Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 19

Hussain Yee


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This lecture was given on June 06, 2017 at Al-Khaadem AKYMEDIA

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Bismillahirrahmanirrahim in a hamdulillah Madhu Anna Stein who in the stock Pharaoh

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when the owns Milliman surely unforeseen, our say, Medina de la la Maddalena

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de la Chateau La la la la la de la sharika lava shadow, Mohammed Abu rasuluh ooh si como de la vaca further macoun salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Charlotte the audio system right. Let's begin with the Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen Allahumma salli ala Muhammad

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Ali Mohammed, come on. So later on a Brahim, Bala and Ibrahim in Ramadan Majid Allahumma because

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what becomes Cena? What we cannot hear, but we cannot move where la can Lucia is Milla de la de la jolla. dororo. Masami he, she fell out of the last summer he was sent me on a limb already to be la hora

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mobilise la Medina be Mohammadi nebia Allahumma Sydney Illuminati and what is

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what I'm Alan cabella Allahumma

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janitor or Jelena Mina narrow phenomena Tina fit dunya Santa

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Clara de hacer una joaquina zabba narrow for some of the more one on

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one Andy He must be in more hamdulillahi Rabbil alameen wa ala min.

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to all the system rather we have been asking Allah, Allah minute for his mercy for his forgiveness for his blessing. May Allah subhanho wa Taala accept our mean.

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And we always ask our Muslim Hannah Montana to give us knowledge that do really benefit us the knowledge that will make us understand his Deen better in a way Allah and the Prophet one has to understand, not the way that we want to understand something knowledge can be very misleading, the little that we know will make us have self confidence and we start to make our own conclusion. And that is also very dangerous. So we hope that the knowledge that we have been learning is a knowledge that please a lot of will Allah mean that bring benefit to all of us after seeking knowledge.

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The second that the second level, I cooked last night in my test era after having knowledge is very important to have the right understanding.

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There's a lot of people who have been learning but the understanding differs from one to another. There is a problem you are learning but how can you end with so much differences between one another

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those who have been learning about Santa and they they get involved in beta and they say beta is okay when the prophecy B the R is the opposite of sundown. When there's a tsunami there's no beta one there's a bit of a tsunami is being destroyed.

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In every bidder on destroy one. As soon as it's just when you learn about aqeedah to hate then there is no more shear it How can you have to hate in the same time you have shared it you can

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if you learn anything about a man there's no mokou for you cannot join both together because it's just the opposite. And what is hot is hot. What is battle is battle. But today people get very confused. The more than

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Then the more they left with the and they go against people who are promoting sooner.

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This is what happens when people have the wrong understanding. When you have the right understanding, you go to the third level of knowledge This is adapt towards knowledge to make sure that knowledge benefit as the third one is to implement the knowledge.

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What can the knowledge benefit us if you have been learning the sooner when something happened to us we don't follow the sooner

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we are giving in to the tradition to the norm. And we have acknowledged the Sunnah of the Prophet, we are not acting according to the Sunnah to the knowledge that we have acquired, this also will fail us again. It's not that we do not know we have the knowledge, but we did not follow what we have learned.

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After the third level, we go to the fourth level, then we have act upon the true knowledge that we have acquired. We must share the knowledge and that's where a lot of sisters have to talk to their close line their family, your children as mother you talk to your children so that the children also now is exposed to the true knowledge. You cannot keep the knowledge by yourself doing that you're you're doing Pittman Pittman means you have betrayed Allah, Allah mean

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knowledge is an Amana you cannot keep it to yourself you must shade whether the other party is happy or not. That is up to them. Like on the Prophet their duty is to convey mama Elena lol Bella, Our duty is just to share the knowledge inform others. Now, Allah give Hidayat whether that person changed or not, that is not your responsibility.

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We have a sister I just caught Lisa do a china from China mainland from a very

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isolated village and not in the big city. And there is no Muslim in that area. 100% Chinese of the Chinese Chinese Yeah. 100% non Muslim.

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So now she is here

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for a short cost to take up educational

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education in

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a lot cadabra. She exposed to Islam.

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So when she came and talked to us, we said why not you join us for a prayer. So we encouraged her to come forth, Ravi. Last night she came and and then she's still having her menses actually.

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She says that she's saying that she's having no problem. She is not a Muslim at all. She's not yet a Muslim, if she want

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to learn the movement or the prayer, just let the law come and then join the system.

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Just for some some experience. And then she followed Alhamdulillah then she still have more question to ask me. So we stay on until midnight. And then they are the are the call grab cow

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sent her back.

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Alhamdulillah she's asking she was asking me a very good question and say, Now if I'm going to be a Muslim, and I'm going home after two months.

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Now my buyer parent,

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my mother have won me don't don't make any crazy eating menu in the country. Just come home one piece as who you are before

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you left China.

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Of course you must go back as a Chinese you are not going to be a Malay you are going home. But as it is common, even Prophet was saying to the people we are all of them are not yet Muslim. So a prophet was sent to them to make changes, but with a patient on the Prophet, and they are very firm the faith they have in Allah. They make changes, more and more people become believers. This can happen to you and see if you are strong.

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You can bring changes to your village. And can you imagine the reward online is going to give

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you 1% make changes. You bring something new home, something that is very, very important for the future.

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She was a bit

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motivated for that. But I think it's very difficult because China's Chinese policy is one family one child. So she's the only baby the only girl in the family

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Emily, as you don't worry, you can save a lot of life

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by use your wisdom.

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So, Stacy, I have more questions to ask you future. I hope that no, you don't mind me coming back to ask you I see no problem you must ask me as many questions as you can before you leave home, at least you are prepared mentally, spiritually and physically prepared.

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Very, very active system very young. And

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so that's why knowledge, after you learn, you must share

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unless it was a must be not material, because I had this knowledge is and then it must be shared to other people, then only when we die, in case some of our friend family members is practicing the knowledge that we have taught them, we will get the reward and ongoing reward l manjunatha. Obey the prophecy, knowledge that you depart

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to others and they are practicing in a while you pass away you will get the reward from Allah, Allah Allah is what knowledge can be beneficial in the last stage after seeking knowledge, understand, act upon it share with others, the last one is you must have patient

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you must have a lot of sabang handling human is a very complicated thing, because a human character is very unique.

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They keep on changing according to the mood and according to the weather. So, we need a lot of patience. And the end of the day we know that we do not control the heart of anybody is Allah who control the hands, we just try our level best and be consistent in what we are doing. Don't give up in doing all the good things in.

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In sha Allah first understand the five stages in in seeking or this is the adapt that all this kind of thing can be easily done inshallah,

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based on 100 is

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the Hadees of enamel, Albania, your intention.

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If your intention is to follow

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the five levels,

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then there's no problem. But if you have their own other intention, then of course, there will be a lot of conflict within yourself. Because the intention of seeking knowledge is not really for Allah is for other reason. And this is what the Prophet did mentioned as the sign of the hour, the sign of the hour, Akira is that people are seeking knowledge, not for the sake of Allah anymore.

