 01:24:29

one of them is of course Is which

01:24:29 --> 01:24:31

not You know all of us are like

01:24:31 --> 01:24:32

We're trying to go to Jannah with the

01:24:32 --> 01:24:35

Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wasalam And so the Prophet

01:24:35 --> 01:24:38

sallallahu alaihi wasalam said That whoever takes care

01:24:38 --> 01:24:40

of an orphan Will stand next to me

01:24:40 --> 01:24:43

like this on Yawmul Qiyamah So I'm like

01:24:44 --> 01:24:49

Yes That's what I gotta do Bismillah So

01:24:50 --> 01:24:54

What we have subhanallah Is a school And

01:24:54 --> 01:24:56

in the Gambia Alhamdulillah We have So we

01:24:56 --> 01:24:58

take care of a number of orphans And

01:24:58 --> 01:25:02

let me Kind of give a short little

01:25:02 --> 01:25:04

demonstration For how that goes So the first

01:25:04 --> 01:25:05

thing is that We have our own school

01:25:05 --> 01:25:09

Huraya Academy Which is a boarding school Where

01:25:09 --> 01:25:12

there are 20 orphans Currently in our direct

01:25:12 --> 01:25:16

care And they're They're also integrated So it's

01:25:16 --> 01:25:19

not just Our goal is for them to

01:25:19 --> 01:25:21

feel like You know They're a part of

01:25:21 --> 01:25:23

everyday society We don't want to constantly Like

01:25:23 --> 01:25:25

I don't call them orphans I call them

01:25:25 --> 01:25:28

my babies Right But to let them know

01:25:28 --> 01:25:30

That you know You are with other children

01:25:30 --> 01:25:33

You are You know You are valuable enough

01:25:33 --> 01:25:37

To receive the same education Right Clothing Shelter

01:25:37 --> 01:25:41

Medical care As other children As we would

01:25:41 --> 01:25:43

want Subhanallah If may Allah forbid If something

01:25:43 --> 01:25:45

were to happen to us That we would

01:25:45 --> 01:25:49

want that for our children So But Alhamdulillah

01:25:49 --> 01:25:51

It's challenging To take care of 20 children

01:25:51 --> 01:25:53

Right And we currently have 43 That are

01:25:53 --> 01:25:57

on the waiting list So the children That

01:25:57 --> 01:25:59

are in our direct care Came from very

01:25:59 --> 01:26:04

rural areas So we build Solar powered water

01:26:04 --> 01:26:07

systems In rural areas Where there is no

01:26:07 --> 01:26:09

running water A lot of times there is

01:26:09 --> 01:26:11

no running electricity Which is why they're solar

01:26:11 --> 01:26:14

powered As a result When there is When

01:26:14 --> 01:26:16

there's just a well Or no running water

01:26:16 --> 01:26:19

There's high level of death As it relates

01:26:19 --> 01:26:21

to You know Water borne illness Like parasitic

01:26:21 --> 01:26:25

infection Of course water that's affected by Ground

01:26:25 --> 01:26:29

contamination A lot of times Girls can't go

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to school As a result For having to

