Obligation Of Tarbiyyah On The Parents – Revivers

Ibrahim Nuhu


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Well my youth ala Rasulillah who felt advisor for us and our Vemma inner circle Hadith Nikita of Allah.

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Wa Sal, how do you how do you Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are cheval moody magnetar, too hot or cold deserts in Vidya or Colby Latin Valhalla or Calavera Latin for now.

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My dear brothers.

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Looking back to the history of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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A person will confirm that which is mentioned by one of the great scholars that it is

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the greatest Nirma after Islam to have Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with us to be part of the Ummah Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the greatest Nirmal after Islam.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not go back to Allah subhanho wa taala. Before he completed until the time he completed the job, Allah subhanaw taala put on his shoulder. It gave tarbiyah to everyone, to the family, to the children, especially the younger one, and the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, if you observe the term of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, to the kids Subhanallah it was done in the way they managed to lead the nations to success. They managed to leave nations to to success Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam appointed Osama bin Zayed to lead an army that was the last battle of the province Allah sama witness, although he

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did not go to that battle. But the commander of that army was Osama immunoassay. And guess what was his age. He was only 18. Somebody who just graduated from the secondary school about to go to the university. Abdullah him and Omar said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when I was presented to him to participate in the Battle of Ohio, he rejected me. A year later the prophets Allah sama approved my participation because he sees me as a matured person.

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He was only 15 of drama to be now forced narrating the events, he witness, he thought he is going to be taking care of kids. But then he realized that the one who's next to him, although he is very young, in age, but they are lions, people who are deeply participating in benefiting and developing the community, although they're very young, but they participate and they contribute to minimize the corruption and the evil that exists in the community. They are the future generation. They will take over those who are living nowadays that's why the attention and the focus was on them during the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and even Malik narrated a lot of the term BL

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Pohamba sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, to the younger ones. But unfortunately, this is missing in the Ummah Mohammed said Allah Khalifa nowadays. That's why I don't think there is a Muslim who is concerned who is really concerned about the development of the Ummah and ask going back to take the lead in the way we used to be before and at the same time happy with the situation nowadays. Go to our primary schools, go to our secondary schools. You see disaster.

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You Allah things are not going in the right way.

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That's why we complain a lot about those people who are taking over our lead because we forgot to fix the roots

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and whether we like it or we don't like it, these people are going to take the lead in the future. I know everyone is aware of what is going on. As a concerned father. You will always get confused. Thinking about where to take your family.

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It is not easy My dear brother and sisters.

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We got busy

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With our dunya Allah subhanaw taala says in the Quran Sheva let's now um well Luna, Luna there was a hypocrite, when they were telling the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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the reason why they did not participate with him in one of the battles,

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Charlotte's net and water no Aluna

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but Subhanallah nowadays, there is nothing called Aluna it is only shoveling snow and water now. We are busy with our work. We are busy with our business.

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And sometimes some people get justification because they are given dower also they go too far distance and neglects the family. And this is the primary responsibility that Allah subhanaw taala is going to question each and every one of us Allah when we meet him. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, my minab did yesterday he la hora en e mo to yo Mahmoud, or whoever Shu lira et la haram Allah Allah here Jana

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in Allah Allah Who and Nyla Hera joy, he said there will be nobody that Allah swatter will give him a responsibility to be handled. He says right. And the prophets Allah sama In another Hadith, he told us who is right. The Prophet salallahu alayhi salam I said the father is a shepherd, right a caretaker, there is a heavy responsibility on his shoulder, which he has to be very careful with. Because my dear brother and sisters oximeter villa, your daughter, and your son might be the reason why a person will feel when he meets Allah subhanaw taala. Today you give them the freedom, you let them do whatever they want, you put them in a place which is which is not appropriate. Allah He

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hadn't am Allah Hola. They are going to become hosts.

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They will fight you in front of Allah Subhana Allah smart Allah talks about this day that neurocognition on that, on that day, it says with Dr. Atala, whom will as well all the connections that are between the human beings you know that kind of relationship, they are going to be missing on that day. Those people that show did not handle responsibility properly, they are going to fight you in front of Allah subhanahu attack

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you Allah we have to be very serious in the way the predecessors or whatever you are afraid of Allah subhanaw taala promise to take care of it. Let me interpret that hadith and then come back to this is point because it is really important. The prophets Allah Azza wa said, if Allah subhanho wa Taala put on your shoulder, a responsibility to be handled, but unfortunately you did not do that which Allah subhanaw taala asked you to do it said Jana is going to be haram upon you. I guess we come here we are praying to Allah Sahaja we fast we go for Hajj, we do the zakah we do everything trying to go to Jana.