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They are seeking knowledge for commercial

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thing, or to show people that they are smarter than others so that they become very judgmental.

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Even the people who are teaching are not sincere anymore. They are teaching because of money so they'll get if you want that I'll give it to you.

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Because you want to do anything I give the dunya there's nothing for Akira. If you want both, then you must balance properly you must learn about the Adam

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we have been asking a man for that Alhamdulillah and also we've been asking Allah to give us only Hello risky and risk and pi good risky. We have seen in a lot of messages going around something online informing others about how long haram and so on that we get very confused today. And they just informed us the latest video that we got from friends

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Be careful of meat from India especially Missy because they show us the video of how they slaughter the sheep in the goat these are not slaughtered by Muslim slaughter by not yet Muslim. And no they just get the whole

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go into somebody is waiting and then they lock the neck and then they just cut one chop. So the head is cut off is is in the video.

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I think we do cannot be thrown is just writing maybe writing we do not know what is going on. So they say this is not allowed. The way we are cutting the animal is not allowed. And then they just put the neck into the one machine and then they just chop it

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One chop just one color the head is in another site the bodies and in the site

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so we just have to be more careful if you can eat the meat that you are sure is halaal Alhamdulillah but think that you are not sure and you got the info now so you just tried to minimize it stay away gray area is something that we don't like to play around we Muslim have been guided by Islam anything gray stay away

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That's why you cannot be suspicious that feeling towards paper you just say I don't know where this has to be neither you make any judgment

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now you don't go and tell people this one because we don't have any hard evidence but the only video that we have is dead and that's how

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thing is happening today.

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Only Allah knows what is happening to the world today because of the technology and what we are eating only Allah knows

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we just pray me Allah give us the right food inshallah

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we hope that no, no

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plastic vegetable even vegetable they got plastic man today

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it really makes us thing and but now my try your best

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right brothers and sisters in sha Allah also visit to our marble and I mean when we want to do any activities we want to be active in among make sure that our motto is something that will be accepted by Allah so we don't waste our time whatever Amala that we went to do make sure that among

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please Allah, if not we are doing the wrong thing. We thought there is good but we are wasting our time and wasting our energy and just be more careful inshallah.

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Now let us come back to the book signs of good and evil and chapter four at India talking on the chapter four she Santorini Rohini

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the Buddha Which one?

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Oh yeah.

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We are going to the base 64

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is a base 64

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Vishwas you're referring to

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no question answered which is just

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you can read by yourself inshallah.

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What is allowed

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and what is not allowed.

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If you go back, let us go back, a quick one in sha Allah, on page 63. basics history.

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Not the last thing that we have shared with all of you about what our great Imam Imam Shafi Rahim Allah who said, I disliked condolence gathering, even if the people did not raise their voice while I woke up with crying, that surely renewed the distress burden the people with unnecessary expenses and conflict with the report of general that men, Islam is here not to burden anybody but to ease and people who have been tested by Allah with the death of the family member. So people need time to reflect people need time to collect a lot of good memories. And people need time to discuss about what is going to happen. What, what's next for them to do for the disease, if they have money. It's

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just like example, we got a call from from, from somebody overseas said that some time, there has been to send

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some donation to us, for the poor, for the needy for us to help those who are in need. Suddenly the husband passed away.

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So when has passed away, so happened, they don't have the information about which account do he use to send the money. And so they asked us for help. So we went to the bank and asked the bank and we get to see the bank also don't have any information they just received certain amounts to so and so that's all they don't have their details. And that one must be from the sender, not from us, when the sender pass away

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This is just an example.

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There's a lot of stress, they have to check, because there's got 48 methods to handle. So there's a lot of thing for the family of the deceased to look into the more you have I've got the more you have to

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prepare him but those who don't have anything, nothing the border

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so this is something that Islam always won the family to spend more time to look into that area, but before they talk about the property about the distribution, the first thing they must do pay the debt and fulfill the

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the worst yet once yet and the debt must be done before you talk about distribution.

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Now let us go back to the question answer summaries the question what acts are required from an afflicted Muslim patient of course act this up and it's their job is still yet to say it nearly la he was in la hora June and keep on asking me ALLAH forgive the soul of so and so.

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At the sub is more on trying to recall, reflect in his like Maha Sabha is a reminder, somebody's dying in the alpha is a reminder that sooner or later we are going to be like that, if they are not prepared, we should be more prepared and that is how it goes.

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Is it permissible to be sad and cry for the death of a beloved one, sorrow and within a permissible is common, but should never reach the level of dissatisfaction with amongst decree. You cannot just go into why Allah why you take his life. There is too much nobody has the right to ask a question alone. Why?

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Because Allah is the Creator, the giver. We are just the receiver if you want to take it back, he take it back. What right do you have to ask him? Why?

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Anything come from Allah no question us.

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Yeah, you just have to accept it. You remember the ayah that I always could in my class, or most of the scholars who follow the Quran Sunnah will quote the same ayah Allah Gina Armand de la haka, Ducati, Aleta Mouton. illa Anta Muslim on

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one level, lower under Muslim means and make sure that all of us do not end our life here until we learn how to submit.

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submit to Allah.

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And when you want to submit to Allah, Allah said

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the whole office in a cafe or the whole office in a cafe,

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in Surat Al Baqarah, Allah say, you must meet to meet totally full heartedly, not quarterly, not half heartedly know fully because we belong to him.

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He gives us everything you don't know you just learn. One you know what Allah want you to believe what allow you to do just follow

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because we are the slave of Allah, He by the law, do slave have choice.

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Slave have no choice.

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But Allah give us a lot of choices. We are his slave, but he gives us the choice to follow or not to follow.

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You want a good ending You follow? You do want the good ending,

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you choose?

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You see how Allah created us, give us the freedom to the extent that he is not going to force you, but he remind you, if you follow this is the good ending. If you decide not to follow you don't blame him, in the Day of Judgment.

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It gives you total freedom, by the freedom of Allah is guided.

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There is always a limit in the freedom of Allah. So of course, you should learn how to submit. You can have sorrow you can read, but you must accept the color is veiling allow no veiling is a physical display of rejection of Allah decree.

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It is permission announced death, yes, but in a low profile manner, in order to encourage the people to attend the janazah and supplicate for the disease. Yes.

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You don't have to go live in a time of joy helia

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Somebody pass away Do you have someone who go door to door and make announcements in the market? make announcements Oh no, that is too much and there is too much today is easier you have WhatsApp with you

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and you just send one message to one group and then the groups and then the group. No problem yeah because there is okay because you are not disturbing others you are just sending a news because you have to inform the the fellow Muslim especially Muslim that maybe they know that this is their friend. So they will make prayer for them inshallah what form of mourning are acceptable abstinence from love display of pleasure or joy em, we must always stay away from any kind of entertainment in

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you know, when you are a morning you don't get involved in something Happy, Happy kind of environment, because you should not express your happiness at that time even when you are happy. You have to control your happiness inshallah. Now what form of mourning are prohibited any display of dissatisfaction such as wailing

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Excuse me, I put on silent and is still coming out.

