Ibraheem Menk – Igniting the Flame – Cultivating Love for Allah

Ibraheem Menk
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The belief that death is a terrifying thing for most human beings is discussed, with emphasis on the natural fear and sadness that comes with leaving a family, wealth, and causing people to feel sad. The speaker emphasizes the importance of creating a connection with the god and avoiding loss of focus on one's journey towards Islam. The journey is a combination of both physical and mental, and finding the right destination is crucial to achieving Islam's goal.
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Back in the day when we explained to people that Allah Abu as said

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something, or rasulallahu alayhi wa sallam had said something, then

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we didn't need to explain why. It was simply Samir wa attainah. We

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have heard and we have obeyed,

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and that was due to the Iman within the hearts of people. They

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understood that because Allah said this, I will do it, because

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Rasulullah sallam said this, I will do it, and because Allah

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prohibited me from this, I will not do it. But today,

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increasingly, we find ourselves in a situation where people are

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questioning why they want to know the reasons behind what they are

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doing and the reason why they have been prohibited from doing

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something, and the reality of it is Allah Rabbul, izzatti, while

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Jalal has explained to us in certain circumstances why we are

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meant to do certain things, but at other times and other injunctions,

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we find that there is no explanation. There is simply a

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command or a prohibition. And that is where our iman should come into

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play. That is where our belief in allahab is being tested. When a

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person breaks wind, then they are meant to wash every other organ,

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or many other organs, besides the part where the wind came out from.

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This doesn't make sense to an ordinary human being, but because

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Allah Abu as told me to do it, then I will do it. And that is

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Iman. That is faith, that is belief in Allah Rabbul, izzatti,

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while Jalal, when Allah subhanahu wa taala says something, we say

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it, we do it simply because it comes from Allah. We acknowledge

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that this is a command from my maker, the one who brought me into

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existence, the one by whom I exist today, the one to whom I shall

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return so because he told me to do this, I will do it. Because He

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prohibited me from doing this. I will not do it. And that is Iman.

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But the other reason that we find is the growth of the love and the

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two are actually intertwined. They are collected, the growth of the

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love of the dunya in our hearts. So we've begun to love the dunya,

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and we love it such, and we are connected to it such that the

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thought of death and leaving it terrifies us. It terrifies us.

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I've got to leave my family. I've got to leave my business. I'm not

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ready, if I am to ask myself, let alone all of you, am I ready

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today, right now, right here to say I'm ready to let go and I'm

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ready to go to Allah Abu as atival jaral, I have to be honest with

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myself, I have to sit and ask myself whether I am actually

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ready. And the believer is in a constant state of preparedness to

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meet Allah Abu Asmaa, because we know that at any moment we can

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meet Allah subhanahu wa Yes, death is a terrifying thing for most

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human beings. Yes, it is something that we are scared of, because it

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is the fear of the unknown, and that is a normal fear, a natural

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fear. In fact, as Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is

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leaving this world, he says in nali Moti la saqat, indeed, death

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has its pangs. So he himself experienced the pangs of death.

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This was none other than Khairul khalpi ajmarin, the best creation

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on ever to exist on Earth. Allahu Akbar. This was Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So it is natural to fear death, but the

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fear of leaving the dunya is the problem. The fear of leaving your

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family, the fear of leaving your business, the fear of leaving your

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wealth behind. That attachment is the problem when we become so

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attached that the very thought of leaving the dunya is terrifying.

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But a believer focuses on something else. A believer focuses

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on the fact that my death is the My birth into the akhira. My death

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is my birth into the akhira. I'm going to a Better Life, A Better

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existence. So beyond that natural fear of death comes a feeling of

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elation, a.

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Happiness. Why? Because I'm going to meet Allah Abu as which Lord is

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this? This is the Lord who is most forgiving, Most Merciful. This is

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the Lord who is who wants to forgive me, and he has told me

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that he wants to forgive me. Man Aha, Balika, Allah ahaba, Allahu,

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the one who loves to meet Allah. Allah loves to meet him. And

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that's what we should be doing, growing the love of the dunya in

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our hearts, and lessening the love of this world in our hearts. And

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that, Dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam, is Zuid, that is

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asceticism. That is what you call divorcing yourself from the dunya.