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But that is something which is very important to remember that you have to fulfill the conditions, you might face a lot of obstacles, if your family are not receiving that which Allah subhanaw taala ask you to grant to them.

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So my dear brothers sisters, what is the solution? The solution is to go back to the deed and to understand the method used by the predecessors and SubhanAllah. These methods are very simple. But and unfortunately, we are very materialistic. I want my children to be this I want my children to be that and that's when you give them the freedom and you get busy with the dunya trying to compile as long as as much as you wish so that when you move you know from this life to the hereafter, they will find something let me tell you something my Deborah sisters, Allah he the best gift you give your kids is a good time of year. The best wealth you will give your kid is a good tarbiyah I'm not

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saying you should go leave them poor. No the prophets Allah sama did not support this idea. But at the same time we have to prioritize. I recall one of the greats Khalifa Omar bin Abdulaziz, which I believe all of us are aware of his success in leadership. The corruption is at its peak. This man came within the period of two years he managed to cleanse the world

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Subhanallah zero corruption in his life. In two years time, he cleanse the world.

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There was no corruption and and everyone is happy people are coming to Islam affords in Africa.

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When he was about to die, he left kids, about 15 of them.

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If I'm not wrong, couple of them, and none of them is at the age of maturity. And subhanAllah He left nothing. He was the Khalifa of the muslimeen but he left nothing.

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So he looked at them he cried. He said kids I'm really sorry. But I

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Just want to tell you that Allah subhanaw taala gave me two options, either to choose him or to choose pleasing you and go to hell.

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But I decided to choose Allah subhanho wa taala. So I'm very sorry, children. But don't worry, you will never be neglected. Somebody came among his family members and he blamed him badly. He says, No, don't worry at all my children are one of the two people, the one who managed to keep those values that I gave him. He says you should know that Allah who will lead you son.

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Allah is the One who has taken who will take care of the righteous people. You remember in Surah Al calf, Allah sent Haider to go and fix the wall.

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For who, for children, because the father was a righteous person.

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Because the father was a righteous person, Allah sent him to go and fix this wealth, you know, so that it will not get get lost sight of limits. I even said, I used to increase by righteousness so that my children will be protected by Allah subhanho wa taala.

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One of the scholars said, Omar bin Abdulaziz died

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and when they make a comparison between his children and the children of the previous school afar, who the parents left with them abundance of wealth.

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They found some of them begging on the street.

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At the same time the children of Omar Abdulaziz Allah smart Allah made him wealthy.

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That's the investment which was made by the father,

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Eve Allah, this is the Sunnah of Allah subhanaw taala in the creation, you take the same thing you will get the same result.

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So what is the solution My dear brothers, sisters, to give them tarbiyah upon the Aqeedah and the Taheebo of Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah is that's the most important thing. You know, we take them to a place they change very quickly. Why is that? Because the Akita is not there.

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Pick up amongst the Prophet of Allah subhanaw taala Ibrahim because Allah talk about him Allah when it comes to how did he succeed in developing and creating nations?

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Please ponder upon this part of the history which is so interesting.

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Ibrahim took his children and his family to a place where there is no life. No life, my dear brother and sisters, Allah says bhiwadi innovative designer in and debate tickle Mahaprabhu no water, no plantation, no houses, no neighbors, no human beings. Nobody was there.

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He put his wife because of the Command of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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And he left with the baby. And it gave them limited amount of food.

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The wife asked, she said, Where are you going?

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He kept quiet. Because he doesn't want to be so emotional because this is the best part of his family. And Allah commanded him to test his Iman

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and dedication to Allah subhanaw taala and his Hola. So he accepted the Command of Allah subhanaw taala with full of submission. So the wife asked him where you go, and he did not reply how? She kept on asking where you live in leaving us. He did not reply.

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At last, she said, Is Allah the one who asked you to keep us here? He said yes. Now she asked a question that he can answer. He said yes. Subhan Allah. Look at the word she said.

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She said even though

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she said I believe Allah is not going to neglect us

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how did she reach this level? will light it was a tarbiyah upon it to heat and Aqeedah that is based on putting the trust on Allah subhanahu wa taala and not having a single doubt that as if as long as you are taking and holding Allah subhanaw taala properly, Allah will never disappoint you.

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She sees the place and she know how much the distance was between the place where she was and this place.

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When she said when she said Who asked you to do that? And he said Allah, she said I believe ALLAH spa hotel would never neglect us. She went back Subhan Allah what kind of iman is this? She went back to the place she sat down with the kids, the food finish and she doesn't have any support. She kept on going around the story that the prophets Allah Azza told us until the time she heard a voice another moment of focus. When she looked behind, she saw Jabril Ali salaam with the child. She said Please, if you have any help help me. My child is suffering. I need food.