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First me my my phone I put on silent and you see the sound.

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And then the way it happened that men

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something's wrong maybe

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what form of mourning are prohibited any display of dissatisfaction such as bathing, striking the face, tearing the clothes, pulling or shaving the hair on? forbidden this kind of thing that it's been said to us brothers and sisters, is because it happened in a time of the prophet in the genelia this thing is happening. And that's when the prophet SAW Salaam came when he looked at what is happening. So a lot of black women guide him and inform him that this is not allowed anymore.

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When there is something that the Prophet one is it because is happening and

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is like Riba and oz because it happened. That's why Allah remind us, what is the duration of money for man 10 days for a widow, no more than three days for other than the widows

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and only the widow. Now that is why we look at the law in this now why we don't have to go through so long. And and that only apply for who?

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For who? Which widows,

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that female widows

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male widow

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three days.

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Now you see how careful Islam is. Just to make sure that that woman's everything is clean.

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That's all no complication, no confusion.

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And you can hide no one knows

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him but just to make sure. So now you are totally a free woman. Anybody can come into your life again here.

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We don't know. We don't know. Sometimes a lot of blood if I want to give something it can help

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you a week. Maybe you are weak, the other party is stronger. And then the other party's work harder and then it happened. You remember in a time of the family of Zakaria in. When he asked me and he was taking care of of Maryam and then here's an old man now and the wife is also an older lady callas. And then but he never give up because Miriam said Allah

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is the sole provider unlocking give you from means that you cannot imagine because Allah send food to my origin marry a very unique kind of food.

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No, that means wintertime, Allah send summerwood summertime Allison winter wood so it's very unique.

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And Allah sent directly to her. This called zaccaria by surprise, I'm your caretaker I don't know nobody should come to you. I'm the only one who can come close to you. What is happening to you is a knotty is Allah who gave it to me

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and then Zakat so if there is a case I also have to ask Allah nothing

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is impossible. Now, as all along, I would like to have an offspring.

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Then Allah say, OK,

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then when Allah say okay now he said, How can I have offspring and my own men, and my wife is an old lady call us and their paws collars.

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ban on law say,

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if I want the game, who can stop?

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Remember that

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who can stop you? Who can stop nobody? Madden Allah, Allah and then as a career, I just have to believe also because miracle happened to marry, the same miracle can happen, but he wants some signs. Give me some signs.

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The sign is what?

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Don't talk except

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body language three days.

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why it's not easy not to talk for three days, you know? Don't think that oh is this a small small method is not easy as difficult. And

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there's a reason behind that. Now only Allah knows best knew. This way Islam is so perfect. Everything is being done. Division allowed the or nor, all wise,

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is permissible, is offering condolence permiso, is recommend the act of kindness and concern among the Muslim of God when you meet somebody who just

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have some

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calamity or just mercy but you must give them some moral support. May Allah give you reward for your patience? We will pray for the soul of your loved one. Show them that no, we don't forget. And their family members know is good knew what to say. thing they remind of Allah, his decree history what to those who have sabar? This is what you should say.

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What is the duration of offering condom as long as it's needed? We know they need still somebody known.

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They are setting us the continuum for some time. So each time when you feel that they are so sad that they call back about you, when you are very close to each other, then the memory the good memory will last longer. And

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is permissible.

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Is it permissible to vaccinate a place or time for receiving canola? No, there is an innovation, you don't have to do that. Now let us go back to the innovation. There's something that happened to all of us dealing with the body.

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Believing that this is so wrong about the place of death.

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Some people have that kind of belief, not from us, we don't have this kind of belief in the people who do believe in that. So we don't want to have that kind of belief. Number two, Lighting a candle all my close to the disease. Because they are worried if nightfall anything can happen. Some people very unique.

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lions, tigers, this all animal, one animal, when they are alive, we cannot we are afraid of them. We cannot get close to them. We are worried they will kill us. When they are dead. We are so brave to go and touch them

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and rely on them. And my human being just the opposite when you're alive. And you're not afraid of them. When they die, you're afraid of them. When they die, you're afraid of dying. You're afraid of that goes no. And this is the sign of the difference between a believer and a non believer. You know for us why a person is dead. He can cause any harm to you anymore.

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He can't do anything anymore.

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But to others does it know his spirit is coming to him. You know, his spirit is no more here. If his spirit is here, he is not he is not going to die. His feeling is gone.

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Yeah. Because immediately when Allah called the angel that pull the soul out, he's out.

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And then when he'll be sent back the soul when he was in his grave, he is not coming back home is going straight from after the angel. Yep.

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submit to Allah. This is the soul of London for lambic a belong to Allah, Allah say, send them back to the body in a graveyard. There'll be in a graveyard

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They're inside there for the q&a.

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There is a q&a session over there, and he cannot come out anymore. He's in the COBOL. From Cobra, he were transferred to baraza. broza, then he go forward, no more coming backward. No, the thing that will disturb us is the gene, the gene will play with all this kind of, because you want to believe in that soul, the spirit thing that gene would play around on there. Somebody say, Oh, I saw father came home, I saw mother come and then she's crying looking at Earth. This story

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is our stories.

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no, no.

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tying the deceased jaw to the head, tying the deceased jaws to the head. If you do it for a good reason. It's okay. But without reason you still want to type

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in anything that is open, then you just make it look good, that's all. But if everything good look good, you don't have to tie for no reason.

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Number four, putting weight on the diseased belly to prevent it swelling. Also, it's not the teachings of the Prophet some of Salaam and try tying the disease tied together to prevent any agreement from existing time because they saved me.

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Maybe there are some more notches here. And so I know you're tight because you do not want the lake yet to be so far away. Sometimes when people fall, did that, and then they're laid open, wide.

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But normally, Brandon says the person who died the minute they drop dead. Of course, they release a lot of other nudges, wherever Nigeria is close to the exit will come up. And that's why the first thing that you have to do before you call other people to come quickly clean and clean that part and change in closed sorrow mining discovered to make it look good. No, because that is the last part 1% die. There's no more muscle to control all these things. So whatever still is

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close to the exit, it will release. So you just wash it nicely and then change the clothing prepare for other people to come. So that people don't feel bad. And now, this is something that happened here. I've seen this before because

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I've experienced that, you know people that died

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just after I was talking to them for half an hour. And for breakfast time. We went in and he went up to prepare himself

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then suddenly we we had somebody fall and he's got something Deaf here.

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It's not something you can plan we were talking like normal no sign No.

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It's just now they're preparing breakfast calling us in and then we one went out one went to the kitchen

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waiting for the idea to come down with you hit somebody drop with venom is God

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the Father of our gamma alpha de la who passed away last few days just he was here for he got cancer, he was here for some treatment.

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Then the left

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in the rich did the the next day he passed away.

