Ibraheem Menk – Igniting the Flame – Cultivating Love for Allah

Ibraheem Menk
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The belief that death is a terrifying thing for most human beings is discussed, with emphasis on the natural fear and sadness that comes with leaving a family, wealth, and causing people to feel sad. The speaker emphasizes the importance of creating a connection with the god and avoiding loss of focus on one's journey towards Islam. The journey is a combination of both physical and mental, and finding the right destination is crucial to achieving Islam's goal.

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			Back in the day when we explained
to people that Allah Abu as said
		
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			something, or rasulallahu alayhi
wa sallam had said something, then
		
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			we didn't need to explain why. It
was simply Samir wa attainah. We
		
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			have heard and we have obeyed,
		
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			and that was due to the Iman
within the hearts of people. They
		
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			understood that because Allah said
this, I will do it, because
		
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			Rasulullah sallam said this, I
will do it, and because Allah
		
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			prohibited me from this, I will
not do it. But today,
		
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			increasingly, we find ourselves in
a situation where people are
		
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			questioning why they want to know
the reasons behind what they are
		
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			doing and the reason why they have
been prohibited from doing
		
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			something, and the reality of it
is Allah Rabbul, izzatti, while
		
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			Jalal has explained to us in
certain circumstances why we are
		
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			meant to do certain things, but at
other times and other injunctions,
		
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			we find that there is no
explanation. There is simply a
		
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			command or a prohibition. And that
is where our iman should come into
		
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			play. That is where our belief in
allahab is being tested. When a
		
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			person breaks wind, then they are
meant to wash every other organ,
		
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			or many other organs, besides the
part where the wind came out from.
		
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			This doesn't make sense to an
ordinary human being, but because
		
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			Allah Abu as told me to do it,
then I will do it. And that is
		
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			Iman. That is faith, that is
belief in Allah Rabbul, izzatti,
		
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			while Jalal, when Allah subhanahu
wa taala says something, we say
		
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			it, we do it simply because it
comes from Allah. We acknowledge
		
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			that this is a command from my
maker, the one who brought me into
		
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			existence, the one by whom I exist
today, the one to whom I shall
		
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			return so because he told me to do
this, I will do it. Because He
		
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			prohibited me from doing this. I
will not do it. And that is Iman.
		
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			But the other reason that we find
is the growth of the love and the
		
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			two are actually intertwined. They
are collected, the growth of the
		
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			love of the dunya in our hearts.
So we've begun to love the dunya,
		
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			and we love it such, and we are
connected to it such that the
		
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			thought of death and leaving it
terrifies us. It terrifies us.
		
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			I've got to leave my family. I've
got to leave my business. I'm not
		
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			ready, if I am to ask myself, let
alone all of you, am I ready
		
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			today, right now, right here to
say I'm ready to let go and I'm
		
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			ready to go to Allah Abu as atival
jaral, I have to be honest with
		
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			myself, I have to sit and ask
myself whether I am actually
		
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			ready. And the believer is in a
constant state of preparedness to
		
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			meet Allah Abu Asmaa, because we
know that at any moment we can
		
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			meet Allah subhanahu wa Yes, death
is a terrifying thing for most
		
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			human beings. Yes, it is something
that we are scared of, because it
		
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			is the fear of the unknown, and
that is a normal fear, a natural
		
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			fear. In fact, as Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is
		
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			leaving this world, he says in
nali Moti la saqat, indeed, death
		
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			has its pangs. So he himself
experienced the pangs of death.
		
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			This was none other than Khairul
khalpi ajmarin, the best creation
		
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			on ever to exist on Earth. Allahu
Akbar. This was Rasulullah
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So it
is natural to fear death, but the
		
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			fear of leaving the dunya is the
problem. The fear of leaving your
		
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			family, the fear of leaving your
business, the fear of leaving your
		
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			wealth behind. That attachment is
the problem when we become so
		
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			attached that the very thought of
leaving the dunya is terrifying.
		
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			But a believer focuses on
something else. A believer focuses
		
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			on the fact that my death is the
My birth into the akhira. My death
		
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			is my birth into the akhira. I'm
going to a Better Life, A Better
		
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			existence. So beyond that natural
fear of death comes a feeling of
		
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			elation, a.
		
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			Happiness. Why? Because I'm going
to meet Allah Abu as which Lord is
		
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			this? This is the Lord who is most
forgiving, Most Merciful. This is
		
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			the Lord who is who wants to
forgive me, and he has told me
		
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			that he wants to forgive me. Man
Aha, Balika, Allah ahaba, Allahu,
		
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			the one who loves to meet Allah.
Allah loves to meet him. And
		
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			that's what we should be doing,
growing the love of the dunya in
		
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			our hearts, and lessening the love
of this world in our hearts. And
		
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			that, Dear Brothers and Sisters in
Islam, is Zuid, that is
		
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			asceticism. That is what you call
divorcing yourself from the dunya.
		
