Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 18

Hussain Yee


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This lecture was given on May 30, 2017.

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One minute lil who Deanna shadow Elena in la de la sharika shadow Ana Mohammed Abu rasulillah Salam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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hamdulillah to all the brothers and sister the arrangement for the first awareness day of Ramadan is a bit different. We don't have a table for all of you it's because of the pm every night we have it here hamdulillah I believe all of us

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prepared for their judgement in sha Allah

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now in the month of Ramadan all of us are aware of what we should try our best to do to increase especially our good deeds in should we should try to increase our good deeds because the prophets of Salaam always extra in Ramadan he's always extra extra time extra patient extra loving, extra caring he always respond to the needs of the needies in his are very alert about what is happening in the Ramadan to show that Ramadan is very different compared with Adam and in

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and because of now it is important for us as Muslims to understand why what is the difference between we the way we celebrate Ramadan and the companion celebrate Ramadan. Now the companion spirit of Ramadan is not as they are not doing something just because of the rewards know the level of responding to Allah commandment is radi Allahu Anh whom will do and that is their status.

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The highest status of our deeds is not expecting

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what is being prepared, offered to us, but purely to please Allah.

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When a person is ready, that means whatever Allah want him to do, he just do without expecting anything purely for Allah sake, then it's up to Allah to reward them.

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So the level of radar will give you the attitude of summit now wattana when you hear you obey, and you are not going to delay anymore, because good thing don't come always.

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It comes and goes sometimes when you want to do something good. The opportunity is not there. You know, so you missed

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the opportunity. So we always prepare prepared to do something that please I'm a horrible admin. And the second thing when the prophets and also lambs companions, do something for Allah, they will give the best and that is another difference between us. We love the Koran so ya know, we will do but

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Allah Hadar to death No, they gave the best

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one to the iron the Quran Allah say lanta Nando de Rohatyn Takumi moto a boon. Allah say, whatever you offer to Allah is not considered something very good in the sight of Allah until you are prepared to give and sacrifice what you love most. That is where the quality comes in.

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We left a lot of things, but you are prepared to sacrifice what you love most. And that is where the difference between we and the companions of the Prophet samosa, they don't care about this dunya but we still love dunya Alhamdulillah is not wrong. But I'm just saying so to understand the level name.

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One thing I like to share with all the good sisters and brother before we continue with the book

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is about what the prophet have foresee the knowledge that Allah have given our profits and loss Allah

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to see what is going to happen to know what is going to happen in the future. Not all because the future is IBM is something unseen. For us today. We do not know what is our future we don't know. Neither the Prophet know about the future except what Allah wants him to know. Yeah. Now the prophets and ashram did mention in one of the Hadees from Abu huraira rhodiola who

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said kubla Sati see noona down Zaboo fee has sodic we start the poofy Hello kazoo, but

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we are hoonah fee Hello. I mean, what you

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terminal v halakhot in vn Tico pa ye be da.

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Now the Prophet is here to remind his oma about what is going to happen next.

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The past he has informed his companion to the Quran.

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The President also here prepare them for the present. And the past, he also remind them about the past. Indeed before the hour come as

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the sign of the hours before the outcome, I will have to one is the main destruction everything dying and one is our our own our

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we just received news from the Middle East in Saudi that there's an accident caused handed over people die in the accident.

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So thing happens here, there is there our

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and normally we stayed there and only as you go to Makkah so that you hope that you die there. So the young one, normally they do have intention to die in Makkah and then they just want to go and ombre or harsh and and come home. But when our our it's been fixed by Allah, you are going to die that you are died.

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This is what happened here. So that is our on our before the hour. They are deceptive years that mean we will encounter years of trial in

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the true fool will not be believe people who are telling you the truth.

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A lot of people don't listen to them anymore. Because the truth is bitter.

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Truth is always against our liking. And when we speak the truth is very tough. We know sometimes to speak the truth is not easy.

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And this what the prophet said name, the true fool will not be believed people don't care.

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The liar will be believe those who talk nonsense say anything they want to say is like the messages that you will receive every day on your lawn no forwarding, forwarding, share and share and keep on sharing you don't know what you are sharing them then

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you don't even have time to reflect to understand to come from tobiano Allah have informed us anytime when any messages come to you in the form of your hearing on now to the internet. You must buy no

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they buy No You must check

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if you want to share if not you stop at your

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point you stop don't entertain.

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Because if not then you are going to share what is not true. And people will believe so the liar will be believe the one who speak the truth will not be believe because it's better. The trustworthy one will be accused of betrayal

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people who are very trustworthy people don't like them.

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Today if you are a very trustworthy with Amana.

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In certain sectors sector, they don't like you.

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Why because

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you are just like

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an alien to them. I will be so corrupted. You are Mr. Clean.

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So to them, you earn an obstacle. You are the troublemaker. They want you to be in the same gang. You don't eat big fish with a small fish let us eat together.

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So today The world is changing the trust what they will be accused of betrayal. So good people become a victim.

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The one who cannot be trust will be trusted.

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And that's why we have a lot of problem. We have a lot of issue in our society. And the rabida will speak and ye Vidya will speak there is a group of people the prophecy known as ru ye be the crew ye VEDA.

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Then the companion asked the Prophet, what is rewired?

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Who is this group of Roy EBITDA, the profit say or Roger loon

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paffett Toyota Corolla movie unreal.

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The men who is tough,

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it means

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ignorant or stupid.

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People who don't have fine knowledge, who don't have true knowledge, real knowledge, when I say near real knowledge, true knowledge, is they don't understand what Alon says they don't refer to our last book, neither they refer to they're saying the problem, just plain opinion. I think, I think this is good, this is good.

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Everything heatings

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no reference at all.

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He will speak on the affairs of the general public. And so today, a lot of people come and talk to the public.

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And they put the opinion, they don't say what allows it, they don't have any reference from the Quran, neither the Hadees is going to do these who say that is he

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don't do these. According to him, nothing from the reference from the book of Allah and the saying of the Prophet, he will be trusted to rule. And He will speak in the name of the people. I am representing the people who say

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I'm representing the majority. I am the voice of the public.

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It's just like the media today.

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Most of the media today, we do not know what they're talking about.

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90 they want to quote what Alan said what the prophet said. A lot of people who write books today, this is good, this good way is your reference.

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The puppy is going to buy, the puppy is going to read, the public is going to believe in that and they will act according to what is written.

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And there is no evidence

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you are talking about worldly matters. You are free to say what you want to say. But when you want to talk about religion, religion belong to Allah, you don't have the freedom to do anything you like.

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This is one of the adapt the manners that we must have led to a demo by in a day he wore a soli do not

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put the opinion the saying of anyone including ours, a hint of what Alan said in his book and what the prophet have conveyed to us

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like the other eye I did quote this many times but this is just a humble reminder

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on an RV encounter all these issues sometimes we get so caught up after we learn for so long, and then we get a message we get confused again and after learning is not terribly learning

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but because you know we don't have the the the the

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the the alertness of how to defend ourselves when somebody says oh this is from this group and destroy Khan's concert columns I did a Sunni group on our group you do not know who is behind on this group at all. Anybody can come up with

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the idea tweet their Facebook and then they say we are from this group we are from that group who are they we don't even know why must we waste our time to respond to all this kind of

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mess messages

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unless it one more meanwhile a minute in is a cada Mahara Salam Ron iE akuna lamacchia Rahman and Rahim

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Allah make it very strong warning reminder is not right at all. For a believing men of believing woman when Allah have decided something for you is clear cut in the Quran and the Prophet has taught us what to do. You still choose not to follow a laws command and the digital property you still entertain what the public say what the people say. hearsay is more important to you than what is written in the Quran and what is written in the Sunnah of the Prophet sanathana. When you do that, Allah said don't ever think that you are in the right path. Taka dolla dolla mo Bina Allah confirm you have done

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so insha Allah, may Allah guide us on, especially in the month of Ramadan, you get a lot of messages also. Every day I also get a lot of messages

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and confused and confused. If people like

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who are not learning I say it's okay for them to get confused. The people who have been attending class are confused why this

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is really a test No.