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He was he passed away when he entered the toilet. And we have also cases that some of the

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JAMA do to get the husband and wife

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normal together and then the husband just have to go to the toilet. Normally sometimes you have to go for the call of nature. And there has been some time when you're so used to it you go to the toilet and then you just lock yourself in. And then he just passed away then at this kind of death actually, it may cause

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the one who is alive the low one feel very very sad for a long time because it's a southern kind of departure.

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And we were talking in normal knowledge science had delay is gone of that this will stay longer into the memory of the loved one.

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Number six putting a green branch in the room with the deceased body. Some time people work, Pulau or maybe they take some leaves, they stick some branches, the tree anything. We don't do the reading and continue or the body until it's washed.

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Not the sooner the Prophet

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booting das in the disease, I can say nothing feel the son of Adam is except that you don't have this kind of thing. The only thing that the prophets of Muslim do allow putting does not putting does meaning when the body is going down into the grave. Yeah, the qubole. So, those who are still up, can just get some soil and then make it like a ball in normally in a graveyard to see it. And then you pass it to those way who are inside the grave. They are going to make a judgment on the body because they are going to make sure that possible the head is facing the table. So they need something to support. So that's why those we're giving it you say Bismillah Allah milotic rasulillah

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Bismillah AR Allah miletti Rasulullah all Bismillah wa Sonata rasulillah this is what the prophet encouraged us to do those who are still up those who are near to the grave, you must try your best to get the some of the Earth to the one inside the grave. I use it Bismillah AR Allah Mila Tierra de la, Allah sumatera su de la, a lot of people is passing on this thing to the one inside the grid. But a lot of people do not know what to say.

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Yeah, not to put on the eye, just pass it and it's up to them to make a judgement

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to the body, face the Qibla inshallah.

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inshallah, placing a Koran book on the deceased chest or near him is not from the Sunnah at all. Now an announcement of debt, announcing the debt from highest minaret that is not allowed, but it's just to give information to the close members, and people who know him is okay in the malls, you can make announcement, no problem that don't go purposely to the highest minaret and make the announcement near announcing the death in newspaper or by passing a sheet of 19 to the door of houses and stores is also not Islamic. But nowadays, if you are a director of a company and so on, and you have a lot of people who are not Muslim in the company, they will do that because there is a way for us we

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don't have to do that. We don't have to do that. Describing a disease as Alma from the one who has been granted mercy or macola the Forgiving instead of asking Allah to grant him mercy and forgiveness is wrong. You cannot say Oh, he is so he Allah with. He has been forgiven by Allah. You cannot say that. No one knows. But you should ask a lot of stuck virally Akiko. That's where the prophecy when somebody dies, say is the farm as Dr. Allah, Allah, Allahu Allah, Allahu Allah, Allah. Just ask Allah to forgive them. You can oh he has been forgiven by Allah. You cannot say that. And you don't have the right to make that kind of judgment in

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Greek grieving and mourning. abstention of it is our duty to stay away from any person who witnessed the occurrence of death from doing any work for seven full days. is not according to the teaching of Islam. staying away from eating until the disease is buried is not from Islam. The family weeping with every lunch and dinner also is not from Islam. But personally you want to do that but if while you are having lunch together, you recall some good memory. You cry that is different. You shake tears is different. Just purposely you know.

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That before we eat, okay, five minutes, too many. You don't do that in the A Bismillah it you know, the leaving of the dead also don't like to do all this kind of thing in mourning for a full year during which the woman avoid using henna and very nice clothes or jewelry is also for a full year. It's not a lot. That is very common among the Chinese a Chinese will have that for one year. And that's why if somebody passed away that year, they cannot have Chinese New Year. Yeah. Know in Chinese New Year for them. And that is the Chinese way of doing thing. When we are Muslim we have our own

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rules to follow in turning Kaplan and rock upside down and covering mirrors and chandalier is not from Islam and on in. Even when the body is still at home. There's nothing wrong to have the mirror.

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The mirror be that you don't have to take any clothes and cover I think the way that our because we have some kind of belief

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that we can see here's the shadow and so on and so so we don't have that kind of belief in

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staying away from eating certain types of food during the mourning period such as fish grill made live and so on is not from Islam you hang the disease pitcher putting black ribbon around it, talking to it and so on. It's all not Islamic

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hiring professional violet to encourage the people to cry by reciting poetry in and the thing that raised their emotion is not Islamic, other people are doing that

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other people are doing their

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hiring recital running tape recorder the Quran era citation is not from the prophet in varying specific clothes or color like black for the morning is not from us. So,

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my now just something that I like to share about the color of the clothes now, if you want to go to a funeral and not yet Muslim funeral

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you know they have also certain value

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you when you are coming to the funeral you don't wear or the colorful can death. So if you are going there, you just dress what you have also so many color kind of garment if you choose that color that do not create

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some misunderstanding or anger into them is that you are showing to them that you're so happy

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for the death of Swenson No, no, you also feel for them. You said you just dread you don't have to dress a special gammon for that just your own Garmin, that who have a very plain color one. This

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is not just your car. But you just have to make sure that you do not create unrest. And to come to a funeral with all this colorful kind of get a attract fitna

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and also tension

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condolences making it a regular counseling practice to shake the hand of the deceased family member ha kiss them here is also not a way actually we do not want to recall. We just want them to feel

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alone. We just have to move forward. And we don't want to them to call become weaker and weaker. The family members forming a line near the grave for receiving condolences. Also it's not from Islam, gathering in a specific place the house or rented home to give or receive condolences in limiting the day of receiving condolences to tree

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Yeah, commemoration of the disease on the 14th date and annually after his death. This is a problem that we are falling a lot. Sometime go to three days, seven days, 10 days, 40 days. 100 days is not from the teaching of our proper the deceased family making an offering food to other people. On the first few days. We are not supposed to entertain people anymore. People should make it easy for us not we prepare food and serve our guests. No. Yeah.

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Very black or that policy for offering condolences in a special kind of dress in.

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You know some time China have a piece of Yeah, maybe the bone color, the black and the white color. We don't have to use that in our normal dressing is sufficient.