01:26:31 --> 01:26:33

walk Sometimes an hour Sometimes more one way

01:26:33 --> 01:26:36

To get water And bring it back So

01:26:36 --> 01:26:39

because they're considered You know That girls You

01:26:39 --> 01:26:41

know If we had to choose Between who

01:26:41 --> 01:26:43

would work In the family The boys would

01:26:43 --> 01:26:45

go And the girls would fetch the water

01:26:45 --> 01:26:47

For the family So then girls can't go

01:26:47 --> 01:26:49

to school As a result of that Of

01:26:49 --> 01:26:54

having that job In the family In addition

01:26:54 --> 01:26:55

to Of course As a result of them

01:26:55 --> 01:26:57

Walking long distances Let's just say many things

01:26:57 --> 01:27:00

Can happen to them Along the way So

01:27:00 --> 01:27:03

what we do is We build underground As

01:27:03 --> 01:27:05

you know We dig to the deep Clean

01:27:05 --> 01:27:08

water aquifers And put in Basically a solar

01:27:08 --> 01:27:11

powered pump And then we bring taps To

01:27:11 --> 01:27:14

either a central region Or to houses So

01:27:14 --> 01:27:16

that means The girls can go to school

01:27:16 --> 01:27:18

It reduces the water infection Of course When

01:27:18 --> 01:27:22

there's an open well Mosquito swarm Causes malaria

01:27:22 --> 01:27:25

Childhood blindness All kinds of problems So we

01:27:25 --> 01:27:26

actually Even if we go to an area

01:27:26 --> 01:27:28

That has a well We seal it And

01:27:28 --> 01:27:31

dig it underground As we have Right?

01:27:31 --> 01:27:34

Underground pipes And things like that Which literally

01:27:34 --> 01:27:36

Subhanallah When those girls can go to school

01:27:36 --> 01:27:38

You literally Subhanallah Change the trajectory Not just

01:27:38 --> 01:27:40

for their lives But for that entire village

01:27:41 --> 01:27:45

And then of course Subhanallah Reduces the illness

01:27:45 --> 01:27:47

And the sickness Which reduces the amount Of

01:27:47 --> 01:27:50

orphans Who actually Are in that community But

01:27:50 --> 01:27:53

meanwhile There are a lot of orphans In

01:27:53 --> 01:27:56

those regions So then It's not When a

01:27:56 --> 01:27:59

child is orphaned Many times There's no one

01:27:59 --> 01:28:01

To pay for them It's not just Their

01:28:01 --> 01:28:03

school fees Even though there are School fees

01:28:04 --> 01:28:06

It's usually like Who's going to pay For

01:28:06 --> 01:28:06

their books?

01:28:07 --> 01:28:09

Who's going to give them Backpacks and You

01:28:09 --> 01:28:11

know Pay for their food When they go

01:28:11 --> 01:28:13

to school Or their You know Notebooks and

01:28:13 --> 01:28:16

pens And uniform And those things That even

01:28:16 --> 01:28:17

if you're In public school You have to

01:28:17 --> 01:28:19

have uniform So a lot of times Children

01:28:19 --> 01:28:22

who are orphaned They don't have that So

01:28:22 --> 01:28:24

then There's nobody To care for them So

01:28:24 --> 01:28:26

as a result They end up Just kind

01:28:26 --> 01:28:33

of being Used as Like manual labor In

01:28:33 --> 01:28:34

someone's home Right?

01:28:35 --> 01:28:36

And they usually Don't have a good Quality

01:28:36 --> 01:28:39

of life So in those A lot of

01:28:39 --> 01:28:40

those villages What we did for those That

01:28:40 --> 01:28:44

we could Currently house We actually Brought them

01:28:44 --> 01:28:46

Into our facility That's why they're Boarding there

01:28:46 --> 01:28:49

So that When they live there We know

01:28:49 --> 01:28:50

that they're Going to get breakfast They're going

01:28:50 --> 01:28:52

to get lunch They're going to get dinner

01:28:52 --> 01:28:53

They're going to get You know Someone who

01:28:53 --> 01:28:55

will Care for them Give them medical care

01:28:55 --> 01:28:57

Dental care Make sure You know They're bathed

01:28:57 --> 01:29:00

properly We make sure We take care of

01:29:00 --> 01:29:02

them Like you You know Literally like Our

01:29:02 --> 01:29:06

own children So that's That's the project In

01:29:06 --> 01:29:10

the Gambia That's the project In the Gambia

01:29:11 --> 01:29:14

So If you are Interested in Orphan care

01:29:14 --> 01:29:16

Or sponsoring an orphan Please let me know

01:29:16 --> 01:29:18

Or you Can go to the QR code

01:29:18 --> 01:29:20

And there's a link for that Right now

01:29:20 --> 01:29:22

We're raising We're having like a Back to

01:29:22 --> 01:29:25

school Because they start school September 30th So

01:29:25 --> 01:29:27

we're looking for You know We're trying to

01:29:27 --> 01:29:29

It's a back to school campaign Where we

01:29:29 --> 01:29:31

can get new Uniforms for them Because they

01:29:31 --> 01:29:33

grow They're growing fast now Right?