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I need water to drink

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so that my child can have some milk. She said, Please help us.

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So Jabril asked, Who are you? She said, I'm the mother of the son of Abraham. I

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am the mother of son of Abraham and his setup.

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So Jabril asked, he said, Oh, did he leave you under the custody of somebody? Because this place is so empty, nobody's there. He said, Did he leave you under the custody of anyone? She said, Yes. He said, Who is that? She said, Allah

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Jabril says, forgot what color coma Illa caphyon.

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He said relax,

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because your husband puts you at the hand and under the custody of somebody who is enough for you.

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Look at Saudi Arabia nowadays. That was the foundation Ibrahim put them upon that Aqeedah Allah subhanaw taala says well thought of Allah who method and create and Kennett Amina to multiply enlightened, yet he had his kohara than Miko Lima can for kefir be an Urmila for other Kahala holy basil during will healthy Beaver County, yes Nehru.

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Allah subhanaw taala says,

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this is an example given to you of a city that Allah subhanaw taala gave them a man which is the peace and wallah, he that peace came to them because of the heat of Allah azza wa jal is married that was brought to that place he did an excellent job as a prophet of Allah subhanho wa taala. So they've got everything which teaches me and you and everyone that Tawheed is the source of risk. Allah says Hello Anna Al Quran ermine would love for Tana Allah him bureaucrat in Minister manual or if the people of the city are going to believe in Allah and put their trust in Allah subhanaw taala and do that which Allah asked them to do. Allah says we will open baraka to minister will our

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blessings from the heavens and the earth.

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We need Aqeedah in our children, otherwise, the school environment is not healthy these days.

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You Allah what we hear in and when we read in the news, the school environment is not healthy. And the only protection you have for your kids is the occluder and the values you're teaching them. As a father, you must have time for the kids and you cannot say to Allah subhanaw taala my job is taking all of my time.

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You can't give this excuse to Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Always remember that this is the primary responsibility that Allah Sparta put on your shoulder and he says he will ask you about it. When you meet him on the day of judgment call he had stuck through law howdy welcome palliside muslimin I mean, call them infrastructural in the whole world.

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hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Magoo, Rahmatullah Alameen. Be you know, what have you been hammered in sallallahu alayhi wa, he was happy he he made a MOBA

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for our sisters, appalling abuse and Allahu alayhi wa sallam. It Allah America, tell them in Qatar Ambu in them in South Sudan cutting geria our element you into OB a wallet inside of him.

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When you leave this life,

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the prophets Allah Azza wa said everything used to do will be cut off, except one of these three things he mentioned

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sadaqa jariya a continuous charity or the knowledge which he left for the community and they are benefiting from it. And the last one is wallet solid in Roanoke.

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Allah He you might not understand this now.

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But those who leave this life and go back to Allah subhanho wa Taala can tell you how serious is the matter.

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You need somebody who will sit down after you go and ask Allah subhanaw taala to properly view most of us forget those people who goes after a few days when Allah has only good tarbiyah that will give you a family your kids can help you to have your Rankin been elevated when you meet Allah subhanaw taala because your child you will remember this. And therefore my dear brothers sisters, I urge you that I advise you to invest in this. Do the right thing in your kids. Avoid facing problem and clashes with Alaska hotel when you meet him because of your children. Be very serious. The prophets Allah Azza was the most lenient father, but at the same time, he was serious. Nobody is to do the

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wrong thing in the presence of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So it's a tarbiyah that is based on law

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of, but at the same time irresponsible to be putting them in the right way. Right from the younger age, which Subhanallah we neglected nowadays, if you were to correct your child at a younger age, the community will be watching you will be talking negatively, you know against you. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said you should start from the younger age, so that they will be familiar with it when they grow older. You don't need to remind them about it. But we didn't do it, we start doing it when they grow older, they are responsible, you give them that kind of freedom and now you want to change it. You want to change it, it is impossible. So reflect upon this Hadees My

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dear brothers sisters to protect your future, but in meet Allah subhanho wa Taala facing clashes between you and your children. And most likely, if you are wrong in the Tobia you give them my Deborah's sisters, success in the hereafter will be very difficult on you will be very difficult for you. So remember this need that you have for somebody who will sit down after you move and live this life who was sit down and raise his hand and say yeah, ALLAH forgive my father. Yeah, Allah show mercy upon my father. Yeah, Allah combined us with my father in Philadelphia Allah. Allah subhanaw taala grant us ability to give the right Tobia to our children in the holy colada. Lika Kadir

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