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Now there is x preventing menstruation woman or those imposed netta bleeding from attending the dying person or the dead body. Do you don't have that kind of belief that Oh, when the woman is not clean, you should not come close. And no, you don't have that kind of belief that this is closer to the giving arms or praying to the cat on the first night. And somebody Some like to do that. Until today when somebody is passed away. Those who perform funeral prayer, people will start to pass money. Give sadaqa and last time the tradition do that now Alhamdulillah in the city people have stopped there. Most of the time. People do that in a complimentary today. When you pray that's why I

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said when I was when in the 70s when I first became Muslim, in the 60s, late 60s. I still experienced that. When there's a funeral. When you go and pray for a funeral prayer, you are sure to get some manpower ready. You know people come and put their money you don't have they don't put on your hand because while you're making dough, and then we'll make the dough. I mean, I mean, I mean somebody will come and put some money

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And the pocket that's why they always wear the, the dress with more pockets, you know. So it's easy. So we love to pray funeral prayer time new young men attend because our prayer is so powerful before the ending of that the money come in LED, know, we have reward from Allah already. So they have good intention, they want to give sadaqa on behalf of the deceased maybe. But that is the wrong place. You don't give it yet to those who are praying. That's why I've seen some people. When there is a funeral, you will never see him and not attending he will be there. He's just like the angel of death. So

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he will always be dead. Because he know this prayer is very powerful before the ending. You got some reward already. And then sometimes you create another fitna. Sometimes you are expecting that this time we'll give them 10 ring gate 50 ring gate, Sonny got on a five ring get a llama. Katya. Yeah. Now you said your career unnecessary. Now, I experienced that in the,

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in the early 80s when I was in care, so we have good friend, yes, some businessman. And then he was worried that he would die. And nobody would really pray for his soul. So he come up with one idea. And then he sent a letter to all of us, is it who, when I die,

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I make sure that whoever come to my funeral, who attend for my prayer 100 drinking, I will give them

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purpose and 100 is written in a letter.

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So when I received this new upgrade, and see him and say

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that, oh, you have been very kind, you know, you'd like to help the poor. But by doing that, you are not

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sending the right message to the people because they may come and pay not because for you, because of your money. We want people to pray for you. Not because of your money, you can give sadaqa and nothing wrong. You can inform your family members, and to give something for the poor and the needy, but you don't have to do it to those who come and participate or the funeral prayer. There is not the right place. You corrupt the mind of these people.

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then he said to me, but

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it's okay. No, I just want people to come. I'm just telling you, because if the prayer is not sincere, have no value. If people come for the money, then you just get the money. They don't get anything from Allah.

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Sometimes people fear know that if they died, people don't come and pray for them. So, they come up with this

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money thing you know,

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giving to the poor the same type of food that this is like it's not from us reciting on Fatiha and prompting other to recite for the deceased. So, immediate after death or whenever he is mentioned is also not from the Sunnah. And this also creates another issue some of the leaders who are not yet Muslim, when he experienced that when the Muslim pass away member of the family or some important family members pass away the Muslim always say this, let me say alpha they have

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no So, now when this not yet Muslim become a leader to the community, he also feel for the community is representing the community. So when he some of the members pass away, and he also said this to the to his people seen some of these family member passing letters is an alpha he also alpha, they thought that this is how we as a Muslim,

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pray for our disease

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by Hindu memorize alpha Gods because he was not a Muslim. But he used the word alpha because all of us alpha and

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so it's not from the Sunnah of the Prophet. You can ask Allah to forgive the soul Yes, but nothing to do we are giving arm for the soul of the dead on the man of Rajab, Shaban and Ramadan, you only want to give do good thing at that particular man. You don't have to choose anytime you want to do good on behalf of the disease. If you have lost some property, and the children are not fighting for that, we use the property to do some work have to do all these things is very, very

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Good for the disease. That's why in life is very important to invest to have righteous children. When you have righteous children, the children will think of you and think for you more than think for themselves when you die,

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that you have given them the best education, everything. You don't have to pamper them with so many things, but you have to save your own soul. If Allah have gives you extra, you must prepare for your future. You do not know whether children would think on behalf of you you don't know. So before nobody thinks about you, you better think for yourself and prepare for your departure.

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What that departure is a one way departure when you go you go there is no time to say I will come back again and correct everything then I go No, no why you go you go. Even Allah have said in the Quran. That when we die, we will ask Allah Oh Allah give me another chance. Let me go back.

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No, because I have this plan. I have this intention. I want to do Allah say the only Ahmed agile for each agile, agile on layer stack hirasawa is stopped even when the Agile come Don't ever think there is a chance for you to go back.

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The movie is okay Hollywood say Back to the Future. Back to the Future.

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No, not Islam one year ago in Allah, Allah He was in the Ilayaraja.

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So May Allah help us to prepare ourselves in the best way. And anything good brothers and sisters, like we say, even Allah say pasta, pirate anything, you have a good plan, act upon it as soon as possible before something happened to us.

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Even you have good intention, you talk to your family members.

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There is your intention. They also have their own intention.

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Your dying colors, everything you depend on them, they will do what the thing that pleases them more. So that's why they said a person who live

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his well. Very much of all of us love our property.

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And you want the property to be with you forever. Do we have a plan to have everything

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for you?

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Why not? If you can, if you can have everything just for you Do you want

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of course the one

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then what should you do? The purpose will show us the way.

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wherever you live, to be with you give it for the sake of Allah now before it's too late, then Allah will keep it for you. That is yours.

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Because you have given it for Allah then allow us a fit for you.

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But what you left behind is not yours. What you're left behind is for the living.

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Yeah, your family members will come in ready. You take your device and you take it

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it's not set your can give it to them. But being that you think that I want to do for my investment. So you must depart from what you love most before it's too late. That's why Allah in the Quran Xia ludington. Allah burrata Takumi, moto a boon. Whatever you give is not considered as something good in the eyes of Allah. Until you love to give what you love most what you love most.

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You know better. Different people love different things. Yeah. Some people will love cat gets a real cat. No, no cat have nothing. You don't have give away there's no head value. The thing that value is thing that you love about your property, you get investment.

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Even like, Can you walk off your cat? No, don't walk off your cat, your cat nowhere to go for where to go after. You know, there are certain things you cannot just say I will walk up you think they have no value, there's no work of value.

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Now let us go to a quick one for the sign of good and evil ends. Allow the otherwise vaccinated, clear sign associated with a person definitely billing of indicating his status after death. Some of the signs a clear indication of good and dying with any of them constitute a very great tithing for the deceased. May Allah grant this to all of us, I mean, of his great benevolence and mercy. They are also clear signs of evil and dying with any of them constitute a bad omen.

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A disease may Allah protect us from that I mean, now this chapter we are going to talk about this particular sign, the sign of a good ending. Now look at the table here The following table presents a list of good sign numbered from one to 22 based on all the evidence in the book of Hades

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number one declaring the Shahada at a time of death meaning if you manage to shed a shadow Allah Allah en la ilaha illa before you die, that is one of the great sign

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because the profit the statement arcade calama, hobbico de la de la Jana

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dying with perspiring forehead, sweat

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when a person dies and there's a lot of sweat from the forehead is a good sign.

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You this you can check in on this you can check when somebody passed away in front of you look at the sign you dying on the night or day of Juma

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they have Juma on the other night of Juma in the night of Juma normally is known as Friday night Thursday night. Thursday Night is the night of Juma then the day of Juma

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dying a Shaheed on the battlefield,

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dying shot hit on the battlefield.