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It is not dressing in rags and driving the worst of, you know,

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modes of transport and having the worst of homes. No, that is not

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zohod. You can have a man in a palace who's not attached to that

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palace, and he is closer to Allah Abu as and you can have a man on

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the street walking with nothing, no shoes to cover his feet, and he

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is so attached to this dunya that it's become a point of punishment

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for him, because he's deprived of it. He loves it so much that he's

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depressed due to it. So Allah Abu Asmaa, he tells us, belt thirun al

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Hayata dunya, well, Abu

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give preference to the life of this world, and the akhira is

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better and longer lasting. The akhira is better and longer

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lasting. So someone may ask, but hold on, how do I practically

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inculcate the love of Allah Abu Asmaa heart? And naturally, when

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you begin to fill your heart with the love of Allah subhanahu wa,

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you will find a decrease in the love of the dunya, because the

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two, they don't exist simultaneously in one heart. When

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I say they don't exist simultaneously. What I mean is

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that the two once you have so much of the love of Allah Jalal, you

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will reach a point where it doesn't matter what you lose of

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this dunya, it doesn't matter what you lose of this dunya, it saddens

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you for a short while, because you know it is temporary, and you know

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you are going to Allah Rabbul, izzatti wa Jalal, learn the names

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of Allah subhanahu wa, the attributes of Allah Abu as

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when you understand whom Allah subhanahu wa is, Then naturally

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your journey towards Allah subhanahu wa becomes easier. It

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becomes fruitful. It becomes such that you will enjoy it because you

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are looking forward to the destination. What we tend to do is

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to focus upon the journey. And we talk about how we should establish

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our salah, and we should give our Zakat, and we should fast in the

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month of Ramadan, and that is all good and well, that is the

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journey. But when you focus on where you are going and whom you

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are going to, then it becomes amazing. You know, if I were to

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stand here and tell you that there is a destination in the Maldives,

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and the island is beautiful. This crystalline blue waters. What

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happens? Automatically, your heart begins to pump. You think, hey,

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wow, that's an amazing destination. And maybe as you are

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on that journey, you get into the plane, for example, and you are on

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the journey. What is it that excites you? Is it the journey

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itself? No, it's the destination you're waiting to get to that

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place. You can't wait to see that island. Allah has the highest of

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examples. Walila, Allah and we are on a journey. We are headed where

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to Allah, Rabbul, izzatti, wala Jalal. So when we learn about the

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being whom we are going to how merciful he is, how great he is,

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his magnanimity, then we look forward to meeting Allah Abu as

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atiwa Jalad. And naturally the dunya falls away. We are living in

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this dunya. We can't ignore the fact that we get up every day and

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we have to earn a living. Everybody needs money. Everybody

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needs to earn something in order to survive, but never lose focus

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of your destination, and that will really help you when we see the

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example of Karun in the Quran Allah Abu as atival Jalal is

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basically telling us that he allowed the dun.

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Niya into his heart to the extent where it affected his mentality,

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and he believed in nama UTI to hualahim in Indi I was given this

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due to the knowledge that I have. He didn't attribute it to Allah,

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Subhanahu wa that was the problem. What was Allah's injunction to us?

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Waving televima

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Dunya was an

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Allah

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and seek with that which Allah has given you of the dunya. Seek. What

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did he say? Seek the dunya? No, he said, Seek the akhira. Seek the

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akhira with the dunya that you have, seek the everlasting, and

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that is a truly wealthy person. But Allah didn't end there. Wala

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10 se nasiba, kaminat Dunya, and don't forget your portion of the

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dunya. When it comes to the dunya, he describes it as a portion. Why

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eat of it, drink of it, enjoy of it. Halal. Allah has made halal

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for you. Enjoy of it. No problem with the right intention, even

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that Halal of the dunya becomes rewarding in the akhira. So enjoy

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of it. Wala tan Sana si ba kamena, dunya wa aksan, Allahu, ilaik, and

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be good to others in the way that Allah has been good to you. Ihsan

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is the highest form of ibadah. To be good to Allah, Rabbul, izzatti

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wa Jalal, excellent in your Ibadah and to be good to your fellow

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human beings. Don't forget that Allah gave you in order for you to

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build the everlasting so be good to them. Help them. Donate. Give

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something of that which Allah has given you. Nobody wants to give.

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If we believed only in this world, there would be motive, no

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motivator, for us to give at all, there would be no motivator. Why?

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Because I'm simply taking out that which is valuable and it's gone.

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But Allah gave us the ultimate motivator, and that is, you will

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receive it with me, you will. I will be pleased with you. That's

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what Allah Abu is, that you will Jalal is promising. Wan fasadah,

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Phil Abu, and don't seek corruption on earth. Don't go

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looking looking out to cause corruption and spread fitna and

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facade. Why does this come at the end? Because naturally, when you

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seek out Allah Abu as

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you purify your heart, and this injunction becomes easy for you to

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follow. This commandment becomes easy for you to follow, because I

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am a believer in Allah where I have wronged someone, I will seek

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forgiveness where I have wronged myself by sinning between me and

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Allah Rabbul izzatti Will jala, I will seek forgiveness from Allah

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subhanahu wa taala and move ahead. May Allah subhanahu wa give us the

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ability to remove the love of the dunya from our hearts and to love

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the akhirah and to love our destination, and to love Allah

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subhanahu wa.

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