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			It is not dressing in rags and
driving the worst of, you know,
		
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			modes of transport and having the
worst of homes. No, that is not
		
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			zohod. You can have a man in a
palace who's not attached to that
		
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			palace, and he is closer to Allah
Abu as and you can have a man on
		
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			the street walking with nothing,
no shoes to cover his feet, and he
		
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			is so attached to this dunya that
it's become a point of punishment
		
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			for him, because he's deprived of
it. He loves it so much that he's
		
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			depressed due to it. So Allah Abu
Asmaa, he tells us, belt thirun al
		
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			Hayata dunya, well, Abu
		
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			give preference to the life of
this world, and the akhira is
		
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			better and longer lasting. The
akhira is better and longer
		
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			lasting. So someone may ask, but
hold on, how do I practically
		
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			inculcate the love of Allah Abu
Asmaa heart? And naturally, when
		
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			you begin to fill your heart with
the love of Allah subhanahu wa,
		
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			you will find a decrease in the
love of the dunya, because the
		
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			two, they don't exist
simultaneously in one heart. When
		
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			I say they don't exist
simultaneously. What I mean is
		
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			that the two once you have so much
of the love of Allah Jalal, you
		
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			will reach a point where it
doesn't matter what you lose of
		
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			this dunya, it doesn't matter what
you lose of this dunya, it saddens
		
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			you for a short while, because you
know it is temporary, and you know
		
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			you are going to Allah Rabbul,
izzatti wa Jalal, learn the names
		
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			of Allah subhanahu wa, the
attributes of Allah Abu as
		
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			when you understand whom Allah
subhanahu wa is, Then naturally
		
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			your journey towards Allah
subhanahu wa becomes easier. It
		
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			becomes fruitful. It becomes such
that you will enjoy it because you
		
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			are looking forward to the
destination. What we tend to do is
		
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			to focus upon the journey. And we
talk about how we should establish
		
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			our salah, and we should give our
Zakat, and we should fast in the
		
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			month of Ramadan, and that is all
good and well, that is the
		
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			journey. But when you focus on
where you are going and whom you
		
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			are going to, then it becomes
amazing. You know, if I were to
		
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			stand here and tell you that there
is a destination in the Maldives,
		
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			and the island is beautiful. This
crystalline blue waters. What
		
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			happens? Automatically, your heart
begins to pump. You think, hey,
		
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			wow, that's an amazing
destination. And maybe as you are
		
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			on that journey, you get into the
plane, for example, and you are on
		
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			the journey. What is it that
excites you? Is it the journey
		
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			itself? No, it's the destination
you're waiting to get to that
		
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			place. You can't wait to see that
island. Allah has the highest of
		
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			examples. Walila, Allah and we are
on a journey. We are headed where
		
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			to Allah, Rabbul, izzatti, wala
Jalal. So when we learn about the
		
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			being whom we are going to how
merciful he is, how great he is,
		
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			his magnanimity, then we look
forward to meeting Allah Abu as
		
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			atiwa Jalad. And naturally the
dunya falls away. We are living in
		
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			this dunya. We can't ignore the
fact that we get up every day and
		
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			we have to earn a living.
Everybody needs money. Everybody
		
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			needs to earn something in order
to survive, but never lose focus
		
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			of your destination, and that will
really help you when we see the
		
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			example of Karun in the Quran
Allah Abu as atival Jalal is
		
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			basically telling us that he
allowed the dun.
		
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			Niya into his heart to the extent
where it affected his mentality,
		
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			and he believed in nama UTI to
hualahim in Indi I was given this
		
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			due to the knowledge that I have.
He didn't attribute it to Allah,
		
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			Subhanahu wa that was the problem.
What was Allah's injunction to us?
		
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			Waving televima
		
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			Dunya was an
		
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			Allah
		
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			and seek with that which Allah has
given you of the dunya. Seek. What
		
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			did he say? Seek the dunya? No, he
said, Seek the akhira. Seek the
		
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			akhira with the dunya that you
have, seek the everlasting, and
		
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			that is a truly wealthy person.
But Allah didn't end there. Wala
		
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			10 se nasiba, kaminat Dunya, and
don't forget your portion of the
		
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			dunya. When it comes to the dunya,
he describes it as a portion. Why
		
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			eat of it, drink of it, enjoy of
it. Halal. Allah has made halal
		
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			for you. Enjoy of it. No problem
with the right intention, even
		
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			that Halal of the dunya becomes
rewarding in the akhira. So enjoy
		
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			of it. Wala tan Sana si ba kamena,
dunya wa aksan, Allahu, ilaik, and
		
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			be good to others in the way that
Allah has been good to you. Ihsan
		
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			is the highest form of ibadah. To
be good to Allah, Rabbul, izzatti
		
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			wa Jalal, excellent in your Ibadah
and to be good to your fellow
		
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			human beings. Don't forget that
Allah gave you in order for you to
		
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			build the everlasting so be good
to them. Help them. Donate. Give
		
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			something of that which Allah has
given you. Nobody wants to give.
		
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			If we believed only in this world,
there would be motive, no
		
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			motivator, for us to give at all,
there would be no motivator. Why?
		
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			Because I'm simply taking out that
which is valuable and it's gone.
		
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			But Allah gave us the ultimate
motivator, and that is, you will
		
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			receive it with me, you will. I
will be pleased with you. That's
		
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			what Allah Abu is, that you will
Jalal is promising. Wan fasadah,
		
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			Phil Abu, and don't seek
corruption on earth. Don't go
		
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			looking looking out to cause
corruption and spread fitna and
		
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			facade. Why does this come at the
end? Because naturally, when you
		
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			seek out Allah Abu as
		
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			you purify your heart, and this
injunction becomes easy for you to
		
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			follow. This commandment becomes
easy for you to follow, because I
		
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			am a believer in Allah where I
have wronged someone, I will seek
		
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			forgiveness where I have wronged
myself by sinning between me and
		
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			Allah Rabbul izzatti Will jala, I
will seek forgiveness from Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa taala and move ahead.
May Allah subhanahu wa give us the
		
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			ability to remove the love of the
dunya from our hearts and to love
		
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			the akhirah and to love our
destination, and to love Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa.