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Ibraheem Menk

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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was salam

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o study. I mean, you know, it was

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a long lesson.

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President leadership just

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said,

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he can stain. We thank you for having gathered us here once again. And we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to surround us with the malaria champion, and to cause his mercy and he's sick enough to descend upon us. And to raise us with the MBR Alejo salat wa salam, and those whom he has mentioned with him.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala he encourages us to be chaste.

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And this is something that we find that is lacking in society and community today. So people are becoming more and more immoral, increasingly immoral. And the bulk of the reasons is because we have been exposed to what we have not been exposed to before. So a man can sit at home and be immortal within his home, by picking up his phone and scrolling through the various videos that are there. whereas previously, if you wanted to be immortal, what you had to do was go out into the street, and start to look around. So it's become so easy that someone sends us a video clip, someone sends up sins or something on WhatsApp, or telegram, or Twitter or Facebook, or whatever platform may be. And

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we open that video and this something what happens we end up watching it, there's no moral compass within to stop us from doing so. Except for a person who believes in Allah subhanho wa Taala. So let's we'll kind of go into how that tells us. What do you mean the meaning

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of those on eBay.

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Then you can

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say to the meeting men that hit him lower the gazes and protect the private parts that is more pure for them. What happens there is a link and a connection between the site and the desire of the private part. So that's why Allah subhanho wa Taala says lower the cases and protect the private parts. Because that is the initial consumption of the body, you look you consume with your eyes and then you want to touch and then you want to do the entire deed. So Allah subhanahu wa t analysis nip it in the bud. As soon as you see lower your case, look away, try to think about something else. And just before these are yet Allah subhanho wa Taala tells us something profound, that if we take heed

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of it, we will come to realize that if we are to follow up with that gaze and do harm, what will happen eventually, Allah kabhi kabhi copy one hobbies and

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hobbies the evil women are for the evil men and the evil men are for the evil women what happens you eventually become so corrupted, that even when you want to get married, you don't do find the right spouse. Why? Because you've been looking consuming, enjoying that which is haram. So eventually you within yourself become corrupt. And today we'll learn need to become around and rife in society. It's very easy for us to follow up one video after the other there's nobody to sit around you know previously as you're walking, if you're working in a group and someone sees you staring you feel a bit ashamed that you know I'm doing something wrong. But today it's very easy. So we need to protect

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and guard ourselves what is the protection, what is the shield, part of that protection is to get married as soon as possible. And this is why we appeal to not only the parents but the children as well Don't delay because even if it means that these two children, they might be teenagers 1920 may be of age when they might be doing some something haram call in tell them to get married it is better for you. Even if it means they have to live in their own homes and have an arrangement as it is they aren't going out as it is they are doing. So call them and make it

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or before it gets to that level. make it harder and then tell them Do whatever you want to do. Yes if they want to delay having children they're not mature enough. That is okay that is fine. As long as they

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Doing something when people see them together nobody's going to blame them and say those two are doing something color, let alone that what Allah subhanho wa Taala feels about that relationship should be important to us. This is why also Lawson Allah alayhi wa sallam tells us yeah Mashallah. Oh young people, oh youth, oh men of society, Minister bah bah at affiliate as a watch with the one who is able to get married, they let him get married for even a workload indossare suddenly, to indeed which is better for lowering the gaze and more protective of the private parts woman than yesterday, and the one who is unable to do so. In fact, my father he was sung for in the whole

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region. So he should fast because indeed that is a shield for him. What happens when you unfastening you find yourself focusing on food and craving more than anything else, it takes priority. So you end up for the bulk and the majority of people they are too weak to think about any other designs. So for those of us who can get married, we should get married. And those of us who can't we fast until we can as a loss of Panama to Allah says in the eye Not long after this. Well yesterday, Nadine, Elia Jayco Nika attorney omonia. Love when you felt lonely, and those who are not able to find a Mika, then let them be chaste. Let them be chaste until Allah subhanho wa Taala grants him

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from his goodness or grant them from his goodness. We ask Allah Subhana Allah to grant us for good spouses and we ask Allah subhanahu wa tada to grant those who are

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unmarried, good spouses that they can look after and look at those spouses can look after them. I mean, well sallallahu wasallam albaraka ala nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi adjumani