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The battlefield if you look in the ayah Allah subhanho wa Taala did sit here in the Quran. Allah Subhan Allah Xena cuckoo feasability la noir done, but

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But yeah, Enderby him use a spoon, Mama. Yeah, a lot of Allah Minh said that those This is in chapter three surah three, verses 169 surah. Al Ali Imran, in Surah, three, verses 169. This ayah means thing not those who have been killed in the way of Allah, those who die in the battlefield, Allah say, Don't think that they are killed or they have died, rather they are alive with their lot been providing. And Allah have provided them with all the sustaining that they love to have.

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Allah is telling us those who die fighting for the sake of Allah in the battlefield, they are not dead.

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the prophets of Muslims share with us about this idea.

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He said

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their souls are inside some green but beside lengthen suspended from the Divine Throne, roaming freely in paradise wherever they live. The soul of those who die in the battlefield is being transferred into a green birds.

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And this green but is allowed by Allah to enter Paradise.

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Not until the Day of Judgment the day they will kill

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and their soul is been taken up and allow put them in the inside a green bird and they are in paradise. They are roaming around

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the body is not there of course you

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then they take shelter at those Lenten was there a lot look at them and say the nama will look at all these birds. Do you want anything else from me? Allah is talking now.

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They say what more Shall we want?

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What more shall be one? We are on fieri in paradise as we like.

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They have been in paradise they can see all the delight.

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But physically they cannot enjoy all the delights yet. Just Just can see with their eyes. Allah give them the sight that they can see. But they cannot. Yeah, I would say enjoy the delight with until

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the end Yama, Yama, Allah Cobra.

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We roam freely in paradise as we like a lot. Ask them the same question three times.

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a month. keep on asking what more shall you want? What do you want more from me? What do you want more from me? What do you want more from me?

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If Allah will ask us, what do we ask him? What do you think you ask?

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Why didn't you ask? Maybe I want to see my family member, I want my children, I want my loved one maybe to be with me, maybe there are so many things that we have in mind.

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And by looking at what this, people were asked,

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when they felt that they would not be spared from being us, then they say all along, we like you to put back our soul into our bodies, so that we may be killed in your way once again, they want to go for this tech can better

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send us back to our body and allow us to engage in the Second Coming battlefield.

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Again and again.

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As Allah saw that, and then Allah say,

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No, that is not naka de cada is one year Aditya Did you cannot come back is a one way ticket.

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Even you have the good intention, but why they do that? Because they know

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the significance,

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the value of dying Shaheed

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because what happened later on Allah will grant them seven p tickets

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for them to give whoever they like

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70 tickets

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so it's up to them. So that's why we must try to be good, close to people who are very strong. And in propagating Islam jihad, the best jihad is not to kill is a safe life. Or the Prophet was saying to call people back to Allah. And some of them the caller what we were informed

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that happened already

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and is still happening in the neighbor country.

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We were supposed to be there a few times, but a lot harder.

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We will not there.

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And we have people who just came in visit as you see this. Those who wrote this on the whiteboard here.

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And they say Bismillah Ar Rahman AR Rahim, the chef na bzr Raja Maria Cardin is a pleasure that we are given the right to visit al Qaeda in Colombo.

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And we have seen and we are

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here we're here to talk to us to discuss about our activities our that two of them are from the Middle East in one who was

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very active in doing that why in Philippine and one in other country.

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And to shake was here

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asking us how do we do our da how we approach our not yet Muslim people I was sharing with them for two hours.

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brought them in here

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that now one of the brothers hit, I was there and then

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I was shot.

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And few people to

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whom they knew while they're praying.

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Somebody came in shoot them.

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And you heard this they're one of the scholars Cardone The one who wrote, don't be sad.

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Also was shot. But Alhamdulillah they survive.

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So this is the thing that happened.

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It can happen to any do I

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I don't know why they do that.

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The last time I went there,

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but I'm not going to the other area was in just money. Good. It was a very good event. Because the student managed to get all the help from the authority

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to show them that we are here for for peace. We are here to promote harmony.

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So that when I was named, you can see the security.

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The full area is covered. The hotel is covered. We have a lot of security.

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So far, though, of course, we do not know when

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this thing can happen.

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I told them I told this brother I've been to this country from the 80s from 84 5678. Almost every years yeah

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hamdulillah Allah has been kind to us.

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But that time whoever died for the cause of Allah,

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Allah will grant them a lot of blessing.

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So we hope that we are close to this kind of people who are involved.

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So they they remember us.

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If they have extra tickets,

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they will look for us.

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This is the fourth one, there are many thing that I'd like to share just go very quickly today.

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The fifth one dying while away from home. Now, this death, I was discussed other rules dealing with a different kind of good sign of good ending, dying while away from home for fighting in a way that we are not in the battlefield yet. You're just on the way you're going for the call of Islam, dying from waba, cholera epidemic, malaria, known as Darwinian sometimes

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dying from abdominal illness, socket, Peru,

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dying by drowning. When there's a flood, or you are streaming Something happened, dying from a building that collapsed upon you, the woman dead because of pregnancy or delivery, on a sign of good ending, dying from burning not because you burn yourself in

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your house or caught in fire, you just want to run the con and then you'll burn to death. This is a good sign dying from piracy. In pneumonia, any disease of the chassis,

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dying from TB, tuberculosis, dying while defending one's property.

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Dying while defending one's family. Dying while defending one's religion. Dying is during self defense, defending your own life. People come to you.

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They want to

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do many things to you, you fight for yourself for your freedom, they want to rape you, you defend yourself you fight they kill you because of that is a self defense.

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They were standing as get in the way of Allah.

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You know, when you are going in, in engaging in a wall, you have to have some God who will not sleep at night to take care of those who are sleeping. Now those who are on God, they got a lot of reward from Allah, Allah Allah.

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So don't underestimate the guts duty to be a guide also not piping, you're just standing be watching, make sure that the rest can rest in peace, you get a lot of reward from a lot dying while doing a righteous bit. I think this is something all of us have been doing a hamdallah dying being killed by an oppressive ruler, Muslim been praised after death by the righteous Muslim is a good sign. That means we do not know who is talking good about us when they die. The one who attend the funeral, always talk good about us. That's a good sign.

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But if no one will come into Alabama, you don't this guy and this guy, yada yada now you know this is a good not a good sign anymore.

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So these are the new 21 signs that a lot of women have shown us through the prophet sallahu wa salam. So later on we can go more detail but this is just the beginning for us to know whether those who pass away in front of us have a good ending or not. So now we open for q&a.

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you can make Yeah, yeah. Everybody prepare themselves to pray the funeral prayer

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is the sum up of Muslim they don't know to perform funeral prayer

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is very sad. You see what the situation is different. If you go to Makkah and Medina especially, that's why I've said you can pick up the funeral prayer very fast because almost every day there is a funeral prayer. And that's why I always remind all the people who

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For omura highs Don't miss the funeral prayer is more rewarded by Allah Daniel pray the sooner bada

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bigger any sooner that you are praying just for yourself. This you are praying for fellow Muslim you get more reward because the prophesy Lahore carrot who ever pray, participate in the future pay Allah reward in the reward of the mount of

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huge reward

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by using shaitan favors.