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And that's why in the Quran Allah says in the Latina man ob la hora de tomar la mia Tabu.

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A true believer because at the end of the ayah Allah says Allah eccomas Sadiq Khan inserted pujara after college, honorable Amanda column to me No, hey, Allah say

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those who really believe in Allah and the Prophet, aka we all claim that we believe in Allah and the Prophet. Now then Allah continues from lamea taboo, then there is no doubts that will follow after that, then they are the truthful believer. But when you still have doubts, then you know, you have problems in your belief.

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Because you're not

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easily it can be moved, can you can you imagine, every Ramadan, we have doubts.

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After learning, we still have doubts.

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Just an example, I hope we are not the one here in sha Allah.

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Now, let's go back to the book, page 58 Are we in page 58, today in

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duration of the constellation.

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Now, contrary to morning,

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offering underlines, is not limited to three days, but should extend for as long as there is the need for it. Until the trial, the element is effect fades away.

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Meaning if you now in the General Order is

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you can mourn for three days as a non who is not alive. Other than that you should carry on with your normal life. You don't have to be so sad anymore, but to feel for the family who passed away,

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will continue

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mourning three days for a wife for more than 10 days. That means you cannot

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entertain yourself, get involved in any kind of gathering that have fun, be happy. No, you just have to show that you are very sad, you feel for what happened. But for us, other than the three days you can still feel for the family, especially

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for the children who become an orphan now,

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either they become a single father, children or a single mother children. For them, we can still feel for them until their needs is being taken care of. Then we can be a bit relaxed.

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Because we know that in the family the one who's supposed

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to support and to protect is the father

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and then the mother

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rate Venus is always the father and that's when the father is not well. The mother was given by Allah in Korean property then the mother with a charge

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we know what happened to a yo la Salam Do you remember in the time of Nabeel la Sanam. Polycom Salaam, Donna,

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he got children.

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He was a rich Prophet, children, he have a lot of capitals with him a lot. Give him a lot of risky.

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He was so healthy with the wife that you that but with the will of Allah Satan never give up. He asked Allah to allow him the Satan to

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to disturb a lesson. Allah permit Allah No, you will not

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be weak because of the test. From a lot of blood, I mean, he will be stronger, he will become closer to Allah. Then Satan start his plan

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to make him go to a kind of disease, skin disease.

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And then to the extent that the warm coming out,

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is moving on the top of his skin.

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But he never complained. He just accept the cadaver of Allah. Now he was doing some business nobody wants to do besides him because of his kind of signals. They're worried that he may cause no wires to them.

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And later on the children all the children died.

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All the cattle, everything gone.

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A must test on him, the only one who is with him now is the wife.

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And now he can do anything, the wife have to spend on him, whatever property behind that behind the wife will you until there's nothing anymore at home.

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Now the wife have to go and work. But before she start to work,

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the wife start to sell whatever they have

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until her own hair. Because at that time hair have values. Woman keep long hair, they start to cut their hair and sell their hair to just to get some is better treat you give me some food, I gave you my hair.

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And the wife keep on hiding the shoe a job in so that the husband do not know what happened to her.

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Now no one knows when people came to know that his wife, this is a yope wife. And profit is a no no, no, no, we don't want her to work with us because we are worried that she will be affected by the husband, and she will carry the virus to us.

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Now, he should have nothing

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to help her husband. That is the time the wife

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express her feeling. Very sad, very upset. Why? Why a lot do this to us. That is the time she expressed her feeling, there's a time I use it to the wife.

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I'm going to punish you for what you just see. With 100 canes.

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Allah has given us so much before, for so long. We never say anything.

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We just accept it. But this is just few years, we start to complain.

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When I'm healthy,

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I will punish you for what you just did. Stay away from me now.

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Since you are very upset, you just stay away, I don't want you to take care of me.

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Now the woman has to take charge because he can do anything. But then I will say no more since she complained.

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This is the show original

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wife also must have a lot of patience. If the husband have patient you must have patience.

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If the husband start to complain, then you must also have patience.

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You should help the husband, the one who's in pain is the husband is not you.

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But you must be extra patient but you don't create tension to to those who are sick.

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Then allows then you start to ask Allah for protection again. And there's a time Allah, He

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completely is back to normal.

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My hearing member that he said he's going to punish the wife and he cannot pull back. But Allah show him another way

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that he gathered 100

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what we call Li D something and then and then just one hit palace.

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Yeah, you have fulfilled your promise that you're going to punish.

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After one Alon Rabbil alameen give back to a yo la Salam. Everything that Allah has taken back earlier. They have more children,

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the wife and more children, new family and new capital coming in. And they become Russia again. And hamdulillah.

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Now let us go back to this

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topic again.

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Allows messengers to the last console Jafar family after three days had passed, even though he told them to stop weeping over him. You don't have to cry. You don't keep on mourning anymore. The hardest in this regard was cited earlier in the chapter and announcing the death. And we said that here and that report of it that emphasize the current discussion. Abdullah bin Jafar reported that the Prophet similar some sent an army to

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a will which he appointed Zayed bin harissa and told the army Aleikum Ximena Harris, for info to reside, or storage head for American Jafar.

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Your commander will be saved in harissa, the first commander

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As he is killed in the battlefield or die as a Shaheed, then your next chain of command will be Jafar. If Jafar is killed or Shaheed in the battlefield, your next chain of command will be and Abdullah bin raha.

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Now, if you look at the Hadees, the prophet SAW some before sending anyone out for the better, he always made sure that he prepared

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them properly because you need a leader, you need the chief of command.

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You don't have only one you should ready for the second and third one because the chief of command may die earlier than the other in the Army or the soldiers. So you need to have a leader in a group in a jamaa.

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So when they met the enemy, they help deflect now in the in the LA Mohammed era, the Islamic flag is always La ilaha illa Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah, we are not representing moon or star or anything very present La la la la Muhammad Rasul Allah, whatever we do for the sake of Allah, and the way we do it, we follow Muhammad Sallallahu sallam.

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So they fought until he was killed then Jaffa held the flag and fought until he was killed. Then Abdullah held the flag and fought until he was killed.

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Then curl it in the wallet calibra wallet name was not mentioned here.

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But now you need a leader or the tree leader is gone.

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So you need somebody. So call it in the wallet, just come forward and carry on the leadership and hamdulillah in

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and Allah gave Kali nwacc Valley victory. When the news about this race, the profits and loss and he went into the masjid and addressed the people after praising and glorify Allahu Allah, Allah mean, meaning the prophet will start with in the hamdulillah his mother who normally the prophet will start with that before he want to convey a message to his oma.

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And he informed them

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very your brother have met the enemies and very leaves I took the flight and fought until he was killed that what the prophet mentioned it happened.