01:29:33 --> 01:29:35

And as well as They need backpacks And

01:29:35 --> 01:29:37

you know All the things All the things

01:29:37 --> 01:29:38

That kids do need When they're going back

01:29:38 --> 01:29:41

to school And so If you're interested in

01:29:41 --> 01:29:43

that When you go to the link You'll

01:29:43 --> 01:29:46

see the Back to school campaigns Or if

01:29:46 --> 01:29:58

you're interested In sponsoring the child Yes Depending

01:29:58 --> 01:30:03

on how many you have You got 20?

01:30:03 --> 01:30:04

You have to get a suitcase But yeah

01:30:04 --> 01:30:13

It's possible Alhamdulillah Insha'Allah Insha'Allah Wa

01:30:13 --> 01:30:17

alaikum salatu wa salam Yes They are As

01:30:17 --> 01:30:26

a cat Eligible Well Alhamdulillah I'm ready Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

01:30:26 --> 01:30:30

Alhamdulillah Rabbil Alamin Wassalamu ala Sayyidina Habibina Mawlana

01:30:30 --> 01:30:32

Muhammad Wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam

01:30:32 --> 01:30:36

Ya awwalin awwalin Ya akhirin akhirin Ya dhukuwatin

01:30:36 --> 01:30:39

matinin Ya rahmin masakin Ya rahmu rahimin Ya

01:30:39 --> 01:30:41

rabbi We ask that you bless Every single

01:30:41 --> 01:30:42

one of these people In this masjid tonight

01:30:42 --> 01:30:44

Ya rabbi To be from amongst the inhabitants

01:30:44 --> 01:30:47

Of Jannatul Fardaws al-ana Ya rabbi Bless

01:30:47 --> 01:30:49

them to see the prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa

01:30:49 --> 01:30:51

sallam In their dreams Ya Allah Ya rabbi

01:30:51 --> 01:30:53

Make us from amongst Those who have Fitur

01:30:53 --> 01:30:55

al-arifeen Ya rabbi Increase us in knowledge

01:30:55 --> 01:30:58

And in wisdom Ya rabbi Heal our hearts

01:30:58 --> 01:31:00

Ya Allah Ya rabbi We ask that you

01:31:00 --> 01:31:02

illuminate Our hearts with a light From your

01:31:02 --> 01:31:03

light And a guidance From your guidance Ya

01:31:03 --> 01:31:06

rahmu rahimin And make us from amongst Those

01:31:06 --> 01:31:09

who have success In this life And success

01:31:09 --> 01:31:11

in the hereafter And make this gathering A

01:31:11 --> 01:31:13

means by which we're all safe From the

01:31:13 --> 01:31:14

torment of the grave The punishment of the

01:31:14 --> 01:31:16

hawfar Even for the blink of an eye

01:31:16 --> 01:31:19

Ya rabbi Please protect and preserve Our children

01:31:19 --> 01:31:20

And those that are close to us And

01:31:20 --> 01:31:23

love us And our entire lineage To yawm

01:31:23 --> 01:31:26

al-qiyamah Ya rabbi Bless MCC Forever Ya

01:31:26 --> 01:31:29

Allah And all of our teachers And all

01:31:29 --> 01:31:32

those who support This community Subhanak Allahumma Wa

01:31:32 --> 01:31:34

bihamdik Ashadu an la ilaha ilana anta wa

01:31:34 --> 01:31:38

nastaghfiruka wa natubu ilayk Allahumma Ameen Jazakum Allah

01:31:38 --> 01:31:42

And khayr Assalamu alaykum Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

01:31:42 --> 01:31:42

Thank you

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