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Ah, so not your own sooner your own sooner. After Fargo you're busy via sunette Bhatia, and you'll miss the janaza prayer.

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The more you involve in janaza prayer, we hope and pray when we die. More people will pray for us. Because we always pray for others. By emails too selfish, everything you you you. Maybe one day you die, only Allah knows.

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So don't miss the prayer. funeral. You're in Makkah and Medina wait. After each part of the prayer, there will be announcement The only announcement that they will make is only for funeral prayer. Even you don't understand.

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When they say something, you know that it's a funeral pray. So you just prepare yourself here.

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Even a lot of people who who was there they are present. They went to visit but they don't participate in the prayer

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that he said

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and that is the best time for us to remind them, give them the booklet call them to prepare. It's not difficult, but they have memorized Slava Ibrahim your memory because you pray every day. So you should know that first and the second Kabira only the third one then the turn you can memorize on amendments one or two. The important thing is ask Allah for forgiveness. You can just say Allahu Allahu warham who RP example.

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Just repeat. If you can memorize more, to do more, if not, at least a lot of Mattila who are humble

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I think if you have half an hour you can memorize them

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just repeat it's not difficult.

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The only thing that we are not exposed yet in an attempt the profit the time the profit or pray most of the time for duck Berra.

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Once a while he makes five euro

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once a one he'll make six euro

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once in a while. Maybe he'll is seven, that could be a taco bell at the maximum night that we are.

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We are not used to be that when you go more than four, maybe the moms have a handle on what is going on in it. You know, maybe mom forgot. So we use the phone? No problem, because time is the popular one. so happened that fall is what the prophet always do.

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But there are also some that have been done more than four.

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before my

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Oh, yeah, of course. No, no, no, no. Yes. Yeah. Then you place it somewhere physically The reason you do that, because people can come and pray already.

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Anyone who was there now, they may not be able to wait until a later hour. You know,

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it is up to them if they have a Giamatti from the office, or they just can pray by themselves and the next few years Yes.

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Is read the ad is been warned. It's been covered in the California is done facing the paper. You just come and then you start your prayer. Needless to say, I'm sorry, no, I have to go. No, go, no problem. Because that is something that people don't plan for it. And you may have assignment here you may have agreement to the meeting here and you just come and everything is ready. You just pray and then you leave.

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There is why.

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Now, because they don't know what the prophets Allah has taught us. Following the Sunnah is bad. I know because I used to remind a lot of my students as to happen that some of the meme of family pass away. They informed me we were there. We have one they are watching. We are breathing the people how to perform the prayer. Now. It's just like when my brother passed away.

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I'm going to lead the prayer for tomorrow morning because he passed away at night.

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So I informed him that we are preparing and washing his body

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and the General Hospital, we have made all the arrangements already. The body arrived here about 10pm.

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Let's see. So we have this 6070 Gemma is around ready. So I said to them, maybe you are here tonight tomorrow, you won't be with us You are not free because none of us have your own engagement. I say no problem your operators. So they formed your mind they pray,

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but I am going to lead and then the next morning

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a person pray once

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or every Muslim only pray once. So whoever is at this example have come late, that you might have gone, they can still pray. As long as the deceased body is still there. They just stand there and pray by themselves. You remember the prophets

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when he passed away, nobody performed Juma prayer for the Prophet because nobody dared to be the Imam.

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No, they call ali ali de Nicaragua then who are we to lead. This is Prophet Mohammed Salah Salah.

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So everybody will come and pray by themselves. That's why the prophets punia might take two days.

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Because you cannot take the body away when the people are still coming to perform prayer. So male, female, young, old every time and every day pray by themselves.

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The unique for the prophets body.

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For us, Aqua is easy, because majority of us don't men don't know how to pray.

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You can just join in on the Sahaba and attend the Prophet everybody know how to pray.

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Because they have learned the basic thing of Islam, they know what to do.

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So when there is the example, but we have a problem here.

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No, I experienced one time, when the family member called me in I informed the demand who's at home, y'all get ready. And then because the house is not big enough, you can accommodate a lot of people. So after that, because they have a lot of other friend coming is to pack in the house so that they will bring this my head to the most. So I will inform them. For those who can wait until the mods we will pray here. And then you bring this to the mosque and let the people who is from the mod, they will pray from there.

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You know what they say?

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They put fear into the family members.

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Those who are from the most

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they say if you pray, don't have to bring him to the mosque anymore. Because it's not part of the tifia anymore.

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Because they said when somebody had done

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you don't have to do it again.

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It's very weird for people to say this.

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And now the family member I worry much we do.

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If I'm going to conduct at home with those who are around.

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And then to bring this they want you to send the most any.

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So now they are confused.

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They talk to me.

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I say no problem.

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Let's all go to the mosque.

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For us, we have no problem. We want to make things easy, which it can be done in that way more people can pray, the one who can pray and hear pray here, the one on goodwill over there and pray that there's no problem, no issue, but we can make an issue.

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You know, this is what I'm saying that because of our own ignorance.

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And we are so used with our way we want only to follow our way there is a problem.

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Based on is so easy is just example if you go to the mosque, after the the Mount happiny the body is going to take over how about those who arrive late by right you should not stop them. They will allow them to come and participate in a prayer and then there's nobody anymore then you move the body. But when you go there,

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they have their own ruling.

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They have no adapt, they have no adapter on our right

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is just because of the way there is their way.

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But look at the way of the prophets Allah loves Allah.

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Only everybody only pray once Yes, it cannot be like I have laid the drama first. And then some late comers arrive. They do not know how to bridge them Ah, this is that can you lead us again? Some people will do that. So they don't know

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We should know according to the Sunnah is one to one, if you don't have the Juma you can then you play by yourself. No problem.

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And then the Kumar question system.

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But Berra

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no no, when nobody that you should really

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pray by themselves. Everybody pray answer. You say when the people heard the death of the Prophet, some of them don't believe.

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So everybody is coming already, everybody is coming from near and far. Even Osama bin Zayed was supposed to lead the army to move forward

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to and to encounter the Romans. He

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come back on the way back.

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So anybody heard when a prophet pass away? Everyone is coming to the home of the prophets, Allah, and his body was just in the mosque.

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Oh, yes,

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of course, of course, every Muslim

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can participate in the prayer

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without any money, as long as you know how to perform the prayer by yourself. But if you have a manual, make it easier.

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And by right when you know somebody is going to pray, don't take the body away. Let them more people who pray is good for the disease and good for those who participate in a prayer. Both benefit you'll get one would have reward and the disease also will get more blessing from Allah.

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And the other question

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Yeah, if you take as long as you know how to face the if the same example the body is here, even the prayer from there now

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you must fit somewhere if the room is behind, and then you know that you are facing the body then you pray

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by then

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not necessary, as long as you know their direction.