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And then Jaffa happened to Jafar the same thing he was killed, then Abdullah, then the last one, the SWAT of Allah to deflect colleagues usually, and this is a time collignon Well, it was known as safer law. The Prophet give him a title collisionally have a title, Saifullah the SWOT of Allah, that mean his are very strong and powerful

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warrior In any war that he laid seem to be

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always in, he will bring victory back in.

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So Allah gave him victory. And he was spared from death that mean he did not die in the battlefield.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam left Jafar family to themselves and did not visit them for three days, three days just to give them the time to relax. Yeah, to plan what they have to plan. Sometimes when you want to help somebody,

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if they do need your help give them a breakfast is just that when somebody is sick,

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and they do need your president at that time, give them a break for three days.

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Because sick people need rest. If everyone respond and then he have no time to rest, you have good intention. But you must know that he is very sick. Now he needs time

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to recover, at least give them three days break. You can pray for them, but don't

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disturb them, give them the privacy.

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Then he visited them after three days, the prophet will visit them and then the prophet will remind them let them cool Allah

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Do not weep over my brother past this day that mean whoever keeps on crying you should stop. You should accept the cadaver now is gone. And you have to move on. You cannot just become naive and weak and become so passive but you have to move on.

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But what is important

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are the only Adnan Hakim is

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Bring my brother's two son before me. Now this is how we come in. When somebody passed away, we must show our love and our care. But not just talking. Or we pray for your father. We pray for your mother. No, no, no, not just empty words. Not just lip service. Now, you must have somebody who will also pick up some responsibility. Abdullah said we were brought before him with messy house got children, children, nobody is there too, to no organizing for them anymore.

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So he ordered

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some Lawson on the old Hallock invite the Baba here because they are so unorganized. Now, they are not well taken care of the barber came and shave the head of the two boys and allows a messenger said Mr. Mohammed for

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a minute at Italia s for Mohammed, he resemble our uncle Abu Talib. And for Abdullah, he resemble me both in look and character. Now, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is trying to boost

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the model of this to boy you know and inform the companion that these two boy is very important. We have to take care of them, we have to love them, we have to tell them that even your father is no more we all are here for you.

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This is very important. Now, we have to show them that we are here for them.

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There is where the

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they are considered as a dumb now. Yeah, team. So when we are team, we should respond to them. So that they know that they can refer to somebody for help in case if they need any help. if they need any protection. Then he helps us do less hand racing and say treat them a lot more Lee Jaffe actually, well badly abdillah suffer with a suffocation. Yeah, I mean, a lot. Take care of Jafar family after him and bless for Abdullah the dealing that he made with his right hand. This is what the prophets on some of his do that he pray that Allah will help those who are leaving to help Jafar family. They mean whoever helped Jafar family, Allah will help them

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and whoever take care of the orphans, Allah also will take care of you. That's why the prophets on the street in other Hadees whoever take care of the orphan day and me it's just like this is how close we read Prophet Mohammed sama Sanam, in the Day of Judgment. So don't look down upon them. But taking care of orphans is not necessary to take the orphan out from the family. Now.

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We have been discussing this issue many times with a lot of people.

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Do you think it is right? to just have a home for the orphanage, orphanage home for the orphans, something we think is necessary if there is a need.

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we don't encourage them to get out from the family yet until the family can do anything and ask for special help. That can somebody take care of my child

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so that I can move forward, I can do more thing. Because if they're still dead with me, I just can't move because somebody must take care of them. Then you can plan for a daycare center number one

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where the mother is working or anybody so there is somebody some adult look into the effect of these children. But we do not want them to be separated.

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It's not healthy sometimes.

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No, unless you have an environment as good.

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You like a father mother figure in one area where the father and mother figure will give love to these children Alhamdulillah we do not want them to be in another

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orphanage because they are often now.

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We have to bring the family together.

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Either we call the aunties the uncle who are close to them to get involved and then we may come in to help them financially example the extra needs. We have

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Help them but they the family take care of their own children. If that can be organized, that will be the best one.

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We know like I didn't have an orphanage, we have a home.

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These are because the children, the parent can handle them.

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They asked for help. So we try to help them. And when everything is okay, they can bring them home. And they can take them back. And we have to train the children to take care of their mother, how to help the mother if they go home, or how to help their father if they go home.

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So we will try to educate them, prepare them so that they are ready to go back to the family.

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That should be our way of helping the orphans. Not just take them away from their fair family. And sometime when you do that, you're not helping the child, the child needs

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their own parent to be around. The connection is very different. Unless the parent abused the children. And that's when even by law, the law will come after them and take away the child because you fail to function as a father or a mother. Now you can abuse your children. how bad your children is, because they are still children. You can educate them, it's easy to educate the young one is difficult to educate the old one. We know we are all now you know, maybe you are not old yet, inshallah. But it's not easy to change the elders name for the young one, I think if we try our best to show them the love and care, they will change. Now, this subject actually is trying to tell us

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Then how should we respond when somebody passed away? Should we just make dough and then tell them and know that

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caused them to be patient. But now the children, those who have children,

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somebody must come in and offer a helping hand, we will make sure that children's fair and welfare will be taken care. That is very, very important. We do this exercise before our kadem had been doing a lot of this activity since the 80s. When we don't have a home, what we do, who ever have this problem their parents pass away.

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And who is taking care of them we will come in, we will support them financially, okay, then we have activities that they will come

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to us to follow the activities when we have camp because our camp for young children from before started in 1984. Until today, every year we do have camp for children. And that's when we train the children to be more independent, more responsible, more helpful, so that when they did they can help themselves and help their family.

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We have been doing this year in year out maybe a lot of our Gemma are not aware because you are just with us a few years ago, but we have started all this activity since 84. Know that we try to send them to add the state where they have their madrasa or Pando. You know, for those who want to learn

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Islamic knowledge we send them quando but we send them to Penang we send them to Clinton, we send them to Jehovah centered in Greece, Milan from different different states now,

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but later on our children, the Bandar children is not like the component children, the Banda children, we bring the Bandara problem to the component. So, the component children having problem now because of our children. So after that, we have to bring all of them home.

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We had to bring them back and this is in their early, late 80s we have to bring them back.

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Because they it becomes No wonder children very exposed to many things.

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So they become the chief when they went into the company.

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So the teacher the material, they have problem colors, show we have some problem. We can handle it, no problem. We asked you to help us and give give a try for one week, two weeks. If you can't handle it, let us know.

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There are children, we send them three, four of people, people will send them to the place and after two days they came back.

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They are so smart, they know how to run away and come back to college.

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Even we send them to cadet they can come, we have to send people adult to send them to make sure they're safe, but they can come back by themselves.

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Wow. So we've got the group or the children and give us it. What do you all want from us? Do you want to change? Do you want to be a better person? Do you want us to help you? If you want this is the role. If not, we will have to send you back. You decide. But now, we cannot send them anymore. People said no, no, no, no, no, we have tried but we can handle your children.

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So we started our own, we rented two unit of terrorists house, side by side, male and female

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somewhere in KL, and that's when we start now. You stay with us.

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We understand you to add a pail. Now you have to stay with us. You cannot play your trick with us anymore. Because we know you from day one. Where we assign you to the pond. They do not know do you have angel? No, you're the good guy. So we have to do this exercise. And hamdulillah when we were taking care of them, they change.

