Ibraheem Menk – Ramadan 2020 – Nightly Reminders #6

Ibraheem Menk

Don’t always treat others as they treat you

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Speaker 1 discusses the importance of remaining silent while facing negative behavior. They emphasize the need to not respond in kind and avoid harming the other person. They also mention a story about a person swears at someone and restraines themselves, leading to the closure of the grave.

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			Bismillah R Rahman Al Rahim in the story of Abel and Cain, Allah subhanho wa Taala says that have
been told kabhi the best of Elijah yeah Kelly tempo to
		
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			be burned up, de la Cali Oppo to like, if you are to spread your hand in order to kill me, I am not
going to spread my hand in order to kill you.
		
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			In the hall full LA, Bella me mean, indeed I feel Allah, Lord of the worlds, he gave him the reason
why he didn't want to spread his hand in order to kill him off. Why? Because I fear Allah, Lord of
the worlds, when someone has done something bad and evil to you. Try not to respond in kind, they've
stolen something of yours. Don't go and steal from them. They've given you one clap, don't clap them
back. Sometimes you have to, but in other cases you can avoid doing so walk away from the situation
defuse it. Why? Because you believe in Allah subhanho wa Taala you have the fear of Allah subhana wa
Taala. You want more from your alpha. So let it go and leave. Or at least don't respond in kind.
		
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			Someone swears you don't swear them back. I remember there was a story. I can't remember the details
of it. But the basics of it was that someone swore another person and he says that I am swearing you
so much that it will enter into the grave with you. And the response of the person who was being
sworn was simple bulyanhulu magical cupboard, but it will enter with you into the grave, meaning it
won't harm me in any way. I've remained silent. It won't harm me in any way. In fact, rather, he
would be rewarded for his silence. So when someone swears you does something bad to you does
something wrong to you restrain yourself, take it easy, and especially when it comes to the past and
		
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			whilst you are fasting, it is even more important to maintain that restraint and to not to respond
in kind. May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us the ability to restrain ourselves. I mean