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Yeah, that's the key bradstone if you know is a male, you stand around the head. If you're female, in the middle,

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the waistline in your stomach that is the place you stand for the woman is just that this is the body the head is here. Then if the male want to stand around the hip area, if a female you stand in the middle

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The hit is here.

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Already always the hit is on the left.

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On the right on the right, the hits on the right.

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important is to face the Qibla also Yes. You remember during the king of Nigeria and the king of Ethiopian digests, he passed away in a scene when he passed away.

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The people do not know that he was a Muslim. So they buried him

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according to the Christian ways,

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before he was a Christian King, and then he became a Muslim. And the news rich Prophet Mohammed masala. The Prophet never face a beginner. No, he faced the Qibla because the body is is been buried there. And then nobody offer prayer for him. Because no one know that he was a Muslim. Only our Prophet was informed by the angel that he is a Muslim now, so the Prophet know that nobody performed nobody washed his body. So the Prophet called the companion face the Qibla and performed solid janaza lie

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without the body

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and once the profit done, no second Gemma finish for Salatin, my rate only apply once somebody's done, alas, is like in a time of the Prophet, Abubakar time Omar, somebody passed away. Once you know that somebody had performed you. You cannot pay salata Maya.

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But if the Maya is that you can repeat then more people

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can come and pray. But for the right only the first group after that the other group just me normal.

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Non salovaara

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Oh yeah, the more people who pray because you do not know among all the people who come, maybe some prayers are very powerful, some are not. So the more people who participate is better is better there are more blessing of God.

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it even on normal Juma prayer,

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the more people who get it for Juma prayer is always greater.

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More blessing from a lot of black women.

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So one important thing Brandon says no more question from your side. You still have one more demo, okay.

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Okay, no problem.

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No, he died because of some sickness.

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No, no poison gone, poison is gone. Only Allah have protected him. People do say here Allah protected him. Then one day he was not well, then he was very sick.

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And then

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so he can't leave them in the prayer anymore. So he ordered his swap I tried to look for her found a walker to delete and the Juma prayer. So then the Prophet Sunday and feel better. So he came out. Then Emily Abubakar saw him Amato on the retreat and call him to lead he said no, he gave me Shara. You see,

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then the Prophet parent

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week again, and he went home. And he take rest. So on and off, on and off and then Ayesha used to when the Prophet was very sick, he was with Asia all the time.

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So I chose the one who tried to look from some some medication. And we do not know what then the Prophet

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said don't go and do all these things.

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Yeah, the prophets are aware that his time have come.

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Normally prophet Allah inform them and not as a leader inform us. So they are more ready. The only time that he is just had to go to the cinema. Yeah, he falls sick. And then his sweat a lot.

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As I used to bring water for him. And of course he walk. No, see what toothbrush.

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This is something that Prophet love in whatever he loves. I shall we prepare for him.

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And then the one who's staying very close to him is his daughter, Fatima.

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Fatima was always there to the look at the Father.

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Then the Prophet call of Fatima whispered to her and call her again whispered again.

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And I shall do not know what is is going on.

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But only after the Prophet pass away. I shall as Fatima

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is it? I'm very close now. Meaning the Angel of Death have come.

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And it's just waiting for my permission.

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Or the profit Why not? Just die until they give the permission to the angel of death.

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Moses know when the first time the Angel of Death approached him. He was very upset.

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No, he hit the no he hit the angel. The angel have black, blue black eye on him. Go back to Allah and see see what happened to me. No, he don't want to come back is it allows him to say to him that I live to see Moses now. Maha Bala Holika melodica.

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If he lived to see me, I'm ready to see him now.

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On he do not want to come home. Then call Moses to grab yet the ops

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and see how much hair he can pull from that ox. And that is how long he will live

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more I will extend his life.

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So when this came to Moses, is your ally is waiting for me.

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Why must I delay? I'm ready. Angel Pura

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on the Prophet

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Angel is giving him the time, just waiting now.

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Then he was just waiting because he wants to say something to Fatima

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and Fatima realize that

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the Father is leaving.

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He only asked one thing.

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Me. Yeah.

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We're under family who are the pastor? And to follow you is to after the Prophet Passover is six months after that Fatima passed away.

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By here he died because of some signals here. Some fewer. No,

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no, no, no, not because they're present earlier, he was done earlier. But everything has been Yeah,

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he got better and hamdulillah palace.

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So inshallah two other sisters. First thing I like to

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thank all the sister for what they have been doing been supporting our activities here. And of course, our main activities, like you see something from day one day, a lot of people walking in from The Mamas and Rohingya groups of people. And then we have also the men exercising on this coming 17th of June, where we invite,

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the list that we have gathered is about 300 plus in there is going to come.

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Of course, this place can accommodate that much of people. That's why we have breakfast, and then some, maybe we'll leave before us. And then there'll be more two more exercise for us to do after the 17 event. We are going out these are being done by our team. Now they have gone to the area to look at the poor that needies we have one incumbent on us at about 45 minutes from here. We have majority reverts. And there's one the ppro

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for the low cost, house area that another team is there to to get all their data and to follow up. This is what we always do last time we always go down to KL to Mr. India area. Pakistan most is a few areas that we always do come on borrow few few area that we go that lately we are because it's hard for us to pull up over there. Here is better we know the place we follow up we have the record, we are going to follow up not only in Ramadan, we will follow up after Ramadan again to see whether there is some improvement in them, whether they are praying, whether they are learning about the deen because we have to make sure that those who are poor, they should not disconnect and serve

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Allah. There's no reason for you to say Oh, because I'm poor. So that's why I don't pray No, no, that's why you have to pray harder. So we want them to become a better Muslim. And that's how we do our program and we organize our program properly, so that we have a follow up kind of activities, then we can help them better.

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And also whatever we have received from time to then we have

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Cambodia we are helping, we are sending and also we have sent some to Macedonia. The thing that people that we are aware, who need some kind of assistance, then we do extend to all this country that we are aware of.

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When we do things organized, you can do more, and you can have follow up matter.

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Bigger for us want to do good things you don't have time to follow up. You may not know how to follow up some time. So that's why we Thanks all Brandon Cisco have been supporting us to know what is going on the 17th you can just drop by and have a look. And if you want to know what is going to happen after 17 on the 20th and 22 there will be a program for us to go to Penang to this is something that we do almost every year. And last time we traveled until Alistar police but now we have our other members doing other things in the area. So we cover other areas. So we try to spread out in whatever we do. So that we can maximize

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whatever activities that we are doing for the benefit of the oma.

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So May Allah reward all of you for your kindness. And may Allah accept our files, our pm and for those who have been with us Alhamdulillah for those who have never experienced tm you're welcome to join us in one of the night. We have our camp

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Every night from 9pm we start our Isha prayer and they will continue with the PM. Yeah, you can join us if you have some time inshallah.

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until we see you again, we'll be like to fakie or acleda Juana or hamdulillah Allah min, so Hannah Paloma behind the Chateau La ilaha illa Anta esta Furukawa to boil a salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Yeah, stay. That's

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