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These children change Alhamdulillah

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now they are big now from ETS. No, some of them got married. If anybody who liked the Nazi era, the near cyber Jaya

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side, which is an Arab restaurant had remote restaurant.

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The boss married one of the ghosts that be brought up

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the family the whole family was under our care. And now and hamdulillah they have a good life and hamdulillah

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all the brothers also are helping in the restaurant in Chicago hamdulillah on and off, they're coming visit us now. And they send some Arabic rice for us. Alhamdulillah

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we have good some of them still connect contact with us some other hamdulillah they are overseas. Some was sent to Egypt to learn about the deen and they are teaching some of the new cameras from Malaysia, in Azhar.

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Somebody sent to Yemen hamdulillah.

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Few of them got married already and hamdulillah. This what we have been doing. So what is important brothers and sisters in their mother, then, according to their mother then came and started describing her children's orphanage and poverty, trying to move his heart. He said to her, yeah, an ala, do you fear the poverty for them when I'm the protector in this life and the heat after the mother is coming to express you know, how the mother is feeling. So the Prophet is saying to the Mother, are you worried when I'm still alive, I'm taking care of the children.

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When I take care of the children, I don't take care of them only here. But I'm going to prepare these children for the hereafter. And I will be a witness because the Prophet is there to witness the children's growing up.

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So the prophet will protect them and make sure they become righteous children. And the prophets will bear witness for them in a day of judgment. So you don't have to worry anymore. When there's somebody who is taking care you don't have to be too sentimental, too sensitive. No. You must have trust in a marble and I mean, if someone who really wants to help you, for the sake of Allah in the right way you do it. You know that system riders from day one, every Ramadan. We have a lot of people coming in for one to one for AIDS.

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Maybe later on you can see even outside. And from day one until today we have more than 40 people have came in this ad to walk in one. And then we asked them what happened to some of the old girls who used to come to us. They said they have left for us and the uncle our program. When uncle said that it's time for you to go to the third country. If you don't go they are not responsible for you anymore.

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And then we asked them, do they communicate with all of you they say yes, do they have problem? Now they have some problem. They have some they said whoever want to go, if you are wearing Hijab here, you cannot wear hijab.

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No hijab.

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You want to go they say is better for you.

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You become a Christian, then we send you

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now this is happening,

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what can we do the other one who decide

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you need their help you want to go to the country.

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The problem is when they stay here, we have issue may Allah make

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change this environment,

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they cannot work if they cannot work, how do they survive?

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So they try to work illegally. And we have people who are alive give them authority.

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They have no Amana. They know these people don't have

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the proper document,

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they will stop you whatever money you have the ticket for you.

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So, we are in a difficult situation.

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Now, neither you can help them offer them a job we, we need

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manpower, we are lack of manpower, why don't you let these people work?

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So that they can survive?

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And they try to and then you still go and is that they like robbery.

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You exploit them. You oppress them, how can we do this to them?

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Whether or not that Muslim is offering them

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a new life

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with a new identity with a new future.

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We have told them said if you go and if this situation is going to

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be the condition, you have to change and it is really a test for you. Whether you want your dean, or you Antonia

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May Allah protect them in sha Allah.

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Thing is changing in the West, we know that they have not been very honest with their word. They are not sincere. They talk about human rights, but they don't honor our rights.

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They force you

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to do what they want you to do.

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making food for the deceased family

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is recommended for the relative and neighbors especially to make for the deceased family enough food to surprise them during the peak of their distress. When somebody dies. So we as neighbor, the first thing we should do is we should prepare, make sure they don't worry about food, we will prepare food for them. That is the way Islamic not that the family of the one who died have to prepare food, you know they have to eat, their family member is coming from far relative is coming. And then they have to eat and there's nobody who take care about their food, we should take care of their food. When there is a man a death in any Muslim, how we who are close to them immediate come, you don't worry,

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our food, we will organize for you How many people here 4050. So we start to organize food for them. Either we send the food over there, or they can come to the neighbor and have food and then they go home. Don't burden them with all this kind of thing anymore. They don't need

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to have that they have a lot of things to think about

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how to handle the disease, you know what is going to happen, they're busy, they have to organize the funeral, the report, police station, they have to run here to the keyboard to the graveyard to make sure that everything is organized. You don't burden them that they have to serve you like you are a guest. You are no more guests at that time. And

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you don't have to wait for an invitation to go for a funeral.

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For buka puasa you have to wait for invitation

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for funeral. You know there's a funeral, you should respond every day. And you ask them immediate ask them who's taking care of them. No one, no one I will take over.

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Immediately you organize everything.

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That's how we should respond islamically and to show that we Muslim are here to ease the burden of those who have gone through some trial in life, the kilometer or the kilometers or those who just face

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test from a lot of blood and mean him. That's right. The prophecy is not only early Java ahmann mc foot for Java family, not only for Java, but for Jafar family. All the family members is that we should take care of their food because a man

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has occurred diverting them from normal life because masiva to place now they are not here become Oh, Seba is always by surprise. Nobody planned for it. That will come to you by surprise. So, when something happened LBD will get panic, I don't know what to do. I know so LBD would be busy, so don't let them think about the food. Yeah. In particular, I shouted Allahu anhu. I used to order giving albina to the sick and those who are distressed for the loss of a beloved one. And she reported that Allah the messengers from Omar Salaam, also say yes, indeed. albina brings comfort to a sick person's heart and alleviate some of his distress in his food is a kind of food.

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That is very common among the Arabs.

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A sharpener Rahim Allah, Imam Shafi instead, I urge the deceased neighbor, or relative to make an effort for the deceased family as to surprise them during the day and night of death. This is part of the sooner and the thoughtful, good act and is practice of the generous people before and after us.

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According to shocking, he do not want anybody to burden the deceased family that they have to entertain the other family members entertain the guests No.

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So that's why according to the sooner the profit when somebody passed away, make sure that their kitchen if not active, no activities in the kitchen.

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Everybody will take him by foot for them, don't let them prepare anything.

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This is something that we try our best to do, inshallah, the same go to today, we have more issues now about going to the police to make a report and preparing the transportation for the disease, and then the graveyard all this thing. Now cost money.

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Now everything become commercialized today is not like it is our much sacrifice, it is an honor for us to help another brother or sister to the help is help but money is money. So what can we do? The moment you call the package the group to wash the body, they come up with a package ready for this this for this, then this is how much you have to pay. So what should we do brother and sister today?

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What should we do?

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We know now, they have the masiva. And now another movie back I mean, they have to spend extra money.

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You know, when somebody passed away, if they have property, the property will be frozen.

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There is the time that the family need the money. And there is a time they have that problem.

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No amendment law is something

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is not making easy.

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This is the time at least you release 20% let them make use of the money they need

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the money to pay these to pay that. So what we can do

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is that what we do anacardium always do. Since we have the when we have the transport with us, when people need is free, there's no charge.

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If they need

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extra than that, meaning if they want us to arrange for the washing, then we will get our theme is free. You don't have to worry about money.

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You just let us know what you need from us. We will give you what we can that's all.

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And that's why our hamdullah for those who have contributed to to get a win and the winners here. So anybody who think that if anyone needs and you want to cut off the cost, you just let us know we have the team.

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If you need the help from us,

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this is what we should do. Of course you have you had to pay for the people who did the graveyard. Everything is money to the buyer, right? Why must you charge these people? There are people that this is the best time to charge them.

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Because you have to pay they cannot say no.

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So but you are not supposed to commercialize this thing thing. Might people have commercialized this? They'll show you one, package a package B package c you know, and now the Muslim also is starting to imitate them. They also want one more kind of package. No, no. We want the Islamic package. The Islamic package when somebody dies is free of charge.

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Because it is your contribution you get reward from Allah by helping another brother and the family.

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You East the prop the prop the burden of the family, then Allah What is your problem in the future?

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You don't lose anything brothers and sisters, and

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so we hope that we will be more productive inshallah and we know how to approach in this paper. Even they say you don't worry we have money. Of course the Prophet didn't mention in any other Hadith, the best thing to spend on the disease is by using the distance money

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in the disease have your own money property is there so that they use his money, use his money to buy the clothes to cover him. The washing people in the bay uses money to pay now mine is better because it's for himself.

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Yeah. But if they don't have

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then it is an opportunity for all of us to do good deeds.

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So we should grab the opportunity

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and allow it help us inshallah.

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Whoever make life easy for somebody here, Allah will make his life more easier in a day of judgment in Sharla.

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Lastly, the thing that I like to share with all the sisters under rubbing over an orphans head

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a good act of consolation towards a disease often is to supplicate for them and rub over their heads. Abdullah bin Jafar reported that when he was a little boy, playing with the other boys, Allah messenger, Prophet Mohammed, someone lots of paths riding an animal, he pointed to him and commanded raised the boy to me so far Oh has an

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alien race this by to me. The Prophet did not come down by he called somebody to race this by up to him, he set him in front of him. Then he pointed to and commanded

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cut the other Sahaba he set him behind him he knew that this uncle Abbas love his other son obey the law more than cotton but that did not prevent him from holding cotton instead then his took up the last hit treat them every time in a long loop. Jaffa Fie, what did the Allah take care of Jaffa children after him. Now this

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rubbing over orphans, Hitler is also very important. They need children that can accomplish something we talk to children but we don't have any body contact.

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That is just like a patient who is in pain. You don't come and talk to them and no touch. You should hold them.

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You know the Tash play an important role show that we have extra care, we feel for them.

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You don't go that you if you want to be a doctor and you want to hold a pen and go and touch your patient. You bet Don't be a doctor, you know, you will see that, oh no, I cannot touch your your your because you're not my mom at that point of time. That touching is not the touching of desire

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is to show your patient that we care for you. We feel for you.

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I've seen some people who touch the patient we've spent

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some time and I have the opportunity to talk to this group of doctors normally are informed that

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you must know when you can touch when you can. Yeah, this is important.

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So children need that kind of outcome. That's why it's good to see children some time running hand, come closer you grab them hold and touch their head.

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It's good because it's a Sunnah of the Prophet salsa.

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But something you just don't like too difficult. He they're so active in the running here and then but you have to hold them

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and touch them and talk to them.

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And you cannot blame them. What can you do because a parent gives them all the freedom to do what they want at home. So when they come up, they thought that this is also the home in our area and hamdulillah the children normally come here when they were just baby. The parent have brought them here. So it's easy to control baby, they can move by themselves.

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Then suddenly they grow and now they become they're six years old, seven years. This is like a playground for them when they come here, but we also have to discipline them. We cannot just let them do whatever they like we do when we had the opportunity to discipline them. You're not supposed to do this. You're not supposed to do that. We have to remind them, but we have to hack them. Hold them wrap their head

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is a sauna and some people don't like children you know?

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We have problem some people just hate children.

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Don't do that because the prophets a Muslim said to us those who have no mercy

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then the one and the heaven will not shy away his mercy.

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show some love. Even when we don't have our own children, we feel for other people's children and we must feel for them inshallah, in

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vaccinating a place for receiving condolence, a common practice is that

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the deceased family and relatives gathered to receive condolence in a graveyard house or Masjid.

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According to the sunanda Prophet, this is a bita

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that become worse when the visitor expect from the disease time to offer them food, coffee and other services. They want to be like a guest no more

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than me, you don't have to fix a place, wherever you are. Then you just give to them. You don't have to organize in a special day for that.

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When the Sahaba consider gathering for visiting with the Sahaba considered gathering for visiting the deceased family and making put after bring him both acts of wailing, you are burdening them. Yeah.

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Yeah, you are just burdening them. mm nawabi. One other famous student of human trafficking. As chunky, as Taraji and other scholars have all expressed that his dislike for the deceased family to sit for receiving condolences, right that they should conduct their normal life, and whoever happened to meet them will console them. And this reading, applying equally to men and woman, and unshocking said, I dislike condolence gathering, even in the paper did not raise their wives with crying, that show they renewed the distress burden and people with unnecessary expenses and conflict with the report from JIRA, meaning the report from a daddy's name.

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So it's very important brother and sister that we know what we can do when somebody pass away. Even they are not yet Muslim, please remember, not yet Muslim, they are human like us, even they are not Muslim. If you as a family members, you must give a helping hand.

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Of course, you don't go and pray like how they pray. But you know that they need money for the funeral, so you can contribute some money.

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Because if there's nobody to burry then we muslimahs very dead. You cannot just let the body like we must do something is the duty of the community now. We have community responsibilities, but we don't interfere in the ritual.

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You can give Yeah, it's just I always remind a lot of Muslim

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groups in the government sector, they have this top boon to matei and

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a boon to matei and something like that. Organized by the Muslim body in all the government sector. I said do you open for everybody? They said no, this is only for the Muslim essay then. The not yet Muslim cannot get help.

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Why don't you open it up?

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We are not used to it. So everything that Muslim is doing Muslim, Muslim, we are not reaching out. If you do not want them to participate, no problem. But when they are family pass away and they are also your friend. They also give them some support. Some money contribution.

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We are not saying I'm giving you for the ritual not a given to ease your burden.

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Show them that we Muslim care. By doing that maybe you soften the heart and one day they get closer to you because you show that you care for them

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you need to do that

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they also die we died in it and sometimes the worst thing they will help us

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now one is checked with all of your maybe years ago Ramadan come in some time the not yet Muslim, those who own shop sundry they will send sugar rise to the most because they know the most is going to prepare What?

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Boo Boo Lambo

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for people who break past so they will stand they like to contribute. So we accept.

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Yeah, the rise and everything but

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What happened what saddened me one day while I was talking to the NSA

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I would like to

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taste the blue bar if possible they don't give them Bobo

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they don't even know stand Samba walk back to them say this is from the most you know the rice also from you know this is what we call because you must remember in Ramadan the Buddha in Ramadan only happened in Ramadan

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this kind of obor only happen in ramadan ramadan you don't have this Kambou bar anymore it back to normal boring

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pitch for a chicken party but only Ramadan has special reward. So this guy said I have been contributing every year but until today I was not given the opportunity to taste the food

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as it is that what happened the same day I went down to the mosque I get sample one and pack it and send it to him while he also was very happy it is the difference in our board and Dr. Boo Boo

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is it we have a special boo boo boo Lambo you don't have in the restaurant also they don't have him. You have what boo boo Ashura? Yeah, they don't have this move on.

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So why not you share with them? I'm going to share with you why brother sister, why we Muslim are always thinking in what without reaching out to others.

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It's just like when you want to break past Can you invite your friend who are not yet Muslim to come and break and have food with you to dinner with you? Why not? If they're around

01:06:49--> 01:06:53

show them that men. Now we must say a very loving, caring people.

01:06:56--> 01:07:09

Normally, we don't do that. But we try it. Here normally we have guests the time we had a star here when we have a star and so happened they got guests who are not yet Muslim, we will invite them

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and then they'll have some experience as how we break past

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the worst place that I've seen people breaking past there and very sad. It's not in Malaysia, but in a country I don't have mentioned the name of the country I feel very sad because the leader

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love the people he organized the breakfast every night

01:07:36--> 01:07:45

free and whoever come and breakfast there and pray there and have Sahaja one believe they give you

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money cash per person

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is so kind

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to keep on giving more and more to the whole to his people to the nation.

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But the way we behave is very very bad.

01:08:06--> 01:08:08

Waiting for if the food is going to come

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but they keep on using the spoon and not the table made a lot of sound.

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very impatient.

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That made me very very sad.

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And sometimes the children

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because we don't discipline them, they break the plates the glass

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nobody can see anything because they are not allowed to complain

01:08:38--> 01:08:51

when they say have many in the storeroom just replaced a new one Don't worry sometimes is good to be kind but you have to discipline the people. So they are grateful they're thankful

01:08:53--> 01:08:57

they don't become too arrogant something they become too arrogant

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and they don't have manners and this is bad if the decline of manners in the oma is very bad. So brother and sister we hope a lot of Allah mini will make it easy for all of us. We know what to do now if there's a funeral and we know what we can

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how we can help and we can contribute just do something is the person sometimes the person don't need because they have the mean but show them that we do care we feel for you. Yeah, if there's any question you open to q&a foto de

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01:09:38--> 01:09:39

question from the sisters first.

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Ramadan normally morning a bit tired here.

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Why because we don't sleep.

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don't have enough sleep actually Ramadan

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and we finished the pm almost leveling and then we prepared almost to have them we wake up for something five and then

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But me online except all over this insha Allah

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and for the sister who do not participate in our cam here, please remember you can do it at home but do it properly no you have seen that in some area not in Malaysia in the country our neighbor kind of people do the same for 20 or a car how many minutes?

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Less than 10 minutes

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you do not know what they're doing

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less than 10 minutes they can finish that number of records

01:10:45--> 01:10:52

no praying camera Ramadan is not what it is as soon as you want to do do it properly. If not, you just don't do

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make your Isha and go to sleep.

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But when you start to pray, you don't play around with the prayer you know in the time the Prophet one companion who came in late and then he was praying his prayer the Prophet was looking at him after he finished his prayer the Prophet commanded him to pray again.

01:11:14--> 01:11:14


01:11:15--> 01:11:18

because the pray have no tomorrow Nina

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is like Arabic no

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no's pause at Allah. The Prophet said this prayer is not valid it is valid the problem will just let it go the Prophet remind him pray again and he prayed and then it on the Prophet pray again.

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So please make sure that you do it properly you can do it at your own time. Don't rush not necessarily after Isha immediately as long as after your Isha prayer and before fudger you can start this prayer you can even pray to farrakhan after Isha then the rest maybe four o'clock you wake up you do four more and repeat here

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you can break no problem This game is up to you

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even do continuously easier maybe you want to finish it once or for all but those who want to break they can break no problem like I said again if you think you need to go for shopping at night Ramadan you can still go

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after Magritte you can still go to the mall no problem but you know the mall was closed at 10pm then you have to come home then you pray your Isha and pray opium no problem. It's not that Ramadan you cannot do anything at night anymore. You still live we'll carry on like normal only you have extra reward for this prayer.

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And you can do it by yourself with your family. With the drama in the mouse, you can come here here because we have classes going on every night we have 10 1520 minutes reminder that will enrich you with a lot of knowledge

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of Ramadan. inshallah.

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Any question from the sisters again?

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If you don't have any further question, yes.

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In other words, there is no restriction in Islam to allow the students that go

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with their family members who are still not

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01:13:46--> 01:13:47

No problem.

01:13:49--> 01:13:50

Yeah, of course.

01:13:52--> 01:13:56

This love is for everybody. It's not enough for us

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or that is the wishes we always pray for them. We use our value here to greet somebody sometimes.

01:14:10--> 01:14:20

Yeah, no, I guess right. Now, there are certain things you are allowed there are certain things of God you are not allowed. I give example. If a person comes to you say I want to build a temple

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or donation drive

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is it sorry.

01:14:26--> 01:14:27

That way you can

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to commit surely you can

01:14:32--> 01:14:35

recover by supporting them you are supporting their sherek

01:14:36--> 01:14:43

you don't do that. The same thing if they when we want to build our masala amosshe you don't take money from them.

01:14:45--> 01:14:48

You should not take me even they want to contribute Thank you.

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This is our sacred area.

01:14:54--> 01:14:59

Now if you start to accept from them, then when they come to you, they say I want to build that

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If you don't respond You said you were diverse that that was then that is

01:15:05--> 01:15:08

so you make it very good when come to religious matter

01:15:10--> 01:15:11

then law come dynochem

01:15:14--> 01:15:17

there must be a limit of what I can and what I can

01:15:19--> 01:15:25

this is something but the general thing of people who pass away of course you can help them

01:15:35--> 01:15:38

not anything to do with the kind of ritual we don't participate

01:15:40--> 01:15:44

and we don't participate it's difficult we have a lot of problem today

01:15:45--> 01:15:47

and we have a lot of problem

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you know what happened to cut

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you know cut by the building of karma is not square

01:15:58--> 01:16:04

is a bit horizontal. But what happened there was a wall before and it was destroyed

01:16:06--> 01:16:11

and the only money that they assured is pure clean money to rebuild

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is only the square

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they don't have enough money at that time. And they don't use any other money graded they can use because they know this is a sacred house. We don't use any money that is not pure and clean

01:16:31--> 01:16:32

they the history of karma

01:16:34--> 01:16:40

anything that is pure a place of worship our place of worship, you don't get just get any money

01:16:42--> 01:16:44

you cannot use rebar money to build a mosque

01:16:46--> 01:16:47

because it's haram

01:16:49--> 01:16:53

you cannot pay roswaal money and go for aamra and hiji

01:16:54--> 01:17:01

you can do that in namaha tagliata balou illa type Allah is good and clean he only accept what is good and what is clean

01:17:04--> 01:17:15

sometimes we we are very confused and then we get all the blood money and then to good thing and all you can do but if you know you don't accept if you don't know then it's different.

01:17:16--> 01:17:23

If somebody comes to you said I'm giving you this money I just got a new I went from camping Island thank you

01:17:24--> 01:17:32

because one is haram I cannot take this money because if I take and consume everything go inside me is Hara

01:17:35--> 01:17:35


01:17:44--> 01:17:50

Yeah, this is where some of the opinion come from some scholars to say whether we can use for public

01:17:52--> 01:17:53

uses and so on.

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We normally advise people who have this issue

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to come to us we let them know how they can do it properly. Nothing can be used for

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01:18:10--> 01:18:12

Of course there's no reward for you.

01:18:13--> 01:18:19

There's no reward for you because it's not a holiday money. Only you cannot use for yourself.

01:18:20--> 01:18:28

But you can apply it for people who are non believers because the non believer are not tied up with the law

01:18:29--> 01:18:36

is just like no cannot not yet Muslim dream of the country is not a believer cannot not yet Muslim.

01:18:38--> 01:18:42

Ate pork Of course, they are non believer can they can do what they want.

01:18:43--> 01:18:45

There are ways for us to

01:18:47--> 01:18:51

make use of them but not for the Muslim

01:18:52--> 01:18:56

because what is haram for us is haram for them. Now haram for another Muslim

01:18:57--> 01:19:08

example is Riba halal for us haram but can we use Riba money and help another Muslim you can because you know this is haram for you. How can you use haram thing to help another Muslim?

01:19:11--> 01:19:12

Even your intention is good.

01:19:16--> 01:19:24

You look at what allows it in the I just got in early at the beginning of the class. lantana Lubin Ratan Pico me Mata Hepburn.

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This ayah is a very powerful reminder from Allah. Allah will not consider what you do is good.

01:19:34--> 01:19:46

What you contribute is a good contribution. What you donate is a good donation until you are prepared to give what you love most. What you don't love, have no value to you.

01:19:48--> 01:19:50

What have no value to you, you have value to God.

01:19:57--> 01:20:00

But what you value this is what you have prepared.

01:20:00--> 01:20:03

To keep the is where the value comes in

01:20:07--> 01:20:07


01:20:10--> 01:20:12

and the last question inshallah

01:20:14--> 01:20:14


01:20:15--> 01:20:18

de manana. Salama Tanaka

01:20:22--> 01:20:24

after performing km Ramadan

01:20:25--> 01:20:26

and Whittier

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yet there will be no other voluntary prayer after we do it is the end of that day prayer. If you want to do any voluntary prayer, then you shouldn't delay it here.

01:20:47--> 01:20:48

But again

01:20:49--> 01:20:56

in the time of the Prophet some of them now when you talk about night prayer night prayer or Ramadan or pm Ramadan

01:20:57--> 01:21:18

prophet perform most of the time at home, no one knows better than his own wife. Aisha radiallahu anha when people ask him about how many Raka the Prophet perform, but the way I shall read one was so clear cut. We don't know why people are confused until today.

01:21:20--> 01:21:28

I shall say Makana rasanya ziet fear Ramadan, wala Fie Allah Ada Ashura

01:21:30--> 01:21:34

Prophet Muhammad never increase this What is it?

01:21:35--> 01:21:46

McKenna Ross he has he never he increase weather in the night of Ramadan or outset of Ramadan because the Prophet prayed night prayer not only in Ramadan

01:21:47--> 01:21:52

every night the prophets stand up for prayer for outside Ramadan, you call

01:21:54--> 01:21:57

in Ramadan, you name it kiama Ramadan

01:21:58--> 01:22:01

later on people give a new name trauer

01:22:02--> 01:22:05

Akiyama LA is the same prayer.

01:22:06--> 01:22:15

But outside Ramadan you don't call him Ramadan is just tahajjud aka milele because the prayer is been done at night.

01:22:17--> 01:22:21

So I shall say the Prophet never do more than 11 Raka

01:22:24--> 01:22:25

and he will end with with their

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their songs. So if you did finish that mean that the day prayer Can you just wait for sooner.

01:22:37--> 01:22:44

But if you have the intention, say that after taking would say Vivica for before soccer

01:22:45--> 01:22:53

and then you take your ablution because it's always good to take your ablution before fudger like it's always good to take abrasion before if

01:22:54--> 01:23:05

you don't just get busy until you you break up fast without auto breaking fast is so fast and then you pre migrate immediately.

01:23:06--> 01:23:06

So have

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all of us prepared to have wood earlier.

01:23:11--> 01:23:22

So if you wake up and then you take your wood Do you want the press will not auto because when the auto is when that mean is something to relate with Budo

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then you can

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01:23:30--> 01:23:30

after odo

01:23:32--> 01:23:34

yeah after we do so now what do is after we do

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there is okay there is there wouldn't because relate with that is just like now if you want to go to the mosque early, you have finished with here last night. Now you're going to pray fudger in the most Okay. Now, you arrived the mosque five o'clock

01:23:54--> 01:23:55

540 as an FDA.

01:23:56--> 01:23:59

So, you want to state your pre title mistake

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because the law of title method is connected with domestic.

01:24:08--> 01:24:14

Now, so, now odo is you pray after we do that me at home you play at home, if you want

01:24:15--> 01:24:21

even when you are finished with theater, you can still do that, because it is connected to that particular ritual

01:24:22--> 01:24:27

is like is there a special sooner after we tell no.

01:24:28--> 01:24:30

There is no sooner after we there

01:24:31--> 01:24:32

we there is the end.

01:24:35--> 01:24:45

But if you want to play anything that is not connected with other sooner connected to a ritual lace will do. You can like title mistake you can

01:24:50--> 01:24:51

you understand that?

01:24:53--> 01:24:55

By right Whittier means

01:24:56--> 01:24:59

no more sanabria except what is related

01:25:00--> 01:25:03

related with the ritual Nam system.

01:25:07--> 01:25:27

Is there any solid Suna after Asan, the Prophet did mention in the general Hadees buy in as a nine between two as an there you can pray what you want to pray. So, but the other thing that the Prophet picks like cobla zohore for

01:25:29--> 01:25:30

the Prophet established

01:25:33--> 01:26:02

cobla pajara The Prophet established that there is the before the follow to prayer the others the Prophet do a lot but he did not establish it by himself but the companion want to pray after as an answer because between two doesn't mean as an karma the call is as to Amazon you can pray if you want to pray, but most of the tender prefer only pray before hotjar

01:26:03--> 01:26:07

before the home the one that before

01:26:08--> 01:26:10

the one that is after after the whole

01:26:12--> 01:26:14

after Magritte after Isha

01:26:16--> 01:26:33

but those who want to pray before answer the Prophet never stop those who want to pray before Isha the Prophet never stop but the one that Prophet established by himself most is before the horse or before the horse before or after Magritte after Isha

01:26:36--> 01:26:37

and after zohore cry

01:26:44--> 01:26:56

yeah you can but you the companion this that the Prophet never stop them but the Prophet hardly do that. himself do not establish that

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is okay is there sooner?

01:27:03--> 01:27:08

Yeah, but there you will do back there. Yes you can do is establish sooner

01:27:09--> 01:27:10


01:27:12--> 01:27:17

when you are traveling when you are traveling all the sooner Well,

01:27:18--> 01:27:21

you will drop except for jr and Whittier.

01:27:23--> 01:27:40

for travelers, or the zohore about the zohore bother mangry bother Isha drops, except sooner fudger before fudger and sooner Whittier the Prophet still established if you are traveling for travelers

01:27:43--> 01:27:44

sha Allah

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01:27:58--> 01:27:59

now they don't do tajo

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in the monster don't do tahajjud anymore they do come on akiem we make our own judgment we thought that is the Hydra

01:28:10--> 01:28:14

because the MAS have many mums and the mum would rotate

01:28:15--> 01:28:19

those who pray early those who pray late yes for Ramadan

01:28:25--> 01:28:26


01:28:30--> 01:28:32

then we tear yes

01:28:34--> 01:28:36

no if you really want to do that

01:28:37--> 01:28:41

yeah do that for but if you have a prayer the tahajud You don't have to do that anymore.

01:28:43--> 01:28:49

You have something you want to do already you don't have to add that I'm saying if you don't have any other prayer

01:28:52--> 01:28:54

Nam lastest is like

01:28:55--> 01:28:56

to Salah Salama Tanaka

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II as you can do for you can do to Yes, yeah, no problem. Yeah.

01:29:10--> 01:29:10

By then.

01:29:13--> 01:29:24

Yeah, no, any sooner prayer again, please. Yeah. And the Sunnah prayer. If you do fall, you can do with one Tasha, who you can do with to Tasha

01:29:25--> 01:29:46

sooner prayer, there is a choice. But Fargo prayer there is no choice you must have to touch a hole if there is more than two Raka but for Sona prayer you have a choice you can do with one childhood or with two to childhood, but the difference again sooner prayer is you for for for God you have surah after Fatiha please remember that

01:29:48--> 01:29:56

if you do fall for protocol, there is a surah after Fatiha when the part of the prayer, you only reset surah after potere first first and second

01:29:57--> 01:29:59

that you don't reset surah after Fatiha

01:30:00--> 01:30:05

For you don't recite surah after Fatah but Sunnah pray every record there is a surah

01:30:06--> 01:30:06


01:30:08--> 01:30:11

like we pay your board tree tree tree record got surah after Fatiha

01:30:15--> 01:30:15

you got it

01:30:17--> 01:30:18


01:30:21--> 01:30:22

right then

01:30:24--> 01:30:25

yeah again

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a comma for follow do prayer

01:30:31--> 01:30:40

yes a comma only for power do prayer that's why there's no comma for it prayer there's no comma for funeral prayer

01:30:42--> 01:30:46

The only comma apply only for prayer

01:30:48--> 01:30:50

no for sooner prayer there's no comma

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and then inshallah

01:30:55--> 01:30:58

Yep, yeah is good Nam zilliqa again

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Yeah, you do your karma is a sadhana to the karma before your prayer. Whether you are praying alone or your brain Gemma

01:31:20--> 01:31:25

Yeah, if you don't hear the Amazon you just made comma for yourself to start your prayer. Yeah.

01:31:27--> 01:31:32

Yeah, as long as you know that the prayer is in already you do a comma.

01:31:34--> 01:31:35


01:31:37--> 01:31:40

if there are things that you are still confused, you can approach me

01:31:42--> 01:31:44

later on inshallah. So once again,

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yes, you have a last one okay.

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According to the Sunnah of our Prophet sallallahu wasallam. No prayer can be accepted. Without Fatiha.

01:32:19--> 01:32:28

Yeah, this is a general order from de la sala de la la de la parte Allah. No prayer without Surah Al Fatiha.

01:32:30--> 01:32:40

Then the prophet SAW some did also mentioned when they that when you hear the Imam recite, allow you keep quiet.

01:32:42--> 01:32:43

That means you don't have to recite

01:32:44--> 01:32:50

because the re citation of the Imam is representing you when he reads it aloud.

01:32:52--> 01:32:53

Okay, number two

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then the Prophet salallahu Salam Sunnah after Fatiha he don't stop like some people stop give time for the moon to recite something No no no, immediately after. I mean the he continued the surah

01:33:11--> 01:34:04

This is the way of our Prophet SummerSlam only people got confused now they say no we must recite Fatiha whether you hear the amount of a citation or not. You must reset. So how how do we give and take we compromise? Okay, we compromise after our fattier the amount he stopped for one give enough time for the mom to reset. Now who taught us to do that not from Prophet Mohammed Salah Salah is just our opinion. Yeah. So by right by doing that, you break no is like your break the communication for a while? No, you should continue the prophets way after party. I mean, he continued the sorority. So for the mom who is behind the Imam in the loud prayer. They just have to listen to all

01:34:04--> 01:34:27

the ayah the Quran there is going to be restriped by the Imam if it is a Quran Allah Quran Allah say what is a Quran Allah Quran first Tamar Ola uncIe tune Allah Rahman, when the Quran is being recited, and you hear Allah said, pasta man Oh, listen, what unsaid to be silent

01:34:28--> 01:34:30

so that Allah will give you His mercy.

01:34:33--> 01:34:39

So when the members are allowed, we don't have to when the Imam resign silently everybody must resign.

01:34:41--> 01:34:43

If not, then your prayers not valid.

01:34:46--> 01:34:47


01:34:48--> 01:34:48


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Salatu jamaa

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01:35:23--> 01:35:29

yeah. Now this is a very, very good question for the late comer.

01:35:31--> 01:35:55

You when you listen to the citation in my means you must listen from the beginning you cannot resolve it or you come in Mali kiyomi de Fatah is not so you must start from Alhamdulillah Bismillah Alhamdulillah now you came in then the Imam is Al anon Buddha meu la so what do you do? Do you consider you get the full fattier you don't get the full fat

01:35:56--> 01:35:57

so what do you do?

01:35:58--> 01:35:59

You recite your fatty

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because listening to the citation of the man is watching.

01:36:07--> 01:36:14

If you were there from the beginning, when you miss reciting Fatiha in the prayer is broken.

01:36:20--> 01:36:25

No no no you wait until the man finishes Fatiha. Then you recite your own party

01:36:27--> 01:36:30

now my because the party is broken.

01:36:32--> 01:36:36

Other surah is not a rockin, rockin or roll the other thing.

01:36:38--> 01:36:43

You must know that the hokum of Rukh Khan and Vijay Asana

01:36:44--> 01:36:51

if you can recite your own fathia many no no if you can recite your plan

01:36:53--> 01:36:55

why you recite Al Fatiha Dennis Valley

01:37:00--> 01:37:04

always remember the importance of rochen ny g

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Yeah, Roku cannot compromise.

01:37:10--> 01:37:14

That's why Roku you cannot replace with sudo Asahi.

01:37:15--> 01:37:17

What is what if you can replace this is it sorry.

01:37:22--> 01:37:26

The head our in paradou prayer is broken awaji

01:37:28--> 01:37:42

is magic. If you miss the head or you continue your prayer you don't stop then before you end the salon you make two then you have your prayer is rectified. is valid.

01:37:43--> 01:37:46

Rocco and sujood is rockin awaji

01:37:48--> 01:37:56

is rockin if you miss you cannot replace your sahid only you must add one more card and then sudo savvy

01:37:57--> 01:38:00

you cannot replace with purely sudo savvy

01:38:02--> 01:38:06

one the ruku maze you must add one more time

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and then makes it savvy

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then you must add one for record

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and then the four can't must be replaced.

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And then to the savvy

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Even you are in the forefront now. While you're in the former car you are not sure at one more time when you are not sure you must plus one you cannot say okay go

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okay no no. Okay code the code is there. You have para and then su savvy

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there's a lot to learn actually about this because we are not this thing don't happen always. Once a while it happened and we were caught by surprise then we do not know how to handle it. But insha Allah Yeah. But lastly brothers sisters.

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Like we say anybody who like to

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do more good deeds in Ramadan.

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We are doing it here with to help you all to do things. We are doing it here every morning, people walking in, then there were big event on the 17 we will invite those for the ladies and reverts who need help. They will come this is what we invite them. And then there'll be two exercises that we go out. One to revert majority revert from compound or asleep we are going out and then the poor and the needy that we have sent a group of people to go directly to confirm to get all their data so that we know we are going up to the second. We're going

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are on the 20 22nd to the fourth inshallah we're going out, but the one coming in 17 and you see the daily one people are coming in. So wherever one to participate, let us know and

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so that we can do more.

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If he we do it collectively in sha Allah.

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So May Allah help us they'll reward us for our contribution and also may Allah accept our fans and our game will be that trophy will include that one element so hanok Allahumma b&e, Chateau La ilaha illa antastic Furukawa la salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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today is that the that the today's 30 or 3130 or 31

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